some of you complaining about the small bugs of her in the presentation ( smacking the mouth, little nervous appearance ). I felt like thsese small (mistakes) of her let her appear more human and so its easier to make her advices to your own goals ( not like a perfect and inimitable person ). The speech wasn't a competition. The purpose was to send a mesage and give you advice of scientific proven and subconscious methods to make your life much more easier and yourself more happy. It was amazing, my respect
@danielmurray04
9 жыл бұрын
Sami Peterson not given the subject matter, she is herself failing in the area she is supposed to be an expert on... it really detracts from her. To talk about the importance of body language etc which presenting yourself with poor body language is really poor.
@wesleywallace4426
6 жыл бұрын
Sami Karaköse It would have been cool if she had started the speech stuttering and sniffing but over the course of the video she became more dominant and convincing. But it's whatever, what she says isn't any less true because of the way she says it.
@lingyunshang687
6 жыл бұрын
Sami Karaköse ii
@michellelekas211
5 жыл бұрын
I am sorry: critics are right. Her body language is the worst ever. So I guess that it does NOT matter after all, unless you a celebrity. False body language look absurd
@mynameisAga
4 жыл бұрын
@D Murray and yet she is standing there giving one of most viewed speeches, not you:-) This is what happens when you have a courage to do:-) even though it was not flawless, it is one of the speeches that have most influenced my life. Thanks Amy Cuddy for being a badass!
@Unique_crafts7
2 ай бұрын
Anybody 2024😊
@geniusmind2233
22 күн бұрын
Me
@k.karmas1126
19 күн бұрын
My daughter died 44 days ago. A grief counselor recommended this video
@Manish032
17 күн бұрын
Yup
@Manish032
17 күн бұрын
@@k.karmas1126so sorry
@syedsadahussain1
14 күн бұрын
Yo
@francini5671
5 жыл бұрын
“Having your identity taken from you...there’s nothing that leaves you feeling more powerless than that.” Omg she gets it! I think I saw this video before, but it really resonates with me now, and describes exactly what I was going through. Thank you for demonstrating how to get our individual power back.
@bangermccrusher
11 жыл бұрын
"She is teaching people to fake who they are" if you say it like that then yes, I understand this: She is teaching people to fake who they want(or need) to be until the become it.
@thatwickedsmahttraumachick
4 жыл бұрын
JoshMetal316 hence the term fake it till you make it
@debashri27
6 жыл бұрын
I never noticed any noises until u read the comments. Boy, are people whiny and looking for excuses to dismiss good advice .
@sitisyahidanadhirahbintidi144
3 жыл бұрын
''fake till u become it" this will linger in my head for a long time now
@EnglishwithLucas
4 жыл бұрын
Important Clippings: - What is your body, communicating to somebody else and what is their body communicating to you? - We ourselves are also influenced by our nonverbal - Nonverbal expressions of power and dominance - We compliment to others non verbals. We don't tend to mirror them; we tend to do the opposite - Pretend to be powerful, you are more likely to feel powerful - Powerful people tend to be more assertive and more confident, more optimistic - They take more risks. Powerful and effective leaders also have high testosterone and low cortisol. - Tiny tweaks and leads to big changes - Try power posing and share this knowledge
@dpkrj123
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@user-ug7ci6og1o
Жыл бұрын
@graciegracie
Жыл бұрын
Ms. Cuddy, good day. I'm grateful I saw your talk back in 2013, it gave me immense inspiration. I didn't know what to do back then. I had TBI a year prior, and I was contemplating if I should continue my studies or not, and, thanks to you, I'm now on my way to getting my license as a physician.
@angelinanhep4559
2 жыл бұрын
18:30 I had to watch this for my class but I wasn't expecting to start getting emotional. I genuinely resonated with that little anecdote especially since I plan to go to graduate school. I feel like I really needed to hear that at this time wow.
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
Learn the secret of being genuine and knowing that power is in truth.
@MrQwerty2524
11 жыл бұрын
I dont care if its a reupload or not, havent seen it yet. Thank you Ted!
@MCX-rz9zz
8 жыл бұрын
This comes to me in a very special moment of my life, I'm about to take a huge exam next saturday and I think this will help me to control stress and fear. One of the most touching TED talks ever. Thank you, whoever records and uploads this videos
@kennethnystrom593
7 жыл бұрын
Just make sure You dont fake the exam it self. Break a leg btw.
@SagarmathaSipahi
6 жыл бұрын
How did the exam go?
