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@jan-pi-ala-suli
6 ай бұрын
2 likes? pinned comment? 5 months ago?
@kevinwilcox1835
3 жыл бұрын
Dad found my "gay stuff". He was angry (confused; scared; threatened?) Mum said to him if he can't accept it he'd lose a son. Good choice mum. Wise decision Dad. A person is (a lot) more than their sexuality.
@itz_cloudzyskye
2 жыл бұрын
Good one. I'm sorry to hear that your dad isn't very accepting. Everyone should be accepted. And as Matt said, the more people are homophobic, the more they struggle with their sexuality.
@youriallan1131
Жыл бұрын
@@itz_cloudzyskye yes
@ashylonen42379
Жыл бұрын
@@itz_cloudzyskye I agree with you. And thank you so much for your love and support💖💖😘😘
@itz_cloudzyskye
Жыл бұрын
@@ashylonen42379 No problem! And thank you for agreeing!
@KawaiiCat2
4 жыл бұрын
I can confirm that a lot of homophobic/transphobic people struggle with their own sexuality and gender identity. When I was in high school, I was super homophobic. I didn’t express it to anyone but kept it in my heart as something I didn’t like because I was scared. I thought that if being gay or trans went away from this world, I would be ok. That it would fix me. Well that didn’t happen. Some odd 10 years later I came out to myself as gay and non-binary. It just goes to show that sometimes fear and misinformation causes hate. But that can change.
@everythingnothing2978
3 жыл бұрын
I used to be homophobic too and it's not my proudest moment because im actually bisexual without even noticing it from beginning. Even my friends always thought me as not so straight eventhough im so homophobic back then lmao.
@b3nnefits
3 жыл бұрын
I used to be transphobic and racist (I hate that I was) I stopped being racist at 6 luckily, But I was very transphobic, I read a book with a little trans girl in it (a true story) and I went to my siblings and said “This books meant to be of powerful girls, but there’s a boy wanting to be a girl in here, don’t know why they put him in.” I didn’t even know what LGBTQIA+ was at the time but as a looked back I realised I was being very transphobic.
@EndercakeTheMessenger
3 жыл бұрын
My classmate is sadly just homophobic because of that darn bible practically saying don’t be gay because the writer was a gosh darn homophobe
@silvercandra4275
3 жыл бұрын
I once went up to a lesbian classmate and just berated her about how she was disgusting and should off herself and stuff like that. 3 years later I dropped the homophobia and transphobia, because I finally got away from my father, and after I put enough distance between him and I, I came out as a gay trans guy. Bonus: my mom said it was just a phase and I replied that her marriage was also just a phase.
@b3nnefits
3 жыл бұрын
@@silvercandra4275 Good for you! Glad you dropped the homophobia and Transphobia. I was never homophobic but I am ashamed to say I was transphobic. But that’s behind me! I came out as genderfluid, Asexual lesbian!
@lajindigo
4 жыл бұрын
well my dad is a proud homophobe and he said to me “that being gay is a choice & i was going through a phase😫🤮 like im 19 and ive known i was gay since i was 9... just pure IGNORANCE ❗️
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
@Peiji yep agreed to
@mysteriousmerrow
4 жыл бұрын
Being in the community isn't a choice. We are born this way and we love you no matter what. He isn't invited to your party if he ignores that you know yourself
@thatguyben7754
4 жыл бұрын
when I've been alive for 17 years and 11 of those years have been 'a phase' if i think back hard enough, but sure, it's just a phase? and how is it a choice? ask your dad if tomorrow, if he was given 100,000$, could he 'choose' to be gay in a way of if someone read his mind, he'd be attracted to men? because i tried REALLY hard to be attracted to women and i couldn't do it...
@lajindigo
4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR THE KIND WORDS💕💕☺️☺️
@treyreece1694
4 жыл бұрын
you are an amazing person and i know it can be hard to deal with it but you will get through it cause you are strong
@itz_cloudzyskye
2 жыл бұрын
"I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You are not scared. You are an asshole." Morgan Freeman said that very well, lol. 😂😂😂
@renalove2537
9 ай бұрын
truth
@ELP1125
4 ай бұрын
A phobia can always be described as an "intense dislike of"
@omp199
4 ай бұрын
@@ELP1125 No, it can't. A small handful of "phobia" words have been twisted to mean that for political reasons, but the traditional "phobia" words, relating to genuine fears, have not been twisted in this way. Nobody uses the word "arachnophobia" to mean an intense dislike of spiders, for example.
@chloe-sunshine7
3 ай бұрын
@@omp199 You should tell that to the Merriam Webster dictionary
@callmedanny535
3 жыл бұрын
God: love eveyone. Homophobia/transphobia people: even if there- God: DID I STUTTER!?
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
MAY I PLES YSE THIS
@alicelunastudios87924
2 жыл бұрын
yusssssss
@taleseylad1249
2 жыл бұрын
homophobes: Jesus hates gays!! Jesus in reality: hi guys!!
@nefritees
2 жыл бұрын
I am a trans gal myself. But isn't Christianity homophobic? Like I know the purposely mistranslated anti pedophilia line but what about Leviticus 18:22? Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
@iampie6954
2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! COME ON GUYS! BE! BETTER! PEOPLE!
@justcallmed933
3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being homophobic girl with even more homophobic family and then falling in love for the first time in your life......for another girl. One whole year I was in denial with no one to speak about it, then understood that it's "not getting better" and finally decided to do something with it. To _accept_ it. It took me around two years to get comfortable with who I am. And that would be three years in total of mental problems... So thanks for all the people who do videos like that, write books and create TV shows. It's really hard to change someone's ideology, but it's not impossible. Be Yourself. Be Proud. Love you guys~ ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 The only thing left is to come out somehow lol 😬
@FiSH-iSH
2 жыл бұрын
legit sounds like the plot to a webcomic or something, hope youre doin well :)
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this episode. A while ago I was being bullied by an adult homophobe online (I'm a minor /under 18)It all started when I left a reply on a comment stating my orientation and identity. Bearing in mind for 1 sec I did not see the other replies he had said I only saw them later. KZitem later came with a notification of a hateful reply. I did turn of notifications on the comment but stupid me decided to reply back. This started a whole war. We had other members of the community so at least I wasn't fighting alone. I was fine up until I checked it and I see this with my name tagged on @artlover you should be ⚰️ 💀 It hit hard. It was my fault to keep trying to change them but it was like someone punched me in the stomach. We tried to tell him that he literally told a minor to die but he denied it. We decided to do something. The plan was to call the police but there was one issue, none of us were out yet. So we sat there debating while all he did was taunt us. It did end when it hit 500 replies (because that's the yt limit) but I still need this. Thanks for this pbr🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@maria_adriana2004
4 жыл бұрын
i was bullied by my teacher :/
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
@@maria_adriana2004 that's still bad. Because it's closer it might effect you more but we've still experienced similar things
I'm sitting here in my room crying because of my homophobic grandma, and it's so hard to hear someone who, raised you , say stuff about you like that.
