HAPPY NEW YEAR !🎈 Your such a wise gentle sprit. I can relate 💯 . Hugs 🤗 from the great grandma. ❤
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
Happy new year 🎈🎊
@theteal123
7 ай бұрын
You are so smart for your age. I am in my late 50s and devastated being alone w no money or family
@dorothyhodges2542
2 ай бұрын
@@theteal123 Sad! God don’t want this for you! It seems this is what everyone wants for you! This is only happening in the black race... and no other race wants to be near us either. We should be evaluated. Not normal!
@BlossomsEdits-tb4hz
8 күн бұрын
@@LovelyFlyShy I think you dropped this queen 😫👑 queen
@BlossomsEdits-tb4hz
8 күн бұрын
@@LovelyFlyShy I think you dropped this queen 😫👑
@drapetomania777
9 ай бұрын
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."
@africanqueen7079
8 ай бұрын
That's the most Real statement of all times.
@drapetomania777
8 ай бұрын
@@africanqueen7079 🫂🫂
@mikimousechocolate7449
2 ай бұрын
🗣️💯😞
@dorothyhodges2542
2 ай бұрын
It is! Don’t be in denial! Nothing is worse than being alone!
@andreagomezoficial3960
2 ай бұрын
It is !!
@kimberlyjackson8343
Жыл бұрын
It's best not to have no friends at all because alot of people nowadays don't know what true friendship is
@EmeraldJade66
Жыл бұрын
@kimberlyjackson8343 ... Facts! I say the same and nor do most people know what real love is as well. Sad but very true.
@KiloCreates0_0
8 ай бұрын
There’s definitely people out there 💯
@mightymagnificent3267
8 ай бұрын
If you've literally never had any friends you won't be saying that. It's messes with your mind just being in a room on your own all the time. I can't remember the last time I celebrated my birthday with anyone or actually gone out to have fun on the weekend. You won't be saying it unless you actually genuinely experienced it. We are biologically wired to socialize and when we don't, it Fs with us. I don't know if your pretending and jumping on the *I'm an introvert* trend but it's a big issue and that's part of suicide rate tbh
@11Renee11
8 ай бұрын
@@mightymagnificent3267Well spoken. Also, being an introvert is quite normal as a personality trait. However, not socializing at all leads to impatience, over stimulation, inability to cope with different types of personalities, noise levels. It's okay to rejuvenate alone. It's okay to accept the fact that some people are acquaintances and not friends.
@TaylorNomad-z1z
7 ай бұрын
@@mightymagnificent3267you are better off without friends especially when many people juat want to use you, ignore you or mistreat you. Then the icening on the cake is you get told its your fault because you teach people how to treat you. So, if you dont want to be treated like sh!t you should remove toxic people and consequently you will see there is no ome there. Better to be alone than in the company of someone who in your presence only wants to stare at a ohone ALl dam day. Mieux seul que mal accompagné. Mejor sola que mal accompañada.
@TheStatOfCT
11 ай бұрын
im super lonely. no resources no friends no family. Stuck in CT. i wish people like us can come together and create our own family.
@brandonharner5222
6 ай бұрын
I'm game buddy I'm in the same shors as you but in Ohio
@jdeniro1844
6 ай бұрын
Find Hobbies you truly enjoy, you may find like minded good people also!?
@DavidJames-g5f
6 ай бұрын
Stop dreaming and move. Make that the only goal. If ya cant accomplish one fkin goal? Do it already or be 50 and still in CONN.
@letakeokuk5446
5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but this message is sad...... you don't need a whole bunch of family or friends around you but not one friend??? I'm not consigning on to this message....peace to all. 🤎
@Jim-k2q
3 ай бұрын
Yes, I will be there for you.
@disblessed9184
11 ай бұрын
Im now 41 also have no family. I do have an adult son.❤I’ve been on my own since I was 18. I was heart broken as a child by family, then friends and later two men I loved. I trust no one and think everyone wants something from me. I feel trapped and miserable some days. While others I’m happy. The loneliness definitely has affected me. I do talk to God and go to work. Going out for me is grocery shopping, Target runs. malls, parks & beaches lol. I keep my head up and remain strong. However this is a hard battle I’ve been fighting most of my life. To anyone who is dealing with the same. You are not alone and I understand.
