Whitney Port = The Most relatable person in the history of MTV shows! 💯💯💯💯💯
@Cutelittlecountrygirl
5 жыл бұрын
yes!!!!!! makes you not feel gross after watching listening to
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
hahaha! ill take that!
@artistic_mama2295
4 жыл бұрын
BadNewz Brown totally
@krg_snowy4864
5 жыл бұрын
Your KZitem serious “I love my baby but...” helped me during my 2nd pregnancy after I had a miscarriage. Thank you for sharing all the ups and downs of life.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for supporting! Let me know if there are any topics you want us to cover in the future!
@STOLUL
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this story out there, you shouldn’t be afraid or ashamed, you should feel proud and brave, no matter what others say. We’re all different and have different coping mechanisms when we’re vulnerable and your reaction is normal.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
You are so right and that is so important for me to hear
@Littlebitcrazyok
4 жыл бұрын
Timmy is such a great interviewer. It didn’t feel like he was talking to you as his wife, but as a real woman going through something that so many women struggle with. You guys are really changing the game.
@shopscentofme
5 жыл бұрын
I love the way you guys speak to each other and listen 👂🏻 You guys are great for each other. 💞
@ceciliaruidiaz409
5 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! He's a keeper
@KelseyGibson
5 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage in my first pregnancy and I never knew miscarriage was so common because no one spoke about it.. I now have a 1.5 year old beautiful baby girl and I want to say I have so much love for you guys, thank you for being open, thank you.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome and sorry that you had to go through that. It's a tricky topic and no one's choice is wrong, but for me, talking about it helped.
@donnabealert5704
5 жыл бұрын
What a refreshing site to hear someone speak so candidly snd sincerely about such a difficult topic without feeling the need to be completely “politically correct”. And you seem to each be such a great support system for each other!
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
It was a bit scary before we put this out there, not knowing how people would react, but thank you for the support. means a lot
@Growth234
5 жыл бұрын
The fact you got emotional about what happened proves you are not a monster. Not everyone is meant to have the same things as everyone else. Your life will take you where you need to go and bring you the people that are meant to stay. You being happy with your life proves you are where you're meant to be. Sending love ♡
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
right! I need to keep telling myself that
@Malibusunrise
4 жыл бұрын
So does it make me a monster that I didn’t become emotional over mine?
@lucyjames9256
5 жыл бұрын
You guys are absolute relationship goals. So sorry to both of you for your loss. Have really enjoyed getting to know you and your family through your youtube channel
@JoJoMaMa_
5 жыл бұрын
Lucy James Aren’t they awesome together? The respect and love they hav for each other is inspiring.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@magnolia31611
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so very sorry you’ve had to walk through this. Miscarriage is so mentally, emotionally, and physically difficult to go through. I went through one on my first Mother’s Day when my oldest was 7 months old. At the time we weren’t ready to have another baby, we were actively trying not to get pregnant, but when we did we got excited, and thought, “Well, this is our journey, let’s make the best of it.” When we lost that baby though, I was devastated. It’s been 4 years, and I’ve had two more children, but I still think about that baby. However you are feeling, it’s valid, and it’s okay.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
man, it can all get so complicated. I'm sorry you went through that
@audreykuczka4081
5 жыл бұрын
wow this is so raw and vulnerable. I commend you both for diving into this and sharing with the world. I do not relate, but I personally learned a lot about a different perspective. Thanks for sharing.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! and i totally understand that this is not everyone feelings to this situation, but thank you for understanding.
@habshabshabs1
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing... I am going through a miscarriage as we speak and am meeting my doctor this afternoon to go over those 3 options. I have no idea which is right for me, but hearing you and Timmy talk it out made me feel a little less alone today. Always do what is right for you and your family and try not to feel guilty for how you're feeling ❤️
@annasophiedame6344
5 жыл бұрын
Sending you prayers and strength during such a difficult time!
@meganvolf
5 жыл бұрын
Love this Whitney! I had a miscarriage in 2017 and it changed me. I decided to openly share my pain and was able to find connection with SO many amazing women. Thank you for sharing you, beautiful soul, are not alone.
