Is it fine to do ichaicha in your countries? And is ichaicha common there? Comment here!
@burgosmondragonmarianaitze3579
4 жыл бұрын
Onomappu オノマップ YEEEEES, it’s really common see people doing Ichaicha everyday everywhere hahaha. Usually nobody cares if it’s on the street,park,mall,or another places! But for example at school is allowed to kiss and hug, but with discretion😂 not in front of teachers or the principal etc etc. In conclusion,as long as you’re wearing clothes,no matter what you do is okay.
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
mariana burgos mondragon mariana burgos mondragon It's really interesting and different from Japan! I'll be careful not to take off my clothes in public when I go to Mexico😆
In America we call it PDA (public display of affection). Thank you for teaching me the word ichaicha! 😊 I have a somewhat balanced approach. I think it is sweet to see married couples hold hands, and give a quick kiss in public. But long kisses or serious touching should be reserved for home in my opinion. I think it is very important to think about how others around you would feel. So even though in America we are a little more open about showing our affection, for me personally I think there are important limits to keep in mind. I also have a Christian perspective which makes me a little more conservative than the average American. I do not agree with making out in elevators with other people on it. Lol! 😄
@richa8257
3 жыл бұрын
私の名前はイチャなんですが、日本人の友達は自分の名前を呼ぶ時いつもイチャイチャと呼ばれています。😒
@TamaraVlogs
3 жыл бұрын
Im in the US (California) and イチャイチャ is fairly common. However when a couple is making out or feeling each other up in public it’s common for passerby’s to yell “Get a room!” As in- get a hotel room, or go back to your house. Haha
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@uminari15
3 жыл бұрын
I'm from Brazil and イチャイチャ is extremely common. I see couples kissing and hugging almost everytime I go out hahah
@grazianamasola6139
3 жыл бұрын
🇮🇹 I'm from Italy (I live in Japan) and it's totally normal to kiss, hug and be yourself with your partner in public, in Italy. People around you don't look at you like in Japan, it's just normal and it just means that the couple is happy and makes everyone around them happy too. Personally, I don't understand why a couples hugging or kissing should make me feel uncomfortable. I don't think I should decide if people can hug or kiss in public either, why would my opinion affect their life when they are not doing anything wrong? :D Shouldn't we just relax and not judge others so much? XD Of course, context is important, you shouldn't do that in certain places, but that is valid not only for イチャイチャ behavior but for any behavior! Finally, if you do it in a cute way that's okay, but if you are crossing the line and it starts becoming sexual that is weird. I have seen that as well before even though is not common. I understand why in Japan it is totally different though and I am not trying to criticize its culture now. For Italians it's normal to see our parents hug and kiss in front of us when we are kids and that's the way we grow up to believe that people should manifest their love. We learn by example that such behavior is okay and something that brings happiness and that 平和 feeling ^.^
@joinmeforasmile4464
3 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree!! I think it's a warm and beautiful thing to witness if it's not too over the top. I love seeing couples who seem genuinely happy with each other! It gives me hope to also find that kind of love in this world. Parents giving each other kisses? That's adorable and sadly I don't know many who do that! I think it would be nice if people could show their love towards loved ones openly 🥰 Maybe then the world would feel a bit warmer and less cold 💕
@missplainjane3905
3 жыл бұрын
As long as it's not overly done.
@ajiroclovertail992
3 жыл бұрын
@@missplainjane3905 yeah like eating each other's face. Things gets weird
@Happy2BSaved
4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! This one is very interesting to me, because ever since I moved to Japan, it’s true that I don’t see much touching in general, especially in the 田舎. My coworkers are sometimes horrified when I touch them on the arm, even though it’s something so small to me 😅 I’m from America, and as you probably already know, PDA is common there. I’m a very touchy-feely sort of person, so I’m personally okay with holding hands or hugging in public. But kissing? My reaction would be the same as yours in the elevator, haha. (Your skits and reactions are too funny! Keep up the good work 😊)
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
Inspired.Blossom Inspired.Blossom I really enjoyed reading your comments.haha I can understand both of your side and Japanese coworkers' side, so it's really interesting to me. Actually I live in 田舎 and no イチャイチャ here, so it's exactly what you said. 😉
😂 your example skits are the best, they always make me laugh. I’m pretty sure Mr Bear was having a doki doki moment. In Latin America there’s a lot more touching in general, not only icha icha but hugging and kissing someone in the cheek to say hello or padding someone’s back to either show empathy, if the person is sad, or to congratulate them for something well done. I personally think some people abuse icha icha in public 🙄 but things like holding hands and not a big deal for me to see. I guess in these countries touching is a way to show affection and interest in the person although in most cases is not romantic at all. I love learning about diffrent cultures and, for me, the most important thing is try to be respectful and understanding of some traditions even if they are completely diffrent to our own. I appreciate the time and effort you put in making good-content, but also, fun videos. Personally, I’ve learned a lot from them.
