Because men are direct with other men. Being direct with women is frowned up on.
@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
9 ай бұрын
Nah. You dudes love your buddies more than the women in your life. Might as well marry one of them instead since you communicate so well 😉
@coreyondavis6032
8 ай бұрын
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha then here is 3 questions. 1) A man can communicate all he wants to a woman however is the woman listening to comprehend or listening to respond? 2) a man can communicate all he wants but is the woman listening or hearing? And 3) does the woman really want the man to communicate on whats in his mind or heart or does she want her opinions along with validation to come out of the mans mouth?
@torreysmith5545
7 ай бұрын
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-hayou sound like a dummy
@maryanngray4519
2 жыл бұрын
They communicate wanting sex.
@beautyguzha4957
2 жыл бұрын
True💯
@Que772
2 жыл бұрын
Without any issues!
@divineatmospheresllc6016
2 жыл бұрын
😂☝🏾😂☝🏾😂
@Arguewithmeandlose
2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😅🤣 No lies here
@zh1408
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! Miss me with BS !
@kingsleybaby
2 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is that the reason he does not communicate is ussually because he is hiding something. Cheaters dont talk because they are scared to be exposéd, faithful guy will talk normally because they are not busy talking to other people.
@hamzaadib9927
Ай бұрын
wrong...
@BarbaraAlston-y4i
Ай бұрын
I agree but they also may not be cheating but just hiding information….
@donnasimmons5895
Ай бұрын
Well how do you create that safe place you are talking about? But could be hiding info also
@natibelfortunato6879
15 күн бұрын
this!! only a liar gets offended or defensive when someone asks questions. there's a quote about that somewhere.
@Lucy-sb2ro
14 күн бұрын
This is trauma sweetheart it’s not always like that it might even depend on how someone is personally
@simple5136
2 жыл бұрын
What an excuse! If there's no communication...End of story! Period...Drops mike✌️
@Que772
2 жыл бұрын
He NEEDS to communicate or it's not going to work!
@MONEYAINTATHANG100
2 жыл бұрын
👁
@zh1408
2 жыл бұрын
Simple !
@sthendlovu8844
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly!
@wakandaisatmtzion
2 жыл бұрын
Sooo, you have to listen, quietly when he's talking, take turns speaking, don't interrupt, don't judge especially the same day.
@wakandaisatmtzion
2 жыл бұрын
Don't react personally to what he says. Or what you think he should have done or said or how it affects you. (Unless you're really having a calm, back and forth conversation. )
@cd2612
2 жыл бұрын
They communicated well enough to be in the relationship and then all of a sudden when they feel settled in the relationship the talking stops. In the beginning of my marriage my husband would barely talk about anything of importance to me but his older sister would be privy to everything going on in our home. Once I found that out I put an end to it right quick.
@etunde81
2 ай бұрын
Well observed! And how did you put an end to that?
@PreciousMethodMan
Ай бұрын
As u should yourprivatr business 😮 realntalk great shut down
@flooredjustfloored
17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Shortee452
7 күн бұрын
So true everybody except you knows everything. A very bad leak in the building.
@luvroxie4589
2 жыл бұрын
He communicate when he want something 🤔
@sthembisomthembu395
2 жыл бұрын
Like what?
@greeneyesista
2 жыл бұрын
Such as a new car, new cell phone, new shoes etc. 😂
@07JF
2 жыл бұрын
haha
@sonyvalencia
2 жыл бұрын
@@sthembisomthembu395 sex he will go into details.
@thesocialintrovertchronicles
2 жыл бұрын
@@sonyvalencia 😂😂😂😂😂💦
@blairebeezy8684
2 жыл бұрын
Move on, beauties. If he doesn’t communicate, there will always be a man that can. Can’t change a man, so change the man 😌
@marissachapman1022
3 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@lashondaward2924
2 ай бұрын
Amen.
@loveswintertrees
2 жыл бұрын
They want you to emotionally cater to them and support them but then they just don’t care to listen to you
@GodsSparrowSpeaks
5 ай бұрын
Ugh. So true…
@baybeh3578
Күн бұрын
💯
@dorisperry5879
2 жыл бұрын
No excuse....they run their mouth to everybody else outside you & him, they're just being manipulative.
@InfantShredder69
7 ай бұрын
Paranoid women out here... if you're not there then how tf would you know if he "runs his mouth". Let me tell you, most men DON'T
@lemonlemon7186
7 ай бұрын
@@InfantShredder69 ohhhh ok, I get it now. You’re just angry all around. ✌🏽✌🏽
@ninathetarotgirl
11 күн бұрын
@@InfantShredder69his phone says it all. Oftenly caught him exposing himself too much on the internet until get into heated arguments with men and excessive talking with other women. I dont have to peek on his phone, his notification when he play his phone around me says it all😅
@nikiabutler1791
2 жыл бұрын
And men have to grasp that we were all conditioned to something or another. Relationships takes that of two comfortable humans getting uncomfortable for one another to create a space for each individual to fully express and expose whatever the heart needs to unload or understanding in. Men have to be ready to commit to changing their mindsets and beliefs if they intend for a woman to joyfully create space for them to breathe and release in. It does take both parties willfully making healthy choices to protect and preserve the commitment.
@emanuelfer456
2 жыл бұрын
Every relationship I know which a man shared his emotions didn't last, the woman lost respect on the man ever since
@carolinesalv
2 жыл бұрын
@@emanuelfer456 Then they got bad women.. simple!