@caityburgett
5 жыл бұрын
I find it so romantic that your husband refers to you as a specimen! As a woman who went through a miscarriage before my second was born, I found this incredibly helpful. It’s hard to heal from something so taboo. Good for you both for being so vulnerable. We need more conversations like this.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
He thinks he got someone out of his league, but i think the same thing too. I'm sorry for your loss. I know how you feel and we need to keep talking about these things and be there for one another.
@amyhalvorsen4571
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been dealing with infertility for 2.5 years now. Thank you for opening up about this subject. It really needs to be spoken about more! Talking to my friends and family about all my struggles have really helped me. If I kept everything inside, I would be a miserable person.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your struggles. I think there is still so much more to discuss about fertility.
@Sophmorical
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this. I had an ectopic pregnancy this summer and was not ready to be pregnant. I was relieved that it wasn't viable and could proceed with my life and career as normal. Pregnancy is complicated, we should be talking about it that way.
@ryanreed1006
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being so open and transparent. I had a miscarriage one year ago (and that year flew by.) and I still struggle. A lot of the things you said really brought me peace. ❤️
@chipnp16
5 жыл бұрын
Ryan Thompson I had one five years ago and I still think of what could have been. Sorry for your loss ❤️
@ryanreed1006
5 жыл бұрын
Nikki Dontchaknow thank you, so sorry for your loss too ❤️
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
im tearing up. to think that this could bring you some peace for such a difficult topic makes me feel like all of this is worth it. I'm sorry you are struggling, but you are NOT alone
@cel8683
5 жыл бұрын
There's no need to feel ashamed about your thoughts. This is your life- and there's no need to follow a timeline. Do what feels right for you - or don't. But don't lose yourself on this journey. I really love how authentic and honest you are.. Thanks for sharing your story 🦋 your words inspired me a lot. Feel hugged, greetings from Germany 😊
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
I really really do feel it. Thank you. Part of it is not wanting to upset how good things are now, which also makes me feel selfish, but it's not just for me...it's for Sonny and Timmy too.
@stephhawk76
5 жыл бұрын
You and your husband are such a source of strength for one another. That is such a blessing. I appreciate your vulnerability while sharing your personal experience.
@andrewlam8580
3 жыл бұрын
The fact you got emotional about what happened proves you are not a monster. Not everyone is meant to have the same things as everyone else. Your life will take you where you need to go and bring you the people that are meant to stay. You being happy with your life proves you are where you're meant to be. Sending love ♡
@juleh6980
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you guys so much for sharing. What a good role model of a relationship ! Lot of love
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We fight too, just like everyone else. haha
@KSakemi
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again for your open and honest discussion. Going through a miscarriage was never something I would have thought happened to me, but it did and I wish we talked about it more freely. There’s a lot of shame surrounding the topic and we need to let that go. I hate the term “I lost the baby”, miscarriage is something that happened to me by no fault of my own.
@christinavan9586
5 жыл бұрын
This was so real and raw! Thank you for sharing. As someone who has gone through years of fertility treatments, IVF and a miscarriage, I do not judge you at all for your feelings, I actually applaud your honesty! I thankfully was blessed with a son a week younger than Sonny and I feel like we've been on this same journey together as being a mom didn't come naturally or easily for me either. Continue to share your hearts with us! PS I love your shirt!
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
You are exactly the woman I was thinking about when recording this. I was so afraid of upsetting those with fertility struggles, but know that I truly sympathize. I'm so happy you have your boy. This motherhood stuff is not easy, but we got you!
@michievarela15
5 жыл бұрын
I am in tears 😭💔 same happened to me few months ago, I completely relate to your mix feelings... it's a hard situation to go thru. And truly thank both of you for putting this topic on the table. Although is still difficult for me to discuss it, the support your husband gave you, made me feel relieved ... no one shares things like this and I felt alone for so long until now
@ashleyconnell5987
5 жыл бұрын
Such a vulnerable conversation to have in this forum. Your feelings are so valid (most especially because it's just your truth). Thank you again for sharing. xoxoxox Sending lots of love.
