Yup, women desire men who don’t try to impress them. One of the best ways to do that is to have a clear sense of your own values and standards. This shows that you respect yourself and have integrity. It also helps you filter out women who are not compatible with you.
@peterwilliams6361
Жыл бұрын
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
@peterwilliams6361
Жыл бұрын
@Emilio Yepez its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@yvesgysel9834
Жыл бұрын
"Women want what they can not have." This is so true. Unlike men, women do care how a guy is perceived by other women ( especially women, who are perceived as attractive by other women). Get it, guys.
@ligerllama
Жыл бұрын
There's a balance. These are great points.
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@victorprodigy9832
Жыл бұрын
I checked out this KZitem channel because I was shocked to see a woman who knows exactly what they want, helping out with topics that even mothers don't... Lol. I thought that women especially around their 20s need to be given time and space for them to figure out what they really want in a relationship. I wonder what would happen if a guy showed his girlfriend/spouse this channel and told her that this is where he gets relationship advice... Whether she will appreciate the man's efforts for a successful relationship, or feel quite manipulated, it is really very interesting to see the lady's reaction.
@terrywilliams2349
Жыл бұрын
Apollonia is giving us some Game!! Great Video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! :-)
@Jango975
Жыл бұрын
I don’t need a woman magnet I just need my soulmate just one
@BabylonBurnout
Жыл бұрын
Perhaps consider a best friend (male or female) as a soul mate, and someone who shares the same values and attitudes as you but still has contrasts and differences as a partner. The problem with soul mates is that women lose interest very quickly as soon as they feel like they can read your mind.
@Jango975
Жыл бұрын
@@BabylonBurnout women are the wurst thing god ever created
@TomFox1
Жыл бұрын
They think i’m trying to hard to impress them but i’m highly intimidating and high value.
@georgelelandturner
6 ай бұрын
I’ve always been like this and women have always been chasing me, since middle school. It’s never stopped.
@TheColtonStreeter
Жыл бұрын
Even when I'm busy I can still talk and still miss her
@whitewolf9547
Жыл бұрын
All these dating guru videos are tips for women that aren’t that into you. When you find the right one, you don’t need to worry about 90% of these things
@endtimes2
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, until you end up in the relationship and she then loses interest in you because you didn’t follow sound advice
@christophervanzetta
Жыл бұрын
@@endtimes2 if she looses interest she was never worth it to begin with 😂
@whitewolf9547
Жыл бұрын
@@christophervanzetta exactly Lmao. Good luck going through a whole relationship trying to be something you are not.
@whitewolf9547
Жыл бұрын
@@endtimes2 bro I would rather lose a woman than try too hard to have her. if she leaves, its on to the next one my boy
@Enochrry6024
Жыл бұрын
Why are many men these days saying ""she will loose interest in you""?..can a man loose interest in a woman these days?.
@rjagger1395
Жыл бұрын
She makes it sound like women are a lot of work
@michaelv2904
Жыл бұрын
Never change for a woman or anyone else; instead, change for yourself. By doing so, you will realize the true value of personal freedom and the benefits of being single. Unfortunately, women are often dissatisfied and unhappy, constantly seeking flaws in their partners. Happiness is not something to be demanded from others, but rather something to be shared. The main cause of separations and divorces among couples is the misguided belief that one's partner will solely bring happiness into their life. These are the undeniable facts surrounding this matter.
@temitopemichael13
Жыл бұрын
❤
@The_Gentleman73
Жыл бұрын
Another great video. Good advice!
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching. Appreciate the comment.
@joseabad2552
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this amazing information have a wonderful day ❤
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@angeldiaz762
5 ай бұрын
The fact of the matter is, we know for a fact that "smarter IS harder" with women. The problem with that is, that we get told that, but most of the coaches, dating newsletters, forums, etc that a lot of guys get sucked into (myself, circa 2015 included...) don't really give us anything to work with and never really elaborate on the concept or give us examples. Y'know, a "here's what most guys try vs here's what to do instead" kind of a deal. Alternatively, then guys hear something like this, it can lead to them to adopt a "strategy" of never doing anything to advance the relationship or interaction forward. Ironically, they act super uncaring, noncommittal, not asking her out, and the woman decides that he must not be that into her, and she decides to NC/ghost him. And the whole time he thinks he's "doing it right" and then bam! She's gone/leaves.
@ROBERTDAVis2271
Жыл бұрын
Great video 👍🏿
@joeladams2327
Жыл бұрын
Another great vid my sista ty luv ya
@BabylonBurnout
Жыл бұрын
It gets quite funny when both have the same neuroses and each alternately becomes clingy and then distant again.
@TomFox1
Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@boronboron3858
Жыл бұрын
Nice content. Thanks 👋👋👏👏
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it. Thank you.
@frimpongemmanuel9196
Жыл бұрын
The more you give in less,the more you will find to be valuable.
@Enochrry6024
Жыл бұрын
Less is more..in other words.
@qazwsxedc964
Жыл бұрын
i feel its not realistic because majority women value the chase, over the quality of the person.