@annieranai2198
3 жыл бұрын
Last time I went to Japan (2018), I was quite surprised to see much more PDA in the streets that I would have imagined. In Tokyo but also in other places. There were so many couples holding hands in Kurosaki-onsen, but maybe because it's a destination for couples? As a single, I felt like I was out of place 😅 In my country, France, there's a lot of PDA, too much to my taste. I have a lot of anecdotes of couples practically having sex in the streets, and so many awkward moments when I'm in the train facing a couple kissing during rush hour (so we're all sticking to each other). Holding hands is great but I have issues with the kind of PDA I see in Paris. That said, with the lockdown and covid situation, I'm pretty sure things will change...
@ppchen4565
4 жыл бұрын
In fact, I like the Japanese' insistence and shyness, restraint and politeness. I don't think this need to change. 実際、私は日本人の主張と内気、抑制と礼儀正しさが好きです。これを変える必要はないと思います。^^(台湾人です)
Me too.. it makes me feel comfortable and not out of place when walking in Japan 😅 I don’t have to worry about accidental looking the wrong way.. 😅😂
@HwangPasta
4 жыл бұрын
LOL. This was a good video; skits were funny. I'm a Guyanese person, and live in America. I don't think I'm a very "touchy-feely" person (I feel this is the closest English expression to イチャイチャ). Guyana is Caribbean culture. Guyanese people are not much into this, I feel... How we really show we like someone is probably just joking around with them. We are a generally very playful and loud culture :D. Oh, and dancing. I feel like the most public we get is dancing. This can be embarrassing to a lot of people, Americans included. But even as children, we grew up with dancing being a big part of how we bond with friends and family. So it is the same for lovers. I did date a Japanese man for four years, and he was definitely a more restrained (or so he made himself seem). I can remember we went to see a movie and that was where he felt more comfortable to hold my hand in public. He'd totally never dance with me though, that would be asking too much, haha! Love your videos by the way; I shared your channel with my Japanese language uni. professor so we could have more practice videos to watch and listen to. :) Thanks for your hard work!
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment sharing your experience, as a Japanese person hearing of bonding through dancing is really interesting! And hearing you’re going to share my videos is amazing I want to reach as many Japanese learners as possible. If your teacher has any ideas for improvement let me know😉
@jessfauder559
3 жыл бұрын
Another guyanese friend! It always makes me happy to see other guyanese people on the internet haha 😅 And yea I agree, we grow up very close and loud with family, where we could definitely be touchy a lot. I feel like it’s not too accurate to try to describe the whole culture as being イチャイチャ (or not) because I feel like it really varies for everyone, but it’s definitely something to think about! For my family I would say that because we’ve been so close at home, that’s something that carries with me so I love to hug and hold hands in public, things like that :)
@TP-nx7uf
3 жыл бұрын
6:18 when イチャイチャ PTSD hits you
@ImImortal67
3 жыл бұрын
In my school in America there are a lot of students who kiss, hold hands, and hug, well not anymore because of COVID, but before, there was a lot of icha icha
I come from Czechia and man, we really use a lot of skinship, not only between partners but also on daily basis.😆 It's not uncommon for people to kiss and hug when they greet each other (happens between friends and family mostly, but also between people you have some sort of 'connection' with - e.g. coworkers). Moreover, the more rural you go, the more skinship you see, use and experience. 😊
6:28 😂 that sigh hahaha I wonder what the sigh meant..... If one day, Japanese society were to be more open to icha icha, how would you feel about it? Like, being around icha icha and maybe doing icha icha 🤷🏻♀️ lol I haven’t seen full-on make out sessions around in public before (that’ll definitely be unacceptable for most people I guess) but there’s definitely icha icha around. The smaller acts are acceptable to younger people. Sometimes, depending. Also the kabedon skit was so funny I literally couldn’t stop laughing 😆
@Annie640
3 жыл бұрын
In my view, skin-ship in public isn’t about “showing others” (in response to the second reason). It’s more about enjoying the moment with your partner. So instead of asking “why do we have to show others?”, I would ask “why do I have to hide it from others?” I think in the US we are pretty free with skin-ship, but there’s a limit as to what’s appropriate here, too 😂
@thomtran7519
4 жыл бұрын
可愛い先生です😍😍😍
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
初めて言われました🤣 ベトナムからありがとうございます!
