You look so pretty Raven! I love the red lipstick. Your channel just popped on my timeline out of no where. I only follow 4 people on KZitem so I’m not sure if it’s the Holy Spirit or the algorithm, lol. I don’t believe in coincidences, I believe our steps are ordered by the Lord. The first video I watched of yours was about the kingdom spouses vision being blurry. That video resonated with me and now this one is too. I can’t fully engage just yet because I’m still trying to receive confirmation on my kingdom spouse. But if he is who I saw in the vision, he is younger than me, lol. I love what God is doing through you! I also love that fitness tee. I’ll have to look into her business.
@debb2900
2 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this word. I watched the first video 3 or 4 times. Every time I see a Cougar RV I can’t help but laugh! The gap is 10 years and I am 64 this month. I like the idea of a support group. 💞 🕊
@idasandoval4498
2 күн бұрын
Yes i got confirmation with your first video!. And hes now doing it again praise God. This journey is not easy. But God is good always.amen.
@lavender_beauty_by_dawn
2 күн бұрын
I love this, "This is our support group." Thank you, Sis, for your obedience in sharing this word. This is confirmation of what the Lord told me!! 💜 #I'mnotacougar 😂
@_Queen_Mary_777_
Сағат бұрын
This is confirmation!! God is writing this love story!! ❤️
@melanielandi5195
Күн бұрын
I begged God to remove my feelings for this man for a year, they only grew. I told him it didn’t make sense. God guided me to pray for him and then we went into separation a week later. My struggle is I feel it strongly in my spirit to communicate with him but I am fighting it because I don’t know if it is God or me wanting it and I don’t want it to be a case of me trying to move things forward 🤷🏼♀️
@sphelele4918
Күн бұрын
The NCSG (non cougar support group) 🤣
@lauraengemann7684
Күн бұрын
Hello Raven! It's a pleasure to greet you and all of you beautiful women who follow this channel. I discovered your channel a couple of months ago and I've been following you ever since. I'm from Argentina (so you can see that the Lord had his reasons for making you return to social media. He wanted to get his message across to wherever the world needs it.) I listened to the previous video where you touched on this topic and today when I saw that there was another video with the same title I didn't know if I was seeing it right, hahaha! I'm going through the process of getting my KS back since we've been separated for a little over a year. It hasn't been easy at all. There are days that are hard. During the time we were together as boyfriends I went through conflicts with myself because I felt self-conscious about the signs of aging that are noticeable in me, especially, although it may seem silly, a little gray hair and other things like that. There's a 10-year age difference between us. I'm 39 years old and he's about to turn 29 soon. I recognize that some of these complexes are still latent in me and it is something I think about because I do not want them to be obstacles that hinder the relationship. Today I have things clearer, but it is important to be alert to the thoughts we have about ourselves and about how or from what perspective we look at ourselves. I agree that it is necessary to ask the Lord to never stop giving us the grace to see ourselves and others through His eyes.
@gijane28
2 күн бұрын
Im 60 and my perspective kingdom spouse is ...........wait for it 30!!! I have had many many different feelings about this.
@amilan409
Күн бұрын
@@gijane28 hey look at dick van dyke and his wife arlene, they have roughly a 50 year age gap and look how happy they are !
@daniadidthat
2 күн бұрын
You posted something similar months ago and I honestly regret not listening to it because even if I was wrong about this person being my KS, had I been obedient I wouldn't have lost so much like I have now. I kept seeing myself as the problem for being older and I lost so much because of that.
@Joan-j7k
Күн бұрын
Mine is 7 years younger … I look way younger than he does though …used to feel like I’m his mother teaching him how to be a man so glad the Lord is working on my GOS
@kellied3891
2 күн бұрын
Hey there! Yes!! I’m not the only one! I love that song by Kari Jobe. I was intimidated by my kingdom spouse wanting someone younger instead of me. But…. Not anymore.. My kingdom spouse would joke with me saying I was only a freshman in high school when you were in college. 😅 Yes, God will have him see me how God sees me when he fully submits back to God. ♥️
@marieclark7582
Күн бұрын
By big insecurity is even though I'm losing weight and getting fit, feeling I'm never be as fit as a younger woman. He's only 2 years younger than me, but he is fit and successful.
