Once a man learns everything is not enough life gets much easier
@rickyking1790
Жыл бұрын
I'm not a loser and yet I don't give a shit what anyone cares or thinks of me. I am what I am. I grew up a rebel and molded myself to what I am today . "treat me good, I'll treat you better....treat me bad, I'll treat you worse"
@innertuition7363
Жыл бұрын
i like this..
@nikhil8892
Жыл бұрын
My type
@Lemon-rk9hq
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah bro same here
@karhmatheking5927
Жыл бұрын
💯
@brianbachmeier34
Жыл бұрын
I like that saying. Never heard that before.
@radublaj6126
Жыл бұрын
Loosers resonate with loosers, which means most womens are LOOSERS. Great vid btw.
@FathersLoveWithoutEnd
6 ай бұрын
Exactly. The idea that "opposites attract" is typical gaslighting. Birds of a feather flock together. Like dissolves like. Tuning forks of like frequencies resonate. That's enough analogies, the point is made.
@jtstar10
17 күн бұрын
Learn how to spell..
@emilyl6746
Жыл бұрын
There are sometimes deeper issues at play too. A lot of women who date losers or terrible guys have an incredibly low sense of self worth. They don't like who they are. They can't be alone. They'd rather be with a loser than no one at all. They don't believe they deserve anyone better. It's really sad because they usually can't break it off with the guy.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
Its not sad at all considering they chose that man in in fact a lot of women do deserve actually deserve a loser. Whats sad is all the high value men dating women who have nothing to offer when those women should have just stuck with losers on their own level
@sophie8466
Жыл бұрын
@@dragorn3212 then maybe they aren't high value men, if they date such women.
@jessebradford7130
Жыл бұрын
@@sophie8466Exactly. Does high value concern itself with character....at all? 😅
@sophie8466
Жыл бұрын
@@jessebradford7130 it definitely should. Anyways how got you there where you are without a character? Its impossible if you are not cheating (I mean under cheating, that someone not from their own power reaches their purposes but with using others, and always chooses the easier ways, like a weak character). If you are cheating, you are not high value, you are just Fake and a loser.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
@@sophie8466 Your value isn't determined by the women you date. They are high value but they simply didn't learned red pill and get caught up in a girls looks
@SchockBluesFitness
Жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian and the Bible states seek the Kingdom of God first and his righteousness and all things shall be added onto you. It doesn't say put women first, or your place in society. Excellent video LFA
@ajtaylor8750
Жыл бұрын
#3 is such a hard pill to swallow for a lot of guys, but it's true. Men who struggle to commit give women that nonstop rollercoaster ride of emotions that women can't get enough of, and she'll keep coming back for more time after time.
@EddyG0rdo
Жыл бұрын
Yea but it’s not sustainable. Eventually it has to end.
@halukkilic3171
Жыл бұрын
@@EddyG0rdo I'm 50 today - I've been doing it for 33 years and no end in sight. Bc 719 so far : )
@jarenong
Жыл бұрын
@@halukkilic3171 Those are rookie numbers. My body count is 7,214 BODIES
@maverick1109
Жыл бұрын
Girls who felt like they never got their dad's approval will always chase the guys who don't validate them & kick the guys who do in the balls.
@victorchoudhury3538
Жыл бұрын
True Just happened to me. I m tall dude.. Muscled guy... But truly liked this girl though she had vitilgo.... She choosed a below average looking dude... Becoz he ignored her... One day I got to knw... She goes on therapy and has low self-esteem.. Hates herself... Emotionally damaged Tats why they act like this.
@emperorcesar8208
Жыл бұрын
Your #2 is so spot on. I am a 33yr old medical doctor who got everything a man can wish for 6.4ft tall well shaped nice cars and house but i was struggling to keep women. I realize they feel pressure not to be themselves and act right and them ghost. Then I tried the strategy of putting myself out as a jobless guy taking women to my brother house to smash then I started attracting more women
@innertuition7363
Жыл бұрын
i am what YOU class as a loser, 50yr old, 140lbs, 5ft 7", big ol ears, i dont own my house, have a used car, non religious.. but my body is jacked bruce lee style , i have charm and charisma, i dont care what people think, i am deffo a free spirit sigma male living life on my terms, i have been more free than a guy that chases the ££$$, and still women pursue me. in my eyes i am winning in life. Do what makes you happy and dont harm people on the way whilst on this journey called life.. good to see ya back making vids dude.
