►► Register for the Friend She Falls in Love With: friendshefallsfor.com/friends... In this video Chris Anderson and Bobby Rio explain the 5 tests most older men fail with women.
The only way to "pass" these tests is to not care and just be your authentic self. Every time your seeking to "pass" a test, your seeking her approval and bending to her will... This will not end well. Be yourself, be the best of yourself. If someone doesn't understand the value of something being offered don't try to convince them of the value.
@user-bn1wb1bo6p
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely spot on! .....Oh btw, (and I mean this good naturedly) I love how you guys actually think you understand women! 😀
@jabba0975
Жыл бұрын
@@user-bn1wb1bo6p I don't, and I don't think the OP would necessarily make that claim either. The beauty of being unconcerned about tests is that you aren't trying to understand women. If you're interested in understanding women, you're still in the 'wanna pass the test' zone.
@jabba0975
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I made the same comment 2 days ago, and got this reply: "Wrong. As Bobby says elsewhere "Being TESTED is a good thing, it is a sign of interest. Accept it, and PASS it, and move forward with her"." Some guys are just determined to be good little test-takers. Unfortunately, with women and in life generally, that mindset only gets you used. We can try to tell them, but it will take life experience to beat the validation-seeking out of them, I'm afraid.
@SonicBoomC98
Жыл бұрын
Yeah you have to just focus on you and not her and don't try to please
@MikeInABQ
11 ай бұрын
@@jabba0975 I wish I could give multiple thumbs-up your comment. The validation-seeking gets so tiring to deal with. It's probably a big part of why some of us older guys get to a point of have zero expectations for any potential relationship. We can be interested but it doesn't help to try to pass tests that will only delay the realization that we cannot remain happy together.
@marshallrowley3516
Жыл бұрын
No longer dating and no longer concerned, my life has been hella better for it .😊
@whiiteshirt7192
Жыл бұрын
Fair enough. But what brings you here?
@marshallrowley3516
Жыл бұрын
@@whiiteshirt7192 it was in my queue.
@Kim-yl7yg
Жыл бұрын
Happily single.
@whiiteshirt7192
Жыл бұрын
@@marshallrowley3516 Que? Do you mean Queue? In other words, suggested videos? If so, YT woud have suggested this video if you were watching similar content. And then you presumably chose to watch this video...
@marklambert4793
Жыл бұрын
@@whiiteshirt7192always with the grammar police. Grow up and move out of your mother’s basement Mr …
@gregthompson9434
Жыл бұрын
Stay chill and relaxed don’t force outcomes enjoy the interaction, if it goes well great if not move on
@sageoldmann5157
Жыл бұрын
I could care less about what any woman wants, and it seems to be working perfectly in my opinion. They try harder no matter the age.
@jibbityjab2469
Жыл бұрын
Username checks out.
@petercallison5765
Жыл бұрын
If you have not met a girl that you want to make happy then you have had a very sad life.
@jibbityjab2469
Жыл бұрын
@@petercallison5765 Sure...But finding a girl who wants to make you happy (instead of just herself) is not always that easy.
@GBU61
Жыл бұрын
Hold on…you can care less what she wants?
@PremiumUserUltra
Жыл бұрын
@@petercallison5765LOL BRO THATS WHAT THEY WANT THE LEAST
@MrDANGitall
Жыл бұрын
I have a super plan! Just be your best, respectful self. If she doesn't like THAT, it's her problem, and a helluva time-saver.
@SC-yx6wr
7 ай бұрын
Interesting vid. Back when I was dating, we called these "tests" Mind Games, and they are a power-trip for women regardless of any age spreads. They were a huge red flag to guys who were aware. If the woman was the type who played those games, you knew you could never win, and it was time to move on to find a women who was sincere and genuine. That's what I eventually did, I found a girl who was no-BS, and I have been happily married for 30+ years to her.
@artmacgabran5877
7 ай бұрын
Foreigner did a song on them called Head Games ...and I can't take it anymore...
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
I think you're mixing up "teasing" type games with manipulation. The teasing stuff is a common safety test to see if you're secure in yourself and not a hothead, and not a pushover. Dark manipulation is more from women who have personality disorders, serious Daddy issues, trauma.
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, I still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, I love her so much, I dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do I reach her?
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up now online. impressive.
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
anyone reading this, the guy above and below are scammers. they've left this comment string on other videos. don't fall for it.
