I am the one asking for a divorce to my husband. It was an arranged marriage and from the third month, I started understanding we both carry extremely different opinions, beliefs, dreams and expectations. He wants a working wife, modern, independent, fit, but also a wife who can cook, clean and do all household chores with ease alone. I am tired of his complaints as he never helps or does nothing but complain that I missed ordering this, cooked a different item or different way. I feel so tired of these complaints as I am tired and need some help too
@thedivorceediaries
2 жыл бұрын
I hear you, Appsy. I'm sure it must be so hard having to go through that. I truly hope that there can be some relief and understanding that can come within your marriage. If not, then I hope you find the freedom you desire
@33Duce
28 күн бұрын
She mentioned being selfish, I'm guessing that selfishness is why her husband wanted a divorce.
@delianarocha6724
Жыл бұрын
I’m the one too asking for divorce to my husband and God know that I try everything. But he did not care enough To work with me and today I feel broke from the inside and I’m feeling so alone, I do not wish this feelings to anyone.
@thedivorceediaries
Жыл бұрын
I understand that feeling. I hope that both you and your husband can come to terms with what you both want in life and that it may suit both of your needs, going forward
@midnight2600
3 жыл бұрын
Wish my wife would stop all this. I'm confident we could make things work out and grow through this together, but she refuses to even speak to me and its been tough.
@thedivorceediaries
2 жыл бұрын
I have faith that all will work as it is supposed to. I hope you both can come to a meaningful understanding that works best for the both of you
@radiantblog
6 ай бұрын
but what if its a mistake? What if i will regret it? He is not all bad. I dont want to be ungrateful.
@hayleyhawn
26 күн бұрын
I'm not making any judgment on your relationship whatsoever, and something to keep in mind is that nobody enters into a relationship with an abusive person (mostly). almost nobody is ALL bad, even the worst abusers often have good qualities. I'm not at all saying your relationship is abusive-i do not know you, it's just something to remember. everyone has something good but that doesn't mean it's right.
@ROXELL
2 ай бұрын
It is mutual for us, and we are just starting the paperwork.I’m also a Filipina and all of my aunts and my mom got divorced, everyone on my husband’s side is divorced, and I didn’t want the same fate, but for our reason, it will not work out.
@stephanijames-wells6665
9 ай бұрын
8:46 I needed this more than you could know. Thank you soooo much for sharing ❤❤
@thedivorceediaries
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏽 I’m glad I could help in any way. Sending you so much love! 💕💕
@hamed4686
2 жыл бұрын
What if there is a child between the two ?
@thedivorceediaries
2 жыл бұрын
That is a great question. I hadn't had any kids in my divorce, luckily, but I am a child of divorced parents and I recall how difficult it was. However, it was also difficult because my parents were very bitter and upset toward each other for many years so it is hard to find peace. I do believe that each parent should do what is best for them because it is better that they are happy so that the kids can be happy as well.
@Baby_Suge
Ай бұрын
Why did he want a divorce? What did you do wrong?
@Wolfmanjc-e3f
8 ай бұрын
One tip: get over yourself and understand what duty is! You do whatever is necessary to make it work for the kids...the most selfish act one can do! Facts are you will never find anything better than what you have and you will end up dying alone
@thedivorceediaries
8 ай бұрын
I appreciate your sharing your opinion here and I believe that we all must do what is the best - and I'm quite aware that sometimes the best is not the easiest choice. I do not agree that you will never find anything better than what you have - it may be out there and it may not but who are any of us to say it is "never" better?
@alethea6781
22 күн бұрын
This is the conventional wisdom. It’s not always true. I stayed with my husband because of kids. I didn’t think about the negative effects of them seeing their parents unhappy and not doing anything about it. This dysfunctional relationship became their blueprint for close relationships
@wizmill
4 ай бұрын
She's rehearsed now and more dangerous than ever - guys be really careful with this one (she'll take you through the grinder).
@1akadiva086
5 ай бұрын
Lawd this was deep but needed !!!!! Bestie you have ripped the ban aid off my arm ! Thanks for guiding me through this ☝🏽🩷🙏🏽
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