@Amourd08
5 жыл бұрын
Your honesty about the realities of motherhood and the vulnerability we feel as women is so refreshing and appreciated 💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@sarahd6913
5 жыл бұрын
I respect your honesty. Thank you for sharing!
@amyking8385
5 жыл бұрын
I am continually reminded how truly genuine and human you are. I feel so connected to you not only as a person but as a mom. Thank you.
@ziamarie
3 жыл бұрын
I just wanna thank you for being open and honest enough to put this video out there. I had a miscarriage and i still struggle with it to this day. I know I'm not the only one who's had one and it's nice to hear others open up about it because it is seriously one of the hardest and most traumatic things to ever go through. I remember wondering why my body hates me so much that it literally killed my baby. I've done alot of healing since it happened but theres still times i get upset. My heart goes out to any woman who has experienced it. I am so happy for you and Timmy that you were blessed to have Sonny.
@lucysimons9896
5 жыл бұрын
Whit, you're a good person. I'm going through a similar situation and I feel almost exactly the same as you do. Thank you for sharing! It's important to hear! Timmy, you're an amazingly supportive husband. The love and respect you two have for each other is beautiful.
@vanessalauren664
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful girl for your honesty! I had a my 1st child at the tender age of 19 years old. When she was 14 years old I fell pregnant. My other half and I went through so many emotions of shock that we felt so selfish that our feelings were wrong because we were almost done raising our 1st born. We started planning a life without small children to take care. A life where we could turn our focus on the years we missed when we were young. I absolutely hated being pregnant and going through that experienced scared me to my core. 7 weeks after we found out I was pregnant we got an ultrasound and found out our baby had no heartbeat. And just like you I felt a sense of relief because I knew I didn't want to go through being pregnant again. My doctor also suggested me to have a DNC and I followed his instruction and had it done. Then almost exactly a year later of going through that we found out I was pregnant with our son Ari. With this news I didn't have the same fear that I had finding out about my second pregnancy. Maybe because we were in a place in our lives that we just took the news better or maybe deep down we just knew it was meant to be. Now I'm 37 with an 18 year old daughter and a 22 month old son. Everyone that finds out how far my children are apart in age think I'm crazy but I honestly am old enough to not worry about people's opinions. I know for me and my spouse having our children so far apart in age was what was meant for us not anyone else. You and Timmy have your own story to write and maybe it wont be like mine or anyone else's but it's a story I know your going to be proud of. Don't ever change! ❤
@emilyszatko2014
5 жыл бұрын
I want a Timmy. What a great man.
@lvcylv
4 жыл бұрын
Me too girl!
@mette1983
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so extremely sad to hear this Whit but at the same time I’m incredibly proud of you and your husband for speaking public about it🙏🏻 You guys are gonna help so many people out there❤️ Sending you nothing but love😊
@sarahkrahe8218
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been through 2 miscarriages and it’s the most heartbreaking time. 1 was an unplanned pregnancy and the other was a planned pregnancy. I love how open and raw you are. I’m so sorry for your loss.
@RT22444
2 жыл бұрын
There are so many intense opinions about women's bodies and what we do with them. I think people who share their stories/experiences are heroes. There are women out there who don't have a good community or support, so these stories are NEEDED and SO helpful for processing these traumas. You're amazing and Timmy is an absolute gem. Thank you for sharing this experience with the public.
@lindseystein9676
5 жыл бұрын
I have one child, he’s almost five. I love just having one. I love that I don’t feel like I’m spread too thin and I can give my son whatever attention he needs. Honestly, I would be spread too thin and too stressed with another child. I really value the low stress parenting my husband and I have now. We have a lot more financial freedom, as well. I do get questions “when are you going to have another baby” and I’ll get an awkward “oh..” when I respond with “we’re not having another.” I’m perfectly okay with being a “one and done” mom. I used to feel guilty because of societal pressures to have more and my boy won’t have any siblings, but he has plenty of friends and cousins. My husband on the other hand, wanted one more, so it took him a little longer to be okay with it. After some long talks we’re on the same page
@mette1983
5 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Stein Thank u for telling your story. I myself don’t have any children yet but I know that when I do, I only want ONE child. I have always felt HORRIBLE about that thought but you sharing your story makes me realize that it is TOTALLY OKAY to feel that way. So thank u again for sharing your story🙏🏻❤️
@lindseystein9676
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that helped you!