@KevinPresents
Жыл бұрын
Women date losers because it is less anxiety for them. Knowing they don't have any options other than her makes her comfortable.
@Maree313
Жыл бұрын
Yea this is true.
@FathersLoveWithoutEnd
6 ай бұрын
No, that's what they do with the husbands they settle with. The "losers" they date are your cliche Chad.
@Ken-vk8pb
Жыл бұрын
Being judgemental will not only cause men to lose women but it will also cause you to lose good guy friends as well since nobody likes to be harshly judged by anyone especially their own close friends and even family. Nobody wants to be around someone that is constantly judging them and or criticizing them all the time.
@bdUB1990
Жыл бұрын
Why be around losers iron sharpens iron
@ROD2REALTV
Жыл бұрын
If I can’t tell you how to get better you don’t need to be around me. I expect the same in return. A true friend, family member or gf/bf will put some game in your ear.
@lisaeve6426
28 күн бұрын
He just described me.... chasing a lost loser... that can't commit with no money, shitty job etc ...😢
@colethomson7267
Жыл бұрын
That little smirk with puckered lips is funny as hell
@drmontano9414
Жыл бұрын
are you sure? 😂
@Coke_Addiction
Жыл бұрын
That was valuable insight. Young men of faith needed to hear that.
@SarahJacksonLV
Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate this perspective:) you're not wrong 😅. I'm going to share this on my linkedin...can't wait to see what the professionals in my network have to say about this subject...good stuff. God bless and thanks for sharing😁
@FeterPrahm
Жыл бұрын
based kek
@vincewarren1271
Жыл бұрын
5:50 my exact thoughts. They feel the pressure around you if they think you're husband material. So if you're just trying to get laid, you have to figure them out before they figure you out and act accordingly.
@6fiddy309
5 ай бұрын
Just found your channel.. Everybody is at different levels of figuring shit out.. Dude... you hit it out of the park with this video..🤔👍👍
@jomufilms
6 ай бұрын
1) Stop giving a damn what others think of you live life for yourself and on your own terms. Do things for yourself (learn to think for yourself) don’t do things in order to appease to others. 2) Don’t judge women on their promiscuity, only think about sleeping with her not about wifing her up. Don’t think further than the bedroom and if she doesn’t want to you bounce. She needs to be able to feel herself. 3) Don’t think about commitment because there is no 100% guarantee she will stay loyal. Even if she stays loyal who says you will still want/like her. Don’t think further than the bedroom even when she lets you hit you still bounce as soon as you start getting feelings for her because of the intimacy and her box. Also when she starts to enjoy it you bounce because this will quickly turn into her being dissatisfied. Other tips: - Don’t be clingy, needy - Have game like some of these pastors. To entertain her but as soon as she starts enjoying your presence you run away from her. - love is created by time spend apart not together that’s why you run away from her to continue the cycle of her chasing you
@elrincondelcaballeroluna
4 ай бұрын
Good summary, thank you!
@Surfsup448
Жыл бұрын
Religion is cool! It’s a daily thing for me. Wouldn’t go a day without it. Everyone wants to be around good people. So be good. Stop talking about other people’s problems, while overlooking your own. Great vid LFA! You are a winner 🥇
@rogerward3390
Жыл бұрын
Is fornication a Christian sin..
@youcanthandlethetruth5433
9 ай бұрын
Yes
@Thatdude64317
Жыл бұрын
“Pursue God, not women.” Absolute truth.
@224Mano
10 ай бұрын
I like this guy because you can tell he genuinely loves women and sees the best in them
@watchingthewaves1
10 ай бұрын
This is true I am 37 female not married no kids and I’ve wasted almost 20 years dating losers. Men who are broke, over weight ,do drugs and have no goals dreams nothing. Only care about drugs and partying . And you are correct they believe they are the best thing since sliced bread. But I learned it was because I was looking to these men to heal what I didn’t get in my childhood. I had to heal my childhood wounds to finally not be attracted to these losers and I am thankful now I am getting on the right track so I can have the family I have been dreaming of since I was 16. God bless who ever relates to this I pray your childhood wounds get healed.
@traindrivernick
Жыл бұрын
Loving the regular videos brother!
