Honestly, this advice is so true. I like how every time I think I am going to disagree with you, you actually say what I agree with. As a 21 year old, I should probably pursue happiness, career and health for the next few years instead of chasing a partner...
@Magirawashi
7 ай бұрын
I hope you continue to think like that Along the way when you start making more money, don’t let some woman distract you on your climb.
@EllieM-j4l
7 ай бұрын
As a young woman, I don't like a guy who is "nice" to get sex or to get something out of me, but I don't like the impulsive, asshole, womanizer type of guy either. I think most women like something in the middle of a guy who is sweet but can also stand up for himself and have boundaries when needed.
@Baxate
7 ай бұрын
Listen to this woman!
@1129marbles
7 ай бұрын
Advice is spot on. As a bonus you've got a great radio voice. Keep doing your thing for the rest of us.
@jackeely54
7 ай бұрын
Yeah I learned this late in highschool. A good refresher. Well spoken.
@seracetinkaya7954
7 ай бұрын
What you are doing for this generation’s young boys is so important
@ShivamSharma0720
5 ай бұрын
Learning a lot from you bro, I’m safe to say I’m following you to build my character for success
@jamescs6390
7 ай бұрын
Have been watching u only through ig and this is my first time here, gotta say, awesome and very helpful advice and Keep doing you!!
@maglrashin1276
7 ай бұрын
Advice for living a more attractive lifestyle while most of your day is just consumed by school and going to the gym?
@Baxate
7 ай бұрын
That is an incredibly attractive lifestyle! You are working on yourself!
@Alan-mq9om
7 ай бұрын
How do you socialize more while going to school for a stem degree while also going to the gym and having a job on top of that? I also go to a college with no frats or social communities.
@maglrashin1276
7 ай бұрын
@@Alan-mq9om I cant help sorry Im still in HS
@MadMathandPhysics
7 ай бұрын
@@Alan-mq9omI got you give me 3 days
@KristopherCoca
7 ай бұрын
@@Alan-mq9omno clubs at all?
@lilshart-sq7pk
7 ай бұрын
as a high schooler i've thought about this on my own and came to the same conclusion that I should talk without expectations, but how do you approach someone you've almost never talked to and have no classes with?
@adamwechsler1936
6 ай бұрын
There's no real trick to approaching someone. You kind of just have to muster the courage and say hi. It sounds like this is someone at your high school. I think it kind of depends where you see them, like in the halls or the cafeteria, or if you know any of their friends. If you know one of their friends, you could ask the friend to reintroduce you. Or if it's a chance encounter, you could say hi then their name. If they don't remember you, reintroduce yourself. Then ask open ended questions, like how are you? If you know something about them already or have anything in common ask about that. Or comment on something shared, like the environment around you, even the weather lol. Or you could even start with a compliment, like on their clothes or something they chose, like their hairstyle or accessories. Basically there are lots of options and there's no one right way to do it. Once when I was in high school, I had a crush on a girl I had become friends with. I think we added each other on Facebook and eventually exchanged phone numbers. I think she told me when/where she had a study hall and once I went in the study hall to ask to speak to her for a minute. Some guy made a big deal of it and I got embarrassed, but I survived. The point is, you just have to try and eventually it will get easier approaching people. It's a good skill regardless if it's for dating or making new friends. You can do it!
@Sebastian_The_Great
7 ай бұрын
Great video with great advice. A lot of people can learn from this.
@abdulwaris2k
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video man I’ve learned a lot from it. Now I know what I have to improve now. ❤
@IS12378
7 ай бұрын
bro is officially a KZitemr with this thumbnail
@shamelH
7 ай бұрын
Hey Bax love you content ! All the best from a fellow tech engineer !
@Mr.Wattage
7 ай бұрын
What’s your opinion on dating a girl that has been with 15+ guys before you met her
@lazysnipeify
Ай бұрын
Good luck lmao
@Mr.Wattage
Ай бұрын
@@lazysnipeify🤣🤦
@aarinsjsj
5 ай бұрын
Thank you man❤
@kaigoodall
7 ай бұрын
Love the content, keep it coming! What camera, lens and mic do you use for the podcast? Looks great
@Baxate
7 ай бұрын
sony a7iv with a sigma 24-70mm adjustable lens!
@jmbgaming17
6 ай бұрын
I am a 24 year old Male and growing up I feel like I’ve definitely been on the opposite side of the quote on quote “nice guy” not necessarily saying I’m a bad guy but I can say I’m blessed with looks and physically fit, I excelled at sports and was a popular person among all groups. Getting girls or talking to them never has been a struggle. Going through college playing sports and joining in Greek life as well only amplified that experience with my social life with the opposite sex and my experiences with that. Which brings to my topic when Baxate talks about focusing on yourself. If your not impressed with you body, of course go the gym and handle that but as for your character and how you are as person, I feel is extremely based off how you treat yourself. No matter how good you look or strong you are, if that’s is all you are it won’t amount to anything. You love yourself first and find your passions and what makes you happy snowballs straight into your confidence. You must love, trust and know yourself before you expect anyone else to want to do so.
