Though I have brought up two children, I am not qualified to give really useful comments on child education. In my humble opinion, parents must talk to their children and use themselves as models of behavior. The children will notice it if you are honest, kind and helpful to others in your interaction with people. Unfortunately, you cannot talk to Alice due to language barrier, but you can set an example for her to emulate. I noticed you occasionally poked Alice or pinched her nose, and she reacted quite violently. I would suggest not doing that as she obviously does not like this kind of provocation. The fact that you think about this issue of how to educate Alice is commendable. It takes tremendous patience in raising a child. Alice would notice your love for her and her mom if you show genuine affection for both of them. Alice badly craves the love of a father. Your love for her would be the greatest gift she can ever receive in her life. Best to all of you!
@Be_zhang
2 жыл бұрын
感谢你的建议
@kenmiu1273
2 жыл бұрын
@Teemo Cat Thank you! Thanks also for the translation which is well done.
老张越来越有为人父的感觉了。nature vs nurture。天性不一样,但娃都有优缺点,强弱项。要靠环境,靠培养。要找她妈当翻译实时教育她。多关爱,多沟通,也要有奖有罚,树立威信。中西方美德都是共通的。多一起读书,看sharing的书,看滑板安全的书,抓住每一个点去教她。也一起做点有意思的事儿。需要时间和精力。她妈确实要多用心在她身上。西方的放养很毁娃。也需要教她妈,不是指望她改变, 是让她知道你的价值观,知道你的为人处事,知道你的需求, 知道配合你。
身教重於言教, 父母就像小孩的鏡子一樣, 她會打人就可能是你们打过她. 在美国是絕对不能体罰小孩子的, 只可以用 take away privilege 的方式, 你要知道她喜歡做什麼, 例如她喜歡每天去公園玩2次, 你可以說妳下次再打人, 當天就少去一次公園. 我也建議要看一些教育小孩的書对你有幫助. 我小孩小的時候我都帶去圖書館參加各式的 program, 如 story time, music time 及一些活動, 都是免費的, 我想瑞士也會有, 到圖書館問問吧. 其實6歲在美国都已上2年級了, 你或許可以去 school district 登記她上学吧.
@kd-gn6mj
2 жыл бұрын
博主 除了 No it's not about money 就沒有了。和中國的孩子 你試試 不買 只說和錢無關。你由始至終都沒說過不買的原因。
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