@jessekuchinski1172
10 ай бұрын
You made me realize im both high value AND a loser. Blows my mind. Ive always been pretty succesful with women because the fact of being busy and put yourself first, women just cant resist that s*** and its because i do care what people think and that includes women. I guess im not a loser but im not perfect thats for sure. They get turned off by perfect guys anyway
@geomod6850
10 ай бұрын
11:58 Yes, a masculine framing of Christianity is needed. Shepherd not a sheep. Preserve and protect.
@GoldenMushroom64
Жыл бұрын
Another banger. Your walks and talks are really grounding
@apicemphysique
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the clip brother, always straight to the point and sensible
@lynniepoo6546
8 ай бұрын
A man who takes his direction from God is the best! Thank you for encouraging men to be true men, much needed!
@tummas1980
Жыл бұрын
Good advise! As a divorced man I’ve found it hard to date again. But then I realised that women like me the most when I seem not to care. Weird!
@mattyoder6085
Жыл бұрын
Possibly the best, most insightful video you've ever made.
@arielcandoleta5347
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the fact that you shared such a topic, an eye opening experience for me at least.
@yellowquantum4240
Жыл бұрын
Amen brother! I am grateful to my lord and Savior Jesus Christ#1. I got betrayed by my 15 yr relationship she cheated God took me back home!!! Blessed!!
@colton7373
Жыл бұрын
Amen.. fellow brother in Christ here
@yellowquantum4240
Жыл бұрын
@@colton7373 you are taken care by the Father -Son- Holy spirit...You are blessed 1000%!
@lamaralvarez7385
7 ай бұрын
This truth is hard pill to swallow
@AAY-7
Жыл бұрын
Maybe I can not explain, but you become more cool from time to time, Brother, and I learn much from you. Thanks
@anonymus2586
11 ай бұрын
Realy damn hot stuff you spit there ty for sharing!
@chinjuaneldonjuan
Жыл бұрын
Christianity is cool, keep pumping it bro
@AnthonyGarcia-wb8xv
Жыл бұрын
LAF=Like A Friend
@drmontano9414
Жыл бұрын
thanks
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
Жыл бұрын
Merhaba not maybe but something really really really extra is 100 percent presented here !
@MattyLiam333
Жыл бұрын
You had me in agreement until the end. So spot on on all of it. I was a local rock celebrity, so I was the rock n roll singer loser for many years and you hit the nail on the head on all 3 reasons. Here's where you lost me at the end....the Bible also was written by a bunch of men who never married so I really don't like people using the bible as a way to convince men that they should not be alone. The apostle Paul said many times it is better for spirituality for a man to be on his own. He made this a very big deal, and Jesus NEVER mentioned anything about marriage as being better than not being married. Men do not need women in their lives other than MAYBE sex. The book of Proverbs says that it's better for a man to be alone in the desert than with a quarreling and contentious woman. These days find me a non-argumentative woman and I'll change my mind on this issue. As of right now I have seen no evidence where a man should be with a woman. In fact most times, men should be alone until they find an even-temptered woman. If men were smart they would just seek God. Let the women figure out for themselves where they all went wrong.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
rock singers are not losers, lol thats one of the highest forms of social status a man can obtain. When a lot guys think of loser they think financially but they forget social status is number one form of easy attraction ahead of looks and ahead of financial status
@MattyLiam333
Жыл бұрын
@@dragorn3212 I didn't really want to brag about my body count because frankly, when you hit that 300 body count hump (pardon the pun), it just gets a little embarrassing. I'm lucky I got out 100% health and 100% sober.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
@@MattyLiam333 well congrats if only blue pill guys knew how easy it is for men of status they'd probably stop committing altogether
@dianabalan
Жыл бұрын
You're funny. It's the other way around. Women are doing so much better single than men do.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
@@dianabalan For most single men its not their choice to be single. For single women it is their choice and they can partner up anytime with guys much higher value than themself. No logical reason to compare the 2
@keithzamamahlangu6647
Жыл бұрын
Thanks friend from South Africa love this bother 😅😅
@RELATABLERAHIM
Жыл бұрын
Great vid
@lw991366
Жыл бұрын
Nice one, LFA.
