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@izabelaswa85
7 ай бұрын
AMEN
@silkytsunami
Жыл бұрын
I don’t ask nobody for shit. And I make damn sure I pay someone for helping me. Nothing in life is free. Pops taught me that.
@thepanman8
4 ай бұрын
100%
@H.K.5
6 күн бұрын
Doesn’t change the fact that it’s normal to get yourself in tight situations and you may need to resort to doing something like that.
@ramonharrisjr1509
Жыл бұрын
The people he’s describing were never your FRIENDS just high class acquaintances.
@javabeanz8549
Жыл бұрын
If you lend someone $20, and you never see them again, it was probably a great investment.
@lancestone4409
Жыл бұрын
Facts and never let a girlfriend borrow money. She surely ain't going to pay you back 💯
@geekiepooh808
Жыл бұрын
1 of my ex GF before asked for help on her rent. I told her "Naw, i already help you enough on orher things"
@tostitosfritos1748
Жыл бұрын
What if she’s trustworthy and does pay people back?
@Adam-de8yi
Жыл бұрын
Cap. My ex paid me back in full tbh.
@jeremybriggs6951
10 ай бұрын
@@Adam-de8yithat's more of a minority vs. Majority thing.
@HISHAM931
Жыл бұрын
My dad always said “When you lend money to a friend, you lose the money and the friend. You’re better off keeping the money and losing the friend”. I always keep that in mind. It’s foolish to take a double L.
@Sailboatsx
Жыл бұрын
Your father is a wise man
@MarioLopez-rn2bs
5 ай бұрын
And really it’s a triple L because you lose the money, your friend, and a little bit of self respect due to the shame of being so gullible and trusting that person
@fightsportspace7327
5 ай бұрын
Lend vs give. I think it’s better to give without expectation of getting paid back IF you can afford to and IF you want to. Relationships only break down when expectations are unmet
@thepanman8
4 ай бұрын
Really good
@Kiba_beleg_try_koru_niki
9 күн бұрын
Ok will do that now 😂
@Officialyoungola
Жыл бұрын
I borrow money from my sister and the next week I payed it back in doubled. I think it really depends on the person. If you can trust them like that. You have to know each person to know what limitations there are in each boundaries you set.
@natural3362
8 ай бұрын
This is a good advice. Lend the money when you know the person's character
@Ahmad-os3si
4 ай бұрын
I think family is different
@Armando316
Жыл бұрын
I learned this the hard way 😂😂😂
@PO-qr2zj
Жыл бұрын
Same bro, same. Better late than never tho right?
@lukamilas8648
10 ай бұрын
For me it only cost me $400…small price to pay. I was in my early 20s and naive about the ways of the world.
@oscarchs2239
6 ай бұрын
Same here
@howaboutpascal
4 ай бұрын
same. That lesson costed me $14k though.
@gn2650
Жыл бұрын
You are describing a parasite, that's not a true friend, if you were real friends you would be able to help each other.
@alltheworldsastage4785
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly it. I started off agreeing with him, but in the end, I was like "nah"
@itsjaize
Жыл бұрын
Facts, me and my friends have always paid eachother back when we say so
@sameso8656
Жыл бұрын
Yup. When I used to have to borrow money, I’d even add interest and pay extra. People need better friends
@Ahmad-os3si
4 ай бұрын
Guys what about not taking the risk like no asking for money between us is better right
@Ahmad-os3si
4 ай бұрын
Or friend should help each other financially
@Wealthy77
Жыл бұрын
Nah bro what if my boy really struggling tho? I know he would do the same to me. Fuck that money at the end of the day I hope it don’t come back either. I love my homies
@mzwetlovequeen
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes Mr Fitx plays tough guy
@lildatboy196
Жыл бұрын
I agree, cuz If I was down bad struggling to the point I ask for money I’d hope my close friends would look out because I sure would look out for them.
@mzwetlovequeen
Жыл бұрын
@@lildatboy196 yes sir, I agree! I think Mr Fitx should do a video about what he considers a true friend.
