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@heathertaylor4979
2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is 39 and I am 71 and has worked for us. We have been together for three years!
@MrNtvkenya
Жыл бұрын
I love it
@AuroraBoarder1
9 ай бұрын
So do I!
@neddalakhdarchaoche9232
7 ай бұрын
Simply wonderful!!!
@boorat3573
3 жыл бұрын
My 31 yr. old man loves me & I’m 52 . I messaged him on Tinder & he was extremely persistent about having me & I fell in love with him who already fell in love with me! We’re getting married!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I love hearing that. You messaged first, too! Props. I love it when anyone, male or female, makes a move for what they want in Life and Love. Congratulations on your engagement, and thanks for sharing! - Mario
@joanieofarc2955
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I'm in a relationship with a younger man for 3yrs and 9 months,, I'm so happy,, was in a 27yr Abuse Marriage,, I'm over the moon
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@joanieofarc2955 that's fantastic! What's 3 years anyway? As adults, it's not a big deal. More of us need to realize that! - Mario
@aboutbusiness1336
3 жыл бұрын
Go girl! 🙌🏾❤
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@aboutbusiness1336 Right? It's great to hear stories of success that follow their own path! - Mario
@agentw3007
3 жыл бұрын
I 41 and have dated both older, somewhat younger, and a lot younger men. I haven’t tried getting into anything serious with anyone significantly younger. But I can tell you one thing. From a female perspective, dating men in their forties is a nightmare. So I would add to your list: she appreciates the fact that you’re enjoying life and in no midlife crisis... 😂
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Oh snap!! I love this comment. Best comment of the day. Yes, you are correct to identify this. Does it apply to everyone? No. But is it something to add to the convo...ABSOLUTELY. Kudos for bringing this up! - Mario
@agentw3007
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thank you, Mario! Makes my day, too! I feel that society has gotten things the wrong way around, what age is concerned. But my theory is a bit long, perhaps I need to get some sleep first (I’m in Europe). In any case, I loved your video because it’ll help both men and women see the whole inverted age gap thing in a more relaxed way. And that’s what it’s about. We all got enough drama going on, why bring it into any type of relationship? I’m currently enjoying my own professional and private life so much, I’m happy when I spend some free time with a hot and cuddly man in his twenties or early thirties without having to worry about them having been ground through the marriage and divorce mill. That being said, I know how rough that can be for anyone. So NO JUDGMENT. Just looking out for number one right now. Have myself and the kids to look after, too! Hashtag warrior maiden... 🙄😂
@angelnorwood1070
3 жыл бұрын
I divorced my ex after 28 years of marriage, I met my bf at 50 and he was 28. We’ve been together 4 years. He knows I never want to remarry, but, I’m good with him leaving to find someone to have kids with. I cherish this relationship for what it is every day. It’s lots of sex and fun together, way better than what I had with my ex after the 20 year mark.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Love it. For so many reasons, Angel! 1) Unafraid to date younger 2) 4 year relationship, clear communication and understanding of situation 3) You're realistic about him possibly desiring a younger woman for children (one day) 4) Know well enough to ENJOY A GOOD THING while you've got it!! (Something you can better appreciate after your divorce! I get it!) 5) Unashamed to live for you, and not society 6) Sex-positivity Thank you so much for sharing Angel, this made my day! Rooting for ya, and enjoy your relationship. Most men and women probably don't have anything as great as you! - Mario
@julianrussell502
2 жыл бұрын
Me and my Lady are 18 years apart...she just turned 48 and I'm turning 30... it's the most beautiful connection love can provide 💜 Women under 40 just don't get it
@deedeesheppard2202
10 ай бұрын
Love happened when I wasn't looking for it. He is 13 years younger and we have been married for 30 years. ❤
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
9 ай бұрын
Maybe not when you're looking, but WHEN YOU'RE READY. Congrats! I'm happy for you two and glad to hear of another successful relationship with an age gap that you two have worked around (for a THRIVING relationship of 30 years!!). Rooting for you! - Mario
@thelady3822
4 жыл бұрын
I've been widowed for fine years and recently decided to accept a date for the first time. He is younger and is so sweet. I think I make him nervous. Lol Don't mean to he has such a beautiful smile and looks absolutely hot without a shirt. I've seen him everyday since our first date. Loving life right about now. Girls want attention Woman want respect.
