True. It's about inconsistency, are we trustworthy? Inconsistency patterns, behaviour are naturally visible when we stay under one roof. No rocket science. Deceiving is not possible, our actions speak for our intentions. And if we say anything our actions are contrast to it then It's clearly visible. We can't manipulate.
@drcidd8153
3 күн бұрын
It means she's a child he grew old but never grew up.
Hahaha! One of the comments said something about toilet seat being left up, my wonder is why don't women make sure the seat is down? It's just common sense to check, never understood the issue, must everything in the house be geared or wired for their pleasure! A lot of very hard working men are slaving hours to pay for a place to sleep, shower, shave and s#!t! Men need a break!
@donwon5917
10 күн бұрын
I've watched so many of these videos and what they normally boil down to is that man have to move the world just to be able to make his wife happy. But there seems to be no pressure on the woman to have to do anything because we're all just evil men.
@justkenzie
11 күн бұрын
There is a lot to be said about a man who "takes an extra minute" as you say, especially if you have a stay-at-home wife with every single household chore and childcare on her shoulders. Yes, it primarily our role to wash your clothes and dishes and floors and bedding, cook your meals, make your lunch for work, keep the fridge stocked, etc... but if we're cleaning up after you like we're "momming" an adolescent, we WILL be less into you because we're using so much energy on things you take for granted. We'll see you as more of a child than a grown-ass man.
@justkenzie
11 күн бұрын
One MAJOR problem is women not understanding their own hormone cycles, and men not caring to understand...
@jmiller1977
13 күн бұрын
Yeah sounds good , but I can’t do that because I never was in love with my wife . I can’t even or ever have been able to use any term of endearment , I hate it but I can’t or never could give her what she wanted , she ran after me and chased me till I was in a bad spot and married her , thinking I was fine even if I was never that happy in a relationship And saftey and trust like he says is irrelivant I tell her I’ll try my best to be better , and she makes no effort because it’s my fault I don’t watch tv with her , I want to but I get so bored .. I’m the most fucked up of anyone
@ThreeSkullOrthodox
17 күн бұрын
The main problem is that men approach marriage like it’s an equal partnership. In reality, men need to understand that all women are retarded narcissists. All their problems are your responsibility to solve. All of your problems are ammunition they will use against you in order to assert dominance. Men, you need to understand that your mother is the only female who has ever or will ever regard you with anything resembling affection, and your wife is never going to be your mother.
@doibantikov2486
18 күн бұрын
This is one of the most terrifying comments sections I've seen in my entire life. Bitter ass men everywhere. No wonder your wives hate you.
@BelynHergenreter
20 күн бұрын
To be honest. Her happiness is her sole responsibility. Destroying a covenent that you made with God isnt something you just throw away cause of your dumb feelings...😬
@Rainer125
21 күн бұрын
Women want 3 things, something better, more and something else. Women are literally never happy. If the situation is absolutely ideally perfect women will create artificial problems and drama out of the blue.
@Star-dj1kw
21 күн бұрын
✅ good video
@WholesomeDating
22 күн бұрын
I mostly agree here, but the problem is that there IS an objective standard of wants and needs. If she loses safe and trust over a mug not being in the sink then that is completely unfair, and especially if those wants and needs butt heads. Seems like this video is pushing an "only women's feelings matter" idea. Both people matter in a relationship, compromise is the goal and reality is the standard.
@amcleanYT
23 күн бұрын
This video doesn't address the fact that its overwhelmingly women who are unhappy/dissatisfied in long term relationships. It's not a general dynamic its a female dynamic.
@NickLuRodriguez-1998
23 күн бұрын
That's so true 🎉
@HmongCrypto
25 күн бұрын
As much as I appreciate this, I would like a woman to do something like this and talk about it cuz......in all respects......a woman, well, they are different from a guy.
@FaithLast-Medeiros
28 күн бұрын
Spot on! Ruined my 40 year marriage 😮
@jamescorsey6041
29 күн бұрын
Im always defending myself always walking on egg shells I need to just leave
@FL-Man78
Ай бұрын
You want to be happy bitch? Sit on an egg and rotate
@LastRebel1978
Ай бұрын
Rolls reversed in my world since women took over. Now it’s whatever the woman thinks is fine even when they’re drowning. Far be it from a man to be the one bringing up the issue. We’re just a possession for a little girl with fantasies. You know kinda like a doll you can make do whatever you want to no matter how it serves the whole family. Spend all the money chase pleasure and blame others for unhappiness and stress.
@ronsteinhilber3545
Ай бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear this tonight.
@AverageAufa
Ай бұрын
The number of men here who I’m so glad are single omg. Please don’t ever talk to women, your mentality is disgusting. I 100% resonate with this video.
