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@Ziggler-ky9kv
21 күн бұрын
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@speedoflight3395
3 ай бұрын
You can only be unavailable if deep inside you actually don’t care about them. But if deep inside you care about them, you can’t not be available.
@YalaMan01
3 ай бұрын
Someone sensible finally said it. I don't have energy for games
@speedoflight3395
3 ай бұрын
@@YalaMan01 I tried it bro and it didn’t work. I was hurt during the process. If guys that are unavailable are getting chased by women, it’s because deep inside, these guys are sincerely not available. If they cared a bit, there’s no way they can be unavailable. Emotions are strong.
@abelzakpe1459
3 ай бұрын
Not true. You can actually do care for a person but make yourself unavailable to an extent. I was that guy who is always very available and it has backfired severally but when I began to be unavailable from time to time things began to work well.
@speedoflight3395
3 ай бұрын
@@abelzakpe1459 Bro, for me, it came with some kind of hurt that I couldn't resist for too long. I quit the game. I'm not gonna be a simp but I'm gonna be original.
@shedparker
3 ай бұрын
@@speedoflight3395I agree. All the time I put in trying, drained me mentally and emotionally. Now that I’ve put myself first, they come left and right but I’m uninterested.
@joneschilufya867
2 ай бұрын
Only works when she likes u. If she doesn’t care about u the moment u disappear from sight that’s it for u.
@abrham.
Ай бұрын
@@joneschilufya867 that's my problem.. Jessica please do on that topic 💔🤣
@ckoriablack
Ай бұрын
😂😂that's about right
@moxine_
Ай бұрын
There's plenty of women in the world, meaning there's pretty high chance you'll find at least one that likes you
@SamuelSani-sc3rk
Ай бұрын
It's better in that case. At least you know she doesn't like you. Saving your time and resources 😅
@stan4288
Ай бұрын
@SamuelSani-sc3rk exactly..how is that not a win win? Men really need to get out of that scarcity mindset...makes us look desperate and pathetic
@derwoodhamburger
3 ай бұрын
When they say they want someone who is emotionally available, it's a huge trap. Don't even be available
@asdfxcvbn746
3 ай бұрын
that means they chased emotionally unavailable bad boys in the past & they have a lot of emotional baggage, which they will unload onto you.
@What-vo5bx
3 ай бұрын
@@asdfxcvbn746yup. A lot of traumatized people spreading their trauma around through their relationships. Most of us are traumatized in the west. Capitalism has made it much worse. Not that I have a solution, but putting a lot lore resources towards healing and preventing abuse/ trauma would go a long way towards solving many of our problems
@Hardy-uu9ve
3 ай бұрын
@@asdfxcvbn746 Absolutely correct
@kleinosim-asu7428
2 ай бұрын
@@derwoodhamburger ever since I became emotionally unavailable… it makes me sad to say but oh my God, the way women look at me hit different Like my female coworkers asked me to help them with a favor, I told them I will help them on Friday at 3:45pm before I go for basketball. It wouldn’t have taken me 5 minutes to help them today. But I can’t let them know I’m available when they ask. I’m free at my own convenience, not yours. Now not only do they need me, but they’re actively looking forward to me.
@Joeybeautiful_
3 ай бұрын
The greatest thing that ever happened to this world is “women,” and the worst thing that happened to this world is “women.”
@murckindor
3 ай бұрын
No! Big no! With biblical standpoint you have no proof
@Whitehorsehub
3 ай бұрын
@@murckindor EVE
@MrOJohn
3 ай бұрын
🎯 and I love them all too, but spot on lol.
@darkliter7
3 ай бұрын
A conundrum
@frankiegunnz8066
2 ай бұрын
That makes no sense. It's like saying you're tall yet you're short...... 🤣🤣🤣
@YalaMan01
3 ай бұрын
She either likes you or she don't. Forget it.
@chineduokoroafor1916
3 ай бұрын
Very correct
@simeonkanu4392
3 ай бұрын
Yep 😅
@YalaMan01
3 ай бұрын
@@simeonkanu4392 😂😂😂
@samuelmawulikplim8126
3 ай бұрын
Heal bro 😂
@Ogiftedgrm
3 ай бұрын
Right😂😂💯
@nwankwocallistus4096
3 ай бұрын
This is true only if she finds you attractive. If she she doesn’t like you, being unavailable will make u forgotten!!
@TonyRush21
3 ай бұрын
While what you are saying in in essence true, remember that overtime, people can grow to love someone who they never thought they would be attracted to.
