What connected with you from our talk on self-trust?
@jdfirewalker
3 жыл бұрын
#6 Discounting my own value, #8 Downplaying my own Successes, and almost all the others. Except for #13. I keep a lot of the promises I make to myself. Thanks for the video really hit home.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
@@jdfirewalker really glad it helped, and glad you're here.
@alexandragill3207
3 жыл бұрын
Have a hard time making decisions. I don’t respect my own needs and wants. I discount my own value. I beat myself up. I downplay my successes. I over think what the right thing to say, to do, and to be. I replay the things I’ve said or another person said..I try to control everything around me. I’m really hard on myself. I break promises to myself. I believe in other peoples opinions more than my own.
@stephanimok1424
3 жыл бұрын
I bought your Building self trust work book and I have blogged about how great it is
@christismith8052
3 жыл бұрын
Having to control others 😔 - I love your channel, Julia! 🥰 such great insight....I realize I don’t trust myself, because I didn’t leave my abusive marriage when I should have...but I didn’t realize that me being controlling in my new, beautiful relationship was because I didn’t trust myself to take care of ME...so I needed to make sure my wonderful man did a perfect job of taking care of ME...that was so eye opening when you said that...I need to learn to trust that even if all the world abandons me, I will not abandon myself....thank you so much for this! 😇
@TouchofShunshine
3 жыл бұрын
The increase in self-love has given me many things: 1. I am able to love others even when they don't deserve it. 2.I have an increased ability to forgive others. 3. I am naturally a better person. 4. I am not hurt as much by what others think of me. 5. I am more adventurous. 6. I think I look good. I don't have to look like a model to be attractive. 7. I am able to forgive myself for mistakes and move on.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful an 100% truth.
@paula-elizabeth
3 жыл бұрын
👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽💫
@leeclarke8993
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to be hearing from you. I need this.
@richardsmith5131
3 жыл бұрын
That is so cool. I hope I can say something similar about my progress one day. Inspiring! 👍🏼
@davidwhitcher1708
2 жыл бұрын
Why do you want to love the undeserving?
@pilarsilva1246
3 жыл бұрын
The hard truth and what hit me the most is that I believe what others opinion about me more than I believe in myself. It made my head spin bc that’s exactly what I have done most of my life and that not fair to me. I have try to work thru the crap ppl said about me and making myself more worthy to be loved. However ppl are hard to please. I’ve given up at times thinking is not goi g to get better and I have to focus on myself. I have to work on trusting myself more!
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
here to support you along the way.
@pauladuncanadams1750
3 жыл бұрын
As an instructional assistant at a community college, my very first day, I had to explain to someone that they deserve to be in the classroom. "I don't know why your father said those things to you (lack intelligence) but you are here, you're doing it, so you are worthy. Whatever reason he said that, it's his problem, not yours."
@SurajRaj-ji5ev
3 жыл бұрын
Permission from others for our own decision making....
@skywalker847
3 жыл бұрын
I feel intense fear that stops me from taking action and I miss the opportunity.
@markdrummond6859
3 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart that i can relate to all of these. I don't trust myself. Especially the ones about over analyzing everything i write, or message.
@andreac647
3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@cessl.1409
3 жыл бұрын
I am beginning to Trust myself more and more each day💖 in my family life, my career and my personal goals‼️
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Standing up and cheering. GOOD for you.
@aditighosh4926
3 жыл бұрын
For me, it is certainly the value I place on other people’s opinion on me more than the value I place on myself. Even those who hardly know me and who are quick to judge on the basis of practically nothing. It’s a killer for me. I am slowly getting better at recognising it and trying to question my feelings around this.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
This is great Aditi - keep it up!
@michellehodgson444
3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I can relate to all of these. Thank you for bringing this to my attention! 🙂
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped bring some insight Michelle.
@LuxCrystAlli
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@melissadavadilla4944
2 жыл бұрын
I super love this video, taught me a lot! These are the things that resonated to me most: 1. Hard time making decisions 2. No problem breaking promises for yourself 3. Pass off decisions to others Will need to work on trusting myself more. Thank you so much for this, very helpful!