@AlejandroMartinez-dz7jm
7 ай бұрын
Cannot agree more with Baxate, tbh its easier to get women when focusing on yourself and your social life other than focusing on getti gatting a gf. Its something im working on. Just trying to get my shit together, at this moment of my life im so happy to know that im curre tly more desperate to start my job as a marketing agent and web developer a at a local dealership in ny town than getting laid or getting a gf. Baxate, any advice on getti g your lufe back together even when you have no motivation or desire to, something im struggling wjth atm
@em7818
7 ай бұрын
I love the video and follow you from TikTok, but here on KZitem, you should hire an editor who can implement videos/camera movements, subtitles, etc. As such editing can make the attention span last longer.
@swyxTV
7 ай бұрын
instant subscribe. still not sure how to fix my life though but i liked the reality check.
@user-cz2em3pl6i
7 ай бұрын
Is it important to go to a t20 t50 or even t100 school?
@Baxate
7 ай бұрын
Go to the best school you possibly can and afford and work hard regardless of where you go. That's it
@samorouji2842
7 ай бұрын
If you major competitive jobs like CS or finance
@user-cz2em3pl6i
7 ай бұрын
@@Baxate Thanks man
@ziedmiled4763
7 ай бұрын
Yo bro teasing could heart people even if its just joking . How y actully can be not nice and respectful? I don't quite understand what that means .Note:i'm 22 and never dated before,very confused and can't show my intentions towards the opposite sex
@jackrembe5999
7 ай бұрын
Nice video Carter, your traps look nice by the way
@TheJavaGuide
7 ай бұрын
I wish there was a way to invest in a youtube channel, this screams huge content creator
@Suborneer
7 ай бұрын
I dont agree with this 22:50 in regards to asking women what they like. You dont ask a fish how to catch it. I think most of your points are ok, the overall message was also incredibly repetitive for an almost 30 min long video. I think this could have been condensed by a significant amount
@Baxate
7 ай бұрын
Women aren’t fish. They are human beings. That’s like saying you shouldn’t ask a recruiter how to get the job you want
@Suborneer
7 ай бұрын
@@Baxate it’s not comparing women to fish, it’s a statement in you don’t ask what you’re trying to attract how to attract it. I believe in a relationship or in dating someone you absolutely should ask what your partner wants or what they like etc. When you hear guy or girl say what they want in a partner then they end up dating someone who is not anywhere near that description how would their advice on what to look for help you?
@Suborneer
7 ай бұрын
@@Baxate people are complex beings when it comes to emotions and attraction. You also shouldn’t morph yourself to be something you’re not in hopes of attracting someone
@TannerAbajiya
7 ай бұрын
You said it yourself- you were skinny, had bad acne, braces, and on top of that you had a cringe pickup line. Young men need to be physically attractive to land girls in today's age, since modern-day women are far more shallow. Not being the nice guy alone is not enough. It's an unfortunate truth, but we need to maximize our attractiveness to women as best we can, in addition to fixing our attitudes, which will help us young men boost our SMV.
@lettenabettina29
7 ай бұрын
A lot of his videos are about how to get more attractive as a young guy (e.g. hygiene, working out etc.). It's not one or the other, you should seek to maximise your own worth and power always, which looks are part of. Not to mention that in order to be able to "not be the nice guy" but someone masculine and assertive, one needs genuine self confidence and gravitas, and with unattractive looks thats hardly doable. At the same time, he never claims that he is successful cause he is extraordinarily handsome or got lucky with his looks (as a woman, I consider him super charming and handsome btw but thats not the point), but because he put in the hard work to be good looking and become a real man physically and mentally. Many of young guys just arent willing to do the same because it is exhausting and a long process, they want instant results instead. Also how is not being attracted to untreated acne or a skinny, weak physique as a female is being shallow? Most women are into guys that take care of themselves and want to improve, its not shallow its just how sexual attraction works.. ask any guy if they truly want an obese girlfriend or someone that isnt capable of treating their skin right, its a basic human instinct to be attracted to whats healthy and aesthetic.
@EthanPHX
7 ай бұрын
It’s more about maximizing your appearance. If you put no effort into how you look why would a woman wanna put effort into you?
@TannerAbajiya
7 ай бұрын
@@EthanPHX I legit said that we need to maximize our looks and appearance as a man, what are u on
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