How wonderful that you came out when you did, before getting married, having children, etc., entangling yourself in a life of lies. Well done! I wish you the very best and trust that your testimony will help other men of our kind. Thank you.
@appartement2046
9 ай бұрын
Why did I get recommended this video this many years after the fact? Also umm where can I find you on IG lol
@MrSerendipity01
10 ай бұрын
I can't fully understand this. He was with the girl for 7 years and there was bound to have been sexual activity between them otherwise she would have copped on that something was off. He must be bisexual but mostly gay.
@gizzykatkat9687
11 ай бұрын
Nobody cares, just you
@sweden9765
Жыл бұрын
Awwwwwe sooooooo cuuuuuuute 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
@danielwilda8167
Жыл бұрын
So happy for you that you found the courage to be who you were born to be. Best wishes for a good life. Time will heal the wounds of the past, even though the scars may remain. You deserve Joy for your present and future 💙🏳️🌈⭐️🌈💪💜🇺🇸👍
@moondoggy02116
Жыл бұрын
Such an amazing video. It’s a shame that we don’t get to know anything more about you after this!
@socorrogonzalez5891
Жыл бұрын
We need an update video... thanks for your story.
@daniellfourie
Жыл бұрын
Great 👍 video. Hope you are well.
@sheeksadik8932
Жыл бұрын
What's your name tho?
@lifechoices6643
2 жыл бұрын
The world already knows who we are whether we come out or not
@lifechoices6643
2 жыл бұрын
How come so many LGBTQ people are so attractive.
@frankmarter6845
2 жыл бұрын
You are not gay. You are bisexual. If you could maintain an intimate relationship with a woman for years you are not gay. Being bisexual isn’t easy. You may evolve back to liking women at some time in your life. It’s very difficult to establish a long term relationship with a bisexual person. They waver from one sex to the other. Coming out to yourself was the most traumatic event rather than to others. You didn’t want to admit your desire for men. Others didn’t seem to care all that much other than your girlfriend. Maybe they sensed your dual nature. At any rate you are living according to your present standards. Don’t be surprised if they change later on.
@sd90mac8
2 жыл бұрын
Oh I hear you, let me tell you something, me being a son of a WW II vet, (DAD) (DEFENDING OUR COUNTRY)/FREEDOM was severely injured, sustained brain trauma jus outside of Berlin and some how survived, is unbelievable,🤯😵😱 given the tremendous injury that he sustained, and in a 100 day coma, he gave all. I will say😭😳 Thank God🙏🙏😭 he barely made it, he came back to life and had four kids, me being the first and I'VE got 3 siblings. Many years ago some damn woman friend of my dad's ask him one day in a grocery store, why is it that all your younger kids all have kids/spouses but WHY IS IT your oldest doesn't have any kids or a girlfriend, is something wrong with him or?????? My father jus told her didn't know why I didn't have a girl friend or babies. When my father told ME this, of what she had ask him, IT WAS A LONG, LONG, TIME LATER, WHEN I BECAME AWARE OF THIS I WAS REDDD HOTTTT!!!! I ASK HIM WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME THIS before, I THINK HE KNEW I WAS GONNA GET VERY, VERY, ANGRY WHICH I DID, NOT AT HIM, BUT AT HER, WHY DIDN'T SHE JUS ASK ME, OH TRUST me I WOULD OF STRAIGHTEN that bitch OUT MYSELF. ID PUT That bitch IN HER SPOT, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN IF SHES GOT 13 KIDS, I COULD CARE LESS. THAT IS NO ONES BUSINESS, ITS ONLY AND WILL ALWAYS BE MY MOM'S AND DAD'S BUSINESS, WHICH I OBVIOUSLY TOLD AND THEY SUPPORTED ME AND LOVED ME, VERY❤️ very much. N I STILL HAVE ONCE IN WHILE SOME GIRLS COME UP AND ME N ASK ME OUT, I SAY SORRY NO CAN DO. SORRY, GOT ANY BROTHERS, 🤯😵😱, LOL 😅😂🤣😂😅😚😉 take CARE PARTNER😉 🤠 and be safe. THANKS for sharing this with me.✌️👌👍
@JnTmarie
2 жыл бұрын
Wow your poor girlfriend. All those years you stole from her. Very selfish. Sorry. It’s not all about you. I’m sorry you couldn’t be honest with the world. but why stay with a woman Nd mess up her life. You didn’t even care about her reaction! She is a saint!!! You owe her a lot.
@MN-pz2op
2 жыл бұрын
You should do an update, I'm 20 and I'm thinking about starting to experiment my sexuality, I knew I was gay about a year ago but I constantly think about the suffering Many grown (born in the 80's and 90's) homosexual men had to go through I hope you're doing well and I wish you the best, you're a gorgeous man and I hope your life gets better☺️❤️ and I'm expecting you to do an update💓💓☺️
@spiralx6249
3 жыл бұрын
That was 2011. Ten years ago, almost to the day (this is being written 27 Sept). So... 35, now, and I hope the last decade has been a good one for you. Good on you for putting your story so calmly and clearly out there, though it was obviously not easy to do.
@josephlesniak4289
3 жыл бұрын
Great story, Glad you came out instead of living a lie. Wish you all the best with your new man.
@Petlover10000
3 жыл бұрын
You are cute and should have no problem to look for another half.