@ljnormanhot
3 жыл бұрын
I want to trust myself without deceiving myself. I really fear self deception knowing I'm my own worst enemy. I really like this video and find it very helpful. Thank you Julia K.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Time to be your own best friend Jerr. You deserve that from you.
@ushamgr4588
3 жыл бұрын
How to get over fear?
@yourfavegirl2345
Жыл бұрын
You cannot have good self-esteem without self trust. If there is no trust, it’s hard to have a healthy relationship. Signs you don’t trust yourself : 1. Have a hard time making decisions. 2. You don’t acknowledge your own wants and needs. 3. You don’t let yourself process your feelings. 4. You second guess yourself often. 5. You don’t believe in your inherent worth. 6. You discount your own value. 7. You beat yourself up for your mistakes. 8. You downplay your success. 9. You often overthink what the right thing is to do. 10. You overly ruminate what you said or did. 11. You try too much to control your environment. 12. You’re really hard on yourself( shoulds). 13. You have no problem breaking promises to yourself. 14. You pass off decisions to other people most of the time. 15. You believe that other people’s opinion of you is more important than your own.
@shaymay2892
Жыл бұрын
Thanks! Was looking for the list. Would clicked right passed it if I hadn't pressed 'click more'.
@SFLady88
3 жыл бұрын
Preach Julia!!!! I felt like you were speaking directly to me!! Pure gold here! Thank you Julia! You are truly changing the world! 🌎 we 💗 you!
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Rita, you are so kind. I truly do love you all too, and I'm so glad this connected.
@mariefairbanks5477
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Kingdom Blessings 03/08/23
@veronicabruce2078
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, love thyself, trust thyself. Holding back from opening your mouth is self-trust as you are building patience, tolerance & wisdom. Your self-compassion is growing & your cup is so full this compassion spills over to the person (people) who is hurting so much while their mouth is spewing obscenities. Dampen your senses a moment, calm your ears, eyes, brain to pass judgment as you know there are vast possibilities of the outcome. Your compassion will then give you an inner vision of this person's suffering & soon you see their reaction from their point of view. We all struggle and we are all perfectly imperfect. Hafiz said, "I am made whole by your life. Each soul, each soul completes me." Welcome all the thoughts & emotions of your life as well as those of others and watch your Love & Light carry you in Peace & Calmness (Rumi).
@nicolerowe5304
3 жыл бұрын
I have all 15 points..I really struggle to trust myself. Love to pass on decisions to others. But the fact that you said "what if I am still not to blame, even if I made the wrong decision" is such an eye opener for me. Because I would usually blame and beat myself up.
@admirbarucija2018
3 жыл бұрын
I have a very uneven habit of trusting myself because it largely depends on the situation I’m in! For example, with school-related things, I generally know I’ll be fine. I hope you’re having a great day ❤️
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Where do you want to build your self-trust?
@admirbarucija2018
3 жыл бұрын
@@juliakristinamah I want to start by being more independent and also learn to better forgive others and not have such high expectations of those around me! Another area regarding self-trust I know I need to do better in involves trying certain things rather than making excuses about why it won’t turn out well
@nancybartram3515
3 жыл бұрын
Most of these I could resonate with --- what I found most helpful was to realize (from your talk), that the way to healing these is when life goes awry (not if, but when b/c it always does) then it is up to me to treat myself with the same kindness, respect, and understanding that I would a good friend. The distrust comes & even builds when I continue to criticize / beat myself up when life doesn't go as I had planned. My self trust will increase as I accept the situation without the accompanying voices in my head that tell me I am not good enough, a failure, etc Perhaps if I can stop the critical thoughts, the self trust will build.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Yes to this Nancy. Watching those thoughts and working on being kind and compassionate toward ourselves instead of critical is huge. We're doing a 14 day challenge on exactly this right now in The Shift Society and people are having breakthroughs just by not letting themselves be mean to themselves.
@annabrickstock
3 жыл бұрын
Just the video I needed, also congrats on 200k!!
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for noticing Anna!
@staceywaterford7617
3 жыл бұрын
Julia, you have helped me so much in the past 3 months. Been learning to set boundaries, love myself, heal, let go of relationships that are not good for me; and will eventually learn to trust men again... Thank you for your heart, and your videos. They help me so much. God bless you!