@emanuelfer456
2 жыл бұрын
@@carolinesalv problem is it's hard to find a good one since most I know are delusional narcissistic Karens 🤣 Fortunately I did but I know how hard it is nowadays
@BSmiths100
2 жыл бұрын
@@emanuelfer456 same for women.
@dubravKA1111
2 жыл бұрын
So true. 💜
@dabdab4811
2 жыл бұрын
First thing, no one can understand the mind of anyone
@Que772
2 жыл бұрын
Like we have superpowers😂
@jayjones318
2 жыл бұрын
If you tap in to your own mind and learn how to relate it to others, then you can train yourself to understand anyone and anything
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
Not true, if you live with someone and have done research on the human mind you can understand. And knowing what that person had gone through. It’s possible
@ServantStatusMinistries
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly on Jesus does.
@yutsekelman9740
2 жыл бұрын
Dab Dab come on, it's contextual🤷
@mariaddis9341
2 жыл бұрын
My husband likes to stay quiet and process the information. Then a few days later he'll address it out of nowhere. By that time, I'm no longer in that headspace. He's a genius...., that one. 😩
@splanet5088
2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a keeper!
@mariaddis9341
2 жыл бұрын
@this life is the dumbest LOL! I'm 45 now. We met on my 27th birthday. Our energies have always matched., which allowed us to have a mutual understanding on our dynamic. I love how we understand each other. To this day we are each other's favs. I love him to the pink meat. Thank you so much for your reply. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nofybn7794
2 жыл бұрын
@@splanet5088 Not a keeper.
@elmyra.jackson
Жыл бұрын
It's awesome that you've learned this! A lot of men are like your husband....process first then communicate.
@JP-gs9wv
Жыл бұрын
@@nofybn7794 Sometimes people need time to process to make sure they make the right decision. I guess you want every other woman to be bitter like you?
@zh1408
2 жыл бұрын
You either open your mouth and communicate like an adult or go about your business ! Simple !
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
Do you always communicate about everything you are feeling?
@valeriedakota2289
2 жыл бұрын
Bye ✋🏾we're tired of the excuses!
@dajon2k
10 ай бұрын
It’s not excuses it’s equality, you want a safe space to communicate your feelings so do we. How the hell is that an excuse.
@anncharlesofficial499
2 жыл бұрын
If he can communicate about goals, risks, budgets, clientele...all that to his boss at work... then he can sure communicate to me. No one is completely introvert unless they chose to. If you leart A B Cs you can sure learn communication with the person you love.
@Wacol1God
2 жыл бұрын
Men should SIMPLY HEAL!!! Tired of Emotionally detached Men! Excuses, Excuses! "Insecurities" RUN ladies!!!
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, run! They miss their mama’s nurturing. What about us? My father passed away when I was nine so I never got that father daughter talk that IS so detrimental in a youngyoung girl’s life. What to do?
@deloiswood5959
2 жыл бұрын
Yes that's exactly what it is nothing but excuses it's boring don't know how to communicate because you're so insecure please you need to get over it dating to get old friend you tired of hearing about the insecurities what about women insecurities what about how the women feel why it always got to be you got a cater to the way the man feel and he doesn't care about the way the woman feel don't don't know that don't they know they're supposed to be a partner thing
@wendyjones1422
2 жыл бұрын
Women are just the same as men
@emanuelfer456
2 жыл бұрын
Men don't communicate because they know women isn't there to listen and support but is there to use it as a weapon
@patriciadowning1254
2 жыл бұрын
@@wendyjones1422 No they are not! They manage to get jobs, overall they don't abandon their children, they manage to get an education, find their own housing, and women are not telling the world how much they hate men, they are not killing women and children every 5.5 hours, as a woman, never say you're the same as them. Messages like this continue to condition women to coddle and comfort men🤔He has no problem communicating hatred, watch the news.
@jansley4
2 жыл бұрын
You're communicating right now and very clearly. Talking very well.
@DebNKY
29 күн бұрын
He's got a terrific voice, doesn't he? ❤
@brendarewan7441
6 күн бұрын
You are so right! Some the best talkers, actors, politicians, professors, etc etc are men. Come on man! You missed the ball on this one!
@ljmotivate4u680
2 жыл бұрын
You are right bad role models create a different kind of a man. A healthy environment teaches a man that communication does not only build a healthy home, it opens doors of opportunities for them.
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
Why do we women have to do all the work??? Y’all men need to get y’all ish together and please us too!!! I’ve been improving, and changing, and putting in real work. Catch up!!!
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
This video isn't about women doing all the work. It simply showing how men think. Men and women need to get their shit together
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachKenCanion we literally just said the same thing. Everyone needs to heal
@brandyminter1518
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sick of y'all,, just talk . Bet they talk to that side piece 😂
@sklw9856
2 жыл бұрын
Lol yep
@cyndigooch1162
2 жыл бұрын
Brandy minter They're usually doing a lot more than talking though! 😉
@lucylue3585
2 жыл бұрын
The side pieces know their rank and role😈 They are on borrowed time and attention, so they don't expect a whole man or a whole relationship that includes communication. A side piece's efforts are to earn a man's time and attention by any means necessary in hopes of gaining a permanent position.
@shellaagbor7336
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 True
@shannan4580
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@CC-pu6qn
2 жыл бұрын
Once again, make a man comfortable first. I’m starting to think men are toddlers who want power for no reason. This is pedestalizing men. What work are men doing?
@carinemarcelle5867
2 жыл бұрын
Men are toddlers. That's the real issue with them. Female don't want to deal with male who are supposed to be the stronger gender acting like toddlers.