@thromilaguanmei5972
4 жыл бұрын
So intresting
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
That you're loving life so much is amazing to hear! - Mario
@craneywatch
4 жыл бұрын
That is why I would rather date woman, not a girl. And surely I would respect her, because there is no true love without respect.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
@@craneywatch respect is a requirement for a strong relationship, yes.
@angelskietta1230
4 жыл бұрын
That is beautiful story I love that awesome!
@pferdeengelschweiz
4 жыл бұрын
Well, I am that "older woman" and you are so right! Thank you - great video! 👍
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
👊 - Mario
@Barbie-gg3fx
4 жыл бұрын
I think older women are more down to earth, and younger women are more selfish and narcissistic.... But that rule of thumb also goes with guys too...
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
In general, I would agree. Of course there are PLENTY of exceptions. I think being younger is more about being on the edge of learning more of what you like and don't like, and being older you'be just got more of those lessons under your belt. (Some learn more/better than others!) - Mario
@SK-qu4wo
3 жыл бұрын
@Barbie 0236 Hello :)
@abigail-amana1075
Жыл бұрын
Just reading these comments are encouraging because I am 48 and my partner is 34. We met last year and though I had some initial concerns about the age gap, he has been quite reassuring with his actions and it's been flattering and exciting so far. I'm keeping an open mind and see where it goes.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
That is AMAZING to hear!! Sounds like you had reasonable concerns, but also weren't quick to throw things away because of a number, or what other people would think. That makes you a BADASS in my book, and I respect the move. Keeping an open mind, experiencing a healthy relationship, seeing where things go?? Seems to me you're on the right track. I'm certainly rooting for you. - Mario
@abigail-amana1075
Жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thank you for your kind sentiments.
@annkaminski9902
2 жыл бұрын
I am with someone who is 28 and am 56. He is the nicest guy I ever met and respects me and is close to his mom who lives in a different state. Nicest guy and have been with him for almost 5 months
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
That is AWESOME. You're happy, he's happy, and it's been five months of happiness. Which is about 4 months more than MOST OTHER RELATIONSHIP EFFORTS! Seriously, I'm proud of you for looking past the age and appreciating the connection, and allowing it to develop into what it is. Most people...can't. And they can't because of the invisible forces of "societal pressure" to do or not do things. But you're living by YOUR rules, which I LOVE because I love to preach that the games of Love...are played how and with the rules YOU choose. Nicest guy you ever met, huh? Again, that's awesome. I love hearing stories of true connections winning. Thank you so much for sharing this experience and I'm rooting for you, Ann. - Mario
@podersa241
3 жыл бұрын
Certain things to note if you are a younger man wanting to date older women You should be just as well groomed as she is. Including no hair down there or armpits. If you still want to party all night or play video games all day then you should not date an older woman. Do not wait three days to call her because by then she would have already forgotten your name. Never ask an older woman how many lovers she has had because she will only smile and laugh. Do not make her responsible for your happiness. She will have no interest in changing you She will only accept you as you are or not. Leave all insecurities at the door and keep it real. She is not going to blab your business to the world.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
NO ONE should ever ask about someone's ex lover count. EVER. The person who can handle the answer knows not to ask, and the person who asks can't handle the answer. - Mario
@dlitefulone
3 жыл бұрын
Facts! My bf did that to me for the first year...finally I was like look...im in my 40's...I've had a good run.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@dlitefulone I've seen your comments. You have a pretty good perspective. Just wanted to say ;) - Mario
@podersa241
3 жыл бұрын
@@dlitefulone Ha Ha Ha Ha. That is funny.
@1tnt833
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, are u a man writing that comment? No offence taken I hope....or a woman?