@joeskeptical4762
Жыл бұрын
*_You need some fresh poon-tang._*
@chriswynne5354
Жыл бұрын
Not trying to mentor you although I'm going through the same process. You concentrate on your well-being and your future will become more successful. Trust
@dbongo1
Ай бұрын
I'm 71 and my hot girlfriend of 4 years is 28. I got the favorite singer test from her older sister. I shocked them both when I said Rhianna (which is true.) Just be genuine. I also tried to be her mentor, but she is strong willed and never listened to me (shocker). Finally after being correct so many times she said "I'll do whatever you tell me." lol
@michaelp5518
Жыл бұрын
Here is a test I had payed on me years ago. “Don’t you think you are fortunate to be with someone as pretty as me? I said. You fall into that top drawer of good looks. And that’s mostly what I attract. Meaning…there are lots of those. She was all over me after that.
@supercal333
Жыл бұрын
Was it "you fall into the top drawer of good looks" or ""you fall into the top drawer of good looks. and that's mostly what I attract" Second version sounds like you ocertly big noting yourself which could be a turn off.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
I don't get it. My response would most likely have been: Chuckle while calmly standing, I would reply with "excuse me, I'm not big into tests," and walk away confidently without looking back.
@mightystronk4361
4 ай бұрын
@@Carnivoracious-rm8tl this is the cringiest shit i've read in a while
@somkiat_alexavier
Жыл бұрын
Being in the “Friend zone” is the worst position to be in. Sure, you will be in her presence, but you will be putting yourselves in the “Simp” roll who will always come running every time she calls. Women know within the first 5 minutes of meeting you whether or not they find you sexually attractive enough to want to sleep with you or put you in the friend zone.
@YafunaGaming
Жыл бұрын
The best part about bein in the friend zone is holding them accountable and watchin them have a meltdown for SYMPathy points.
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
yup, this happens to be a lot
@phillhuddleston9445
Жыл бұрын
The most important test for women looking for older men is the bank account test!!!
@jeffreeOH
Жыл бұрын
I don't think so. A woman isn't likely to sleep with a rude disgusting older man just because he's wealthy. They want the whole package. They want the advantages of his wisdom and experience as well as any other perks like good looks, no kids if possible, a house, a nice sports car, etc..
@williamashe9917
Жыл бұрын
Bullshit!!!
@user-sp7dk7ri2c
Жыл бұрын
Women won’t sleep with an older man who is charming and a true gentlemen if he is broke as well. House, nice car, money to go out, aren’t replaced by personality.
@jorgenieto7608
Жыл бұрын
Damn right!!!!
@cisvaughan6937
10 ай бұрын
Utter rubbish!
@Clownboy15
Жыл бұрын
I was just on a cruise to Bermuda. One of the things they did during the week was a Name That Tune style show. One of the girls that was pulled up there was this very pretty Filipina and she was also just funny! And I don't think she was being funny on purpose but she was and I wanted to meet her. However, I still have approach anxiety and she disappeared after being eliminated. Then on the last night at the big dance party, I had left and was headed back to my room. I peaked over the balcony when the next band had taken over just to see what they were playing and I saw that girl down there dancing by herself. So I figured why the hell not, and went down there and introduced myself to her. We wound up dancing for the rest of the time. In the end we had fun but went our separate ways. She was the same age as my niece (twenty years old) and I celebrated by forty-ninth birthday at sea. That's just way too damn young for me. But it was a learning experience for me and also the first time I ever approached a woman like that.
@chrispekel5709
Жыл бұрын
You can easily get a girl that young in the Philippines
@thewolfofmainstreet6600
Жыл бұрын
Pimp
@billkramer2994
4 ай бұрын
Foreign women wld kill their mothers to get a western man to mate up w them and marry them in a western country! Once there legally - watch out! Jeykl and Hyde. Had a aussie girl pull that w an Amer guy. Once in Amer and married, she shows up at their hse w a black guy saying "it's my hse too!" Divorced and in US legally was her goal and most foreign girls!!
@-GrimEngineer-1337
Жыл бұрын
They don't test sigmas... just the beta simpers. The aura of confidence you have will let her know that you are real. Be into what you are into, don't simp trying to please or impress her. That confidence of yourself is all you need. Be well spoken and able to have an intellectual conversation.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Bingo. I quoted you in the post above, under Jabba0975
@flukedogwalker3016
Жыл бұрын
The most dangerous woman in the world is the one who fits you like a velvet glove, laughs at your feeble jokes, your relatives love, the kids don't mind and is a good cook, unlike your first wife.
@rbr8931
Жыл бұрын
Could you elaborate pls
@imagething
Жыл бұрын
“Rolling Stone My grandfather “ I laugh at those jokes and say stuff like “ I’m more interested in girls who can recognize the signs of a stroke” 😂
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
lol
@andrewmackenzie325
Жыл бұрын
Great repartee
@TonyCanones
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@davidosalsero2519
Жыл бұрын
I go to salsa classes, and I joke with the girls in there "Nowadays this is the only way I can get my hands on young female flesh!"
@mikey92362
Жыл бұрын
@@davidosalsero2519 Please stop saying that. Yikes. Creepy. It also makes you sound really low value.