@villyanakoycheva7933
2 жыл бұрын
Oh, I see that people from all over the world have their own personal ideas… but honestly saying I, as being a woman, understand both Japanese women, and men too. But wait a moment, what is the idea when a couple is making out in front of others?! Go get a room!! 😣 Just disturbing other people! Now here’s another reason of why I LOVE Japan so much!
@kalealphefranciscoramos9342
3 жыл бұрын
In the Philippines, PDA is becoming quite common, especially among the younger age groups (pubescent) and especially in the urban areas. It causes some ruffled feathers at times when older, old-fashioned people witness such PDA.
@nyanniachan4963
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like we also don't do much icha icha in public, holdings hands yeah but not when I'm with friends too. And maybe a small kiss for goodbye but I don't think in Poland people are very icha icha in the streets or at school. During a party it's a bit different maybe if people are drunk. I've seen girls sitting in the guy's lap and such. So the uchi and soto concept is maybe a bit different in Poland. When you drink it's not soto and it's ok to icha icha I guess xD
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
nyanniachan Thanks for your comment! I thought people in Europe do ichaicha a lot so that makes me surprised!
@KissOfThePlacid
4 жыл бұрын
@@Onomappu I don't know how it looks like in Poland NOW because I've been in Japan for quite a bit, but when I lived there - kissing in public would make someone slightly uncomfortable but still it wasn't dreaded by the general public. Depends on a place and how many people would be around you I guess. Holding hands, kisses on a cheek or mouth (maybe not the French type tho lol) and hugs were a very common sight along with a moderate display of affection so I don't agree with the previous comment about Poland :) However, Polish people are not overdoing it either. All in moderation is acceptable I guess.
@alexnik5132
3 жыл бұрын
壁ドンのスケッチ めっちゃウケる 笑笑笑
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@annahansen7008
3 жыл бұрын
説明してくれてありがとうございます!私はアメリカ人で、付き合ってるアメリカ人の友達は普通に他の人の前でもイチャイチャしていますね。私はアメリカ人だから、PDAを見てもそんなに恥ずかしくないです。Make out していなかったら笑笑 けど、日本人の男性と付き合っていて、彼が恥ずかしくてあまり積極的じゃないと思います笑
@kareemnishkor9728
Жыл бұрын
Ichaicha is very common in England now even though it wasn’t common in the past. (Maybe more common than in Japan in the past though…!) I think it is the “Hollywood influence”. I have a question - can you say “パークで彼女とイチャイチャしてきました” or is the word only to describe what others are doing (and not yourself)? Thanks for the videos! I am a recent fan and am looking at some older videos. I love your work!!
i remember walking around places and watching people as a little kid, doing イチヤイチヤ and i would just watch thinking "ooooo they are in love" lol
@miffedcuttlefish6139
2 жыл бұрын
I think the fundamental difference between cultures is the big one. On Japan, they respect the sanctity of the indovidual's relationship to each other and don't feel the need to display it. I think Western culture is naturally more free and open given its Roman predecessors. There's not societal pressure to keep it hidden, per se. Affection is just something that you show the other when you love them. That does leave me with a burning question. Do Japanese families show affection outside of the home? Like a mom and dad to their children?
