@@seabreeze4559 and then when you do “give it up “ you are slut shamed , call all kinds of names , used up , ran through … your damned if you do and damned if you don’t ! You might aswell do whatever you want And not give men a second thought
@coolcat6341
2 жыл бұрын
My friend came from traditional house she got married did not care about education or job,, her husband keep her with no food and her daughter for days refuse to give her money to buy any food sometimes she just eats boiled rice, boiled eggs for days,, no heating in winter,no hot water, she is not allowed to shower more than once aweek, he would give her around $5.00 to buy food for a whole a week.
@purplelove3666
2 жыл бұрын
@@coolcat6341 what country is your friend from?
@coolcat6341
2 жыл бұрын
@@purplelove3666 she lives in the UK,,, she originally from North Africa...
@blacksea1726
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! His mysogynistic view wants to portray an issue with the modern women, when the issue is with immature/ abusive men that just demand things! You would thing that somebody like Sam would get his his together and make a non gendered based analysis! If men would be asked a while ago about dofferemces on why women are not in senior/leadership roles they give you: life is not fair, fight for your rights! And when a woman does that, she is a total bitch and they deemed her dangerous! Men, weak men…and they push their agenda everywhere!! Why would be promiscuous behaviour ok among men, but not among women? Because men want it like this? So They don’t feel the competition and some demands from Higj quality women? And here comes a prick like Sam that still prootes that we women should Fight among each other for a man, that is not capable or mature enough of being loyal to values and a permanent relationship! @samvankin give up/ you turned up to be a bisg dissapintment for both males and females! Your hate and disrespect toowards women os obvoiuo, bit tou are jot capable of acceptable
@BlackMagnolia
2 жыл бұрын
I gave up on relationships and sex solely because men in my area are abusive and trap women into being an employee or slave. It's rare that I see a couple that really loves each other. Sad but true.
@pedroavilez2003
2 жыл бұрын
Wow so sad
@JohnDoe-me7hd
2 жыл бұрын
And women are not interested in committed relationhips anymore. So sad 😞
@thepowerman8952
2 жыл бұрын
@@warrenbuffet5152 There's a lot of socio-economic data to back up what he's saying. Some of it is probably common knowledge (e.g. more women going to university).
@JohnDoe-me7hd
2 жыл бұрын
@@KiKi-te9yd sam is saying that not me. I am just quoting that. Women are not interested in committed relationships. They are interested in short term relationships with bad boys even though these guys treat u like trash. No reponse on match, eharmony, bumble. That is the reality for most men.
@Paarthurnaxdova
2 жыл бұрын
I hate men
@god563616
Жыл бұрын
Celibate for 15 years and single/no kids 3 boyfriends my whole life and am very happy because I have so much peace. I would love to meet a mate now in my 30's but the attitude of men these days breathes off " I really don't need you" with no compassion or emotional vulnerablility , even if you have your own money, stable home, etc. I protect my peace at all cost instead of jumping into foolishness.
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
Good choice!
@BestversionofKP
Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@user-zg7nf5yv1r
Жыл бұрын
I agree💯👍
@Omerftz
Жыл бұрын
Celibate for 15 years…your ridiculous..just buy a dog and die alone
@WhyBug
Жыл бұрын
Wise
@1lisalopez
2 жыл бұрын
I had a traumatic child and as a result I was set up for toxic relationships. As a single mother I refuse to get into a relationship just because I will not open that door of both me and my child being abused. No man is worth it. Friendship in my elder year is what I will look for.
@lisaw6219
2 жыл бұрын
Friendship is what I'm aiming for too. When it comes to relationships most of the men I meet are either abusers, players or stalkers. I'd rather just have friendships with men at this point because pursuit of a romantic relationship seems unsustainable.
@rogermarin1712
2 жыл бұрын
Why procreate at all?
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
I hear you but I am not a single mother but if I was I would absolutely do the same. I know that if I had a child only creep show men would only come my way. It isn't worth putting children in danger.
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
@@lisaw6219 I agree
@summersday7894
Жыл бұрын
@@rogermarin1712 bc We love Our Children❤️
@mishmacD26
2 жыл бұрын
This analysis articulates my experiences of being a woman with pinpoint precision.
@thepowerman8952
2 жыл бұрын
You're a raging narcissist who cares a great deal about money and power?
@pamjean2308
2 жыл бұрын
@@thepowerman8952 u are talking about urself powerman
@obviouslyasockpuppet
2 жыл бұрын
Men that YOU pick
@lynnec3372
2 жыл бұрын
@@obviouslyasockpuppet Men on a Grand scale.
@obviouslyasockpuppet
2 жыл бұрын
@@lynnec3372 your past boyfriends do not come close to being a representative sample of 'men on a grand scale'
@cosmicqueen4530
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas! Insightful. Celibate by choice and pray to find a decent Man who will value me and build a relationship together. I’m focusing on leveling up spiritually, financially and mentally until I meet a decent Man. Although it seems challenging and hopeless at times. I hate what tinder and only fans has done to young women. women have so much power and wisdom and divine essence.. yet some of us have fallen into the abusive frameworks.
@MegaLadylove2012
2 жыл бұрын
There’s no benefits of today’s relationships watsoever. Marriage, datin, friends with benefits or watever. None hold any benefits. I used to wish for a great relationship with someone but not anymore like before and never been kin on long term commitment. But now the lack has supersede any desire for it and do not envy women who are in it
@angriboi
2 жыл бұрын
They hold many benefits, but only for men.
@200991602
2 жыл бұрын
I married a man from Singapore , he is absolutely wonderful , he and I are Accountants , we work together at home In my experience I have had negative experiences with American men, they have been intimadated by my financial success and independence The comments they have made are inane , they made comments about wanting dumb women instead of intelligent for a wife , they said things like " Accountant? But you're a woman " anything to demean I didn't take them seriously and wrote them off as idiots My Dad is from Sweden and Mom from the US Dad moved to the US as a child with my Grandparents They have been so emotionally supportive , this helped me make the right decisions Maybe Dad helped me by expecting high standards of others don't settle he always says
@ktp.
