You cannot possibly know if someone finds you attractive or not until you speak to them. Remember that www.socializer.school
@SunshineSuperstar
2 ай бұрын
You say men persue women and women don't persue men... This is untrue. Women persue men far more than men persue women. The difference is men persue women in an overt fashion whereas women do it subtly. Traditionally women, specifically the female elders, were the ones whose roles were to pair different youths together! Boomer women, if you ever talk to them, will be kind of focused on relational ideas. It's only the young modern women that don't give an "F". Females already paired up were ALWAYS the ones that would introduce their single friends to each other, arrange singles events, casually mention her friends singleness to eligible bachelors that they were introduced to etcetera. The role of pairing everyone up was always a female role, traditionally speaking! Women think about people and men think about things!
@caballerotemplario6734
2 ай бұрын
@@SunshineSuperstar Totally agree. If a women finds you attractive she will slide in your DM or she will send a friend. She will find the way. We all know guys in this situation. If you never got a girls sliding into your DM, if you never got a girl sending a friend to introduce her, if you never got a girl coming to you to ask about some BS stuff. Then you never attracted anyone.
@MikeJensen-w2v
2 ай бұрын
you can tell off body language alone if a vvoman is not interested in you will there will be obvious signs lol her not looking at you at all looking at her phone theres just so much more i could say but who cares
@sebastianleyva8925
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Exactly Denmo
@djocharablaikan8601
2 ай бұрын
Its true, before i started approaching women i thought i was attractive because i was getting ton of attention from women, when i actually started asking them out i found out it was all just silly games.
@mrslightflex691
2 ай бұрын
you mightve saved my bloodline with this one brotha
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
gotchu bro
@avih
2 ай бұрын
Sheesh that's a real one
@omri10011
2 ай бұрын
lmfaoooo
@Manni0105
2 ай бұрын
We keeping the bloodline alive with this one🗣️💯💯
@peteypete9357
2 ай бұрын
Not even man, just go passport bro and date dozens of actually TRADITIONAL women instead of the 304s in the west who will just act more entitled the more charismatic/successful you are (because it'll feed into their ego even more)
@justincase1481
2 ай бұрын
"The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence" 😄
@whiteajahni
2 ай бұрын
Type shit.😅
@Straga_Severa
2 ай бұрын
Yes, but it correlates.
@DisRespectoids
2 ай бұрын
Known UNknowns!
@Lobo-g4k
2 ай бұрын
The absence of absence doesn't mean it's absence from the absence it is the absent absence that absence is absence from
@dawidwojacki5049
2 ай бұрын
Just like with God
@A-man-in-the-box
2 ай бұрын
This guy is single-handedly fighting the male loneliness epidemic
2 ай бұрын
Because too many males are too dumb to fight for themselves. I mean, it is because of society and capitalism that has a monetary investment in men being passive and women being... Like that. To be clear, im not saying socialism would solve these problems, but capitalism definitively makes it worse.
@lavatr8322
Ай бұрын
Although I am single but not lonely
@knightmer3645
Ай бұрын
Damn straight brother ! I've arrived here after getting bored of Redpill content and this is just like redpill but with ACTUAL processes to go through that you don't have to be "lean,rich or 6 feet" to pull off
@A-man-in-the-box
Ай бұрын
@@knightmer3645 yes fr
@jbbeats2042
Ай бұрын
He really is dude is hard
@MawbNaw
2 ай бұрын
Denmo the type of guy to approach my great grandmother
@karna5998
2 ай бұрын
Is she still alive?
@umutmithat7274
2 ай бұрын
😂😂
@MrJuan_Vzla
2 ай бұрын
Kind of unrelated, but I find funny how men open a vid about approaching women only to comment: "I wOn't aPproAch wOmEn iT's a wAsTe of Tiiiime/moNeyy".
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
kills me every time hahaha
@theosebes9975
2 ай бұрын
So good. I approached my first woman and some groups with my friend the other day, I sweated like a racehorse, heart pounded, was awkward and got a few compliments from girls and some negative ones from others. But, I planned it, told my bro he had to go with me, and we did it. I approached my first woman.
@yannikmeister
2 ай бұрын
Go on brother. You are on the right path
@joshuadunham3018
Ай бұрын
Awesome bro. You've started building that muscle. It won't always be easy, but it won't get harder, either.
@MMA-CLIPS2
2 ай бұрын
One thing I learned this year is that if average girls notice and stare at you, that's a sign that girls in general think you're attractive. Hot girls don't need to stare, or even look. But you will catch them sometimes, at least I do. Maybe only 1 in 20, but still. That's why you need to take a leap of faith and appraoch a girl when she initiates eye contact.
@balancer182
2 ай бұрын
Same, I would catch a few try to sneak a look at me, when I catch them, they would look away immediately, some even smile then look downwards. And the more I interact with girls or at least be in their presence, the more I'm aware of how girls behave when they are interested in me. The more I also realize the kind of girl I want. Some girls have a nice personality, some have a nice voice, some are very agreeable, etc. And 1 in 20 sounds like the success rate of pick up artists too. It's a numbers game, go through as many women as possible until you find that 1 in 20.
@Zbomb96
2 ай бұрын
This is how you know your finished when no girls ever notice you even the “ugly” ones
@nekow1785
2 ай бұрын
I don’t think I’v ever seen any girl notice me tbh
@mikeg1433
2 ай бұрын
@@nekow1785Then you’re just not paying attention my guy. Not gay so don’t worry but you look good if that’s you in the pfp and I wouldn’t say that if I didn’t mean it. Be confident first and then all you have to do is just be yourself.