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
2 жыл бұрын
Good point, because many seem very good at insults and demoralising women, when they feel like it !! Not all of course, but there are many abusers that do
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
They aren’t doing anything but crying and complaining. It takes two gosh darn it!!!
@lke4907
2 жыл бұрын
Men are career focused, women are relationship focused. We are wired this way. Neither is bad. You just need to accept this truth and balance eachother out.
@eternalriver7866
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a broken man that needs to much work. Don’t bother
@thatchica08
2 жыл бұрын
The better option is for him to go to therapy so then he can get to root cause as to why he can’t communicate and then he can start to heal and work on his communication. Men and women both need to start taking action and being more responsible for the things they do or don’t do.
@sallyabrahams4427
2 жыл бұрын
No wonder men lose so many great women!
@BrandonTurner84
9 ай бұрын
Maybe in our minds the woman isn't that great that's why we don't.
@sagittariusblack2879
2 жыл бұрын
AND THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IS WRONG WITH BLACK GROWN BOYS. SENSITIVE AS HELL. ALL “MEN” ARE CONDITIONED THIS WAY, WHY CAN ALL OTHERS STEP UP TO THE PLATE OF MANHOOD. BLACK “MEN” WANNA BE BABIED AND EVERYONE HAS TO TIPTOE AROUND THEIR FEELINGS. GROW TF UP!
@oceanemassambambe8762
Ай бұрын
It’s not only black men.
@vidaacheampong2563
Күн бұрын
EXACTLY
@vidaacheampong2563
Күн бұрын
@@oceanemassambambe8762 it's MOSTLY black men
@11Angel33
2 жыл бұрын
Ladies. This is a FACT. So many times I’d get frustrated with my man for not communicating. It took a long time to realise that gradually he shut down more because when he did, he was NOT GOOD AT IT and was punished for that! Everything takes patience to get good at. Your man probably HAS tried to communicate with you, and he was not heard, you didn’t like what he said or how he said it, you got angry, picked it apart, you were offended, never stopped to think maybe y’all need to dive deeper to get to what he really means and not in an interrogative way but a patient and compassionate way. he felt like a failure, guilty for hurting you, his conditioning was validated and his fear of failing you was triggered. Now, he has learned that you SAY you want communication from him, but you get angry when he gives it, so it’s not really what you want! He no longer feels SAFE to try and meet you in that space, he no longer trusts himself to ever get it right. You can not ask men to communicate with you and expect them to immediately be as good at it as you are. Give them some grace. Show him that you aren’t just asking for it in order to pick it apart and expose his inadequacy. Don’t assume you get what he means and fill in all the blanks for him and tell him what he is saying etc., etc., because he probably is struggling to say what he means and needs some help to get there, but not that kinda help, so whatever your interpretation is is based on faulty presentation, anyway. Not because he doesn’t FEEL all the right things, but because he doesn’t know how to verbalize those things. But he can learn. I Assume if you desire communication, you love this man. So start by giving him the benefit of the doubt and not demanding perfection. He WANTS to learn, to make you happy, to connect with you. The worst thing you can do is make him regret trying. Give it time, patience, compassion, work with him, don’t expect perfect communication from him the moment he opens up and take everything he says at face value, and become reactionary. If you want a man who communicates with you, teach him how to communicate with you, not that communicating with you is an impossible task that only ends in failure. Ladies. We are part of the problem for not seeing how painful an experience this is for him. Have you ever thought you were doing something right by yourself only for it to be taken the wrong way, blow up in your face, you’re left feeling like you ruined everything, you weren’t heard, you feel confused, defensive, like you failed, like you regret even trying, and also angry as hell that things didn’t go how you hoped they would? You KNOW what that feels like. Don’t let it get to a point where he no longer fears communication because he hasn’t been taught (feels inadequate) but the fallout of communication, too (inadequacy confirmed), because you aren’t willing to accept the man simply has to learn how to do it. Remember that it is a skill and men are not taught it like we are. If that man shows a willingness to communicate with you and it blew up in his face, and you KNOW if this has happened… you made him feel unsafe and worked against what you both wanted, a safe, open, trusting environment. Don’t blame it all on him when he goes back to the conditioning, even more than before.
@veronicaenam6789
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this Thank you so much ❤️
@BSmiths100
2 жыл бұрын
Oh MY!!! AND WHAT ABOUT WOMEN FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE TO OPEN THEMSELVES TO MEN WHO CAN'T STAND A MATURE DIALOGUE? THIS IS PURE ANNOYING RETHORIC. THEY CAN SPEND HOURS ON WATCHING YOUPORN GOING WORK SPENDING TIME AND CHATTING WITH THEIR FAKE FEMALE FRIENDS, BUT THEY CAN'T "COMMUNICATE" THEIR INNER-SELF TO THE WOMAN THEY SAY ( !) ARE COMMITED TO?! SINCE THEN? THIS IS SIMPLY COWARDICE AND A SPOT ON NARCISSTIC TRAITS, MY FRIEND! GOOD FOR A NOVEL. THAT'S IT. SOCIAL MEDIA HAVE DESTROYED LOVE ONCE FOR ALL. LMFAO.
@wandab172
2 жыл бұрын
While all this has merit, a man healing from this type of trauma would allow him to open up without the help of a woman making it safe because he wouldn’t need that. If he is ever still triggered in an area then he still has work to do. His answer is all inside of him not externally.
@11Angel33
2 жыл бұрын
@@wandab172 this is true. You must always use discernment - never let yourself be neglected and dont make excuses for a man who just wont try…. But we ALL need a little help, sometimes. This was very much regarding shutting him down when he tries then getting angry when he stops; If he wont even try, he is NOT ready for a relationship.