@marklambert4793
Жыл бұрын
Well I must have passed. Because I’ve been married for 30 years to the same woman. And she’s 12 years younger than I am.
@DuaLeaD
Жыл бұрын
Did she say what it was that attracted her in the early phases? Any pros and cons of dating someone younger? Some wisdom please ;)
@mikehawkins4752
Жыл бұрын
If a woman said "my grandfather likes the Rolling Stones", I'd tell her "your grandfather has good taste".
@Rundark-
Жыл бұрын
Every woman that said they wouldn't sleep with me was telling the truth. Because there wasn't any sleeping getting done, lol. Every woman who started in on me with their crazy ish, I went daddy on their @$$ then they were calling me daddy. Keep your mouth shut when with a woman your getting to know, they'll do all talking. Never in the history of dating did a woman go home and complain to their BFF and say, "all we talked about all night was me". One of my favorite responses to them when they break out with the drama test is, "shouldn't you be out on a ledge somewhere?" And the absolute number one thing you never want to do is give her your approval on anything. If you do she is done with you and will move on to the next one.
@DEADLY-LURES-AU
Жыл бұрын
Gold advice cheers bro
@markmartin6436
Жыл бұрын
I dont understand...why is giving your approval wrong?
@Rundark-
Жыл бұрын
@@markmartin6436 Really? I don't want to assume you have little experience with women cause this should be common knowledge. However you asked nicely enough so I'll give you the deets. It stems from childhood, being a young girl they are always seeking approval from their father or father figure. And that carries over into adulthood, and as soon as they get approval from a man they are interested in it's game over and on to the next one. Naturally there are exceptions to the rule, but even then all women like a man who is kind of a dick, the bad boy, even if they say different. women are living breathing contradictions to themselves. Friend of mine said, "women are the most f#@ked up creatures god ever put on earth" He wasn't wrong, LOL. At the end of the day women like drama, they need controversy, some form of disruption to capture their attention like a raccoon does when they find something shiny.
@cisvaughan6937
10 ай бұрын
Good question
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
I have fallen for ALL These traps ALL my life (I am 52) and the only girls who have become girlfriends are ones who I wasn't interested in and they asked me out! I hope I can avoid these traps in the future. I have been single now for over 15 years, so I certainly cant do any worse than I have been doing!!
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
i checked out your channel John, there is NO reason you should be struggling. Just keep adjusting, see what works, and make it happen!
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio thanks, story of my life, I hear that a lot, even from women, but thanks, one day a decent woman will see the good and allow me into their life!
@johnpapa8681
Жыл бұрын
@@JohnVDenley dude, why do you want to be a slave? You should look at the good side of being single.
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
@@johnpapa8681 what are the good sides of being single? I hate it, but I love being in a relationship...
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
@@johnpapa8681 sounds like someone really hurt you in the past!
@tmlocalone
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Again Guys
@mooseyman74
2 ай бұрын
"My grandfather likes the Rolling Stones" "Wherever he laid his hat was it his home?" "What?" "You failed the test"
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
That's a tricky Double Test. Nice!
@MisterGames
Жыл бұрын
The moment you Try to pass a test you are not being your authentic self. You fail yourself.
@jj-sc1kq
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the good advice. I don't pursue any more. However my situation is changing and maybe I will have the hope to try again soon.
@stevieG.
Жыл бұрын
I think the higherr you value yourself the less likely you will make these older guy mistakes - I've pretty much made all of them over the years!
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
very true
@greg6811
Жыл бұрын
Yeah most definitely! Cause if you’re high value then you have options and won’t act desperate
@DEADLY-LURES-AU
Жыл бұрын
And if you aren't high value pretend to be and the results will come with practice
@mreverybody1150
Жыл бұрын
@@greg6811 When you consider yourself to be high value, whether you have options or not won't change how you act. You are simply never desperate regardless.
@greg6811
Жыл бұрын
@@mreverybody1150 yeah true. I played it cool for 2 years and she was the desperate one, then got desperate for her once she couldn’t meet me smh I need to let her go
@smoggyama
5 ай бұрын
Good advice. I concur.
@lint8391
Жыл бұрын
I think that a theme of the advice in this video is: keeping the mood and emotions light and fun. EG she hesitates on your doorstep. Don't get heavy about it. Treat it as the no big deal that it is (because you'll either sleep with her later or sleep with some other woman before too long). She whinges about an ex or a past date. Don't fall into her negative frame. Just hold out your hand and move the conversation to a lighter mood. She says that her Grandad likes the Rolling Stones. Have a laugh about it. Don't get defensive about it.
@neilbradley
7 ай бұрын
I actually had that "My grandpa listens to x". My response was "Well... of course, he has great taste in music!". She was really surprised because she expected a lame response.
