Thank you for this series. It has helped me see all my games for what they really are. I’m trying to play so many all at the same time. Some of them contradictory. No wonder my life feels like chaos!
@JustHarrison
3 ай бұрын
Crazy how I'm just finding out about this info today, June 20th, 2024. This interview was recorded 19 years before I was born lmao but hey, more relevant today than ever!!
@JustHarrison
3 ай бұрын
I was about to get mad because I thought this video was a repost of the one I just watched. They're different but filmed at the same time, I guess: kzitem.info/news/bejne/r3iFmWx-qoOFmn4
@JustHarrison
3 ай бұрын
Anyone here think we're on the cusp of building that third story he was talking about? With the stupidity that is Trump and the degradation of our politics down to the level of a bunch of kids insulting one another, it looks to me that as a nation we need to heal our inner-child! I've been watching a lot of John Bradshaw to learn about this. That's actually what brought me here lol
@jojochara6352
Ай бұрын
I think we have a way to go if we misunderstand what has become of are politics and calling actually very intelligent people “stupid” because it’s out of our scope of understanding (very rarely is a person actually stupid). It’s deeper than “everyone heal your inner child” it’s actually about choosing intimacy against those who refuse it. But the problem with it, is that there are motives that are beyond the human condition that make us fight for things we deem right in our own eyes. Ultimately it’s not an attachment issue as to more of people having other causes and beliefs that they’re willing to cheat and sacrifice everything at any cost. Lies and regurgitation are a whole other beast on their own that even the healthiest of individuals can still fall victim to it.
@katadam2186
Ай бұрын
@@jojochara6352take a look at the latest Tucker Carlson interview with Mike Benz listen it’s high level “games”… then dive into how and what psychology has become’ what’s been introduced into their schooling. Years ago they knew that trauma therapy and transactional therapy were needed and instead they made a model based in a ton of pills so they could make money off of a person especially if they could prescribe for life
@sanataj
5 ай бұрын
Wow! This is my parents' era. I love the way men wore suits and the accent was mild, speech was clear, manners were so good. I bet there were many fewer cars on the roads, as well.
@prismonthethehorizon5793
6 ай бұрын
10:50
@vibeactvst8686
7 ай бұрын
Talking about alcoholism while he lights a cigarette is interesting lol
@dijasterous
8 ай бұрын
👍
@deadlypalms
9 ай бұрын
Too simple to look at the parent as the superego, the adult as the ego and the child as the id? More recently, I guess we might apply the wise mind approach too as a comparable model.
@michaelsofine
9 ай бұрын
Everybody’s a psychiatrist if you interact (transact) with people. But Eric Berne managed to make a living by not complicating it and so that everybody can see the psychiatrist in them and in others.
@michaelsofine
10 ай бұрын
All of these fairy tales sound similar. The big bad wolf getting butchered. Rapunzel’s prince getting his eyes put out.
@michaelsofine
10 ай бұрын
Why did rapunzel tell grandmother she was sleeping with a boy when she knew wouldn’t allow it? Sounds like she set it up herself. Yeah she did Berne confirms this. The girl says I’m tired of him and signals this to grandmother. So grandmother says I’ll get rid of him for you.
@Neema825
10 ай бұрын
7:08 In intimacy no one is exploiting anybody
@michaelsofine
Жыл бұрын
Berne talks about intimacy as meaning a game free relationship. He also talks about something called autonomy meaning doing what you want to do and not just what you are told to. He is of course talking about voices in your head from long ago. Today this has a negative connotation but as he say’s schizophrenia is more severe and everyone has some form of it whether they recognize it or not. The aware person can tell they have different personalities or egos while the schizophrenic has lost control of all his ego states I believe. He not only can’t recognize it but doesn’t know who should respond and when.
@PrinceinAddis
4 ай бұрын
Very beautifully and succintly described. Thanks for refreshing my memory on Berne's conceptions.
@michaelsofine
23 күн бұрын
Of course. It isn’t easy.
@tearealdavis2212
Жыл бұрын
So deep
@treasuryresearch3608
Жыл бұрын
The sound on this needs to be cleaned up.. seriously. Can anybody do this? Its a valuable record of Beirnes contribution to psycology
@preciousmousse
Жыл бұрын
Seeing him at the party with the students and colleagues is awesome!
@nomarl4168
Жыл бұрын
More than anything I'm struck by all the smoking. Yuck!
@loganMartinPreacher
Жыл бұрын
942 he almost says fuck but caches himself
@tamunagejadze9750
Жыл бұрын
❤
@eesidvnnellore3643
Жыл бұрын
Therapy for patient or the Therapist. when we are dealing with faculty of individuals in the contract and the jump out of woods is an actuality of realisations of the selves.when the interviewer termed TA a schizophrenia, in truth it's implied to conceptual psychology of Freudian,jungian,or a Skinner,pigot, a differential sphere heading towards a coherent integral science of experiences.An advent shall be a modern day psychology of deeper,wider and broader one,fusioned with science and spirituality.Eric Bernie the One surfaced it in psychological spheres with TA and Gestalt.
@dontscrewwithgodschosen6692
Жыл бұрын
🧚🏻♂️🌌🦅
@chazjones9568
Жыл бұрын
hubba hubba the interviewer
@michaelsofine
2 жыл бұрын
My favorite psychiatrist. Helps me enormously. Like religion I now understand the importance of not pushing his theory on people though.
@KatWoodland
2 жыл бұрын
Insightful video.
@easybullet3
2 жыл бұрын
nice, but so much background noise (driving, sea waves), its a bit distracting
@yoya4766
2 жыл бұрын
He is only 56 years old here but looks about 70.
@armanda5609
Жыл бұрын
You didn't understand a word he said, did you!
