Its honestly so irritating when people will poke fun at someone famous having a meltdown, do they think they don't have any emotions?
@leolong2984
2 жыл бұрын
your pfp gives me life
@spectre9340
2 жыл бұрын
Love the little guy
@leolong2984
2 жыл бұрын
@@spectre9340 egg boi must be protected
@n3wyorkdoll
2 жыл бұрын
while i agree with this, i think it’s also important that many people assume that they’re doing it to gain attention, which may be why they decide to take it less seriously
@s-kee2928
2 жыл бұрын
@@n3wyorkdoll Some of them definitely are, like Nikocado doesn't film all the time yet always has a breakdown on video, even if he did always have breakdowns, why wouldn't he just constantly record for all the content he could make?
@DeLaSoul246
2 жыл бұрын
As someone with bipolar who had not heard of this incident at all, this sounds like a pretty textbook case of a manic episode. Could still be drug-related, of course. But it doesn't require drugs to happen. And just because the episode slows or stops, it doesn't mean the person will stop believing the things they thought during the episode. It really sucks, like a memory of a nightmare you had which still feels as real as it did in the moment. It's horrible and embarrassing to experience, and it's scary when it happens to a friend.
@kiwii5463
2 жыл бұрын
and even if its drug related, thats something that still requires attention and care!!! drug addictions are still illnesses, and for them to be treated with so much disdain and disgust is truly saddening
@DeLaSoul246
2 жыл бұрын
@@kiwii5463 100%!! This all isn't even the half of it. The accusations she is doing it "for attention" reek of misogyny... 😒 In any case, harming oneself for the sake of attention is also a red flag for mental illness and nothing to shrug off either. Sigh...
@cw2010
2 жыл бұрын
In poland there’s currently one very popular influencer who has bpd, she’s been having more and more breakdowns and the way people treat her while saying “oh no i respect mental health!” Is so rabid
@picahudsoniaunflocked5426
2 жыл бұрын
Take my like for the comment, plus the inevitable next 3 hours of me terrifying my cat with off-key renditions of "a roller sk8ing jam named 'saturdays'".
@marihawley
2 жыл бұрын
Drug use can trigger manic episodes and/or fuel them to continue. And it's easy to fall into a self medication cycle.
@samspam1788
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a mental health nurse and we had a patient who was famous. She kept posting erratically all over her social media and we had to take her phone away as the engagement she was getting was quite horrible in some cases
@manicpepsicola3431
2 жыл бұрын
Gabbie Hannah?
@auggiemain
2 жыл бұрын
@@manicpepsicola3431 maybe don't speculate on their patients?
@queentrinicorn9441
2 жыл бұрын
@@manicpepsicola3431 doctor to patient confidentiality 🤝
@MCArt25
2 жыл бұрын
@@manicpepsicola3431 it was you, the crazy person was you all along
@nepotic
2 жыл бұрын
@@LydiaTaylorMusic it's usually private information e.g name, diagnosis, or legal information
@moonxliqht
2 жыл бұрын
"if you find it funny, you can laugh. just maybe don't publicise it." THIS is one of the biggest problems on the internet. thank you for saying it.
@kittikat4124
2 жыл бұрын
The fact she let a stranger into her home, when she is notoriously really strict with her privacy and really freaks out when she feels her privacy is in danger, thats what really hit me as “this is incredibly real”. I have never liked when people say she is “faking” things, we dont know her mental health, and the tons of drama channels that will go after her at the drop of a dime are disgusting. She was clearly very unwell during this and it couldve ended very very differently if that guy wanted more than just clout, or if she had done something to herself to “prove” to comments she really was reborn. I truly truly hope she is okay and that her friends have shown up for her
@april5700
2 жыл бұрын
I think a relevant but less influencer era celebrity is Pete Wentz, the guy from Fall Out Boy, who has been diagnosed bipolar for his entire career and how the 'weird' or dangerous actions and things he would do while having a manic episode would be sensationalized for magazine headlines or even his suicide attempt were mocked by the 2000s era journalists
@EF-kk3vh
2 жыл бұрын
2000s era celebrity journalism was a whole other breed of misunderstanding and stigmatizing mental health struggles. Ugh
@zorro......
2 жыл бұрын
aint he the guy who dated a minor
@april5700
2 жыл бұрын
@@zorro...... I think he was like 22-23 and she was 17-18 but idrk
@biggestastiest
Жыл бұрын
@@april5700i am going to hope and pray that all that is holy that they were 18 but it's still kinda weird to me
@dyld921
Жыл бұрын
Also: Britney Spears' entire career.
@Sevenpuddingsx
2 жыл бұрын
You and Ro really keep my "online-empathy meter" in check.
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
I know, right? Sometimes I spend too much online and I swing back and forth between being completely cold to caring too much over "small" things
@evoregnar5354
Жыл бұрын
Who is ro
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
@@evoregnar5354 ro ramdin is a funny leftist KZitemr
@kesartedaer
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't actually believe Duncan would pierce his nose lmao it looks awesome!
@Man-ej6uv
2 жыл бұрын
HELLL YEAHHH
@kelsynicole9135
2 жыл бұрын
Right? I can’t wait for the hoop, we will be nose hoop twins lmao!
@notaburneraccount
2 жыл бұрын
So cute
@frankiesayspanic
2 жыл бұрын
also, not only can you not help public figures, you can’t even really help people in this kind of situation in your personal life. it can feel really helpless when someone you love is dealing with mania or psychosis or something like that, because unless it turns dangerous or they realize for themselves they need help, there’s really nothing you can do but be there for them.
@maimtubeTV
2 жыл бұрын
in a way, this is right. i've never experienced mania or psychosis, but i have experienced severe depression in the past. my family is amazing, but even though they were there for me at every opportunity, there was little they could do to make it better in the moment. that's something people often fail to recognize about mental health, and it makes things feel more hopeless for everyone involved. but, while that's true, i think you worded this a bit incorrectly. i think a more accurate way to say this would be to say that you can't always fix it or make it better. if being there for someone is really all you can do, then i would consider that to be helping :) therefore, there's actually a lot you can do to help! i think the larger issue here is that a lot of people think that in order to help, they have to make things better, which causes people to feel like they failed in helping if they can't do that. a better way of looking at it is that in order to help, you can just do your best to make someone feel like they're not alone, because validation and understanding is really the key to making someone feel hopeful when they're at their worst.