@jeremybriggs6951
10 ай бұрын
@@lildatboy196hey I get what you're saying I'm in a situation like that too, but if it comes some point they keep constantly ask you for money then cut ties with them. I'm about running out of what I got saving and I'm currently unemployed. Your friends quote on quote really needs help themselves or where do you need to go and try to better not to rely on anybody. If anything, if you're they're true friends like you say. Then tell him like it is and what they need to do.
@onlythestrong8659
8 ай бұрын
The give it to him without expecting anything back. Trust me, i lost my best friend. It’s been 3 years now. Money ruins relations.
@dalejones1396
Жыл бұрын
All dude was saying is to not let anyone play you 💯💯💯💯
@thatpersiandude7386
3 ай бұрын
I lend my “homie” $300 which he was supposed to give back in a week!! it’s been 2 months
@covenantsam9150
Жыл бұрын
A real friend keeps their word. Every circumstance is different. There are still people with integrity who struggle and still will work hard to pay back what they borrowed on time. There are still friends who will have your back come rain or snow. Just because they ask me for help does not mean that friends devalues our relationship. It just means they are human going through a down moment. The issue is not lending money, the issue is lending to the right person.
@duckyh9712
Жыл бұрын
There was very very few times I had to actually ask a freind for money. I pay no later than a week. Every real man keeps his word
@zacharymitchell3986
Жыл бұрын
Facts, they at times don’t plan on paying it back or they’ll give you half of it back
@ohhJuice
Жыл бұрын
better advice. be charitable to those in need. Keyword is “charitable” if you give money you must be willing to never get it back.
@mzwetlovequeen
Жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@stockyguru
Жыл бұрын
Nah lol
@rangeelixir8921
6 ай бұрын
❤
@MarioLopez-rn2bs
5 ай бұрын
You can be charitable but that’s not the point. In that situation you’re friend would be lying to you so you can loan him the money. Why should you be “charitable” to someone who thinks you’re a fool?
@coolgainz9307
Жыл бұрын
So true because also keep in mind that your friends will take advantage of your niceness so never let that happen and make sure to set boundaries for yourself
@bidz1947
Жыл бұрын
In 1992 I lent a friend of mine RS10K, few months down the line he asked me for more, when I refused and asked him to return 10k, he refused. Now we become strangers!
@lukamilas8648
10 ай бұрын
🤣
@LeekTheGeneral
Жыл бұрын
If I’m givin money I’m givin it to give I’m not doin it for it in return unless Dey say Dey gon pay back dem ima hold ‘em to it
@gray3182
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@renegade595
Жыл бұрын
You have good character
@LeekTheGeneral
Жыл бұрын
@@renegade595 Ty bro
@Tweakkkkkk
Жыл бұрын
Give me some money bro... I'll pay you back 😉
@stockyguru
Жыл бұрын
@@Tweakkkkkk😂😂😂
@sleepers123
Жыл бұрын
And that's why I never ask for money from anyone.
@jalilchandler1270
Ай бұрын
Going through this right now and it’s hell to get it back
@SojuStay
Жыл бұрын
even when u do pay em back and a lil interest. they still respect u
@stixstrumentals8623
24 күн бұрын
This message just hit me right in the heart. My homie been asking me for money for like the last couple of months. 20 here 60 here 200 here and now he owes me about 1100 and he never calls me for anything else except to ask for money. I just cut him off and to be honest he can keep it because i know im not getting it back😊
@chiefdryno
Жыл бұрын
Tell them to borrow money from the bank.
@habte8281
5 ай бұрын
I did that bro he was really angry 😅.
@chiefdryno
5 ай бұрын
@habte8281 LOL he shouldn't actually. It's a smart advice 👌🏾
@bdlwolf9120
Жыл бұрын
Facts!!! Man now a dayz when i get someone I don't hear from lately. Sometimes ayy bro can lend me dis much. I just be saying I got bills to pay
@300beatz
Жыл бұрын
😂... FYI if you let your friends borrow money and they don't pay it back they were never your friends to begin with.😮 If any of my friends needed help or money I would offer it in a heartbeat. But then again I have a great collection of friends so I might just be the exception.🤷🏿
@jayd6446
Жыл бұрын
I have given friends money with the mindset of I don't want the money back.