@ambertorres4444
5 сағат бұрын
We love our younger men! I love young men. Waiting on the Lord for the right one. I definitely am not attracted to men my age or older for the most part (I'm 41).
@elizabethg.7873
2 күн бұрын
Hey girl ,you re so unic and I love your personality the way you explain things ,blessings!🙏🤍
@melissajean1695
Күн бұрын
My husband God chose for me is almost 8 years younger than me too !! Been waiting over 4 years i know hes coming soon many dreams n visions :) thank u
@moments22
2 күн бұрын
Thank you Raven . 20 year age gap , my struggle is that I can’t stop time and wait for him to catch up to me . I struggle with his family accepting me , and younger women . God bless you 🙏✝️❤️
@amilan409
Күн бұрын
@@moments22 I pray it gets better for you ! My guy's family won't accept me for him either, it's awful .. his mom threatened to disown him and throw him out the house even
@WomanofGod77
4 сағат бұрын
He’s 11 years younger than me! The father is really testing me with this 😭😂
@sarahaverill333
Күн бұрын
God told me a man in the band at church with me was my husband, but at first I didn’t want to believe it. i’ve always dated older men & I’ve never been attracted to younger men. we have become friends and we are so compatible I’ve never met anybody like him in my life! He’s actually more mature than a lot of the older men that I was dating. He is an artist and musician and super deep. I can tell that the women his age can’t meet him where he’s at and he needs somebody with more maturity. I always told God that I would never be with a younger man because I didn’t wanna be a cougar! 😂 This really resonates with me. Once God told me that he was my husband after we told each other our testimonies. After that, I started praying for him every day. I ask God to confirm so I said if he is my husband and you want us together, then please have him start praying for me . A couple weeks later I got a really bad car wreck and he came up to me at church the next week and he said he was going to be praying for me.🙏🎉
@marybox8366
3 сағат бұрын
God Bless You ❤😊💙🙏🏽🪽🎶
@GlorifyYahweh
Күн бұрын
I’m almost 2 years older 😂 as a lady … non cougar support group LOL
@hayahwassa
2 күн бұрын
My spouse is more ancient than i am but He is in perfect shape im a wreck of a human i was as good as dead when he found me but im getting healed.
Күн бұрын
What I struggle with the most right now regarding the idea that my KS is younger than me is that it means that he's REALLY young (I'm in my twenties still hence why). I've had confirmation on his age and name but I don't know him yet, and I can't wrap my head around the idea that he's just getting started, so to speak😅 Like he's probably not where he wants to be career wise, so I'm a little nervous about that 🫣
@boseDievca
2 күн бұрын
I struggle with the fear that my KS is not mature enough.. I also have a child.. and his behavior was often not mature.. It hurt me a lot, now we have a few months off from each other. fear that he will never behave maturely and independently and that he will bring chaos into my life again... and I am afraid that he will hurt me again.. he is just 3 years younger than me but his behaviour is hurting me😢
@Braveh3artGirl
Күн бұрын
Aww ill pray for you! I am going through the EXACT same. His immaturity hurts me and my daughter. They have to go through deliverance before the marriage takes place.❤ you can learn warfare prayers if God leads you. Stay strong Mumma!
@boseDievca
Күн бұрын
@@Braveh3artGirl thank you for prayers I will pray for you too
@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
Күн бұрын
I have been there with the guy I got who was the one. What pulled me through was what a pastor of mine said that in marriage we need to practice a lot of forgiveness. I realized that if this guy is my future husband, forgiving him will be equal to forgiving myself. If I am called to be like Jesus and to marry this person, I have to find a way to forgive this person. Of course, we need to be careful from getting hurt again. How it works for everyone is different. This is why we need to take this back to prayer! May the Lord bless you! You are not alone in this. We are doing great!🌸🌸🌸
@MusiquedeNuma
22 сағат бұрын
Another observation: what I have observed is that your physical appearances will always match so it won’t be easy for people to see the age gap unless you point it out. This man can also dress better like 👔 at family events or church. He will need to upgrade some things. He will probably get more respect so as you. We still need to use our common sense and advice them well. It’s not about sex. It’s a real adult relationship.