@NelsonStJames
2 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is all the people out here with mental disorders that don't have people in their personal life to turn to, because while people find entertainment in showing concern for public figures, they often shun the actual people around them who truly have these problems. Establishing a friendship with a person with a mental disorder is often too much work for most people to take on.
@Nerdorkgeek
2 жыл бұрын
You can’t fix people’s mental health issues but I do think you can help. I’ve had severe anxiety and depression for pretty much my entire life and last year I experienced psychosis (linked to a concussion) for at least a couple weeks. (I’ve had other mental illnesses but those three are all that have gotten diagnosed.) I can’t speak for everyone, but especially while experiencing psychosis there were very clearly people that helped me, and people that did not. My roommate at the time gaslit and isolated me as much as possible, my partner broke up with me and started dating my roommate, and whenever I suggested that this might be the case, they tried to convince me it was just the psychosis talking. Despite my roommate’s best efforts to keep our friends out of the loop they eventually found out I was having a health crisis and genuinely did help me in very concrete ways. They made sure to check in on me regularly, they helped ensure I was able to get food regularly, they helped me fill out forms to start therapy, they took me to the hospital, they listened to me talk about my experience and stress, and they helped me move when it was decided I should take a leave of absence from school until I recovered from my concussion. Those are all things that ABSOLUTELY helped me in recovering and now I’m back at school, and frankly I very likely would have died if only my partner and my roommate at the time knew about my concussion. TLDR: I would hate for someone to be discouraged against helping a friend in need when their support could genuinely save a person’s life.
@MagnoliaPantherWoman
Жыл бұрын
@@maimtubeTV Exactly 💯 That's exactly what happens. With some people, there's nothing the ill person can say to assuage a friend's emotional reaction to feeling like they failed, so more emotions and self defense mechanisms get dumped on the ill person. Both people back away and lose in that scenario. We need to handle our own emotions about our friend's illness and get support for ourselves as well. Professional support is scarcely available or accessible now bc of increased need, lack of therapists, year-long wait times, no insurance, high cost, etc all thanks to the mess we're in as a society. Community services are meant to be available to help people, but they're so inadequate that millions are left to fall through the cracks whether they are the friends or the ill person.
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
@Cainthony you made me tear up a little. You worded that really well
@Hoorkat
2 жыл бұрын
I have a homeless buddy who has either schizophrenia or bipolar who goes into very similar days/weeks long episodes, and unfortunately we have to avoid talking to him during these because it’s obvious he becomes far worse when given an audience. Cant imagine the adrenaline on such a massive scale.
@BeautifulSilence
2 жыл бұрын
One of the hardest things to learn about this type of mental health... Also have a friend that I essentially have to treat as incommunicado during episodes bc he gets manipulative and accusatory. Seems cruel to cut someone out of your life when they are struggling, but it is sometimes for the best.
@katerinaharness
2 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry is that a nose piercing???? talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, show stopping, spectacular, never the same, totally unique, completely not ever been done before!!
@EF-kk3vh
2 жыл бұрын
^^^^!!!!!
@suoutubez19
2 жыл бұрын
Why are you apologizing
@laurenl22
2 жыл бұрын
I noticed it and i was like has he always had this and i never noticed??? This confirms I'm not crazy lol thank u🙏
@sunnydayzz0
Жыл бұрын
@@suoutubez19 They’re probably Canadian lol
@Thebdippy
2 жыл бұрын
There are people with emotional issues who will convince themselves that their outbursts are part of "an act" they are performing because it's preferable to the realization that they are actually not fully in control of their own actions.
@axxwqw3117
2 жыл бұрын
i was like this for a long time. still not sure what i was going through? a couple different specialists suggested psychotic episodes but since i never saw or heard things that weren't there so it was off the table
@buttercupghost
2 жыл бұрын
The moment you talked about the writing on the mirrors, the delusions, and the fast talking my first thought was "oh. Oh! That's mania!" I've gone through that before! I know what it looks like! I have bipolar type 2 so my episodes aren't as strong as this, but... yeah, that's genuinely concerning. And... based on everything I've seen online, people do not take kindly to manic symptoms. People... it really feels like people hate bipolar people. It makes me-sad. Not saying this person is bipolar, but they are... exhibiting mania. Very clearly. Man, this whole story is... depressing. As someone with bipolar. It scares me. It's... the attitude I've seen online, it's awful. There was this video I watched where a girl talked about running away from home in a manic episode, and the video it was in went on to say she was "embarrassing" and "cringe" and "not cute". Like... we're hated. We're really hated, and that was the first time I really realized it, when I saw the video. This was a left-leaning person. This was someone who was progressive! And they were-being really ableist. People hate us. They really hate us. Even people who will pretend to be our allies.
@angla3383
2 жыл бұрын
people are being straight up disrespectful and toxic. mockering her making her this specticle to just come and watch and share. its so fucking horrible i hope someone they love never has to go through something like that especially in the public light like that. im so sorry that people mistreat bipolar people and theres such a stigma. hopefully others can become educated and spread awareness. stay strong luv
@EF-kk3vh
2 жыл бұрын
I’m not bipolar but I feel like some people on the internet say they care about mental health awareness until the ugly side of a mental health struggle shows itself. Mental health struggles aren’t cute and quirky, they’re painful and misunderstood. I hope the internet gets better at that. Stay strong and safe everyone
@Flameclaw123
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I've seen many people who claim to be against mental health stigma turn around and say really nasty stuff about people who have conditions like bpd and npd, especially the "uglier" symptoms of these conditions. Like, being pro-mental health awareness doesn't just mean supporting people with depression and anxiety - it means making an effort to understand and accommodate (when reasonable) ALL mental health conditions. It certainly doesn't mean people get a free pass to mock conditions viewed as dangerous or cringey and it's so disappointing to see otherwise progressive people engage in this behavior over and over again
@_zone7372
2 жыл бұрын
This is why I never tell people I’m bipolar unless I absolutely have to, like getting disability help in college for it and my ADHD, which has also historically been stigmatized. I find my condition embarrassing and feel shame and I wish I didn’t have to. It’s a cruel world out there.