@brittani4225
3 жыл бұрын
I totally resonate with this!! The “perfectionist theme song” really called me out 😅
@yami2257
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing me clarity and understanding on the fact that I do not have self-trust and that I need it for myself. I resonate so much with Brene Brown, and I resonate so much with you. Working on my self-worth has been a constant struggle and its the ultimate means to an end for me. Thank you so much, this is helping me in ways that I thought never possible.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
good for YOU for showing up for yourself. That's everything.
@jotirandhawa3780
3 жыл бұрын
It was really difficult for me to explain what I was feeling and after watching this video I can completely understand myself better I can completely relate to this. Thank you so much after watching this i have more clarity. Wauw I'm finally able to believe what I am and how to improve myself. Thank you so much 🌹
@paula-elizabeth
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Joti, that’s Fantastic! - Well Done! 👍🏽✅✨
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad to hear it.
@erinmerriam7044
Жыл бұрын
I am working on not controlling others, and not seeking approval in my decision making. Trusting my own choices is huge for me!
@shahnazjahan6171
2 жыл бұрын
Ruminating and obsessing about my past mistakes, being hard on myself,beating up myself for past mistakes ,feeling stuck thinking what people are gonna say or think,yeah julia that's me
@lynnscorner6587
3 жыл бұрын
All of these really hit home for me -it’s amazing how we show up for others but not ourselves. I’m definitely working on it though. I needed to hear this -thank you so much for bringing this out. I am really thinking about getting on the waitlist for the shift society. This is the time that I have got to work on me and love myself and put me first.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
I'd love to have you in there Lynn. I wish I could explain how transformational The Shift Society is and how incredible the support from the other Shifters is - I know you'd love it.
@lynnscorner6587
3 жыл бұрын
@@juliakristinamah -I will put my email on the waiting list -Thank you for responding to me and thank you for your amazing content -it really does help me understand things better. 😊
@Swityie
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Julia. It opens up my eyes to how much I REALLY TRUST MYSELF.
@CassieWinter
3 жыл бұрын
Yup. Downplaying successes is a BIG one. Definitely guilty of this more often than I would like.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Time to appreciate you more, you think?
@CassieWinter
3 жыл бұрын
@@juliakristinamah Yes. Needed this today. Thanks for the encouragement. :)
@jonsalmon2352
Жыл бұрын
All of them except devaluation which isn't good but the rest them shows a lack of trust in myself. Thanks for the download 😊
@heatherflora3560
Жыл бұрын
I meet every single one of these. Holy crow! Thank you for this. 💞
@gloriariverosalgado3680
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Julia. I find very helpful your videos. I love them. And i feel very gratefull you put the subtitles for the people who English is our second language. Thanks so much!! 🤗
@galalon2417
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you julia kristina. Self Educational experience, for me. You install many good things , in me. You make me come to terms with myself. You make me a better person. Slowly it gets to me. While listening to you, i adopt your instructions, emulating it in my mind. Even just for the duration of this film, it feels good, it feels right. You make me feel better. You are the best thing that happened to me, on youtube. You are guiding me. It is a miracle, because it is very hard to get to me. No one gets to me. Your smile.
@change4me
3 жыл бұрын
Been binge watching your videos all day...they calm me down. Almost all of the points I could relate to in this one. Thank you so much for the content and I always look forward to when you post here or on Instagram. ❤️❤️
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Great to connect with you - thanks for watching.
@paula-elizabeth
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Julia, I used to not trust myself and I’m moving past this. Thank-you, your video really helped me see how far I’ve come and where I need more awareness. X👍🏽💫😃🌟🌈X
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad it connected - happy you're here.
@mimicutesu4635
3 жыл бұрын
im on a journey of self love after years of deep depression and you've been helping lots, thank you!
@fairybead
3 жыл бұрын
Almost all of the seigns I recognised, oh dear. Ik need to work on this since I am in a divorce right now and I will be together with myself in the future. So thank you Julia Kristina.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad you found it helpful Fairy.