@melenico4512
10 күн бұрын
I have given money to people who have been struggling and never wanted it back
@loveQatar
8 ай бұрын
Lol I gifted a friend of mine 11K 😂😂😂 now I feel like they're using me and I'm thinking to end our friendship
@sting1524
Жыл бұрын
I have been in situation where i needed money to borrow. I paid it back before the time that I had promised to pay it back . If one of my friends was in a situation where he needed money to borrow I would happy to help him out
@natural3362
8 ай бұрын
Nothing in life is free. No good deed goes unpunished.. Only 1% is the exception. Know the person for a long time before you lend someone the money
@jaylenlenear3944
8 ай бұрын
I try to think objectively same way a bank would. I lend small amounts to see if they pay that back and how long they took. if they got a good history of paying me back i dont mind lending out more and even upping the amount. certain amounts ill never go over though
@gjte2947
Жыл бұрын
They might “axe” you
@lukamilas8648
10 ай бұрын
Such a good video, straight facts and to the point
@jaysfacts3842
9 ай бұрын
Bro what kind of friends u b having😢? A dude gotta kno who his friends are honestly. Cuz if my boys are in need best believe I'm helping them and trust they'll pay back. As a matter fact I don't lend out money I'm not afraid of losing! Let that sink in
@user-bi4em8lt4x
3 ай бұрын
I lent $500 to help someone get their car out of the shop, and when I asked them for my money back months they blocked me.
@d0cn0tes
Жыл бұрын
Give them money and you won’t ever have to see them again. You can pay off a lot of people with $100.
@SimeonB300
Жыл бұрын
I never lend money. I only give reasonable amounts when I’m asked (which is rare) without the expectation of getting it back. It has to be fora legitimate reason though. If I do, great; if not, what I gave won’t break me.
@dannyrwagamba
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the amazing content FIT
@Rescuemissioncpr_indy
Жыл бұрын
Includes family , cousins etc
@t.sizzle5308
11 ай бұрын
I disagree with that if someone asks for money they’re not a true friend but if they don’t pay it back then that’s questionable
@DontCensorMuah
Жыл бұрын
Bout to send this to my cousin 😂
@thepanman8
4 ай бұрын
The worst part is after 3months asking about the money they owe, and they give you the "oh i forgot all about that"...subtracted very good friends because of that. And that point, i didnt bother and just walked away from that friendship. You feel guilty if you dont borrow money, you gotta say no, and that also can destroy that friendship, its a losing battle on both sides
@mercedeswilkins5566
6 ай бұрын
Don’t give away anything you can’t afford to lose.
@SkylerDouglas
Жыл бұрын
My brother and Me (adopted) don't borrow money from eachother if one of us got it we both got it. We all we got.
@Logie2121
Жыл бұрын
Been waiting 2 years 😂
@MikeJones-or1tu
Жыл бұрын
It's okay because now you know...
@jslade60
Жыл бұрын
Most of the time if they have to ask you for money they can't pay you back. The best thing to do is evaluate your relationship and just give them the money if you can afford it,
@Vinod-yn2uq
9 ай бұрын
I never ask for money with anyone even if I desperately need it. But my frnZ take money from me but they never return, after a long gap they do the same again... People are really bad.. They take advantage of goodness..
@Rflower1
8 ай бұрын
I agree but your teeth are AMAZING!