2 жыл бұрын
The culture in North America is porn, infidelity and mental health disorders; including their multiplier effects.
@200991602
2 жыл бұрын
@@ktp. Exactly! There is this very negative aspect , this societal unraveling that is viewed as the "norm" with no introspection , North America is a collective sociopathy, a personality of living in their self made filth , few inside the box see how insane everything is
@glossylove21
2 жыл бұрын
Can't we all just get along? I love Sam so much! He's not wrong.
@ibabechanel
Жыл бұрын
Glad I'm single, celibate AND child free ! 💃
@eb1042
Жыл бұрын
HOLY SHIT, ME TOO - Never felt more RESOLUTE, SATISFIED, or REASSURED by my life choices UNTIL NOW. I MADE ALL THE RIGHT CALLS!!! And apparently you did too, CONGRATS🥳🍾🎉🎊👑
@ibabechanel
Жыл бұрын
@@eb1042 Thanks, sweetie. 😘🤗
@georgea1706
2 жыл бұрын
Go slow, be cautious, gain respect and trust. Know yourself and look for or among suitable possible partners.
@jasonuren3479
2 жыл бұрын
'It cannot be worse than the previous two.' I've got my doubts 🤔
@7Danita
2 жыл бұрын
2022 is saying hold my beer
@saa1094
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly… that is what people were saying in December of 2020… “2021 can’t be worse than 2020 was”
@dzanasaynes4782
2 жыл бұрын
Impressive...you brought a term of serial cheating...sexuality topics will go viral...grateful for your lectures...thank you and Mery Christmas 🎄 😀
@davidh9618
2 жыл бұрын
This is sad. I am 26 and just trying to find a relationship. Finding women that I want to date is harder than ever because of society today. I have never liked hookup culture because it ruins the soul. I hope that I am the exception and my patience pays off.
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
Жыл бұрын
I'm 38 female... Not much hope. I've tried and tried. Good luck to you though, at least you're aware already (it took me years of time energy emotions wasted....!)
@machoman5928
Жыл бұрын
Being Beta and sitting around waiting on a relationship is no way to find a woman. Sorry
@machoman5928
Жыл бұрын
@ASMRyouVEGANyet? Because he stated that he is being patient, and it hasn't worked for him. It's time to try something new and be more aggressive in his pursuit of a mate. If a man wants a woman, he can't sit, wait, and hope. He needs to adopt a more go get attitude in my opinion.
@dntcrwtuthnk
Жыл бұрын
It will 👍❤️
@Vivacious.rabbit
Жыл бұрын
It will. I'm sure. Good Men like you are going to be extinct I feel. But you will for sure find a good woman.❤✨
@KeriV-wx4qh
2 жыл бұрын
"Men started it about five thousand years ago..." LOL Professor Vankin you're awesome. Thanks for the interesting content. What a fascinating topic. I myself have seen the dating pool....holy shit! The level of narcissism and self obsessed people is insane. It was one of the reasons I deleted my social media. I was wondering what the hell was going on, so Im glad Im not the only one. How to cure your own self obsession; get off social media, stop going on your phone so much, read books and journal, do community service, stop talking about yourself and listen more to others!
@samvaknin
2 жыл бұрын
Vaknin.
@KeriV-wx4qh
2 жыл бұрын
My apologies!
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@soniayegikyan8143
2 жыл бұрын
True. Casual is the word. Empty of substance ...
@godpilled9077
Жыл бұрын
Men and women have always been similar, it's just that women weren't allowed out in the world.
@msshawniepooh1
2 жыл бұрын
Well professor, there’s a glimpse of hope for women who still desire committed relationships with the opposite sex. From listening to this video, I find that more men wanting to be in committed relationships may help the women who do still desire and value commitment.
@msshawniepooh1
2 жыл бұрын
@Ben Dover head overseas. Women are traveling abroad, too. Stop the bullying and work on your fragile ego
@mateuszmazurek7991
2 жыл бұрын
no ladies, that ship has sailed
@RadicalAngel
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!!! Divine Feminine is back, I appreciate this video. Merry Christmas!! ☃️🎄🎁
@teamoreo05
7 ай бұрын
Someone tried to justify being sexually aroused by women being demeaned and degraded saying they know they enjoy it and apparently I’m prude and a downer for wanting to experience safety & respect as fundamentals that must be strongly established otherwise I can’t relax. I have survived a long history of sexual abuse and assault starting in childhood. I had this impression that the person was trying to manipulate me into agreeing to participate in misogynistic acts though I repeatedly noted it such a premise was unfair and made me feel unsafe in that arena. I mean I am still shocked they actively promoted something I vehemently (usually they cut me off from declining consent to even hear about such things bc it directly triggers memories of the violence. They said I should have gotten over it by now and I should reframe it to derive pleasure from it. I will never trust in such circumstances again. My trust and boundaries are grossly disrespected then if I stand up for myself they say they didn’t do anything wrong and I’m trying to make them feel bad.
@donnasmith5400
2 жыл бұрын
I am 56. I am in a situationship,with an unavailable man,since 2018. Very one sided in all ways. It was of a sexual nature.and has progressed/regressed-which i am unsure of,to an online penpalship.(especially since the pandemic) Not finding the situation at all fulfilling. I was 4 yrs celibate,before i met the man,in question. Am rapidly losing interest in the man.
@eloisemae2462
2 жыл бұрын
Parasites. They take what they can. I had a similar situation for 2.5 years. 'Had' past tense...I finally woke up when his true side was revealed to me...I knew it but this time the universe really gave me a push. Looking back, it was a boring, one way situation...couldn't describe it as a relationship. Now I'm doing so much work on myself..set me on a new path. Get your life back, come back to you. Love you first, you matter and are worthy of kindness and consideration. ❤
@donnasmith5400
2 жыл бұрын
@@eloisemae2462 Thank you. I will. I know I can.
@donnasmith5400
2 жыл бұрын
@Jas Yann absolutely
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
So dump him! What's the big deal?
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
@@kimlarso Why buy the pig for a little piece of sausage?