@MPlain
Жыл бұрын
I'm 14 years older then my wife she big time was into how stable am i. What kind of home i can give a family. Not just her. She's thinking her kids here. Being older is an advantage here. She knows you are highly likely to be more into that. the whole taste test thing is real. I was just me.
@ORflycaster
5 ай бұрын
Her, "My grandfather listens to the Rolling Stones!" Me, "He sounds like a smart man, I'd like to meet him someday." Also me, "No, I'm NOT a 'Swifty' and that will never change."
@erestube
11 ай бұрын
Keep it light and fun. Enjoying your life is what life is all about. That's the lesson older men have learned.
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
Light and fun, but with a sensual vibe here and there, and the ocasional pullback. You don't want to be her funny little friend.
@matthartford6338
Жыл бұрын
Damn it. I'm lookin at both of you talking about older guy dating, and thinking to myself " you look way younger than me!" 😂😂😂😂
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
we each mid 40s, so that's considered older to many people :)
@neil03051957
Жыл бұрын
The test I remember was if I noticed the phrase THE MONEY when referring to my money. Then it's bye bye baby. 😂
@timotahowhitehawk3756
Жыл бұрын
I had to ditch one recently bc of the same thing, I hated to get rid of her, but I had too! Almost immediately, she was asking me to give her money to help with living expenses. I told her, men like me do not give money, to women we barely know. I told her, "Now, if you prove to be a worthy woman of my love, then later on there will be benefits!" But it turned me off, we had a great vibe, good connection & a lot in common. I hated to lose her, but she had to go, I had to "cut her loose", due to this needing money almost immediately. It felt disingenuous and like a scam.
@neil03051957
Жыл бұрын
@timotahowhitehawk3756 mine wanted me to sell my house and take her on holiday....for a year. Also, pay to get to get her BMW repaired. Just all too superficial.
@Joe-gl8sr
Жыл бұрын
Good stuff!! 💯💯
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 💯
@johnny07652
Жыл бұрын
I'm 55 and I'm watching this thinking I hope I learn things I can use with women 10 to 15 years younger.... yet your clips show guys who are upwards of 65 and 70 hitting on girls who look like they're in their 30's or even 20's!!!! LOL that gives me hope!!! It looks so weird but at least I don't look THAT old - I should be able to get some girls in their 30's, especially 35+. Thanks for all the advice - I was pleasantly surprised to see that I pretty much knew most of these - just not so much the goal line test - although I've somehow passed that test just by kind of being honest and saying "No problem" and letting it go. Anyway, good stuff, thanks!!!
@JohnVDenley
Жыл бұрын
same
@kencaton6377
11 ай бұрын
im 65 dating a 34 yr old. just play it cool and the skys the limit. good luck.
@johnny07652
11 ай бұрын
@@kencaton6377 thanks, Ken, that's encouraging to hear. do you have a lot of money? Nice car, house, etc.? Honest question - I have to believe that money must play a factor in it at our ages
@kencaton6377
11 ай бұрын
@@johnny07652 dont have a lot of money, but i have carefully worked my way into the position where everything i own is paid for and my only two bills are phone ,power and car insurance. i built my house myself, and it took nine years out of pocket. it can be done, but like they say, if it was easy everyone would be doing it. good luck to you
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
30s is doable but you need to be in shape and have hair.
@Rich65501
Жыл бұрын
The number one reason why young women are interested in older me is money. Young women are broke. They have roommates. They are miserable.
@johnpapa8681
Жыл бұрын
I don't want to attract women. I like my money.
@PetriTemiseva
Жыл бұрын
Ever heard of a prenup? 🤔
@johnpapa8681
Жыл бұрын
@@PetriTemiseva well, prenups don't protect your money or you from them before the splittup. All the money you have to spend trying to keep them happy, which requires more and more as you go. And don't forget the false allegations and extortion. Then every contract, will, prenup can be challenged in court, which will mean more lawyers fees at the minimum. Then of course, time spent in court. I just don't need all that. If you want these money hungry women for quickie sex, which I don't, get a fake ID, tell them your mother lives with you so you'll have to go to a motel. And then, vanish into the night like a "ghost".
@erichmacho5741
Жыл бұрын
@@PetriTemiseva Yup, they can be flimsy. Some lawyers don't even want to touch them as they feel they themselves will be sued when they get overturned.
@PetriTemiseva
Жыл бұрын
@@erichmacho5741 It depends on the jurisdiction, prenups can be done also to be watertight, undisputable.
@johnpapa8681
Жыл бұрын
@@PetriTemiseva the only thing watertight in court I ever heard of is lawyers making money.
@JasonObsidian
Жыл бұрын
These two jokers have the combined mental age of 16😂
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
And no game, since they both speak, at least to my ears, SIMP-ese.
