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@hamsass3818
4 ай бұрын
One who have all qualities comes together and even after physical, the same quality persist then they are the husband or wife material…
@somenuttysquirrel
4 ай бұрын
6:55 ..."Dude don't wanna play another dude's saved game."
@BunnyWatson-k1w
3 ай бұрын
I have heard many women tell me to marry your best friend. The problem is many women do not have close friendships with men. They leave that role to other women. I would say from experience the wife does not have to be your bff, but should be a friend. There should be respect before love. And do not wait for a "Miss Perfect" as a wife. Choose a "Just Good Enough" you can grow old with and raise a family.
@Vincent67337
3 ай бұрын
If a woman says she is trans then she is not into you. Most likely not really trans. Women do that to f with you.
@TMMAAK
3 ай бұрын
Do you want the best dating advice? Don't Date, in fact, never Date at all, search for a wife instead of searching for a girlfriend. Girlfriends are blocking the road to find a wife. They're just temporary pleasure. The same goes for women or girls. Boyfriends are blocking the road to find a husband. Search for a husband from the very beginning, not a chad boyfriend who'll only pump and dump. Hookup isn't an option either. Only those with animal's brain 🧠 enjoy hooking left and right and think they'll find the person they want. Don't hate me, I'm just stating facts💯 %
@rustydusty3646
4 ай бұрын
People are to focused on what they want from someone rather than thinking if they are being a partner that someone would want
@whitneyc.3257
4 ай бұрын
That’s a very important thought. I agree with you. It would be nice if he did a video asking people about that
@llIlIlllII
4 ай бұрын
They were asked what they want. They're answering that question.
@rustydusty3646
4 ай бұрын
@@llIlIlllII that's right I was just saying that in general that's what people focus on
@LemonGreenism
4 ай бұрын
It goes both ways but honestly nothing beat being fulfilled by one’s life as then the person coming in your life doesn’t have to bring anything honestly. Just be themselves. That’s true love. The rest, it’s transactional
@tuka24a
3 ай бұрын
I wish everyone to find true love. Life is to short to waste time with wrong people. I regret date few people and thank God to help me be ready to find my current partner. Women look for men who will be your best friend and those who will be there for you no matter your circumstances. 😉🥰❤️🙏
@selinov
4 ай бұрын
This channel can be summarized in one sentence: "People are often shocked to realize that life is not the way the internet told them it is." 😧
@creatancremanova7097
4 ай бұрын
or maybe people just wanna look good in front of the camera and come across as good whereas privately they would tell you sth. else? (not everyone of course)
@PolishBehemoth
4 ай бұрын
facts.
@PolishBehemoth
4 ай бұрын
@@creatancremanova7097 or maybe not
@steelreserve9050
4 ай бұрын
@@PolishBehemothpeople talk sht all the time none of us no them
@somenuttysquirrel
4 ай бұрын
...or a Disney flick.
@wendypanozzo9133
4 ай бұрын
I don't envy young single people today. I've been married for 30 years and it was so much easier back then to date. Seems way too many hoops to jump through to find an honest person.
@Billy-bc8pk
3 ай бұрын
Yup, an honest person who doesn't have an LAX-sized baggage claim.
@JaydonJohnson-ig3qt
3 ай бұрын
Much harder now days
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Not just honest but someone willing to stick by you through thick and thin good and bad. That's one element that's missing. My dad (who's been happily married to my mom since the 70's) said that to me. These days, people will only be with you when it's good, but not when things get bad.. (now I'm not talking about abuse bad, but just the normal type of bad).
@thomasdevos4732
3 ай бұрын
Why would a permanent partner be the pinnacle? Wasn't your parents marriage traumatizing enough? Truth is we're not monogamous, and some of us now got the opportunity to life up to that. And find it great to life like a bachelor in my thirties, and can't see that ever changing.
@atlfun08
3 ай бұрын
Okay like your perfect. Sure. The best persons on the planet. And your not full of yourself at all. Everybody young should envy you cause your so perfect with your perfect life. Sure.
@Wistz90
4 ай бұрын
People are too focused on the idea, fantasy and narrative, "Who I'd like you to be," vs. "Who they actually are." We project all sorts of unrealistic expectations onto others and then act all shocked when we realize they're as flawed as the rest of us.
@TropicalRedFlower
3 ай бұрын
It took the guy 40 years and many children to learn you shouldn't sleep around because it has consequences... 🤦♀️
@matttate920
3 ай бұрын
As well as the butt stare girl too. She seems more disillusioned, I'd say. At 45 he's peaking.. .
@Avogadros_number
2 ай бұрын
@@matttate920thinking the same thing. “Guys don’t want to dedicate themselves to my children” is a wild thing to say. She expects men who aren’t the father to treat her kids like they’re his own. Where is the father? She’s only 25 with multiple kids? I’d steer clear regardless of how nice her butt is, especially with that mentality. The guy with multiple children is in a similar boat, but his tone, and at least his attempt to take responsibility for his mistakes made him a little more mature than the butt woman.
