Covert narcs are good at putting on a good show in public. No one knows what happens behind closed doors.
@PNWCagey-Dub
2 күн бұрын
Exactly. Other than those who've gone through it too. The narcs all use the same evil tactics. No matter what the relationship to them is. Spouse, brother, sister, friend, parent, family member, coworker...
@JesuisLord
7 күн бұрын
Inability to repent , ding ding ding ! Pride & leviathan duo
@MrHighlander400
6 күн бұрын
The actual thing described in the book of Job? Huh? Have you been in NAR movement and are in the charismatic movement? Lots of false teachers on these "movements" and YT and social media.
@Maria-s5y6p
7 күн бұрын
Please pray for me and for all women that suffering
@Cod12Osc
7 күн бұрын
I will pray for you tonight 🙏
@Beverly-e4z
7 күн бұрын
I have seen women narcs. My sister in fact. I believe God may be working on showing her truth and I've seen hopeful behaviors. I may be fooling myself but God can change people. I pray for all my brothers and sisters in Christ.
@DARKhorses73
6 күн бұрын
@@Beverly-e4z change is only willing change. We have free will. God will only work with us to change and even then it's still a struggle and surrender
@greghayes7933
6 күн бұрын
Will do !!! And please pray for us Men too !!! we suffer tremendously and few talk about it
@SLLiberty23
6 күн бұрын
Praying for us all ♥️🙏🏻🕊️🆓
@seameology
7 күн бұрын
He can text all types of scripture to me but if I text a scripture to him calling him out, he gets mad. He's selective in which scriptures he decides to follow.
@ElizzzaB
4 күн бұрын
They are always mad. It's always everyone else.
@LasBuenasNuevas2020
4 күн бұрын
If you love me? Obey me! That was his favorite scripture. Because God so love the world went he was cached on worldly pagan practices.
@Prattle123
7 күн бұрын
Yep changed on the honeymoon. I should have left then but I wasted 15 years.
@sylviasingleton5719
6 күн бұрын
Mine changed after honeymoon which was a scam.
@kristenpeterson3895
6 күн бұрын
Mine too. His attitude was "well guess you're stuck with me"
@DeeBullock1836
5 күн бұрын
@@kristenpeterson3895yep…the very night we got back from honey,and getting in bed, he looked at me with a look I’d never seen and said, “I own you now, if you ever leave me me, I’ll hunt you down and tie you to this house.” 13 years later I left with my kids….
@ElizzzaB
4 күн бұрын
That's when mask completely fell. Frightening what was under the mask. Was done.
@rikkis1371
49 минут бұрын
mine changed on the wedding night. it was such a shock that I stayed. I've finally left after 20 years.
@DARKhorses73
6 күн бұрын
I left my first marriage after 3.5 years. Did not know what narcissim was. Learned my lesson quick. Horrible nightmare !
@MB-sg8dx
7 күн бұрын
I dont understand why God has allowed those of us who truly thought we were getting GODLY spouses to be thus deceived. May He help us not to be disillusioned by the shock and heartbreak. “Blessed are they who are not offended”. 🙏🏼
@SusanElsliger
6 күн бұрын
We had our own unhealed trauma ,no boundaries is why we got caught up with a narcissist
@Chrystal-nt2wc
5 күн бұрын
There were probably red flags that were ignored...
@Rileyed
5 күн бұрын
If bc we don’t trust Gods judgements. It’s our fault. There are 1000s of warnings and we have the Holy Spirit. We don’t read. Don’t listen. Then ask God why me?
@MB-sg8dx
5 күн бұрын
@@Rileyed im not blaming God. Im saying i dont understand. …im a very dedicated Christian. I prayed and fasted over my kids and who they would marry….and my three daughters all attended bible school. Two of them brought home “wonderful Christian” suitors who are now their husbands and who have turned out to be narcs. It’s a painful disappointment. Dont make snap judgments about those this has happened to. All of us arent compromised Christians who dont read our bibles or pray. At the end of the day, I trust God and know He uses all things together for good.
@MB-sg8dx
5 күн бұрын
@@Chrystal-nt2wc im sure thats true…..i didnt even know what narcissim was then, and was taught to always believe the best about everyone…..