@stringsgalore
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m thinking, as much as I love children, I personally think I can only have the capacity to mother 1.
@ashleydolata1874
5 жыл бұрын
I have 2 children one boy one girl & I'm very blessed to have one of each gender. but no matter if I would have had 2 boys or 2 girls I always just wanted 2..... we're far from rich but my husband works so hard to provide us a nice home, car, food, clothes, vaca ext... I just always felt that I wanna give the 2 I have the very best we can rather than have more & I get hate all the time for not having more... no everyone wants 4 or 5+ kids & I wish more people would respect that! So thank you for sharing that you just want one. It's so nice to see other women that feel the same! 😊
@shareekristin
3 жыл бұрын
I hate that question. I got it all the time and when I finally said, “I’ve had seven miscarriages” they would give a shocked look and change the subject. It’s such a rude question. Parenting is a choice between those choosing to be parents. Not outside people. And having one child is amazing. Having 2 would be amazing. But I’m 38 and mine is in college and I have my whole life ahead of me. Nothing wrong with that!
@alexandraviau6923
5 жыл бұрын
Love how your husband always listen and loves you for who you are! I also really relate to the second child question. When I first admitted to my fiancé I wasn’t sure about another I was so scared, I told him I was scared he would eventually leave me for not wanting a bigger family. But like your husband said he wanted a life with me no matter what my decision would be even if he wanted more kids, he didin’t wanted them if I didin’t. It was a relief! Love your honest posts, we need more women like you!
@CB-ln5hc
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! I’m crying along with you. Feel for what you had to go through. Feelings are feelings and you have every right to feel whatever you need too. Kudos for being vulnerable and putting it out there for us all to hear.💕 My husband and I were always asked when are you having another? He will be lonely without a sibling? And the list goes on...In the beginning I felt guilty saying anything, but eventually got up the nerve to say we weren’t having another. Our son is amazing and I just wanted to devote my everything to him and him only. He’s not a spoiled child, he has friends, is very well mannered, smart, and the list goes on. It was the right choice for our family...and we don’t regret not having another, even though many people voiced there opinions that we would. Whit and Tim, please, you do you, whatever that is, and whatever fits for your family. What’s meant to be will be! Love you both💕 Thanks for having the conversation.
@kaylee4857
5 жыл бұрын
Tim asked excellent questions. Thank you for your honesty, Whitney.
@jazxx9390
5 жыл бұрын
Wow what a raw and honest conversation on such a sensitive topic . Sending love to you and your family
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
we are receiving it. Thank you!
@TheSnowReport28
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve had 3 miscarriages and it’s hard every time. Sending you love, sending every person who’s suffered a miscarriage love. 💕 Also, I completely understand the “I don’t know, let’s see what happens”. I’ve felt the exact same way. I also understand telling family and friends early on in a pregnancy because no one should suffer a miscarriage alone (unless they want to of course). There would be less shame surrounding miscarriage if it weren’t so taboo.
@baileylindley1110
5 жыл бұрын
Y’all have always found an eloquent way of having difficult conversations. I am so sorry you experienced this.
@MsLibby76
5 жыл бұрын
A blessing in disguise, but still makes the heart heavy. The fact that you're shedding tears just shows you are a person with feelings and that you are not a horrible person.
@Nikcholey
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I did NOT expect to cry...your honesty and vulnerability is so brave. ♥
@lizb.5806
5 жыл бұрын
Awh Whitney you are INCREDIBLE!!! More people need to discuss this. Thank you for shedding YOUR light on the topic. You are not alone in the situation or your feelings. Love Timmy being on the podcast too, he is so supportive and such a caring guy. Please have him on again!! Sending you all the love.