@tiny7490
3 жыл бұрын
In the Philippines, I think holding hands and hugs are normal for couples, even with close friends some of them even kissed in public, but it's only on cheeks like when they're saying their "see you later" something like that. 😅
@fionagoputri8658
3 жыл бұрын
In Indonesia, holding hands are quite common (or sometimes the girl hug their partner’s arm instead of holding hands), as for hugging... it isn’t that common... i guess...Indonesian couples are kinda similar to Japanese couples... (though this doesnt apply to all couples)
6:26 : Onomapu can't stand of being single anymore 😂😂
@dmand2353
4 жыл бұрын
I'm Australian and I think it's fine to hug and hold hands in pubic but kissing in public is a little uncomfortable for everyone involved. That's just what I think personally though, i'm quite shy so I think I would find it hard to do any XD
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’ve never imagined that I could get comments from Australia so I’m surprised and happy😄 I understand in Australia some people think kissing in public is a little uncomfortable as well.(Btw, your comment is so cute😆)
@sopeechang6253
3 жыл бұрын
hoiiiiii fellow australian
@vinakwan353
3 жыл бұрын
@@sopeechang6253 This is when you slide in a subtle "Aussie Aussie Aussie" 😆
@CryingoverDazaicomau
3 жыл бұрын
@@vinakwan353 oi oi oi
@Zuenchuri
2 жыл бұрын
Someone already commented about Philippines but I just want to add that way back before, Philippines was just like Japan where PDA is a no no but as time passes by, younger generation became exposed to social medias and influenced by Western culture. You know what they say, Asians are conservative and Westerns are liberated.. but nah, not all is like that, it's just the culture
@pandaloverful13
4 жыл бұрын
I love your personality and I'm really enjoying watching your videos. Your humor is hilarious and you say things in a way that is easy to understand and it is much appreciated! Also Icha Icha is common here in the USA but my family is a bit more reserved. Hand holding is fine and hugging if it's with friends is fine but anything more then that and we're uncomfortable. So I guess it depends on your nationality and your family culture. Keep up the great work!
@Yazzlikesavocados
3 жыл бұрын
I was still a little confused why people don't do icha icha in public but then you said that elevator example and yeah I think I get it now like that would be pretty awkward
@BambooTime
3 жыл бұрын
In Germany, people tend to be rather reserved as well, but hugging and exchanging some kisses is totally fine. But making out wildly in public makes people uncomfortable quickly. Say, who did draw your profile picture and your avatar in the thumbnails?
@vampyresmiles713
3 жыл бұрын
I've always felt a bit uncomfortable around people when they're kissing a lot out in public. Like a kiss on the cheek or even a quick one on the lips is fine. Holding hands and hugging are fine, too, but I guess that's because at least some people do that with friends even if it's mostly girls. But I can understand where Japanese people are coming from about feeling embarrassed or awkward. I've also never been really touchy-feely either though so that could affect it. I feel like there could be some tie in between what you teach and the phrase "touchy-feely" but I'm not sure what.
I've been married for 13 years (today! :D) and I remember the topic coming up at my wedding. How do you kiss in public where it's not over the top, or makes your friends and family uncomfortable? While I do feel there is a bit of an exception, due to expectation at a wedding, we still wanted to keep it respectful. I'm in the US, Florida. We hug, kiss, and hold hands and unless you're all over someone, making a scene, most people just think it's cute. "Ahh, look at that cute couple." When people are flirting, they tend to touch their crushes cheek, or arm, building a bond over time. It's like what you said about the couple in the park, we snuggle and stay close, not as a sexual thing (In public), but for the connection. There is a wonderful bond and connection that you get from physically touching another person. Whether it's a partner that you're kissing or comforting, or a friend that you are meeting up with, those bonds help us grow closer to the people we know and love. I have several friends that are a little younger and I would say their generation is even more liberal about spreading the love! My friends hug, clown around, and everyone says they love each other. My generation was a little more conservative, but I also feel like those icha icha connections really can help to strengthen relationships and while the heavier stuff is better left at home, tasteful PDA (Public Displays of Affection) is VERY common here.