@maxverstoppen
3 жыл бұрын
Mate, I’m really sorry about that. My grandmother and grandfather raised me too, and they are both homophobic. I’m queer, and afraid to come out bc of it. Have a good day, and I hope things get better. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
@@maxverstoppen 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@aaronaym
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry you’ll be fine ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🖤🤍🤎🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@pegmay7209
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could give you a hug. My Grandma did something similar when she found out - We were so close until that moment and I’m named after her so it really stung.
@Heykittygirrrl
3 ай бұрын
Not exactly the same but my nans made countless comments about my weight...something I cannot control. I somewhat understand the hurt
@morgan_c
4 жыл бұрын
There used to be a point where my mom was very openly homophobic. (In everyday life. I haven’t come out to her yet.) She’d tell me derogatory things about lesbians and liking girls and that broke my heart, but she’s recently changed her mindset. Being closeted, I seem to others as a very strong ally to the LGBTQ+ community, and she came to me and told me, “I love that you’re so empathetic towards people that need to be defended. If you came to me and said *”I’m gay”* , that’s great and I’d support you.” My point is that people can change. This might sound cliche, but it does get better. I’m not even out of the closet, but knowing that I’d be supported makes things better.
@mysteriousmerrow
4 жыл бұрын
It is amazing how people can change and learn that they are in the wrong. She should support people no matter what and it's great that she will support you. P.S. I am also closeted and come off as a huge ally ;3
@lolikaado
4 жыл бұрын
My homophobuc classmate never changes..
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
@@mysteriousmerrow cause they’re an idiot 😇
@alien-chat
2 жыл бұрын
I have seen people in my family changing as well. Not everyone will change, and they don’t want to change. But both my aunt and grandma aren’t homophobic anymore. My grandma is very religious and hated the “sinning gays”. My aunt and uncle very wary of the united church because they didn’t care as much about gay people. They changed though, with my cousin inviting her girlfriend to Christmas dinner at my grandmother’s house in recent years. And my grandmother doesn’t care. My aunt and uncle both support their son and went to his wedding when he married a man. All of these people changed. Again, not all people want to. Some people will never change. But some do want to change, rare as it is
@jaynedavies2757
3 жыл бұрын
I was disowned in the 80s for crossdressing. I had to wait until the late 90s to move out of my mother's home. Then I moved away from her area. We have not spoken since. So please use a out of town or job, to move away from your hell, if you can, and starting again, means that you can make your own life, with the people you want in it.
@kirbo7184
2 жыл бұрын
holy shit
@FieldOfHats3
2 жыл бұрын
@@kirbo7184 holy crap is right
@mushroomcosplay6665
4 жыл бұрын
I’m a transgender and this was so helpful! My mom and dad are transphobic and I’m really depressed about it... thank you so much for posting this
@munchied889
3 жыл бұрын
ik this comment was 7 months ago but *hugz*
@henryallis7624
3 жыл бұрын
I second the hug!
@Fruitjuice212
3 жыл бұрын
I third the hug
@mathexpert2747
3 жыл бұрын
*hugs mushroom cosplay*
@idonthaveaname6029
3 жыл бұрын
As a transgirl, born into an anti lgbtq country, i know how much u need a 4th hug. So, here, have a 4th hug
@maria_adriana2004
4 жыл бұрын
i had a teacher who was homophobic and it was something like: god hates gays Me in my mind:he does love us equally you of all persons should know this you are the wife of a priest
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@maria_adriana2004
4 жыл бұрын
i m on Instagram if you want to talk rmaria_6 idk only if you want ...
@mysteriousmerrow
4 жыл бұрын
As a teacher she should love all her students no matter what. Her job is to teach us and love us not hate on us and bring us down
@thatguyben7754
4 жыл бұрын
bb girl if god hates gays why did he make us all so hot hmm? xx
@meowman69420
4 жыл бұрын
hey, I'd like to say that my best friend came out to me as non binary today ^-^ it made me really happy that they trust me enough to come out to me! i even drew them a portrait of themselves with an NB pride hoodie! i hope everyone has a safe coming out! edit: am working on a redraw of the drawing i did for my friend now btw lol
@tiggytagtabster
4 жыл бұрын
Help Me I know this is really small, but I really appreciate you using your friend’s correct pronouns. Glad there are people like you out there!
@meowman69420
4 жыл бұрын
@@tiggytagtabster aww thank you. it's the least i can do for them, they helped me with a lot lol
@mysteriousmerrow
4 жыл бұрын
That's amazing that you support them and love them unconditionally. I bet it made them feel very loved and happy that you support them ❤️ Also good on you for drawing that for them, that's really sweet
@meowman69420
4 жыл бұрын
@@mysteriousmerrow thank you! :)
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to your friend and a big thank you for using their preferred pronouns. Personally I'm coming out in years possibly never. I accidentally scare myself further in the closet all the time
@himi6536
4 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say that phobia is "an irrational fear of or aversion to something." It absolutely fits for homophobia and transphobia. They irrationally dislike and actively avoid those which they don't understand. Also just found this channel and I LOVE IT!! -Signed, a lesbian trans woman.
@2shy2guy52
3 жыл бұрын
Great take on the meaning of the word. I'm assuming you meant phobia instead of homophobia at the beginning? Anyways I 100% agree.
@himi6536
3 жыл бұрын
@@2shy2guy52 Yeah, I just meant phobia. I fixed it now, thanks for pointing that out.
@idonthaveaname6029
3 жыл бұрын
So im not the only trans lesbian
@himi6536
2 жыл бұрын
@@idonthaveaname6029 Nope, there's quite a few of us. Straight is still more common afaik, but there's a healthy amount of trans lesbians as well.