@ПОЧИНЮКУКУХУ
9 ай бұрын
He died 4 years after being 60
@ask_sigma6
2 жыл бұрын
Eric Berne was one of the first books I read on psychology before I went to University to study psychology... it was hands down the most comprehensive, profound and powerful information on psychology I ever read, nothing in all my years at Uni (4 years) came close to it...
@stacyyoust
2 жыл бұрын
Smart funny book.
@MarcoMagdy
2 жыл бұрын
enlightenment
@solomonreal1977
2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Berne made lasting and significant contributions to the field of being a huge nerd
@danielpasterp5837
2 ай бұрын
What do you mean?
@solomonreal1977
2 ай бұрын
@@danielpasterp5837 I wanted attention 😔
@matthewburn4900
2 жыл бұрын
If you ever want to torture a psychiatrist or psychologist, give them an authentic story of mutual love 💞💞
@michaelsofine
10 ай бұрын
Berne even said himself that people in healthy relationships they have no idea about because they don’t go to see psychiatrists.
@taylorcolonna457
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I never heard of this man or this book. But now I'm all in and I completely understand why I also value Jordan Peterson's information. I love KZitem. ❤
@CerebeloativoTV
3 жыл бұрын
Doctor Eric Berne´s theory has a lot to do with meditation and the strengthening of the frontal lobe. The logical thinking and data processing is mostly done in the frontal lobe, and meditation can help this process to improve, even increasing the size of the frontal cortex. The Adult in Berne´s theory is very similar to this in function. I am reading his books now and it makes much more sense than freudian, jungian or lacanian ideas (with are very esoteric in nature).
@pablogomez8236
3 жыл бұрын
Funny how the presenter start asking about those sick alcoholic people and just pulls off a cigarette 😂
@michaelsofine
9 ай бұрын
I don’t think anyone has ever beaten their wife over a cigarette. Usually people go see a psychiatrist because someone else has a problem with them. And everybody smoked in the 60s. Even today some people still don’t have a problem with it and on some podcasts they say nicotine has brain boosting effects. I still wouldn’t touch the stuff because one of my grandmas died of lung cancer and cigarettes are relatively expensive so I’m told because of how government taxes them now.
@pablogomez8236
3 жыл бұрын
4:00 that Violet car is huge! 😃 Games people play is my favourite book even though I don't understand it yet 😂
@danidoncheva4902
3 жыл бұрын
Love Dr Eric's comment" The breast is not a part of me". But how about: The Penis is not a part of me either! :) Is our society ready for that statement? :) Love Dr Eric Burn's books. May he rest in peace.
@michaelsofine
Жыл бұрын
Are you saying you no longer pursue sexual pleasures? Monks have been doing this for years.
@wingsonthebus
3 жыл бұрын
11:19 richard dawkins wearing a shirt that says “WE ARE ALL second-handers”. flip him around and it says on the back “nihil supernum tho”
@je6874
2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean?
@wingsonthebus
3 жыл бұрын
8:44 - YES, THANK YOU!! One of my favorite parts of Berne’s theory is that he gets the difference between high-level hardware modes and subordinate software “roles” just about right.
@wingsonthebus
3 жыл бұрын
I was going to make a comment disputing Berne’s point about anger, but upon reflection I wonder if there *are* people who just *can’t have* ego-syntonic anger. I can only very rarely have ego-syntonic acute fear, and it’s frustrating to talk to people for whom that’s a regular occurence, because their “trust your fear” advice seems so malicious [but it’s not! they’re just typical-minding!], and yet I’m pretty sure my *anger* helps me routinely. Anyway great theory
@Golfgtiguy
3 жыл бұрын
I'm reading his book at the moment .I wouldn't rate it well at all .
@simonmanning1844
3 жыл бұрын
I wonder how they filmed it. Very clever for a "low budget" interview
@vivvpprof
3 жыл бұрын
His rebuttal of CBT is ... 👎🏻
@srkzn5304
2 жыл бұрын
What did he say about cbt?
@noklarok
2 жыл бұрын
have you got any evidence that cbt works in the long term?
@ПОЧИНЮКУКУХУ
9 ай бұрын
For me its 👍👏
@dejanmarkovic3040
3 жыл бұрын
Coughs and says Pardon, but never mind the fact that they're riding in a convertible while speaking :D
@guitawrizt
3 жыл бұрын
*_He died in 1970 likely from second hand smoke._*
@username-jc2tp
3 жыл бұрын
If interested in the fairy tale angle, Von Franz's _The Feminine in Fairy Tales_ is brilliant.
@pawan2414
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dear. It was great listening to Eric Berne and his talk on Games. it would be wonderful let him discuss Scripts, What Do you Say after you say Hello. it would be wonderful to listen even to Claude Stiner, and James joiner
@TanteSklaidos
3 жыл бұрын
How does this not have more views???
@afringedweller
3 жыл бұрын
The thing that bothered me, some might think strangely, is how often he took his eyes off the road, to look at his companion - crazy!
@RockstarSissy
4 жыл бұрын
Looking for the words that make up “PTA” reading games people play and it’s not spelled out. This video he seems to allude to Pastimes as the P part...what’s the TA my guesses are prob not correct. Anyone know?
I'm assuming you're not American, but in the USA there's a group called the Parent Teacher Association (PTA), which parents join to keep an eye on their children's progress in school. The term as Berne uses it seems to refer to any transaction where people fret over their parent-child relationships, or generally about "kids these days".
@RockstarSissy
2 жыл бұрын
That is definitely not the answer. The parent teacher association has nothing to do with his content and when replaced in full words makes no sense. Sorry not helpful. I asked the question as obviously parent teacher association was unrelated
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