@dariazukowskapsychologkliniczn
2 жыл бұрын
Prof. Vaknin as a Santa 🎅☺️ Prof. Thank you for your work and everything what you are doing here.
@samvaknin
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly! Happy holidays!
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Daria, how's your day going with you?
@johnc2802
2 жыл бұрын
Both my Grandmothers were much more morally conservative than most men and women are today. They both had successful first marriages and numerous grand children. It really seems like the values that they held did a good job protecting them and their children.
@annelouisemaclellan485
2 жыл бұрын
@@josephine5809 pls
@philosopher24680
2 жыл бұрын
haha there are many "morally conservative" people who have no success with modern dating and likewise people in general were expected to raise families regardless of their morals the further back you go, thinking it's just a matter of your personal beliefs and not the larger environment limiting your options is silly.
@rrb2895
2 жыл бұрын
I still have grandma around. She is 99 years old. She talks to me. This abuse between "couples" has always been going on. Be careful out here!!! It is very toxic because there is tons of slut shamming. Love is not a battlefield. Control is. I love that song though.
@jeromewesselman4653
2 жыл бұрын
@@rrb2895 What is slut shaming and how is it toxic? I would think that promiscuity is bad if it involves cheating on a partner or interferes with a woman's (or man's) genuine intent to pursue a committed relationship. Please clarify
@rrb2895
2 жыл бұрын
@@jeromewesselman4653 to be honest. Lots of people do not want committed relationship now days. I'm talking about single people who are just dating slut shame mainly men who agreed to let it be known they don't want relationships. But they both agree continue sexually, and date other people.. Then both are technically still single. But the slut shaming happens because they are not mature enough to accept what they agreed on. Especially men. I agree . In committed relationship. If the man is showing that he cares for the woman and their union, she should "sit still". Other than that; she's single just like the man.
@GoodTalk
2 жыл бұрын
I love ❤ you lol admire, respect and appreciate the knowledge! Noone breaks it down like you do Professor Vaknin so clearly and intelligently!! I gain understanding of so many things when I watch! It really helps me navigate the complexities of life and the crazy people in it!
@christinaswanson5121
2 жыл бұрын
True! I just turned 43 and am single! Im scared to death to end up in another horrible nasty relationship, ID rather just be alone!
@GoodTalk
2 жыл бұрын
@@christinaswanson5121 same here! My last two transactional, pseudo partners were narcissist. Sam Vaknin helped me get through both and gave me armor for the battle. Don't give up on love! Go in this time wiser and more aware. Protecting your heart and mind!
@queenofthebutterflies5212
2 жыл бұрын
I myself have given up on men. I ended up having a child by myself. I am open to a relationship with a woman, however, but don't feel the need for a relationship. What you have described, Sam, is absolutely spot on. I will NEVER go back to men.
@michaelmckay8719
2 жыл бұрын
Men really hate women. I’d stay away from them.
@kahrmensandiego
2 жыл бұрын
Just said this to my friend the other day; "I guess just like my education, my home and my car I'm going to have to go out and get it myself" in regards to having a child; what route did you take to achieve this w/o a man exactly?
@obviouslyasockpuppet
2 жыл бұрын
Men that YOU pick. Your past relationships are not a representative sample of the entire male gender.
@queenofthebutterflies5212
2 жыл бұрын
@@obviouslyasockpuppet I was mainly been friends w/ males, w/ a few close female friends too until I had my child. Now, I can categorically tell you, women are far better in every way! I am SO much more happier NOW, since I stopped wanting you people in my life! Even as friends. Sorry, just telling the truth from my perspective. I've lived it both ways!! And, I've known men from all walks of life and seen how they've treated their women and how their women feel. You know that scientifically guys consistently overrate themselves, right?
@obviouslyasockpuppet
2 жыл бұрын
@@queenofthebutterflies5212 whatever floats your boat
@sylwia6421
2 жыл бұрын
Prof. Vaknin, thank you for everything, Im on your channel over two years and you saved my life. I wish you all best in 2022.
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sylvia, how's your day going with you?
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve said the same for years now, I emasculate men..I’m too strong, every relationship becomes abusive as they knock me down and I have to fight..my favourite saying is “ Men are becoming redundant” 😬
@michaelmckay8719
2 жыл бұрын
Men and women don’t need each other anymore.
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
@@DR-nh6oo we don’t, I believe that women have been abandoned by men and they have become stronger and men struggle with that, rather than men applauding and joining forces they fight for their position..think we need more education for children on equality and why society changes over time, we learn about history and geography etc, why not more education on the most important relationships you’ll have in your life..ie, yourself, partners etc,,
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
@Misan thrope go and sit in nature for a bit..collect your thoughts, breathe and start over. There’s no need for anymore hate in this world. Especially hate towards women. You were born by one. Sorry she didn’t love you enough. Everyone deserves love and respect. I send you positive vibes ✨ Happy New Year.
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
@Misan thrope oh you know me so well 😂 your description fits so perfect 😂
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
@Misan thrope 🤣
@dzanasaynes4782
2 жыл бұрын
...interesting topic professor Sam..thank you for bringing this up in open
@M0101EP
Жыл бұрын
Great lecture thank you. I came here because of other video's. Im a women with a hard past so there's some wrong copingmechanisms which I've worked on alot since my 18s/20s, so which means im not perfect but really doing my best to have a balanced relationship with someone. My last 2 boyfriends abused me and I never knew why..because I was always trying to communicate with them and balance things out, have fun.. and suddenly abuse began. This is the second time im hearing about the power control thing in men because it felt that way actually to me..there was just sudden abuse and trying to degrade..of course left as soon as I noticed it. Also women in my environment have been abused by men. And men dont want to take responsibility also..not with me, not with the women around me. It's really bad..I wish they just didnt do this! As I speak for myself, I don't want to be in a relationship where a guy uses his fists against me, that is not love and I wish someone could use their energy to love me nd the fists to protect me, because I would protect you too! Im distancing for a while from dating now because it did make me anxious so I hope I feel better after therapy!