@ambertorres4444
5 сағат бұрын
I don't feel uncomfortable at all. I am PRAYING For a younger man. My ex was 6 years my junior and I will NEVER go back unless God truly urges me and even then I would be like, "Really Lord??" lol.
@shantae5504
Күн бұрын
Insecurity of being too reserved. We are totally opposite. I'm a home body and he's not. 6 years difference.
@amilan409
2 күн бұрын
What do we do if their families won't accept us, or threaten to disown them ? Could the lord let his family know that my age don't matter ? Yeah, we lived in fear .. not about my age, BUT about his Mom and family dsowning him, hating me ... not I'm afraid I've lost him and have no hope with him anymore. I didn't know what to do and I still don't ... I've been nothing but nice and loving to his family, even though I know things that were said behind my back. Should I have not kept my mouth shut ? Should we have just told them about us and let them throw a fit, but then hopefully get over it ? we were really afraid she would disown him. I'm even afraid she'd beat me up or something.
@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
Күн бұрын
So sorry to hear that. I honestly wouldn't know what to do. All I can say is keep praying about it. Jesus will have the answer for you. Air hugs!!🌸🌸🌸
@amilan409
Күн бұрын
@@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy thanks hugs to you too ! I'm praying all the time and will keep praying !
@brittneymahan9346
13 сағат бұрын
Mine told me age didn’t matter but it freaked me out at first. Worried of what other would think and worried he hasn’t experienced life or made mistakes so scared me. Also that it wouldn’t be ready for what I was ready for and I ended up being right about it bc he said not ready for commitment and ghosted me so I let go and letting God
@angelakern9606
Күн бұрын
😮 I m not sure if a guy is younger then me....but when met he read me that verse be anxious for nothing....
@marybox8366
3 сағат бұрын
Queen Deborah ❤🏆
@princesswithinnerbeauty4407
2 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻 I know this 💍👰🏻♀️
@brookehaybel9693
2 күн бұрын
🌸🖤🫂✝️ Yes , beautiful word! my Kingdom Husband is actually older than me but he looks the same age and with that we both look younger! I was in prayer this week and God was like you both will look like and mistaken for a 19 year old couple my kingdom Husband and i are definitely not 19 ! I’m about to be 25 very soon this still has me laughing outloud! I love you and praying for you too sister in Christ!!! Hod also brought me infront of a young man that he said looked like my Kingdom Husband in his youth! I was laughing after i said ( ohhh ) i shocked in my brothers passager seat! I also jumped, I was like Hod he doesn’t sound like him.. GOD wanted me to get back in prayer for my Kingdom Husband. I haven’t stopped praying sense this!!! The way GOD explained the first part to me has me rolling still ! He said it will be people in general that are around us, for me everyone is older than me aside from a very small group! random add in-~> ( the moment you said ( we are all in this together) I screamed and was like high school musical my favorite part in high school musical 3 is with sharpay and jimmy! I’m actually a real twin my brother is who was talking about earlier! and I ship those two sonmuch ! I feel like they missed a whole beautiful couple right under everyone’s noses! I feel like they could’ve even eachother out! Sharpay would’ve been brought back down to earth a little and probably been friends with gabby. Also Jimmy probably would’ve inspired her to stay behind to wait for him! also i think by the end Jimmy would’ve had some stronger lines to say to the other main characters. but we probably would’ve gotten another movie from it! I cry everytime i pray the song they did cause it reminds me of how different i am from my Kingdom Husband even though we both love motorcycles i’m the most girly little Lady ever -~ ! and my Kingdom Husband can and will wear whatever and look amazing somehow-~ i’m like you’re in jeans and t shirt and have suspenders how do you look amazing!!! lll its just a me thing if i could found a better way to explain are different styles i definitely will comment!!! also i don’t wear brought i eye grabbing colors but i dress to grab a little attention but not like ( in your face ) as Sharpay does.. but my Kingdom Husband can stop a room with has simple outfit i don’t understand it! He is why i’m GRATEFUL to start up my girly Lady like fashion style going forward!!! its so cute !!! and beautiful and timeless!! i take alot of tips from Catherine, Princess of Wales and with my own touches so it’s more my own!, where my Kingdom Husband looks like the head guy of very specific 2009 style for guys ( i can’t add it ) but it’s in this comment already trust me !!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🫂
@MusiquedeNuma
23 сағат бұрын
You are also a young spirit💕. And younger men are more quick to listen, to adapt. So I think God chose them to make it easier for his servants females to have somebody to encourage them and to follow them in these crucial last days. The inconvenience with young people is that you need to educate them it is not as easy as it seems it requires a lot of patience and love. So yes I need the Cougar support group 😀
@vanessahumm88
2 күн бұрын
My kingdom husband is younger I was in shock lol 😮
@shazaharris8174
Күн бұрын
Our gap is 25years. That i will look like his Mom? Ive had a child and ive lost weight but still not there. 😢 my husband is an actor, model and artist. I'm struggling.