@MrSmith8593
Жыл бұрын
40 year old virgin. I need to watch that movie again. Great movie lol
@DianaCler23
Жыл бұрын
Is it comedy?
@athos5359
Жыл бұрын
@@DianaCler23 back then yes,today real.
@DUNEATV
Жыл бұрын
Do you have anymore pictures? Lol!!!!
@macvena
Жыл бұрын
When she pulls a test, just laugh. Women never expect that. It boggles their mind.
@Tubes12AX7k
Жыл бұрын
Ignore it, and just go wash your car and fix things around the house. And then she'll come back and want to know why are are not taking her messages.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Right! They're testing for SIMP-itude. They might smile as you proffer an honest/geniuine answer, but in her brain she's calculating genteel ways to dispatch you to the SIMP trash heap.
@SuperQdaddy
Жыл бұрын
If she doesn't get me..than she isn't for me..ive played the game and did well...but I'm tired of it...good luck fellas I have a take it or leave it attitude ...no baggage no problem
@jabba0975
Жыл бұрын
Don't do it! Don't even try to 'pass her tests.' Unless you want to be her 'boy'. If you're worried about what to do, you've already lost. Be yourself, only socialize with women that act right. What will be will be. Simple, right? No videos needed.
@davidwhyman1189
Жыл бұрын
Wrong. As Bobby says elsewhere "Being TESTED is a good thing, it is a sign of interest. Accept it, and PASS it, and move forward with her".
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Quoting GrimEngineer, below, "They don't test sigmas...just the beta simpers." If women sense that you won't put up with their shit, you're already ahead of many of the men trying to get into her pants, because she's likey bombarded with drooling OnlySimps who believe videos like this will give you game. Not caring is the only game you'll need.
@OziBlokeTimG
Жыл бұрын
Trying to hard, you are the prize. Be happy to walk away. Don't be needy...
@NeerajSharma033
Жыл бұрын
Bro he is talking about Marni, your personal wing girl. Damn
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
yes, i've known marni for years.
@davidosalsero2519
Жыл бұрын
I go to salsa classes, and I joke with the girls in there "Nowadays this is the only way I can get my hands on young female flesh!"
@33Jenesis
Жыл бұрын
I dance with mostly 60/70/80 year olds in weekly swing dance party. They can outdance me; terrific cardio fitness those old coots lol
@billpetersen298
Жыл бұрын
@@33Jenesis Getting pegged, by granny.
@garybill721
Жыл бұрын
What is good about your advice is that you can use failing the tests to your advantage. I'm having a fling with a pretty 24 yo, I'm 63. I don't know if she is worldly enough for me, the sex and training for her is great, but i enjoy my life of freedom and flirting. So, i can use her tests against her if and when i am ready.
@x_MrYAYA_x
Жыл бұрын
Wow wtf she obviously using u for your resources. Bravo though u do u.
@davidosalsero2519
Жыл бұрын
Only 63!
@kentspeigner8738
Жыл бұрын
Don’t get her pregnant!
@garybill721
Жыл бұрын
I'm neutered so no problem there. When people realize everything in life is a trade off, life gets easier. I don't understand why people get hung up on money, (unless you don't have any). With age comes wisdom, more valuable than money.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Finally! A man who's a man. Bless you!
@92pavelow
2 ай бұрын
Best entertainment on YT. What men all should do and not just to get into that box. LMFAO 😂
@zrunner240Z
Жыл бұрын
8:10 Back in 2017 a chick that was SOLID 9 ubered 40 miles to meet me at the Casino..... I lost a SURE FIRE LAY That NIght that was 100% DTF by saying "OH NO I RESPECT YOU, I'm NOT JUST TRYING TO SLEEP WITH YOU".....Never saw or heard from her again
@BodyTrust
Жыл бұрын
"Let's agree to have a platonic friendship, for now. Okay?"
@danielb7253
9 ай бұрын
I have been in shape for my whole life. TRT is my friend. I'm 50 and my gf is 25. I don't need this video..
@davestang5454
Жыл бұрын
If you are pursuing a woman like Reese "Do you know who you are talking to, cop!?" Witherspoon then the #1 problem you have is NOT knowing when to pursue a particular woman. They are NOT all "prizes", guys. Actually, there are a lot more poisonous, destructive women out there that men should AVOID these days than good ones. Men need to identify them BEFORE they go through the pursuit process.
@rspeedemon1
Жыл бұрын
You are the prize never forget that and it all works out fine. Women are always testing for signs of abundance and wealth.
@ra.v.l4038
10 ай бұрын
What's key here is understanding that women are in charge they you choose you, you have no say in it but you can mess it up. Be polite approachable, laid back, and chill.