@okellocarol
Ай бұрын
Then he is a little boy in a man's body
@Brick-house109
2 жыл бұрын
So again, the woman has to put in work to make him want to. 🙄
@why4299
2 жыл бұрын
Well. Duh. Nobody will share unless they feel safe
@cyndigooch1162
2 жыл бұрын
Why? I used to share with people who weren't safe at all though, due to my childhood conditioning. I still do to a certain extent, so need to keep working on stopping it, among many other issues. 😊
@sampsonlittle7368
2 жыл бұрын
It’s not men don’t communicate. It’s men won’t communicate. Big difference. He’ll sure communicate if it a big deal going on at work. He’ll communicate with the guys. He doesn’t communicate with women because it’s a manipulation tactic. He has no trouble communicating when he wants something.
@sonyvalencia
2 жыл бұрын
Yup, this is what am saying.
@gjinkalla23
8 ай бұрын
Yup yup who wil latter on walk o eggshells, who will latter on be punished by silent treatment...they don't communicate because we are not important in their eyes. I bet if it was about cars and money and sex: a whole poetry! Lack of communication is neglect, lack of consideration to someone else's needs, it has to be about me and me
@nadiaboudane485
4 ай бұрын
In a good relationship man should communicate
@TT-ls1yz
2 жыл бұрын
That is only an explanation, not an excuse! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Don't get into relationships until you learn basic skills!🙆🏻♀️ What safe place to create and how? Kindergarten? If women also decide not to communicate, imagine the world. No one talks no communication only suffocation🧐🤨🙄😃😂🤣 We all learn lot of wrong things in childhood. As adults, we must grow up emotionally as well. Men or women, everyone must learn basic communication skills to live in happy relationships. Communication is the key to heart 💗
@sheh.9163
2 жыл бұрын
I agree a relationship should be safe for both partners to share openly.
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
I’m walking on eggshells around my husband, he can’t handle real life situations but it’s fine for him to be who he is
@PreciousMethodMan
7 күн бұрын
@sheh.9163 is green should be a in both parties learn to talk with each other at each other and keep it 100 between the two it can be a challenge in overwhelming you have to have the strength in order for you guys to be strong bonded working together
@PreciousMethodMan
7 күн бұрын
@@TheJazzyteia before you said I do you should have been putting things on the table before you understand if he's not a communicator then you should have known that long time ago why are you complaining about it now
@petrabland3519
2 жыл бұрын
Because they are keeping secrets. Come on now‼️🔥
@vfr3589
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
They are afraid to open up
@sonyyung5510
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone got secrets not just men. Yall women got secrets too. When ya nigga be asking you shit like,"What you doing out so late?" Yall be like,"I ain't got to tell you." That's you keeping secrets! Even if you innocent, your silence speaks more volumes than a physics textbook.
@arleneaugustahair8393
2 жыл бұрын
Women tend to bash men when they open up.
@nofybn7794
2 жыл бұрын
@@sonyyung5510 Very wrong. Men keep FAR more secrets.
@Maria-0017
2 жыл бұрын
The men that talk to much worry me, I prefer the strong 💪 silent type, the do-ers not the talkers!
@elizabethjordan5755
2 жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend that talked too much. It grated my nerves. I like guys that are quiet - but not too quiet.
@vfr3589
2 жыл бұрын
Come on! Men don’t communicate because they’re lying
@syncmink
2 жыл бұрын
Men can communicate when they’re interested in us when they want to stray but it just becomes hinder or limited because he was condition. Not buying it. My space is defrost enter my body but not safe to talk things through.
@FyaCharismaTarot
2 жыл бұрын
But they do ALLLLLLLL that yapping while they’re love bombing….where did those words go 🧐
@bbccensored4122
2 жыл бұрын
They're extra quiet when they're hiding something.
@meldrickedwards1892
10 ай бұрын
Nah, just y'all.
@keirranorfleet
2 жыл бұрын
That's not an issue that women should submit to. If you know you have communication issues bc of rooted insecurities then you need therapy and Jesus. Their is no excuse why you should allow your relationship to fail because you don't know how to express yourself. I was raised the same exact way by two! Narcissistic emotionless and souless parents by I found healing and I am not afraid to speak up about how I feel and if I am not appreciated in that relationship then I am not bout to poke my lip out like a child and expect my partner to read my mind and submit to my irrational behavior bc I don't know how to communicate. Do not get into a relationship unit you are healed! If you don't feel safe in a relationship you need to express that!!! Or leave. Why entertain a woman you cannot express yourself to or give her exactly what she needs emotionally to better the relationship???
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
From a person who went the healing process, you have very little grace for those who are where you were. SMH
@keirranorfleet
2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachKenCanion no sir too many men enable men to continue on this kind of behavior some time the truth hurts but we cannot continue to enable these very toxic behaviors that have destroyed families in the black community for centuries! My ex husband was the same way no matter how many times I sat down to talk to him he never opened his mouth! Most of the time it has nothing to do with the safe space it has something to with who they are internally. You can build a fortress around that man and he will still not speak because he is disconnected from who he is and God. That is a work no woman can do that he needs to do in himself first!
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
@@keirranorfleet Its unfortunate that was the man you had. There are many I coach who aren't like that. We can agree to disagree
@Alicia_j
2 жыл бұрын
Should I warm him a bottle and rock him to sleep while I'm at it 😂😂
@okellocarol
Ай бұрын
I wanna come help you 😂
@rebeccagutierrez8170
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like they aren't fully developed. 🤔 not worth it actually. Yet they want to be "the man!" Send them back to mama's house.