@elizabethrussell9445
5 жыл бұрын
You have an absolutely beautiful relationship. You’re feelings are normal and you shouldn’t feel shame for feeling them. I love how honest you two are with each other, it’s very refreshing. I’m so sorry for your loss & wish you nothing but the best. Love & light. Ps- been a longtime fan, always been my fav ♥️
@jennicav1397
4 жыл бұрын
Your tears and uneasy voice made me tear up. It's so vulnerable having a miscarriage. I had one last month and now Im 3 weeks pregnant again (I conceived immediately after) and so scared. Thanks for sharing, validating us Whitney 💕
@Jac-Jay
4 жыл бұрын
Hope you're doing well now and looking after yourself xx
@triciabiggins3854
5 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks and was devastated. It was further complicated with hemorrhaging and an emergency DNC and blood transfusion. My situation was different than yours but so is everyones! As all situations are different, so are people's feelings and reactions. You have nothing to be ashamed or feel bad about! You are being honest which is more than many can do so openly and honestly. I love my kids but HATED every aspect of pregnancy. On a side note, you both seem to have the most genuine and caring relationship.
@elyscialandavaso4156
5 жыл бұрын
You are both amazing and so sweet! Your marriage is so beautiful and inspiring. No one should ever feel ashamed of how they feel. Those are their feelings and not everyone is going to understand them.. all we can do is help support them. Because we can’t take those feelings away all we can do is support them and help them get through it the best we can. I have 4 kids and constantly think about what it would be like to just have one or even just two kids. Being a mom is exhausting and so tiring. But in the end like Timmy said once you get to it and your in it you realize it’s actually pretty amazing.
@alejandrav1699
5 жыл бұрын
I don’t have children & right now I’m feeling 100% like Whitney. Great conversation!
@libbymuller
5 жыл бұрын
Whitney you are the sweetest. I admire your relationship with Timmy so much.
@ErikaAnn
5 жыл бұрын
As someone who lost her first baby and had a D&C as well, I sincerely appreciate your honesty. You are allowed to feel everything you're feeling. Since going through my first (and then second) miscarriage, I started working with a nonprofit called Our Hearts Align. We offer resources and support for women and families who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss. I am definitely sharing this on our Facebook page so our followers can listen to your story. I believe there is something incredibly healing through sharing your story and connecting with others and I'm so glad you opened up about this difficult topic. So much love to one of the classiest women I've admired for many years! ❤
@JoJoMaMa_
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t image the pain, sadness and anger. Thank you for sharing your story and being so open about how you both have felt.
@angelaburton5632
5 жыл бұрын
I was 23 and ended up pregnant by someone that i thought i was in love with me. Long story short i ended up choosing to end the pregnancy. The guilt i went through making that choice still ways on me decades later. At 31 I married my now husband, and all of the when are you going to have a baby conversations started. At that point i kinda felt like i had lost the right to make that choice. If it was going to happen it would happen. At 37 my health started to go down hill. I was told that i was going to have to have a hysterectomy. After never really feeling like i should have kids, i cant tell you the guilt i felt because my body was broken and could not make one. You are brave to share your story! The more people talk about things like this the better woman/mankind will be.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through that. Living with regret is hard, but you seem sensitive and wonderful and deserving of all the love in the world.
@meganwestberry4851
3 жыл бұрын
i really admire the love and communication between you two. i myself struggled for over 10 years... having several miscarriages. our only daughter was born last april, and now everyone asks when we're having another. i love my daughter... more than anything... but i hated being pregnant...and i don't think i want to do it again. people look at me like i am a monster. this podcast was everything i needed to hear. we hear you whit, we love you and validate your feelings!! thank you!!!
@Starfish1031
5 жыл бұрын
Whitney you are not a monster. You are human and very honest!!! Thank you!!!!