@ManifestingTammy
8 ай бұрын
We have the same exact life
@breanapicart1017
7 ай бұрын
Same exact life thank you for expressing how u feel ❤️
@carolinehannah5188
7 ай бұрын
I am alone.I try to occupy myself. As I get older it is difficult to make friends; that is fine with me. I do not know where my family is. My son married a woman who has alienated him from me and couple of his children[not hers] but he does nothing, so i put some,if not all the the blame on him. I also do, grocery, target; this is my life. But I do go to prayer meeting once a week; you could say this is my only social life. I have been a loner, most of my life, coming from a large family, I was always around a lot of people, which I did not like, so I welcome lonliness and it has a little effect, although once in a blue moon,I would like a little company, one or two people would suffice. I also know I am sure there are people dealing with the same issues. I hope your situation gets better. I do talk to God and that helps.
@letakeokuk5446
5 ай бұрын
I do believe God isolates us to bring us closer to him. He however, puts people in our path to get through this life...🙏🏾
@rosewurkz
4 ай бұрын
Sending you big hugs.. I wish everyone in this comment section could just casually meet up.. instead of being alone in our little corner of the 🌎, GOD BLESS YOU 🙏💕
@KanjiStrnth
Жыл бұрын
For those people who have no friends, I just wanna give out free hugs.
@Joel-pg4yi
Жыл бұрын
Whats a hug? 😢
@AaIsForAaliyas
Жыл бұрын
Real men don't need hugs. Real men slap mugs of beer and drink together and tell the tales of spreading their loins throughout the world.
@ARajantara777
4 ай бұрын
We don't want t it. Don't sympathize with us. We are happy.
@MalkuthEmperor
4 ай бұрын
@@ARajantara777not everyone friendless is happy tho. Most arent. Or i should say, they arent if they dont have a family as well. If they have a partner or kids or both, but no friends, then they tend to be happy. If you dont want sympathy, thats fine. Tho i dont see anything wrong with sympathy, or beeing friendless, as long as a person preffers it. Have a nice day
@MalkuthEmperor
4 ай бұрын
@@Joel-pg4yii think its a meal they prepair in the balkans
@Mathildah
2 ай бұрын
I'm 27 years old. I have no friends. I hangout alone. Nobody wants to be around me. I don't fit in. I have accepted myself the way I'm. I'm being me. That's enough. I'm loved by God. He keeps blessings me. So it's a good testimony 🎉🎉🎉
@shiamaxwell3482
Жыл бұрын
The kids are your family, focus on them !
@StephanieJordan-v7t
Жыл бұрын
She is.
@luminescent__
Жыл бұрын
A mother can't go to her children for help or understanding in a crisis situation (physical, mental, emotional, etc) or if she is going to give up on life because carrying the weight of everything by oneself is more than overwhelming/ crushing & theres just nothing left inside to keep on going or pick yourself back up. People were not designed to have to BE the entire "village" that each of us needs completely on our own with absolutely no support of any kind. She deserves more grace & respect than to be told her kids (dependent children who endlessly rely on her) "are her family" & to "focus on them" as a response to her brave & vulnerable expression of loneliness/lack of support/community & how those circumstances have been effecting her. Anyone in that situation would.
@Salik96
10 ай бұрын
@@luminescent__ Nobody said she could do that, but her kids are all that matters and her only family. Anytime she feels down she can just be with her kids.
@onemillionpercent
8 ай бұрын
yes!!!
@butterification
2 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏🙌
@divineempress7188
Жыл бұрын
Well said. and same here. No Family + No Friends= PEACE and No DRAMA.
@Sin2Live4Tv
9 ай бұрын
Yea, it is a proven fact that human beings aren’t supposed to be alone.. it’s not good on for us psychologically or mentally
@Sashstashreview
Жыл бұрын
Girl I don’t either. I’m actually depressed bc of other factors you have no control over like relationships, dating, and marriage. I’m trying to be in good spirits. One day I’m okay n others I’m miserable bc it. So hard to trust ppl bc I’ve been backstabbed so much. I’m actually in fear of dating n letting new ppl in bc of my pay experiences.
@Uncyclekings
3 ай бұрын
Same
@r.wilson2348
Жыл бұрын
I’m 28 with no friends or social life. I have 3 kids and a husband but I still feel lonely. It’s really hard to deal with sometimes.
@cathylake9072
Жыл бұрын
Close friends and family are drama and trouble. I have a few distant friends and family I may talk to once a month and hang out with once or twice a year and it is for the best. If you feel like company join a church that socializes and has church dinners for the holidays.
@Maggie-zr2ow
9 ай бұрын
I think you may realize that your loneliness isn’t from a lack of outside people giving something to you, but a lack of something you’re not giving to yourself. Sometimes it’s simply how we are framing things in our minds. To be really healthy, we need to be able to be completely alone and be ok. If we count on others to fulfill things in ourselves then we are dependent on something that can’t be counted on. Try to find things that make you happy and peaceful that don’t include people like art, reading, cooking, etc. Work on your issues. If you do, I think you’ll find that you can enjoy people outside of your immediate family, but do not need them like you thought you once did. Love to you.