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
I don't have an issue that women are attracted to "losers". After all i believe women should be dating guys on their own level instead of being so hypergamous that the guy has to be high value. The problem though is its not just your average typical loser that women are attracted to. If a guy is a 'loser' in life, he has to be narcissistic, selfish, and overall dark triad to attract women. Women could care less about your kind, selfless, respectful type of loser who just is in a slump. If you search reddit for "women who dated losers" you will see part of the reason they have issues with broke losers is because these guys used them for money, favors, and reverse gold digging. Whereas 95% of losers i know won't do that, women are picking and choosing the 5% of losers that are psychopathic narcissists. Now that i do have a problem with
@wildcardjester
Жыл бұрын
Awesome video, I really like your take on this.. and come to think of it Lfa would actually be a great and really cool Pastor
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
Жыл бұрын
I Boss your around ! It is a must !
@1nfty-
Жыл бұрын
I think spirituality is more important than religion. Religion keeps you bound. Spirituality sets you free. Christ never intended for dogmas and punishment. 90% of people who read the bible completely miss the point of it. It's a life guide book, spiritual alchemy and occultism book. Not a religion book., despite being used as such.
@aovermont
Жыл бұрын
Right on brother
@sandrewmukhim108
Жыл бұрын
Great video bro😊
@donttreadonmetal5073
Жыл бұрын
Losers, myself included by most standards so-called, don't care what anyone thinks because we've internalized and accepted our positions in life and society. "loser" is a spectrum. Depends on the person.
@cqnnqn
Жыл бұрын
Great video 🙏
@strangleholdoutdoors
Жыл бұрын
Hey brother 🇺🇸👊
@JasonJayJJ1
Жыл бұрын
Great observations my friend. Insecure chicks (so many around) especially fall for losers.
@jasebas9941
Жыл бұрын
A woman will also get with a loser so she can date up and leave any time she wants
@halukkilic3171
Жыл бұрын
@@theone8978 He's right - most young chicks f losers and date up when they reach higher respected status in society as they get older - for that reason they don't wanna be judged for dating losers. It's a strategy.
@TriforceOfTheGods80
Жыл бұрын
So a placeholder. Funny though if a guy does the same, sees hookers or even use a doll, he is a sc*mbag yet for women, a ok
@Davidmsimuko790
Жыл бұрын
It was so informative sir, really appreciate
@healthguy79
Жыл бұрын
I was (and still am) a smooth talker. Let's just say I work in high end sales. I was a "loser" from the perspective I had a low end job but knew how to wow girls with fantastic business ideas that will make six figure incomes and got them to meet my mentor but never made much money and I got laid so much as they believed that my ship will come in based on how smooth I spoke about the business plan
@hasanzibdeh1641
Жыл бұрын
LFA good video. I can still see many of guys here are not completely getting it. I am a 42 y.o. man with a very good career and status while having a good dating life. Many guys dont understand the character thing, they just focus on the least success factors with women such as money, looks, physique, techniques etc. I guarantee you if you are not ugly and not broke you still have a very good chance if you have specific personality traits, characteristics and lifestyle. Let's be honest most guys are unattractive and weak. I really value your content and i agree with most of what you are saying. However, i still believe that most guys will not understand nor will be able to genuinely change.
@wkboss302
Жыл бұрын
Very informative 😁😎, i agree with you 😃
@Adriancohen-mu1sw
6 ай бұрын
I remember meeting a girl on tinder. She loved my profile because I listed all that she happened to be looking for and even call me handsome. Here's the interesting part, we went out on a few dates and things just flowed very well. One night, out of no where she texts me with "I've been doing a lot of thinking and I don't think we're a good match" I didn't see this coming and replied "May I ask why not?" She said "Not everything has to be improved upon". It makes you think. I have friends who are less attractive, less sucessful, shorter etc who have no problem attracting good looking women?
@mrbabyhugh
Жыл бұрын
5:00 Pastor = status & people listen + follow them. that is the whole thing behind it. Status and people follow your direction. And most likely other women are attracted too and that gets them even more attracted EVEN if he has a wife. Like you said, it's how nature has us wired, nothing anyone can do about it and it is not backward, it is just how it is. Up to you as a MAN to know this and position yourself accordingly.
@pip7967
Жыл бұрын
10:03 what does LFA means by love is spent by time apart? lots of girls I like spend time away from me and it's not doing me any favors lol
@SONORSQ2guy
Жыл бұрын
If the loser is handsome and in shape he can have multiple non commited relationships women. For some guys that would be a dream come true.