@brittanyr8118
5 жыл бұрын
I love your honest and raw story. You are NOT a monster! You are being completely honest and so many ppl feel the way you do and it doesn’t make them bad. Thank you for sharing
@jelemil
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful to you for speaking up about this. Normalize women having things other than super lovely emotions around pregnancy, childbearing and motherhood 💕💕💕
@angelagardner4ability955
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Whitney and Timmy Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you find the emotional and physical healing from this. I also think it is great that you and your husband had this conversation together. It is so refreshing to hear a married couple talk to one another in a caring and respectful way what an example for everyone to see.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Timmy likes to talk ;)
@Gorun4theroses
5 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your story in almost every single way. I went through the same thing and had the same feelings about it. Thank you for making me feel not so alone! ❤️
@smileoverit
5 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful. I experienced a miscarriage as well and it was one of the most lonely times I ever experienced. The process was scary and as a whole I wish the doctors response was different rather than just being another patient for the day. Thank you for sharing your story.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
No one should have to go through this alone and I hear you on doctors. It was not my experience, but if they are cold or clinical the whole thing feels even more sad and bizarre.
@allyceescobar1964
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! There is such a stigma around miscarriage and it’s so sad for parents going through it. Don’t feel ashamed about feeling any bit of relief, you are a great Mom!!
@karagriffith7088
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Whitney & Timmy- thank you for your courage to share. My husband and I have been through 4 miscarriages and we are currently battling to hold onto our 5th pregnancy. I found myself looking for stories I could listen to and ran into yours. I'm not sure how to feel right now either, as you said when you were in that "grey" area of not knowing what will happen. I try so hard to believe in myself and keep the hope that this will turn around. I see the two of you talking about it together so beautifully and open and it warms my heart to see a couple that is overcoming it together, not afraid to share, in hopes it can make a difference in some way. You made a difference for me in that I should not be afraid to be more open about my experiences. In fact, when I think abut them all it really could be a movie with how they all went down- sad, dramatic, and maybe even a little comical. Even in my current state, I feel encouraged to share now. I am so sorry for your loss and pray for only the best of things to come your way.
@1MKWilliams
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is the open conversation so many couples need to hear. So sad to hear this news but grateful that you are sharing this so that others can process and handle this situation as well. 🙏
@miajanay48
5 жыл бұрын
You are a REAL one, Whitney! I appreciate and admire your openness and vulnerability in sharing these intimate and sensitive moments in you and Timmy's lives. Thank you so much! Peace in the streets
@jessicadavis4943
5 жыл бұрын
The way you and Timmy can communicate and support each other is so admirable. I love your honesty and openness thank you for sharing 💕 You’re so strong and such a great mom and a wonderful person don’t ever doubt yourself!!
@shirleyv4288
5 жыл бұрын
This is so beautifully honest. Please, keep sharing as I’m sure your comments reflect with so many people out there.
@kristinaharper7496
5 жыл бұрын
I love the communication in your relationship. There is so much love and respect and listening without judgement. 💙 Thank you for being vulnerable
@kimberlybrant4270
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I think your very brave to be so honest & share your story. I think you are helping alot of people. Sonny is a lucky boy to have a Mom & Dad like you both.
@libertycogen3080
5 жыл бұрын
I feel the EXACT same way about having a second child. While I want my daughter to have a sibling so badly, I also so want to have my (somewhat) independence back and feel like my old self again while getting to be a mom, too. Having a baby was a far bigger undertaking than I assumed it was prior to becoming a mom and I’m not sure I want to go through the entire process again. TBD. Thank you for sharing!! You’re an inspiration!
@karikempe2339
5 жыл бұрын
Wow you and Timmy are such a dream team! ❤️ Thank you as always for being so raw and honest.
@jenniferhollifield2426
5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad y’all are opening up the conversation about this. It’s very brave of you two to be this vulnerable, open and honest... especially in front of thousands of people. Thank you!
@22ezzie
5 жыл бұрын
Your honesty is really refreshing. Sorry that you went through all this but it was really good of you to share your experience. Your relationship with your husband is really wonderful to see.