@drapetomania777
9 ай бұрын
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."
@paulyejr
4 ай бұрын
You're in the wrong marriage 🤷🏿♂️
@SpiritualQueenVibes
2 ай бұрын
Try to find peace and happiness without the social life I know it sucks but at least you have a tribe at home it will work out dear ❤
@MyMyTyTy
Жыл бұрын
I have no friends or family. I wish I had children, but I’m pretty sure I can’t have any. I can’t keep friends because of differences. It’s just crazy to think that I may spend the rest of my life alone. What did I do in my past life to deserve this?
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think you did anything. It may just be that in your journey specifically where you are you have lessons to learn.
@creativechristiancontent
Жыл бұрын
Lonely female to here for friendship if you want I’m from the UK how about yourself?
@MyMyTyTy
Жыл бұрын
@@creativechristiancontent Hey, I’m from the United States. Do you have Instagram? We could talk there if you want, I’d love that.
@DeeezNutttts
Жыл бұрын
There you go tellin’ me no again There you go, there you go I wanna be more than just your friend Don’t you know, don’t you know. Please be mines!!
@jessepittman5802
Жыл бұрын
GranDRiSiNG QUeeN
@SingerStone888
Жыл бұрын
Wow I feel like I finally found my people! I knew I wasn’t the only one! Single mom as well I have 1 daughter. This helped me feel a lot better about my situation thank you!
@shereewhite4828
3 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful, wise young woman! I love her hair.
@brittjuh729
Жыл бұрын
I,ve had friends, but lost them because of my severe trust issues
@sage4nowty129
2 ай бұрын
You are not totally alone, you have your kids. That's a family.
@itsdtxjd
10 ай бұрын
Same. It’s very lonely and depressing sometimes but I at least have my dog. People try to be my friend but I’m like eh, just let me live my life I don’t want to worry about anyone else but me and my dog. I just don’t trust people anymore. Especially people these days. People are so fake. I see how coworkers are buddy buddy and friends with other coworkers and how they talk trash about each other all the time after they hung out the previous night lol I don’t have time for all that stupid little drama. I just want to experience life on my own. I’m all I need and my dog.
@novaaa5663
4 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one feeling this way. Only one who helps me is my aunt, she’s close to my age. Took me in and my dog when I got divorced a few years ago. We get along great. I don’t have a relationship with my mother and sister. I’m not easy to deal with but I’m not a bad person. I don’t have any friends or husband. I just work and go home to my dogs. It really hurts not having my mother. I cry everyday but I’m done being the pacemaker. My sister told me to consider her dead smh
@BigNoe-u7u
2 ай бұрын
@@novaaa5663 I haven't spoke to my mom or sisters in 7+ years. I had to choose peace tired of arguing with folks
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
Good people still exist 🥺
@Czechbound
4 ай бұрын
I have a couple of friends. Proper friends that would do anything for me in a pinch and I would do for them. All others are acquaintances. And that took time to realise. I always treat everyone as a potential friend, but after meeting them a couple of times, if nothing further develops, they are acquaintances, and so I don't do them favours, and I don't reach out to them. And friendships take work, and should be 50:50. If you're the one doing all the running in the friendship, it's not a friendship. Speak up about it, and if nothing changes from their side, accept that they are acquaintances. I see people who hang around with people, and on the surface, anyone would say that they are good friends. And yet both parties will bitch to me about the other party. They are not friends. They are people who spend time with each other as a convenience. That's just company. That's not friendship. So define friendship for yourself. What behaviours you expect, and what you won't put up with. And if there is someone you think could be a friend, tell them.
@AMcDub0708
Жыл бұрын
I love being in charge of my own time and the freedom from drama. But then again it truly IS lonely. And I’m not afraid to admit that.
@rosea9375
8 ай бұрын
Girl I feel what you are saying. I don't have any friends but I am okay with it. I am done with the bare minimum as well.
@natashaloveschrist
Жыл бұрын
I have no friends either…
@betht7591
Жыл бұрын
I have no family and no friends
@a7r7s38
Жыл бұрын
I am like you, no friends, family apart.
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
Makes us stronger❤
@WitnessedWithWinter
Жыл бұрын
Me as well love, I’m 22 no family, no friends, no community & never had any guidance or sense of direction. Most days I cope with laughter but it hits me every now and then that I’m pretty much “just winging it” in life.
@a7r7s38
Жыл бұрын
@@WitnessedWithWinter pray more and more. Every day closer to Jesus.