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
True, but you can also reject them.
@Mr.Steve-O
3 ай бұрын
Best advice > Be yourself and don't seek validation, a relationship is an addition to your life, not the focal point
@SatoshiOnPC
11 ай бұрын
I failed that last one with the mentor trap
@ChicagoJimmy420
Жыл бұрын
She say: My Grandfather likes Rolling Stones. Me: Your Grandfather has Good Taste !!!
@johnpapa8681
Жыл бұрын
I don't take social tests for anybody. If you dan't want me, fine. If I don't want you, great. No explanation necessary. It doesn't matter why. Ghosting me would be fine.
@wraspita
11 ай бұрын
Wow, this all sounds so incredibly tiring. but for the men who want to play along, this video must be valuable. Personally, I hate women that play these kind of games. Been there, done that, not worthy. Just becoming the best version of myself, accumulating wisdom, skills, wealth, precious friendships and living with purpose is my objective. If a good woman appears along the way and we match, excellent, so be it. But being aware of all this psychological garbage, calculating and adjusting to be on her good side. Honestly, screw all that.
@QuantumEffectResidue
5 ай бұрын
The one thing I'd like to add here and I think it's very important because being in a relationship is the hardest thing you'll ever do in your life in my opinion. It's harder than maintaining a job buying a house and putting the kids through college. So to secure yourself put God first and if you're looking for a mate, pray and ask the Lord what to do how to proceed.
@mtlicq
Жыл бұрын
Puck the Stones and Sinatra, I listen to Beiderbecke the Great!
@herbrice8933
Жыл бұрын
If she says I don’t normally do this, she has and she will again. All women are easy 18 to 80, if you have game.
@User_Unknown_15
11 ай бұрын
Yeah don’t let her figure you out I mean don’t let her figure out that you have no options or else all this won’t work lol
@user-pv1tn5sq1q
6 ай бұрын
Most guys don't even want to try dating, women have too many games. too many free dinners that you the man pay for. And what do you get? (Frend Zone)
@BucketWheat
Жыл бұрын
I don't know where you guys are meeting all of these "Game-Players"... but if you are just going to "Shark-Tank Clubs" that are full of Land-Sharks and "ladies" throwing out bait... Then THAT is all you are going to find. It is like where you go to catch Catfish, or where you go to catch Marlin... Maybe it is not so much about "tests" as it is just that you are fishing in the wrong place. Act Like you are "Picky" but WORTH being with... Show a sense of humor, and engage with the people around you..! Let her 'observe' as you INCLUDE OTHERS and let HER draw you out of the group... YOU are NOT the helpless little puppy dog wagging your tail hoping she will pet you on the head... show her that YOU are the one she wants to follow HOME. Being Interested in OTHERS, makes YOU Interesting TO others... and she becomes "proud to have 'Won your attention'... When you can make the GROUP Laugh, and have some fun -- even setting yourself up for a "hit" from someone else, once in a while (and then how you 'handle' the shot) shows far more "Self-Confidence" than almost anything else you can do... Get a BIGGER LAUGH yourself, than the person got when they took a shot... BUT keep it ALL on the fun zone... Do NOT get into a "Hormone War"... By "Taking the Fall" from someone else's comment let's them feel good (remember you want to show friendly interaction) but your funny 'fall Down' also makes YOU a 'winner' and isn't a "WIN/WIN" situation the very best outcome..? I am not an "Ugly" guy, but I am not always the 'best-Looking' either... but I learned back in school to be "Entertaining" and "comfortable to be with..." AND I do not put on "Pressure" that I "HAVE" to Catch a FISH every time I go out in public... and like Owen Wilson, I am always willing to walk away...
@bobross1829
8 ай бұрын
The main thing to keep in mind with younger women that keeps you, as an older guy, attractive is she what women like about older men. So long as you keep projecting that, you do fine. What do women like about older guys? She thinks you have experience, you have things figured out, YOU are busy (not her), you have money (yes don't fool yourself) you have seen a lot and can care for her better than some guy her age. You act like a salivating dog as soon as she is interested or says something sexual? You lose that aura and that is what guys her age do.."damn gurl you so fine!". Dont be that guy. She test you saying she cannot go out? Say that is fine, let me know when you can. Older guys it should be no big deal. She wants to meet up on a day, say you are busy. Make her chase you. Act like you are the prize. Many older guys DO NOT act like this, and those guys are the ones women call creepy. The older guys you see with hot younger women, this is what they do.
@sourfox1984
Жыл бұрын
Your guy looks like a male Ellen DeGeneres
@stevofromiowa
Жыл бұрын
They didn't tell you? It is. LOL
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Maybe, but Ellen probably laid more 'tang.
@GoldKingsMan
Жыл бұрын
Yikes more tests. I made the mistake number 2.