@zacharynelson541
Жыл бұрын
I'm not a loser!!😡 Mother told me so
@williamchevalier2224
4 ай бұрын
Tom petty sang even the losers get lucky sometimes
@marsvai2410
10 ай бұрын
Love ya man :D
@Relentless.assault
Жыл бұрын
There are a few beta male dating coaches that give beta advice telling you not to put a women in her place if she annoys you because it's "feminine energy" like fuck it is that's masculine energy at it's finest
@dragorn3212
Жыл бұрын
Im of the belief now you need to call them out quickly and decisively. they think its beta to be insecure enough to care but in reality you calling them out displays selfishness first and women can't resist selfish because its part of dark triad
@joncolunga673
11 ай бұрын
You have the right point, but the wrong reasons. I honestly believe from my observations in my dating life and others as well, that they like "losers" because they think that guy won't cheat on them and has little options. I have been that loser guy before, and also the guy with status and money. And I'll tell you this right now, when you have status and money, they always think you're going to cheat on them. No matter how well you treat them. We've all heard them say "I know he's a jerk or a loser or whatever, but he's my loser jerk." Knowing he has no money, nowhere to stay, nowhere to run to but her, makes her feel more secure in the relationship. It's almost as if they would rather get cheated on by a guy they know will be back and have to rely on them than a guy who has a place, money and status who they feel like they have to live up to. Cause when the high value guy cheats it makes them feel like they weren't good enough for someone who was winning in life, and they weren't good enough to be a woman for a real man.
@WW-nk7wg
11 ай бұрын
Spot on dude. I am a big time loser. Now I openly tell her I sleep with other women, she says "it is okay, you will come back". She even helps me with finding women. She even fixes and cleans my place so the women I bring feel comfortable. Recently I even got rejected by a woman. Girlfriend says she will talk to her and convince her. I don't know what to do? I feel not like a loser but the king of losers. Nothing has offended me this much in my life.
@blakekogut3045
Жыл бұрын
Im not very judgemental but i wouldn't consider myself a loser lol but important advice thanks LFA
@eagleloop5967
Жыл бұрын
Haa....one of my favourite video from prof, LFA 😂😂
@derNachbar97
Жыл бұрын
This is a 100% true
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
Жыл бұрын
It’s gonna be a hot week in Bama, I’m guessing even hotter in Tulsa
@LFA
Жыл бұрын
105 all week
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been pursuing God and on retention for over a year LFA. Funny enough Saturday night I had two women text me. I’ve just been minding my own business. Retention creates attraction in all areas and changes you at the core to becoming uneedy.
@zacharyrapp2791
Жыл бұрын
I liked this. The second you stop focusing on women is the same time they will start focusing on you. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, join something like an ultimate frisbee league and other forms of exercise like yoga. Focus on doing the right things and bonding with good habits and you won't even care about finding a woman. Then when that perfect girl ultimately does cross paths with you, you'll already have an amazing foundation that will allow you to not lose her.
@hasanzibdeh1641
Жыл бұрын
I disagree bro, let's be realistic. If you want to be in the best position you need to be balanced, balance is good. Pursue your goals, money, business, career and self development and at the same time you need to be in contact with woman. If you ignore the latter part, trust me women will not chase you but gold diggers etc. who you don't want. I know too many high value men who are still single because they are not in touch with women.
@grantjohnson5538
Жыл бұрын
No such thing as a perfect girl
@zacharyrapp2791
Жыл бұрын
@@hasanzibdeh1641 1. im not your bro 2. i never said to not be in contact with women 3. i described building a strong balanced
@zacharyrapp2791
Жыл бұрын
@@grantjohnson5538 that isn't the point you are being purposefully ignorant
@hasanzibdeh1641
Жыл бұрын
@@grantjohnson5538 point 1 is the only correct point.
@ViperXSS2
Жыл бұрын
Makes sense now, when I go overseas I am the guy that might go back home and therefore won’t commit, so they fall all over me. While in the states I am perceived as too high value, Too serious.
@lloydeelloyd
6 ай бұрын
Beautiful neighbourhood
@Libra_Girl.
Жыл бұрын
Yes it's good for me to wonder what the guy is doing for at least 2 hours at a time. Lol
@ryanj357
Жыл бұрын
Do you want a bum who sits on the couch all day waiting for your text? Results prove that most women don’t want what you want. You’re an exception not the majority
@Libra_Girl.
Жыл бұрын
@@ryanj357 Your comment doesn't make any sense to me based on my comment.