@modiciamartin5659
4 жыл бұрын
They treat you with respect and they show love and apprecation.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Often, sure. But age doesn't correlate so simply. But there are some definite benefits from the advantage of time and experience when dating an older woman. Treat anyone with respect, love, and appreciation...you're likely to receive it back more often than not. It's a pretty damn good strategy that leaves you feeling good about yourself regardless of outcome. Thanks for the input and welcome to the channel! - Mario
@EmilyGloeggler7984
3 жыл бұрын
That’s false.
@SK-qu4wo
3 жыл бұрын
@@kaydavisbeautywriter Hello :)
@Penhaligon
3 жыл бұрын
Not always the case
@lagunacorona
3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@samburgerandfry
2 жыл бұрын
From my observation older men who date much younger women/girls are mostly insecure immature and expect women to throw themselves at them because of money and other superficial reasons. And lot of fake and unhappiness in those couples. However when older women are in love with younger men/boys, it’s usually genuine love and in happy and healthy relationships.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you noting that your assessment is based on your anecdotal evidence. Yes, cliche situations exist. But...can I be real?? Older men and older women can and DO date younger IF THEY WANT. Why? Because they have those options. And let's be real. If a quality man desires a beautiful woman...well guys WILL look younger. It's natural. And women, if they can land a younger man AND they like him, or the dynamic...the same story. QUALITY, HIGH VALUE men and women can date whoever they want. The anecdotal assessment you shared DOES SOMETIMES exist. But from my studies and observations, which are more than most anyone's...your assessment is incorrect, and speaks to the minority regarding men. As is your assessment of how things are ok if a woman does it. No...it's about the same. We all get what we can qualify for AND deserve. And some men and women have more and better options. And like anyone...they use them if they have them! Appreciate you sharing your take. - Mario
@louisaklimentos7583
2 жыл бұрын
You explain it all so well . I am a married woman and there was a employee of a supermarket and I used to talk to him . I realised that he had a bit of low self esteem , so I started praising him to boost his self esteem . I told him that he is a bright young man and that he will be manager one day . I told him to follow his dream . Well he started being hot and cold . One minute he would ignore me and then talk to me . I always would say hello to all the staff . I didn’t understand about all these games since I am a traditional woman and there was no social media , back in the day . My daughter told me that he was playing games so I would chase him. I nearly fainted and I was in a state of shock . I could have been his mother .I researched it all on the internet and it turned out that he was a player . Lol I must have been living my life in a cocoon .
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
First, THANK YOU for sharing that you appreciated the explanation. Now for the rest, it's pretty interesting how men and women go about in their daily life and can be clueless as to when someone is interested. Not sure if your guy was really a player, awkward, or didn't know how to express himself, but times ARE different. I have the suspicion you're a very trusting person. That's a beautiful thing, but sometimes it leaves us a little naive. I'm glad you're open minded enough to talk about this to your daughter to get her input, and to even watch this video. - Mario
@louisaklimentos7583
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thank you so much and yes I trust people so much and I am very helpful and giving . I hope this beautiful young man is living a happy fulfilling life as he deserves to just like we all do . I believe most people have good in them and they deserve happiness .
@sheilawalker6563
7 ай бұрын
So what happened next?
@louisaklimentos7583
7 ай бұрын
@@sheilawalker6563 He got transferred to head office as a manager . He got a promotion . Good luck to him though !