@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
Күн бұрын
Okay. So I got uncommonally nervous around some guy. I think I thought he was in his 20s (I am in my 30s). I got used to the idea of being with a younger guy. I believe age difference does matter because being older there is more experience. Being younger less drama. As long as you can compensate for age difference, I think it is workable. I asked God about this guy. I kept getting that it was him. I kept doubting that God would want me to be with someone younger. I opened up my bible to God saying:"Is anything impossible for Me?" When I had so many confirmations, I dared not to doubt anymore. Then I found out he was even younger than that. I met him when he was 18. Now he's 19. I was really shocked. I don't know if I could burden his parents by having their teenage son with someone like me (I am not financially successful. So other than Jesus, I don't have much going for me in appeal). This guy didn't really seem unattracted after he found out how old I was, which shocked me even more. Some people say I look like I'm 16 or in my 20s. Then, after that, I literally would open up my bible a few times to this guy's name, then Song of Songs (one of the most romantic and holiest books of the bible). Sometimes when I would look at him, he looks like Jesus. So, I don't know what I am doing. I have never been in a romantic relationship with a guy before. So this is going to be interesting. I have a lot of wounds surrounding this that keep popping up. And I haven't seen him in close to 2 weeks. Sorry, I went on sharing overload. Shalom to you ladies! We are going to need it!🌸🌸🌸
@jeannepotteiger7774
Күн бұрын
🤫Are you ready for this❔…. I’m on the Autism spectrum 😭 and 9 yrs. younger🤯🙇🏼♀️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@jeannepotteiger7774
Күн бұрын
And, I think he locked himself up in a whale. He’s been MIA for 3 weeks now🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Supposedly they granted him this time off to take care of personal things -not a three week vacation (he’ll be going on a two week mission trip in Nov. by the way). -no this is notifications every Monday that there will be no Bible for the children that week… and they end it with a smile 🙂 as to not worry us -because it isn’t normal!!!!!! I was away at a 🧠 mental health partial program that long😰 Prayers, please sister “cougars”🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@robin-chat2812
Күн бұрын
Lol, I'm in a wheelchair and have low vision... the enemy is trying his best to say why would he want you? My answer: I'm confident that I will see the goodness of God in the land of the living
@debbiesavage3075
Күн бұрын
I found out not long ago !y kingdom partner is 14 years younger than !d. He and I have hardly spoken or seen each other in months. I've been invited to his open practices I go when able but there is such a change . lord help. Your sill be done. What you said will happen. I'm 56 He is 42
@hannahfloyd2723
Күн бұрын
The age gap is 7 years and I’ve just recently had a conversation about him hearing the voice of God and him saying he doesn’t really remember a time. I know the Lord would not unequally yoke me but so odd that I literally have seen the characteristics of Jesus in him for the past year 🤷🏻♀️
@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
Күн бұрын
Just another recommendation for changing "cougar" name. I noticed in my life I have too many similarities to be coincidence in my life relating to Jacob (Israel) and his relationships with Leah and Rachel and the waiting period. Maybe the name can have something to do with Jacob waiting for Rachel, whom Jacob loved. Jacob had to wait and work 14 years for Rachel. Maybe God is calling us to wait for those special young men who will be dear to us as Rachel was dear to Jacob.
