well, lemme get this straight, you gave him the money that would make him debt free through college, he wasted that in drugs and stupid stuff, but now you are the bad guy???? Ofc NTA!!! I get it its hard for a parent to think he will not have a good start in life, but that was his own choice. You are not able to control every single decision he makes, so it is not your fault he wasted the money, its his. In my opinion you have kept your promise and given him the opportunity to go through college debt-free with your hard work and determination, he is the one who made that mess. And I get it you are worried, but he didn't care about your hard work, what you had to go through to give him the money he wasted, and he might not think about how it has been hard for you, but you have to. You have to think about yourself, and, by what you told us, this job is eating you alive. My suggestion would be to think through everything and make a plan of what to do. You dont have to totally cut him off all at once, maybe use some of your savings to help him, but he has to learn that his actions have consequences, and he cant just do anything he wants.
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