@percyvolnar8010
3 ай бұрын
@@TonyRush21 Yes, but time is time. And time is short. I typically dont want anything to do with a woman who can't immediately spot that i'm special. They seem to KNOW instantly when a man is cheating on them, but they NEVER seem to know when they are in the presence of a 'Special man' or when a man is unhappy. And believe me, my inbox is full of email messages from women ive met years ago who NOW realize my special power and are wondering where ive moved to.
@cherubfilmz3218
3 ай бұрын
Yes! bcos..., now you're Unavailable.
@truth5573
3 ай бұрын
Yes you are right but she may have not find you attractive because she never experienced the need for your quality, when she grows with experience she will never get you of her mind and you are kind she will find peace and love, you literally get this kind of woman if you are her first man , she won't value it until she experienced more life
@soulemanbony9239
2 ай бұрын
@@nwankwocallistus4096 😀 but if she doesn’t like you why are you still there in the first place place
@levisharpe9121
3 ай бұрын
This is dangerous for men as this may attract sadistic women. What happens when she finally wins that prize and that man opens to her, she may lose interest because she was not genuinely interested into you but just the idea that you were a challenge.
@hellyeahedeonyia2296
2 ай бұрын
You have to make it a personality. When started, it was more of an acting. But about six months down into this regularly behavior, it started being a part of me. Being reserved and indifferent made me control my anxiety, jealous less, and not even scared to lose a woman. Now with this knowledge and reality, it became part of me.
@TommyVXOLucia
2 ай бұрын
Never take advice from them. Only advice from the men she chases
@adesinaoluwayemi9694
2 ай бұрын
My sentiment,what happens if you then get married to her and you are now always available,then she gets tired of be relationship and want to leave 😂😂
@CashMasterStackzzS
13 күн бұрын
@@adesinaoluwayemi9694this guys don’t want to get married they just want options .
@Media-oh8xc
3 ай бұрын
This has always been the case. Sometimes even if you’re not busy you should say you are, don’t be too available it’s not attractive.
@Dboy-s8v
2 ай бұрын
Relationship without attention kills affection. Don’t be unavailable for a partner that love you
@emmakudos
3 ай бұрын
Once you’re principled as a man, this won’t feel like a game or hard to do. You naturally exhibit these attributes without stress and these ladies will fall at your feet. I’m a witness!
@jerrygumisiriza9417
3 ай бұрын
Yes sir! 😅
@NoName-m5o
3 ай бұрын
The ladies will. The rest will still seek Tyrone and cry fowl when he dumps them!
@maverickharrell9061
2 ай бұрын
@@NoName-m5o Tyrone here. I agree.
@BreezeeGreenz
2 ай бұрын
True.
@thadevilzadvocate
2 ай бұрын
@@maverickharrell9061I'm not calling myself Tyrone that's not my name however when you stop caring and giving a shit it changes the whole dynamic. I wished I've done this shit years ago instead of coming off as a non dominant simp.
@jobistrange1668
3 ай бұрын
The key is detachment.
@dfaro8453
2 ай бұрын
Exactly bro. Don’t be attached to no female. I see too many simps crying for their ex or deleting themselves. Jesus, we gotta get our balls back. 😅
@greymaterresources
3 ай бұрын
Seems Jessy being listening to Davido music track titled :Unavailable! Gracias Sis
@RJ-ox3gi
3 ай бұрын
I literally thought about that song lol
@dasfx2895
3 ай бұрын
Them no dey see me...
@operanews64
Ай бұрын
@@greymaterresources but why is Davido always available for chioma...
@trevorross1311
3 ай бұрын
Once u get the balance down, ur good to go. That's the key to it. 🔑
@jonathanjacob5453
2 ай бұрын
Exactly and the balance is looks and money. Or you drop your standards. But her is the tricky bit because what you really want from a woman is genuine desire the most important thing is looks.
@SoJesusChristMusic
2 ай бұрын
This was it Jessica 🥳 And I know this is right because when you give a woman your all…she uses it and then doesn’t want you when there’s nothing left…but if we do as the woman does “self love” and “self first” we are now attractive. Strange how that works…but it’s true.
@so3710
3 ай бұрын
Noted! Be selectively unavoidable. Cheers for sharing 👍🏼
@MJCdesigns
3 ай бұрын
Unavailable will be forgotten.