@lucylue3585
2 жыл бұрын
Amen. You have to treat him like a CHILD without making him feel like a child🙂 Moms, remember how you handled your four year old. It may sound absurd😒 but it works quite well🙃
@toniaparker3543
2 жыл бұрын
Why does everything has to fall on the woman to recreate a man to use dern common sense!!
@sklw9856
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. These suppose to be grown strong protecting men have to be sheltered.. I'll pass
@chaimomma9198
2 жыл бұрын
Because they don’t have to earn their place in society like women do. They can exist and don’t have to prove their worth just being born male earned their place. We have to live our entire lives proving we are worthy times 100.
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
Whattttttttt? Men have to earn their place in society everyday. Especially a man of color. I respectfully disagree
@happyme2989
2 жыл бұрын
A LIE! Men's do so communicate very well especially, when they come my way pouring out every thing, emotions, feelings, crying 🤷♀️ They be so comfortable around me to whatever shows. Sometimes in my mind I be saying STFU😩 but I just listen and let them vent it off their chest.
@happyme2989
Жыл бұрын
@Sir Cheez I am speaking from FACTS I ain't assuming sh🤷🏾♀️. Not just melanin mens but men's of all race/ethics and strangers. Also, females for some reason ppl is drawn to me like a moth to a flame and tell me EVERYTHINGGGGGG.
@Carmellasandy
2 жыл бұрын
People communicate either verbally with conversation or non verbally by silence. Even the deaf and blind communicate💯
@oratiletsimatsima9643
2 жыл бұрын
Say it with your chest, Sis.
@haggai3.477
2 жыл бұрын
COMMUNICATION IS SPIRITUAL COMMUNION. COMMUNION IS THE SHARING OF FOOD AND DRINK IN AN INTIMATE SETTING. IMAGINE HAVING AN INTIMATE CANDLE LIT DINNER WITH NO FOOD OR DRINK TO SHARE. WORDS ARE SPIRITUAL FOOD. THOUGHTS ARE SPIRITUAL DRINK. MAN IS A SPIRIT BEING. WOMEN FEED A MAN'S FLESH. WIVES FEED A MAN'S SPIRIT. IF THE LANGUAGE OF A MAN IS RESPECT & TO RESPECT SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT VALUABLE, THEN THE VALUE OF A THING IS DETERMINED BY ITS RARITY. RESPECT THEREFORE IS THE ART OF VERBAL CELEBRATION. WHATEVER YOU CELEBRATE WILL COME TO YOU WILLINGLY. GIVE THE PERSON WHAT THEY CANNOT GET ELSEWHERE AND THEY WILL KEEP COMING BACK. IF THE LANGUAGE OF A WOMAN IS LOVE & TO LOVE SOMETHING IS TO FIND IT DESIRABLE, THEN DESIRE IS THE PROCESS OF BRINGING YOUR IMAGINATION TO ITS BOILING POINT. IMAGINATIONS ARE THE CONJURING OF WORDS AS PICTURES. APPEARANCE ACTIVATES DESIRE. CONSEQUENTLY, WHEN YOU FEED A WOMAN'S SOUL, SHE SURRENDERS HER BODY. WHEN YOU FEED A MAN'S SPIRIT, HE SURRENDERS HIS WILL. ONE'S WILL IS THE KEY TO THE DOOR OF THE SOUL. ONE'S WILL IS THE POWER TO OVERCOME/ CONQUER. AGREEMENT IS THE FRUIT OF WILLINGNESS. AGREEMENT OCCURS WHEN TWO WILLS CONNECT.
@Sagefrakrobatik
Жыл бұрын
Real G's move in silence like lasagna
@elmyra.jackson
Жыл бұрын
Please take it from Auntie young women. This man is speaking gold here! I received this advice many years ago and have NEVER had an issue with a man communicating with me!! If anything I'm thinking wow,this man trusts me enough to be this vulnerable? Its highly attractive too!💙
@tricethomas9653
Ай бұрын
They won't listen... just look at the comments 🤦🏿♀️
@elmyra.jackson
Ай бұрын
@@tricethomas9653 You are right and it's sad😢
@patriciarose2342
22 күн бұрын
You are from another generation. Boys today have not become men. Their mothers still change their diapers.
@mallu8868
2 жыл бұрын
“Men do communicate! Just not in the way women do” *goes on to explain why men DO NOT communicate*
@0lovelybelle0
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I’m not the only one that caught this 🤦🏾♀️
@sonofhibbs4425
2 жыл бұрын
Men do communicate..as in ‘’I’m great! Suck mah dick! Hahahahaha!”. That’s how they communicate and not how women do.
@TheJazzyteia
2 жыл бұрын
Why do y’all keep playing this same old broken record that does not work??? Obviously you need to change the way you communicate, how’s the old way of communication working out for you?
@ghettosex123
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheJazzyteia just fine.I get what I want when I want it. You don't understand then I move on.
@MrPhresh25
2 жыл бұрын
@@ghettosex123 Yet again that’s another problem my man’s,that kind of thinking is also toxic it’s like your saying you can talk to another female behind your partners back but yet won’t say anything to your actual partner.I think both men and women need to communicate in a way that’s healthy instead of shutting off their feelings and having things one sided all the time.