@idonthaveaname6029
2 жыл бұрын
@@himi6536 cool. I thought i was the only.
@KMILLER1181
3 жыл бұрын
My daughter came out as trans and her name is Chloe. We told my 4yo niece that her cousins name is Chloe and she immediately said"thats a beautiful name" she has called her Chloe ever since. I cried
@junkoenoshima2756
3 жыл бұрын
That's so wholesome your niece is awsome
@TheBeaniestBean8675
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad your daughter has such supportive family! Also your niece is adorable!!! 🏳️🌈🤩
@giojett1623
2 жыл бұрын
My heart… It’s melting… THIS IS TOO BEAUTIFULL😭💝🙏
@aaaah540
2 жыл бұрын
That's funny, I have a relative who used to go by Chloe until she came out as non-binary. I don't feel comfortable listing her real name because that's personal information.
@FieldOfHats3
2 жыл бұрын
Nooo I'm melting from wholesomenessssd
@lilywilliams5141
4 жыл бұрын
thank you. it’s tough being stuck isolating at home with non-accepting family. -nico
@DJ-kt5bk
4 жыл бұрын
Same here too, but look after yourself you are loved and beautiful keep up that good fight
@chloe-sunshine7
3 ай бұрын
I hope you're doing better now! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@FilmCastSystem
4 жыл бұрын
I like your channel, it's really nice. I'm transgender he/him and I have a lot of friends in the LGBTQ+ community. One of my teachers doesn't use my pronouns and the name I want to be called. She said that I can't put Jack on my paper, because that isn't my name in the school system and so it would look like this is someone else's work and that I would need papers to do all that. If someone wanted to have a nickname, do they need papers ,no they don't.
@PoweredByRainbows
4 жыл бұрын
So that is something you need to report to your principal or your guidance councilor in school. You should be allowed to use your name and not your dead name. And you should be able to use Jack because when I was in school, I could use Matt even tho my name is Matthew so nicknames are fine on assignments. Your teacher is more than likely being subtle in their transphobia. So talk with their superiors at school.
@sageunlisted3164
3 жыл бұрын
I wanted my preferred name to be safe and my mum had to fill out paper work for that, I guess the only difference is at my school nick names need to have paper work to. I really want my teachers to use my pronoun (them/they) but with homophobic parents I can’t really ask my school to do that yet. Hope your situation gets better and you get to use names and pronouns that make you happy 💕
@quqqy425
3 жыл бұрын
I go by he/him/they/them and I have a homophobic “friend”
@Friday_The_Thirteenth
3 жыл бұрын
Crap on that teacher and report it and tell your parents if your comfortable. This situation could get out of hand. You should stop this before it gets worse. Good luck 👍🏻🍀
@silvercandra4275
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if it's still an issue, but back when I was still in school, I just started only putting my last name on papers when I realised how uncomfortable my deadname made me and because well... I still haven't decided on a name yet. I never got into any trouble for it, but I guess it depends on whether you have a common last name or not. Mine is very rare, so I never got mixed up with anyone. You could at least ask if that would be a compromise... Anyways, I hope you're doing well. ^^
@eggboi0
4 жыл бұрын
I live in an extremely homophobic family and my mother stopped talking to a huge chunk of my family because my second cousin came out as lesbian. I'm a closeted bisexual and I'm horrified of coming out. I hear homophobic things almost every day. For some reason when I hear transphobic and homophobic things I feel sick to my stomach ✌️
@scarletstar9308
4 жыл бұрын
I am sending you a hug through the screen. Take care of yourself and know that you are loved and you are not alone.
@eggboi0
4 жыл бұрын
@@scarletstar9308 ;w; thanks bud. That helps a lot.
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
@@scarletstar9308 can I have hugs. I've been told to die before.
@scarletstar9308
4 жыл бұрын
@Art Lover I’ll send virtual hug to all who need it. Sending one now.
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
@@scarletstar9308 ❤️❤️❤️❤️sometimes I deal with a lot of bad stuff
@beinghuman8726
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an androgynous hetero man and I constantly get homophobic comments, gave me a deeper understanding of what the lgbt community goes through. I don't bother anyone, have no friends, and I stay to myself yet people still feel the need to make their opinion known. Heteronormative women assume I'm in the closet most times, I just wanna be me. I've decided to take a boxing class class and start lifting weights, I've noticed the buff gay friends I've had in the past rarely got the same hate in person. The weak only harass people they think are weaker.
@RapHarajuku
4 жыл бұрын
coming out as pansexual non-binary was thought but i learned to love myself throw watching your youtube video. This youtube channel should be seen bye more people to understand to love themself.
@mushroomcosplay6665
4 жыл бұрын
Jung ho-seok I agree
@aessanike9836
3 жыл бұрын
I am also pansexual. Lot's of my friends are homophobic, seeing that they do not want the best for me, I let go of them. Just love myself.
@sarahsickorez3161
3 жыл бұрын
I’m pan and non-binary too!
@therealspeedwagon1451
3 жыл бұрын
You sound like my sibling who is cupiosexual and non-binary. They have a massive pansexual flag in their room.
@tomsee8419
3 жыл бұрын
Which pronouns do you prefer?
@tsuyuasui2334
4 жыл бұрын
Commenting just because I can't think of a joke and I'm here before the premiere
@shutup4211
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. One of my close friend of 6 years just proudly announced that they were homophobic. I am not out yet but I tried explaining things about the community, tried to educate them about the community but it was like talking to a wall. They kept playing the "religion" card. So I cut all ties with them and now I am feeling shit for feeling the guilty one.
@junkoenoshima2756
3 жыл бұрын
You aren't the guilty one somebody who doesn't listen to you and keep on making excuses isn't a good friend you did the right thing
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
@@junkoenoshima2756 PREACH SIS/BRO/PAL
@Ann963
4 ай бұрын
Safety always comes first. You tried to explain, and they were non receptive. You did the only safe thing. 🥲
@jchesnut100
2 жыл бұрын
I am familiar with the LGBTQ . I have a lesbian daughter and a transgender son. I had always planned to come out as gay and eventually transition from MTF. I felt I needed to wait so my children could establish their own identities before I could come out for fear that homophobes might think they were following their Dad's footsteps. I didn't come out until I was 50 and had 2 failed hetero marriages. I made certain that they never thought of any sexual feelings or romantic feelings were in any way wrong & encouraged them to make their own decisions. When I finally did come out nearly all of my friends and relatives had the general thought of "It's about time!". Including my doctor's and psychiatrist. My family is completely behind me and have nothing but love for Jess 2.0 and actually treat me with more respect now. I watch these videos so I can better understand myself and my children as well as help others. Thank you Professor Pride!