@Dungeonofman
Ай бұрын
Don’t ever try to make a women happy Focus on your peace!!!!!
@veronicablack3976
Ай бұрын
Wow! You really hit the nail on the head! You won a subscriber and a like.
@JayToday007
Ай бұрын
I’m going through depression,
@JayToday007
Ай бұрын
Thanks
@tball7027
Ай бұрын
Every relationship is different just like our fingerprints ,there could never be any set rules or ideas to suit anybody it’s what we only can put up with for how long a relationship lasts
@ozanguc
Ай бұрын
Who is going to tell him? 😅
@Billy-the-Kid
Ай бұрын
There is no such thing as a happy woman. They are all born sort of unhappy. It's because it's never enough for them, a build in standard flaw. Generally in combination with nagging & complaining.
@digitalizeddeath
Ай бұрын
I had similar issues. Was married for 12 years to an amazing woman i took for granted. She was an amazing woman. There was also two different versions of myself in the marriage. There was me before i went to war in iraq and the me after i got back home from the military. Years later, 5 removed to be exact. I can now see what made thing sour and go bad. But also seeing that my brain wasnt working properly. I needed help that i was to afraid to get. IIts a shame, because ive healed so much that now im back and in life everyday. I did meet somone else who is just as good of a woman as shhe was and better on alot of levels. But ill always remember her and the years we shared. It was I who made the foundation unsteady and the fabric of safety start to wither in our mariage. She tried until she just gave up. To any fellow veterans out there. Get help. Dont be stupid. fix it now. I got lucky. Not only is my ex my friend, I now have a new best friend who is even more on my level then she was. Ear regardles of this they are both amazing women, and im a better man for sharing life with them.
@ABC-rg4li
Ай бұрын
My mom was this way, but the women friends in my life are not. We are stuck with the men who arent providing, yet refuse to help with the house and kids and choose to game after their jobs, yet when we come home from work. We do all the work of stay at home moms. We absolutely would be happy if we had an actual PARTNER to tackle life together.
@taratruthful
Ай бұрын
God. we need God. men and women who genuinely walk with the Lord will consistently auto correct to please the Lord and partner and fulfill our duties. Mincing roles is a death scentence and its the demise of modern relationships. God bless you all❤
@brucezoe7935
Ай бұрын
No matter what we do men will never be good enough I've tried this and it work temporarily
@WeekzGod
Ай бұрын
I’m gonna try this for 3 months. We’ll see how it goes.
@dmk2960
Ай бұрын
Just listening and following through on promises will pay dividends in any relationship.
@paulsweet4640
Ай бұрын
im writing this before i hear what the problem is I am betting the farm he will be blame the man
@HurricaneIrene07
Ай бұрын
Good stuff.
@mikehansen7103
Ай бұрын
Here are 5 things I've learned in over 50 years of being with (many) women. 1) They don't think like we do. Logic, reason and objective reality are tossed to the curb leaving only emotion. 2) They are frequently incongruous and/or inconsistent. They will complain/piss/moan about a subject and within mere minutes be whole-heartedly involved in that very subject. Example: Worrying about such-and-such food being "unhealthy" for you BUT five minutes later downing a quart of ice cream. 3) The fact they know nothing about a subject never stops them from expressing an opinion. Example: One sub-zero night the furnace stopped working. Being an engineer, I removed the furnace control board and noticed a cold solder joint on a connection to the fan motor relay. As I was applying solder to fix the problem my ex kept prattling "Are you sure this is going to fix it? It doesn't look like it's going to work! Why are you putting that solder all over the place?" To which I replied; "Fix it? Nah, I've actually gone insane and thought that I would spend my last hours before hypothermia sets in by putting random globs of solder on a pc board". That stymied her long enough for me to re-install the repaired pcb and get the furnace running again. BUT she STILL wasn't satisfied - despite me telling her of the bad solder joint and seeing me repair it she asked "How did you get it working?" - to which I replied "I recalibrated the Framingham modulator" - of course there is no such thing as a Framingham modulator but at least it shut her up. 4) Women have strange, even bizarre beliefs when it comes to home appliances and fixtures. Example: My ex would flush used tampons down the toilet despite the box stating clearly DO NOT FLUSH. As a result, the local Roto-Rooter guy and I were on a first name basis - for $250 a pop he'd show me the cutter head complete with a tangle of soiled tampons. 5) Women claim super-sensitive senses. One gal pal claimed that she didn't like "the stench of eggshells" to which I replied "empty eggshells? Really? You can smell and eggshell?" So to test that hypothesis I secretly placed a saucer with 4 egg shells under her bed near the headboard - never ONCE in over a year did she claim to be offended by the "stench" that was no more than 24 inches from her noggin - not once! (However, most women do have better hearing than we males, just to be fair)
@rotatopoti
Ай бұрын
or shes an idiot. one of the two.