@tiffanyf7383
Жыл бұрын
@@WitnessedWithWinter 🤗💜
@licksnkicks1166
3 ай бұрын
I can relate. I am a female and I choose not to have friends. I am quite happy with my puppies, guitars and family. I don’t want anyone else in my life. I have been burned too many times. No thanks! No friends for me.
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
We do need people in our lives though ❤❤ The right ones will find you pray for them trust me don’t let trauma ruin or stand in the way of your future
@licksnkicks1166
2 ай бұрын
@@evalaura9362honestly I am good with my family, my doggos and my guitars!
@drapetomania777
Ай бұрын
@licksnkicks1166 Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations .. I pray you find peace and true joy in your life 🙏 ✨️ ❤️
@bambijones
11 ай бұрын
i have no family and no friends, and im okay with that, im alone always.. do everything in solo.. my mother was very toxic and alot of my old friends were to, so it was time!!
@RR-dh4jh
8 ай бұрын
My family is definitely toxic and try to put the guilt trip on me.. it takes a really strong person to be this way. It hurts but im trying to put my shield on
@bambijones
8 ай бұрын
praying for you!! @@RR-dh4jh
@mikimousechocolate7449
2 ай бұрын
Same here my mom abused me as a child I was in and out of foster/girls homes my dad in and out of jail and other relationships the rest of the family didn't care only my grandma on my dad's side which once I became and teenager with some issues she didn't want to deal with it and sent me back into foster care this time with my baby I've been through ALOT of trauma even now as an adult abusive relationships twice at this point I TRUST NO ONE but GOD HE IS MY FRIEND FAMILY PROTECTOR MY EVERYTHING IN THIS CRUEL WORLD WHEN I DIE NO FUNERAL ✌🏿🙏🏿😞
@koollee
10 күн бұрын
Same here but id like to be a true friend to u
@elle5521
3 ай бұрын
It takes a while to find people who can respect & match what you have to give. Great job on not lowering your quality or perception of worth to others low standards.
@anony16
Жыл бұрын
I feel like you've cried a lot in private by yourself, though i could be wrong but your eyes tend to express some form of pain, but im glad that you're learning a lot through your own company, i hope you continue too until you're able to share your companionship with genuine people
@jimmyd8853
3 ай бұрын
When you really think about it who could really be in a positive state of mind making a video like this. It stings just having to think about living like that.
@philliportiz598
Жыл бұрын
Yess. I remember being there for my little sister when she was going through a difficult time, but days later my little sister starting treating me like shit again. So that's when I realized my family is toxic...
@licksnkicks1166
2 ай бұрын
@@philliportiz598 same thing happened to me. My sister is black, she was adopted. I stuck up for on every occasion. She turned out to be a horrible liar and a horrible sister. I divorced my siblings.
@heyheyhey40
Жыл бұрын
Living abroad, I learned that it is much easier to find friends in a foreign country than here in the US. Everyone here is on the grind. Abroad people have more money and more free time. Life isn’t as expensive.
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
I’m honestly considering moving abroad!
@JustinQuaid-u8v
Жыл бұрын
So when talking to people on the streets, it's same as west that many are not talking in the streets. Not sure which areas people go to, to meet people or talk to people. I'm not looking but many do meet others through who they know. However if not having any people such as friends, family, then how do people meet?
@heyheyhey40
Жыл бұрын
@@JustinQuaid-u8v When I first moved abroad, the first acquaintances I had was my coworkers. And through my coworkers, I met other people, learned about different organizations and clubs to join. I joined a choir, a church, and a fellowship for foreign expats. It’s really that simple. And sure, I’d be walking on the street and hear someone speaking with an American accent and BAM, a new friendship was sprung. And abroad, people actually want to hang out with you and include you in the fun. I lived in China for 6 years; it was a working vacation.
@xdkankaxd5427
11 ай бұрын
Which country has better economy than the America?
@DoyinVoice
11 ай бұрын
✨
@TheToastwithTheAbsoluteMost
11 ай бұрын
We’re social creatures. This isn’t healthy. I’m going through the same thing. It’s us guys. The problem is us. The trauma. Belief patterns. We need to connect more than anyone else. Healing is to experience the opposite of the result of trauma. You’re disconnected? To heal you need healthy connection.
@swannoir7949
4 ай бұрын
True. But because of the trauma, it makes it hard to connect with people, in order to do so. It's a catch-22.
@TheToastwithTheAbsoluteMost
4 ай бұрын
@@swannoir7949 healing is to experience the opposite of the trauma. Therefore connection is healing in the face of isolation. It doesn’t matter how we get to finally connect- we have to heal
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
Finally! Someone that we’re on the same page. It’s crazy what fear and trauma does to us. And the truth is good people still exist we just need to move around and find them
@Cindyfosho
Ай бұрын
I agree... been going through the same thing... I'm tired of lowering my standards to have friends.