@robin-chat2812
Күн бұрын
9 1/2 years older than him but I look younger, lol
@elskrabbe9522
Күн бұрын
Yes the younger man. 😂 So weird. It its really. True.
@cindylawrence7348
2 күн бұрын
My christian friend just married a man 20 years younger than she us and they seem really happy. They dated 3 years first. I am divorced from one that was 12 years younger than me and he was awful and cheated. I have now prayed for a christian husband. I desire younger because it is what I am most attracted to and am already use to. The thought of going back to my own age is very undesirable to me. But I do have a fear of getting cheated on again...he had been on his phone with his ho joking about my age with her saying he was tired of a cougar wife. Defidently have some self esteem issues because of what he did. I am 48 but everyone tells me I look 10 years younger. Also, I thought I knew 99% who my kingdom spouse was going to be... he fit the list I asked God for and there seemed to be signs for me... but when I finally asked him if he felt anything he acted uncomfortable and "friend-zoned" me and said romance isnt an option. So I guess I dont really know what to think. I feel like giving up. It's safer.
@ThereseAnderson-xp7hy
Күн бұрын
"Trust in the Lord with all of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding. In all of your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path."
@elskrabbe9522
Күн бұрын
I am afraid a am getting grey. I am super scared. Of things like that. The funny thing is I never feld old by him. I feel hè never cared about that.
@shadesofblack6796
2 күн бұрын
3:26 😂😂😂
@teresaflorette
Күн бұрын
😂❤❤❤😊. Whoo Hooo. !
@NewAndDandy-w3d
Күн бұрын
I haven't met him yet but I hope he's taller than me
@elskrabbe9522
Күн бұрын
Yes hè is a teacher I am a Mom. 😅
@SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets
2 күн бұрын
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@teresaflorette
Күн бұрын
❤️Queen Charlotte 👑 ❤️ her King was / King George 👑 They have 14 or 15 babies....whooo..😊! I'm just saying.! ❤😘🤠❤
@teresaflorette
Күн бұрын
Hmmm 😊.. 😂. Yup.. !!!❤❤❤
@nadinemacneil
Күн бұрын
Lol My bad! You have two giveaways going on…so you did ask for a queen’s name. 🤭
@tiffanydeveaux9777
Күн бұрын
I know
@SecretLifeofJuliet
Күн бұрын
We both knew the minute we locked eyes, 7 years ago. I certainly doubted the age gap at first, but knew if it was from God, 6 years didn't matter. He was tired of today's girls being hyper focused on appearances, and partying. Of being afraid of getting dirty or working hard. He wanted someone who was happy in their own skin and appreciated the little things in life. But the age gap bothered him - thinking I wouldn't be happy with someone younger and he was afraid of rejection. It's taken 7 years of work, like the Israelites wandering the desert, for God to bring him into a place of full trust and acceptance. God told me it's finally going to happen this year.... so I wait..
@lilmissdoctor
Күн бұрын
We have 6 years gap as well. Feels good to know I'm not alone in this.
@ambertorres4444
5 сағат бұрын
The term cougar doesn't bother me at all- maybe this video isn't for me lol.
@Kolombusorito
2 күн бұрын
Does it count for men also or nah
@foxtrot100
Күн бұрын
I love this, I like younger women myself, so embrace your inner cougar. You are in fact a cougar if you are significantly older than your God ordained spouse, embrace it you magnificent feline. In my 20's I looked like a Chip and Dale dancer and the Cougars were on the prowl back then too. It's cool if it's God ordained 😉 The level of excitement over young boys says it all. I believe the woman I will marry is almost half my age, but it is just what it is, but the cougars are over the top excited about it. Roar!!! Dear Lord the cougars are far worse than the men with the younger women 🙄 I'm not this excited, the excitement says that cougars in fact wanted a younger man, just own it.
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