@marnenotmarnie259
2 жыл бұрын
sometimes leftists are even more damaging bc they say shit like that but people see that they have some political views aligned with their own, and it makes them think "well maybe they're right about this if we also agree on all that"
@schroedericeman7200
2 жыл бұрын
Whether she’s actually having a manic episode or acting and being an awful human for exploiting bipolar people’s horrible struggles for clout, I sigh. It’s sad and frustrating, obviously for different reasons, no matter how you spin it. That said, regardless of which one of the two is real, I like Duncan’s point of stop giving her attention, and let her inner circle and herself handle it. That should apply to any internet meltdown
@manicpepsicola3431
2 жыл бұрын
As someone with bipolar 1 it looks like a textbook manic episode it's something that's incredibly hard to fake realistically
@SolitudeDayys
2 жыл бұрын
True, she’d still need mental help if she’s pretending to be manic and have bpd for promotional purposes. No stable human being would use such a tragic thing (manic ep) and use it for their gain like this.
@schroedericeman7200
2 жыл бұрын
@@manicpepsicola3431 Have you seen a really good portrayal in movie or tv of a manic episode and the come down from it? I’m curious because I’d never heard of one being done well
@axxwqw3117
2 жыл бұрын
@@schroedericeman7200 this is a good point, gabbie hanna found success through her incredible acting talent
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
@Schroeder Iceman why would you sigh if it's real?
@fanneiy
2 жыл бұрын
the overall theme of the video really reminds me of the movie NOPE that just came out, how humans will turn everything into a spectacle, how we have this kind of a pulse to look at/view things even when we know they are morally or ethically wrong.
@user-lx7cy6bc1x
2 жыл бұрын
the new mascot is so adorable!! also I hope your mental health will get better eventually, take care!!
@ajpoopfucker
2 жыл бұрын
W pfp I have that plushie
@lilr6199
2 жыл бұрын
@@ajpoopfucker ah man you said plushie and my mind jumped right to “Duncan’s got plushies??” But no you were only talking about wild west Garfield how could you do this to me?
@ajpoopfucker
2 жыл бұрын
@@lilr6199 God I wish he did
@adeer87
2 жыл бұрын
Cowboy Garf
@ithoughtiwascishet1316
2 жыл бұрын
hey duncan, just wanted to let you that you left her name in around 10:41. i just wanted to let you know in case you still don’t feel comfortable showing her name and want to change that. amazing video, i love your channel! thanks for offering different perspectives to big situations like this.💗
@HereForGoodVibes
2 жыл бұрын
Ya I saw that too. Just the first name but still knew who it was.
@1996Pinocchio
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, would've missed it without you! :)
@evoregnar5354
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@schmourt
2 жыл бұрын
I watched Patrick cc: video about this right before this one and checked her tiktok and she has deleted all the videos except for the viral sounds and is "moving to instagram" and it was seemingly a hoax to promote her new album, but I really don't know if that's entirely what it was. it... was intense. her videos seemed so genuine manic and frantic that I just have a hard time believing it was faked entirely. id even go so far as to say that her album promotion is simply on the coattails of this because why not!
@notaaronburr3177
2 жыл бұрын
I also saw Patrick’s video, just yesterday! So when I saw this post I immediately thought of her
@sylmaerie
2 жыл бұрын
that’s what i’m thinking! she knows she’s gotten away with causing outrage and/or concern online for the sake of promoting music before, and i think this is her form of “damage control” tbh. it does make me sad because i feel like it’s going to validate all the people who said it was 100% faked but i guess in her mind that’s the preferable outcome
@fleepfloop0061
2 жыл бұрын
People in manic episodes often do not recognise their own behaviour as manic, it might very well be she’s hiding behind this “hoax” narrative, but even then. No mentally sound person would take it THAT far.
@maryellenparmenter9303
2 жыл бұрын
I just don't believe she's a good enough actress for it to be entirely fake. She's not that good
@marnenotmarnie259
2 жыл бұрын
even if it was a hoax, anyone willing to post videos like that just for views is not exactly mentally healthy.
@ash_tray
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has struggled with meth and cocaine abuse, while there are some similarities between being manic and being high, there are clear differences that prove she is not on drugs. Can people really not fathom how strong the human brain is & the insane things we can convince ourselves of? Her being high HAS to be the only explanation? Come on.
@bessh2501
2 жыл бұрын
It’s also depressing that people were using her being “on drugs” as a justification to dunk on her… like if someone is addicted to drugs that doesn’t magically make it ok to revel in them having a breakdown/displaying behavior that they’d probably be embarrassed by if they were unimpaired. It’s still sad, just in a slightly different way.
@ash_tray
2 жыл бұрын
@@bessh2501 absolutely I agree. Even if she were on drugs, addiction is a disease. It is scientifically proven. She would be sick and in need of help. But it is very clear she is not high and I wish people would just leave her alone.
@mightymeatymech
2 жыл бұрын
Doesn't excuse the behavior but I also think sometimes people prefer to have *something* to blame. Cause if you were aware of how off the rails your own brain can get without any drugs I guess it must be scary.
@bessh2501
2 жыл бұрын
@@mightymeatymech Yeah, that’s true- and I think it also makes people feel better about watching something so personal and messy if they’re able to put some blame on the individual in question. A “they did this to themselves” kind of mentality.
@spockezri
2 жыл бұрын
i'm bipolar and work in rehab and yeah there are clear differences, no one ever believes me at my job but i'm pretty much always right about which it is 🙄
@TheDreRock
2 жыл бұрын
Just started the vid but gotta say 6 hrs Screen Time as a self roast was both relatable and humbling. Mine today says over 12 hours and the day isn’t even over yet 😭
@taylorfireflame
2 жыл бұрын
Chronically online
@TheDreRock
2 жыл бұрын
@@taylorfireflame fr
@Redhaux
2 жыл бұрын
4 days ago a friend committed suicide after a shit ton of attempts. He died right in front of my eyes and honestly the one thing I took away from this is that you can't save people like a super heroe. All you can do is reach out and be smart about it. You gotta open up your heart rather then waiting for others to find out what's wrong with you. Especially since depression is indeed a mental disease, but the act of taking your own life is a choice. That's the sad reality of it
@sakuraxisxevil
2 жыл бұрын
Anyone remember Etika? Remember what happened with him.. yeah. We’ve literally learned nothing. 😞
@toast_ghost143
2 жыл бұрын
i love the new mascot so much i would give up all of my life savings for him
@trans_ylvania8537
2 жыл бұрын
i will drain all my lifeblood and plasma into a little juice box for the new mascot to drink i love them so much
@transfixedtomography
2 жыл бұрын
this is so complicated and strange in the best way possible. i would too, tbh
@SnoFitzroy
2 жыл бұрын
oh my god same
@plunket7870
2 жыл бұрын
the concept of the spectacle returning makes my blood boil. there's a reason why there was a huge movement in the 19th century against it. people would literally hurt themselves and die just to create a spectacle.