@SG-nu7go
2 жыл бұрын
This will not work with a narc
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
No, Thats a different animal
@nikalej6008
2 жыл бұрын
If they use the same amount of effort that they used with a new woman to pursue her to get in her draws and put forth that same effort in an existing relationship with their current woman to make their relationship work than it would work! They don’t need us to create a “safe place” for them to initiate a conversation for sex
@kenyabean7781
2 жыл бұрын
I just don't get it God said a man would be a head to lead But... these men put women in position to do all the leading all the taking..crap well you know they can go out here and cheat don't want to communicate They'.. can go out here and beat don't want to communicate They.. can go out here and be communicating with a man and not the woman he is with but they can't communicate they can sit up there communicate about plotting on a person they got. # they women... all the words in the world. Behind they back But.. then when they get caught up then all of a sudden crickets doing a temper tantrum can't communicate the moral of this whole situation God don't make no mistakes a man can communicate it's just men that are helping them not to communicate just communicate with a man your buddies your homeboys but don't communicate with the woman make the woman take everything and let the man go by free remember when that woman was about to get stoned to death for the act of adultery remember where was the man why wasn't he at trial I'll........ wait Because the men's was up there taking up for the man but they wanted the woman to be stoned that should tell you right there its...not that a man can't communicate we just got enablers out here that helped them not to And... a lot of times they was raised like this#narcissist remember in the Bible God says in that Bible raise your children up right so they won't depart from the faith and do not provoke your kids t o Wrath!!!!!!!!# annything bad!!!! That include how to treat a woman you supposed to bring peace not break her into pieces how are these men acting in that way and it's a shame that the people that pretend to be leaders continue to take up for this Behavior which is so sad and it's causing so many deaths of women all because They don't want to communicate because they want to get away with that mess that they're doing But.. blame it on communication that they only choose not to do when they're being held accountable and blame it on women then I guess these men that are basically taken up for the stuff sounds like the same type of people back then that woman got caught in the very Act of adultery but let the man slip out the back 🚪 once again make the woman suffer but don't hold a man accountable ladies watch out this stuff happened before
@twinkletoes4124
2 жыл бұрын
Men I know communicate way too much. I can't get a word in. Talk to their interest and keep up and watch what happens.
@terriedwards3584
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@sthembisomthembu395
2 жыл бұрын
But are they communicating what you want them to communicate?
@relaxingwaves7817
2 жыл бұрын
Communication is different from talking just to talk. It seems like you're around the ones who only talk. And before anyone comes for me, understand that there is a difference between the two. I can talk up a storm with my man but that can also leave a lot of room for miscommunication and lack of clarity. Spewing words but not getting to the point unless angered or frustrated. Communication consists of clear intent and a clear mind when voicing your feelings.
@vedhacarnaticonlineschool
Ай бұрын
Problem is not when they not communicate ...problem is they even not good at actions and problem is they can comminicate to their mother very well
@kurlenegordon8277
2 жыл бұрын
I have two sons and they are going to communicate like it or not ❤️🙏
@aljhonempress3931
2 жыл бұрын
Dont he dare me one wrong move ina front of me i will be ready to put my fart on my palm and be will know what i eat yesterday 😂😂😘🤣😘🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@sarahotzer827
2 жыл бұрын
I hate the fact that in these 'advice' vidros it is always the woman who is wrong and who needs to change. Men never get blamed, never get asked to do the work and are always victimized
@sjames5777
9 ай бұрын
This makes getting to know them so challenging.
@zsofiakohalmi4186
2 жыл бұрын
I m sorry but you can t shut down for 2 weeks ignoring my messages and without even asking how I am. Just because you have trouble at work. There is a min.level of respect to tell the woman what is going on.
@kaemara
2 жыл бұрын
This is unacceptable. They want to condition women to comunícate only when is convenient and beneficial for them. I am not having it.
@asanchez-02
2 жыл бұрын
okay just disappear to them and dont communicate aswell , the next thing u know they will looking for u and finally wanna talk to u.
@wakeup6759
2 жыл бұрын
True indeed that men have different ways of communicating for different reasons, but if it's a WOMAN's job to CREATE a safe space for him in order to communicate, then he need NOT to be in a relationship with a woman; he definitely needs a relationship with a mental health coach/therapist because this opens up a whole other world altogether where the woman isn't equipped to handle his emotional and mental problems!
@shellaagbor7336
2 жыл бұрын
This attitude frustrates wives inparticular. Men never seem to know what to do or say, when and where! e.g being sensitive, emotionally available or appologising. Yet they communicate well when it's time to Emphasise thier authority, or Ask for Sex, and also wooing Side chicks. Its almost like marrying them ruins connection with them. Thanks for sharing Coach🙂.
@wandab172
2 жыл бұрын
An unhealed man is what you just described. The trauma tucked away in his subconscious mind needs to be addressed
@jojosbizarreadventures
2 жыл бұрын
They want you to communicate and share feelings/problems until you get into an argument then they use whatever you told them against you and make you feel even more insecure about those feelings/problems even more
@cwhite8860
2 жыл бұрын
Ita time to men to get conditioned to communicate. This is what MEN need to do, as they get comfortable at work, the foottball outing with friends, on the golf course, etc. Time to step the game up MEN and be men. Stop making excuses
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
Provide a safe environament and he will. If not, he won't. Its that simple
@cwhite8860
2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachKenCanion I agree with you BUT, a grown woman's intention is to provide a safe environment at day one and woman have been hearing this and doing this for YEARS. A man doesn't need a safe environment to express himself in a work environment to make that money, why because that's what he values. Let a man not communicate at work and he will get fired. If he doesn't value a woman, he not communicating. It is time for MEN to STOP complaining about their environment and make DECISION to move in the space and spirit of maturity! IT'S TIME! No more BLAME no more Excuses! Or seek therapy!