@lamartrieschmann7384
2 жыл бұрын
Hi I love your stuff. Been a pastor for 27 years. Learning so much from you about myself and others. Thanks
@KaitlinsCovers
3 жыл бұрын
For sure I identify with all 15 of these
@robertmoskal5345
Жыл бұрын
All three : self - esteem, confidence and self - trust come from a positive sense of identity -they are reflections of how well we were nurtured as children. Not meeting child's needs for attachment, relational safety and basic physical well -being leads to complex trauma - we end up having a shame based, negative sense of identity which requires continuous reparenting. We need self -love, self -care and relational support to heal and that will restore self - trust.
@abdul2009
3 жыл бұрын
the decision making one was true for me. You said right when I was acting indecisively regarding a decision regarding my tea (explaining the choice would take too long). I noticed that the reason I wasn't making a particular choice - let's call it "Option A" instead of "Option B" - was because I thought that just because I think "A" is the choice to make doesn't mean that is the correct choice to make. I asked myself "for what reason do I think that?", and I found my answer to be "because I don't always make the choice that is correct/useful". But then I challenged that. And I came to realize that, since survival is the aim anyway - survival for us as a whole, including me as well as others - , that since I've made it this far and not died (and also not caused the destruction of the whole community of living things), that many choices I've made so far must've been the correct choice to make. So then the statement must be false; and what must instead be true is "I very often make the correct/useful choice"; and so "because I think Option A is the choice to make, it is very likely (if not certain in this case) that it truly is the choice to make". And so I did what I've labelled Option A. In other words, whatever thoughts we may think whilst we are acting in a way that is a sign of not trusting ourselves - challenging those thoughts can help. Oh and I appreciate the efforts you put in making this video. I've not finished it yet but I love it so far - I know I'll love it all ✌🏽
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Great insights.
@denysetorres5056
3 жыл бұрын
Which of these connected with me? Every single one. I learned something important. And I deserve better. Thank you for this video. It was very enlightening. I want to trust myself. I want to learn how to trust myself.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Glad it connected. Here's to your healthier, more loving relationship with you ❤️
@cocomikes
3 жыл бұрын
Thx, 3rd vid. and yer style draws out my need for restatement of truths you unveil so simply and solidly.
@bradenhaynes2907
3 жыл бұрын
This is so good. I have had major issues trusting myself because I have a Narcissistic mother who gaslight me in childhood & caused me to mistrust myself and everyone. I’m going to work on this. I’ve learned about inner child work, my codependency and anxious attachment style. This is so important to educate people about this. Thank you! 💕
@sacred_alchemy
2 жыл бұрын
Hi I’m Kelly and so glad you popped up! I need this type of help ♥️
@LILYMARIAOFFICIAL
3 жыл бұрын
I love it when you find a life changing channel on KZitem 🙏
@kathrynmacdonnell6224
3 жыл бұрын
This is excellent - particularly the trouble with decision making!
@nancymorgan3006
3 жыл бұрын
Wow Julia this video fits me to a T! everything you talked about is what I struggle with every day, I have learned some tools to use when I see myself reverting back to old unhealthy thinking, but when you've spent your whole life pretty much stuck in that crap, it's still a challenge for me to overcome. Your such a big help Julia, you bring things up just when I need to hear them thank you.
@michelleharris9992
Жыл бұрын
Self Trust is one I really need to work on
@silvanamartinez2208
3 жыл бұрын
Julia, I want to thank you 🙏 You have done so much for me. I wish schools would help out young children with self love, setting healthy boundaries and how to deal with trauma. It’s sad to see so many people with mental health issues... unfortunately ,there isn’t enough professional help provided or supported by our system. I’m astonished
@diederiksteenmeijer1615
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Kristina, eye-opener! One can take the 15 signs as a start... But yesterday to me it happened with a Lady... I can't continue with cause of these signs... Yes, I trust myself and everytime things happening in which selfreflection brings me back to my own worthy trusting myself.. You notice the other signs quicker at others... And.... Always have your few friends to reflect on on.
@robhansford6487
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Julia, I’m a subscriber from England. Just to say that I’m so pleased I found your channel. It makes all the difference to me and so helps me get through the tough times. Thank you so much.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Rob - welcome here.