@harley5.7bviews5secondsago6
2 жыл бұрын
Good on you! You sound like an amazing parent! I hope your transition is going well and I wish you and your children all the best!!!
@UtopianMagic1408
2 жыл бұрын
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@Ann963
4 ай бұрын
You have an amazing story! Thank you for sharing. I am so excited for all the love and joy coming your way. You nailed it when you said people treat you with more respect now: because you are treating yourself and others with more respect by being honest about who you are. ❤
@chakal9099
3 жыл бұрын
It felt nice seeing someone talk about this. I am a bisexual and transgender male. And my parents at home are always making hurtful comments on what I choose to be. They don’t accept me for who I am and end up forcing me to be what my assigned gender was. This really helped me cool myself down. Thank you for the great video.
@PoweredByRainbows
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome and just because it sounds like your parents are making you think that your gender and your sexuality are a choice, please know that there is scientific evidence to support the fact that being transgender is valid and it's something in your DNA. And your sexuality of being bisexual is also in your DNA from the moment you are conceived to the moment you pass. So, you didn't make the choice to be bisexual or trans - you just made the choice to be happy and live your life as you were always meant to live it. That's something I talk a lot about in other parts of this coming out advice series on our channel where you make the choice to be happy and invite others to your celebration of who you are and who you love. It's up to others on whether or not they choose to stay at that party and celebrate with you. Sadly, some parents leave that party and don't accept this part of their children but I want you to always know, we have an amazing community in the LGBTQ and we are a family. So, we'll always be here to support you. Just in case you don't already know, we do weekly episodes to help the community better understand topics like this so be sure to keep coming back. Even if it's too dangerous for you to subscribe because your parents might see your subscription list, we will always be one search away. You can always find us at Powered By Rainbows or at prideclassroom.com. Good luck, much love and rainbows, Matt Haslam
@chakal9099
3 жыл бұрын
@@PoweredByRainbows thank you so much for the love and support. I’ll definitely check out more of your episodes.
@rivenfroggy1447
2 жыл бұрын
I have been called a slur for being an openly queer trans man. I have faced discrimination for being queer at school, but I fight back
@edoibraimi5561
3 жыл бұрын
I have this friend of mine who I recently came out as Nonbinary. I was at first really scared because he really means something to me and I was scared that he will stop talking to me. I was really sad this one day. He asked what's wrong and then I told him. I told him that I'm Nonbinary and I don't go my old name anymore. He instantly asked me what name I go by. I told him that. He instantly used it and not even once deadnamed me. He was still supportive even when I changed my name again because I didn't felt comfortable with the old name anymore. Everytime he uses my prefered name I'm so happy. I'm his first Trans Friend (As long as i know) and I'm just so suprised how good he is to use my new name because I know him since I am 5/6 (at the moment we're 13).
@fxrnweh-hd5dq
3 жыл бұрын
I just had a mental breakdown because of my religious classmates and you really helped me so thank you:)
@Qwthetoast
3 жыл бұрын
Im feel bad for you
@JL-ey7hm
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I feel really bad for you. I’m so sorry that happened to you, I hope your religious classmates realize that they hurt you and apologize. 😞
@michael19877
4 жыл бұрын
Homophobes stink
@chellosdontexist1961
3 жыл бұрын
Truths
@aratusingtheinternet
3 жыл бұрын
Very facts
@levoromas9201
3 жыл бұрын
Have empathy for them, everybody is ignorant of the truth
@niamhmulligan5820
3 жыл бұрын
@@levoromas9201 but they don't have empathy for me though, do they?
@levoromas9201
3 жыл бұрын
@@niamhmulligan5820 ur being exactly the same as them and that’s why we are isolated and hate each other
@simon3818
3 жыл бұрын
My dad has said “I don’t want transgender bob going to the bathroom with my daughter” and I think I threw up in my mouth a little
@oanimationslive9487
3 жыл бұрын
I'm Bi sexual and I get harrased online and at my high school. It even got to the point when im thinking suicidal thoughts. The people who helped me a lot are family and my LGBTQ+ friends.
@AlphaC0re
3 жыл бұрын
stay strong king
@kirbo7184
2 жыл бұрын
WE MUST OBLITERATE HOMOPHOBES WITH THE POWER OF GAY
@glutenfurbalicious8626
4 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone! Stay safe during these trying times!
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. It's hard sometimes. I've got a lot going on in the closet
@ashylonen42379
4 жыл бұрын
my relatives are homophobes and transphobes and they don't accept me for being non binary (who is a female that identifies as a male). They don't accept me for being pansexual either. i feel like i've made my own family with my sister and my brothers and i just avoid my relatives. i have 2 mottos that i live by 1) "Ohana means family and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten"-Lilo and Stitch 2) i got family that are not blood and blood that are not family I feel as though i was left behind by my relatives but my real family have stood by my side throughout my journey of me being who i am.
@shofii7u760
2 жыл бұрын
i dont think you are non binary its beacuse non binary people are people who are not female or male soo you may be transgender but ye srry
@idonthaveaname6029
2 жыл бұрын
I live in an anti lgbtq country. A country with a 98% homophobic population. This rlly helped me.
@Knightboi-rb1pt
4 жыл бұрын
This channel is underrated.
@lamarmohamed1109
4 жыл бұрын
IKR
@Knightboi-rb1pt
4 жыл бұрын
@Anaya_Papaya If you feel like they will ground you make a new account in which you would sign in every time you want to watch some cool videos.
@peachy1157
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm really glad you did this video! I really needed this.. my parents are pretty homophobic and this just really helps with some stuff. Just thank you so much for being on the internet to help LGBTQ+ peoples like me who dont know were to go to when you need advice but everyone you know is homophobic.. so thank you for being here!
@PhantomQueenOne
3 жыл бұрын
I used to be very bigoted as that was how I was raised. I changed. Now I realize that I'm genderfluid and mildly bisexual. I had no name for being genderfluid until recently. I'm sure my parents would not have accepted me.