@rosierb852
7 күн бұрын
Simply put, I figured out a long time ago that in order for someone to be saved, one has to admit that they are a sinner, that they are flawed, imperfect. Narcissists view themselves as perfect and without flaw. Also it requires on to in connection with their inner selves. Their inner conscience etc. narcissist don’t have a connection with themselves. Narcissist also can’t admit when they do wrong, lack of accountability, hence cannot admit their sins. A person cannot be saved if they can’t A-admit that they are a sinner. B-believe that Jesus died for our sins and rose on the 3rd day. C-call upon the name of God and you will be saved. They can’t do this because for one they have already been occupied with a spirit of Satan. Secondly they live in survival mode 24/7, they don’t have the fruits of the spirit of Jesus, patience, kindness, love, selflessness…no. They have the fruits of their father Satan, a liar, deceiver, selfishness, arrogance, and predatory nature. In order for a narcissist to be saved given of the person hasn’t always sold their souls. It would take an exorcism to remove the legion of demons dwelling in their temples. But it would take the narcissist to take the steps to getting saved. Which is nearly impossible given that they can’t even admit the smallest wrongdoings. They seared their conscience long ago they have no connection to God or the Holy Spirit that tells that what we’re doing is wrong and to change our ways. They no longer have this voice which is why they can’t self-reflect and repeat the same behaviours over and over again. Their mission is to kill, steal, and destroy. Satan sends these people to those who have the marks of God to destroy us. We can’t save a person whose mention in life is to put the lights of God, because that’s what will end up happening to you if you try. No, it won’t be any them going to join you in the light and expelling the darkness in them, no. Their goal is to take your light and leave you in their darkness. They are used to it, but trust me when you’re it you feel like you have lost your way and feel out of place like you want to take your life because we aren’t meant to dwell in such a place.
@suesampson5089
7 күн бұрын
They also lie by omission,and seem to be susceptible to most addictions.
@francesbernard2445
6 күн бұрын
The narcissist lies by omission most whenever repeating things to someone else as only gossip when ommitting the most important information being discussed at the time.
@karenroy9031
7 күн бұрын
Praise God I don’t have kids with mine. I can leave and go no contact immediately! He calls me the abuser 😂 buh bye fool
@DARKhorses73
6 күн бұрын
Lol good call
@andyanderson6522
6 күн бұрын
Arrogance, pride, lying, adultery, coveting, stealing, just to name a few. They are deep in sin! PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL
@aletsem9713
6 күн бұрын
Wow! He is completely describing my husband. We are currently separated. When I met him, he led the worship at church. He talked and acted like a Christian, I truly believed he was one. 😢. He almost destroyed me. He says he is working on changing, but I don't believe him as he is a liar. My prior pastor always defended him and gave me the religious lecture. People think my husband is very innocent and kind. 🤮
@ElizzzaB
4 күн бұрын
They are Academy Award winning actors.
@LoneSeaEagleOfSkye
3 күн бұрын
Please look after yourself aletsem...my heart goes out to you. Another wonderful source of help is Dr Les Carter of Surviving Narcissism.
@jenniferwittke190
6 күн бұрын
Thank you for this particular program! So illuminating! I would NOT trust Focus on the Family anymore! They do not protect women from abuse but recommend that they stay, submit more, try harder, etc!!!
@flowermedow
5 күн бұрын
Family foundations international also... They work with focus on the family and marriage ministries. They also teach you can never remarry and that you are to stand by your partner in prayer for your reconciliation. They generally say if there is abuse you need to leave. They need to be challenged to change but you must remove yourself from abuse. But, they do believe marriage is an unbreakable covenant even if your vowels never said through death do us pass. I say to people never vow something you may not be able to keep. Through death do us part and as long as we live is actually unscriptural in wedding vows when the bible says let your yes be yes and your no be no. So, yup... I would agree this ministry encourages you to stand and fight. I think many narcissistic people simply use these ministries as dirt on their spouses. Most still don't change and use the teaching as another way to control and exploit and twist scripture. I've been through that myself.
@cellostrings2522
6 күн бұрын
Why isn’t the Narc a Christian? Basically it’s because his ego won’t allow him to be humble and submit to the Lord
@Maria-s5y6p
7 күн бұрын
I divorce him and he is using the legal system to continue his control
@seameology
7 күн бұрын
Of course. Both my ex narcs used the legal system way after the divorce.
@suesampson5089
7 күн бұрын
Are they descended from NEPHILIM,it seems and feels like that.