@KaushikBala333
2 ай бұрын
@@balancer182the agreeable girls are a dream, so feminine and intelligent at the same time, they can make you chase them in your mind.
@PaulDuVall
2 ай бұрын
A few months ago, I was approached by a woman at a restaurant. It was simultaneously a strange and good feeling. She came over to my table, sat down, and we talked for close to half an hour. She was gorgeous too. I was so shocked it even happened that I told all my friends afterwards. Pretty sure other guys in the restaurant were shocked too lol 😂
@FirstnameLastname-pe5ib
2 ай бұрын
Had this happen over the winter. Honestly euphoria better than any drug.
@thepotatoes7124
2 ай бұрын
Did you get her number ?
@adikonet
2 ай бұрын
Had a girl invite me to dance with her at the party. Then she seemed very interested in me. We went to two meetings and then she went radio silent. I still don't know why the hell she did that but who cares
@Rico401Prov
2 ай бұрын
Big 🧢
@PaulDuVall
2 ай бұрын
@@FirstnameLastname-pe5ib it's a wild feeling, right? It goes without saying, but my confidence got a major boost after that lol
@michaeldundas6620
2 ай бұрын
I just need to say, your value as a man doesn't depend on how many women you sleep with. As a man, I don’t need to sleep with women left and right to feel complete. I am content with the amount of women I've been with, but even moreso with my other life achievements, like buying several homes and getting a great career. There's so much more to life than sleeping around people!
@Drikkerbadevand
2 ай бұрын
Guys only say this when they've had enough sexual success to where it no longer matters to them. It's like sitting in an oasis telling someone in the desert that having water to drink is nice and all but it wont fulfill you. Easy to say when your thirst has been quenched of nice cold water. I dont mean to be overly negative, I feel fine with my sexual experience too, but that's bexause I actuaææy have some lol
@sebastianleyva8925
2 ай бұрын
Well in the last three months I’ve only talked to one girl outside my comfort zone. And it was at the gym. Sadly, it didn’t go as I wanted to. She wasn’t interested.
@adikonet
2 ай бұрын
But you tried! That's the important part. I could but I didn't
@eshedguitar
2 ай бұрын
started doing that everyday (literally) and you will have too many dates to care about the rejections
@LuisGutierrezG123
2 ай бұрын
Don't let that make you feel bad, bro. Keep trying you got this!
@joshuadunham3018
Ай бұрын
Proud of you for doing that man. Start asking more girls out, and I bet within the first 100 you'll most likely find someone who's into you too (that's not that many girls! Ask 1 out every day and that's a girlfriend in a few months, 5 every day like Denmo recommends and you've got it down to less than a month!)
@BS_Profile
2 ай бұрын
The problem is that if it's unwanted, it's not uncommon for the woman to try to label the guy "creepy, weird, inappropriate, etc. etc.". Some women will say that stuff even if a guy just looks at them. Which never made any sense to me whatsoever because everyone knows that guys are generally expected to initiate and do the approaching. So why would they be shamed and lambasted for playing their role in the dating process? Plus when you see the data from dating apps and how women reject about 95% of guys after a quick glance, it seems like they're barely interested in talking to anyone. So the odds of a negative reaction in person seem extremely high. And as bad as the apps are, they're still the only place women will at least show interest in me and maybe even talk to me. It's the only way I've been able to get dates because in real life I'm practically invisible. They never talk to me or anything unless they have to for their job. I imagine this is the case for the vast majority of guys and that's why there's so many more guys on dating apps than women. It would also explain the loneliness epidemic that a lot of guys are facing in modern times. And the "man vs bear" thing. The social climate just seems way too hostile against men for cold approach to be a thing. Thats probably why i see attractive women regularly yet i never see guys going up to them and trying to talk to them. Even if they're by themselves.
@felinejarofke3557
2 ай бұрын
I think the problem is that men are too stressed out, because they have to do the approaching and feel a lot of the pressure from society, to notice how the approach makes the woman feel. And because they don’t notice, that it made the woman - for example- uncomfortable, their reaction surprises them and they don’t understand where they are coming from. I can see how stressed you feel and it’s hard to say “just stop stressing about it” because it’s not easy. Maybe when you feel, that you are stressed about it, remind you that everything is ok. Everybody wants to be liked
@Asaph437
2 ай бұрын
This as excuse. I’m not even the biggest Denmo fan but he’s right. If you learn to interact with women, you’re not going to be labeled as creepy. Touch grass. Learn to talk to people as people. The apps will destroy your mental health. Putting yourself out there in real life is terrifying at first but you get better at it and honestly it’s a way less devastating because it’s usually a short exchange. Apps feel like constant rejection, real life you take the L and move on.
@BS_Profile
2 ай бұрын
@@felinejarofke3557 yes that's a huge issue. We have to approach but a lot of us do understand that we're completely catching the woman off guard in many cases and they don't know if we're crazy so they sort of have to view an approach as an inherent threat. I get that. But at the same time, if we don't approach, nothing happens. I understand we have to be aware of what she's feeling but I think too many people make the guy responsible for however the woman feels. She could be a total bitch and everyone will blame the guy and say that "he has no game" and "he has to work on his social skills". Sometimes that may be true but it's just weird how nobody ever says that about women. Women never have to work on social anxiety or social skills because the guy will always be blamed for how an interaction goes down. That's kinda fucked up and puts even more unnecessary pressure on the guy as if he doesn't have to deal with enough already.