@ST-rj8iu
4 ай бұрын
Many people don't want a relationship. A lot of people want validation. Relationships are not about being validated. It is about someone to spend time with on a daily basis.
@Billy-bc8pk
3 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head here.
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Dating is practice for a marriage in my opinion (and I think a lot would agree with me). You can also get validated from a relationship because it can mean that someone wants you or they are deriving their happiness from being with you and spending time with you. I do get what you're saying though but I think it's WAY more than just having someone to spend time with everyday.
@josephang9927
3 ай бұрын
True. I still want that validation, tho
@simbz194
3 ай бұрын
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984No it's practice for divorce now
@nataliaalfonso2662
3 ай бұрын
@@josephang9927you cannot get validation from external sources.
@adamweston4152
3 ай бұрын
I'm nearly 54 and the modern dating thing is so complicated and weighted down with over the top expectations and I wish it could go back to the old way to meet people, people used to walk down the street and catch someone's eye and smile at each other and that alone was a clear sign of interest in you so you would talk to eachother and maybe walk and talk with eachother and then if you felt confident enough then you would ask them out for a date.. so simple and crystal clear unlike today where people don't look at eachother and are afraid to speak with another person incase you get labelled a creep, where did it all go wrong??!!.
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
3 ай бұрын
Social media
@rji5377
3 ай бұрын
People don't want to put in the work anymore.
@skillsphere9245
3 ай бұрын
women dont do this no more, they dont have to smile in real life they will do that on insta lol. i remember those time u mention i had a small glimpse of it this was till 2010 ish after that it all vaporised
@AnthonyManzio
2 ай бұрын
Never get married all lies.
@hahahahaha7824
2 ай бұрын
@@skillsphere9245 The offline dating we know sorta died like 10 years ago. so I agree with the time frame. It's just huge unending one-night stands and one side is upset over the one that got away.
@MiaTheDreamer
4 ай бұрын
I've learned a lot from my past two relationships, investing over 16 years in them.. Despite the challenges, I'm happy to have finally found the one.. Our relationship is built on communication, mutual respect, and trust, with no backstabbing or cheating. My life is now filled with love and gratitude. I have a stable life, a good job, and now I feel like a complete woman.. ❤❤❤ I love you Tim..
@michaelhard9765
3 ай бұрын
Have the courage to be who you are and be honest with others. Let them go if they don’t reciprocate. And remember that weak men are abusive and spiteful. Strong men are loving and kind.
@Libra_One
2 ай бұрын
“Dark times are the building times…” Love this!
@chelsea7755
3 ай бұрын
I honestly feel beyond grateful after watching this. I met my husband in highschool (13), started to date at 15, married at 32. I wish everyone a partner that is just as loyal, hardworking and considerate as my husband. We all deserve love and I hope you guys focus on being the best partner, whilst also focusing on finding one.
@Jay-ef2ii
2 ай бұрын
You got lucky at 13. Many and I mean many will not get lucky even at 32 years of age. July 2024. USA
@timtravels116
4 ай бұрын
This may be novel, but find someone you want to be with more than anything. More than your “friends,” more than the TV, your phone, or a video game, more than drugs, alcohol, or other vices, more than work, or the gym, or shopping. Then do things you don’t necessarily like, and they’ll reciprocate. I don’t like shopping for home decor, craft stuff, or plants. My wife doesn’t like going to baseball, football, and hockey games. Turns out in 33 years together she’s gone to dozens of sporting events, and I’ve loaded hundreds of plants in the car.
@pdjtw
4 ай бұрын
Really...? I don't go to the gym but I asked him to take me to the gym and he said no 😂cuz he wants to be at the gym himself, but we're still friends now so I guess... it takes time maybe hahahahaa
@timtravels116
4 ай бұрын
@@pdjtw I didn’t say don’t go to gym with her. I said to want to be with her more than going to the gym. Couples will naturally get “alone” time in the normal course of life so making an effort to be together is a big deal.
@WhoWellOk
3 ай бұрын
Doesn’t exist it’s why I’m a monk
@Haruzak1
Ай бұрын
@@WhoWellOkit's exist. But a lot of people don't want put efforts to love someone. They rather love their somethings.
@michaelpowell9164
Ай бұрын
Listen to what they say, but watch what they do. Big difference.
@ABC-tt7qe
4 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this. Everyone was well spoken, communicated their thoughts very well and had an air of resolution to conflict, more so that simply complaining. I love how you edited this piece, too. Very well done, I’ll most certainly be subscribing, merci!
@Sprouht
4 ай бұрын
Merci a toi!