@Genxmom
2 жыл бұрын
How should women fight back against this double standard?
@19valleydan
2 жыл бұрын
Provide positive reinforcement only to the male behaviors you wish to encourage. Over time, the "Lonely Lothario's" will die out if they don't reproduce. Worst case is to attempt to imitate the male "player" culture. Not even "players" want "sluts" (please forgive the descent into the common parlance, just for clarity), they just want to besmirch the freshest daisy in the bunch, IMHOP. BTW, I've never met a hyper-sexual male who was actually happy. It's really mostly compulsive mother-seeking with a flashy bow on top.
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
We should stop sleeping with men when they watch pornography. Being men incles will I crease and so will violence sadly. I am remaining single and celibate for the rest of my life.
@juliaarambula3153
5 ай бұрын
Stay clear of them and cling to your freedoms. Unless you want sex, why do you need a relationship with them? We have the opportunities women dreamed of years ago. We don’t have to be dependent on a man for our livelihood.
@mademoisellecm1
2 жыл бұрын
Powerful and truthful message...unfortunately.
@lizamali1619
2 жыл бұрын
Nudity in games and on internet + horror movies make a rase of sociopaths
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
True. Also Porn addiction which is rampant in many males. Porn sick brains is ruining them
@colleenpassard6599
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your shared brilliance this past year. Happy Holidays Sam.
@yasminogbu8929
Жыл бұрын
Wow, what an eye opener. Thank you
@cb2363
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your time and expertise, Professor. It would be compelling to hear about older people as well. Where I live, it seams both women and men in their 40s and 50s are quite determined to find a partner for life. Best regards and Happy New Year
@RightToFreedomGirl
9 ай бұрын
@ch2363 That's a lie. It's the 40-50 a g e Moms teaching their daughters to stay single & childless get degree
@NoName-ph5pg
3 ай бұрын
I am 37.i have been looking and trying for 15 years. And never was lucky. It doesn't seem wise to me to keep trying. Although i am someone who most people would find attractive and interesting. However i feel that the search and disappointment, together with humiliation i had to go through, drained me to the point that i can't even imagine myself trying intimacy anymore.
@eunice6694
2 жыл бұрын
At last, someone addressing the poor behaviour of modern men.
@AnitaBJay
2 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, because there's been practically no criticism of men over the last 6 decades... 🤣
@alexdiaz5891
2 жыл бұрын
Must we discuss how modern feminism’s sexual liberation agenda is doing harm for both men and women in search of a LTR?
@user-jf4xi4tv3q
2 жыл бұрын
@@lv2keepfit493 Kink is something But a belief system that shapes a whole lifestyle is something else.
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
@@alexdiaz5891 Males’ porn addiction has done more damage in the last 20years than anything else. Do your research. Age of first time sex is way high (most teens graduate high school as virgins now, more people are virgins well into their twenties, more people are celibate male and female, we also have lower # of sex partners than both Gen X and Baby Boomers….sex is NOT the bigger issue bc it’s actually down for the majority , male porn addiction and it’s residual effects is what is the biggest problem). I graduated college as a Virgin (even though I had a boyfriend)…didn’t have sex til I was 25, which was my choice but a I wanted to wait until marriage. Many males of today are simply unable to rise to the mantle of manhood and protect and provide like older generations of men like my dad. Some of it is not your fault….for example, high inflation rate but as also see a general lack of will and ambition and higher rates of whining/complaining, arrogance and entitlement in modern men….modern men seem to encourage role reversal only for the parts that they like
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
@@lv2keepfit493 stop watching porn. Women don’t enjoy any of that stuff….statistically, if she does, she has a history of childhood sexual abuse or physical abuse. Sane women don’t want to be harmed and objectified, despite what porn shows you
@Menoweightloss
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! It’s Christmas Day! I couldn’t sleep! Sam.. I feel enlightened and awoke..this video is going around in my mind..such a powerful video..Thank you, I’m in love with your brain 🧠
@Love_GSDs
2 жыл бұрын
My ex used sex as a weapon... To end an argument or to end his silent treatment I had to comply and appear willing or suffer more. I often ended up feeling violated as he bounced back like nothing had ever been wrong... He constantly pressured me to do things I didn't want to like describing sex with other men during sex with us. He wanted to bring in other men, and I wouldn't... He sold it well, describing them as sex toys because it was about 'us' not them. I refused time and time again and this became a point of constant insecurity as he would say about his ex who would. He wanted to act out rape and I saw the videos he liked and it was basically women being used and degraded by many men at once. I would never allow anyone to do that to me no matter what he meant to me. Sex became something I despised with him because I either felt degraded, inadequate or violated. But if I let that show, his silent treatment and confusing discussion would be unbearable. Worst case, if I tried to discuss things there would be the rage as he would pack up and leave... but to top it off, he would cheat anyway I have since found out I'm a successful woman with my own house, dreams, money, education and goals and he mademe feel worthless. I can see why people would rather choose celibacy, but I would never cheat. It's just not me... When we met I asked him about his past... According to him he never cheated on anyone other than once... and that was because he was cheated on by her. Over time I found out about many many times he had cheated on all his partners and still I didn't leave him. He had some weird power over me and I was addicted to him. The best thing he ever did was leave, but he only did that apparently because I was going to leave him. For whatever reason I was putting in more boundaries. I was sick of him taking me for granted... and now he has been gone for 18 months I can't believe who I was, but it's someone I would never be again! I have ME back and I'm grateful he left 😊 Withe the help of counselling and videos like this I'm fixing the broken parts of me that put me in this situation in the first place. I'm learning self love and THAT really is empowering 😍
@misscurious7663
2 жыл бұрын
Well done, sis. Never let him or his shadow or a copy of him return to your life. You'll have a good man soon, just never ever compromise. Stick to your standards.