@AndIChoseToSpeakFAX
Жыл бұрын
If one has light in himself, is traitfully kind, he is the one who to be kind back to 😊😊
@keekdachoseone7
Жыл бұрын
What's the point of having it if you don't spend it and I could Careless if my homie takes 20 years to pay me back or doesn't pay me back at all money isn't hard to make #ifigotitweallgotit
@mzwetlovequeen
Жыл бұрын
You sound like a solid guy
@keekdachoseone7
Жыл бұрын
@@mzwetlovequeen thank you
@djtrakakadrunkpoet8598
10 күн бұрын
I don’t even need 3 reasons 😂 just two words It’s mine
@TheFitnessGamer365
Жыл бұрын
@FITXFEARLESS you make a really great point but what if anyone of your small circle of high value male friends asks you to front the bill for them while you’re out with them or dining out & they have a “consistent” history of paying you back any money they borrowed from you the very next day. Do you still believe they shouldn’t be given a loan?😳😳😳🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤔🤔🤔💭💭💭……
@randymboyon5401
Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I'm thinking every time one of my old classmates ask me for money
@aceocean3450
Жыл бұрын
Cap choose your friends wisely and you’ll be rich forever
@TheVillageBeast
Жыл бұрын
Big facts. Cut a lot of homies off cuz of that. Like yeah bruv keep that 1k but we not good Nomore ✌️
@AgentwillyBanksbabay
Жыл бұрын
Bruh I’ve lent money to atleast 100 friends and acquaintances. Half pay back mostly late but they pay back and we move on with life because money is just an object you can earn. The other half that didn’t pay back; YES, we weren’t friends afterwards but it was mostly because of their guilt they quit calling me over $40 lousy dollars. I’ve wonky lent out 100 plus ten times and bever cares once about payment ppls guilt will take care of it
@tsaunders4684
Жыл бұрын
That's real. I never looked at it like this. However I look at it like how much do they need. That will determine if I'm willing to help out or not.
@thomasanderson7615
Жыл бұрын
This guy is the f******g truth haha this shit happens worldwide I'm from New Zealand 🇳🇿 and I've seen this shit here
@PilotFlyingJay
Жыл бұрын
Change your circle to those who are HENRYs who don’t ask for money
@lildatboy196
Жыл бұрын
Me personally I’ve lended money to friends and they’ve always paid me back. Ya just don’t have real friends fr. And tbh depending on how much money it is I wouldn’t even trip on getting it back if they actually needed it. Whats the point of have friends if you can’t rely on them? Ppl I don’t trust their word I wouldn’t be a friend of mines.
@olubunmiige7678
2 ай бұрын
Congrats hun!
@ryuuukiamv387
Жыл бұрын
Usually when a friend asks for money I never think of returns because I know that money is Gone
@Strength_In_Wisdom
6 ай бұрын
Thing is if you’re my friend 9 times out of 10 the money I’m giving you is tied with me saying I don’t want you to pay me back. You’re paying me back in friendship and if that were to ever fall apart thing it was a gift. You still don’t owe me anything. What kind of friend/ family can have more than enough money to help family/friends even just a little sits there and watches
@BrownPatriot316
Жыл бұрын
Any homie that I’ve lended money to, or borrowed money from, the money has been paid back💯 this dude don’t have real homies if they don’t pay him back. Bro advises not to lend a friend money in need, and also advises every man gets a manicure/pedicure weekly, buy a $3000 LV bag, and hire a maid to clean your house, what in the actual 😂😂😂
@EthanAranda-pd8tn
10 күн бұрын
Correct I made this Mistake In “Good Faith” Lost 750
@kristylei2439
7 ай бұрын
When I reject to lend money he probably abuse physically and emotionally. This is the second time and I am planning to leave but I was staying as he said this hard time (over 1.5 years) I am the only one who supported him and all of his friend and family ran away. He said if I left he would jump off the building to end his life. He’s father of our 1-year-old son I don’t know what to do.
@PeppaPigParody
Жыл бұрын
Best way to see the real person is to lend them like 20 bucks and see if they give it back, if they dont you know from the beginning what kind of a person he/she is
@superpig5000
10 күн бұрын
True i still haven't given back the 10 thousand
@monicahudson4549
2 ай бұрын
I asked my friend for money but I have stuff I’m gonna give her for it bc nothing in life is free
@BustingNUTS
Жыл бұрын
Facts , straight facts
@oscarchs2239
6 ай бұрын
If someone ask You for money, most likely they are not in a position to pay back, their bills and personal stuff will come first , before yours.
@YumegakaMurakumo
Жыл бұрын
"They never plan on paying it back." Then they're not real friend PERIOD. What is more important, money or friendship? That's the question you should ask. When I lend money or buy things for my friends, I say "Don't worry about paying me back."
@K_For_Keerthi
4 ай бұрын
I gave 5k to my friend and its been 8 month and she is not returning my money. Guys don’t give money to anyone.nowadays u cant trust anyone.