@Jay-ef2ii
2 ай бұрын
@@Sprouht Many people will be single and are single because they lack good chemistry. It will be very hard for a man to find love if he does not have great chemistry (regardless of looks, and age). Looking like Ron Moss can be a plus but if he does not have any chemistry then he will not move forward with women. July 6, 2024. USA
@perpetualprocrastinator
4 ай бұрын
Go monk mode and get out of this circus.
@brunosco
4 ай бұрын
That’s too easy. You can go monk to learn how to live with yourself and improve, but after a period, I think it’s more of an excuse for not being daring and adventurous enough. I still respect your choice, but it seems to me you are fooling yourself.
@Assassin274
4 ай бұрын
1000% best thing to do. I did it and was extremely hard at first but so worth it, just like all things. Don't be afraid to be alone but that doesn't mean you have to be awful and judgmental and critical to others. Control what you can control and achieve greatness
@53strat55
3 ай бұрын
@@brunosco nope, bet you have not tried it. Too easy lmfao.
@brunosco
3 ай бұрын
@@53strat55 I get it. In my case, though, monk mode is the default mode, so I have more than just tried it. But it’s not really by choice, it’s just harder for me to find myself in a relationship, sustain it, make it work… When I say it’s too easy, I know it can be tough, but still too easy as a choice because it’s dismissing the beauty and potential of relationships and the efforts required for it to work well. That’s how I see it.
@53strat55
3 ай бұрын
@@brunosco its my default mode too but to say its easy is a wrong statement in my opinion. Its all subjective, you prob had some of your hardships or experiences that you learned of and made you able to go into that mode. Many people have FOMO. I think MONK mode and working on yourself to come back in a evolved way is simply good. I also think its a more masculine way of approaching things. I do not deny the beauty of relationships but being in monk mode and comming back really made me more confident in regards to the wrong type of women.
@BraveOne7
4 ай бұрын
Don’t look! Stop the meaningless life of partying and hook up culture! Have the mindset of to marry and sex is a sacred act! Focus on yourself, dreams, and God until you find them! Your true love will come to you naturally! That’s how I found my true love, 3 years ago and now we have two beautiful children!❤
@MettaForest
4 ай бұрын
Yeah right try living in California
@GT03Music
4 ай бұрын
@@MettaForest I mean I do. but God is still the priority I used to hook up do lots of drugs and then God found me. and found out it’s all meaningless if there’s no love behind it. Lust and looks can be deceiving what truly matters is someone who has respect for their own body and has self control and has good morals and character. If you want to keep looking your going to keep finding the wrong one or just end up in a toxic relationship which isn’t healthy; years will pass and the love for each other will grow cold. most marriages succeed when the woman and man come together and wait to have sex before they’re married and actually get to know each other becoming best friends. Also everytime you have sex that’s a soul tie and you transfer energy with each other whether that be good energy or bad energy.
@Commentator488
4 ай бұрын
Not everyone believes in God, you just described your priorities but priorities and standards are individual
@Billy-bc8pk
3 ай бұрын
@@Commentator488 True, but it all comes back to God if you want a centered and fruitful life that isn't themed around materialism and selfishness.
@bereniceg777
3 ай бұрын
Congratulations 👏🏻
@fatenaljmmal2746
4 ай бұрын
I think the huge wrong thing in dating today is that ppl don't know about their life trauma and treat each other from trauma glasses
@venicec3310
3 ай бұрын
Can yall shut the fuck up about trauma damnjust throwin that word around for the sake of it
@snaakie
Ай бұрын
Yeah my ex had this as well. She had trust issues and couldn't commit to me, she was so freaking scared for the simplest commitment things. At some point she wanted a relationship with me, I told her: "I don't think you are ready yet". The next day she came crying to me that she was scared and wasn't ready yet. But when I told her about my perspective on her actions she just didn't want believe me or give the thought a try. It was just a NO
@fatenaljmmal2746
Ай бұрын
@@snaakie it's harder than it looks to face our issues, sorry for you
@Mspollypocket
3 ай бұрын
The stylish gentleman at 1:47 knows what's what 🙌🏽♥️ Incredible advice
@per_growth
4 ай бұрын
A woman wants someone who can give them physical and financial security - but once they get used to that security - most will fall into the trap of forgetting what it was like without it, and start to wonder (not act on it) if her life has become boring and mundane. A man wants someone who is physically attractive (sex) - but once they get used to that - most will fall into the trap of wondering what it's like to be with other women and that his life has become boring and mundane. What we don't realize is that "boring and mundane" is what makes us content (and yes, happy). Going home every night to your wife's cooking - can be boring - until she doesn't cook for you anymore. Going thru the same routine over the weekends - can be boring - until you have no one to spend the weekends with. Having the same Monday date night for years - can be boring - until you find yourself sitting alone at home on Monday nights.
