I don´t know why.. but this actually really helped. I put such high standards for what I want to achieve in life.. i get depressed when I work hard and people just take advantage and then I still don´t grow professionally or they just don´t really care and they go with their favorites/friends either way.. and of course I get depressed every time.. I kinda just really needed to hear this.
@rishad356
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate.. How did u handle it?
@rishad356
3 жыл бұрын
Would be happy to hear or share thoughts
@shanze5591
3 жыл бұрын
Margarida, we just never know who or what incident will make an impact on us and gets stuck in our mind. You’re a young professional, ignore the noise and go for your goals. There’s a reason people say “it’s lonely at the top” . Best wishes!!
@LordDany
3 жыл бұрын
until you die inside and dont want anything cus expextations = hurt and lower expexctations = succes i have great greats at school im going to the university everything whitout carryng if i die tomorow because expectations =/
@vp8622
3 жыл бұрын
Hang in there! I'm holding on w these things too 🖤
@i-landeggie4738
4 жыл бұрын
No expectations. Just enjoy what you’re doing.♥️
@paultindall1235
3 жыл бұрын
Good concept. I feel like another way of doing this is to create your big ambitious goals and then crystallize them down into small actionable pieces. Then, forget about the big goal and just focus on the small steps required to get there.
@prapanthebachelorette6803
2 жыл бұрын
Nice approach
@TheImperfectReader
Жыл бұрын
That's good. Thank you for that.
@olimjonmatiyev5670
2 ай бұрын
atomic habits
@gal.9022
Жыл бұрын
That is an ideal advice for chronic perfectionists and procrastinators. Amazing story and message!
@mamashanshan2772
4 жыл бұрын
You have the most beautiful story to share. In my heart of hearts, everyone that continues to keep in keepin’ on with they truly love, that our own hearts love, you do this. You’re one of the sweetest, you can reach out to so many. Thank you for being so true. Many blessings 💖💖
@mamashanshan2772
4 жыл бұрын
I’m 56, free styled skied, support my kids and grandkiddos what ever they love to do in life, it’s their own journey, they have me always cheering them on... 💖🕊💖 Be the one that does doing what you love, bit what others expect of, that’s their own story, it’s not your own story. 💖
@ayronwhite4309
4 жыл бұрын
Finally a ted talk in my recommended that isn’t from 8 years ago.
@chintaki
4 жыл бұрын
me too. I think they changed the algorithm
@rishabhchaudhry6933
3 жыл бұрын
but it has same quality as those 8 years ago ones in both terms camera as well as content
@che33366
3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this in so many levels. Having high expectations make us delusional. Thank you for this talk, it helps me keep my sanity 😊
@LWT1331
Жыл бұрын
Having high expectations is bound to disappoint. Lowering my expectations in all facets of life has improved my sanity.
@darinhato2759
4 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most inspiring TED talk!! Thanks so much for sharing your story.
@ishnabu
6 ай бұрын
So proud of her she probably had expectations of what its like to speak in public and is very nervous yet she still rockin it
@themindofjoshalain
4 жыл бұрын
Such bravery! Thanks for sharing your story with us, Sarah!! ⛷
@wootwootwoot32
Жыл бұрын
Very energetic. Like her delivery and simple way of practical goal setting.
@maxtronaute1933
4 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you and all the ValTho mates! Sending you big hugs, and thanks for that lesson Sarah ! La bise à tous !
@theeffectiveprogressive
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this. It’s helped.
@rebuildchronicales
4 жыл бұрын
I love her advice!
@don4175
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I needed to hear this badly !!!
@lakshmank6219
12 күн бұрын
Only ❤
@godzilla964
2 жыл бұрын
I do that with movies. It helps to make the movie a little bit better. Maybe I should do this with finding a job or dating.
@LASMONN
2 жыл бұрын
Always be better, but never become the best.
@its_just_marvlus
2 жыл бұрын
I have high expectations due to being controlling. I am controlling with family, friends and that makes me a stiff man with no freedom. I'm seeking this cause maybe i'll find love out of all this high expectations thats pulling me back from being free.
@jakubwidlarz
8 ай бұрын
I'm 25 years old, just did a Masters' in English and really want to be a sports journalist simply because that will mean I can watch and go to all the events I can. Perhaps this dream drives me too hard because you first should do something for your pleasure and not the needs of others or a given timeline.
@dougblake6553
Жыл бұрын
Hey again I was thinking about this theme and one of the most disabling things there is ,is probably disappointment when we set our expectations too high and don't achieve them we open the door for disappointment,maaaaan ! How many times did I fall for that one ,the good news is the Lord always pics me up let's me know how much He loves me and I don't have to impress Him any way thanks young lady feeskeing is my favorite. Sport
@dougblake6553
Жыл бұрын
I liked it and the only thing you can really put your expectations high on is a person His name is JESUS CHRIST God bless and keep you Sarah !!
@Tony-sw7tw
2 жыл бұрын
Have aspirations; not expectations.
@andreampere100
2 жыл бұрын
Good talk. Stop moving.
@ZTYsora520
3 жыл бұрын
thank you!!!
@rohitsaitejagadu8045
4 жыл бұрын
cool
@MsCecy
4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@capricorn8181
Жыл бұрын
I've read somewhere that the audience does not want you to be nervous because it makes them uneasy. When I hear her voice trembling, I sense a certain amount of apprehension.
@VINCENT-sb3zs
Жыл бұрын
15:00
@ajw_3153
2 жыл бұрын
she sounds nervous
@juli-de8nu
2 ай бұрын
She did a great job despite being nervous
@Mexicotravelltd.
Жыл бұрын
i thought she is trying to show us how to dance X)
@samledger8796
4 жыл бұрын
She's so nervous
@nickbegley3837
3 жыл бұрын
That’s okay
@candysub4
3 жыл бұрын
I am sure if you will be in front of thousands of people talking for 18 minutes you will be even more nervous than her I mean I will personnaly ;)
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