@mariloujefferson9559
3 жыл бұрын
It’s interesting that you keep referring to women who’s 45 as older. I’m 64 year old woman and not a day that I feel any different when I was 20. My most fulfilling relationship was with a 22 year old guy. He said I’m unique. I guess I am because in the morning I would do Taichi for 2 hours. By 4 in the afternoon I’m driving to my pole dancing 💃 class for 2 hours and after that I would go straight to the gym and work out 🏋️♀️ for at least 2 hours. This was my schedule 6 days a week (before the lockdown). He loves my youthful personality and being with him I feel free to act like a kid and I’m not embarrassed because he’s the same way. We love hiking and working out. We met at the gym where I work out.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT to recognize that "old" is subjective. For my purposes, I have to speak to an audience from the lens of the Game of Love. "Older" in this situation...in the Game of Love CAN be considered 45 and up. It's a MUCH DIFFERENT game than when you're 25. But are you "old" at 45 or whatever age? FUCK NO. I don't adhere to that either. I'm not getting older...I'M GETTING BETTER. (And I believe that!) Often, the limitations we experience in life are self-imposed. Props to you for not letting age define you. You seem like the type of person I'd love to get a cup of tea with and talk about life and love with. You've had some great and unique experiences. LOVE your attitude Marilou! (You're not old!) - Mario
@julieinsley7654
3 жыл бұрын
You go girl good on you, you sound like you have a lot of enrtgy 👍
@lungelomngomezulu100
3 жыл бұрын
Looks like you are getting yourself another young man marilou 😋😉
@teishagonzalez1545
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 45 and I’m in long distance relationship relationship with a young man who is 24 year younger then me
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
24 years? Wow. So he's 21. Props for doing YOU. I'm in your corner on this one. I'm not gonna be the one quick to judge. No one would think twice if a man (me) stated, "I'm seeing a young woman who is 21." It's about what you two feel for each other and together. Wishing you luck. (Distance is tough, though.) - Mario
@sandracruz29
3 жыл бұрын
dont mean to prude but is it working? im asking this because im 41 and he is 21 and he started to think about kids and if he wanted that we need to do it in 3 years and everything changed!!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@sandracruz29 that's a valid concern. And it DOES merit thought and discussion, especially towards a future. I'd remind you, though. Ultimately, a relationship is about you and another person. Other things, (like children) are an added bonus. Because when you find "The One," even THAT isn't a dealbreaker. You just become more resourceful in your options, if you want to go that route. It's not as simple as breaking up because the issue of kids is a complication. No...people in love REALLY have the convos that are needed. (I can't do this justice in a paragraph, but I hope you get my point). I'm saying, "it's possible, even with challenges." And I want you to hear that, regardless of what direction you choose. Rooting for ya! - Mario
@sandracruz29
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel to be honest they are too much immature to know what they want. One day they say one thigh the other day it’s all changed. I can date you tho 🤣
@Panamanian_Boyyy6
3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow he’s my age. I’m lookin for a older woman myself but can’t find any interested in younger men. These younger women ain’t it I’m serious bout growin in a relationship.
@cheriemayer3057
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people just fall in love.like my mum who is married to a man 15 years younger then her.She told me it's just a number, and what we have is love,and he said, he just knew she was the one, his soulmate!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
When you think about how unique humans are and there preferences for life...isn't it kind of unreasonable to EXPECT our "perfect match" to be pretty damn close to our same age? The more I think about it, the more I can see how age is a FACTOR, but not THE factor. You know? And that's awesome to hear about your mother. I know it's not "normal" but it's her life! And what a model to show you how love is so important over lesser or superficial qualities. Give your mum a high five from me, will you? - Mario
@georgeedmund4741
3 жыл бұрын
Hello, you are looking so beautiful
@candetect7576
2 жыл бұрын
Cherie You seem to be open talked about your mum relationship, I told my son my fiancé going to move in with us he said no I don't want to make his life complicated I let him stay I move.
@mojok7070
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 33 and my wife is 44 and we have 4 kids since we got together in 2015. Honestly it's great being with older women and I previous was in relationships before I got married and it's addictive. It made me confident being around older women which is weird because I was more confident talking to older women then women who were my age. Most of the women are were with they just wanted fun but sometimes I got into serious relationships but it was like a struggle with the age gap because in my younger days I was with women 15 - 20 years older. i lost my virginty to a woman 20 years older then me even though it wasn't serious with her she made me more interested in older women.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Well I think it's fine that you enjoy older women. But you can also find maturity and "easy to talk to" younger women. Seems like you see beyond age and into possibilities, like relationships, with these older women. And you found yourself a wife and mother to your children. Seems like you figured out what works for you, and I respect that. Thanks for sharing! - Mario
@mojok7070
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thanks a lot for the support. It's been great. There can be ups and downs with a older woman but that's marriage despite what age it is.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
So spot on. We tend to think there's a formula for romantic success. Yes...and no. They're all challenging and will have CONSTANT challenges...regardless of age similarity or difference.