@rpaafourever7908
4 ай бұрын
But on the other hand, if they married just for security or looks initially without any thought of evolving and growing, then they are right to wonder that (The truth of the soul is only heard in boring safety). Because either then their relationship deepens (both people work hard for it, not just one or none) or it falls apart.
@per_growth
4 ай бұрын
@@rpaafourever7908 I believe it would be fair to say that men expect (or would appreciate) if the wife maintains her looks and keeps the intimacy alive. And the husband must be consistent in providing for the family. If not, the marriage does stand a good chance of failing - which is why more than half of marriages do.
@per_growth
4 ай бұрын
@@Alex-tu1zy For sure. I agree with you 100% in this regard. I do believe that just because one is married and have children, they should let themselves go. I may be old fashioned in this regard, but I believe a woman should try as much as they can to stay attractive for their husbands (and vice versa) - eventually, it will be near impossible, but at that age - the husban may not even be interested in sex anymore. The same holds true for the husband.
@per_growth
4 ай бұрын
@@Alex-tu1zy Very good point. Personally, I wouldn't leave. I'm old school. But it won't help matters if either of us lets go of ourselves or either of us stops trying to be the partner we want for our spouse. Specially if the other spouse is trying so hard. The point is, a marriage is never about getting married - it's about working everyday to build that relationship. Never neglecting the needs of your spouse. I see a lot of it around me, once they have kids, the wife forgets the husband and focuses solely on the kids. They get married and the husband lets himself go and there goes the intimacy. Once you do, that is a very slippery slope.
@Commentator488
4 ай бұрын
@@per_growth Wife is focused on kids because she’s probably the only parent that is focused on kids, lol Besides, most women work, in this economy is nearly impossible for a man to provide enough for the whole family. However, many men work only on their job and think that making lunch, cleaning and taking care of the children is not their responsibility so they watch tv when they get back from work while their wives clean and cook after work and then they expect her to be intimate when she’s exhausted from all that work. That’s why there are so many divorces.
@ShaniRajak-iy6jn
3 ай бұрын
Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!! The daily Jesus devotion has been a huge part of my transformation. God is Good 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌was owing a loan of £47k to the bank for my son's brain surgery(Samuel). Now I am no longer owning after I invested £6500 and got my payout of £290k every month, God bless Sandrina Edmondson 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
@LOVE-ye1eg
3 ай бұрын
Hello how do you make such monthly, I am a born again Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🙁of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
@ShaniRajak-iy6jn
3 ай бұрын
You'll surely reach her
@ShaniRajak-iy6jn
3 ай бұрын
she's active on What's app
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3 ай бұрын
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@ShaniRajak-iy6jn
3 ай бұрын
Tell her that I referred you🙏🏿🙏🏿
@jmo4521
3 ай бұрын
The more you have in common the better. Agree on issues of faith, character and life goals. Don't sleep with a person before marriage. Watch what they do when you say the word "No." Reflect on their family because they will become a big part of your life together.
@kinzelurban
3 ай бұрын
As a teenager and in my twenties we just had fun,with friends,we went out all the time,we met so many guys at clubs,bars,hung out with groups of people..very sociable and you naturally met and gravitated towards someone you liked! Easy to meet someone in the 90s. Just get out there and do something you enjoy and you could meet someone who likes the dame thing
@TheDailyRevelation
3 ай бұрын
Team mentality. I love that. That is one attribute that every person should look for in a partner. Its US against all others. Not us vs each other.
@sportysas85
4 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this video and it was good to hear people's opinions. I think modern dating is tough everywhere in the world no matter where you live and I live in the UK. Sadly, I think dating apps and social media do cause issues in terms of people getting distracted, have unrealistic expectations and think they can find someone better and not focus on really getting to know somebody properly. Social connections in real life don't seem to happen as much now compared to 20 years ago which is a shame. I recommend going to social groups and real life events or volunteering with a charity and making connections that way be it a friendship or a romantic relationship.
@OkayAlright1
2 ай бұрын
I have been with my husband for 15 years. 2 kids. We met at 19. He always says what he values most about our relationship is how we can talk for endless hours about big and little things alike. It is what I treasure most about him as well. I'd say to find someone you can't stop talking to. We are still growing and changing today, and as we do, we forgive one another for mistakes we make and continue talking because the goal is not competitive, it's a, "if and when we eventually rise, we rise together" mentality. I think a lot of couples leave their mate behind when times get tough, but a good relationship is all about how you weather the storms that will indefinitely come.
@vnel96
4 ай бұрын
The woman in black jacket with grey hoodie has some golden advice❤
@hahahahaha7824
2 ай бұрын
you can tell that she has been through some tough times
@ThaiTalkwithPaddy
4 ай бұрын
Great video Will. Thoroughly enjoyed hearing from a diverse range of interviewees
@dip5635
3 ай бұрын
People don't bother on putting effort into one person when you can just go back to your app and swipe for the next person. The illusion of options.