@BeautifulSilence
2 жыл бұрын
Historian here who is also concerned about the return of spectacle! We should be moving beyond these things but humans have always been jamming on that sweet sweet schadenfreude.
@cricri1080
2 жыл бұрын
i would love to learn more about this 19th century movement. is there any sources I can look at?
@plunket7870
2 жыл бұрын
@@cricri1080 the impressionism movement (think claude monet) i think is what highlights the beginning of the anti-spectacle. the academy literally hated their works because they weren't grand enough. you could also look at modernism as whole.
@plunket7870
2 жыл бұрын
@@BeautifulSilence i have a theory that the return of the spectacle was linked to chris chan and the internet's treatment of her.
@Kalitayy
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus, that person who broke into the person's house really has a punchable, no, stab-able face
@lesbianage9538
2 жыл бұрын
I’m not really in the right mindset to watch this right now, but please know I support you Duncan and think this is a very important subject to talk about
@monkeymita
2 жыл бұрын
Love to see more men expressing empathy and kindness to situations regarding mental health!! Makes me so happy to see more of us speaking with a more emotional response to things like this. My first intro to this incident was through another youtuber who had a similar reaction where they too warned people to not get so invested in a way thinking it might help. It's always nice to see people who call out these situations as serious and needing to be handled by the person's friends and not their audience. This was a very good video and I'm happy it was the first I've seen of you. Also the piercing is cute, my dude. Your voice is soft as well. thank you for this sweet content!
@mrseaweed88
5 ай бұрын
As someone with autism who experiences meltdowns from time to time, i hate how people start treating these kinds of situations like an overreaction or someone being selfish. Literally everyone has emotions and it's important that as a society we can be open about this.
@elijahfergus
2 жыл бұрын
on a video about meltdowns…i got an ad for hair dye. youtube knows what’s up.
@dustyyshellz1320
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it was so relatable to me I haven’t even wanted or been able to consume the content about this because I have Bipolar and when I turned 20 I had my first and only massive manic episode which ruined me and my entire life and it was nearly identical to what she was saying and thinking/doing but I at least knew if I watched your video you’d cover this respectfully and without demonizing or clowning on her for what’s going on. Thank you man OH and I posted the entire fucking thing on Instagram too. Ugh lmao I though the constant rambling “profound” vids would make me rich and famous by the time I got out of the mental hospital (which treated me horribly btw) but yeah were absolute delusions of grandeur and I couldn’t be anymore embarrassed when I got out
@maimtubeTV
2 жыл бұрын
ugh don't even get me started on mental hospitals. im fully convinced that their real goal is to give mentally ill people such traumatic experiences that they fake feeling better after leaving because they're so scared of having to go back again. joking, but what can i say, it's a joke of a system. 😐
@dataexpunged93N15
2 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing for months after a family incident when I was 17 😭 rambling on stories publicly... Now I have genuine anxiety of those videos being rereleased and going viral years later lol. One of my biggest regrets for sure. I wish SOMEONE said, "whoa haha hey you shouldn't use the internet as therapy it's never a good idea" before I would spiral into that mindset. I'm glad Duncan covered this, I hope people see this and realize that therapy should be a private thing. (minus groups but that's still very different-)
@dataexpunged93N15
2 жыл бұрын
@@maimtubeTV nothing like the numb ride home after being released from a place where someone asks if you're okay every 30 seconds while you poop! 😊 Seriously though, they suck.
@mdg245
2 жыл бұрын
One of the things I appreciate in hindsight is that before I saw what was going on, all the videos I saw about it were reminding people that this is a mental health crisis, not to feed into it, not to harass her or hold her to her more harmful speech until she was in a better headspace and could stand by it or denounce it. I’m glad I follow enough people who think that way.
@nekovalley
2 жыл бұрын
I’m bipolar 1 and I frequently post my meltdowns on public twitter, simply because I’m hurting and want someone to notice and help me. When I’m feeling “normal” again, I regret it because I’m embarrassed that I publicized that and put pressure on people to help me. I think we, as either fans or passive observers of these people need to collectively show some restraint and just not watch these breakdowns. Most likely, these people (the ones that genuinely have mental health issues) already have friends that know how to help them. There’s nothing a random viewer can do to help, we can only make it worse. And just as an FYI, wellness checks can end up making things worse, especially if you’re a person that the police are known to be less than sympathetic towards. So please don’t do that.
@-Liska
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a really important thing to remember. Just because someone has an episode where their boundaries suddenly shift rapidly doesn't change that I'm watching them reveal things they would normally not want to show and share like this. Sometimes the polite and respectful thing is to avert your eyes and preserve that boundary for them. And if you know them personally, engage them with your concerns once they are back in a more stable place.
@SeventhSilhouette
2 жыл бұрын
y’all mental health goes past sadness and anxiety. people with “un-ideal” mental illnesses are often harassed by so-called mental health advocates bc some people are very ignorant on other disorders.
@JeevesPeabodyPOGO
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with a lot of what you said in this video, but there is one thing that I do not agree with. You said that if someone is going to have a breakdown, to do something safe. I'm bipolar 1 and I have regular, suddem, manic, psychotic episodes that typically past a week at a time. When I'm having a psychotic episode, I basically don't have any control over my actions. I think outrageous things that don't make sense and then act on those things. And while I'm having a psychotic episode, I don't realize that anything is any different or that anything is wrong. I just think I'm a celestial goddess that will stomp on the earth and cause it to crack in half and the only person that will survive will be the horror creature that I see in the mirror because it lives in an alternate universe where everyone's heads are melted and giant and all of this is normal and fine. You get what I'm saying? I'm not in the right mental state to know what is safe. I'm not saying everyone experiences this issue and can't do something safe while having a breakdown, I'm just saying that's not possible for some people. Also, anyone that says that someone who is having a psychotic episode posted something online, "voluntarily" doesn't understand psychotic episodes. That's like saying someone who is drunk off their ass consented voluntarily.
