Pray for her to be happy. I'm glad he said that. It's the hardest thing to do, that's why it's so powerful if you can do it. It kills the victim mindset as well
@mulanomula
9 күн бұрын
I think most people have problem of thinking they are nothing without a girl, but you need to realise that you were something before her and you'll be something after her. You have to be enough for you, not for anyone else - once you realise that it'll be smooth sailing.
@baileybroton4800
11 күн бұрын
Damn I needed this episode.
@tipoftheiceberg7034
29 күн бұрын
This girl honestly the second she met some new dick she just abandoned him
@laurahome1588
Ай бұрын
🎉
@dominickwarren523
Ай бұрын
I am so convinced that the only person I have is myself....
@elfonashelf3918
Ай бұрын
Dealing with my wife who has been cheating for 6 months and i just went to a race today and saw her and her boyfriend while last night we talked about trust. Im still shaking as i write this and even 4 years after making this video your still helping guys like me try to find some sort of reason to keep on. Thank you man, never felt dark this dark before
@earmsyify
Ай бұрын
I’m truly sorry to hear this and I hope you’re able to push forward through this.
@Lemoncare
Ай бұрын
If what you say is so, be kind, let her go, wish her well. You can move on. Heart break is a lesson. Let her go like a gentleman.
@elfonashelf3918
Ай бұрын
@@Lemoncare thank you, im trying its just so hard to use respect when its constant lying but the beauty in seeing it with my own eyes is i can finally let her go. I wanted so bad to make it work and it helped so much to realize its pointless. Im trying to see this as a restart but i still feel empty when i sleep at the same time. Thank you for your response i know i said more than i should on a video reply haha but strangers help the most!
@elfonashelf3918
Ай бұрын
@@earmsyify thank you so much, im trying and its getting better moment by moment. I have friends staying with me to keep a eye on my judgment calls if you know what i mean haha i cant explain how much i appreciate your response as well, you have no idea how uplifting it is
@Lemoncare
Ай бұрын
@@elfonashelf3918 I’m really sorry that you were betrayed. I had that happen to me. Husband moved a woman in to his studio, I said I was going to the grocery store and I walked out and never went back. I never remarried one time hurt to the core. It’s really painful. Hurts life hell. You deserve better. Just remember you deserve better than that. He divorced me by mail! I still can’t think to hard about it or I cry. There is a channel called, reflections of life, on KZitem. There is story called, what is love. It’s very precious. I wish you love. You deserve better. Be kind to yourself.
@hisnameskoda
Ай бұрын
this hit !
@braindisorder5043
Ай бұрын
I would happily die like day after if i could talk with theo and drink beers and smoke some pot.
@_noname2032
Ай бұрын
Exactly me
@BlessedBlandon
Ай бұрын
Theo has that side to him where he gets real and it throws you off because how funny how is. Theo is as real as it gets and he deserves his flowers.
@mjg24
Ай бұрын
4:54 ❤️
@ItsleeBoy
Ай бұрын
You could hear little bro pain/hurt in his voice. Hope he alright today.
@danielhol9257
2 ай бұрын
Iv never related to a celebrity more than this man, I don’t even like his stand up but I love his podcast and who he is
@krillansavillan
2 ай бұрын
I am also dealing with losing someone i spent a third of my life with. It's been a year and half and all I do is work and workout. Just kinda existing, no thrill in life. I feel like I'll be alone forever because what's the point if it can be ripped away from you. Very isolating in deed.
@captainmiller2416
2 ай бұрын
I’m sorry bro. You’ll get through it man.
@krillansavillan
2 ай бұрын
@@captainmiller2416 thanks homie, always good to get that reminder
@Mongoose___
Ай бұрын
im with you in literally the same exact boat, im 19 and november of 2022 i found out she had been cheating on me and i have thought about it every day since then. we got to believe that it gets better and we have to realize what we did wrong and just improve. i dont know you but i love you brother and we are in this together
@Jaims9186
2 ай бұрын
Bro im in a family with 2 kids and feel this.
@briceparks8428
2 ай бұрын
I love Theo
@databased7812
2 ай бұрын
I wish I saw this video 12 days ago. Just lost someone I love because my foolish behavior. At least it found me now.
@xbrandonnnnnx
2 ай бұрын
Theo Von and Duncan Trussell have given me so much sage advice. To think this is for free is insane. Thank yall so much fr ❤️
@luisrebeles9033
2 ай бұрын
3:12
@rickyewing3318
3 ай бұрын
Theo feels like a real person when I hear him speak.