@jimsullivanyoutube
3 ай бұрын
Be careful what you wish for. Go your own way. Follow your heart. Enjoy your life. Have a relationship with yourself. Other people can really f- up your life.
@bimsarafernando8027
3 ай бұрын
You always find the best & quality people for your videos it's amazing
@realSimoneCherie
3 ай бұрын
I’ve been married seven years and the biggest difference I see between dating and a legal, monogamous commitment is the just lack of focus on GIVING, selflessly giving to someone else. Knowing what you want in a partner is NOT enough to make a good relationship, you need to know what your shortcomings are in being able to show up as a strong partner for someone else - where are you impatient, stingy, close-minded, controlling, passive or short-tempered? All these issues stunt your ability to meet someone ELSE’s needs - knowing those will be very different than yours. Bringing to a relationship only the things that YOU also want out of a relationship, means the only person you are capable of being with, is yourself
@wchunt8988
Ай бұрын
I'm an older man, so far too often I think about the harm that social media brings to our culture in this day and age. That being said I wish I could have seen this video 30 or even 35 years ago, then perhaps my life would have turned out differently. Thank you for sharing.
@alexanderbonardi4514
3 ай бұрын
The lady in the black pearlecent jacket and the white hoodie, has all the right answers, she clearly has figured out some tough s#@t. If I lived there I would have no issues to walking up to her and just say "Hello" 😊 like a normal and well rounded human being. Maybe ask her out also 😉
@trqster
4 ай бұрын
My advice as an older guy: never listen to women about dating advice. You're welcome!
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
They say one thing and do the other.
@santostv.
4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@georgelopez4193
3 ай бұрын
I’m from up there I put in work. I hope these videos never make me upset. Good so far, bro bro
@young5395
3 ай бұрын
Im tired of people lying about wanting to be in a relationship when they want to be either entertained, want to be worshiped, or they want to take everything from you. Here's the real question. When it feels like the world has fallen apart (lets say a death in the family) can you, as a woman support me back into my role as a man? Do you see yourself as above me? Can we have disagreements where you don't try and win by emotionally destroying me (women been getting away with this ish for too long. You even crash out your female friends and then they go on recovery arcs too.) just to win? Do you care about how you feel or do you genuinely care about how we feel together? I am ready to sit at the table and discuss what our future looks like together. What are you looking for when you sit down?
@maldo72
2 ай бұрын
This was shot in Washington Square Park in NYC... in my teens, this was a mixing place of musicians and drug dealers (mid-80s) .. where 8th Street was the place to be... Rocky Horror Show ... this pace has been GENTRIFIED... It drives me crazy how the village has been turned into a 5 guy cheeseburger corp place
@sorooshd7895
4 ай бұрын
Talking about average working professionals here, women want attention and serious efforts by men to feel right and men want easy going and pleasant women, and both sides are already exhausted with their everyday lives, there is a conflict of interest there to begin with, now add multiple layers of shallow social and show off apps like Instagram and dating apps and the result is not surprising at all, rarely you can be comfortably yourself and find the right partner, just my thoughts.
@hahahahaha7824
2 ай бұрын
I find it interesting that not many people are noticing how demanding the woman is in the video lol... I kinda could tell why she ended up with a guy that was already married.
@Constellasian
Ай бұрын
The guy that almost got catfished by a trans! That happened to one of my friends. The filters and other programs available now is making it easy for people to hide many things. He immediately noticed when they met in person on their first date. He said everything about "her" was off. The voice was the biggest sign.
@eashwar22
4 ай бұрын
Choose a life partner who has same interests like you. For eg. compatibility in choice of food(veg/Non Veg), Spirutuality, Fitness... So that, both will have lot of things to discuss about and lot of time to enjoy together. Also, don't be in a hurry. Take at least 1 year time to decide if he/she is the right one. And in that time period you both should've spent lots of time together which would expose the true nature of the other person...
@mateopetit1745
4 ай бұрын
my message would be, there is time to struggle, there is to be happy, try to get the most knowledge from your past experience. plz take THE TIME TO GROW ALONE OR WITH SOMEONE ELSE, it's a journey, not a marathon.
@jaughnekow
4 ай бұрын
Yes, humans have a weird obsession with competition and not growing. Patience, understanding and growth helps.
@ranasaleh7655
3 ай бұрын
People are so much interesting and to listen to there point of view is amazing this message came all the way from Egypt!
@abdulhannan0107
Ай бұрын
Love isn't a feeling it's a responsibility. Cause responsibility never goes away but feelings does.
@ekoller
Ай бұрын
That guy had the lg tone headphones!!!! That brings me back. Good times.