@emanuelfer456
2 жыл бұрын
@@cwhite8860 Madam, a man is never going to open up to a woman who screams and uses excessive caps lock unless he is a loser and is desperate to get her. That's just the reality. See, this is 1st step to make a guy more comfortable talking with you. If that comment is what you've been doing for years, screaming your man to open up I'm not surprised it doesn't work.
@cwhite8860
2 жыл бұрын
@@emanuelfer456 The refererence of MEN is not screaming. It references an adult male. There is a difference between a MAN and BOY. Just so you are aware, I have never had an issue with any MAN being able to get vulnerable or open up to me. I am very familiar with what a man needs and what to do to assist him in moving in his space of comfort and peace! 😉
@emanuelfer456
2 жыл бұрын
@@cwhite8860 I'm glad to read that and I'm aware about that difference.
@BaldingClamydia
2 жыл бұрын
Also, we (women) have a way of not being very direct about issues sometimes. We tend to like when they read an emotion in our face and ask about it. I learned I had to be WAY more direct about my problems. He's not ignoring you, he's just not as good at reading people as we are! A way of creating that safe space is being able to back down off a fit when you find out you misread him. It happens 🤷♀️ I've started chewing out my husband only to learn he has no idea what I'm talking about, and that's why he's not acting the way I think he should. Final paragraph, sorry, but this is the most important! When dealing with *people,* we tend to assume negative intentions when we have no information about what's going on in a person's head. Most people *don't* have negative intentions, they act without a lot of forethought. I heard this somewhere else and it's helped me a lot in dealing with people in my life.
@EsiriE
2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾💯
@wakandaisatmtzion
2 жыл бұрын
@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 take almost nothing personal, stay calm. When necessary calmly explain such as to the boys, "I feel ignored when you don't follow directions". Kind of drop it and it will stick with them and they will aim to improve. Give hugs. Mental ones to yourself included. There's some useful people on this platform.... along with this gentleman, I find ▪︎Tony Gaskins ▪︎ shera7 ▪︎ love Dorsey ▪︎ Kevin hicks ▪︎mindful attraction toxic dating coach. Useful and honest and experienced. Good luck Bonita!!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡💫🔥🧡🤗🧡🧡🧡🧡🔥💯😄
@wakandaisatmtzion
2 жыл бұрын
@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 Cynthia g too. But don't lose hope . Watch Shera7 or Prince Michael
@tiannagray8102
2 жыл бұрын
This was really well said
@tid8583
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so tired of hearing about what men need and want. Who f$cking cares.move on to a man that will.
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
When I tell men what women want , they say the exact thing that you said. So much hatred of each other. SMH
@tid8583
2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachKenCanion There are not many podcasts that discuss women's needs and wants. All we hear is what men want. Society has such low expectations for men, why Should there be yet another podcast telling us what they want.
@shereses.3298
2 жыл бұрын
Every single time I hear what a man needs. I say boy do I wish some dude would have given me exactly what's being described. I guess I am a Man with a v**ina. Learn something new everyday.
@sklw9856
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. he need this need that.. but if you say you need it, you have to understand, be patient, multiply..etc you asking to much. I see these men now are complicated
@faithenichols6947
2 жыл бұрын
Well it's time to teach our children to communicate with us and each other so they are comfortable communicating as adults.
@seargeantfirstclass
Жыл бұрын
Boys are conditioned not to express emotions while girls can express themselves to the fullest. So in a way you'll be taking away his masculinity and when he grows up, he'll be so feminine that he'll start to dress up as a woman.
@aileengordon1654
2 жыл бұрын
That coach that's one thing I do not agree with anything they want they don't have no problem communicating usually when a woman wants to sit down and communicate with the man it's some things that need to be ironed out and figured out but they won't so when they do communicate with you about what they want but you don't communicate back with them then we get nowhere but yeah men know exactly how to communicate like I said if it's something they want they don't have no problem with saying it
@christineribone9351
2 күн бұрын
Screw that BS! Unless I actually HEAR it and SEE it, I don't assume anything. HE's the leader, he has to give and share first. HE's got to create a safe and trusting place for sharing. HE creates the environment, not the woman.
@horschiday9449
2 жыл бұрын
Oh com’on 🙄. So it’s our responsibility to learn how they communicate while they don’t learn how WE (women) communicate? 🙄
@junevmarshall4156
Ай бұрын
I raised my son 2 "communicate. Also....that is was "ok" 2 cry. "Shame" on those parents who raise their "sons" the opposite way.👎.
@GaryAllen-v4h
8 ай бұрын
Women don't asked a men to communicate
@terezagoncalves2180
2 жыл бұрын
Why women have to understand and find a way to communicate with grow up man ? Should it not be something for both to understand and learn to communicate in a mutual beneficial way ? If men are conditioned, so are women. Neither man or women should be put on a pedestal, both have needs to be meet when they choose to be together.. This is not about men or women is about human beings co existing in the same world in mutual respect understanding and compassion for each other's unique nature because life experiences can be hard at times for both and processed differently by both.. A real man understands a woman's nature by engaging and being with her and vice versa. More than ever man are finding it difficult to keep the women under their oath and starting to feel insecure about it and are working hard to maintain the status quo. Both men and women have a mind to think a heart to feel and a soul for guidance. Both men and women need mutual Love respect and understanding. We cannot be complete beings if we don't function with mindbody heart and soul. Remember Ladies and Gentleman it takes two to tango. Much Love to both Males and Females from a non feminist but a human beingnist. Let's remove the labels and get to the essence of things and then we might find a common ground that is mutually beneficial.