@Love_GSDs
2 жыл бұрын
@@misscurious7663 certainly preferable than lowering yourself to theirs eh 😉 x
@LarennPBel
2 жыл бұрын
I know I don’t know you but I’m very VERY PROUD OF YOU 👍🏾👍🏾🥰🥰
@Love_GSDs
2 жыл бұрын
@@LarennPBel what a lovely thing to say! Thank you 😘 x
@Love_GSDs
2 жыл бұрын
@@xxx-gh7rm thank you
@Layp107
2 жыл бұрын
I talk a lot with women, I also talk a lot with men. I noticed that oh so many women think they are emancipated but what is emancipation? Let me give an example that left me flabbergasted: the 3 date rule. Basically, it’s that if the woman agree to the third date, she agrees to have sex. Excuse me? W.T.F. And at a certain point in time, this was plastered all over magazines and shows and I don’t know where else. AND A LOT OF WOMEN felt they needed to follow that “rule”. They felt pressured to comply to some totally wacko rule that came out of nowhere. Pressured! So tell me ladies, where is the emancipation in that? Hmm? Who decides? You or some moronic trend? Stop the madness, stop being sheep and THINK. And that is just one example. Now over to men. In my multiple conversarions with a lot of men, I noticed that a decent amount of them do not act like complete asses when confronted with a woman that declares: I will not play that game, I deserve better. Some will walk away, true. But that says it all about them and nothing about you. The opposite is also true. Some will look at you differently and stick around. Even if they realise that friendship without benefits is all they will get. Whether they secretly hope or not that you will change your mind and that they will get the sex too, IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM. It’s theirs. How they TREAT you, is your problem. And contrary to general public opinion, you would be amazed at how many men will treat you with respect. And secretly hope to meet someone they like and who likes them. If not, good riddance. Ladies, try. What have you got to lose? Men, try too. It just might reward you with a good woman friend, or a decent relationship.
@vela-rn2jz
2 жыл бұрын
Ive always thought the abuse and degradation has something to do with our animalistic nature. Thank you for all your insight Prof. Vaknin
@carolemiller4464
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like we are in hell. Battle of egos?
@MG-sj2re
2 жыл бұрын
@@lorrainejurdana-land3782 Girl if we aren’t animals then what kingdom do we belong to? Fungi?
@pinacolada1393
2 жыл бұрын
@@lorrainejurdana-land3782 We have primitive instincts some good & some are bad & some we can not seem to shake. We have become the worst kind of animal to exist.
@vela-rn2jz
2 жыл бұрын
Lorraine- get an education. We are mammals..
@Moonwashedful
2 жыл бұрын
@@lorrainejurdana-land3782 What are you then?
@susanrainville7834
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Sam, you are great, love your videos please keep on making your video we are learning all the time from you!!!!
@Maria-bb6it
2 жыл бұрын
I look forward to watching your videos every morning. Happy Holidays to you!!! 🎄🎄
@DeChihauha
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I literally experienced psychosis with hallucinations/visions after 2 years of sever narcissistic (? guessing here) abuse, with experience of rape beforehand, including sexual degradation and threats to my life. And since then have been becoming more aware of my own narcissism and sadism (which, clearly, comes hand in hand with my masochism). Been diagnosed with schizoid pd, but the description of schizoids as ”not wanting people” goes completely against my experience of wishing to be with people every second of my life. Or rather, a person. Currently considering retreating to solitude, atleast in a way of celibacy. It seems, that some goods are damaged, indeed. But i still try to... find a solution. At this moment living by the Rutyard Kipling's poem ”If-”. It's dedicated to sons and Men, but in today's world, we, female or male, are all sons. And all meant to become Men. P.S. I dreaded being a girl, when i was little. But, no matter what, that little girl is most precious part of me. Even if that requires me to become a man, I'll protect ”her”.
@maserati1990
2 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't have to become a man and fend for yourself in the first place. Men & compliment each other, the most successful men are ALWAYS inspired by a woman. Not money, fame... it's for the love of a woman. & women can rest momentarily from their endless giving/responsibility, relax and be taken care of for a while with a strong man. This nu-society may be the way things are, but it's not how it's meant to be. Sorry to hear your story chum, things are going to get alot worse but we're going through it together. Be safe
@user-qz9iq9yu3s
2 жыл бұрын
Well done!... Very much so raked all the leaves up into a pile delivering a very introductory off road map a general lay of the land scenic rest area a chance to get out of the vehicle take a look of the surroundings the cooking tenparature the overall average amount of grace given to one another if you decide to play. What was the Shakespeare quote: Thank you,Cheers,Aloha, Sam..You really pinned the tail right on the donkey, on this one!.....Throw another proverbial shrimp on the barbie!.......cant wait!, im looking forward to your next.
@user-rz7pk6hi5p
2 жыл бұрын
I am convinced that Sam Vaknin is not human. He is a Djinn (genius)!
@ngeee10
2 жыл бұрын
It's kind of common sense you can see it everywhere.
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
That's not what djinn means and you know it. Maybe look in the mirror.
@user-rz7pk6hi5p
2 жыл бұрын
@@serafinetta I never claimed to be human 😄 Joke is on you!
@maudlynhenry2221
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Prof.Vaknin, thanks for the Videos
@fckinasshoe17
2 жыл бұрын
Ugh love is now a minefield . Everyone hates each other now.
@eb1042
Жыл бұрын
YUP ‼️‼️‼️ PROUDLY SO and rightfully so....Have FIN (pun intended) everybody
@eb1042
Жыл бұрын
Love❓❓❓ Men are INCAPABLE of LOVING a woman, their masculinity will NOT ALLOW it. You CAN'T love someone WITHOUT RESPECTING them. MEN DO NOT RESPECT WOMEN, therefore, they are incapable of TRULY LOVING them, EVER‼️‼️‼️
@Paarthurnaxdova
2 жыл бұрын
What is causing all these new cluster B personalities? Is it the food, water, casual sex?
@rosered3919
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, add to this social media, music, movies, porn, gmo's,chemtrails, government mind control programmes etc etc.