@HaleyMary
3 ай бұрын
The guy who talked about going on a first date and then not hearing from the person and the person not being able to make a plan for weeks, I could relate to that. There was a guy I liked who I went out for coffee with and he asked me to see a movie with him, which I said yes to and looked forward to that, but then he never followed through. even though I tried following up with him and asking when would be a good day to make a plan. Also, I find that it's difficult to meet anyone today because so many people are glued to their smartphones. You can't make a connection with anyone if you are looking at a screen all the time.
@SeemsLogical
Ай бұрын
My own sister was in the same scenario as the girl in the thumbnail. It went from "My boyfriend has a wife" to "my boyfriend has a wife, 3 kids and several other mistressses" in the span of 5 years. My sister was under the impression that he would leave his wife for my sister. His wife is younger than my sister, came from the same country, shares the same religion and is much further along in her career than my sister. He would be downgrading to ditch his wife for my sister who believes she is prettier than his wife and therefore superior in every way... And yet he still cheats on you with his wife and several other women. My advice to my sister was "if he was going to leave his wife for you he would have done it by now. You're wasting your time with him. Move on." Her response was "I like what I like." Still with him 7 years later... The man is question is a lawyer so he has money. And he works out regularly so he has looks. But morality, integrity and devotion he does not have. He's the type of guy who give guys a bad name... But I doubt he will change. His wife is either oblivious or complicit with his cheating and that's really the only person who can exact any kind of punishment on him. I don't understand people sometimes. When did respect and integrity become optional in marriage? I don't get how people accepted this as the new normal. Its ruining so many people emotionally and stunting them for their next partner.
@olaoluwabode-omoleye356
3 ай бұрын
Get offline. Better to date in your real life circles. Which means you may need to improve who you hang out with.
@robertmaxa6631
2 ай бұрын
Dating is supposed to be fun, so I've been told. All the requirements needed by the other party, seems to take all the fun out of it.
@niladrimallik3172
4 ай бұрын
Who are these people, so wise and amazing.
@rosehiver6262
Ай бұрын
3:30 « A one night stand would just be like someone that couldn’t hold a conversation, someone that just wasn’t so intelligent » 4:30 The same guy : « I think women have a habit of just like knocking guys down before they ever get a chance to know them and just like not actually giving them an opportunity to show them who they are. » 😳 RED FLAG !! 🚩
@somenuttysquirrel
4 ай бұрын
6:55 ..."Dude don't wanna play another dude's saved game."
@donaldmutofwe
3 ай бұрын
❤❤i can assure you this is the best channel i have ever seen on KZitem
@butterflydreams5950
4 ай бұрын
What is the bearded guy with the curly hair’s @? He seems so genuine and down to earth, would love to connect with him!
@JessicaC-ke5cj
3 ай бұрын
My dating advice is simple. Be honest about what you want. Be authentic while dating. Don’t try to emulate what you suspect the person wants. Be who you are. Be committed. There are many temptations out there. Love isn’t completely based on emotions. It’s a logical decision that comes with beautiful emotions. Lastly, find someone with the same values.
@montrose252
3 ай бұрын
All these people you spoke to are awesome!
@jackJohn.
Ай бұрын
Look for piece of mind ❤
@nomad1517
Ай бұрын
I remember the guitarist from Rammstein was asked how their lineup hasnt changed in 20 years. And his answer was: therapy. There are always problems in any relationship and its up to you on if you are ready to deal with all that shit for years.
@serjserj9319
4 ай бұрын
i love this one but damn those 4:20 requirements killing me. we are on market now?
@brunosco
4 ай бұрын
I guess she needs some reality check.
@RichadGilgamesh
3 ай бұрын
She's toxic. All ever demanding and for what in return? Guess it yourself. Probably very demanding, annoying and all she could offer is her look. Majority of them are like this. Nothing to offer but her kitty cat.She thinks she's the prize.
@EgleA-u8e
4 ай бұрын
I am single for 2,5 years now first time since I was 19. I had 5 years and 11 years relationships. The way people date now shocks me! Before if somebody asks you out and you keep seeing each other regularly - you are girlfriend and boyfriend. Now, you supposed to have a conversation few months later if you are exclusive??? How this is considered normal, is way beyond me. People do not value kindness, loyalty, honesty. If you are unproblematic, you will be considered too nice and therefore boring but kept around as they love what they are getting from you. No more, I focus on myself, my life, career, friendships, my personal health and well being. It is better to be alone than lonely with somebody. So my advice is stay out of the circus, stop entertaining the clowns and focus on yourself. Don`t let anybody waste your time.