@jonathanwilliams365
2 ай бұрын
Denmo vids always drop when I need a reminder or Im going through challenging times
@lifeisshort.9869
Ай бұрын
Girls DON'T want to be approached by normies, your advice is decent but only for a CHAD that don't know he is a chad yet.
@demigod8522
2 ай бұрын
I had a hot girl message me on Tinder once and she kept responding, but the problem was that her responses was always low effort. In restrospect I think she just used me as an orbiter, but it just sucks, because I was really trying to start a conversation but eventually I just realized she didn't want to put in the effort so I just moved on and blocked her and kinda ragequit dating apps, because it was just making me depressed in the long run.
@nvlel
2 ай бұрын
Cus texting should be minimal u should be trying to do less conversating online save that for the in person
@danb5944
2 ай бұрын
This is 100% of all girls on tinder..delete it ..only conversations face too face work or like the other person commented exchange a few very short messages and line up a date immediately later the same day if she says no she's not interested
@Pluttarch
2 ай бұрын
Don't use Tinder. It's just not natural
@fuckno.
2 ай бұрын
@@nvlelfacts he should’ve asked for her # and then cooked from there
@joshuadunham3018
Ай бұрын
I got rid of the dating apps, and now I'm focusing on in person. Sure it's scarier, but it's also much easier to tell whether someone is genuinely interested or not, and so you can drop them sooner if you feel they are just using you for attention.
@WheelsOfFreedom167
2 ай бұрын
May I add that rather than approaching random women, (if you’re totally opposed to it anyway) look for at least 3 activities you already like doing and join a club or get a membership of some sort. Like cars? Join a car club and go to car meets regularly Like fighting? Join a martial arts school Like books? Join a book club If you don’t already have interests like these, then try new things out, simple
@Narko_Marko
2 ай бұрын
Cars and fighting aren't really activities where you'll find women.
@CJ-ld1kj
2 ай бұрын
@@Narko_Markofr 😂
@joshuadunham3018
Ай бұрын
@@Narko_Marko and if you don't, either you like them enough to keep doing them or you drop them and try something else. Either way you get experience socializing and have started a habit of reguarly being involved in a social activity, which gives you momentum for when you find the right one! :)
@thevillager8339
2 ай бұрын
Why do we put love on such a pedestal. It seems to have taken itself as life's ultimate goal. Despite it being just another feeling, an emotion solely there to make us procreate. Sometimes I hate it by cause of it being to distractive.
@HAWKsHere
2 ай бұрын
I hate to break it to you buddy , but it is one of life’s ultimate goals my guy , it’s more than an emotion to make us procreate , love is what makes us human beings come together in the end and bond , and as human beings we are designed to found love , not go against it . Yeah sure you can be rich jacked and all that , it requires hard work and you can achieve that over time , but love does not work like that , but you can work your way towards it so that you find love if you’re lucky enough . Loving a person is one of the most ultimate feelings a human being can experience and there are no two ways about it .
@thecurrentmoment
2 ай бұрын
Without procreation, there are no more people. So it's pretty important
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
@@HAWKsHere well said
@stuart3808
2 ай бұрын
Much as though I really hate this being true... without love there is no point in anything. You might as well be a machine. I wish it wasn't that way I really do.
@rebrandftw
2 ай бұрын
love & lust are two different things
@senshai1267
2 ай бұрын
Late 20s and never been touched by a woman and i can relate to this video. Kinda feel like shit surrounded by people . Much more comfort living in antartica
@dixonvfitness1921
2 ай бұрын
You have to "manufacture" your self into a good product. Then you must "advertise" yourself as the finished item. If you do not advertise you will not succeed.
@bachiihd
2 ай бұрын
best intro to a yt video ive seen. good stuff.
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
I hope that analogy makes sense!
@New_soul.9
2 ай бұрын
Plz don't take what Denmo is saying in this video seriously about the difference between men & women. Just because another person wants something more over the other, that doesn't mean we denied the other person, but unfortunately we do with all the social construct we created
@New_soul.9
2 ай бұрын
And if we go by this logic baby fever wouldn't be a thing...
@New_soul.9
2 ай бұрын
And to destroy this whole argument, a bunch of men that are high status or hell even very attractive 9.5 guys don't persuade women...and want women to persuade them showing that just because the sex drive is bigger in the male brain that doesn't mean is gonna default to persuade.😂
@New_soul.9
2 ай бұрын
I'll give a better example dummy. Just like I can reallyyyy want ice cream 🍦 but I go out ma way to order it so it can come to me... That should automatically show u really wanting doesn't = one particular action. At times, it can be the complete opposite
@s.e.n3264
2 ай бұрын
Propaganda
@KennethSee
Ай бұрын
I’m fine meeting them. They just don’t like me after getting to know me.
@AthiestDing
2 ай бұрын
Create an excuse to get her number on your phone. The other day i met a girl, i wasnt really attracted to her but we were having good convo so i invited her to a community group chat, she wanted to be included and gave me her number.
@Justinian43
2 ай бұрын
this is definitely true, I once thought I was unattractive, but I was successful in dating, my last girlfriend was honestly the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen inside and out. Yeah guys, don’t undersell yourselves and when you find that amazing woman you always seeked, concentrate on making that relationship thrive
@mikelitorous5570
2 ай бұрын
This is weird this video dropped. Was out Saturday and tried to speak to two stunning girls who seemed interested and it went bad. Felt down but kept going today, just came back from the gym and I had two staring at me when doing RDL’s lol. Also, had a girl make eye contact when driving home who’s stunning. Also, had my friend saying this stunning blonde girl was looking at me and I don’t remember whatsoever
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
atta boy nicely done
@mikelitorous5570
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial cheers mate you’ve massively helped my confidence as well
@CarltonVolkema
2 ай бұрын
Great channel, great input , plus the brutal honesty most men need. Thanks Denmo!!!