@katerinaharness
2 жыл бұрын
after watching your video, i completely agree with everything you said. i have bipolar, and i have a psychology degree, and i feel like i’ve had to say this and “out” myself so many times over the last week-ish to get any credit when trying to speak on this exact topic. i’ve worked really hard on myself. i still couldn’t watch more than three of her videos because they made me feel awful-awful that she was going through that, awful that she was going through that publicly, awful that i’ve gone through that and ruined so many good things in my life, awful that I couldn’t do anything for her, and awful that i couldn’t wave away the mob of people flooding her comments, even the well-intentioned people. when i was at my worst, the well-intentioned people were the ones who had me doubling down and willing to “show them” in the most detrimental ways. i really really appreciate the way you talked about this topic.
@-Liska
2 жыл бұрын
I have honestly really appreciated seing people who've had manic episodes or similar experiences sharing their thoughts in comment sections like this. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to make yourself visible when it comes to something that can be embarrassing and still carries so much undeserved stigma. All while being confronted with a barrage of all the worst takes people can possibly have on it. I have seen so many thoughtful people give their personal perspective on this, despite this. No matter how awful the sensationalism being fueled by this situation is, I hope this openness will at least shine through all of it. Conditions like this are a hardship, and we need to learn to take them serious as such. But never without forgetting the resilience and clarity people can develop when they have proper support to deal with them. It really sucks that this is something people need to "out" themselves for. But I hope everytime someone does it makes more people understand that someone who has episodes like this is really not that different from them as they'd like to believe.
@spockezri
2 жыл бұрын
same! i'm always having to self disclose and it's like. wish i didn't have to
@melodiousentropy
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this thoughtful and compassionate take on this situation. The whole thing has really highlighted how vulnerable people experiencing mania or breaks from reality become to external exploitation, and how inadequate (not to mention potentially dangerous) current mental health resources are for people in crisis. Few people understand how ill prepared the police are handling these types of situations in any meaningful way. It really shows the degree to which community resources need to expand so that people can receive appropriate help from those educated in mental health and trained in providing the best care and practices.
@RegularBeams
2 жыл бұрын
I had a severe mental breakdown last year and immediately I got two piercings, made a therapy appointment (that I should've started ten years ago), and bought a hedgehog, hellyeah! (I still have him, I take good care of him even though he bites me :)) But i remember the first night when it started (actually a year ago, 2021 august 30th), I asked my friend in a DM, sobbing, what she usually does when she has a panic attack. I get bad mental health days when I would post depressing stuff on twitter and then delete it minutes later. im not proud of it. but that one time she could tell it was serious and talked to me calmly, sent me a calming ASMR video (it actually helped even though I'm not into AMSR), and talked me through the whole thing for hours. I felt like shit having to put her through it but it was a crises unlike any other and I don't know what I would've done if I had nobody to ask for help. (It also helped me to stuck my head in ice cold water, btw, in case anyone's looking for tips.) PS.: cartilage piercings take aaaaaages to heAL
@Pesciolotto
2 жыл бұрын
I have borderline personality disorder. Having this kind of breakdowns is terrifying, I've recently had a 3 months long one. I can't even imagine how hard it would be to experience this while being in the public eye.
@v_bunny
2 жыл бұрын
having bpd is such a difficult thing to go through, to say the very least. it’s another thing highly stigmatised which is really sad to see, but it’s also nice to see others bring to light what it really is. this is just to say that you’re not alone, and i’m proud of you for continuing on, despite the hardships and any people making you feel bad for dealing with these very valid issues! you’re doing a great job, even if you don’t think so
@jesssheetzz
2 жыл бұрын
Duncan, you did miss censoring her name at 10:35. It seems like you censored it every other time and I'm not sure if you wanted it in the video at all! Thanks for covering this topic - very thoughtful as always! 😊
@This-Present-Darkness
2 жыл бұрын
This video was excellent. I’ve recently been watching many of your videos and it’s refreshing to see a commentary channel approaching topics with an empathy first approach. You emphasize human dignity and personhood. I always learn so much from you. Thank you, Duncan.
@punxsutawneyphilofficial
2 жыл бұрын
I really like how you encouraged people to talk about this person's actions critically as though they were in the room with them.
@saltydinonuggies1841
2 жыл бұрын
I have psychosis that correlates to my ptsd and I’ve made a plan with both my friends and my partner for what to do if my psychosis gets triggered while we’re in public. Luckily I’m pretty easy, I’m not a flight risk of anything, but I’d suggest trying to do this if you have severe mental health struggles too. You know you best. The biggest things I told my friends is to just give me space and keep people away from as best you can. Hopefully relatively soon I’ll be able to get my service dog prospect to have a safety net in case my friends are struggling to help. They’ll be able to orbit me and make space around me. I highly suggest everyone does this if their struggles can seem to come out of nowhere and/or are very severe. I don’t leave the house much and this is one reason why I don’t. Having a set plan is helpful when I do need to leave the house.
@ploijgo
2 жыл бұрын
i feel like this is an actual example of how social media is desensitizing us to other peoples’ trauma. i don’t think the internet is capable of completely erasing peoples’ empathy, but i do think it’s capable of creating weird spaces where that empathy is discarded. i feel like it’s esp true of tik tok
@morganwentworth2041
2 жыл бұрын
I got off Facebook and Twitter because every time I was going through it and posted about it, any amounts of response just made me feel worse
@zshinabargar
Жыл бұрын
king really said "copyright strike? couldnt be me"
@vicmint
2 жыл бұрын
I have BPD. I was an impulsive, angry and self destructive teenager until I actually started understanding myself. I hurt people I love in the past. Mental illness is ugly, it's not a tumblr aesthetic board with cigarettes and songs. it's a loss of control that anybody with no illness wouldn't be able to understand. The more I see the whole internet mentality around it, the scarier I get, and the more I'm worried that people won't believe in readaptation and second chances at life. Do I think it's an excuse to be a bad person? No, obviously it's important to seek help if possible, and nobody owes you forgivness if you hurt them in bad times, but thinking people can think as rationally and logically in those situations is tone deaf. For example, As much as I don't defend her actions, Amber Heard, although an abuser, was obviously not well. People would say ''bpd isin't an excuse for her to act this way'' or ''I have (insert mental illness here) and I don't act this way, mainly because everyone is different, but also because their perception of BPD and other disorders is this romanticized idea, when in reality it's convincing yourself of something that is obviously a lie, it's falling so deep into delusion that you lose your sense of control when your ''favorite person'' leaves and trying to best to pick up the pieces with odd meltdowns and even lies. I don't mean that BPD makes you a liar, obviously, and thinking that people with it are evil is garbage, but it changes a person, it makes them act in ways that nobody will understand if they haven't gone through it. Plus, if it's true that she was only diagnosed as an adult, that means she went her whole life with no help, and the whole world saw her in the worst of it. This goes for everyone that's famous and mentally ill. Also, anybody living with serious mental health problems knows that the more you get put in the spotlight, the more distressing it gets and tends to worsen your state. Obviously I don't know all the details of Amber Heard, Gabbie Hannah, Kanye, or any other celebrities known for those situations, and I used Amber as an example because I followed it very closely when they were mentioning BPD, and I still think these people need consequences for their actions, but most of all they need serious help. Being diagnosed as an adult makes it MUCH harder to get help, and might have already gotten you some damage, maybe from psychosis, lack of sleep, etc etc. You don't have to forgive a mentally unwell person for their actions, and you have the rights to protect yourself from a violent person if it comes to it, or cut a toxic person away, but that doesn't mean people aren't deserving of starting over a new life with proper therapy or so. I hope I make sense in this, the last thing I want is being perceived as an abuser apologist, or racist/sexist/etc apologist, I just want people to know that mental illness changes the perception of everything you experience. I'm tired of people saying they support mental illness but then mocking someone when said illness makes them act in certain ways. ps: I also want to say that most mentally ill people will never be a danger to others, but it does happens, and it can happen, and that's why we need to encourage mental help. We also need to remember that we only started having actual help with it recently, in the grand scheme of things, and even then, it can still be really hard to find proper help, or very long.