@barryoneill1703
3 жыл бұрын
Christ Julia You hit every nail on the head, That really opened my mind to it, Bang on every point, It cost me dearly not really knowing this. I'm going g to digest this slowly Thank You.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Take your time. I"m glad it connected.
@stephanimok1424
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely know that I don't trust myself in a number of key areas
@yogigita
3 жыл бұрын
Practically all of them. It is difficult facing and addressing them.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
I hear you Hitesh. Be gentle with yourself, okay?
@australianindian7502
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Christina. This is Shak. Your usual listener. Love your work. Its growing on me
@happiedasie878
3 жыл бұрын
I am learning to Live and Trust Myself helpful advice.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Great for you!
@spirituallynak3d
2 жыл бұрын
Gratitude 🖤💜✨
@melyndafrazer1962
2 жыл бұрын
Julia, you are singing my life theme song, I don’t trust myself at all and it shows up EVERYWHERE! I am intentionally working on these, wow , I do all of these.
@melyndafrazer1962
2 жыл бұрын
These thoughts are my theme song esp at work creating soo much anxiety, esp being so hard on my self. I’m scared at work.
@bluBlaq33
3 жыл бұрын
Getting help has been incredibly difficult and this video gave me so much to be cognizant of that I can use with future therapy going forward. Very very very helpful.
@wendylock5507
3 жыл бұрын
What resonated with me was I don’t know how to process my feelings so I am living in constant fear of not trusting myself as I was brought up to believe I couldn’t do anything right so how can I possibly be any good when this is my core belief. Also that has made me feel I am not important because that’s how my parents (especially my mother) made me feel . so I’m scared of my feelings and myself and therefore afraid to admit I have needs or what those needs are just in case I can’t meet them .
@nicolelauderdale3919
11 ай бұрын
❤- you are wonderful . I wish I had a million dollars to help fund you. You are amazing at getting thru the tough stuff and helping your clients gain their “WHOLE SELF “ 1. I don’t process my feeling I people please I can’t make decisions. I used to be good at all of these things until I was in an abusive relationship. Now , I am still trying to gain “ self trust” even years later .
@raiderlove5923
3 жыл бұрын
This is something I struggle with as I was taught growing up that I was responsible for other people by whay I said and how I acted was a reflection on other people.
@Chris-tj4eo
Жыл бұрын
Hi Julia, all of these signs resonates. Some more than others, yet I am seeing from this how I had started to grow-up, lol, with the help of insights like yours, and other authors, teachers and counselling. ❤
@deannahamiltonwatkins4843
3 жыл бұрын
Almost all of these are true and it's very nice to know this. It helps me realize. Ty so much 🙂
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad it was helpful.
@iamsomeone8266
Жыл бұрын
not having much structure growing up i felt more responible to pick myself up, this could be why i feel like i vant trust myself because when other people feel like they dont think i am respobible, this makez me feel like i am not respobinle
@iamsomeone8266
Жыл бұрын
i wish i had struxture. I want structure, i need it in fact, because i feel like witout it, i can not do things. I sturggle with ita nd that could explain why i struggle with bingin and likeing the pain of being uncomfortably full, becayse this tells me that i am definately full. i just dont trust me, or my thoughts. i actually kinda hate it. I feel like a child
@iamsomeone8266
Жыл бұрын
mabye then because i feel like a child, i need help like children need help. Its not easy tbh
@erikalarsson
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@justanotherviewer00
Жыл бұрын
I'm here because I can't trust my partner. I'm here because I want to trust myself first before I can trust anyone else
@TheDessadess55
3 жыл бұрын
I love your advice!! Just watching this made me realize the solution to a problem I prayed about for so long!If I'd been confident my choice of what to do, I wouldn't have kept second guessing it. Thanks for your input! :)
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
So glad it connected Odessa.
@jaymedina7695
3 жыл бұрын
Dang Dr julia Christina thank you for your videos its a blessing.
@ethereal1257
3 жыл бұрын
It would be helpful to have a follow up of how to work on these same 15 signs.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Here's the guide that will show you exactly how to do that: courses.juliakristina.com/self-trust
@laurieleegauthier1753
3 жыл бұрын
Yep I want to commit to working on this one
@Sofia-bl9cb
3 жыл бұрын
this is exactly what i've realized lately.. it really is the center of all self confidence and self love, so i started slowly working on it. thanks for this video!