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
cheers mate
@Alex-mn5rs
2 ай бұрын
Forget three months, I haven't met a woman in three years. One hundred is unfathomable. The only women in my life are my mother, sister, and grandmother - and I keep them all at the end of a ten-foot pole.
@IIISWILIII
2 ай бұрын
That's just sad, man. Life is so much more interesting, smoother, and purposeful with a co-pilot. Someone who loves you and counterbalances your weaknesses and fears. You got to start by loving yourself first
@adamsultana8380
Ай бұрын
8 years for me, even longer with an actual relationship
@isacciconicclips3993
2 ай бұрын
Thanks denmo,for being alive
@Robofish12
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I just started like a month ago wanting to really get serious about getting better with women and I am still in the early stages (have made some approaches at bars, but not many) and I needed to hear this about just getting out and doing it. I've always known in my logical brain that's what I need to do, but I always find excuses or whatever. I've been pretty bummed out the last few days about my dating life as a whole and this really helped. I also live in a very densely women populated area so I don't even have to drive anywhere to go out and do it. Hardest part is just stepping out the door in all honesty. This is very motivating and definitely what I needed to hear.
@FelixLopez-u2v
2 ай бұрын
10:42 - 10:57 I actually really appreciate the directness. Most advice is put too delicately and doesn't tell me that I'm part of my problem.
@michaelanderson5650
2 ай бұрын
Nah facts
@morseus7217
2 ай бұрын
This is all great advice in all, but to have women as that big of a priority to the point where you are trying to interact with over 100 in just a few months and doing multiple dates a week seems more like desperation to me. When you make them that big of a priority you may lose part of yourself, and of the things you enjoy
@Slenova
2 ай бұрын
Some people have this thing called social anxiety. So, having a 3-minute conversation with more 100 people in under 3 months. can be hard or even impossible at times. You make a few good points tho
@Comand94
2 ай бұрын
All the more reason to start, and start small. You can work on your social anxiety, and it'll be a lot of work, but it's worth it.
@AlphaMacho
2 ай бұрын
@@Comand94atta boy
@Slenova
2 ай бұрын
@@Comand94I wish conquering social anxiety was that simple 😭
@Comand94
2 ай бұрын
@@Slenova it is and isn't. Exposure therapy is simple in concept, simple in execution, but not easy to go through with.
@xLovezzz
2 ай бұрын
@@Comand94take it 1 day at the time mate. Momentum is something huge once you get the hang of it
@makaveli1108
Ай бұрын
I'm 20. Women my age have access to older men who are financially better, better shape, better in almost everything. With all the choices she have, why tf would she even look at me? Like, seriously.
@aarongonzalez4458
4 күн бұрын
That is just an excuse bro maybe financially stable yes since they are older and have more experience. But you can be in the best shape of your life at 20. I’ve been working out since 13 I’m 20 now and jacked also 6’2 which plays a role but still if you’re in good shape you can pull an average girl. I’m here just trying to pull some 9s and 10s so I have a lot of competition
@synx7874
20 күн бұрын
How many girls i've talked to in the last... 6 months in my case ? 0 ! Then i make an appointment to get my beard and eyebrows done at some girl and before i knew it , she starts to get into talking with me out of the blue , coming from a silly joke from her part... And then you're mind blown ! Friendly talking or interest from her part i don't know , but the fact remains she wanted to talk with me. Yeah... If you don't put yourself out there , not even by your presence... No shit
@suriyabharathy7314
2 ай бұрын
I just approached one woman, but she was scared and left, and that time I was feeling nervous and dejected that any woman is not go on a like me ,after that I stopped approaching, but now by watching this I think I should put more myself in this kind of situations to avoid the fear and be more confident
@kirilld.1541
2 ай бұрын
Nice try man, much appreciated. But I own a mirror.
@glennriley6699
Ай бұрын
I go to the gym regularly and work out very intensely. Im at the stage where I am in the best physical shape of my life. I can run almost two hours on a treadmill and still have endurance to work on other machines and weights. The thing is, women tend to scatter when they see me and it is only guys that have spoken to me which I think is because of the competitive dynamics that exists between men. I was told it was the way women probably perceive me, too intense, too focused and the impression that I am completely unapproachable. Add to the fact that I dress up in black with a dark hoodie with my hood always up, it adds not just mystery but creepiness into it. Thing is, my workouts allow me to tap into my superpower and make me come across as formidable, invincible and not some weak vulnerable guy. But the flip side to this I was told is that you got to risk being vulnerable when talking to women. They are not going to approach someone who takes the athleticism too far because maybe they think you have high standards and are out of their league, someone they cannot measure upto and compete. Would be nice sometimes if I get a compliment from a woman instead of guys saying "Hey bro, you're badass on that treadmill. How do you do it?"