@JesuisLord
7 күн бұрын
I was thinking seed of Cain , as my x narc is a little guy 😂
@shirlspark_stardust
6 күн бұрын
No the fallen demonic spirits possessed them
@saraheck7898
6 күн бұрын
@@shirlspark_stardust💯
@KatyGuerena
5 күн бұрын
That is my conclusion
@JesuisLord
5 күн бұрын
@@suesampson5089 Jezebel , leviathan , pride, rejection , orphan all kinds a legion of spirits found homes in these hosts , reprobate minds
@kellyg701
4 күн бұрын
Yes, my mum she waited 32 years, divorced on age 90... and 6 weeks later she dies.. because of the damage of narc.abuse!
@keyjones1638
7 күн бұрын
I knew he was cheating on me and he laid across me while I was in bed and begged me to pray with him. I refused and he started praying and asked God to show me how true he was being to me. Well, God answered his prayers lol. He showed me how big of a liar my husband really was. After my divorce, when he knew I was working towards no contact, he poisoned my water bottle. I'm suspicious he had been poisoning me all along, but he tried to kill me with that water bottle.
@HeatherAndrews-x2e
6 күн бұрын
I am suspicious that my Narc has drugged me also , when he thought he Had sacked all my vitality And youth out of me . Glad you got away. ❤
@Mary-1000
5 күн бұрын
I've been divorced 10 years now and thought I would never ever heal from it. It's been a LONG rough road back to myself. I had no info or support to help me with the aftermath but God got me through it. I do still struggle with some ptsd but nothing like it was when I first left. I was basically a crazy person by the end of the marriage.
@tashie20
7 күн бұрын
This video has to be from God I just found out I might see my ex tomorrow but wasn’t expecting to see him until Tuesday.I haven’t seen him in 8 months(I immediately felt sick in my stomach and very anxious)The meeting on Tuesday is with his new pastor that is flying in to see me. He is trying to convince me that he’s really a Christian this time😭😭😭
@sonjamccart1269
7 күн бұрын
You are under no obligation to meet with anyone. I was fortunate in that my pastor didn't believe my now ex-narc. Say no. You will feel stronger and so relieved.
@stephm5877
7 күн бұрын
I'm going to encourage you to not go. Say no. If he was a Christian, you wouldn't need convincing.
@pamelacave5515
7 күн бұрын
Never ignore your intuition! It's there to protect you
@seekerofgrace2058
7 күн бұрын
DON’t believe it!
@elizabethy2912
6 күн бұрын
If you're immediately feeling GUILT at the thought of not meeting with HIS PASTOR, do NOT meet with them, AT ALL!!! The narc has flying monkeys, and pastors are not immune to either being narc's or being " Charmed" by these monsters. Go somewhere out of town at that time, so you can't change your mind. Guilty is one of their favorite tools, and they use it to MANIPULATE!! If you have decided you need a divorce, he is railroading your decision, bc he cannot respect your boundaries, and he will not, IF YOU ALLOW HIM TO!! Meeting with someone who can weaponize Scripture against you, on HIS behalf, WILL set you back on breaking the trauma bond, and seeing him for what he is-:a selfish monster!! Cutting through your own denial is your job, now, and he wants to prevent that. Pastor Mark Driscoll gave a sermon on Toxic family members, about Jacob and Laban - it helped me to see the narc, the way God does. Having Godly boundaries is righteous- even God divorced Israel. May God Bless and guide you as you go thru this journey and season.
@seameology
7 күн бұрын
In order to be an alcoholic, you have to be selfish. If you know you could kill someone in a car because you're drinking, that's cause enough to not drink. If your drinking causes family issues because of your mouth, you should choose not to drink.
@MrStropparo
4 күн бұрын
Whoa. How the hell does he hit every point. At home there’s no fruit of the spirit. The fruit of the devil.
@LoneSeaEagleOfSkye
3 күн бұрын
Hi MrStropparo, I'm guessing Dr Clarke " hits every point " because of real life experience of being in private practice for over 35 years as a Christian psychologist focusing on marriages in crisis, and cares enough about people to not pussyfoot around, but to be lovingly honest! This is literally a lifesaving ministry, and a God-given gift. 🧡Your comment is very meaningful and I agree...Dr Clarke's insights are like an arrow hitting the bull's eye. 🎯( I'm incredibly grateful that I " stumbled on his work for the very first time today! ) I can't wait to read his books, both for my own education as well as for lending and/or giving to others.
@melaniebelk75
6 күн бұрын
Thank you! I needed this. Please pray for me to have a way to escape.