@Paarthurnaxdova
2 жыл бұрын
@@rosered3919 agreed 100%
@maserati1990
2 жыл бұрын
Father absence is one - mothers give unconditional love to their children. The child is perfect, no matter what; sometimes exclusively positive feedback. They don't set boundaries with their children as much. The children turn out narcissistic. Fathers give love more conditionally, set boundaries, teach them to assert themselves, personal responsibility, have drive and purpose. But without the mother, children's self-esteem is contingent on results! With both, they have healthy boundaries, goals / but if they get down on themselves, it's not the end of the world(the mother's influence). Technology, collectivism, this 'everyone's a winner' culture is infantilising us, and distorting morality. But there's not one or two things causing this degeneracy, there's many.
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
@@rosered3919 childhood jabs!
@marymotherofgod4861
2 жыл бұрын
Hey it’s 5 o’clock somewhere in the world!! Love ur style Merry Christmas !!
@HD-wu5ti
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Prof. You are awesome 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽 happy holidays!
@19valleydan
2 жыл бұрын
So what the end game here? No kids ultimately equals no society. Any alternative to ultimate societal dissolution in an orgy of narcissistic nihilism ? Not a very merry Christmas thought!
@sonyasamko6340
2 жыл бұрын
Donor sperm.
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
@@seabreeze4559 so true, porn addiction has ruined many of these guys’ under 40 brains….especially under 30. They started watching it at very young ages and it has skewed their perspective on women and what healthy relationships and healthy sex looks like and should be like. It also makes then view women as objects even more than they already did. Bad all around…and studies have been shown that prove it.
@Silkiroth
2 жыл бұрын
The world is sadly becoming more and more unfriendly to the idea of having children. If we want to fix that, societies have to work on making the world a better place to have kids. There are not enough positive incentives I think.
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
We could use a reduction in live births considering the state of the world right now.
@ariadne2631
2 жыл бұрын
@@Silkiroth Why would one want new kids in a world where the kids that are already here are treated badly.
@7starlightempire8
2 жыл бұрын
Cheers 👑 🌞 Thank you for your work and contribution to heal and build mankind.. Merry xmas Sir.
@monikamona6844
2 жыл бұрын
are there such men? Wanting a committed relationship, loyal, honest and masculine, protecitve of women? The end of this bleak talk gives me hope i can meet such one surviving dinozaur
@jeromewesselman4653
2 жыл бұрын
We're out here, but since we're not earning more than you, you don't want us. We're invisible. Well...I'm not invisible to women, far from it. But I am voluntarily celibate, which fits my lifestyle better than marriage. So I'm not speaking for myself, rather I'm speaking for an entire class of men. And in case you wondered...no, I don't earn more than you, the richness of poverty is a large part of my lifestyle preference
@fernandocamara6507
2 жыл бұрын
We are here but we are in extinction. I am personally moving out of the West to Eastern Europe in search of a better life (social life, lower taxes...), and so are alot of men.
@monikamona6844
2 жыл бұрын
@@fernandocamara6507 where are you moving from? Come to Poland, we have more freedom than other EU countries
@fernandocamara6507
2 жыл бұрын
@@monikamona6844 I am moving from London and considering either Bulgaria or Serbia. I
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
@@jeromewesselman4653 statistically, men still benefit from their gender career-wise and are making more than women across the board, in all education brackets. So I don’t buy that the only good guys are those making low income.
@sallyjane9111
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Proff. Thanks for all your work.
@happydays1607
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas lovely Prof. Sam :)
@mhilton8005
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting as always! Merry Christmas Sam 🌟
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Hilton, how's your day going with you?
@tiahallford4353
2 жыл бұрын
Love your holiday pic with Santa hat. Just sending Merry wishes this Christmas season . Merry Christmas Sam
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Tia, how's your day going with you?
@yogawithSally
2 жыл бұрын
Sadly I have to admit that this is true. When I see an elderly couple walking down the road holding hands I feel quite tearful and envy them for their shared commitment and trust in one another. Modern nen don't seem tovwant any level of emotional commitment and regard any eomen who does as a 'bunny boiler' and control freak. I wonder how much the so-called sexual revolution which started in the 1860s has proved a disservice to women. Modern young women seem happy to be sexy, to dress sexy, and offer sex to please men, yet d3nand little in return. Sam's definition of sexy v. sexual is very important. Modern views on whatbsex should be are very much based on pornography and debacement of women through violent sex. Men expect their casual partners to participate in things that in previous times they would have paid prostitutes to do. It is almost taken for granted now, and a woman is deemed a prude or old-fashioned if she doesn't submit. I once told my boyfriend that I would like him tovtske me out to a nice restaurant on a date. His attitude was 'why bithercsoending money on you - I get what I want anyway'. We give ourselves away; and then men regard as cheap, easily replaceable if we prove difficult.
@supermario8416
2 жыл бұрын
Men do not stay in a long term relationship with used up women. Men use those females and go on. Men want virgin females for a life long relationship.
@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064
2 жыл бұрын
Sam, thank you for sharing your wisdom!💕😃🙏🏼📚📝
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Marni, how's your day going with you?
@thepowerman8952
2 жыл бұрын
Hope you enjoyed the wine and that you enjoy your Christmas (if you celebrate it)! I've learned a lot from you over the years.
@CK_2372
2 жыл бұрын
Stop the madness! I want to be the submissive but there are no men! Makes me so sad. My ex (Narc) allowed me to be who I am and then criticized/shamed me for it and withheld sex
@ImCheesedOut
2 жыл бұрын
Same. I was either a prude or too much
@ariadne2631
2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I met some guy whom had other priorities like 'promiscuous sex with strangers' rather than being available in my life. I asked him to take me to the coast and I enjoyed being a sub but he just wanted to keep me a secret and stop meeting after the 2nd time. Guys ruin a good thing. He thought he met whomever, but she left him for her ex after 3 days lol. He's looking for love in all the wrong places and expects loyalty when he himself isn't loyal lol. So, even if he thought I was an amazing person, his mommy issues cannot be resolved by being my 'daddy' if you will. He needs to have casual sex with 50,000 more women and wants to pick and choose what I have to give. And I refuse to accommodate anyone by diminishing myself. I blocked him because a loser like that should be the last person trying to tell me what to do or whom to do it with. He wanted me to be with his friend and maybe I shall do that awkward thing is now he has to live with him since his 'romances' with a new woman every 3 days didn't work. No woman wants to be in a relationship with him anyway, which I can see because first you have to be the daddy type whom doesn't depend on every lying female. He thought the grass as greener on the other side but I mostly liked the neck tattoos. Even so, I have lost respect or men and will not be accommodating those idiots ever. Narcissistic men don't seem to like sex, that's why I had to find this guy. Even so, he wasn't fun at all nor was he respected. I just liked his neck tattoos and his unhappiness was a novelty but there actually isn't anything special about him and he's going to die since he doesn't believe in Covid19...so.... RIP, weirdo.