@omp199
4 ай бұрын
You don't need a word "genderfluid", because there's no such thing. Hope that helps!
@PhantomQueenOne
4 ай бұрын
@@omp199 Lier
@nero17
4 жыл бұрын
Second! And 13k already? What a king!
@felixhunter7445
4 жыл бұрын
kween*
@jassikaluthu1448
4 жыл бұрын
Yess
@yungeenshotta7622
4 жыл бұрын
i know
@BeepBoy
4 жыл бұрын
Felix Hunter - Kween! :P
@lil.serbian.girl.
3 жыл бұрын
When I came out to my best friends as a pansexual, they started thinking I’m crazy and telling me that I’m not pan. They really pissed me off…
@Blocky_Frog
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I hate when that happens, I came out to my friends as ace and they question my own sexuality for me??? Like, bitch: that’s my job?????????
@tiggytagtabster
4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that this came out when it did, one of my friends has been really homophobic towards me since I came out. PBR really is magical!
@TumbleBell
4 жыл бұрын
My dad be like “why do people want to transition just stay ur gender its not that hard 🙄”
@briannahebert295
2 жыл бұрын
You haven't met a little thing called dysphoria my guy
@chey7691
2 жыл бұрын
I know this comment is a little late but I like to put transphobic arses through a little thought experiment. Tell them to imagine having something like something added on or taken off to alter their "gender" ie sex. They find the idea unsettling every time, because the brain already matches the body for themselves. Transgender is just the brain in the wrong body put extremely simply, and since you cannot change brains you may feel the need to alter the body to match. Ask if he lost his pp tomorrow and couldn't get it back he wouldn't suddenly want to be a woman if that's the only thing the doctor could do? Gender and sexuality is determined before birth, and it's not going to take his away to accept others also exist and deserve human respect.
@caredbeastgaming7475
4 жыл бұрын
I would like to state for the record that phases can exist, but that does not make you any less valid, or invalidate the phase if that is different than how you feel now. (Please feel free to correct me if you see anything wrong in this statement, I'm not perfect!)
@mermaid960
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this! Sometimes it takes time to figure out who you are and find a label you're comfortable with. I have been stuck between bi and pan recently. Even though I'm more on the pan side, I'm more comfortable with identifying as bi, though that may change. Still questioning my gender, hopefully I'm right about being a demigirl TwT
@Sidralovescrows
3 жыл бұрын
If it lasts more than 4 months, not a phase
@mermaid960
3 жыл бұрын
@@Sidralovescrows Well, that's not always true. It's different for everyone. Some people identify as something for years before they realize they're not that.
@Roryberry4
2 жыл бұрын
how can you tell if something is a phase or if it’s not? Even though I’ve know I’m nonbinary/agender for over a year I’m scared to come out irl in case it’s a phase
@Just_niaxx
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks this really helped me out a bit I just put all the dresses and girly stuff I had in my closet on the left side and all the boyish things on the right and it sucks how my parents don’t think being non binary is a real thing and that it’s dumb however I am going to be a senior this fall and I hope I can finally go to school in a few non binary clothes and finally be myself even though I have to go back to being Nia at home but I know that I’m Austin at school and I’ll always be Austin no matter what
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not out yet (I'm to scared idk what the reaction would be) but at heart and one day I'll be Ash he/him/they/them to the whole world
@mysteriousmerrow
4 жыл бұрын
I hope you will one day be supported by your family and that they will learn to call you by your right name and pronouns.
@mermaid960
3 жыл бұрын
Go Austin! You're awesome and totally valid ❤️
@ninjakiwigames5418
3 жыл бұрын
I gave my little brother to watch The owl house because it has good lgbtq+ presentation. Some of my family members are homophobic so I really hope he won't become one of them. Also he watched it and he really liked it. I'm really happy I did that
@aaaah540
2 жыл бұрын
You have a good eye 💪
@lisoak6504
2 жыл бұрын
It's a really good show I like it too.
@iampie6954
2 жыл бұрын
I got my siblings to watch it. One brother doesn't like it and refuses to explain why, my other brother doesn't like it because he doesn't like romance (any romance, at all) and my sister likes it but was confused about why Luz and Amity were dating and I explained to her what being gay is and that we should love them regardless and respect that they're gay. I'm hoping this works.
@Knightboi-rb1pt
4 жыл бұрын
NO homo phobia
@gabed.2632
2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@lolikaado
4 жыл бұрын
My family and if they have homophobia or transphobia or not My mother: no My older brother (oldest) : no My other older brother (middle child) :idk Grandparents:yes Cousins:no Aunt: no Uncle:no
@charlieemily7319
3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this rn because I just got sent an EXTREMELY homophobic video, these always pop up in my recommended at the perfect time
@PoweredByRainbows
3 жыл бұрын
Just know you are loved and accepted by all of us here at PBR. No matter what, I promise we love you just the way you are.
@charlieemily7319
3 жыл бұрын
@@PoweredByRainbows thank you 🥺 see this is why I subscribed
@potato-nv8mh
3 жыл бұрын
Actually for me it worked to talk with haters on Discord. My strategy is basically to question some of the stuff they say. Mostly they can't find an answer. If they are making fun of you, identify how they are making fun of you and tell them that you know what they are doing. Explain to them as if you would explain to a little child. I have younger siblings so this may be easier for me but if you come at them without a single hole in your explanation, they will get defensive and that is fun to watch, especially if you expose them for being defensive. Never use any cussing or insults even if they do. One of them called me a "f*cking homo a*s n-word" and I just calmly responded that I'm neither black nor gay but that they could call me a f*cking a*s of course. Throughout the messaging history I subtly made fun of their insults and didn't let anything they say get to me. I feel like they noticed it because after half an hour of texting they blocked me. Same with a person I was discussing with about if Aegosexuality (a micro label of Asexuality) was real or not. I identify as Aegosexual. I got them to block me too with sources and logic. So it actually works but if you don't feel confident about it, you shouldn't try it.
@hamspillagernetwork9192
2 жыл бұрын
Good job!
@olliesweirdworld
Жыл бұрын
I played Morgan Freeman's quote and heard my mom cracking up in another room. Strange coincidence.