@ThisisRocky2000
Жыл бұрын
Good shit
@Cosmicsurfpro
Жыл бұрын
The cacadas are good background sound I think haha but I might be a loser but women don't like me. They say I'm attractive but then I try to hard or not hard enough but I don't think I've found the right one yet and I'm not into one night stands anymore 🤙🏻😎
@janvanardoen9531
Жыл бұрын
Recording the video walking around in flip flops.
@LFA
Жыл бұрын
I'll be sure to fake flex in a lambo next time to make sure you're satisfied.
@janvanardoen9531
Жыл бұрын
@@LFA Now that's more like it !
@davidv41680
8 ай бұрын
Julian edelman. Hahaha 😂😂😂
@user-vg9eh4gr9j
6 ай бұрын
Weakness speaks out more weakness. That's all...
@blakeepperson3902
Жыл бұрын
Facts. I’ve had a few experiences where it seemed like she got real insecure about herself bc I have my stuff together. I have a friend that was a bar tender and one that’s a drummer. Both broke ‘losers’, multiple girls a month. I’m gonna do me. Maybe boring, but responsible with cash to spare, and happy with myself. I get lucky every now and then. Nothing wrong with being Godly either. I see a lot of Christians struggle with becoming overly judgmental though. I’m ready. She’s coming and better be ready to make some babies. I’d rather get divorce raped and say I tried than die alone.
@recklessnotion1899
Жыл бұрын
Idk about that last part. You came into this world alone and youre gonna die alone regardless, we all are. Gotta man up and stop being dependent on another human for happiness or contentment.
@blakeepperson3902
Жыл бұрын
Remarry to have kids, to take care of me when I’m older. I’ve already been married and divorced. I’m content. People are hard wired to procreate. I wouldn’t call it a weakness.
@rileyd4804
Жыл бұрын
God is not religion. God is God. Religion has divided civilizations for centuries. Wars have been started over religion as we know. In these times in which we are living, especially what is coming extremely soon, one needs to know exactly where one stands in relation to what one believes. I agree with you LFA. On July 4, 1989, I had a NDE. I know how I left my body, where I went, and what I saw. I knew exactly who I was. Something one does not know here on earth. The reason, we are this person for this person and that person for another. We never truly know who we are because of this. For those who focus on just having someone, you have already lost. No one during this time should only be focusing on finding someone because they are lonely. One needs to be focusing on preparing so that they will make it through what is banging loudly at the door. "Making religion cool," I'm just glad that you aren't afraid to even speak of HIM in the environment now in which we live. Again, a NDE has a way of seeing what others aren't able to see. I teach and what I see if absolutely disgusting. There are times I just cannot even believe what I am hearing and absolutely what I am seeing now. It's actually pretty evil. The lying, academic cheating, sex with this one and that one, on and on. One is here for a reason, to do God's work. If one focuses on oneself, I guarantee you, that that person will get stuck in one place and remain there until there is growth. Growth takes work. One must be able to accept responsibility for what one has allowed. Why in the world would God want you to advance? One will advance once that person has learned to do and be for others as well as being true to oneself. If one is just looking for a person to be with for a bit and then exchange that person for another and then another, something is terribly wrong. Something is missing in that particular person. If one for example is with another yet cheats on that person instead of breaking up and releasing that person from one's own immaturity, selfishness and inadequacies to behave as such, then that person deserves to experience what will come his/her way due to their own selfishness. Hopefully they grow from it. It's quite sad, actually. Men blame women and women blame men for how things have turned out for each. When you find a good man or you find a good woman, don't expect perfection in the little things. It doesn't exist. One will remain alone in this lifetime it that is what is expected. Loyalty, trust, honesty, and faith is what should be expected. As time goes on and you aren't feeling the thrill that you once felt with the one that you chose and you get bored, you better think twice before you go for that thrill for another in a fleeting moment or exit the relationship/marriage. If you believe in the light, then you need to believe in the darkness. One can never be in both at the same time. The weak will choose the darkness because it is easier. No effort. You might not have perfection, but you have what others can only pray for. There will be another right there willing to take what you threw away and then they will cherish that person. They are aware of how valuable a good one is. They will admire that person's value because they observe that this person's value has been evolving throughout their lives through believing in a higher power, doing the right thing, giving of themselves to others who are less fortunate, not giving of themselves to others who are capable of hurting them, valuing themselves because they live how God would want them to live. They have chosen to live in the light and how can another not value the intensity of work that this person dedicated to who they want to be? If someone like this is in your life or comes into your life, you are blessed. If you get bored with that someone in your life who is like this, you are missing the excitement and you want better, God will not help you to advance. Why? For the reason that you choose the darkness and God wants to keep those who choose the light to remain in HIS protection. To keep them as close as possible to HIM so that they don't somehow take a step off their path to enter into the darkness which will take them to you.