@samantha6670
Жыл бұрын
Same im rwandan 36 yo living in Belgium with (at the moment) no friend no family. It's the worst years of my entire life because I'm experiencing the hardest times. However, I choose me and I'm my biggest protector and supporter. I'm OK being me. Guys, courage, I love you.
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
Hi I’m Rwandan too. I know what you’re going through 💯. You’re not alone when our family moved to the Uk I felt soo lonely. I didn’t even know that I was depressed. Like nothing in that environment was familiar to what I knew. Just keep on going and watch some Rwanda. Media like Papa Sava to battle the home sickness ❤
@missdesireindependance5194
5 ай бұрын
Your children are your family. You don’t have to be around toxic people due to not having family or friends. Never settle!
@shannondasilva3711
Ай бұрын
You're so beautiful and spot on - a hard lesson to learn but a true one!
@TamsosPadaras
9 ай бұрын
You have 2 children... you don't have time for friends :D
@TheAnkhGod
Жыл бұрын
Isolation is a foundation of personal growth.
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
Very true.
@AMcDub0708
Жыл бұрын
Solitude is. Isolation is what military and prisons use to break you down and cause you to go crazy.
@jedimonk993
Жыл бұрын
For real be careful of bad influences of people
@Joel-pg4yi
Жыл бұрын
Or down fall isolated for decades
@JustinQuaid-u8v
Жыл бұрын
Nobody makes you crazy only self, I've been without people since age twelve and never ever talked to kids same age as me or never to people. Not sure which world you guys are living. Since age five I've enjoyed the privilege of self and talked to self@@AMcDub0708
@aubreywhite8008
8 ай бұрын
Some of us just don’t connect with other people. I’ve always been that way since I’ve been a kid it’s like a missing puzzle piece and I could never figure out how others interact and keep relationships and friends
@BettyElaineHall
3 ай бұрын
Greetings and grand rising. Smart wise young Lady you'll be so much advanced of the people that are your age that's what you add an advantage let it work for you be blessed be more.
@lastchance7323
Жыл бұрын
I like the peace of mind, and no drama. It is good to mind ur own business, stay to urself, and stay out of other folks business. Trust in the lord, read Psalms 91 if you read the bible. This works for me. God bless you, you are not alone.❤❤
@GlowingInTheDark377
9 ай бұрын
Sounds like my life . It’s very peaceful 😌
@ScorpioRising438
5 ай бұрын
Mine too. I have Perfect Peace and wouldn’t trade it for nothing!
@noknapatalung8879
3 ай бұрын
I love the peace.
@Samanthasosa-i8q
10 ай бұрын
So true giving all of yourself for nothing in return story of my life
@jakeschmell
5 ай бұрын
Very gratifying to see your introspection and mature acceptance. Blessings to you and your children.
@Jordan-mn2ty
8 ай бұрын
I’m a 24 year old guy and I have almost the same background as you, as well as the same thought process. Ive always been a big people pleaser and agreeable to the point it becomes awkward, which leads to cycle of my boundaries being crossed and I have to put people in check which makes me overly formal and aggressive and ultimately weird as hell. I grew up in a background where disrespect meant violence and you always had to watch your tongue. I don’t know if your character was shaped in a similar way but I’m curious?
@JuliaMitchel
3 ай бұрын
YOU ARE SO STRONG!💪🏽🤗 I’ve been a hermit of sorts for ten years but when I was your age I cared WAY too much about what people thought of me due to past traumas. Your gen is so strong!😘🤗
@mikimousechocolate7449
2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY it was the same for me due to childhood trauma now as an adult I've been ALONE for years people will cut you off because they want to hurt you I stay away from all of that family included
@JuliaMitchel
2 ай бұрын
@@mikimousechocolate7449 You sound a lot like me! If you’re ever in Idyllwild, ca please drop in at The Hangout, a place I own. I’ve never met anyone like me in this way, just on line.
@JuliaMitchel
Ай бұрын
@@mikimousechocolate7449 🤗💜🎉
@lialy3071
9 ай бұрын
omg thats so mee I just dont vibe with others and its hard but I also just cant settle for less
@jilianemorales2074
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I don’t really have anybody I can consider or who considers me as a friend or best friend. I am generous to a fault and I am kind. I guess those are my weaknesses because I have discovered that generosity and kindness are no good traits in this world. People like cruel, aggressive people to be their best friends. The more aggressive and selfish you are, the more friends you have. Ironic, isn’t it?