@lv4077
Жыл бұрын
Don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t,it can’t last.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Indeed. Let HER play that role.
@Mmyers1177
5 ай бұрын
So basically don’t get boxed in trying to get into the box
@KJImpakt
Жыл бұрын
I can see a lot of counterpoint that give her control. How would a guy who has control issues approach each of these factors?
@tigeratlas
Жыл бұрын
Her: “My grandad listens to the Rolling Sones” Me: “your grandpa must be sexual tyrannosaurus”
@eriksmith2514
Жыл бұрын
"A little older" than her isn't older.
@Evermore2017
Жыл бұрын
Simply look at her with an older woman in your head and you will fly through this. Think Sally Fields or Jane Fonda and you will attract her to your at best 10% interest.
@Evermore2017
Жыл бұрын
Fleetwood Mac is always a safe answer.
@peterh0862
8 ай бұрын
Bobby, this is a good topic for a video. You talk as though you have a background in ? The 1 major negative from your video is; you both ‘blink’ a lot!! Psychologist will tell you that blinking is a sign of addiction. Your eyes give you away! Yes, the eyes 👀 tell others your true story! So, is there a reason for your excessive blinking?
@CoachSteveJandS
Жыл бұрын
Just tell them " hey, I ain't grampa over here..." With a James bond smirk
@LadyJane222
27 күн бұрын
That’s creepy
@markm.9252
Жыл бұрын
Easier to just stay away from all the games they play. It's a vicious cycle with them.
@eseskay99
Жыл бұрын
Rolling Stones is the new "Classical Music". BTW, I also like Beethoven.
@billkramer2994
4 ай бұрын
If older man has $$, it's the younger girl who will adapt or lose his $$! Older guy can just be himself, there's more of her out there than of you!
@1Oldgreenbus
Жыл бұрын
Cool to get away from the whiteboard in this conversation..
@MarwanMahdy
Жыл бұрын
so the way to do it is being extremely casual about it. Let her choose, don't try to "convince" her. If she questions your taste you can always say "yeah, to each his own, that is why there is so much variety in this world" or something similar. Once you try to convince her or justify yourself you will be the "old guy who is desperate to hookup with a young girl"
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
yea never try to convince.
@kyliedesire7425
Жыл бұрын
If you are a protector to any woman and she sees it and you are a Boss and you gave her a bit of bossy time from your side and if you have fun and you have common goals and you have common interests, she is yours and you are her. Not that woman dont LOVE emotiona rolercoaster ;) By the way the more you are pushing her away the better. Just gave her a drink and go away. She will follow you because you are 1st man did not ask her for any phone numer. Be real not fake!
@JohannesNielsen
Жыл бұрын
She has to pass my initial assessment 1st. Fail that and it's bye bye
@SDsc0rch
9 ай бұрын
"exspecially"
@bigbadjojo4863
Жыл бұрын
You need to make her win your approval. Act like you don’t give a fuck what she says about your likes, you are you without needing anyone or their approval. If she doesn’t want to come in or say she doesn’t want to have sex with you. Just say: thank God I am a germaphobe. Make her feel like she’s the nasty one, make her work to prove you wrong.
@Stanthemilkman
Жыл бұрын
Dating can be a fun game.
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
exaclty, once you accept its a game, have fun with it.
@billkramer2994
4 ай бұрын
True men want to help women, men's nature. Know how to do it.
@Beardedguy89
11 ай бұрын
I'm 34 and listen to the rolling stones
@philcarr7015
Жыл бұрын
I have a medical condition that requires giving myself an injection every week in my belly or thigh. I went to my doctors office to be shown how to do it correctly. The nurse that taught me how lifted up her scrub top, exposing her own belly including a belly button stud. She said that the injection feels like getting a peirsing. I quietly said that I don't have any but hers was nice. We were both standing and she got on her knees to give me the injection. I'm 5'6" and she's maybe an inch taller. I didn't comment although I was thinking, while your down there 😮. I felt like she was testing the hell out of me. I was 58 at the time and she was around 26 and is very attractive. I have to add that she brought another nurse into the room with us that was standing behind her the whole time but couldn't really see what was going on. I had just been out of a long term relationship a couple years ago so I had not been aware of the changes in dating. I don't know if she was flirting or testing or if she treats all old patients like this. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
@phillhuddleston9445
Жыл бұрын
I would not assume that she was flirting at all, some people just behave differently these days.
@aaadamt964
Жыл бұрын
Women that wear scrubs tend to be wild and promiscuous. If you're attractive, she was testing.
@philcarr7015
Жыл бұрын
@@phillhuddleston9445 Thanks. Times have certainly changed.