@nickyvt2003
2 жыл бұрын
My sister has bipiolar and many times she would just break down in boughts of sadness or anger and hurl her stuff around her room. I can't begin to understand what it must be like for her. I hope you are doing good.
@bm9626
2 жыл бұрын
sometimes its nice to pretend it is tho and i can also get the lana del ray cigarette coquette whatevers point of views sometimes
@grayce5884
2 жыл бұрын
i completely agree with what you’ve said. i had a terrible (and first) OCD episode in the past year and a half and while i’m doing much better (thanks to CBT) it’s still something that i think about/come into contact with everyday. and in the midst of the episode, at its worst point, my reality was as you said; altered, not the same, horrifying to live in and i felt like i had no control over myself. i had convinced myself that i was a monster. i know BPD and OCD aren’t the same, but that part you mentioned resonated with me and i wanted to share. i don’t think you’re coming off as an apologist in any form btw, you’re more just providing further context into something truly insidious and life altering. thank you for sharing your thoughts, i hope you’re doing well 💗
@blablablaj
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent contribution, I am really moved by it. Time to rethink some things and reevaluate some situations fr
@MsOdd86
Жыл бұрын
Yeah while I agree it was very good to see a grand example of narcissistic abuse and how it starts through Amber, it also demonized BPD a lot… I understand her emotional reaction and inability to control it, but her coldness and physical abuse (like literally cutting off Johnny’s finger???) is NOT attributed to the BPD. That’s her own personal brand of evil sitting on top of it
@foxv634
2 жыл бұрын
your videos just keep getting better-I love your empathetic approach to everything. It’s so refreshing. :)
@frankiesayspanic
2 жыл бұрын
this is someone that i’m very much not a fan of, however when i first heard about how serious this seemed, i was worried for her. i have bipolar disorder and know how bad mania can be. i can’t understand finding it funny. not caring? sure whatever. but making memes is just shitty.
@hannahsaintvictor6496
2 жыл бұрын
the new mascot is the most perfect being i have ever seen
@emmelinesprig489
2 жыл бұрын
omg. i just realized trisha paytas’ username is shorthand for BLONDE sundoll, not BLIND sundoll. makes sense now.
@maimtubeTV
2 жыл бұрын
this is such an amazing and thorough analysis! i love how you think about things through a lense that's both rational and optimistic. it brightens my day, makes me think, and most importantly: it communicates the idea that positivity is logical, which is something i think a lot of us could use right now. also, i love the new mascot and the transition screens. it's such a nice touch how the little guy is surrounded by darkness at first but then it lights up at the end, it's very cute and very representative of your content :)
@kait711
2 жыл бұрын
I love this mascot so much adding on- the editing on this video is really good !! really added a lot :)
@75sol21
2 жыл бұрын
This is random but The new text pop up sound is so nice… a lot of great new things in this video!
@pyrofur_nx
2 жыл бұрын
i think it's the GBA startup sound
@sweetsour4375
2 жыл бұрын
I try to educate people in my life by talking about my autism. I would like to be understood. Turns out, lots of people don't give a shit. They don't want to learn. It's frustrating. Part of the issue is that people are uninterested in learning. I fear having a meltdown in public and people responding in a way that makes things worse. I wish people wanted to learn.
@corvideer1738
2 жыл бұрын
I've got Bipolar 1 and had the worst manic episode I've ever experienced with psychosis around last September where I was having hallucinations, stayed up for 3-5 days in a row, and speaking erratically about believing conspiracy theories I wouldn't believe in a more balanced state of mind. One day, I posted a long manifesto-like message in my friend group's discord at 4 am and was met with a laughing gif, weird "thinking" emojis, and a handful of heart emoji reactions. No one reached out. I then decided to speak to no one- disappeared for 2 months. When the manic episode crashed into depression, I attempted to end my life in silence. My workplace caught onto my disappearance too and called a wellness check on me- A uniformed officer showed up to my apartment at 7am asking if I "really wanted to do this"- to which I desperately tried to shrug off because of trauma from a previous police interaction, hoping he would just leave. I couldn't bring myself to seek help and the reason I gave to professionals later was that I felt cringey, that it was weird and immature to "act out." I could have saved a lot of heartache and physical damage by reaching out to a hotline or my psychiatrist, but my friends' reaction at the time made me feel invalidated and insecure for having needs- so in my altered manic state, I didn't. People experiencing mania deserve compassion. Even if they're being "weird." Honestly, one of the biggest cycle-breakers when you're in that state is nonreactions, not feeding into the posts, but reaching out- expressing to your friend that their behavior is frightening or worrisome and advising they reach out to professionals. Don't try to handle your friend's serious state on your own. There are typically resources online and crisis hotlines in your county as well as the 988 number if you're in the U.S. Stay strong and be serious, but treat the affected person like a human, recognize they are extremely vulnerable, and direct them to help. (sorry this is super long but thank you for reading)
@FlyToTheRain
2 жыл бұрын
this reminds me a bit of being a teacher and dealing with a student displaying behaviors. one of the core functions of behavior is attention and we often suggest other students to ignore when someone is having an episode and just let an adult handle the situation. reacting to the person only makes the situation worse.