@EliteExpert
2 ай бұрын
ngl i needed to hear this one a couple of years ago i would always have a girl or two i was talking to during the summer time ive been on such a dry spell for the last 1.5 years tho that it’s depressing im working 7 days a week so i can move out from my parents and then finally prioritize going out and meeting women the road isn’t easy but nothing in this life worth having ever is, so time to bare down and keep going
@hongjiao7469
2 ай бұрын
Your videos are like going to the gym. If I stop watching it for a week I can see myself losing results already
@twelvveam
2 ай бұрын
Dude, I can’t stop thanking you enough! The line with “you are where you are cause you constantly wait for the man opportunity to come to you” completely hit me to the soul. Thanks, mate. I will definitely try to move further along from this point on!
@rebrandftw
2 ай бұрын
maybe I'm just sour but the only thing is the juice ain't worth the squeeze when it comes to women!
@777_lifeafter
2 ай бұрын
This man speaks facts take notes... He's right though take a risk cause other guys aren't lifes not easy So don't make it harder❤
@piotrpatoka6920
Ай бұрын
Once I overheard from one of my female co-workers that i look like crossbreed of shrek and sliverback gorilla. So no. Im not attractive
@Jekoo63
Ай бұрын
Don‘t let yourself talk down like that. We‘ve all overheard something like that, even the attractive guys. Women do that biologically, as its part of their GSR genes (gossyping, shaming, rallying) Go workout 4-6 times a week for 3-4 months. Bulk up or cut down (depends if u skinny or fat) and start talking to girls. I guess from ur name that ur from a country like Poland, Czechia etc. bro these countries are literally the easiest to get a girlfriend. There are not that much delusional feminists and also no arab refugees that skew the ratios up. U don‘t know how hard people in UK, France or western germany have it. U have a big advantage with ur location, use it
@simond1055
2 күн бұрын
So in the beginning of this year I challenged myself to "put myself in front of women" on purpose. Did it for like 3 months and approached 300+ women in day and nighttime. Got rejected 300 times. Lesson learned, now I know women don't like me 😊
@AhmedMourad2022
2 күн бұрын
Lol come on man I was just going to start !
@deepaknambisan3251
2 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@EricBateman0
2 ай бұрын
I don't think this will work for me. I've reached a point so low that I am genuinely very uncomfortable being around women.
@oxymarvin
Ай бұрын
uncomfortable? why
@EricBateman0
Ай бұрын
@@oxymarvin I don't know. When they look at me, I am afraid.
@equinox2909
Ай бұрын
I'm introvert. I usually don't approach anyone without any puropose in mind so I wouldn't just talk to some random girls but I'm not afraid on talking to them no matter how beautiful they are. It's just like for me, it's a waste of energy to talk to someone about random things unless I really like that person.
@MrANTIeggman
2 ай бұрын
I used to get girls but no longer do. It's been 6 months since I I've slept with a woman and it started with me trying to keep myself for someone special. Now I just feel like a loser because instead of talking to red flags, I'm not able to talk to anyone. I'm going to go to the bar a bunch if times (by myself) and see if that does something. Doubt I'll find someone normal there but I haven't found anyone normal at church, golf or Badminton.... Soo....
@prettyboishah2898
2 ай бұрын
Are you saying you regret sleeping with that one woman?
@d-8664
Ай бұрын
Girls do need to approach guys since most men that approach them are not their type. Also, concerning sex women think about it the same as men.
@RDC2003
2 ай бұрын
is being a firefighter at 17 a good trait in women’s eyes?
@cryptofierce7431
2 ай бұрын
Firefighters get mad p
@DKomnicide
2 ай бұрын
Blackpill is real tho. The better looking you are the more likely will receive a positive experience approaching women. Doesn’t matter how confident you are or how great of a personality you have. Just a fact of reality
@MMA-CLIPS2
2 ай бұрын
Looks aren't everything, especially outside of the west.
@LuisGutierrezG123
2 ай бұрын
In Mexico we have a saying: "verbo mata carita" (literally verb defeats face). In other words, if you know how to conversate and flirt, it doesn't matter how you look.
@eta_carithebrightlord3396
Ай бұрын
@@LuisGutierrezG123 it isn't true in the west
@realthoo
Ай бұрын
its not being about a virgin(i still iam) its about not making a deep connection with a woman. im 30 im working out since 7 months and found a job . nothing really changed yet besides my financial situation,
@RussellKlimas
Ай бұрын
I've easily talked to 100 women over 3 months but I like to get to know a person first before I even want to consider dating them. You could argue that this is the whole point of dating but having a foundation of friendship first before a relationship is proven to be more successful. I suppose you could let them know your intentions as well and that could potential solve the problem or get rejection, which either is fine!
@ademm8218
2 ай бұрын
Woman pursue men but you have to be above 6/10 in looks to get this kind of service.
@iancavon7125
12 күн бұрын
Above 6/10? More like above 8/10! A man, to be actively pursued by women, has to have those "one in a million" looks.
@njhotroder
2 ай бұрын
Real world.... Noone interacts. Try getting onto a nyc subway. You can hear a pin drop. Your a stranger among strangers. Location and culture is soooo key. Post me too movement you have to be uktra careful in how you interact with women. It's not 1965 its 2024...... simple innate things are not simple and you can destroy your career, and your life if u are not careful. Guys know this....and tread carefully. What your describing works in a world that was pre 1999. Women were actually approa habke without potential ramifications. Society is messed up today..... now if you move outside the united states where this toxicity doesn't exist.... things are better and this stuff may actually work. Location, culture and timming makes a huge huge difference.