@Pathway-xh2qx
7 күн бұрын
Yes, Galatians 5 & II Tim 3:1-7, must be the mirror and test fruit. II Peter chpt 1 - if Have the 8 things ( Will be Fruitful ) virtue, knowledge, temperance, Patience....
@maggiesalle2256
7 күн бұрын
Keep calling your daughters brilliant and beautiful! Keep telling the truth! My diagnosed, narc parents called me fat and lazy despite good grades and behavior.
@L.Fontein7
5 күн бұрын
Mine told me I would never amount to anything. They were right - I didn't!
@JesuisLord
7 күн бұрын
This video is excellent 👏👏👏
@Cod12Osc
7 күн бұрын
No sound on the video
@Maria-s5y6p
7 күн бұрын
He is not stopping even after divorce and no body stopping him
@flowermedow
5 күн бұрын
Move to a different state. If your kids are grown enough for them to choose... Up and leave
@ms.texassoldier7203
6 күн бұрын
Love the info! I really want to take a look at a couple of those books. I feel so comforted just knowing there’s help out there
@Kate-d9c2r
4 күн бұрын
I work with a narcissist. He blames everything he does on someone else. Nothing is his fault, ever. If he does get caught he gets "emotional " and will shed actual tears. He is on the verge of losing his job, and now, all of the sudden, he is an angel. It makes us think we are losing our minds, but we know who he really is, who he was before is his true self. He claims to be a Christian. He says of himself I don't drink, or smoke, or cuss, or do anything "bad" like that, like other "Christians " do.... but he doesn't see that he is greedy, mean, entitled, he always has to be number one, he's falsified documents, he steals sales....it's infuriating as a believer because he claims to be one too. The thing is, the person he replaced was also a narcissist. It's been never-ending for us over the last several years.
@anaviana2641
5 күн бұрын
I am 100% in agreement with what is said in this video. Only once you have had the experience with these devil agents will you know what you are dealing with. We DO NOT wrestle with flesh and blood, but with principalities of darkness/evil. Do not give your pearls to swine least they trample on them and turn and tear you to pieces. This stuff is real. Thank you for speaking this truth and for holding No Punches.
@DerrekWilliams
5 күн бұрын
In short, I married my wife when in Gods word to me, do not pursue this. I didn’t listen and aching hell. I had no idea what narcissism was up until about a year ago. For the last two years or maybe less, I’ve gone completely no contact and we live in the same house.
@flowermedow
5 күн бұрын
Oh wow... That's impressive. I'm trying to do the same with my husband. How do you manage not to even have an encounter with them?
@seameology
7 күн бұрын
My grandmother lived 15 years with dementia. She died at 94 in a nursing home. I refused to visit her because she was verbally abusive.
@Twinkletoes-b6k
7 күн бұрын
I'm in Palmetto... very close by :) Dr. David is an expert in his field no doubt!!!
@garrettmalone1420
5 күн бұрын
They always have secret lives!
@mtc-j9i
6 күн бұрын
My mother who raised me. She’s religious when it suits her, but everyone believes she is THE ULTIMATE Christian. These days politics has become her religion. Growing up she was ultra religious and had very legalistic tendencies. I wasn’t allowed to do anything. Went through a phase where I had to wear only dresses - no pants. Jumped from one church to another, always trying to work her way to the inner circle of the pastor. I watched her use people and then dump them without a second thought. She is extremely self righteous, judging of others but extremely full of grace towards herself. Already forgiven by God means she never has to apologize to anyone. It has been a nightmare untangling my upbringing. I ran from God for many years because I wasn’t interested in the twisted and negative messages I believed….and the lives of God’s people didn’t seem appealing to me if their marriages were just as much of a mess as the world’s. My parents divorced and so did many others I grew up with in church. My mom tried to turn us against our father - it worked with my brothers but not me. I chose my dad’s side, so then she turned my own siblings against me (we were close, but they chose her over me). She is pure evil. Church seems a very pleasant place where crappy people hide and cover themselves with a costume. They do a lot of damage.
@TallGlass-fh8qf
5 күн бұрын
It’s because most people don’t truly believe The Word when it says all this stuff. If they did, it wouldn’t be able to work it’s way in or it would be quickly kicked out. If you’re truly a Christian, take heart that you’re not reprobate. God bless!
