"Stop wanting, you already have what you need. Just do your work." This is the advice I needed to hear. Thanks Jana!
@rotorblade9508
5 күн бұрын
ok, what you say seems logical but I’ve recently came across something that very similar to what you’re saying but much more powerful I believe. I don’t want to be a victim, everything will be ok, people don’t care…that didn’t work for me. what does work is thinking that I don’t have to give a sh…about what people think about me. I make mistakes, I am awkward, I look creepy then I tell myself I don’t care what you think about me. I’m an idiot, ok, I’m not affected. I don’t have to be perfect, I don’t need a mask to make me look cool. I’m 45 and this still works but if you are younger you can rewire yourself easier. another example: you want a nice guy, charming whatever… you can try things that make you attractive, go to gym but then if someone doesn’t like you it’s ok. you don’t have to please everybody. there will always be people that will like you. but then don’t go to the other extreme of being totally careless 😊 anyway you look like you have solved your problems, keep it up, you know better what’s in your mind. also, I’ve seen many ugly girs honestly, fat :) but they were so confident that it’s hard to believe. keep studying things that can improve your personality also :) suddenly I’m not angry anymore for example people used to upset me in traffic driving because I was trying to be a perfect gentleman and wanted others to so the same. I have a frient that went to jail because of this. he rammed someone one intentionally. this is what can happen to people that are frustrated. I’m relaxed now.
@Brownmahfun
5 күн бұрын
I appreciate what you are saying, and it is true to a point. You have to know that it is not that simple and when there is a trauma or bad life experience it can put like a scar on your brain and no doctor can scrape it away, but you can live as best you can with Gods assistance of course and professional help.
@rotorblade9508
5 күн бұрын
when there is physical damage or something extreme it’s going to be hard but the majority of these people are perfectly normal and can do something obviously. i’m fairly shy too btw😊
@Evdota247
4 күн бұрын
I was in peace and now I am a victim of your beauty
@willofman
5 күн бұрын
I'm not sure if you are talking to us or to yourself. I guess talking to the camera is a kind of therapy. To be honest I clicked on the video because you looked beautiful. But after listening, you seem like a nice person as well, despite everything that happened to you. Live well! BTW I think you should raise the camera higher, at least to eye level.
@your_backwards_world
5 күн бұрын
Perception is not reality. Reality is reality.
@Brownmahfun
5 күн бұрын
But what's real?
@OrdinaryPersonah
5 күн бұрын
@@Brownmahfunnothing you know is real. Reality is unknown
@Brownmahfun
5 күн бұрын
@@OrdinaryPersonah So what is Real?
@OrdinaryPersonah
5 күн бұрын
@@Brownmahfun why do you want to know? What you'll know will be through your experience which is subjective. Reality can't be known if there is one. I'd even say there is no need to ask this question for a living thing.
@Brownmahfun
5 күн бұрын
@@OrdinaryPersonah Yes I know real is subjective. Asking this question is always a need because some people do not think it is subjective. Some people think it is ONLY what our senses pick up and other reasons.
@Strawberrytabbyforpresident
4 күн бұрын
This life just sucks ...i not want nothing anymore :)
@achillesglacia7700
4 күн бұрын
lol, psychologist, lack insight in their own endeavor to "talk away your pproblems" 🤣it has never worked ever.
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