@mrslightflex691
2 ай бұрын
this sounds like cope brother social media overblows things when you go out into the real world it dispels everything u thought was true about the world from social media
@DIMEENTERTAINMENT
2 ай бұрын
Wtf You ain’t gonna lose your job and be reported for assault for starting a conversation and complimenting someone on their fashion sense etc. They actually love the attention. Get outside and get off the screen bro
@njhotroder
2 ай бұрын
@DIMEENTERTAINMENT you obvious make less than 450k/ yr.... once you have a career and not a job, they all act nice to you and are super manipulative. You have real hate ,jealousy and the higher up you go the more destruction and traps come your way....trust me started from.nothing and I have been on both ends. In 2024 Work place.... if you have a career.... is completely out.... post me too movement..... don't shit where you eat..... chase a career and women will chase you. The issue is how to protect yourself in the current state of affairs with this toxicity.... we are not talking chicken heads in the club here.... get a career and you will see...... the gold diggers come threw the floor boards and when they don't get their way.... the hate and evilness to destroy you is unreal. Real female nature is very dark. If you want women for long term the recipe for sucess is above.... you need to leave the usa... once you do it you will see the stark.difference..... don't listen to me, but do it for yourself. Travel and compare. The quality of women is very different and they look at you as a human not as soneone they can manipulate and gain off of.
@njhotroder
2 ай бұрын
@mrslightflex691 once you have a career and not a job... things change. We r talking career making over 450k. The gold diggers come threw the floor board and it's unreal the toxicity. Starred from.nothing been on.both ends.... trust me it's not cope.... its 2024 not 1965. Trend carefully once you have a career. The toxicity is very real and you can be destroyed on that level. The envy, jealousy, hate , and traps with toxicity is unreal. The reciepe for long term sucess for real women with values is above. Travel outside usa and see and compare for yourself.... don't listen to me but experience it for yourself. The comparison is night and day.
@nigen
Ай бұрын
So... The whole go to bars and clubs to meet girls stuff, what if you don't drink and your autism does not handle the loud, smelly, crowded environment all that well? I mean location wise there has to be something that isn't sensory agony right?
@126theman
2 ай бұрын
0:52 oh yeah, if only there we some website where you could post yourself as available/interested and reach out to as many people as possible to see what they think of you? Oh wait…
@mythicalcontroller2915
2 ай бұрын
thx for the video man, never thought of it this way bro 🙏
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
glad it helped G
@bobinface
2 ай бұрын
I found this quite encouraging
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
glad to hear
@afxday6830
2 ай бұрын
Hi Denmo, I don't usually comment on KZitem videos, but I want to thank you for what you are doing. It's been a long time since I was able to even go on a date with one girl, but thanks to your videos I was able to go out with three girls in the space of two months. Yesterday I went out with a classmate of mine and, after taking her out to dinner and taking a walk, we stopped on a platform in a square and kissed and finally I managed to take her to my apartment. We didn't have sex because she didn't feel ready, but I already consider it a half victory in all this. Unfortunately, she is Russian and will be going home for two months and I admit I'm a little nervous about a possible long distance relationship, also because I don't know if it will work, but at least I'm happy that I'm getting back into the game with girls. A big hug from one of your subscribers from Italy💪 Sorry for the papyrus😅, but I wanted to tell what happened to me. P.s: I know a lot of guys on this channel have trouble relating to girls. I suffer from Asperger's and I'm an average dude, if I can pick up, you have no excuses ahahaha😁 Obviously we're joking (up to a certain point😝)
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
legendary status glad to hear that man
@marcusappelberg369
Ай бұрын
That is great! Did it happen in Italy? :) I have Aspergers too so I know how that feels.
@pritigupta304
2 ай бұрын
10:22 the answers zero 💀💀
@anakinskywalker8895
Ай бұрын
Lol I had like 4 for the first question, then 1 for 3 minute and instantly 0 when it wasn’t work or class lmao
@Lots-Of-People-are-Saying
Ай бұрын
Nah, I'm a fat ugly loser. Does not apply to everyone bruh.
@murayamasan...3472
Ай бұрын
Work out get in shape...dress good have good hygine and ur all good bro u just have to put in effort...
@JarinCOD
2 күн бұрын
stop eating fat
@kyleh4339
2 ай бұрын
I know for certain that I'm not attractive to women. Tried dating apps for a few weeks, didnt get a single like (from a non-bot) for 4 weeks. So I deleted the apps lol. Social media and internet completely distorts the reality of women.
@jonathancarey3029
2 ай бұрын
When you've been married 7 years and she decides to leave you, you realize you haven't talked to an attractive woman who doesnt despise you for a long time. I used to be very attractive to women. Now my confidence has never been lower.
@peteypete9357
2 ай бұрын
I mean yeah a guy can go and put in all that effort to learn to talk to dozens a women, but when modern women think they don't need to bring anything to the table except themselves and will act entitled, let me know why that's even worth it.
@chaoticdragoncherry6939
2 ай бұрын
i got a question where the fuck are women at. i do not know where to find em in my city. theres tons outside of my city just not here. also how does one set up a holding company
@maurvick6777
2 ай бұрын
Shit coffee bars
@psAIchadelic
Ай бұрын
Disagree about deleting dating apps. It can be a nice supplement to IRL, but nothing more than a supplement
@oliverqueen5883
2 ай бұрын
Just cuz they probably think you’re an uggo, or even you think you’re an uggo, doesn’t mean you are to the specific one in front of, people can have random arse types and you could get lucky. However, you certainly won’t succeed if you don’t try 😂😂
@MrHqh
2 күн бұрын
Hi, I subscribed to your channel for a while. Hope you see my comment. I have a problem, I'm from Iran and live in Italy, so when I talk to a girl and I tell them, I'm from Iran, it makes them turn off and they don't want to become my girlfriend. I got more than 20 numbers, at least half of them didn't answer me, and half were wrong numbers. 😞
@knightsof3hree643
2 ай бұрын
This is ironically a great message for everything that could be applied, besides trying to cold approach woman. You can look at other videos that try the same approach without any form of actors and it's a eye opening watch. If you're below average, Denmo is arguably average-above average, but once you hit below average I've noticed in videos that men that try the same approach have a astronomically low rate of success regardless of your charisma. I saw one video where a guy tries the same thing with a 1,000 woman got rejected by all of them.