@MattsGamblingSlots
3 ай бұрын
Not only will you lose your money and your friend but you will lose a lot of people too because you will demand your money, your friend will guilt trip you and falsely say you're abusive and tell everyone what a horrible person you are and you lose everyone.
@joshuaB.Nicholas
Жыл бұрын
Facts tho they usually broke to
@divinebrilliance3781
11 күн бұрын
If i borrow im not buy bro a drink im paying interest🎉
@struggler8532
Жыл бұрын
I've had to remind my brother to pay me back. Did he? Yes, but the disrespect to forget is not something I forget
@rachelb8430
7 ай бұрын
I shared with one of my freinds we where born in the same hospital we knew eachother since we where 2 so I Trish her we are 11now I Trish her
@trajanaveloff7383
Жыл бұрын
He's saying I am worth it and you are not
@user-fd2eq7hp4p
Ай бұрын
I have a friend asking for 20k for paying rent, utility. I told him I'm willing to give him 5k don't need to pay me back. But he insists he want 20k. I stop replying to his messages. Dude I'm not a bank. Maybe I should block him on FB. Sorry I have bad experience same scenario 3rd time. But 4th time I asking for trouble. Don't do it.
@Ghanaba23
11 ай бұрын
Some end up in the grave. Not good to play with peoples hard earned money
@alijahcordova8359
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@erikhopkins9488
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@NadeemHussain-rt3fd
Жыл бұрын
Also why we don’t give CREDIT in Shops because the Customers never Come Back and go elsewhere because they owe money!!
@nachumrenfrow7185
Жыл бұрын
I hope you never fall on hard time because you might have to retract this video.
@giovannichambers2841
Жыл бұрын
Don't forget family. They may say they "love you" because they're your family, but they can be just as bad as your so-called "friends." Never trust anybody in general when it comes to money. Let them find their own way of getting money.
@coolgainz9307
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@jeffasc2659
11 күн бұрын
This is bad advice, I’ve borrowed Balani from friends before during difficult times where the rent was due. If I didn’t pay it in two days, I would get evicted shit like that and my real Homies came through for me and helped me out and I paid them as soon as I could. It’s all about you surround yourself with if you both mutually respect the relationship, then you’ll do right by each other. And I never give money and expect it back.
@TBlock1347
Жыл бұрын
I see your point but dont completely agree. Sure a lot of the time they dont pay back. But I believe in only giving money and nlt expecting it back. Because it may ruin the relationship let it go.
@marcusmoore3061
Жыл бұрын
Dam more facts from FitX
@eddieochoa8058
Жыл бұрын
Good thing it was only $40
@xyNova9741
Жыл бұрын
Nah bro watch the bronx tale. Pay that snake to leave your life
@senishahzodang3061
Жыл бұрын
I believe it’s not true that whoever is going to ask your money isn’t you friend and stuff like that. I’m not judging but still not lending money to anyone.
@AngkorianWarrior777
Жыл бұрын
I think any friend who does this should feel very ashamed of this because if you do this your not my friend no more
@3-13ENT
9 күн бұрын
I’m not askin for it back , tho
@80skid83
Жыл бұрын
They want money then they graft for it or get a loan from bank. Some credit cards do interest free if paid back in enough time .
@hardtofollow3685
Жыл бұрын
If you move with people that are like you you have no worries and guess what they don't have to ask we're that close I know and you won't have to ask for it back....
@roxasbuddy
Жыл бұрын
So you telling me if Austin went broke for what ever reason and needed to borrow 50 for food for that night you would just say no?
@matrixglitch6876
Жыл бұрын
I dont lend but i give and help them
@Yardshotta1
Жыл бұрын
Depends on the relationship. Not always true
@coolgainz9307
Жыл бұрын
I see your point now it’s okay if someone asks you for money once a while but as long as they don’t do it too often then that’s fine but at the end of the day, they should find a job to make their own money.
@mypokemon
Жыл бұрын
If you really wanted to help don’t expect that money back in time can afford to wait don’t give them if they can’t give you back think of it like you given sathakka …. Teachings of prophet mohammed (may peace be upon him)
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