@sonorasgirl
2 жыл бұрын
Did we learn NOTHING from Free Britany? I mean, I HOPE people will look back on this stuff the same way we look at how we treated her in the 2000s.
@maxtonlevine7111
2 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say thank you for remaining a voice of compassion and moderation in a space that socially and financially incentivizes the inverse. stay real king
@KelseyHontz
2 жыл бұрын
Empathy, a nose piercing, *and* now a little mascot guy? These videos just keep getting better!
@steviebea
2 жыл бұрын
screaming and crying for the new channel mascot it’s so cute
@marihawley
2 жыл бұрын
My grandmother had bipolar, back when it was still called manic depression. When she went through manic phases she would go on religious mission and people in her church and religious circles were so quick to praise her for all the long hours she spent working for "the lord"... well where were these people when she'd come home and crash and drop down to 80 pounds and sit in a closet in her own shit for months. It's a scary illness and if this person is really using this for her "art" that's sick. But what's more likely is her total lack of self awareness and those around her IRL just write this off as her being her.... but the cycles only get worse with time, you can only self- correct so many times. My grandma survived her episodes to die a very old woman but it took the family years of work to help her get better. It also doesn't help when there are forces "rewarding" or reinforcing these episode.... my grandma had a church, this person had the whole ass internet.
@sophiethepegasus
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I would also not be surprised if she feels like she's having to hide behind 'this was an act'... because whether it's now or in a few months, she's going to be horrifically embarrassed over these videos. And she's seen that her audience is not the audience that will necessarily respond appropriately to a discussion of mental health. What other choice does she have? Also, I am very glad that your grandmother had your family. It warms my heart.
@Tymbus
2 жыл бұрын
I think people calling for "wellness checks" are entirely reasonable. However, I asked for wellness checks on people I knew who seem to be in difficulty and I was investigated by the police for making bogus calls (they weren't)
@notaaronburr3177
2 жыл бұрын
I agree, the wellness checks are a genuine and valid response to the situation and I feel like the fact that it didn’t work for her is the police’s fault and not the fault of those making calls
@pepper4481
2 жыл бұрын
@@notaaronburr3177 To be fair, all wellness checks are supposed to do is someone is actively in danger or going to harm someone else. With the current system if they show up and the person is like “I’m fine and I’m not going to hurt anyone or myself” then there’s nothing they can do even if the person seems unwell mentally
@colorbar.s
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not american but wellness checks just sound traumatic to me. That can't be helpful for anyone.
@Rylee_G
2 жыл бұрын
@@colorbar.s yeah I really love getting cuffed because I'm sick while I'm crying
@PM-xu2nq
2 жыл бұрын
@@colorbar.s Well I mean they are and have obviously been helpful for plenty of people who would be seriously harmed or dead without them. Not to say they can't be negative experiences, but, there's a reason they're a thing.
@nicolegaudette
2 жыл бұрын
I think we have two problems, two camps, that are opposite sides of the same coin: on one side, we have the problem of parasocial relationships and people feeling that they *personally* know people like social media influencers, get invested in unhealthy ways (they themselves also have mental health issues most of the time), and want to get involved (ie those calling the cops for mental wellness checks, which can be well-meaning *except* damn they go wrong so much of the time, and let's face it, police are NOT mental health professionals anyway). What's sad on the influencer side is you make more money this way, so there's no incentive to not cultivate these bad connections with followers. Then there's the other side of the coin, the other camp, which is the apathy. Influencers and famous folks are at a distance, completely untouchable for most, and this makes them super easy targets for ridicule and unjust hate. They're not seen as actual people with actual feelings, so they're safe to hurt because they don't *really* hurt. Yet again, the influencer is motivated to keep this "image" up because they make more money. Basically, the algorithm and social media platforms reward people from showing authentic meltdowns AND for being fake. There's not much good in the middle of that! (kids, please stop worshipping the tech billionaires, they design these platforms to be this toxic ON PURPOSE) P.S. Duncan, loving part 4 hair and glasses = 🔥 (the nose ring will have to grow on me ha)
@itsflappletime
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ, the guy who broke into her house seriously reminds me of spree, especially with all of the people following him. It was a warning and we've failed
@melbapeach162
2 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I thought of.. have a feeling those people following and laughing thinking it was funny need to see that movie.
@verushka7405
2 жыл бұрын
Giggling and kicking my feet rn bc new kuncan upload
@emmelinesprig489
2 жыл бұрын
incredible point about how most of us lack basic mental/emotional skills to help others in times of distress. this is a skillset that needs to be developed culturally. like, instead of giving us psychology classes that just describe different conditions, why not include some practical approaches to supporting people who have those conditions? especially considering that a vast majority of homeless people are struggling with mental illness. wishing people well is the bare minimum, yet we can’t even do that as a society. really making me think about ways this could be changed…
@xoxoglo
2 жыл бұрын
“I’ll just watch something here without purpose to redistribute it” I’m weak I love you
@magic_steve
2 жыл бұрын
I flipped off the phone on the truthfulness of having screen time longer than most movies, then choked on my microwave dinner when he revealed that was his screen lol. That got my like and this comment. I know most don't gaf, just commenting for algorithm.
@colinjohnson2655
2 жыл бұрын
Dang Duncan, with every upload I am more and more impressed with how you approach difficult topics with so much empathy and gentleness. Thanks for being such a positive voice. The internet needs more people like you.
@emilyjones5010
2 жыл бұрын
I hate that so much of tiktoks comments have become just straight up bullying
@estheromoyele3321
2 жыл бұрын
so happy to see the happi guy in the intro- what a swell boy x
@SnoFitzroy
2 жыл бұрын
Been having a terrible week culminating in today being one of my worst mental health days in months. I needed to hear this today. I'm just glad that people still give a shit about mental health. Also the animations were super cute! I think the second one (even if by accident) really captured the sense of hypervigilance that follows a traumatic event. OR just social anxiety in a crowded place. I find myself looking around a lot in EXACTLY that way while I'm in public, most of the time.