@Chiramisudo
6 жыл бұрын
Don't leave us hangin'. How'd you do!? :)
@klausgreinerfiorini
4 жыл бұрын
Don't leave us hangin'. How'd you do!? :) 2
@Luckykwabs
Жыл бұрын
Yo! You good ? How did the exam go…
@user-zs5zd9os9g
2 жыл бұрын
1:03 body language egs 3:30 power dynamics 6:55 hypothesis 10:01 expt + results 12:41 expt 2 (real world) 15:07 discussion 16:04 fake it till ya make it! 🥹 19:30 fake it till u become it
@Aronight
8 жыл бұрын
on 2nd place Ted:Please hydrate the speaker.
@AH-on6jt
3 жыл бұрын
She's either really nervous or maybe stimulant/meth mouth? Maybe both lol... dark humor
@rebootukology1014
4 жыл бұрын
Dear Amy, thank you very much for your research. Starting a new career after 60 I needed a reminder from starting as a stylist. You radiate genuine caring and come from the school of hard knocks. Way to go on your determination🎶
@mandym1693
4 жыл бұрын
Her story about her student never participated in class and said she doesn't belong resonates with me. I am always the quietest person in any class and even up to now at my current job where I am currently in a small in-class training, I never really speak or participate. So when I heard her and her student's story, it relates to me now and I feel I don't belong. But I want to take her message and fake it until I become it! I hope one day I become it and become more confident! This was a great ted talk!
@TheHOTchocolate911
8 жыл бұрын
awesome!!! thank you for this speech! I really needed to know this for my life.
@2011iryna
2 ай бұрын
What a phenomenal talk that has undoubtedly helped so many people already. Coming back to it again and again. Thank you Amy.
@TheIzabot
11 жыл бұрын
Fantastic talk! She had great support for her message, from the opinions of test subjects to actual hard scientific measurements of hormones to personal successes. Great message, and what it comes down to, in my opinion, is that you can truly change yourself, just through willpower, to become the person you've always wanted to be!
@MoBeigi
4 ай бұрын
Great talk and message by Amy! The takeaway here is huge, you can definitely encourage your brain to behave a certain way by reinforcing it in various ways (body language, positive thoughts, etc). Posture is something to always be wary about since you can sometimes unintentionally give off the wrong vibe.
@CubeCyclone
5 жыл бұрын
She deserved that standing ovation!
@jennapurviance
11 жыл бұрын
I'm just a 15 year old surfing the KZitem but I was shocked when you said that woman were more likely to act less powerful than men
@reginaldrobinson7741
7 жыл бұрын
This felt like a sermon! LOL. Powerful!
@Deano2026
11 жыл бұрын
I love how everything in my life makes sense now
@user-gj7pu3fu1g
2 ай бұрын
watching it in 2024 and realizing it was the best talk that's still relevant
@Tupster
11 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, the end of that talk got really real. Loved it.
@reinopuchannel
Жыл бұрын
"Don't leave the situation feeling like ohhh I didn't show them who I am, leave that situation feel like ahh I really feel like I got to say who I am and show them who I am" 🔥🔥🔥
@ainoaguy
11 жыл бұрын
This has been one of the best talks i've ever seen on Ted, very good :D
@yashu.stories
4 ай бұрын
I learnt how to sit in high power posture and body language
@lauriecroad3186
11 жыл бұрын
If it does not work for you...shut your face. Do not mock. If it works for you, (as it does for me), enjoy, and practice... Essentially this is for the little people, or those who have been brought up "not to be pushy", in other words, "shut up, you're not good enough". Well, this tells me that I am good enough, and to get me going, "Just fake it until I make it". Wonderful. I feel better already.
@FidelAngelQ
11 жыл бұрын
This is so true! Please share this with your friends...all your friends!
@TheSoggyPuzzle
11 жыл бұрын
"We are what we pretend to be so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." -Kurt Vonnegut.
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
You can't confuse accepting challenges with making believe that you know something. It is taking the step that makes the difference of action vs. not acting. When you take the action, you are making the change needed. You can win everything and still be wrong about everything so becoming something does not necessarily change anything.
@TeemarkConvair
11 жыл бұрын
my own sympathetic response to amy caught me off guard i "felt" her emotions. 20 minutes well spent.
@siphilipe
5 жыл бұрын
A message to the director of this show: Next time, please, show us her body language. Thanks!
@marjooorie_l
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Amy ! It’s encouraging to know that we can actually change our abilities simply by changing our posture. Especially helpful to me as I’m having a job interviews and sharing recently. Will practice the power pose and attitude!