@Vivacious.rabbit
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir for SPEAKING FACTS.
@bftorggler6777
Ай бұрын
Freedom is opression. Love is forbidden.
@beatrice419
2 жыл бұрын
Merry christmas sam vaknin love you .from Poland
@sandramisita6498
2 жыл бұрын
👍Brilliant I thoroughly enjoyed this lecture! thank you so much for this informative information! God bless you ..merry Christmas happy new year to you.. SandyNYC ❤️🌈
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sandra, how's your day going with you?
@Userbombing
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this valious christmas Gift
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Valentina, how's your day going with you?
@KacyLatham
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Sam!
@ash1277100
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas sam ! Cheers 🥂 Your videos are the best
@timeleey6011
2 жыл бұрын
This is not the topic of this video, but you said you will return to your main business i.e. narcissism and/or Cluster B. Professor I beg you, please talk more about covert borderline man. I think I am being discarded by a guy of this type. We got really close last summer, then out of no where, he went mia (3 months ago). Now I recently contacted him 2 weeks ago (on the pretence of holiday wishes) and he said "I am working right now, but would be nice to chat this weekend" and I said "Yes, that'd be great, call me when you are free" Two weekends have passed since, I am eagerly waiting but haven't heard from him! Our chemistry was amazing, everything was perfect, I dont know why he is ignoring me. It really hurts! Why did he say it'd be nice to talk this weekend? What does he want from me? I was the one who initiated contact after the no contact period, it is his turn to show some interest. I am sure he is covert borderline. Why is he behaving this way? Please help.
@maserati1990
2 жыл бұрын
I've ghosted girls I really liked. With girls I enjoy spending time with but aren't serious about, I had longer flings; girls I could've married... I'm out before things get too much. Until recently, male narcissists aren't common. You're more likely to find a physically abusive man than a narcissist, and physically abusive men aren't common either. I don't think your guy is a narc. Though is he from a two-parent home? Did he play competitive sport when he was young? (without competitive sport they learn by exclusively positive feedback, lack of boundaries = narcissist) It's probably 50% he likes you and freaked out // and 50% he's actually busy with work. - I'm not BPD. I come from a loving family, have maintained close friendships my whole life - my explanation for your guy's behavior was not informed from a tainted lens.
@timeleey6011
2 жыл бұрын
@@maserati1990 thanks for reply. His parents are married but they dont seem to have a good relationship. He definitely has some childhood issues. He once said he was physically abused as a kid! I dont know if he meant by parents or at school or something else, he doesnt open up about it. He doesn't play sport, but watches it, and he is into gambling/betting, but he always says he keeps it in check, never goes over the limit. He showed a tiny bit of interest a few days ago, by sending me a text saying "We should talk soon" to which I said I will call him and then I called, he talked nicely and casually with me nothing too deep. I said we should meet up, and he was very keen and readily agreed, started discussing dates and where we should see each other etc. It seemed more like a casual lunch with a friend rather than a date. He seemed a bit depressed when I saw him, upset about something. After that lunch, once again he has gone silent! I am fed up! :(
@SC-sn3xs
2 жыл бұрын
Lady if he's borderline, RUN! You've got a DARK future ahead if you so choose to entertain them. 🤕🤕🤕
@jessicadorsey8483
2 жыл бұрын
Very good. Thank you.
@hashtagspandas4070
2 жыл бұрын
Yes the Xmas special is back 🎅
@Vivacious.rabbit
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for speaking truth.
@Fancyteri
2 жыл бұрын
Damn… So basically men want to evolve but want women to stay primitive.
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
More like DEVOLVE
@Fancyteri
2 жыл бұрын
@@elegantempress1395 lol right?
@ciro9951
2 жыл бұрын
I’d say women have evolved pretty well with the times. Men are the ones who stayed behind and still live in the past. Just my observation.
@sohinibanerjee9617
2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Sam to you and Lidija and a Happy New Year.
@marymotherofgod4861
2 жыл бұрын
Yea let’s men bash my topic 😂😂😂😂😂
@user-rz7pk6hi5p
2 жыл бұрын
Do you believe narcissism is linked to political leanings? As in right vs left.
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
2 жыл бұрын
There's an interesting assumption that the state is helping itself to the citizens' pockets by pushing 'equal outcome' policies, thus creating two tax payers per household. ... I've not yet done any research if the figures hold this theory...
@CourseCreatorsCollective
2 жыл бұрын
Incredible analysis.
@frankendoll1455
2 жыл бұрын
Cheers to a new year!🍷
@lassallyscorpiotruthseeker1770
2 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@user-it5ub8gq6e
4 ай бұрын
You speak the truth
@kimwawa
5 ай бұрын
I met a guy months ago, I bought him a box of pizza n he left me alone after he ate.
@lucianwong420
2 жыл бұрын
Me personally, i have a hard time trusting women these days. (Almost got falsely accused once) But that’s no reason for me to abuse them, i just simply ignore them.
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
We don’t trust men 🤷♀️….Many women have been abused or harmed by men and it’s understandable that they don’t trust them. We can’t even walk down the street at night or go places along without fear of one behaving violently yet women still have hope that some of you won’t mistreat them or try to take advantage of them in some way. But you’re right, it’s best to ignore someone that you can’t trust. That’s why celibacy is a great choice for many
@lucianwong420
2 жыл бұрын
@@elegantempress1395 Women aren’t the only ones getting abused or harmed, though. There are plenty of men getting abused and harmed, you just don’t hear them speaking out because women always get away with it. Lots of courtrooms are on the woman’s side. But i agree with you on the celibacy part.