@sayeolamaeve3729
2 жыл бұрын
In Qatar, there are lots of different nationalities here. So, differenf people have a varied perception of it. Generally, people greet each other more affectionately, through hugs, and kisses on cheeks (technically, you make the sound only). For couples, I do see some holding each other's hands as well. But not beyond that.
I can kind of understand not wanting to inconvenience other people around you- it seems very much in line with Japanese culture. As for the whole “why do I need to show it to other people?” thing, at least for Southern Californian culture, of course some people do, but I think most people aren’t doing it because they’re trying to show off, we just do it because we feel like doing it- the same reason we do it at home. If it makes someone uncomfortable, they can just look the other way, but if the couple start to make lots of noise and be sexual that’s kind of too much. In general though things are more spaced out here than in Japan, so it probably feels less like you’re intruding on their private moment lol. One of my favorite parts is being able to stay connected to your partner by holding hands while you can be having two different conversations with different people. Or also being able to have a sort of private conversation without words about what’s going on around you by squeezing the other person’s hand, tapping a finger, stroking their hand with your thumb, etc. However I’m in the minority here in that I also love holding hands and cuddling with friends, and for the majority of society it is viewed as something romantic. I’ve heard that friends in Japan do that kind of thing a lot more?
In America I find it very awkward as well you're not alone. If I were in a relationship, I wouldn't express love in public.
@raymondtm9559
3 жыл бұрын
ひとき、心配しないでいつか全然に彼女を見つけるよ。俺は君に信じてる。
@Deusimar-q1x
5 ай бұрын
How sad that the Japanese judge and condemn those who show affection for each other in public, I mean, really reprehensible behavior, (in my opinion) it would be bullying an innocent person so much, to the point that in the end, the person can't take it anymore, and take your own life. But it's okay if that's what they think about PDA, We must respect it, as it is something cultural.
@anna-musicproducer7853
3 жыл бұрын
As a Canadian I only saw it once I was like 7-9 years old at the time and now I agree with what Japan does
@Kris-sz1ox
3 жыл бұрын
Here in Brazil イチャイチャ in public is REALLY common
@KiranasOfRizon
3 жыл бұрын
I think America might be slightly different on PDA depending on where you are in the country. Here in Washington, I'd say it's not *super* common, since we're all a bunch of lonely introverts, but... 1. Hugging, holding hands, and cuddling (i.e. skinship) are generally not going to get anyone to bat an eye. Some might think it's cute. As long as there's nothing lewd going on, everything's good. 2. Kissing can be okay, as long as you don't overdue it. If you make out in public, I think people might think you're weird. 3. You might be able to get away with a good ol' game of grab-ass if you're among college students and such. Probably shouldn't do it in a cafe or whatever.
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
Oh~ I see😳
@valdoiglesias4238
2 жыл бұрын
Good ol game grab of a 😭
@janetchan2899
3 жыл бұрын
From Singapore here, yup, we hug, kiss and hold hands, very common before covid. Though rarely seen now due to social distancing.
@bluedoris6384
3 жыл бұрын
I understand this video is a year old now but I would still like to share my opinion haha I truly love and respect Japan, however there are some things I don’t particularly agree with. One of those things being the country’a attitude towards イチャイチャ People show love and affection through イチャイチャ right? I really don’t understand why people would shy away from showing their love to each other. The more love to go around the better! It’s the greatest joy of living. People should grasp every opportunity to show it. (Without getting inappropriate of course) Perhaps kissing is something more private to be shared only between two people, I can respect that. But, hugs, embraces, hand holding are all innocent enough. I live in Greece and people here tend to be extremely tactile. That goes both for romantic partners and friends! People hug, touch and hold each other without resignation. It’s one of the things I love about Greece. I don’t know if I’m expressing my opinion very clearly but I hope you understand what I mean.
@NamelessPersonHere
2 жыл бұрын
Im from Greece and i agree! PDA here is totally normal for both romantic and platonic relationships (as it should be!). I believe the restrictive set of social norms is one of the many reasons why Japanese couples are somewhat rare to encounter irl. Imagine living in a country where it's not socially "appropriate" to hug and kiss your partner! Sounds suffocating to me.