@loudestcloud
2 жыл бұрын
My family was very accepting of when I came out as FtM, mostly because all the family I know are LGBT. Some family friend have recently gotten back in context after 10 years and at first I was worried about her but she is very accepting of me too. But just me. Not her non binary child. Her child is 12 and I am 19 and she is convinced that she could tell I was trans growing up and that her child is cis because they 'act like their agab' and 'is too petty' to be anything but cis. I nor the enby child understand why she is so against her child being trans when she treats me fine. She always says they're 'only a child' and won't even let them be out as Bisexual because '12 year olds shouldn't be thinking of things like that'. I came out as FtM when I was 15 but when I was 12, I identified as genderfluid. When I was 4 I identified as a lesbian, at age 10, I started to identify as Pan and then at 13 I found I am Asexual Panromantic. But this family friend didn't know this and when I told them, they just told me I was different. Is she just hateful because it's her own child? Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her and her child?
@kirbo7184
2 жыл бұрын
Patience is all you can use, they wont change and you just need to give the kid advice on how to not constantly feel horrible because of their parent.
@starkitten101
4 жыл бұрын
15 hours till it premieres? I'll be asleep by then :(
@DJ-kt5bk
4 жыл бұрын
I was asleep too 🙁
@starkitten101
4 жыл бұрын
@DJ :(
@wewawooowee4751
3 жыл бұрын
I was really upset about some things recently… But this video helped me a little. My homophobic classmate constantly angered me and made me feel guilty for being part of lgbtq+. The thing is that he told everyone how he beat up gays with his gang several times… They found them on a dating app by pretending to be gay person themselves. ….and, you know, in place where I live, there is almost no one I can report this to. I feel helpless and I want to simply disappear sometimes….. so yeah, my slightly homophobic family added fuel to the fire. I don’t want to be afraid of people like them, but I also feel like I have no tools to deal with this. Even if I educate them, they will still see that hypertrophied picture in their head that they want to see. I hope that someday things will change…. If someone sees this.. stay strong, I love you all and I’m really proud of you. I just wanted to speak out in case someone else is going through it. ( sorry 4 my broken english) ♡
@shadykitty7493
4 жыл бұрын
when being misgendered and dead named i try and keep in mind my step dad is a toothless hick and my mom is just a fat drunk but its really hard
@Sidralovescrows
3 жыл бұрын
You can’t control your family. Yes, blood is thicker that water, but maple syrup is too. Waffles mean more than family
@Sidralovescrows
3 жыл бұрын
@Melone all cred goes to my sis
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
ifkr transphobes suck balls
@flightless_sparrow
2 жыл бұрын
as a closeted nonbinary lesbian, i find homophobes trying to look smart online extremly amusig, going like "Being gay is a sin and youll go to hell" like i dont remember asking *Susan*
@HeartlockProduction
2 жыл бұрын
I came out as trans to my close very very religious family members recently and my mother told me im possessed by a demon and need jesus. I know that these people dont understand that words hurt but that one really got to me.
@jjkat4036
Жыл бұрын
I’m non-binary and my cousin keeps purposely misgendering me
@PoweredByRainbows
Жыл бұрын
That sucks I’m so sorry.
@gabed.2632
Жыл бұрын
To hell with your cousin, they're missing out on your good qualities
@jjkat4036
Жыл бұрын
@@PoweredByRainbows he’s changed now he doesn’t do it anymore.
@miranda4059
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you matt for posting this video as a transgender mtf because this has really helped with dealing with transphobia 😊😊😊😊😊👍👍👍👍
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
Oh hi another trans person. I'm trans demiboy (sort of ftm) I hope you're well 🔵🔴⚪🔴🔵
@aaaah540
2 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see that the advice in this video works.
@sofiatorina9783
4 жыл бұрын
One of my closest friends recently came out and I’m so proud of them, they did it over text so everyone in the group chat was saying how much they supported them and their identity, but one of my other friends in the group chat didn’t reply to their coming out and I wasn’t sure if they did it on purpose. So then she invites people to a party but doesn’t invite my friend that just came out so then I was like hmm, maybe like she wanted to keep it small or something, but I realized that everyone in our group is going to a Halloween party which she isn’t hosting so after this I was like hmmmmmm. Then I brought it up with some of my other friends and they all agreed that it was strange so we asked the girl that didn’t invite them and she was like “oh I wanted to try a smaller group” which is a total lie because everyone is going to the Halloween thing so why can’t everyone go to her thing idk. So then I took things into my own hands and was like ‘I’m going to send some lgbt fan art to the group chat. So everyone likes it but she doesn’t like it, so then I sent another thing and she didn’t like the other one either, the I was like, there’s no way she didn’t see it. Also my friend is pretty religious which may have something to do with it. So now idk what to do, I could just be making something out of nothing. Idk if I should confront her about it or something.
@mermaid960
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, that sucks :( You should try confronting her and if she still won't change her mind, you might have to stop talking to her, even if it's hard.
@FiSH-iSH
2 жыл бұрын
tbh id probably end up kicking her out
@Undercover_Pigeon
4 жыл бұрын
"Hit that rainbow subscribe button" *Me scrolling to the subscribe button* "WHY ISN'T IT RAINBOW~
@PoweredByRainbows
4 жыл бұрын
We have a KZitem contact now but they refuse to make it rainbow until we hit 1M lol
@LV-yp7mc
4 жыл бұрын
And thats on living on a very VERY homophobic small neighborhood (,:
@aaliyahgenae8477
4 жыл бұрын
3rd uwu (your vids are the only thing I’ve had to look forward to for months so thanks btw)
@Dracke1769
4 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel, it's absolutely wonderful to be like you ❤️
@skyeminer2725
4 жыл бұрын
Ooo I need this one I can't wait!!!!!
@Jshdhfjfsrjjdjksj
4 жыл бұрын
Skyeminer I LOVE you’re icon. 😍🐶
@skyeminer2725
4 жыл бұрын
@@Jshdhfjfsrjjdjksj Thank you so much!!!!! (ㆁωㆁ)
@TheDracoAnimator
2 жыл бұрын
Homophobic people can change, they just need somebody to talk some sense into them. This channel made me realize how wrong I was, and I now support all lgbtq people
@MaddyP_guitar
2 жыл бұрын
I know I'm late to this, but Matt, thank you so much for everything you do. Both my parents aren't supportive and it gets terrifying living in fear constantly hiding who I am from them. Your videos have helped me through this rough journey and made me feel more accepted and loved. I appreciate all the effort you put in your videos so much.