@debra8883
6 күн бұрын
Hi Dr. Clarke: I was married to a malignant covert venerable Narcissist for nearly 20 years. He was ugly-mean, a monster, raging all the time, chasing women in front of me. He also said that he was bored and loved me but was not "in love" with me. I found out that he had two STDs confirmed by the acupuncturist. I believe also that he was "gay", because he was saying "odd things about men's bodies" that I had never heard him say before. He said that he was seeing "hookers" and that he went to a "sex party" or "orgy". He lied to me and tried to gaslight me, but I knew better. He said that he did not believe in friendships. I was so hurt to my bones. With the financial help I my family, I escaped with my life when he went to bed one morning. It took me a whole year of prayer, all by myself. A month and half to prepare to leave him quietly. Hiding everything that I could. He was doing everything that he could to hurt me or kill me. He was terrozing; trapping me at home; and I had one friend that he lied to her. Road rage every time we were in the car. He threatened or tried to scare me with fire. He kicked two of my old beloved cats and my family's old dog. He set fire to the pellet heat stove, which smoked me out of the house. He used the gasoline-powered generator, which leaked gas fumes, to possible kill me and our cat. He would pull out in front of heavy traffic and 18 wheeled tractor trailers trucks. He was insane. I had no choice but to leave him, then divorce him. He blamed me for the marriage. He refused to go to counseling in the beginning of our marriage and the few times that I had asked him. I had asked for a divorce 2 or 3 times, but he refused. He was controlling, abusive, belligerent, bullying, lying, cheating control-freak. After I left him, to be with my elderly brother, I wrongfully kept in touch with my friend that had helped me before I left. He lied to her, and she said that I had no right to divorce him and I deserved it. What I do not know??? She last told me that he was ordering me back to him. I told her -- No Way. This is was ended my friendship with her. Now, I have been gone from him for two years and divorced from him since January. Horray, I am still alive.
@debra8883
6 күн бұрын
To add to this, He demanded that I step off the cliff in Glacier National Park. It is a wonder that I lived through that day, because he drove us home, like a maniac, with "road rage. I think that he had the idea from the famous case of the young girl that murdered her newlywed husband in Glacier National Park. My then husband was the co-worker of the young girl, step-dad. She went to prison. I wonder if my husband was planning to kill me that day. But I just had the feeling that the last minutes with my husband, he wanted us to go to Glacier National Park. I fortunely, thought and convinced him to go on to bed that morning. He was asking many strange and suspicious questions of me. Boy, was I in high alert and I was scared for my life. I now wonder if this would qualify as, pre-meditated murder on his part. I am so blessed to get away from him. He was definitely endangering my life and making me miserable. The divorce cost me practically, everything. He got the car, the mobile home, my antique furniture and many memorable things. Now, I am starting a new life. I now have a friend after a whole year. I have a church, activities to go to, a car to drive, and a new job. This will be a third career for me, after he kept me isolated from friends and work. I am having much fun playing pickleball. I am qualifying for retirement benefits and working on the disablility benefits with SSA. I finally have laughter in my life. I am connecting with old friends and co-workers of the past. But I still wish to be married someday, because my old brother is very old and I am not sure how much longer he can live. I do not relish that thought of living alone again. Much Love and success to every survivor. dkt
@Mercurychyld1
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for this life saving info. God bless you. 🙏🏽
@Rahel8811
5 күн бұрын
Amen praise God and amen! 🙏🏽 thank you Jesus Christ of Nazareth for helping us escape please Lord protect those who are still in the captivity of this demonic entity allow for them to escape unscathed in Jesus Christ name I pray ahmien
@garrettmalone1420
5 күн бұрын
Love you all in christ!Get out!
@helenvancevance1407
6 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness. You Describe My husband to T He goes to church every Sunday & Wednesday, he Volunteers. and he acts so different at church. He has everyone at the church thinking he's soooo good and such a wonderful Christian. But once we get in the car to go home he is a totally different person. That Damon comes out. This man has nothing good to say. No up lifting words, no Encouragement. And anything is my fault. I can't have an opinion or a suggestion. I can't do anything right. And he has to have control over everything. He thinks he never does anything wrong. And he complains about everything Little bitty thing. I can't leave because I don't have no where to go. And don't get enough of SSI money to live on my own. He knows this so can treat me any way he wants to. I could keep going on & on. This is just the tip of the Iceberg.
@flowermedow
5 күн бұрын
I feel you, my husband is exactly the same way and I'm stuck financially. I'll be praying for you to get some way to financially be set free. That god will remove this man out of your life any way possible.