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
I was born in the late 80’s and grew up like you with dating in Aus. Similar vibes as you experienced. Used to meet someone, like one another and few weeks to a month in/ gf/bf a couple. I have met heaps of women since turning 30 on apps and none wanted to get to know me on a personal level. They all got out of serious relationships but didn’t want to get to know me. I never had this problem meet people in my 20’s up to 29. It became an issue when I turned 30. I just personally think I was attractive enough for sex and a quick jam and nothing more while they sifted through their options for something better on apps. I waisted 6 -7 years on them and had an amazing sex life with nothing to show for it today. Been single 6 1/2 years and had one relationship out of online dating. I haven’t tried online dating properly in 1.5 years. It doesn’t even work anymore for dates even.
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
I had a hand full of 3 year relationships in my 20’s with a few women and in between went to bars and clubs with mates and ran a muck. Life was good in the 2000’s to 2013
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
I enjoyed the apps up to 2019 and then i got over the casual sex and wanted to get to know someone. Women would get angry I didn’t sleep with them the first date and ghost me when I actually tried to form a connection and take it slow and steady. The first 3 years of being single I really enjoyed. The past 3 have been hell as I been looking and looking for a connection since about 31-32 years old. 4 years I been looking and suffering
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
I finally gave up. I don’t look, I don’t ask, I don’t date. I don’t nothing. I have given up completely
@Stevo-klo45453
4 ай бұрын
I don’t want to be used anymore so I don’t bother with apps even that I know someone will sleep with me.
@nomad1517
Ай бұрын
I remember the first legit girl I dated. I felt super happy and excited. We made out and went to 2nd base. But her parents came back so we had to stop. But after I went home. I realized, oh shit. This is a human being. I gotta take care of them. Not every day is filled with sex, hugs and cuddles and gifts. It's not super hard. But it's something you need to have the time and energy to put into. Like a bonzai tree. A lot of people have this stupid Hollywood fantasy that once they find true love, it will be like all your problems will evaporate and your pain will fade. Kind of like how people take vacations to other countries and still feel like shit. It's nice to have the right one. But it's a true commitment. And a lot of people want it without the work.
@eds7343
3 ай бұрын
I heard a man say don't go looking for love for the loveless never find it and the loving don't have to search for it, they attract it.
@AKASHROY-i9f
4 ай бұрын
As a guy it's much difficult finding a partner online as a girl period🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
@EgleA-u8e
4 ай бұрын
Depends on what you are looking for....If you are looking for a long term partner, online is not a place for it apparently nowadays. I tried few months back for first time in my life and majority of messages I got was d**k pics with "do you like what you see" looool Hook up - yes. Partner - absolutely not.
@AKASHROY-i9f
4 ай бұрын
@@EgleA-u8e Sorry for your experience quite disgusting to send someone **** pics hopefully you find your partner soon🤮🤮🤮
@ayysweetstea9339
2 ай бұрын
Interesting listening to different views!!!.
@ArumWaharatri
Ай бұрын
So awful 😟 this somehow making me feel better 😌 I was really in an awful condition too Nowadays don't forget to check if he/she is single or not false gender
@cayennepepah
Ай бұрын
Somehow you’re interviewing A LOT of people my age 😂😂😂 and I found this video by the magic of algorithm
@Julie60-l9g
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Will❤Humanity at its best… we are looking for happiness at the end of the day.
@OpaLockaOutlaw305
3 ай бұрын
Listen NEVER DIVULGE YOUR INTENTIONS bc ppl will masquerade as what you described to get what they wanted from you…
@borgullet3376
2 ай бұрын
Know what stage of life you're in. Stay in that lane Until you change, then act accordingly. And never forget Karma is real. You never " get away " with anything. We ALL have to live with the things that we do. Good or bad. You get punished BY it. Not FOR it.
@borgullet3376
2 ай бұрын
Also. You will only ever attract the type of person You Are. Not the type of person you may Think you want
@W.T.F599
3 ай бұрын
People are too busy, too afraid, to selfish, too closed off, and the list goes on.
@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2
4 ай бұрын
Women's ALWAYS lies when they tell about what they want. It's like asking a fish "would you bite a worm on a hook", fish says "never ever" then swim a little an bites a worm. Never ask the fish, always ask the fisherman.
@friendlystranger6463
Ай бұрын
I work in the service industry and women under 45 are very selfish and act like the world revolves around them
@alanarzate93
Ай бұрын
1:02 this has happened so many times because i wanna be a gentleman i just gave up my money wasted and my time
@Mindfuljourneywithme111
4 ай бұрын
Let go of your preferences in life, be okay with whatever the 3D world is showing you and be in love with life and yourself
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Waste of time trying to figure this out.
@josephang9927
3 ай бұрын
Why spend so much time and resources for a minuscule chance to find love? It is better to find easier ways to cope with lack of love.