@baybeh3578
Күн бұрын
Thank you! 💯 the relationship is made up of 2. It needs to be 50/50
@shesaid20
9 ай бұрын
All anyone has to do is read “Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus”.. it’s an older book but perfectly spells out how men think and how women think so each can learn each others language. I highly recommend it…
@maryt7959
2 жыл бұрын
You are a great coach ….. change the men and tell them females love men who are talking tons . Females are having to deal with too many things to deal with this too .
@CoachKenCanion
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you
@gjinkalla23
8 ай бұрын
Playing the dumb and incompetent has rewarded them more than playing the smart one 😂 Man weaponize communication to control situations. How: using your mind against you by trying to make sense, in actuallity it is designed to keep you confused, engaged and controlled ❤
@erikaespinet3334
8 ай бұрын
He can create the space himself. No way I will ever do that.
@SallyM-hi1mh
2 жыл бұрын
Or men could take responsibility for their lack of communication skills and go to therapy. Why is it always the partner’s job to do the work around this?
@ssafariyt66
Ай бұрын
They sure do lol they talk just as much as we do if they feel comfortable enough. Don't make them regret it.. ❤
@jaydoherty6063
11 ай бұрын
I try my best but she doesn’t give a shit. If you don’t care or value it ok fine but don’t ask us later on why we don’t communicate anymore……..waist of time if you don’t value it or want to help us through it
@Pamela-fy6di
Ай бұрын
RUBBISH ALL MY RELATIONSHIPS THE MEN DID COMMUNICATE...
@evelyneuwamahoro884
2 жыл бұрын
He speaks out loud. For Sex thing idk, why up to now themselves create that safe place Hhh, this is insane, sex they do it rapidly. But for other thing they don't heeeeehhahahahaha
@bigtalkpodcastwithrosalyn8825
2 жыл бұрын
Sound like fearful men
@rosmawatiramli
2 ай бұрын
I noticed all my dates talk a lot but whenever I want to tell my story on anything they cut me off expecting me to listen to him but never give a chance for me to talk. When we communicate he don't listen but if his male friends talk he listen.😢😢😢😢😂😂😂😂
@xrc7445
2 жыл бұрын
Is it an example of men being unable to communicate the fact that the audio is barely heard?
@exposinghiddentruth3590
2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, a man will open up & be vulnerable at times, when he knows he can trust you, with his heart & feelings. If a man's woman beats him up with harsh words, when he opens up to her, he will never put himself in that position for you to do that to him again. This is why alot of men keep alot of things to himself, if he feels like his woman is the type who will talk to him harshly & look at him as being weak, when he trys to confide in her. Question is; Can your man trust you not to bruise his heart, if he shares his feelings with you about something? All it takes is one time to bruise his heart, when he confides in you. Because if you blow it, he will shutdown that part of himself, because it will make him look weak to you. No man wants to look weak to his woman. Especially if she has shown that she looks at that part of him as weakness. And he might find himself around another woman who doesn't bruise heart, when he puts himself in a vulnerable position. Hopefully this is helping someone to do better in this area. Because when a man opens up to you in a weak moment, savor those rare moments & don't blow it, because it's a chance for you & your man to develop a deeper bond with each other as a couple.
@kingcos13
Жыл бұрын
Then u try to express your feelings then they say your feelings aren't right or you're wrong.. some women don't know how to listen when a man is trying to say something....
@heatherceravolo161
Сағат бұрын
Please Doba video on "how to create that safe space for a man"
@CoachKenCanion
6 минут бұрын
Thanks for your advice
@LindaMSN-yi8iy
2 ай бұрын
Men communicate to a woman he loves. Guys sorry those who stay with silent men he doesnt loves you. If he loves you he tries by all means
@tianlivingston7768
2 жыл бұрын
Nah he needs to grow up
@meldrickedwards1892
10 ай бұрын
Nah, the real reason is because their feelings can, and most probably will be used against him in an argument.
@beautya5835
2 жыл бұрын
Please go heal or leave me alone at this point 🤦🏽♀️
@D33720
Жыл бұрын
Or...OOOORRRRR she just dont need to use it as a fuckin weapon when she argues
@antonetteboholst1801
2 жыл бұрын
Girls want male who can communicate & talk with his partner gf or wife
@nathaienldavis4299
2 жыл бұрын
What if I told you a mystery about the body and the church and the true teaching of Christ how he said love your wife like he loved the church.to those that have an ear to hear and a mind to understand would you be worthy
@vhayashi7369
2 жыл бұрын
Yep but there are so few real men anymore they won't even commit. They're all damaged or taken.
@honeypotdoulatiffany
10 ай бұрын
And knowing the difference between communicating and venting are important. Save the vent sessions for counseling. I’m all ears for everything else positive talk, goals, hobbies, how was your day etc..
@m.x.refrigxolani8365
2 жыл бұрын
They say suck it up, and then when the man blows up, " what's wrong with him, he's nac narcissistic". Society, please leave su alone, we don't owe you anything!!
@KimberlyGray-cd3lt
21 күн бұрын
My man don't like me going A thru z when I talk,I have to cut to the chase,but I like telling my stories , Lol ❤
@CoachKenCanion
19 күн бұрын
True story
@Pricelesstt
Жыл бұрын
Same for me as a women. I was told the same things growing up and I won’t open up if I don’t feel safe
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