@icnothing4899
Ай бұрын
I see why she left you.. Stop blaming yourself
@markbn2883
Ай бұрын
I’m 68 years old and i have been married 50 years and I’ll be glad when I die to get away from my wife
@Billy-the-Kid
Ай бұрын
That's why it's called Rest In Peace.
@mikeolly67
Ай бұрын
I’m convinced nothing can fix my marriage. 12 years ago I got together with my (now) wife. She was beautiful, sexy, fiesty, independent. Everything I found attractive in a woman. I was 45 at the time and never been married, I was a happy player , but for the first time, i knew I wanted to get married , she was everything I needed. Our sex life was outstanding, she was my soul mate, my best friend, I got on with all her three children and I was proud to become their step father the day their mum and I married. 3 years ago my step son was killed in a motorcycle accident. I’ve tried to support my wife, but absolutely nothing I do is good enough, I feel unloved and unappreciated, we never laugh anymore, I think she just hates the world (me included) . I know she won’t cope without me, but today I told her I was leaving. I don’t think she is capable of being happy anymore, she’s mostly angry and I just know I’ve got to get out or my mental health won’t deal with it anymore. I’m devastated feeling like I’m quitting on the marriage, worrying how she’ll cope, feeling selfish for putting my feelings before hers , but I know if I don’t leave now, I’ll never be happy again. Our marriage is now toxic, she tries to control me, constantly criticises me, and gas lights me.
@Billy-the-Kid
Ай бұрын
She's probably very hurt, sad and traumatized but puts it on you.
@jeffreyhill4705
Ай бұрын
I am having the opposite problem. The Maslow hierarchy of needs really explains what is going on in my marriage. My wife has at least three violent relatives that could be dangerous to our children, one has even threatened me. That one could not realistically harm me at the time, but now has spent some time in the state pen on gun charges. I have compromised almost always. Now a fourth family member and a unknown now deceased family member are pedophiles. My wife wants our daughter to have a relationship with the pedophile. Family trumps morality in her world. If I stay, the relationship is a nightmare, if I leave my daughter is at risk, I think I have enough to be the custodian parent. My lawyer says we can add no contact clauses to the custody agreement. There will be more than one family member on that no contact list. I know she will break the agreement, and lose all custody. Can I prove that? That will destroy her relationships with our daughters. Her mom also destroyed her relationships with her children. This is total madness. I did start this relationship thinking I could save her from her family. Don’t do that kids, don’t follow my example. Wounded children grow up to be narcissistic.
@Billy-the-Kid
Ай бұрын
Wow you picked a good wife...
@rickjeffjeff
Ай бұрын
She is living in the flesh.She don't know God.
@BruceBerry-g4b
Ай бұрын
When I was a 13 year old boy listening to my mother constantly complain about my father, even though he always worked, always gave us a home, food and clothes, I just got sick of it. She was complaining about some carpentry task, she didn't work so she had all day every day to do what ever and she had the help of two strong boys. I handed her the hammer and told her "Stop, just do it yourself". She was dumbfounded, I had called her out on her Bullshit. The total tell was after my old man died. My older sister took care of her, my mother turned on my sister. A man gets humbled instantly by other men in the real world. Women are never held accountable until the sex is dead. Once sex is off the table then and only then are women told the hard facts. Women instantly run to a man who will bite his tongue. I have always had very good platonic relationships with women. And every time without exception these women say: I could have made that relationship work. Even though these women are good friends they are exactly like my mother. The man carries the hard burdens, women start to think getting resources is as easy as lying down on a bed. Women compete for status with each other, who has the nicer house, the best vacation, etc... Female status competition is what make Facebook work. Guys don't give a crap what the other guy has unless he is invited to go drink beer on the other guy's yacht. Women seeth with jealosy all day long. So foolish women get trapped in the sex entitlement trap. They want more, the jealosy eats them up from the inside so they make dumb decisions, they make themselves miserable, all because they don't stop about being "Grateful". Man or woman practicing Gratefulness is the key to all internal success and relationships.
@gossamersplendor8134
Ай бұрын
wow ! this is so good
@talus007
Ай бұрын
“My wife is unhappy no matter what I do” isn’t a problem. It’s a definition; of having a wife. We warn these single guys until we are blue in the face and they just don’t believe us
@AJ-ml3kc
Ай бұрын
I loved your book. It made so much sense and was an eye opener for me. My husband rolled his eyes.
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