@hannahrosa5485
6 күн бұрын
Took both of my narc husbands out and my narc mother who slept with my first narc husand. And YES, they are everywhere and include women. We are in the last of the last days.
@melissacaunarreaux9119
4 күн бұрын
Wow, I didn't know smiling was a thing. I've experienced that too. They want you to smile, because it hides the emotional abuse your suffering.
@footsteps247
5 күн бұрын
What about female narcs?
@seekerofgrace2058
7 күн бұрын
A true Christian REPENTS and HUMBLES himself . The narc ex overtook the religion I introduced him to, wore it , gaslit all , and used every good thing to hurt control and manipulate. Yes satan sidetracked me i was full of love life and faith pre narc. Years post narc still struggling to get my walk w the Lord back and my joy. Black holes of parasitic manipulators & pretenders. I did see the black blank eyes many times. Chilling. A narc would have to feel remorse and repent and submit to God but they will not just like their father the devil. 🙏🏼🤍 God be with us all
@andyanderson6522
6 күн бұрын
Arrogance, pride, lying, adultery, coveting, stealing, just to name a few. They are deep in sin! PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL
@Twinkletoes-b6k
7 күн бұрын
You are funny Dr. David... "stamp narc on his forehead".... LMAO.
@SunShineLady-d4r
4 күн бұрын
Yes the Narcissist CAN change IF they want to!!! If they are Motivated enough to change, yes with God's grace and power, they CAN definitely change. Scripture says: With men it's impossible, but with GOD ALL things are Possible. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; all things have passed. Even secular textbook and literature are stating that they can change even if gradually and in small steps in as small as 3% annually.
@victoriousjoy9338
4 күн бұрын
Ya! But will you live with him for the next 100 years??
@SunShineLady-d4r
4 күн бұрын
@victoriousjoy9338 St. Monica was married to a pagan/atheist who was converted on his death bed 🛌 due to her godly character.
@mrodriguez6449
6 күн бұрын
What if he is a covert narcissist and is always the good guy? Everyone loves him!
@sherylj586
7 күн бұрын
Change over a period of time is what you are looking for. "By their fruit you will know them." Be strong and courageous; God is with you. My guess is that the pastor thinks divorce is a sin, and a broken marriage is the worst possible outcome. They are ok with you tolerating sin, when we know that is a sin! As long as their paradigm doesn't get challenged they want you to shut up an "suffer for Jesus." Smile and wave, sister! You are accountable to God not man.❤
@tracyriley
6 күн бұрын
Beautifully put
@midnight-in-tx
6 күн бұрын
"She'll come In here and destroy the equipment," I'm cracking up 😂
@msliberated3899
4 күн бұрын
Married to a narcissist is NOT GLORIFYING GOD AT ALL!
@David-gu7yb
5 күн бұрын
I suppose if the demons are to be in our world and are under covert or cover etc. Then the narcissist would be there sheep's clothing.
@captainmol0
2 күн бұрын
My mom was a narc. She went to church, was always volunteering, taught Sunday School, attended countless Bible Studies. When she was 93 years old, she went into hospice care because of kidney failure. Three weeks before she died, she confessed not being nice, said she had abused my dad and thought he would keep her from being able to enter heaven. She had no clue how to be saved. I explained the Gospel to her, she prayed, confessed sins, and asked Jesus into her heart. I believe that she had finally become a Christian. Talk about being late to the table, The next week she slipped into unconsciousness.
@JenniferSmith-dp9dz
4 күн бұрын
Thank God I found your channel! Going on day 4 since the last straw and I left. He’s got a pity party going on social media. He’s not attempted to talk to me yet. Im not responding or contacting him. I’m in Clearwater btw! Thank you Jesus for this support!
@Jer20.9
5 күн бұрын
This is poor characterisation, more of a caricature of a male overt narcissist. A female covert narcissist is way more subtle.
@sonjaanderson5998
6 күн бұрын
Got sound now Listening from 🇨🇦 canada
@laurent-vt9vo
7 күн бұрын
Amen and amen!