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. I'm really glad it connected.
@pamwatkins4855
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy your disastrous everyone I need to watch this everyday
@mysteek_1111
3 жыл бұрын
I am on a twinflame journey and one of the aspects I need to work on is trusting myself.
@colleenthompson9296
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! An awesome video. I felt you were talking to me personally!
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad it connected Colleen. What was one of your biggest takeaways?
@mervatgmansour
3 жыл бұрын
I am mervat. Thank you. I really count on you searching my self trust
@timothystone3726
2 жыл бұрын
I'm watching it now
@젠-r9x
3 жыл бұрын
Back again to watch you. I miss a lot.
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
welcome back!
@sandrajones2951
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my.. i so much identified with a lot of this.
@leileil3797
3 жыл бұрын
Hello my name is Leimomi. First time viewer 🥰
@izawaniek2568
3 жыл бұрын
We must trust ourselves no matter how many mistakes we make, if not, we fall prey to abusive people who deprive us of our ability to discern and we end up enslaved to group identity thinking thus losing our individuality and personal responsibility.
@moulaye7534
3 жыл бұрын
Now u have to do 15 signs u're confident 😂😂😂
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
lol - yes!
@gamingfirst01
3 жыл бұрын
it is so sad that i do all of these things but im gonna work on it .
@omayrasdemesne
3 жыл бұрын
OK. I had to laugh by "do I overthink what the right thing is to do?" So right on.
@lydiahill-expertineradicat657
2 жыл бұрын
Fascinating. All of them are so intertwined. You're lovely. Thank you so much! I'm interested in this society but do not see a link...?
@colettegilhooley6099
3 жыл бұрын
Not super good at decision making but thank you for your video
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Really glad it connected, and am glad you're here.
@elin_
3 жыл бұрын
Yah I can relate to all of this.
@jonsalmon2352
Жыл бұрын
Difficult time making a decision because I'll beat myself to a pulp if I fail or choose incorrectly
@sarahyip2825
Жыл бұрын
Too bad we have eyes 🕶️🦉 that only see everything and everyone else BUT NOT Oneself! We are blinded from seeing ourselves the way we see significant others. Therefore "I" or "me" isn't given the same significance and love. Any wonder why power or decision making or self-regard is given to others most of the time? So don't trust your eyes that only look outward. Always remember the one behind the eyes-you! You are your Likes and Dislikes. You are your Dreams and your Challenges. You are your Interests and Hobbies. Also own up to your Mistakes and Weaknesses-they are yours to work on. And no one can take Self Regard, Power, and Decision Making from you once your eyes see who you are and who you could be. Someone of Value and Worth with internal work to do. Take off the dark glasses ❤
@donnavivier9918
3 жыл бұрын
Hello! Back again as always Donna
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Always glad to have you Donna.
@SonicYogi
3 жыл бұрын
Great insights. Thank you!
@shahinansari6234
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@cindyneely50
3 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you 🙏
@tamaranesic4917
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@marinw2113
3 жыл бұрын
Yes I hate making decisions...
@fredabaayeh4133
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@MariaSantos-gm7ps
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Julia Kristina .
@yoramalon5273
3 жыл бұрын
If a person deliberately dosnt trust/petty other people , is it a sign that he doesnt trust himself? Thank you for this video.
@pallavi_narula
3 жыл бұрын
When we say that we second guess ourselves when making decisions because we are worried about how we are going to treat ourselves if we don't get the outcome. Does it have anything to do with how we were made feel by our parents or care takers about our decisions/ lack of mentoring/ shame on failure?
@juliakristinamah
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Often, we've unconsciously taken on their critical words of us as our own. We learned them - we were not born being critical of ourselves.
@psycheread3258
3 жыл бұрын
My mother called me lazy when I was a teenager and her self worth was wrapped up in how much she could accomplish in a day. I internalized many codependent behaviors like that everyone else's needs are more important than mine. I set some boundaries and I feel so much less overwhelmed!! These videos have been a lifesaver for me!! 💕
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