@blowbust0r
11 жыл бұрын
Loved it very moving and almost brought a 19 year old dude to happy tears I love the passion and spirit of this lady
@Skylerride313
11 жыл бұрын
This is amazing I hope she's proud of herself :)
@Thissvipulvlogging
3 күн бұрын
I'm listening in 2024
@TheProcrastinator85
11 жыл бұрын
I have been doing the fake it until you make it for a while now without knowing about this tedtalk, and it actually worked for me in presentations and interviews ....
@CharlesMcKinneyIV
11 жыл бұрын
Body language is a part of communication theory, which is a social science. Therefore, it is a science that can be studied, interpreted, and expanded.
@mairay2455
5 жыл бұрын
Wow amazing . I love these talks . Will definitely implement it into my daily life and see how it affects my mind . Also will share my feelings instead of bottling it up. Thanks TED .
@edu1113
4 жыл бұрын
This and the one by Diana Nyad are my two fav talks by women
@aseshdatta5413
6 жыл бұрын
Great talk. The greatest learning is 'Fake it until you make it'. Body language is also a language of communication and development. Regards
@hendrasutika
Жыл бұрын
high power poses tend to be open up ( high testosterone and low cortisol) while the low power poses are close (low testosterone and high cortisol) high power poses represents confidence, enthusiasm
@chrisb583
11 жыл бұрын
It works I've tried it. I love Amy's speeches and messages, they're always life inspiring.
@EspacioNinja
10 жыл бұрын
Very powerful stuff, thank you for the inspiration Amy Cuddy :)
@grasshopperrats10
10 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with the speaker !
@akchinth
4 жыл бұрын
great job this is the best and only ted talk I ever listened to.
@SBKtvMUSIC
11 жыл бұрын
A great speech that touches on a powerfull truth. Just as confidence level affects posture, so posture affects confidence level. I teach performance skills. Over the years I have advised many less conffident students to adopt the pose they imagine they would adopt if they were more confident. It works every time.
@mystarmach
11 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna try this
@glayfansr6676
11 жыл бұрын
This lady's body language showed she's either nervous or not comfortable standing on the stage. Her voice made me feel she's gonna pass out soon.
@therealfaithallison9323
7 жыл бұрын
Wow, she is a very smart woman. Great talk. Mind-boggling.
@phildendron4702
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I can relate. This talk is so helpful.
@AdventuresPandD
8 жыл бұрын
I have watched players on a bench transform from powerful to weak and vice versa based on their body positioning and posture. Be big to play big.
@FallenPast1177
7 жыл бұрын
It wasn't until she broke at 18:32 was I able to genuinely connect/care about what she was saying. Before that it was just zzzz talk. Great tips
@non_dishonest
9 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:24 Changing *your posture for two minutes can significantly impact your life; observe and adjust your body language to feel more powerful and influence life outcomes.* 02:51 Nonverbal *behaviors play a crucial role in making judgments about others, affecting decisions such as hiring or promotions, and even predicting election outcomes.* 04:32 Nonverbal *expressions of power involve expanding, making oneself big, and taking up space, both in the animal kingdom and among humans.* 07:08 Power *posing for just two minutes can lead to hormonal changes, increasing testosterone and decreasing cortisol, influencing behavior and decision-making.* 12:41 Our *nonverbals not only impact how others perceive us but also shape our thoughts, feelings, and physiology, demonstrating a bidirectional relationship between body and mind.* 15:44 The *concept of "fake it till you make it" is about adopting power poses and behaviors to influence self-perception and behavior positively, leading to genuine changes over time.* 19:50 Two *minutes of power posing before a stressful situation can lead to significant positive changes in how you cope and present yourself, emphasizing the importance of small adjustments for big outcomes.*
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
Who you are determines what our body language is.
@CYBERNIKUNJ
3 жыл бұрын
It's encouraging to know that we can actually change our abilities simply by Changing our posture. Thanks 😊🙏
@viracocha2021
11 жыл бұрын
second time i watch this talk and its AMAZING. Thanks
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
Mindless stares are meaningless. It is your word that makes all the difference.
@mohamudmohamed7177
5 жыл бұрын
salute the great social psychologist.
@dineshguntupalli4281
6 жыл бұрын
she can live with one eye
@Ndo01
11 жыл бұрын
maybe one of the most useful talks i've seen
@SagarmathaSipahi
6 жыл бұрын
She says fake it; I say work hard until you make it. Failure it temporary. Don't spend time in faking. Be what you are. If you get a job faking what you are, you might not love it forever. Know who you are, work hard for what you want to be. Gosh!!! when am I getting my TED talk call???