@lilly23615
2 жыл бұрын
im trans and i have a transphobic stepdad this helped me alot he always tells me "im never gonna be a girl" or "if you were supposed to be a girl you would have been born"
@lukecohen9833
2 жыл бұрын
you are a girl I will accpect you I have friends who are trans I am so sorry that your stepdad is transphobic just know one day when you are old enough you can leave their house and you can live your live as your gender sorry if I got your gender wrong but you are valid you be you don't listen to him I will be there for you
@omp199
4 ай бұрын
Telling the truth is not "transphobic". You are robbing the word of all meaning.
@dracotempest5258
3 жыл бұрын
dude my mum doesnt even let me have a binder and calls me girl and she/her whenever she can just because she doesnt want to believe she has a trans son. i was in tears when i found this video it helped me to stop crying so much. she has told me that i am going against god and choosing satan's way. she is completely unaccepting and she almost took my phone away when i was dating a girl. i am a demiromantic male and so i didn't see anything wrong with dating this girl i really liked.. she forced me to leave her and it tore me apart. so for anyone reading, this was a very small piece of what transphobia looks like. it really tears you to pieces and hurts like hell. im afraid to even say anything to my mom about me being dysphoric or anything of the sort. its very hurtful to experience things like this in your own home i can say from experience. and it may not look like a big deal but it is truly emotional abuse. stop using religion to excuse your toxic opinions. stop silencing trans and gay people. so yeah sorry for the rant but for any members of the lgbtqia+ community out there just know you are not alone and there are people willing to completely accept you and embrace you and not want to harm you or hurt you. stay safe y'all
@pcychopig307
3 жыл бұрын
There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating a girl you like. You’re valid and I hope you remember that. I am so sorry your mom is acting that way towards you- but just know that there isn’t anything wrong with being trans. And remember to take care of yourself, hope someday she’ll change or you’ll get away from her
@demonslayer_lover4ever
3 жыл бұрын
Being LGBTQ+ is not a sin,if God didn't like LGBTQ+ then why did God make LGBTQ+ people,he made us perfect in our own way, so Homophobes don't use Christianity against LGBTQ+
@Ukowyeslo
3 жыл бұрын
You have been warned, Jesus is coming, repent, I tell ye, worker of iniquity!
@junkoenoshima2756
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ukowyeslo oh no when is he coming haven't yall be saying that for ages
@ZN_Zaharin
2 жыл бұрын
I'm surrounded by an entire family of homophobes, and friends that are homophobes, and I'm bisexual and non-binary Horraayy--
@PoweredByRainbows
2 жыл бұрын
Well even though you are surrounded by that hate, please know beyond the walls of that hate, there are plenty of us out here who love and accept you just the way you are, including us here at Powered by Rainbows.
@brutho789
4 жыл бұрын
I came out to 2 of my cousins and they were both lgbtq ❤💛💚💙💜
@iwantsleep8079
4 жыл бұрын
🏳️🌈The gay cousins trio🏳️🌈
@Maddiedoggie
3 жыл бұрын
The only fear I have is violence. I sometimes wake up worried that I won't wake up the next morning...
@Rosymaple
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh these comments are so wholesome and nice and supporting!
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
😊Ikr (I'm going to include one of my pride flags) ⬛🈚🔵⚪🔵🈚⬛
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
@@Sarah-dk8je which one is that? sorry if I sound rude
@Ariel-gj7bi
2 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite youtube channel for watching LGBT related videos, because it's the only one I can check the comments without seeing horrible, and sometimes violent transphobia and homophobia!
@unevenf3ver15
3 жыл бұрын
today, someone on discord bullied me for being lesbian, and called me the f slur multiple times.
@felearce4718
3 жыл бұрын
What a dumbass, just block and report them, you can try and educate them or send them an informative video but usually it's not worth your time
@unevenf3ver15
3 жыл бұрын
@@felearce4718 no all i said was sprinkles rainbow glitter*
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
You okay?
@zeldafreak000
3 жыл бұрын
"Oh fuck, I'm trans." 20 seconds later "Oh FUCK, I'm trans..." Love and support for everyone!
@friendlyninja5048
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who recently realized he was bi after being a lifelong ally, this is a wonderful episode and channel. I understand how stupid people can be sometimes. The important thing to realize is that you are valid. Even if it sometimes doesn't feel like it, millions of people around the world support you. I support you. Love is love!
@sacred_nightlock5457
3 жыл бұрын
I remember once me and my friend (river) went around asking our classmates if they were homophobic/transphobic and if they said yes we said “well frick you im gay”
@Silvyya
2 жыл бұрын
seems like that would just make it so there incentivized to say yes even if they are not
@nobeanieroboticsco.3383
4 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 my name is Evlin, how are you ?. Have a good day everyone who is LGBTQ+
@Sarah-dk8je
4 жыл бұрын
I'm good ty hbu
@c4ndym0nster
2 жыл бұрын
Hi,im good and my name Is Norman
@RA10802
2 жыл бұрын
Hearing you voice break when you're speaking about this, tells me you suffered a lot for loving someone. I'm sorry you had to suffer. You're probably not gonna read this but thanks a lot for creating this channel it helped me and taught me a lot
@unicornlover6965
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice and I came out at seventeen and my dad doesn't accept me but I just ignore what he says
@astraaijajansone49
3 жыл бұрын
Just love the phrase "who are lost already to the dark side" it pretty much says everything about them.
@LandoBando-pj5ox
4 жыл бұрын
I made a bunch of pride flags in mc
@amadeosendiulo2137
2 жыл бұрын
In Esperanto I usually call them "kontraŭ-GLAT-uloj" (anti-LGBT-people) or "kontraŭ-kvir-uloj" (anti-queer-people).
@mikaboostudios2477
3 жыл бұрын
You always give amazing advice for straight people and LGBTQ+ people and we love you.
@insaneexpertise
6 күн бұрын
I got hit with alot of hate over the last week on my alt account I am out on, this video hit exactly when I needed it. I'm so glad I found this channel
@PoweredByRainbows
6 күн бұрын
We’re glad we can be here for you. My husband and I run this channel and we wanted to let you know that not only are we here to support you but there is a whole community out here that does as well. Even though the haters sometimes seem loud, it’s only because they’re the ones screaming. Those who love you aren’t going to scream at the top of their lungs at you like the haters will but we outnumber them by far.