@allanbahati1942
Ай бұрын
Excellent video! Thank you for sharing these sis. Love the advice.
@abrahamdeuapiok3497
2 ай бұрын
How long should this game of unavailability has to continue? You can't remain unavailable forever otherwise there's no point in wanting that relationship in the first place. This is my opinion: if they are not okay with your availability then they prove not to be the right ones period.
@ROBINKOSGEI99
28 күн бұрын
@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 Adapt to the game G.... 🤣
@KantankaOsafo
16 күн бұрын
@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 How long can you be unavailable to someone? Is unavailability the start of a relationship or getting into a relationship?
@777lucifero
2 ай бұрын
the secret is to not have a damaged childhood and not end up in another narcisistic/abusive relationship (or being the abuser yourself)
@Velwano
2 ай бұрын
Somebody once said women are a school you'll never graduate from 😅 . That is why I prefer women that want me more than I want them. Thank you Jessica. You are appreciated.
3 ай бұрын
😂😂 Guy’s women don’t come with instruction manuals, so we have to make our own training manual while being unavailable! Gosh-that sounds like playing games!😂😂
@What-vo5bx
3 ай бұрын
You’re playing the game whether you want to or not. “Not playing the game” is just strategy. Sorta like “ you’re always paying for it” or other true clichés you can think of. Lol 😂
@jrcrit8843
2 ай бұрын
@@What-vo5bx no not at all. You can just choose not to play games with ppl. Not that hard to do.
@What-vo5bx
2 ай бұрын
@@jrcrit8843and that’s a strategy…😅
@What-vo5bx
2 ай бұрын
@@jrcrit8843 You do realize that that's strategy right? 😅. You're in the game man. face it...
@jrcrit8843
2 ай бұрын
@@What-vo5bx that’s not a strategy. I’m already in a relationship without having to play games. Only kids play these little games and men who have never been with a woman before and women who are being malicious to begin with. If you feel you have to play some chess match just to get a woman then your purpose in life is greatly diminished. Believe or not, not everyone wants to live life on the internet and swallow all of this garbage that deluded both men and women. If you focus on your business and health, a lot of things can actually work itself out.
@darnelljones7220
Ай бұрын
I’m just gonna keep being the genuine thorough type of dude that’s not needy that doesn’t pressure women I’m not gonna play games & my woman well come
@shadrachwiredu956
2 ай бұрын
THIS IS SO TRUEE. MY MED SCHOOL STUDIES, TAKING A GOOD PART OF MY TIME, PROVES THIS. EVERYTHING THAT IS HARD TO FIND INDEED IS RESPECTED, YEARNED FOR AND SORT AFTER. NO CAP!! GREAT CONTENT
@igbana_ai
2 ай бұрын
Am I the only one that didn't fully agree with her point but just watched to the end because of the softness of the tone of her voice and the video quality?
@menzelimtunzi8514
2 ай бұрын
If she likes you..she likes you! period!
@rahabmugambi7697
3 ай бұрын
The deep research you make bring out the content very well.thanks dear
@chiefk587
3 ай бұрын
A book that contains instructions about understanding women psychology in full would contain an infinite number of pages.
@royalbloodlines1
Ай бұрын
Nah forget all that Be this guy crap! Be your Damm self, stand on that & make these women respect it. & If they choose to get on yo program let em ride, if they choose not to... let em Go! Simple & Simply done💯
@hipiri
2 ай бұрын
It's crazy, the amount of games and mind juggling you need just to get a girl or a girls attention. It's why most of us stay single.
@jomufilms
3 ай бұрын
Basically looks, self sufficiency an independent mindset
@christophersemenya9890
2 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏👍 to everyone of the crew who made this episode possible
@donpedro6177
Ай бұрын
A great video ❤ Keep up the great work Also love your voice too
@josephdanso21
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message
@neworleansmade504
3 ай бұрын
I think the key is to only give her your time if she worth it and she gotta show it
@jonathanjacob5453
2 ай бұрын
What if she is not interested in your time? You can’t be unavailable to someone that doesn’t care.
@neworleansmade504
2 ай бұрын
@@jonathanjacob5453 well move on to the next one
@protechgh9429
10 күн бұрын
Scarcity, when something is not easily accessible makes it valuable. In my perspective, your value is determined by what you put on the table and the people sitting around the table. If they need what you bring then you are of value, if they do not need it then you are of less value. Also, the frequency of what you give can determine its value level. Should value be determined by what you do, who you are or is it dependent on the person receiving it ?