@lisevalade2746
14 сағат бұрын
Thank you❤
@kindredinspirit
5 күн бұрын
Oh my you’ve described to a T what I’ve been living beside. It has been the hardest 12 years of my entire Christian life and prechristian life.. never personally have met or be in relationship with this type person till I gullibly married one. From the day of I Do’s a whole other person showed up and never left. The mask was taken off never to return, you know the one that in my naivety and trust though was actually them. I’ve never seen that person again just the true them. Took 12 years before I was educated enough through research and channels like your to have it spelled out for me what the root of this was, I had been thinking he was just different and that the older he got the more the spirit of God would be working in him! Was I wrong he is not operating in the power of the Holy Spirit and never has that I can tell only pretended to be a lover of God, but there was nothing that I could see that emulated the character of Christ and the fruit of the spirit. I have no idea how to move forward, everything you said here in way of my family relationships etc he has destroyed through lies and abuse. I truly don’t know where to turn and how to navigate out of this to safety being my kids are now all grown and I’m alone with this man. He has fleeced all my resources I came to the marriage with and gained during, I’ve been a stay at home mom and have not worked for 30 years raising my five kids. At 61 I feel weak to the point of no strength for productivity don’t know if I could even hold a job in routine. No savings and a lot of belongings to try to manage. I feel completely stuck unless I leave with a car full of clothes and not one red cent in my hand. How do people get out of these things? I have a rage narc who is prideful and has laid his hands on me in the past. But to be honest that dark heaviness follows him where ever he goes it’s very rare that I don’t feel the heaviness in his presence. I had been waiting, hoping and praying for a miracle. As well I have been praying for an epiphany and it never comes.
@garrettmalone1420
5 күн бұрын
They are everywere!
@Maureen-q4r
15 сағат бұрын
Malignant Narc (ASD) is not "Name Calling" when I Rightly judge my "mother"! I AM in God's will for having No Contact with her and I am NOT a dishonorable daughter! My dear Christian husband (of 25 yrs) has gone low contact with his agnostic side and my "mother" truly enjoyed the negativity thrown at me--a.k.a. family scapegoat!
@lisamcmanamay8436
2 күн бұрын
I was married to a narc for 22.5 years. I had to get mentally well before I could leave him. Don’t depend on the church to help you.
@debbiefloresbrown5317
5 күн бұрын
My narcissist is Muslim. He broke me and now I'm left with the aftermath. Of course I question everything about him and his beliefs 😢😢😢
@victoriousjoy9338
4 күн бұрын
But why did you marry someone in a false religion??
@ManyThingsSeem
3 күн бұрын
Married a mus... wth did you expect? Lucky you are still l ving. - You'd better repent in Jesus' Name ✝️
@ginahertel6428
6 күн бұрын
My husband of 31 years confess to me that he's been struggling with lust our entire marriage and he knew it was wrong, but he knew he would have to tell me to stop and he said, if he told me he was afraid I would divorce him, so he decided he would have to. Struggle The rest of his life with lusting. After other women's bodies, he is 63 in the last 3 months. He was lusting after 20-year-olds and even doing it in front of me at the store. We started fighting. He had a stroke and now he said, since I almost died. I want to change my life. And be a faithful husband typical nark, when I would catch him when we first got married, I would say, what are you looking at and he would turn it around on me. You're crazy, I'm not doing nothing. What's your problem typical narc
@jen3104
7 күн бұрын
FACTS!
@l2love516
5 күн бұрын
🙏🏽 thank you
@truthseeker5698
Күн бұрын
Calvinists……..
@Mary-1000
5 күн бұрын
For the ladies........."The miracle is YOU changing and getting out"...........AMEN!!!
@Mary-1000
5 күн бұрын
Well oops suppose that's for the men as well. But women seem to have a harder time ending things.
@floaretudorache9287
5 күн бұрын
My husband
@patjones2082
7 күн бұрын
No audio.
@terrikilchenstein2549
6 күн бұрын
Is continuing porn grounds for divorce?
@saraheck7898
6 күн бұрын
I have asked myself this question many times. I believe it's cheating.
@terrikilchenstein2549
6 күн бұрын
@@saraheck7898thank you
@cellostrings2522
6 күн бұрын
Yes. It’s adultery. And I can guarantee that he is not just addicted to porn. He is more deeply involved than what you think!
@terrikilchenstein2549
6 күн бұрын
@@cellostrings2522thank you
@Rahel8811
5 күн бұрын
Yes cheating starts with the heart and haven’t control his/her lust of flesh and watching it also contributes to adult human trafficking, many of these porn industry have them stuck in blackmail and prostitution.