@TrainerAQ
4 ай бұрын
Yea girls need to communicate more with guys when they are upset. Let me say this. Guys can tell in a heartbeat when girls are upset. They get that death stare going! But we have ZERO idea what is upsetting you! Now a girl might say: Oh it should be obvious. I shouldn't have to explain it to him. It's common sense. But here's the thing. Things that are common sense to women are not to men, and vise versa! For example, women are socially intelligent! Guys are not! Guys are intelligent in problem solving skills! So if a random girl comes up to a guy and starts a conversation, to that guy, it's just a conversation. However to the girlfriend who is keen on social cues and movements and whatnot, that could be a sign that girl was making a move on her man. She then gets mad at the guy for not doing anything about it think he is trying to replace. The guy immediately picks up the girlfriend is upset and has ZERO idea what is going on. This is what I mean. To a girl this is common sense to them, but to a guy we are socially inept! Guys are problem solvers, doers, and competitive physically. You tell us the problem and we will solve it, but if you stay quiet, and all of a sudden get mad, to us you're just straight up bipolar for no reason. Hits us with curveballs when we don't expect it!
@hoyvey
3 ай бұрын
Too many people with trauma and unaddressed wounds out there “dating”. When in reality, they’re searching for that missing part of them through other people.
@TheStoicNinja
3 ай бұрын
0:55 Lady how can you have feelings for someone you don't know? You don't even know where he lives? 1:14 Bro you're getting used to pay for meals, wake up 1:30 yeah it was your "friend" 😂 1:40 imagine only investing in your body, using provocative clothing to attract a man, then wondering why he's only interested in your body 2:00 how are you supposed to get to know someone if you are expected to pay outrageous amounts of money just to get a woman's attention?
@denrypauldalilam3188
3 ай бұрын
These people's answers are only wanting from someone not becoming that someone.
@stefanglump5238
3 ай бұрын
I really like the Style of the last dude on the Interview
@roojistanr5015
3 ай бұрын
The guy who said he got ghosted 😢..he was so cute
@lilibethvilella
4 ай бұрын
Fascinated with this topic. I’m living my best life post divorce. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH” 🌧️ ☀️
@rayrwyr
2 ай бұрын
What these women say in the interviews is not how they actually behave. They want thrill, excitement. The guys they claim they want bore them to death and so they reject them consistently until they are too old and nobody want them.
@86figs
3 ай бұрын
Sense of humor and the insatiable need to learn new things is attractive on anyone no matter what you look like. People are hung on the superficial sh*t.
@mr6sg
3 ай бұрын
People are confused. They are looking for irreal people. Running away from real people with real lives and real issues.
@stephenbrown1136
3 ай бұрын
Often we conflate competence and confidence
@SplashIs_
27 күн бұрын
Breathe of fresh air
@1980ify
3 ай бұрын
7:18 resonate with what she says 💯
@springteen3743
3 ай бұрын
Define the word LOVE, cause love can be anything to anybody. For example my friend says that she loves her dog so I don’t want a female to love me the way she love her dog. Or loving a dog is different than loving a person🤔
@zareeftashfique8168
3 ай бұрын
Here as a guy 👨🏻 I’ll say what most of us have to deal with: Getting put in the friend zone Idk how women think it’s ok to string you along and give you bits and pieces along the way to keep you hooked…. We have parents that raised us, worked shitty jobs all their life, and now are old, all they want is some grandkids and to live the last remainder of their days with something wholesome…. When you a girl line up dudes to be kept in the friend zone … TOU LITERALLY SPIT ON THE FACE OF THOSE PARENTS THAT WORKED HARD TO GET THEIR KIDS TO THIS POINT
@quendelf
3 ай бұрын
Honestly, it just sounds like no one knows how to communicate, be open, or manage emotions.
@Fighting-Spirit7
3 ай бұрын
I dont know about communication part because a lot of woman play weird games and you have to be a mindreader to actually know what they really think.
@nhuy6456
3 ай бұрын
I like the way you choose music on each video
@dracorant5270
3 ай бұрын
"you break up with and all of a sudden they say "I hate you"". Lmao wtf did she expect after breaking up
@ashiahindigo9917
3 ай бұрын
Whatever happened to the days when men met their wife at a Barn dance 😂… We make things so complicated.
@BusinessLawReview
3 ай бұрын
Being Confident, what does that really mean? To think you are the best, or to know everything about everything? That's pretending.... I would say - being intelligent... being driven and at the same, caring make people keeper, for me, at least.
@chaserj9989
3 ай бұрын
How do you ask a women you want them to take an STI and hepatitis test before you date? It seems impossible to ask and expect.. so I only maybe go once using protection. I don’t like to kiss hard because I don’t want herpes… then since asking them for testing seems impossible it ends that week… over and over and over. I’m fairly indifferent already almost to take it or leave it.. I see no other path and it’s probably OK
@thathandsomedevil0828
3 ай бұрын
Noticed the women not mentioning the fact that they judge men's faces to even let them through the door.
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