@Chrissy856
3 ай бұрын
This❣️🙏🏼
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
Yess 😭😭😭. That has also been my downfall and then people want to use you
@Alisa-b4u
2 ай бұрын
Very true, people show you what they like based on the type of friendships they have, even In relationships I’ve noticed that the really good quiet type men have loud aggressive drama filled women, I guess opposites attract, my daughter and I are considered really good empathetic people and she’s always reached out and helped others only to be betrayed later on- she completely shut out family and her half sister because she’s a narcissist- when you have a good kind empathetic spirit you really have to be careful with ppl, as good ppl attract bad people in many cases- best wishes to you ❤
@mayen.perez.1011
Ай бұрын
I agree. And it's a sad reality.
@TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq
2 ай бұрын
You have learned to love yourself. I respect that.
@Joshdifferent
Жыл бұрын
Same 27. No family or friends
@amaya618
Жыл бұрын
Same but im 20 it sucks, i wanna be able to go to restaurants with family friends and enjoy their company, god blessed me with nothing, but I will continue this journey to see what happens
@Joshdifferent
Жыл бұрын
@@amaya618 i understand completely 💯
@JustinQuaid-u8v
Жыл бұрын
If you don't have anybody then how come you aren't talking to people in the streets? Or any area? It's not like people are living away from others. Not sure how come you sending that video to people.
@amaya618
Жыл бұрын
Tf? 💀 You want me to talk 2 complete strangers @@JustinQuaid-u8v
@shayc59
3 ай бұрын
@@amaya618I encourage you to except Jesus Christ into your life. HE'S the best friend anyone can ever have. There will be no drama, no lies and HE will always be with you. Even when it doesn't look good. But it always works for the good ❤🤗🙏🏼
@Lovingself-d7r
Ай бұрын
I have no friends or family because they always want to be users, gossip, jealous, insecure, envy, FAKE, I just Love my PEACE without competition
@askbre
10 ай бұрын
As long as you are self aware and know that you hold yourself accountable, then its okay to let others go bc you know you gave your all.
@theresagardner7547
2 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right I'm considerably older than you and I totally get where ur coming from.. we're on the same page... you're better off being on your own...at first it kinda hurts especially when you're always trying to be helpful and friendly.. I'm DEFINITELY done...do you... the other crap isn't worth your time or energy 💕🙂
@lamidom
2 ай бұрын
You have not 1 but 2 children. You have family. End of story. Divorced and separated people is the norm. So have a jobb and reise your children.
@janiced.hatcher1272
3 ай бұрын
Being able to live without having family, friends or support is having something they do not. That's power. Being able to survive on what's in you, shows what's in you.
@Gemerosity
3 ай бұрын
♥️🤍 You are glowing with THE GLORY OF GOD! God bless you!!!!🤍♥️
@maryannehendrie
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Today i was feeling so down about no family, no friends. I spend my work days as a hospice nurse, isolated with a dying person. There is a reason I live alone without anyone. Maybe God wants me all to Himself.
@phiaasupremacy
8 ай бұрын
Same !!
@swannoir7949
4 ай бұрын
But the Bible said that it wasn't good for man to be alone.
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
No 🥺, God said “ it’s not good for man to be alone “ We’re not meant to be alone. Good people are still out there. You’ll find your tribe.Maybe save up some money and travel to a different country. I suggest Africa you’ll see the beauty in life and friendship + working in Healthcare can really deteriorate your mental health. I remember working in childcare and felt like giving up some days. Travel a bit and try to get out your comfort zone it’s something that I’ve been trying to do too
@nina-111
2 ай бұрын
I'm an adult women with no friends outside of family. My two sisters are my best friends. I always questioned why I never could make friends. Just never felt like I belonged or could connect with and trust other girls/women. Has always been a loner.
@geoffreydavenport5667
3 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful. I totally feel you. I'm 43 with no kids & live bymyself. I LOVE being alone.
@tiffanyf7383
Жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Especially the day before a holiday. I am lucky to have my Mom...but she is elderly and I am constantly worried about my mental health when she finally does pass away. I have other family..but we are not close. I am also on SSD meaning I have multiple health issues so I cannot work. I was extremely close to my Dad..but he passed in 2009...so since its just me and Mom. I only have one friend if you can call her that. We only talk maybe once every 4 months or so. I am 41..not married...no kids. I am just scared what is going to become of me after I lose my Mom. I am just trying to cherish our time together. But I cannot say I envy people who have what I do not have. That whole grass is greener mentality. Bless you for making this. Makes me know I am not alone 💜
@shweta255
Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad and brother. My brother committed suicide. It's just me and my mother. I am 23 rn. No one talks to us. No one calls or texts us. We both are alone.😢
@tiffanyf7383
Жыл бұрын
@@shweta255 I am so sorry for that sweetie 🥺💜. It can feel so hard sometimes...just know there are people out there who feel like you. You are mostly def not alone. My 💜 and Prayers are right there with you.