@rickykeller7069
Күн бұрын
I meet my covert wife on CHRISTIAN MINGLE go figure
@karenzilverberg4699
6 күн бұрын
🙏 Thanks, Dr. David.
@ThingsILove2266
6 күн бұрын
I’m been damaged by quite a few. But for anyone to stand in God’s place as judge… man I’m getting out of the way of the lightening bolt on this one.
@edmoran869
Күн бұрын
I'm halfway through the video and looking at the comments, and it seems as though only men are narcissists. REALLY? So it seems as though narcissism is linked only to the "Y" chromosome?
@ronpintx
Күн бұрын
'We met on Christian Mingle -- what could go wrong? She was a pastors daughter at-that! Now I know why she dismissed my assertion that "brokeness" and trauma are needed to fully convert your Life to God. Clearly, that is what she lacked -- having built her bulletproof Narc persona. She was *CULTURALLY* a Christian -- but not broken -- and as a narc -- maybe never will be broken :(
@denisevalley9021
12 сағат бұрын
Iowa!
@seekerofgrace2058
7 күн бұрын
I wish i heard you long ago. Nowherefor me to worship now bcs they don’t know narc evil & blame me & kids for divorce. Where is your church?
@deborahvallier9245
Күн бұрын
My oldest brother is a Narcissistic Christian. I am a Christian and helped him because he didn’t have a place to live or job. I bought my elderly mom a home and let him live there for free with her for 3 years to get on his feet, helped him with a car among other things. Now he wants to sue me and cause dissection between my mom and I! I see there’s Absolutely No Fruits of The Spirit… Love, Joy, Peace Long Suffering.
@rickykeller7069
Күн бұрын
Even though they have been BAPTIZED?
@PracticalChristianWarfare
Күн бұрын
Too many of us do not pay close attention to the specific fruit of the spirit and the flesh. In ourselves and others. Gossip anger slander etc have been far too acceptable for too long among believers
@Faith4Word
3 күн бұрын
In 30 yrs of marriage I did a lot of these things narc things to some degree and have been told I’m the narc. I love Jesus and do see these patterns in me and want free from them. My heart would wander and long for a loving man and would attach to someone else. Not anyone I could actually talk to but my heart wanted another man. I confessed that to him and worked hard to make it stop but always struggled. I did also and still have pointed out to the kids his unhealed issues with his dad and unforgiveness. I never learned healthy relationship patterns either. I did see I was right so many times but he would persist to do his foolishness. He was a deacon at church but finally confessed he was not a believer. I’m on year 3 of healing, but always confused about what’s going on with the kids and how to talk to them. Yes, lying and making up whatever stories he wanted was fun and taught my daughter. He makes me out to be the narc to the kids and it’s confusing because it’s not clear to them.
@rickykeller7069
Күн бұрын
My wife said she was afraid to File cause I have a Top notch lawyer
@Maria-s5y6p
7 күн бұрын
My narcissist filed 50 police report on me
@julievotaw3289
7 күн бұрын
Classic move for them!
@shirlspark_stardust
6 күн бұрын
Sick he will reap what he sows
@miffy2760
2 күн бұрын
What if I can’t move on logistically
@dixsigns1717
4 күн бұрын
Replay crew from Idaho!
@ElizzzaB
4 күн бұрын
They claim they are and I'm not 😂
@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter
6 күн бұрын
There is no sound
@oladipoademuyiwa7157
6 күн бұрын
From Nigeria
@MeetaMukerjee
5 күн бұрын
Will/ can a narcissistic parent/ sibling ever change by The Grace of Jesus? Can we expect some positive change in the behaviour of narcissistic parents/ sibling in future! Should we remain hopeful still or just disconnect with such narcissistic people?
@Prattle123
7 күн бұрын
No sound
@tamigiblin3807
5 күн бұрын
Still no sound
@francesbernard2445
6 күн бұрын
REad Corinthians 7:10-16; Luke 23 and Matthew 22:11 before diagnosing anyone with Codependance Dr. David Clark.
@mariesmith5670
5 күн бұрын
Why is this video person staying away from all Christian organizations now?
@believetrust502
4 күн бұрын
No sound
@rebeccarosebosky1265
5 күн бұрын
What should I do when my husband (the narc.) wouldn’t leave and I owen the house?
@888hereandnow
3 күн бұрын
Get legal help?
@elyabogins5587
7 күн бұрын
I live in Jacksonville FL. How can I help you Dr. Clarke?!
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