@digitalbrand2930
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sweetmapleleafs
Жыл бұрын
I can't wait til AI fembots become a thing. Like, beyond the sexual aspects of it. The problem with us men is that we're easily manipulated by women, especially those who are damaged goods. We can't save them from their psychological issues, can't help them fix their situation, yet we're always trying to. And this fascination of sex...it's the most overrated act in the history of the world. One thing men and women need to understand right now is that nothing you do is never, will never be enough for him or her.
@edwardloizides5415
2 ай бұрын
You all play games. I’m extremely successful and do bring a lot to the table in a very good way. What you see is what you get. I’m a widower, rich ( was wealthy until she passed), intelligent, good looking , and a professional. Up yours if your going to play hard to get. I’m very nice . Do not mistake my niceness for weakness. You can’t text in a timely fashion because you are “ busy” ? really ? Forget it these are games ! And not honest ones !
@jiggyjames9237
Жыл бұрын
Remember you are always loved bye for now…
@deyyeller4909
Жыл бұрын
I would like to unfortunately point out that you have just highlighted exactly why many women are attracted to and get involved with other married men. They give the impression of scarcity, that is they appear rare and hard to obtain. They probably don't have to try to hard either and the attention they give comes off as unique and incredibly validating - especially to women who are especially vapid and shallow.
@sherifelhousseini4853
8 ай бұрын
many women are cute but average looking but not hot, when they desire hot men they are basically losing their time cos they wont get them. we men are told to be realistic about our expectations, that is fine but i suppose women should do the same
@ljfanta66
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it works. Only problem is that if I don’t try hard, it means I don’t give a f***
@Cee_Eff
Жыл бұрын
And she takes it as you won't jump through hoops for her😄
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
There is a HUGE difference between not trying hard and "not caring".
@davidtaylor1164
Жыл бұрын
That's what it sound like. A woman wants you to ignore her. But if you're ignoring her, that means you're not interested.
@dannya.5812
Жыл бұрын
Apollonia, can you do a video on reconnecting and reattracting an ex after a long period of No Contact?
@kozy15x
Жыл бұрын
I see this question on every single on of Her videos. I have to tell you man, you're better off moving on. It will hurt but you will feel so much better and will wonder why you clung to something that isn't there.
@dannya.5812
Жыл бұрын
@@kozy15x I hear you man and agree for most cases. However, every relationship and breakup is different. Depending on the situation, both parties could have grown and leveled up after a really long no contact period. When reconnecting, I know it is important to have a completely different mindset and I’m curious what Apollonias thoughts are on this and the best way to go about it.
@ez-g3090
Жыл бұрын
Find a young one. The best thing a woman can give a man is her youth. A man settles where he finds peace not chaos.
@Jason.cbr1000rr
Жыл бұрын
Mines now hasn't replied in over a week.. before that it was every 2 days lol. She asked me out to catch up sometime when we free.. I said how bout this weekend she said next month or something.. its 2 more weeks til then.. btw she's a childhood school friend that we went til h.s 😔🤔 After a week of no reply after a week to just check in seeing is she fine since it's been a awhile. She also said she just came off a 10yr relationship idk if its recent or a while ago. I'm thinking she's either found someone already or went back to her ex.. 😑
@H2o.001
Жыл бұрын
Never pretend to be who you are.
@1005618
Жыл бұрын
Thx that has me understanding more, thank you
@kharmpoiphoumsavath1571
Жыл бұрын
WHAT!😊i have been trying two years now to be with this girl who is my heart want to have. She used to live in Laos then she moved to live in Japan about a year now . I keep asking her almost every time we talk on the phone that can i be coming be with her! and by her side! . The answers she gives me "don't come yet"😅
@Cee_Eff
Жыл бұрын
Been doing that for the past 8 yrs....and still nothing
@Salinassss
Жыл бұрын
That means there’s a quality within u that turns others away.
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
Means it's not the one for you.
@indigoresidences4032
Жыл бұрын
good video but low volume.
@VibilVishwanathan
3 ай бұрын
But can it also suggest that he s simply not interested on her
@jerimodel
Жыл бұрын
I dont understand the want what you can't have part can you go into that more?
@Florida_gyrl
Жыл бұрын
💯
@Enochrry6024
Жыл бұрын
Simply..a woman wants to want a man.
@TomFox1
Жыл бұрын
👌
@tiwariji9985
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@Jotaro5181
Жыл бұрын
Men who don't try hard with women don't make the game about women.
@kenmullis2374
Жыл бұрын
Very hard to do when a covert narcissist destroys you
@THENEONJAY
Жыл бұрын
sound is so low :(
@TomFox1
Жыл бұрын
So don’t show effort? 😂😂
@MortenChristensen-tt8up
Жыл бұрын
Men: please make sure you look for top values in a woman as well. If she has any of the known flags just move on. Look at vids regarding high value women…
@Brett5150Hudson
Жыл бұрын
No confidence in what you say , that’s why you laughed .
@ApolloniaPonti
Жыл бұрын
And that is your opinion. Which is far from my truth. Thanks for stopping by!
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