@cheyennestar1
3 жыл бұрын
Love this. One of the best talks.
@jasonmateus924
7 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman in and out. Touching. And Empowering.
@MagisterialVoyager
11 жыл бұрын
Inspiring. Sometimes I forget such a simple, small thing like body language.
@shifasonal156
4 жыл бұрын
It was amazing also at the same time, very helpful. Thank you Amy Cuddy
@2the609
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone, dun FAKE anything, be true to yourself. Once you fake and become something you are not, at some point you will lose yourself. COMPLETELY. And you gonna find yourself again after all the fake changes and be back to yourself. Everyone have a different personality, all you can do is to embrace yourself and live your own way. Thank you!
@_erica83
7 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong in improving our posture to BECOME a BETTER version of OURSELVES 😉
@yskim69
11 жыл бұрын
처음엔 자기개발서에 나오는 내용같아 별 생각없이 보다가 끝부분에 뭉클해졌다.
@alyssakoon
3 жыл бұрын
Faking something until you become it can help improve your confidence and self esteem as well.
@petergerlach
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk. Thank you Amy.
11 жыл бұрын
Good speech, love it.
@Jeffmorgan1991
11 жыл бұрын
I just sub to this TED because it uploads the good ones
@MazenAlAshkar
11 жыл бұрын
This is Amazing, I had a talk once with a friend about this topic and i was trying to convince him about this fact, and now here it is, this is great.
@megrockstar
11 жыл бұрын
I think people are wrong in saying that she is crying over her 2 IQ points and that is what she is talking about. This is a life lesson that sometimes you need to revisit to remember how important it is.
@richamongia8166
7 ай бұрын
So insightful... This is very helpful❤❤
@swiftcolours697
11 жыл бұрын
this is better than school
@fork2309
6 жыл бұрын
SWIFT COLOURS tru
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
Conform to truth and make it the right way.
@AnthonyLe902
11 жыл бұрын
Great presentation! I watched bunch of videos about body language before but mostly in a psychological way. This clarifies so much more information in a scientific way. Thank you.
@MissSunshineHS
11 жыл бұрын
Wow she did such an amazing speech. I am going to share this with people.
@gogert.
6 ай бұрын
great video she reminds me of the wife from dispicible me Grus wife
@caballitodelmar1
11 жыл бұрын
It's so inspiring! Thanks for this speech!!!
@maxplatinum
9 жыл бұрын
WATER!!!!!!!! Please!!!! someone please bring me waterer
@rulisastra
7 жыл бұрын
This is unforgettable. Especially when she started to talk about her accident. Who's her name by the way?
@maximeistasse8787
11 жыл бұрын
Fantastic speech... All of this is definitely true, and the fact is, now I'm thinking about all my little failures, ..., I could definitely have faked it and made it a lot better, without any doubt. And that's what clearly happened during (and before) my best successes. I wish I had seen this before my exams. But never mind, it'll still be helpful. Thanks a lot, you told it so well...
@JungleJargon
11 жыл бұрын
It is a phenomenon how people get things exactly backwards. it is not your gestures that determine what you are, it is what you are that determine what your gestures will be.
@healinghubwithPraiseMercy
2 жыл бұрын
This' real power right here!🔥🔥🔥🔥
@TreeBaeb
11 жыл бұрын
I was not stating the absolute, there are many cases in which women are the stronger species, all I was stating is that she was using an generalization of human women. There are many powerful and important women in my life, and I would never doubt their abilities or strength.
@AssassinAp3X
5 жыл бұрын
Damn they were hitting the praise the sun gesture weren’t they.
@mlebukamedia9395
7 жыл бұрын
I love this woman!
@DHARMIK_M
11 жыл бұрын
She is amazing HATS OFF !!!!!!!!
@JimmyGunawan
11 жыл бұрын
Indeed people judge based on the posture. If I happen to be more confident than others, I will help the non-confident. But there are people who judge and take advantage of you being powerless. There are also neutral people. Not always powerful or powerless. Higher or lower. These days, equality is important. Powerful people can come to as arrogant, asshole, etc. This shown as well with race, religion, nationality. This kind of social thing is something interesting to study.
@Balkance
9 жыл бұрын
beautiful!
@RedSoxKal
11 жыл бұрын
I loved it. Great lessons and great story. Thanks Amy Cuddy
@Alouncara
11 жыл бұрын
I think it shows how complicated we are
@raacha74
4 жыл бұрын
Don't know why some people miss the point and get so sour about her speech.
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