@TheVladacar
Ай бұрын
It's a sad reality, denmo can't tell you that cause it's not good for his business model, guys won't pay for coaching if they know their situation is hopeless and trying to talk with women is futile
@MikeJensen-w2v
2 ай бұрын
why lie with a straight face.. i gotta admit it takes some skill and discipline
@AlexanderMüller-i9e
2 ай бұрын
Hello Denmo, When i was 16 i moved from my small village to a big metropole in germany. I focused mainly on doing business and getting to know new people in school but kinda on a superficial level so nobody was a really somebody i could call a friend. Now i am 18 i got way better at socializing and even made some good friends. My biggest challange so far is actually approaching girls in public not the ones in my direct sourroundings. I rarely go to the city and when i go i only go with friends, but i want to try changing but i think it looks weird if i go out alone and if i dont have the courage to approach a girl i find attractive i fck myself over. so my question is what should i do if wanna meet more girls ?
@russelllroni
2 ай бұрын
The funny thing is, I've realized this in my past when I've gotten with women that are absolute bombshells, yet the self doubt comes back after not having interacted with beautiful women regularly recently like I did in my past. Thanks for the reminder brother.
@bohemianist2082
2 ай бұрын
9:56 0,0,0 i need to go out, i was like you and what happened is the journey of universal exploration began and i spent 7 years by myself retreat from society, and now begin to come back slowly and it is so difficult to interaction especially intimate and genuine. like spending so much time with science made so hard to give my attention taking serious the interaction. but i want to interact as well. so i went out today and smiled someone. and she smiled back. this is where i started, for the records.
@dg271
2 ай бұрын
I'm not going to spend hours walking around like a pigeon in heat for girls, especially when the opportunity cost is hundreds of dollars an hour for me.
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
but you have time to go on youtube, watch videos and leave comments? Sure bro
@dg271
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial I listen while working
@Nottherightgoat
2 ай бұрын
@@dg271that’s a extreme example. Go to a bar.
@bekabeka71
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 loser
@Overall-Epic
2 ай бұрын
Money is less important than having a family at the end of the day
@BarthiArgento
Ай бұрын
The thing with the „brain part for sex 2.5 times bigger“ is most probably just a correlation, NOT a cause. The cause for men being the pursuers is the difference in risk of mating. Think about stone age. For men, it‘s almost zero risk in mating (fuck and move on) while women have a high risk (pregnancy makes them vulnerable, they could die if they mate with the wrong guy which leaves them alone after mating).
@hihtitmamnan
Ай бұрын
This video was much more helpful than I expected. It's pretty good sign when a youtuber says "quit youtube and go outside".
@Denmosocial
Ай бұрын
glad it helped man
@salambard
2 ай бұрын
The whole thing feels like a chore.... 100 girls per month? man fuck that....
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
starting a business and getting in good physical shape are chores too. I assume you do neither
@salambard
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Im actually working on myself, losing weight, still need to do it, but I mean in my life at the moment I don't think there's a place for any girl. Maybe later, if I have the confidence after reaching my weight goal.
@salambard
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Also, I had a long relationship in the past, we even have a daughter together. But we split up, unfortunately... So its hard to get back in the game, im single in 2 years now, I gained a lot of weight because I was a sack of sh!t and felt sorry for myself because we broke up.. it was not a teenage drama, we were a family. It's hard, but I want to change. I'm sorry for my comment though, I was stressed yesterday. Yeah it feels like a chore maybe, but I think everyone needs to do it in their own pace. Even if you approach one girl per month, you can build on that foundation, and improve upon it.
@KairoGomes-r8m
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocialjust be perfect bro
@deepaknambisan3251
2 күн бұрын
@@salambardwish you all the best, brother
@car9325
2 ай бұрын
I have been struggling with loneliness for about three months now after my first girlfriend of three years cheated on me. I'm 21 now and live with my parents again as i had moved in with her. I've been trying to work on improving my life more, and pushing myself to get back out there, but I don't know if I should be trying to get a girl again until I get my own place or not. It's really sucked being single again, y'all got any tips for a young man? Should I just keep saving myself or put myself back out there? I'm just so lost on what I should do at this point as I'm starting to feel really depressed.
@N0VEMBYR
2 ай бұрын
Bro, I thought I was alone honestly. Well neither of us are. I’ve felt stuck for a long time now, drank too heavily which just makes it worse.. anyway I’m in a very similar spot to yours. Just been trying to remain optimistic and whitepilled
@cold-world
6 күн бұрын
Easiest time to get laid is in high school u gotta be under a rock not to get pressed to sleep with someone and this dude is right get your heart broken early !!!!!!
@DrSimonFokt
2 ай бұрын
Too many guys give up without trying very hard. The convenience culture makes us think we should get everything with no effort. Well, everything worth anything requires effort. Go out and try.