@Tatania-n7e
3 ай бұрын
One of your best uploads. Well done
@hadexsunwealth6791
2 ай бұрын
You're of the best dating advicer in whole galaxy.
@emmaabumere2870
3 ай бұрын
Always make it known that while being unavailable is a super power it will only work if she's attracted, notice or interested in you and seeks your attention in the first place. Else you'll be wasting your time to someone or people who don't care.
@davidbraxton6600
2 ай бұрын
YOUR ADVICE IS FASCINATING JESSICA ❤
@pboi5339
2 ай бұрын
In simple words she said whats yours will always be yours !!.
@xxxyyy-iy4hf
3 ай бұрын
Thank you Aunt Jess.
@moshei210
17 күн бұрын
I can see Maury and Jerry Springer signing of on this and still saying to ten available men all at once "You are Not! the father🎰😂
@henrygjean-baptiste3022
3 ай бұрын
Good insight 🙏
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@RodneyFernando-p7n
3 ай бұрын
You opened me a new window to my life.i m from srILANKAN .🎉🎉🎉🎉
@abdulazizumumin3328
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@demeuredusaintesprit2709
3 ай бұрын
Africa has rich people too 😊
@GDA2222
3 ай бұрын
I'm rich, i dont really care if women like me or not. I'm not looking to top any womans list.
@fletchamuhalia9103
2 ай бұрын
@@GDA2222 really
@icollinsharvey
3 ай бұрын
Insightful J!
@mrmoraks
2 ай бұрын
This one video is a whole book on women psychology! Wow!
@greensidehealth
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this Jessica 💖🙏🏾
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@georgejuma9221
3 ай бұрын
Hello Jessica . It's quiet along time I have been away from the show .Mmm, I can attest to this senior. Alady has been going after me for the last 3 years by telling me how she has feelings towards me and she is willing to meet me but I'm not interested in her despite the fact that I keeps her heart alive..she doesn't know my physically appearance but always begs me to meet her telling me how she loves me and thinking of marrying me not knowing that I'm afamily man and I respect my wife as I respect God 😅😅😅
@asdfxcvbn746
3 ай бұрын
its a scam. probably a dude behind a computer screen lol smh
@JayjayKings-sq2qs
3 ай бұрын
Just two ways. Is either she love you or not period
@cirur.3934
2 ай бұрын
These were the kinds of guys we chased back in the day, they were so mysterious and self aware that they seemed unattainable and they were not acting, they were actually that way. It would be hard to keep up an act of mystery and such. The rich guys were usually boring because they depended on that to attract women and never cultivated any sense of mystery or depth.
@noblesseraizelcoby
3 ай бұрын
Thanks Maamie really needed that
@femipopoola8955
Ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica
@pipio4593
3 ай бұрын
I love your voice, Jessy.
@microb399
3 ай бұрын
Just work on you and understand what a good addition to you looks like! Too many ppl that lack the qualities necessary want way more than their value projects! Know your lane
@olaxajayi
9 күн бұрын
She is so eloquent
@leoncomlanhekpazo4386
3 күн бұрын
From a seasoned man's perspective I'd not see guys like myself who get chased by women as "lucky" people per se since this comes with a huge risk of distraction and a bunch occasions of falls at a pretty high frequency. If I have a piece of advice for my younger version, It would be like focus on your goals and once your choice is made, try and keep women away as much as you can.
@ANormalMale
3 ай бұрын
Women don't know the men they need...the man has to show her that she needs him
@HandsetMode
22 күн бұрын
Those are techniques when you want to be a player…..People are always not the same
@kanjangamukwena53
2 ай бұрын
Aint got time for these mind game, charge it take out the Game
@fergusonmbanali740
3 ай бұрын
I love you, Jessica, and I love your show as well
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
thanks
@brightnyagumbo1166
3 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS your cool vibe is making me like you fr jess!
@jamesaruna6869
3 ай бұрын
Mama you are the right person for subject,
@ayo.tunjii283
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the new info Jessica 😇
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
Any time!
@curexpride6743
2 ай бұрын
I even write a song unavailable for you So be unavailable for them..
@danielmuliira5363
2 ай бұрын
You just have to be pulling away selectively. Its like being a celebrity that appears once in a while not all the time. People get excited when they see them when not expecting to see them
@BongumusaMabuza
Ай бұрын
Just be yourself you will find a woman who appreciates you for who you are... mostly when they are matured women tend to be free to be themselves as well.. looking for stability more than games... openness honesty and vulnerability is very attractive to matured women...