@cathylake9072
Жыл бұрын
Close friends and family are drama and trouble. I have a few distant friends and family I may talk to once a month and hang out with once or twice a year and it is for the best. If you feel like company join a church that socializes and has church dinners for the holidays.
@lialy3071
9 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@zaraparadise
Жыл бұрын
U have family ur kids can be more then friends can ever be invest in them
@ploodohplanit8259
Ай бұрын
I went through and still going through the same thing. We will be vindicated and have our soul family and tribe. I believe so 🙏🏽
@queenneurotica4591
Жыл бұрын
I wish I’d realised this at 27! Thank you for sharing.
@artsyhyd
Жыл бұрын
Better to be alone than with some toxic ppl, however if u could make few real friends that would be enough. Some ppl have large fam and many friends but most of them talk sh1ts about each other behind each other back lol.
@LovesAlchemist
2 ай бұрын
How old are your kids and how do you help them to understand that they don’t have family to support? Friends im ok not having but family even tho they can be toxic, can be important to them
@TechReviewTom
5 ай бұрын
Yall i joined a MMA gym and i feel a sense of community. Join a martial arts gym of some kind.
@CareBlair222
3 ай бұрын
Me too. 3 boys. I'm very picky who is in my life. I have energy issues as well with others.
@SpookThaGeneral
9 ай бұрын
It's easy to find GOD in isolation god is ur friend.💙🙏💙💯
@sevenmessengers4805
Ай бұрын
I agree with you, and wish you peace and strength for your journey.
@poppins1632
Жыл бұрын
Bless you. I wish I could convey how much of a feeling of solidarity this has given me and how uplifted I feel from it 💚
@god563616
Жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful. God took away 20 year friendships (middle school to now we are 30 y/o) because I started to realize when i started growing mentally and spiritually they couldn't handle my growth so instead of me alone they would hang around me and still suck my energy and then talk about me behind my back. We have to stand in our essence no matter what. God made us unique in every way and i will only tolerate people who will support this uniqueness with no exceptions.
@HaleyGarcia-p4z
3 ай бұрын
Same here( 1 kid ) I agree with you completely.
@sandrariven8327
Жыл бұрын
Its not you. People are in majority shallow
@pauly701
3 ай бұрын
Imagine having none of the things you mentioned, and no children and being 59 👍
@LonerGirlllll
3 ай бұрын
With people on the outside world your either getting set up or played , with family they only want you around if you can drop some money 😂 and when you cant do that they sit around and degrade you 😅
@michelle_m4446
Жыл бұрын
You have wisdom beyond your years. You got this!❤
@alexandrahutchinson4516
8 ай бұрын
I wish I could feel this way. As a single mom with 2 kids, one disabled. I feel in order to stay sane, my family needs support/ppl around us. Unfortunately we don’t have that.
@Naomi-o1z
13 күн бұрын
I feel you and have the same 😊but we most keep going and stay positive in Life But sometimes it gets Lonely.Where do you live?
@alexandrahutchinson4516
8 күн бұрын
@@Naomi-o1z I live in Philadelphia, Pa.
@theconsciousearthangel
8 ай бұрын
I am like you and have had shitty friends over the years. I also have a child and no family and no friends.
@amaya618
Жыл бұрын
At least you have children, god I wish I have just one person, but nope since my family cut me off from age 17 and lost all my friends now I’m 20 with absolutely no one, and I hate to share this info to anyone because maybe someone take advantage of me since I’m all alone, you know.. human trafficking stuff we hear from the news, but I hope someday I have children and a partner and friends 🥺 it sucks rn so bad im in a really dark place. Sometimes i go to the movies just to be around people.. it helps a lil bit
@entertainingvideos1437
Жыл бұрын
We have the same story I lost all of them at 17 now I’m alone at 20.
@berserkagain7976
11 ай бұрын
Same lost everything at 18. I'm 23 now still no friends and family is all gone or cut me off. :(
@shayc59
3 ай бұрын
❤🤗🙏🏼
@shayc59
3 ай бұрын
@@berserkagain7976❤🤗🙏🏼
@shayc59
3 ай бұрын
@@entertainingvideos1437❤🤗🙏🏼
@ca6248
Жыл бұрын
I really feel your pain. I'm going through the same thing. I wish you and everyone else going through this peace and strength. ❤
@mikimousechocolate7449
2 ай бұрын
SAME TO YOU AND THANK YOU 🙏🏿
@ca6248
Ай бұрын
@@mikimousechocolate7449 Thank you! 🙂
@IAMHIS55
5 ай бұрын
You’re awesome and vibrant. Lead on Sis! Stand tall, create, raise your legacies to be strong and thriving. Replenish often but pour on. Blessings. -Auntie Linda, Fam
@notablynorsk
9 ай бұрын
And no friends is better than having fake friends.