@purplelove3666
2 жыл бұрын
@@lucianwong420 right.you expect me to believe that?. How many men are getting killed for rejecting a woman? How many men are getting. S3xually violeted by women?.how many men are getting beaten so badly by women?. Don't be silly
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
@@lucianwong420We thank you for removing yourself from the dating pool, those of us who can still stand the sight of y'all.
@Marta-ct6lr
2 жыл бұрын
Youll ask your future partner and he always say that he is an angel-like, noone tell The Whole truth - so dear DR - what’s your advice to know well The partner before get The realtionship with him ?
@shaunlannary2848
3 ай бұрын
Don't listen to the words ,Watch what they do !
@elizabethsetlow862
2 жыл бұрын
Well now what? 😳
@pedroavilez2003
2 жыл бұрын
Real talk thanks
@moranasprowler
2 жыл бұрын
About your last sentence in this video Prof. Vaknin; Why?
@user-dp4bu8jy4b
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you!
@dntcrwtuthnk
Жыл бұрын
Wait did you just say hitting women is illegal so they have lost their muscle power and I also quoted you referring to it as the males only advantage????? What is your problem dude you obviously have some issues or something you should probably not be giving advice to people
@MN-ns1lo
2 жыл бұрын
Speaking GOSPEL truth. Thanks for this Christmas present!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I don’t understand why women would be promiscuous just for its own sake. I figured it was desperation for commitment. I can’t imagine just being thirsty for a man that’s not providing and without the pretense that he may one day??? Gross to me lol. Luckily, men want sex far more than I want their commitment/sex/money/companionship, so I have the upper hand. Come on board, ladies, it’s great out here!!!❤️❤️❤️💅✨
@jeromewesselman4653
2 жыл бұрын
It is gross, to men too, perhaps in a slightly different way, but a long list if partners is an unattractive trait to most men and in a lot of cases could be a deal breaker for present and future commitment. If that preference is toxic then I guess I'm in the Toxic Males' Club! As for WHY women have strings of hookups, I think they're mimicking what they see in media. Sad but true, and definitely not all, but the societal expectation still affects women less inclined to sleep around. For instance she might say "it's okay as long as we love each other" whereas in he past she might have waited for marriage instead. I also think The Pill has had a huge effect on behaviors, male and female
@elegantempress1395
2 жыл бұрын
Right, I could care less about sex and I never got caught up in “hookup culture” despite being a millennial. I honestly think it’s over-exaggerated because most teens are graduating high school as virgins and people are having less sex and less sex partners than previous generations (Gen X and even Boomers)…which is a little known fact. If men don’t want to make the effort to settle down and be good husbands, then I refuse to chase after them. I’m whole all on my own and a good man would be a good compliment to my life but will not validate my entire existence as a human being. I think more and more women are waking up to that fact. It’s too bad men want to demonize us for loving ourselves
@jeromewesselman4653
2 жыл бұрын
@@elegantempress1395 True, traditional relationships only work when both partners behave traditionally. If your career is your priority, you will find that the overwhelming majority of men will support you in your decision, by not getting involved with you in a relationship. The women who prioritize and master relationship, spousal, and maternal skills early in life are all already in successful long-term relationships with good men
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
I was, for many years. I liked sex - just like a man. Don't judge a robust female sexuality.
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
@@jeromewesselman4653 They're divorced and raising the kids alone, actually. :)
@cocochanco.
Жыл бұрын
you look so cute in the chrismas hat 🤣🤣💚
@thechannel251
2 жыл бұрын
Spot on again
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
2 жыл бұрын
Prof Vaknin: You often refer to data/studies conducted based on US population - could you please suggest the countries in which a woman who is looking for a normal relationship can find the biggest pool of candidates? Many thanks from the UK!
@samvaknin
2 жыл бұрын
Many of these studies cover other countries, a total of 20, actually.
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
2 жыл бұрын
@@samvaknin which countries are the least bad ones please?
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
2 жыл бұрын
@@alice-hp7dh i came from Germany to uk.. same shit across the European countries.... But I'm ready to move and looking where there's the best chances to live in a normal society
@ImCheesedOut
2 жыл бұрын
@@jackna9185 you are so misinformed. You sound like a fetishist. Asian women can be assertive as well and not just your submissive concubine, amigo.
@serafinetta
2 жыл бұрын
May I recommend China?
@Thistle4444
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@warilaetamaraye8712
2 жыл бұрын
Really a great teacher, thanks so much Sam!
@lalalovengun
2 жыл бұрын
Psychopaths are born. Not made 😂
@19valleydan
2 жыл бұрын
You're half right. The genetic predisposition is apparently switched on epigenetically in a negative environment. There's lots of research on this, btw.
@lynndenver7588
2 жыл бұрын
This is my ex husband. And where I from the court's do nothing . I separated 2 half years and he getting worse through the courts as we have a child between us. The good old game of " I want to see my child " gets a contact order plays around with his contact to play games with me nothing to do with the child's best interest.We fight back until we get to court and then your fucked because the courts where I am is in the dark ages . So now it's a game with not only the psychopathic ex but the courts as well . As the courts give a massage to this type of personality that they can do what they like which is why sometimes fighting back we end up dead . Not playing the victim as I not one anymore but just stating a fact that we fight bk until court then it's a shit show. But I give enough rope he stuiped enough to hang himself . And I play as smart as I can keeping my son and I safe in the meantime. This is all he can do as he can't take his hatred for women out on me in the bedroom or with his hands no more , although he still trying to at times , very little protection there from agencies . Thank you Sam very well put.
@maserati1990
2 жыл бұрын
Read 'When Men Behaving Badly' by Dr David Buss. Explains psychology of domestic violence, abusive behavior succinctly. It's a short read, too.
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Lookin dapper in the Santa hat, Sam.
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“Domestic technician” is what house husbands like to be called
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