@christinewr5080
4 жыл бұрын
イチャイチャ=暧昧/撒狗粮;友達以上恋人未満 I can't help myself from laughing for 壁ドン part lollollol The truth about 壁ドン: イケメンだったら、丁寧です。 イケメンじゃなかったら、セクハラです。
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
Sad, but true🤣
@aquapuppy9838
2 жыл бұрын
"Why don't Japanese make out in public?" It's too difficult to fit in enough 'sumi masen' between kisses.
@mcmanpa
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, this didn't explain why Japanese people feel awkward around icha icha. What are the value systems or beliefs that are violated or infringed by acts of icha icha? Or, put the other way round, why is the Japanese social order better off for there being NO icha icha? And, Onomappu, do you yourself agree with that thinking or is it not allowed to disagree with social norms in Japan?
@dannacruz2543
3 жыл бұрын
Love this videos! I just found this channel, I'm amazed!
I laugh so hard with your video. You’re great! I’m from Guatemala and people there do a LOT of icha icha everywhere! It’s gross 🤢 Young and old people, everywhere, all the time. It’s not pretty. Im glad I live in the USA now and it’s not as bad. I would rather live in Nihon where people are private
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
Mi maestra de español es de Guatemala también😊 Ah〜I see!Yes yes come to Japan😆
@sharongonzalez5187
3 жыл бұрын
@@Onomappu mi sueño es ir a estudiar Japonés en el 2022 🤩 Por agora estoy aprendiendo Hiragana
@MiztonPixan
3 жыл бұрын
メキシコでは外でイチャイチャするのはすっっっっごく多いです XD
@leslybde7063
3 жыл бұрын
En France, c'est assez banal ce genre d'attitude. C'est impensable , par exemple , de dire aurevoir à son/sa partenaire sans l'embrasser (dans les gares, fin d'un date etc etc ) . Les gens s'embrassent sans complexes dans les lieux publics, évidemment y a des limites ,et c'est vrai que ça peut être très vite gênant .
@vikramKUMAR-qt4sd
3 жыл бұрын
私の国では同じです😀
@josakura
3 жыл бұрын
Anime lied to me... Shoujo manga was a lie! 🤣 Anyway, still loooove Japan
@ImImortal67
3 жыл бұрын
In my area where I live in America, the girls are the ones that you see shy rather than the guys. The guys being the ones trying to do ichaicha and the girls becoming embarrassed to do so.
@EkataSamanta_aproudIndian
2 жыл бұрын
Here in India, if someone see couples doing icha icha in public, they specially older people definitely roll their eyes👀 and tell how shameless the younger generation is! 🙄😅 but we have some parks and places where it is normal doing icha icha 😎
@tanishkasingh4353
3 жыл бұрын
Ohmigosh icha icha like in japan is definitely not common in India 😂😂
@geetha5037
4 жыл бұрын
Nice video as always! No icha icha in my home country, India as well because PDA is traditionally not looked upon well in Indian society. As for the country I'm living in right now - Dubai, icha icha in public places would be illegal! Holding hands is alright but nothing more.
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting as always, Geetha! I'm really surprised that only holding hands is accepted in Dubai! おもしろい!
In my country (Puerto Rico) we do icha icha all the time. Is totally tolerated. If you don't do it, yo will be consider a wierd person. I want to do icha icha with Onomappu 😘
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
Oh~ I see. I gotta prepare to go to Puerto Rico😆
@TakittyLove
3 жыл бұрын
ehh-!! woaw!! qué mandada/lanzada! jajajja xD bueno, ése si fue algo muy icha icha, algo muy "latino" xD
It's disgusting. People should just get a room. Don't wanna hear some people's tongues sliding against each other when trying to use the elevator.