@abduallahaljohani1975
3 ай бұрын
6:28 it hits hard
@Ls3Papi_C1
3 ай бұрын
What episode was this ?
@user-mu8fp9eu2k
3 ай бұрын
I seen a video of you talking deep. And I was down and pissed off. Now I'm in tears of laughter it's hurting my face . Theo is the fucking man broes!
@Lucas-pv2wn
3 ай бұрын
I just broke down…. Had a 2 hour convo with my wife about my less than ideal upbringing…. Thanks, man.
@jameswilling8131
3 ай бұрын
He who fights monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you. -- Nietzsche
@premiumrolo9483
3 ай бұрын
Right now I’m going thru it, like a breakup, and this video really helped me out a lot, I saw it on an edit on reels and I had to find it, and I’m glad I did, I’m going thru a similar time man, 4 years all of highschool, not even down the drain but just suddenly stopped, this video helped me rethink things, thanks whoever reposted this 🙏
@janiceg7661
3 ай бұрын
I struggle with hyper independence issues too. Grew up in a home where i was basically on my own by 7 and out of the house 17. I never ask for help. I don't like feeling needy or vulnerable. I also hate to be embarrassed and i embarrass easily.
@franzeck8003
3 ай бұрын
"You gonna have other chances with her. its gonna be hard you have to stay busy, your mind is gonna be your worst enemy if you really start to miss her"
@jodiburnett6211
3 ай бұрын
Theo is our Bro. ❤️🤙🏼
@popomomo12
4 ай бұрын
I keep seeing these love on the spectrum shorts have to keep coming back to watch this
@JasonTaylor90210
4 ай бұрын
We're all selfish animals.
@darraghmooneymusic3420
4 ай бұрын
Theo you are a legend
@inspiringmedia3716
4 ай бұрын
Wtf did he start talking about at 2:30 😂😂
@Noahwohlsen
4 ай бұрын
Theo is special man. This video is something I always come back to when those lonely and heartache feelings creep up on me. The man knows how to ease your mind and make the problems in your life not feel so big. Much love, gang gang
@user-kr3md4bj5o
4 ай бұрын
You will when the time is right! Give yourself a chance
@rubar1025
4 ай бұрын
He should be a drug counselor.
@rubar1025
4 ай бұрын
but you're not fkn weak! It's this stupid ass stigma that we get labeled.
@mikemyers5727
4 ай бұрын
Love you brother
@linxlatham47
4 ай бұрын
what great advice, I hope it helped him
@sebbenforte
5 ай бұрын
One thing Theo doesn't say here is this: If she has helped you out and is ready to move on, thank her and send her on her way before she starts to resent you. Like Theo said, if you do you may have another chance with her later in life. If you don't, things can get really dark between you.
@hanzomain9991
5 ай бұрын
been 2 months and vday is in 2 days. I miss her man
@sonwabisedzidzi
4 ай бұрын
Same brother. Soldiering on
@GrammarMil
5 ай бұрын
Amazing one. It’s arts how he tells the story from he’s feeling weak to ask for help and never telling no one that he’s scared to he’s BRAVE to open up because it’s terrifying. Strong one. The way he does it makes you be so in it with him. Like we’re in the process of finding himself in this with him and find ourselves. Thank you Theo!!! 🫶🏽
@brad5462
5 ай бұрын
Anyone if you ever feel down, I'm here
@KBeth35
5 ай бұрын
I saw someone comment that Theo is shallow and deep at the same time. He went from mexican coochie to i dont want to need anyone bc I did one time and they didn't do it. Theo is real.
@dallassunderland
5 ай бұрын
Such solid advice. People are going to want to grow, and if they feel that they can’t grow in the ways they want to WITH you they’ll cut the cord. I think there’s always a chance, I think you can always work things out if you’re truly willing to try and you genuinely love the person so I hope the caller sorted things out.
@PNW_Hunters_shorts
5 ай бұрын
Theo “I’m listening, on word” 😂
@BigKO89
5 ай бұрын
I’m happy to be here
@DforDawg99
5 ай бұрын
I swear when Theo goes deep he goes DEEP. I first heard this when I was basically in the same situation and it really helped me through it. Bless you for the advice Theo and hope that kid is happy now
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