@obviouslyasockpuppet
2 ай бұрын
Hobbies are not created equal. Video games are considered a red flag unless she's also into video games. You need hobbies that they see value in. Sports improve your looks, reading sharpens your mind, art improves your imagination and dancing improves your rhythm. All these hobbies improve some aspect of you that women like alomg with any other hobby that looks likey to turn into a lucrative career or business.
@TrueYarn
3 ай бұрын
Davido already told you. Lol.
@angelawaiswa6254
3 ай бұрын
Scarcity!!! Is poison.Wont work.
@TonyRush21
3 ай бұрын
For someone who is not that kind of man to become this kind of man, would take years of training
@deathtocolor8774
3 ай бұрын
If I have to do all of this, just to keep my relationship healthy. I’m just not having a relationship. I don’t think it’s for me.
@TravisMorton-p7o
3 ай бұрын
I'm tired of relationships...it always start out good..them next thing you know...we both are looking for someone new.... just Love yourself and have sex from time to time with whoever you attract.....keep feelings away......ppl just will naturally hurt you intentionally and unintentionally.....I'm just over it....much respect to Jess....I'm just tired of it all....😢tears are falling as I type.....
@raheru9582
3 ай бұрын
Or go monk mode
@bestlinksOne
2 ай бұрын
For me my advice is, many have lost useful people in life because of some of these points. Boy, if she loves you, she will enjoy who you are.
@michaeljewell53
3 ай бұрын
In other words,do what women do
@chinonsonkume
3 ай бұрын
Jessica do u realize that u've really engulfed my thoughts over d yrs?
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
is that good or bad?
@chinonsonkume
3 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS I really yearn 2see u
@chinonsonkume
3 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS offcux it's 4gud gem,just ur voice drains me emotionally, who really are u pearl?
@dubbyx8490
3 ай бұрын
Baba go watch video on how to slide into her DM 😂
@victorwinner491
3 ай бұрын
Been following for a few years Jessica. Ive learnt so much Thank you ❤️
@motema_mpembe
3 ай бұрын
Jessica, you're a true gem! Keep up!
@stevenhs8821
3 ай бұрын
I don't even know if I'm available or not. I'm definitely because I'm single and would like being with a woman. But on the other hand I'll pursue a woman for only for a very little time if I get a sense she interested in me.
@stevenhs8821
3 ай бұрын
If she is NOT interested
@kwesiaikins4939
3 ай бұрын
If I woman loves or likes you she does no matter what but if she don’t forget…
@obsidian_Ke
3 ай бұрын
Now I get why people chase millions of dollars; scarcity principle, the challenge....
@FelixJonasAdom
3 ай бұрын
Very insightful.
@excellencyphenom5307
3 ай бұрын
I like your content J! You are definitely a Vibe!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯💯✌️
@JessicaOS
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗
@aegonunlikely9400
3 ай бұрын
This is Hope, shes lying. Look at there actions, not what they say. Its Genetics and the Law. Men we lost
@OKASHASAIDU-pq7mq
3 ай бұрын
Excellent❤❤❤
@VimKanzo
2 ай бұрын
Hi @Jess, do you happen to edit your videos yourself? They look sturning and engaging.
@dubbyx8490
3 ай бұрын
Being unavailable automatically comes when you are pursuing your goals like a mad man.. If you try to form unavailable, it will not work. Nice video, Jessica.
@jerocaldon429
2 ай бұрын
Really this is what you are saying. Look here I thought you actually had something of substance guess what after they reach who is elusive most still quit today opposed to 20 years prior.
@b.p.m.5136
2 ай бұрын
Never fall in love with pleasure,money and control ones anger.
@dominicfrancis1833
3 ай бұрын
One of the best rap album of all times
@stanleypapifrimps4313
Ай бұрын
With money you get lots of options,you stop chasing and starts being chased down
@5starmusic383
3 ай бұрын
What are great🎉 inspiration keeps strong keep going up make me love you more Blessed are the heart
@AllRealNoLies
Ай бұрын
Focus on your purpose
@DEATHxTHExKIDx1
3 ай бұрын
My excuse now is im unavailable to focus on my cholesterol 😅
@ks_pro3850
2 ай бұрын
True!! True!! And true!!!
@Infinoxacademy
3 ай бұрын
You are a bad girl 😂😂😂 Your videos always beat my imagination, keep up Jess
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