@jeffvannguy8601
3 жыл бұрын
You are very cute ☺️
@korisx
3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love
@dannyphilbrook7669
3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful
@jeffwatkins352
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, the pain you suffered. It's so wrong. But you emerged from it a much better person. More than a decade later, I can only hope you're happier and healthier than ever.
@melvinwilliams4332
3 жыл бұрын
u so cute
@learningtoyoutube9033
3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@gretzfigueroa8664
3 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm here watching
@sharjjahnaziz4122
3 жыл бұрын
Dam he is handsome. Love the mustache
@williaml5084
3 жыл бұрын
awesome
@ryancelpelo7367
3 жыл бұрын
I love you dude
@riccardo50001
3 жыл бұрын
And how are you doing today?
@daveemery12
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are happy now
@eddiegardner8232
3 жыл бұрын
This video helped me come out 6 years ago, after being married for 26 years. I had always looked at handsome and particularly lean muscular men with envy, wishing I looked like them. It didn’t hit me at the time that it meant that I was physically attracted to them. As I grew older, and never dated women, it eventually became obvious to me that if I wanted to have a family, the clock was ticking down. I married someone who was in love with me and convinced myself that if I reciprocated that love, we could have a life together, which we did. The fascination with other handsome men never left me, i just suppressed it, never engaging with any other man. As we grew less and less close after our child left home, I became more and more disappointed in my life, and considered ending it prematurely. This lead me to try to understand better what I had felt all my life. I went to Pride events, joined a local group of older gay men who met once a month, read a lot of books, and watched a ton of these kind of videos. I learned that many of these other men, some of whom had been married and later came out as gay, had had the same feelings I had when they were young, but also had no role models, no other visible gay men around them, and a hostile dogmatic religious anti-gay environment around them that provided no support and some legal and many social and employment sanctions for any men who were visible as gay. We all stayed silent, unaware of what how we felt meant in terms of how we should be allowed to live our lives honestly in relationships with each other. At age 69, I had the most painful talk of my life with my wife, and told her that I thought I was either male oriented bisexual, or completely gay. It was a sad day for both of us, providing no joy of coming out for me, and copious tears for her as I disassembled her planned life in retirement and old age. No, it wasn’t fair to her, and wasn’t really much of a relief for me, but I had to do it or die in despair. We amicably divorced, split our assets 50/50, I bought her a house on 2 acres, which she wanted to have a garden, and I stayed in our old house for a while. By a rare chance of fate, I met someone half my age who is attracted to older men. We have been together for six years, and are planning on being married when the Covid crisis is over and can get our friends together. He is going to medical school now at age 36, and we live together as husband and husband. We know he will likely outlive me, and we both accept that, but life is lived in the moment, and at this moment we are both happy and in love with each other. My daughter and former wife accept him, and we all get along together when we can, and communicate via computer when we can’t. It does eventually get better, when you do what is necessary to make it happen. I hope you have been able to find your life mate, Mike, and thank you for helping me find mine.
@jamesgavigan4179
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing. Very well done. I hope you both will always be happy
@oceanwonders
Жыл бұрын
Incredible story. Glad you found your truth and shared it.
@udocostantini9704
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure why he calls his story disjointed. I found it very straightforward and well narrated.
@sxa1313
3 жыл бұрын
You are very handsome.
@JayJayChannel
4 жыл бұрын
😍😍🙈🙈
@mike35273527
4 жыл бұрын
very handsome and great head on your shoulders. I'm sure you've had an amazing life since. Thanks for helping all the others.
@driverain2
4 жыл бұрын
So she married a bottom boy.......... I'm gay, so stfu !
@robbieanson1218
4 жыл бұрын
I think that you should know having kids is not a trap at all it’s a blessing just like for relationships with people what’s wrong with that? Just keep searching for yourself And you’ll find that someone for you it doesn’t matter who your with as long as you have that someone with you traveling the same way as you are. I want you to know that’s not a trap it’s a blessing to have children if you don’t want to have kids that’s your choice about Those of us that is straight do we deserve to have girlfriends then have wives don’t have children overall it was a corner trap because it’s not a trap you see it being negative and it’s not negative at all I just hope they specify what you mean by that statement
@nivrrtakr2891
4 жыл бұрын
Better do an update video if you want😅😂😉😉
@markc8070
4 жыл бұрын
wow
@JL-re1rx
4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations and thanks for sharing. FWIW, it’s “she and I”’not “her and I.”
@kenzocohen4308
4 жыл бұрын
how are you these days?
@Paulic64
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story.
@terrencepeterritchie3632
4 жыл бұрын
Brave. God bless. Lucky with your girlfriend - 7 years... and counting!
@gdeec
4 жыл бұрын
Abused and bullied throughout school. Here is a link to my book and story. Thanks. www.amazon.com/Coloured-Full-Flight-Part-fight-ebook/dp/B0811G19WH/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=a+coloured+in+full+flight&qid=1588548356&sr=8-1
@keveminson5098
4 жыл бұрын
You are very good looking , and a sexy hot gay man .
@jamesrobinson2175
4 жыл бұрын
I think you're great whatever your name is! I'd love to meet you physically whatever your name is!!!
@juanvelez8564
4 жыл бұрын
If you have had problems for religious/cultural reasons, read “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological basis of religious beliefs: neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html
@shaynelandon
4 жыл бұрын
It still shocks me when I hear someone say they're from Buffalo 🤯🤯 I moved from there in 1984.
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