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. He is a gem
@kat0726
3 жыл бұрын
I love listening to you, and I'm so glad I came across this even if it's from a year ago, because I need to hear this. I have 2 beautiful daughters and never planned on having anymore children and was perfectly content with only having two children. My pregnancies were very difficult and very high risk and I was extremely sick in & out of the hospital, so I never wanted to go through that again, but a year later became pregnant again ( on birth control) and I found out I was having a boy, so I let myself get excited about the pregnancy.. a month later ( I was around 7 months pregnant) and I went into labor and nothing was stopping the contractions, so I delivered my son and he was stillborn. I was so devastated and blamed myself & still do at times, because I didn't want another child, so I felt like I was being punished for my thoughts. I fell into a deep depression and was hospitalized and dropped down to 80 lbs punishing myself without realizing it. I now know this was God's plan and I truly believe my son is with me every single day and that helps me to keep going, and my beautiful daughters ❤ Thank you for sharing your story 💕
@andreacoetzee5845
5 жыл бұрын
Whitney, I love your honesty. I know what it's like to feel such immense pressure to have to want a second child. I just want to tell you - it's okay if you don't. I think your family is already perfect just as it is.
@jenspycole7363
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am now 36 and absolutely love my life, but my journey to this place was tough to put it lightly. I was very out of control as a teenager and had a very severe drug problem. When I was 15 I was pregnant and had a miscarriage. I didn't even realize what had happened until years later and had actually blocked it out of my memory for many years. At the time I was strung out on heroin and meth in addition to being extremely young for pregnancy. When I remembered what had occurred it was extremely traumatic but I was also filled with so much guilt. I still have guilt about it. I feel guilty for believing and knowing that the miscarriage was a blessing for me and the unborn child. Your story helped me to see that no matter your situation it's okay to feel relief when these things naturally occur. I have now been clean for 20 years and have an amazing son that means the world to me. Thank you so much for being so real and vulnerable, your story is going to help a lot of women.
@LeGoudy
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so so sorry you had this experience. Sharing this conversation is incredibly important and you are helping so many people by putting this out there.
@MyJewishMommyLife
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I have never seen something so honest and vulnerable, thank you for sharing this 💕
@HiHanne1740
3 жыл бұрын
Womanhood is so complicated! This is your experience and all your feelings are valid. I'm happy to see this level of real talk on this platform. Wishing you happiness and healing! 💜
@nikiburton1810
5 жыл бұрын
You are not a terrible person or a monster for feeling the way you do. You are open, honest and real. We appreciate you sharing your feelings and letting moms know that it is ok to think differently than the “norm.”
@msdanijt3061
5 жыл бұрын
Listening to this felt like being a fly on the wall in your home while you guys were having a real, raw conversation between yourselves. Thank you so much for being so open and honest and for just unapologetically being yourselves. I just love you both. I wish you and Sonny nothing but love, peace and happiness 💚
@RvrGrl80
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your honesty, Whitney. We should never be judged for the choices we make in these intimate circumstances. I don't have (or want) kids, but this was so refreshing to hear.
@calaisejackson314
5 жыл бұрын
Whit, in all of the years I have been a KZitem user, this is the very first time I have ever commented on a person’s video. We are very close in age (I will be 34 this year) and I have watched you on The Hills and The City enter chapters of your adulthood I too, was experiencing. It has been so lovely to view your journey through this KZitem outlet and witness a more “raw” peak for lack of a better word into your life. I lost my mother last year when I was 32 to lung cancer so I completely empathize with your feelings regarding your father's passing. I basically want to say your forthcomingness is beautiful. Extremely honored by your fortitude to be unfiltered. The transparency is so moving. I long for you to experience healing and I find your and Timmy's love for Sonny so captivating.
@lorikean3405
5 жыл бұрын
Whitney, don’t worry about what anyone else thinks.
@AbiCroCro
4 жыл бұрын
Amen, I feel like most people should think “what would Whitney think of this” if anything.
@pieprzykfamily7206
5 жыл бұрын
First I’d like to say that it breaks my heart that you had to even feel scared to be honest about your own situation. But we definitely all feel that way too, it’s how society is sadly. Also, I love how supportive Tim is and how honest you both are!! - I’m sorry for your loss and thank you so much for your honesty, it’s so refreshing to hear honesty for a change.