@KairoGomes-r8m
2 ай бұрын
Ive tried 14 years
@wrongix6544
Ай бұрын
I mean its obviously true that we have to go out and meet ppl. But where i am from you cant just start talking to random people.... And i fucking hate bars
@DanielDaBest45
2 ай бұрын
I was thinking about this title/theme and boom jack posted it lol (no joke) W DENMO
@heckincat1406
2 ай бұрын
This is objectively false. Short guys like myself are invisible to almost everyone, not to mention I'm skinny, despite being in the gym for a year +. It's one thing to be short, but short AND skinny? Yeah, I'm cooked.
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
become successful like an actor, musician, comedian, business owner. Majority of them are short and skinny and successful
@heckincat1406
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Don't have neither the brains nor motivation.
@heckincat1406
2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial I don't have the brains nor the motivation for it
@ShadowyLane
Ай бұрын
I am 30 yo business owner, I'm in IT. I never had any problems with finding girls, I am 6foot, and skinny. You just need to talk normally with them, like with guys, but never be in a friend zone. Trust me on this one, I've concluded it's better not to be in a relationship. Trust me, it's freedom.
@heckincat1406
Ай бұрын
@@ShadowyLane I'm sorry but you literally counteracted my argument by not having experienced anything I described. You're tall and successfull, that's instantly someone to date for 90% of women out there. I don't see how it would be the same for me.
@yuxiang3147
2 ай бұрын
How low does a man have to think of himself, or how bored does he have to be, to spend one day per week solely on approaching random women strangers only to be rejected 95% of the time ...?
@muhanadyousef7496
2 ай бұрын
i have approached alot of girls in my collage and got alot of brilliant results thanks to you bro🌹
@Denmosocial
2 ай бұрын
good man proud of u
@Kreuzrippengewoelbe
29 күн бұрын
10:32 Fuck. That's the most desperate thing I've heard. lmao. Get lost.
@prostohodim
9 күн бұрын
Honestly, its simple to understand that women dont like you when youre under 5'8
@nobodysperfect06
2 ай бұрын
Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, me and her are not together anymore though. I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me: "Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted? Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now" Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful. And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start. Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen. Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time. Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship. I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man. I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said: "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment. Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day. Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man. It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?". No worries it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage
@jesuitscholar2022
2 ай бұрын
relax brother. I too have dealt with similar issues growing up. but rage won’t get you anywhere unless you’re using that for fuel to better yourself.. Everybody blossoms at a different point in life. I’d really say I’ve really begun b adult dating like past year, and I’m 25 next month. Never went to a homecoming, or even my schools prom. Im fairly attractive and do well on apps, but in god awful at approaching. I did it once after my first GF broke up with me. I was rejected and don’t believe I have ever approached a woman in the same manner. A girl from another school district asked me to prom once and a very awkward situation on the party bus where everyone was getting sat in by their date and I was just standing there uncomfortable. I went home while everybody stayed at somebodies house. I’ve had close ones tell me their believed I was gay until they saw me with first girlfriend when I was 18. I was 2 months shy of 19 before losing my virginity . Now that I think about it, the only women that I’ve ever met in real life and not from a dating app that I’ve had sex with was a coworker. Get yourself out there man, maybe a women will Ike you enough. I’m god awful shy and heavily rely on external factors. Play to your strengths and social circles.
@MKGamingInvesting
2 ай бұрын
14:40 Nope. I will never. I am not the person for that
@andramelk115
Ай бұрын
Zero.
@Minecraftangle
Ай бұрын
Come to salt lake city and try to have a with "100" girls, you will eat those words. Lol
@LegendsNeverDie08
5 күн бұрын
Love when an attractive guy tells uggo guys that getting women is easy
@guitarherofan-hy9jr
Ай бұрын
cant u see y we need r hand held through this its bc we dont understand women and also women scare us a LOT
@Tentacult_Sapling
Ай бұрын
Its simple when you look like you dude. It aint as simple when you look like me
@user-co2zz7yu8q
Ай бұрын
7 - 4 - 7, holy shit I am lonely as of late 😂, well I was focused on work.
@franacha
2 ай бұрын
I am broke as fuck. And it's my fault for never being able to stop procrastinating and never having done something with my life. I have no goals, no objective for my life, and no hobbies or interests, no personality at all. And I know this is more important than the way I look. So I *do know* I'm not attractive, not at all. Not in the slightest. *But my fear is that solving this would take so much time I will be too old to start to learn socializing after I've dealt with this.* A career, a good paying job, or even a business. If any of those is even possible; then how much time does it take? Too much, I'm already too old now; imagine after more and more Years. *YEARS!* BUT, It's simply impossible to socialize before dealing with this. It already is impossible now imagine after so many more years. SIGH I can't see any hope. I have to solve the past but I can't change the fffcking past. I can't see a way out of this problem. How do I solve this?
@iXpertMan
2 ай бұрын
sadly, but +++
@adamsultana8380
Ай бұрын
Kinda in the same boat, but not as negatively.
@kidlo2050
2 ай бұрын
Last time I talked to a girl for more than 3mins is the lady in Walmart for my safety glass😂
@YHProduction1
17 күн бұрын
I‘m way to scared to approach girls on the streets 😅
@cmc1517
2 ай бұрын
These videos are really good for learning how to approach women better, but sex for the sake of it is meaningless, it's not too late to repent and believe the Gospel, Christ loves you. I'm going to try and ask 100 women for their numbers and see if I can find a nice Christian woman, your tips have been great and I'll be putting them to use!
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