@dweera5802
3 жыл бұрын
In Srilanka we hug & holding hands in public is common for couple . But for friend we kiss hug holding hands & do whatever we wants . Now I live in Japan for 8 years now In Nagoya & Tokyo & Japanese arnt shy as they said I guess 😀lol
icha icha in public is embarrassing for me, i agree with japanese people 🤭🙈😄😄😄😄 this bear fade away from the vídeos, so inu-chan came up, maybe bear was shy because of the kabedon 😊
@shadowfriend283
3 жыл бұрын
I live raised in USA, however I am not like them 😣i am shy too! 😮 😳 what if someone sees!! 🙄but everyone else likes showing EVERYONE! 😐because people here like attention and they "want to look cool" 🙄and "be talked about" 😐everyone, a lot imagine they are in a movie scene. 😐and then, 🙄people just don't care 😐about people they don't know.😐like people in public. 🙄"if you feel awkward or uncomfortable 🙄then don't look.. I don't care or know who you are" 😐that's generally their exact thought. 😐 i know, because that's the phrase that people always say to not care about what other people think, because 😐as teenagers we are insecure, but people eventually stop caring and only care about themselves when becoming adults. 😐 so..😣America is full of disrespectful people who only care about themselves!! 😐but for me 😣I am scared of being laughed at 😮White America did this to me!! 😣they only laugh at me or everything! 😮so😣I'm scared of people 😐but..😕i personally feel also that intimacy should be private. 😐because it's better that way. 😐it's between you and your special person😕you know..😐other people shouldn't see😐that's what I feel
@japaopraconhecer.7282
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, 面白かった🤣🤣
@monizumbada
3 жыл бұрын
ドイツで、イチャイチャは 大丈夫です.We see it as a way of affirming our love and being close to each other. Sometimes even friends can hold hands (especially younger women or girls). For same sex couples, it can be more complicated, unfortunately. Many are still afraid to show affection in public
@katherinecargill8214
3 жыл бұрын
When I see イチャイチャ my heart feels ポカポカ 😍 I think in America, if it's just hugging or holding hands or even a little smooch, you aren't grossed out, just kind of like 「かわいい!いいカップル」But... Like others have said, if it's stuff we associate with sex, like french kissing or really intimate contact, then it's seen as gross, 「気持ち悪い」. I wonder if it's just a distinction of at what point intimate contact is considered "sexual" between cultures. It's interesting to note that although in Japan the US seems to have a reputation as a very touchy culture, people in the US are actually a MUCH less physical-contact oriented culture than a lot of other Western cultures or even non-western cultures. Particularly where I'm from, New England, you really only touch your good friends, partner, or family beyond a handshake. (There's a whole cultural rigamarole New Englanders go through when meeting a friend of a friend and hitting it off where it's like "are we ok with hugging yet??? Should we just shake hands or wave???" which is pretty funny.) IT depends on the part of the US, though, partially--in the US South it is more normative to touch people than in the Northeast. It's a big country!
@daisuke6072
2 жыл бұрын
lot of pda between school boys and what about pocky day but you are talking of real relationship I guess
@RP-xu8ro
3 жыл бұрын
本当にの日本人の男性せいで.........lol
@sarailopez8503
2 жыл бұрын
NoOoOoooo el video no tiene subtítulos en español (。•́︿•̀。)💔
@lostinhorizon8341
4 жыл бұрын
I think it's better not display affection on public. Because sometimes it makes other people uncomfortable. But, holding hands in public is fine. It's not that intimate in my opinion.
@Onomappu
4 жыл бұрын
I agree that doing ichaicha so much could make other people feel uncomfortable. Thanks for commenting!
@tadanohitohito9096
2 жыл бұрын
僕の国は同じです
@HinampakofficialVlog
3 жыл бұрын
Are a Taiwan nationality?
@Onomappu
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 100% Japanese but I was in Taiwan for 9 months so I can speak Chinese though
@lynabe3386
3 жыл бұрын
I think it quit disrespectful to do icha icha in public.it a part of your privacy so you shouldn't show it to everybody. Holding hands is ok but more that this it too much.in my country icha icha is regarded as rude especially when there is older people or children who can see you while passing by.
This a popular topic in the internet about Japanese and across Asia. Generally it is true, people are shy and its changing like here in Philippines, couples more open. Did visit Disney sea and couple aren’t showing much PDA hehehe and for me its fine😅✌️
@marxiewasalittlegirl
3 жыл бұрын
'Tato eba'=for example?
@Ouranorable
3 жыл бұрын
Man, this really doesn't put Japanese men in a very nice light xD! But now I know where to look if I wanted to date a wooden board, thanks :D! (Of course I'm just kidding. Good luck with dating, friends!)
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