@gabrielle1210
5 жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry you went through that💓 no matter what a miscarriage is hard, I’ve been there and im keeping you all in prayer! I love you Whit 😘
@jenh2395
4 жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage back in November last year and it still hurts but thank you so much for validating some of the feelings I was having. I felt guilty for worrying about having a three year old and a new born and a small part of me did feel relief but massive pain and sadness too. The pressure about trying again we have had too straight away from others. I’m scared too, like you said I want to get to that second place. Thank you so much for sharing this, it’s helped so much ♥️ xxx
@sophiasherman8532
5 жыл бұрын
Hey Whitney - I was pregnant when you were filming your I love my baby but series and it really helped prepare me for the early days of having a baby. When I watched this video, I again was able to relate as I had a miscarriage at the end of May. I think it is amazing that you put your story out there - it is hard to relive it and to retell it but I’m so glad that you did. Thank you xo
@brittanylove222
5 жыл бұрын
You are NOT a monster 💗 You are human- and have mixed feelings. It is completely understandable. It takes time to process. Your feelings are very similar to how I felt when I went through it years ago. Thank you for putting this out into the world. 💗
@dianelopez7142
5 жыл бұрын
You guys did great. Enjoyed listening to your honest conversation. I have had two miscarriages one when I was younger which I felt a little relieved but also I felt guilty. My second one was with my husband which was devastating because I felt ready, but year later I had my only son, for which I am totally grateful for.
@tiffj3292
5 жыл бұрын
This was so good. Thank you for being so open and honest with your journey. Miscarriage isn’t discussed but happens more often than people know.
@samanthawhitter7669
5 жыл бұрын
Tiff J so very true.
@ashleygomez2468
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. No one can prepare you for how you will feel , what grieving is even like if you did or did not see a baby in your tummy... just everything that is so confusing about miscarriage... I love when women like you use your platforms to share about this topic because it normalizes it a bit more for everyone following you. Thank you again and I agree with everything you said.. it’s ok to feel however you want to feel. I’ve had to learn how to even wrap my mind about what are multiple chemical pregnancies .. it’s so hard but it feels a little better to know you’re not alone ♥️
@jemmmmyeah
Жыл бұрын
I’m 4 years late but, wow Whitney. You’re so strong and you’re reaction is completely your own and you shouldn’t have to justify it to anyone. And Timmy, you’re the true definition of what a husband should be. Kind, empathetic, empowering, thoughtful and so funny. I love this channel, and love you guys and your openness.
@nottheone582
3 жыл бұрын
Whit you are so brave and such a powerful influence for women just being real and authentic. Your feelings are shared and 100% valid. Thank you for sharing 🙏
@AliF-cg7rh
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable for the rest of us. You’re feelings are right because they’re YOURS. I’m thankful for all that you’ve shared - it has truly helped me and my husband with our feelings through your first child and all the emotions that are “unspeakable”. Love and support from Vancouver Canada
@katiehuff5276
3 жыл бұрын
I just found this video after watching all the reaction videos to the city and the hills and I was afraid to read the comments but I’m glad people were mostly nice bc I found this to be so comforting and helpful and something I didn’t even know I needed, thanks whit and Timmy!
@andreasueashful
5 жыл бұрын
Timmy is literally an angel. I felt the same way as Whitney about a second child but SURPRISE became pregnant with my 2nd and had to just woman up. I probably would have never taken the plunge but now I'm so grateful for my 2nd daughter.
@acissej821
5 жыл бұрын
I see all these amazing supportive comments!! I have nothing new to add but just want to repeat the thank you so much for sharing! You and your husband have a beautiful partnership.
@rebekahmorgan6287
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you and your husband had to go through this :( Thank you for being vulnerable and so open by putting this story out there!
@kd4923
5 жыл бұрын
I’m not even five minutes in and I just have to say a few things. You and Timmy make such a great team. I always love how he questions you, but not in an offensive way. He draws out the way you feel in the absolute best and genuine and sweetest of ways. I love you guys and I love what you do. Thank you ❤️
@whitneyport
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@amyjoskowitz2194
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. We have an amazing 2 year old son, and I am going through my second miscarriage right now. I couldn’t agree more, people should talk more about their miscarriages ❤️❤️
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