@Elizabeth-gx5qj
4 ай бұрын
I am super lonely myself. It’s really hard sometimes 😢 I think my childhood trauma prevents me from trusting others and as a child , my mother never encouraged building friendships, etc
@jenalynmichaud5927
10 ай бұрын
I have no family or friends. I'm 38
@barryoppen1240
Ай бұрын
Sorry to hear abut that...your gorgeous tho...SOMEONE is missing out on having you in their life.
@LovelyFlyShy
Ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@alphaomega1351
Ай бұрын
I wanna be your special friend 🧡. 😉
@MM-zj8be
4 ай бұрын
You are never lonely if you love the person youre alkne with.
@tiffanytaylor9941
2 ай бұрын
My mom told me all my life that "AINT NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS"😢
@evalaura9362
2 ай бұрын
- She Lied
@1missy40
4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 stay to yaself 👌🏾🗣️🙌🏽🕺🏿
@WeezyJeffersonYo
Жыл бұрын
As you get older, you will see how hard this is to maintain. I hope you are able to build some meaningful relationships while you are young. It's not cute to have no friends or family when you get older and people will judge you harshly for it.
@LovelyFlyShy
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, except I really don’t care if people judge me or not. It’s their energy being exerted and wasted not mine. I just simply wish to attract like minded genuine individuals such as myself and for a while there I’ve been attracting the opposite. So I know I have some work to do in order to continue to attract who and what I need in my life.
@Thatperson-kt3mu
Жыл бұрын
Are those people that like to judge willing to step in and be the friend as they are so concerned about it. Sometimes people dont have a choice and dont come from healthy families its not something someone would choose as a first resort.
@mikimousechocolate7449
2 ай бұрын
WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINKS THATS THE PROBLEM PEOPLE HERE IN THE US ARE CRUEL NOT FRIENDLY AND JUDGEMENTAL ITS NOT ALWAYS A PERSONS FAULT BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO ONE
@Anetekonjo
2 ай бұрын
@@LovelyFlyShyIn due time, you will attract the right people. Hang in there and pray on it. Hugs 🤗
@MrsNataliegaddis
Жыл бұрын
I’m 26. No friends, and no family beside my child
@QueenLightbeam
3 ай бұрын
Go Girl!! ❤ you are beautiful. Stay Confident.
@sararichardson737
3 ай бұрын
Great that you’ve understood this at such a young age. You won’t be squandering your gifts and casting Pearl before swine
@shayc59
3 ай бұрын
Amen
@teecee9113
11 ай бұрын
Great message, to be ok with yourself. And you are gorgeous! 🙂👍
@GeminiGlitters
2 ай бұрын
You energy is beautiful and I hope you continue to shine 🫶🏼. Also off topic but your skin😍😍
@LovelyFlyShy
Ай бұрын
Thank you ;)
@LouiseCoulson-nz4fd
4 ай бұрын
It's sad but nice to know I'm not on my own ❤
@AMUN-RA1111
10 ай бұрын
The messed up part is that I know 99% of people can't match my energy and compassion. I will almost always be at a deficit when I interact with people in any meaningful way. So I have 0 problem being alone. Been like this for over 4 years now, and I am just fine. Because even when I'm alone, I never really feel that way. I still feel surrounded by Love. It's a really cool thing 😎
@fifty-thousandqueensprod.413
Жыл бұрын
30 No kids No friends. & I’m looking for a husband & I swear I’m the coolest boss friend life of the party.
@ScottMond
10 ай бұрын
Having children can quickly become giving out all energy and when they grow up getting nothing in return. The jury is still out on how it will pan out with my grown children who I almost gave my life for raising them.
@ralferez36
Ай бұрын
This Is Beautiful 👑👑👑🌹🌹🌹
@ziggiebundy4616
Жыл бұрын
I'm 35 n all I have in this world is my puppy I've been alone since very young n I'm just learning this stuff xxx
@adrianeelise3849
3 ай бұрын
I’ll be your friend ❤
@sariahy
9 ай бұрын
I’m 19 and I’ve cut ties with my family. I’ve realised non of them ever protected me from my abuser or were emotionally there for me. I don’t want to suffer in silence anymore, I have friends but I don’t want to burden them about my mental health or issues. I once thought I had my mum, even though I pretty much knew the rest were beyond me. But she once again reminded me she never had a maternal bone in her body, so I’m here trauma dumping on the internet.
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