@itsannapop
2 жыл бұрын
it's so difficult to see much positive or upside here but something you said stood out- the bystander effect was basically reversed in a good way where people thought no one got the police involved to check in on her and therefore stood up to the occasion, sending a few officers to at least stop by so if she really needed the help, she had someone reaching out who even if they don't know the best way to handle it, could hopefully give her the options of resources and people to get good help from. it sucks that sometimes it feels like watching a downfall but in a way I'm glad there's some good people caring that she maybe gets peace if there's something in her that cant find it.
@girldavid
2 жыл бұрын
the nose piercing is SO CUTE
@thedreammweaver6274
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't know this was going on, I'm mostly on Black tiktok so most things I've seen about this situation is the racially insensitive comments she's been making, those are still awful but I guess now it makes more sense of why she's suddenly talking about stuff like that? I did see the home invasion thing though, that's scary as hell and the number 1 thing you shouldn't do to a person suffering mentally who has no idea who you are.
@autumn7809
2 жыл бұрын
Happy to have gotten to the age where I missed almost all of this happening.
@hopeknight6900
2 жыл бұрын
Me too its okay
@danisonice.
2 жыл бұрын
Yolkster brings a whole new energy to your videos
@Live_Laugh_Loathe
2 жыл бұрын
I will end all that threaten the little man's happiness I swear to live by that yellow ball
@annaissodone
2 жыл бұрын
I do blame TikTok for her meltdown. She repeatedly said that she's a social media addict and making her stories viral and showing her on everyone's fyp they fed into her addiction. Also her fans are weirdly encouraging her to be "authentically herself". So very strange dynamic. The creator audience divide is just gone!!
@freethegays
2 жыл бұрын
If she had a manic episode it could have been a number of factors that caused it. I don't think you can blame an app for someone's brain chemicals changing like that.
@annaissodone
2 жыл бұрын
@@freethegays not caused but made it worse by trending the videos. Surely there are no people sitting in TikTok and making videos viral by hand but the design of the app is the problem here.
@melissabennett4328
2 жыл бұрын
Ok I'm going to be totally honest I didn't know who the video was about. I don't really follow KZitem news so I was completely out of the loop. Anyway I read your comment and went Gigi Hadid?? So for anyone else as confused as I am, Gigi Hadid appears to be perfectly healthy. GH is a KZitemr not a mainstream celeb.
@melinaalba63
2 жыл бұрын
Can you maybe tell me who this is about?
@nuky9307
2 жыл бұрын
@@melinaalba63 Gabbie Hanna I think
@gorybot
2 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for a while, and it's so refreshing to see someone look at these topics from an analytical standpoint. your videos are always great quality, keep up the good work duncan! 👏
@estheromoyele3321
2 жыл бұрын
Also as a side I looove the Cult of the Lamb music in the background, really nice~ x
@donthaveabreakdown5608
2 жыл бұрын
It’s also a difficult situation seeing someone you don’t know at all struggling on social media. Sometimes I want to comment and sometimes I do but it always feels generic as I don’t know this person, but at the same time, I want to help people who are going through it. It’s a tough position
@alexdeahl3058
2 жыл бұрын
I really love your nose piercing. I did the same thing when I just felt like I was going nuts. I just needed to change something and it's exactly what I needed. It's all healed up and I have a ring in now. It’s worth it to wait longer to put the ring in so you have less of a chance of developing a bump. It looks great! Love you! 💕
@npccarol9659
2 жыл бұрын
welcome back duncan!! ily and hope that you are in a safe place
@mamamommy42
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if everyone just collectively forgot about what happened with Etika or if it's a wholly different group of people on tiktok being spectators but it scared me a lot when it was happening that something a lot more drastic was going to occur if people pushed her hard enough.
@BrynDonovanWriter
2 жыл бұрын
I like the lil guy :) Very thoughtful talk, as per usual. Sending you good wishes.
@otiopipo5948
2 жыл бұрын
It happens so often nowadays on the internet but I just still can’t get over how fucked up it is for people to be making fun of others mental health crises’ and follow along like it’s some amazing reality show. There is person behind the camera who probably needs a lot of help…
@alivenotwell
2 жыл бұрын
It's weird how much this ties into what Channel 5 just uploaded about O-Block.
@Thelostboots
2 жыл бұрын
I was going to watch that but I had to watch this first! 💕💕💕
@MurrayTheMac
2 жыл бұрын
It's Gabbie Hanna.
@SuperNicktendo
2 жыл бұрын
yeah everything is a TV show nowadays. It's so bizarre. Like watching someone have a complete mental break in real time and be like "lemmie get my popcorn, this is good stuff"
@Strawlighte
2 жыл бұрын
I have been so curious as to how this situation would be addressed. I think you did a marvelous job!
@Cindyxx0
2 жыл бұрын
I also think that people thought it was real, but they dislike the person because they've done bad things
@twiggledowntown3564
2 жыл бұрын
I really do hope she gets the help she needs, because that did seem like a maniac episode.
@identity-crisis-exe328
2 жыл бұрын
i love the lil dudes and we got our nose pierced at the same time :)
@christophermiller3031
2 жыл бұрын
Great video. Algorithm suggested it and Yas! Good job bud, I subbed. JSYK I was born in 1986... Sooo I grew up before smartphones existed... And I just want to point out that back in the day, everybody was watching 6-8 hours of television a day. You even had to schedule your life around when content was being released because there weren't even any PVRs. So I swear that consuming so much media on the phone is legitimately just a luxury compared to what watching so much tv was like. Like atleast using the phone is more engaging than when I would spend a whole weekend watching TV. Atleast for me, the time I used to spend watching so much tv has simply transferred primarily to the phone screen and am ability to have more control over the content I watch. All the while I get to engage with it and find a new channel ;)
@elsa4206
2 жыл бұрын
i saw this video on my home page and said a lil yis out loud cos ur vids make my day a lil brighter :)
@namerequired8203
2 жыл бұрын
The topic of this video is very heavy so without being dismissive about that fact I would just like to say I wish I was friends with you in real life. You just seem like a nice person to grab a drink and talk about the world with. Thank you for speaking about these issues with empathy and compassion.
@Lena-xy8id
2 жыл бұрын
The situation is very frustrating and frankly it is upsetting that people react differently over the internet than in person. Especially as my brain matures it is heartbreaking
@maryellenparmenter9303
2 жыл бұрын
The opening monologue on spending too much time online is too accurate
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