@insaneexpertise
6 күн бұрын
@@PoweredByRainbows I love that so much thank you!
@dad7493
4 жыл бұрын
If your parents don't accept you I'm your dad now
@masterof1
Жыл бұрын
I'm tired of feeling not "normal" based on someone else's opinion. My mental health has been affected not to mention the abuse/bullying. I'm tired of fighting. I'm tired of hate and I am tired of living in a web of lies. I'm just tired. 😢
@ssbmeleekirby
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this after what happened last month. I only told 3 of my friends. 2 of them were supportive, but my other friend (who is now an ex-friend), told me that it was a sin, told me to go to hell, and slapped me in the face. At first I thought: "What the hell?" Later, I said: "Listen, you can't dictate who I am. It's not a sin, it's who I am and if you can't accept that, then we can't be friends anymore!" I felt like I didn't belong, but I was glad that was over.
@livriddle3834
3 жыл бұрын
"Report threats to your local authorities" Bruh the authorities don't care here.
@felearce4718
3 жыл бұрын
If there is an lgbt+ center try and go there, if not try to report it as something else and then add the "hate crime", see if that works out
@silvercandra4275
3 жыл бұрын
I came out as both trans and gay and lately my brother started to just adress me using the F-slur. The worst part about it is, that in calling me that, he's the only family member of mine, who doesn't misgender/deadname me.
@onyx5453
4 жыл бұрын
This video actually saved my life. Thank you so much!
@PoweredByRainbows
4 жыл бұрын
Awe I’m so glad I could help. This channel and this community is always here for you. 🏳️🌈❤️
@onyx5453
4 жыл бұрын
@@PoweredByRainbows Awh thanks UwU 🏳🌈🌈
@neilelliott4382
2 жыл бұрын
thankyou for this i have someone at my school that always points out im gay so thankyou for giving me confidence
@Spartan_Maxel210
2 жыл бұрын
All the ones who don’t accept you for who you are don’t deserve the gift of your kindness, beauty and companionship. You deserve love and respect from the ones who stand by your side even when the world starts to break. A little motivation speak
@myrinn_
Ай бұрын
i just got called the f slur by a stranger on the street, its been the first time ive been outside in literal months. i have agoraphobia and its really hard for me to go outside because of my extreme anxiety. im trying to get over my fears but i always get knocked back down :(
@StarOfTheChaos
2 жыл бұрын
How I address hate is with a calm voice and even friendlier body language, calling them “friend”, “my dude”, or “buddy”- that always throws them off (especially if I make sure to have my voice dripping in affection). At that point I can usually ether de-escalate the situation, get them to listen to me then or later, or weird them out enough that they avoid me (and whoever the target was) forever. Then depending on how it went I tell the teacher or the principal (I was buddy-buddy with my elementary and my middle school principals, I don’t know ether.) Uhh. Soooo- kill them with kindness??
@StarOfTheChaos
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think this would work to efficiently on family, depending on how friendly you are to them and if they expect you to be friendly.
@DinosaurNick
2 жыл бұрын
I dunno what to do. I've tried explaining things to my brother and he says "Doesn't make any sense to me." "There are only 2 genders." "I'm not calling you sibling." "You're my sister." "You have a vagina therefore you're a girl." And continues using my deadname and wrong pronouns.
@sophiarunyon6833
3 жыл бұрын
My brother in homophobic and transphobic so me being bisexual (questioning pan) it really difficult for me. He says things like, "Non-binary isn't A thing you're eather A boy or a girl!" "You can't date the same gender, what are you? A Satanist?!" and some of the classics, "Being part of LGBTQ+ is a sin, go burn in hell!" "You know what would help you? (He said this after I came out) " If you went to a church!" My brother and I started an argument over me wearing ONE rainbow accessory, telling me that I "dress to gay" and that "no one will appreciate" me. I need some advice girls gays and theys! What should I do? ALSO YOU ARE SUPER VAILD! DONT LET BULLSH!T PEOPLE LIKE MY BROTHER TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THAT!! ❤💛💚💙💜
@lazuliisanidiot
3 жыл бұрын
Keep being you. Don’t let him choose your sexuality, cause you can’t choose it yourself. You aren’t a satanist. You’re beautiful and you matter. Also if you can and want tell him god is accepting towards anyone 💜 a fellow aroace bi nb
@barekamy7506
2 жыл бұрын
I'm bi and nonbinary. I told my mother I was bi after she asked me many times why I was talking about a "person" I would be dating / I like etc. and not a "girlfriend". She said that "gay sex" is disgusting to her but she would allways love me no matter what. A time after this at my mums birthday my sister and her argued over something (like they allways do) and my sister statet that my mum told her she would k*ll herself if I would date a guy. So she lied to me about "allways loving me no matter what". My sister said it out loud and I gave my mother the chance of telling me otherwise or maby apologize but she looked me dead in the eyes and said "What if I would do that". So long story short, my mum threatened to k*ll herself if I would ever be with a guy. My mum loves me and is very caring. She does everything to me and even after I moved out she texted me nearly every day. I just didn't text back really often. The problem is she doesn't know who I am. She does love me but not me now, maby me when I was 10. She wasn't there when I was bullied for 6 years, because she had her own problems and because of that we don't have a foundation of trust. (if it is called that way in English lol) This is why I don't want to tell her I'm nonbinary. But I'm not strong enough to break contact with her and I don't want to allow myself to forgive her. The worst thing is she thinks I'm cold hearted and doesn't know she is the reason why I don't want anything to do with her. She doesn't even know what she did wrong.
@lukecohen9833
Жыл бұрын
hey um I have a issues I am a homophobe but I want to change but I lived with the hate and now I want to stop the hate but I don't know how to end it
@gabed.2632
Жыл бұрын
That's very brave, you could start by apologizing to people you have offended
@lukecohen9833
Жыл бұрын
@@gabed.2632 okay one of my friends got me back on the path of being better
@lushem-9201
10 ай бұрын
hey man realizing you were wrong is the first step to getting better
@gravesilk322
8 ай бұрын
Thats so good of you!
@discopotato6897
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am struggling with people calling me gay, and this video really helped me!
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