@rockymntain
Жыл бұрын
@@phillhuddleston9445 Especially in a professional setting. They are just doing their job and maybe don't recognize that they are doing something that could be misleading. 9 out of 10 times they'd be surprised that you thought they were doing something to get your interest. You could always do the Rodney Dangerfield schtick and joke around, test the waters and then if it backfired you could blow it off with another joke and move on.
@phillhuddleston9445
Жыл бұрын
@@rockymntain True.
@tonyd4346
8 ай бұрын
I simply test them!
@frankie_fit
Жыл бұрын
Your grandfather has good taste.
@Evermore2017
Жыл бұрын
I’m most interested in older women. All that being said, I’m about to marry a woman 19 years younger. (Never married no kids so I look her age because no stressors marriage, kids and divorce that age men).
@wayneshawlinski4898
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations, the only thing I may suggest is a prenup. People change
@athos5359
Жыл бұрын
@@wayneshawlinski4898 she wil now,the old betamale is secure mission complete.
@privateperson5054
5 ай бұрын
Damn ! Gets the point at 2:00 min
@ruthgreen1840
Жыл бұрын
Real
@saika216
Жыл бұрын
What I'm hearing is "women will play games, and you have to be a player in their game for the satisfaction of any sort of relations"
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
Their advice/examples are atrocious. As if their sole audience/customer base are simpy white knighters and blue-pillers.
@40russia
6 ай бұрын
Horse Sh*t advice. Music tastes are timeless. I'm 54 and listened to classic rock my entire life. I love an 'old soul' regardless.
@sethdecamp4919
10 ай бұрын
If you are a successful man then don’t get married. It’s an absolute waste of your time and resources.
@edwardmylnychuk5774
Жыл бұрын
personally i dont care if they want to test me because when they do i just look at them and say, DO I WANT HER, na not worth the time.
@33Jenesis
Жыл бұрын
I met a 64 year old guy divorced for a year after a 20-yr marriage (no kids). I am in my 50’s, not too much younger. He turned me off by always mentioning his young looks and tip top physique (he’s a long time triathlete). He looks down on the neighbors who are in their 70/80’s, saying he’s not in the same league. He badmouthed triathletes for being type A and obsessive. The way he talks about triathlon to me sounds just as type A and obsessive. I don’t discredit his achievements but they are not the carrot/sugar cubes for me. He tried to impress me with his Porsche 911. I can care less. I like my 2003 Honda Si better. Another odd thing is he repeats his tales and anecdotes not knowing he had already told me once or twice, often word for word (very obvious in his text). I have always dated younger guy, from 4 to 10 years younger. The relationships felt more equal than leader follower. I have nothing against older men but I know what would put me off.
@kajjebre
Жыл бұрын
Dated young and still alone. I wonder why
@33Jenesis
Жыл бұрын
@@kajjebre i fell out of love with them or it ran its course. Seeking a forever love is a recipe for letdown and heartbreak. Enjoy while it’s good and always remember the good.
@timotahowhitehawk3756
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your input as a younger woman, sounds like he was measuring his appendage by being insecure, so he has to constantly bring up his athletic accomplishments. Sounds like he needs a heavy dose of humility, no wonder he is divorced, I bet his wife left, me speculating.
@33Jenesis
Жыл бұрын
What you said was what I was wondering. I understand that people are proud of their achievements, be it academic, career, hobbies, finance, or special talents. Bringing it up often though is suspicious. Maybe he is out of practice being off dating market for decades, not knowing humble bragging is not attractive. I don’t care what reason because he’s been friend zoned. Other than triathlon, there is nothing we could talk about in depth. I can’t be with a person without mutual conversation on variety of subject matters. Can’t do small talk all the time.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
@@33Jenesis Do you (still) test men you're interested in?
@edmoran869
Жыл бұрын
Nearly every woman I encounter seems to only be interested in my net worth. I rarely ever get asked about things that relate to my personality or interests, but if I own my house, what kind vehicle I have, and they try to get an estimate of my income. It's like they are interested in a relationship with my wallet instead of me.
@Carnivoracious-rm8tl
6 ай бұрын
And why on earth would you even consider sharing financial information with a stranger?
@edmoran869
6 ай бұрын
@@Carnivoracious-rm8tl I don't have to. For some odd reason I've concluded that nearly any man at or behind the age of 50 has amassed at least some form of personal wealth. Therefore he's automatically viewed as a potential source of income. So unless I address everyone by saying that I am penniless and I live in a homeless shelter (which I'm neither) it's a given that I have a retirement account, stocks, bank accounts, or a personal business that provides a steady income. I don't have to claim anything, it's already accepted as a given.
@GUITARTIME2024
2 ай бұрын
You're totally grey and you have an Old Man beard. You put yourself in the category of "let's see how desperate he is". Shave that beard, lift weights (safely) and get your hair professionally dyed once a month.
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