@dcat416
Жыл бұрын
WOW Absolutely true
@qamyahsharalha2630
Жыл бұрын
All religions are false anyways
@angelpagan6137
Ай бұрын
🇵🇷 Good Stuff Papa I got you
@pinoy122793
3 ай бұрын
My old friend who is a woman dated this guy in college that texts her all the time and spends time with her all the time including school. He would send flirty and sexual messages to her and she actually liked the attention. So it always depends on which type of woman she is. I highly doubt that this relationship would last because the guy is so clingy. But if she is into clingy guys, then be my guest.
@mrrichard8837
Жыл бұрын
LFA. You could take your Brand and blow up if you left that red dirt State .Oklahoma, You can take the girl out of the bar, but you caint ever take the bar out of the girl! MOVE brother
@dojocho1894
Жыл бұрын
wow totally true I'm handsome divorced now a Physician. In my entire life I only sleep with a girl if I wanted to be with her in a relationship. I'm a orthodox christian. My parents were the best, My mom ws a virgin until she met my dad and they were married 50 yrs. I just am not going to be involved with hooking up and all kinds of pop gun kind of crazy women. I rather be doing my hobbies.
@IceBaby775
11 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t call these guys loser’s because they’re far from that if they can get women to flock to them and get what they want then they’re winning even if they have little money, I’d call these guys players. The guys who are losing are the ones who don’t know how to get any women and they suck at life
@Pray777-v5e
Жыл бұрын
My guy what up
@CitizenLUL
6 ай бұрын
So a personal trainer is a loser, so is a bartender. Gotta write that into my notebook.
@LFA
6 ай бұрын
Not sure why you'd think that. But ok...
@jeffersonaraujoelcristiano
11 ай бұрын
11:48 I agree.
@b.d.128
9 ай бұрын
I'm a loser but I'm tough. Not just fit. Tough. Sleep in your vehicle in a truck stop.. Washed my hair in the sink. Picked up a cute chick within a couple days. She was fully aware I'm a loser. But yeah he's got it right.
@abudakuba4527
4 ай бұрын
literally me
@DLaVey
Жыл бұрын
losers are not boring compare with vast majority of "good men"
@marcsmarketforecasts1186
Жыл бұрын
A good video. Can be summed up quite quickly with one caveat. The bible thumpers have a much higher divorce rate than most other denominations. This is fact. What your saying is the same advice I gave my sons early on. It is called "remaining aloof". You are right, you don't have to be a loser but you never want to appear desperate (even if you are lol). I think your life should be so good that you don't care who comes into it. You are doing them a favor. The other issue you hit on here is expectations. Both men and women in this society are often out to lunch. They either think that they deserve better or their list is so high that unless they are trophies hanging off their arm they are not interested. Just stupid. Case and point is you throw away a nice average woman who will make you ten times happier than a high maintenance one because you have to look good in front of others. Then they wonder why it doesn't work out lol. Anyway good video.
@johnburns272
6 ай бұрын
The high-roller with everything gets the girl, no problem The deadbeat bum with nothing gets the girl, no problem. The rest of us in the middle, who are decent, honest, hard-working, and make it all right.... always struggle. We're not as exciting as the other two.
@Presidentharanguatang
Жыл бұрын
You're not necessarily a loser if you don't want to commit to any one woman. Some of us have just been hurt bad by somebody and don't want to commit anymore. That's the reason why.
@sidgrover8628
Жыл бұрын
If ya get right with your spiritual walk…mines Christian and my Savior is Jesus…I don’t consider myself a loser at all…but I don’t play games with them at all…I don’t need a woman to make or break my life…if the right kind of godly woman walks into my life I will be spiritual prepared for her as well as the other aspects of life
@MrMegadipper
Жыл бұрын
The manosphere needs Eastern Orthodoxy.
@medricadu8863
Жыл бұрын
Good video but I don't think personal trainer's are losers
@kenandrieling5885
Жыл бұрын
Relationship pressure will dry a girl's p**** up like the desert. She won't fill relationship pressures with a loser
@90slifter90
Жыл бұрын
You’re like a younger version of big John from the Mgtow videos.
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