@amazonianunicornbunny9599
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 35 and just started making a connection with a 23 year old . I have 4 kids he has none ... my oldest is 18 .. so far it’s going well ... I definitely was shocked at how we match each other’s energy ... for example our youthful hearts match our old school morals ... it’s really really new , kinda scary but exciting . I like this video
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Well I LOVE this comment!! Hey, do you have a challenge with the age...sure. But ALL relationships have challenges. Seriously! (You have some big areas of compatibility checked off that a similar age does NOT ensure! Awesome.) I've seen A LOT. Age difference isn't enough to disqualify someone you connect with. I'm glad you're pursuing things and finding out what happens. 99% of relationship efforts fail...might as well fail with someone you're really connecting with and interested to find out what happens! Rooting for you! - Mario
@amazonianunicornbunny9599
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Mario and yes we discussed children . I am very fertile so we are just setting up some boundaries that won’t have use feeling Confined. We both are not really sure about marriage only because of the way society has it set up , Our shared viewpoints on capitalism and things of that nature, so it helps that our politics remain open but similar However we do agree, that since we are both business owners, it is in our best interest to make sure legally things are set up to where they need to be the best benefit us individually as well as us together and future kids if we decide to have any And you’re right, there is a chance we may not make it to couple status however if feels great to finally be on the same page with someone
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@amazonianunicornbunny9599 I'm a fan of what you're doing. Nothing is promised. But already I'm feeling you have a good head on your shoulders, and that he does too. (Most couples...I can't necessarily say that, regardless of age difference or lack thereof.) And I'm totally with you regarding society and the structure and expectations for marriage. I know I don't agree with the conventional structure 100%...and don't try to fit in it. Like you...I think we have to think as adults, for ourselves, and make smart decisions (even better if our partner is on board) and do what's best for us individually, and THEN for an "us." Doesn't mean we don't value "us," but just gotta do what's best for YOU, ya know? Thank you SO MUCH for sharing. I love hearing stories like this. I really work to send a message out to everyone, but especially women...play the game proactively, and for YOU. Seems like you're doing a great job. Rooting for you! - Mario
@yancenazifah8151
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel After watching this vlog make me want to share my thoughs. After reviewing my life journey .. Before got married and now I am a widow 4 years , I believe that man has to be older than woman in a relationship. Now I dont believe in that perspective and absolutely wrong. The point is Man has to know that he is a man and knowing his position as a man in a relationship even he is younger or older. But thru my friendship n communication with younger man, they are lot of laugh , lot of way to treat a woman like a princess , lot of adventure , fun with music and hobbies. The clicks of older woman and younger man is that older woman give a man a freedom space to do what he likes and always support & guide to make him succes happy life then the younger man likes his freedom and not forcing at all by his partner . So olderman or youngerman is the same as long as he can treat you as a woman and he is responsible as a man.
@lightinferno4490
2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for your oldest. You're probably pretty selfish.
@icu6427
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman of 32 and my boyfriend is 22. He is amazing! I have a child from a previous marriage so no ticking clock here. On the other hand I am open to get married again and have another child in the future. Not necessary though. So we are in a perfect place and I love him soooo much!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
That's fantastic to hear. I'm sure age, at times, is a factor, but not enough that you two walk away from a great connection. I love hearing stories like this! - Mario (Oh, and how did you two meet?)
@julianrussell502
2 жыл бұрын
Women under 40 just don't understand... I'm a 29 year old Man...My Lady is 48 ad of yesterday...We have a Fun Relationship that is soo real and makes us feel like Teenage Sweethearts...And yeah best sex of our Lives... It's all of the things Man and woman could ever want from eachother at the highest Levels... The dinamic is unmatched.... My Baby is my world 🌎
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
AWESOME. Thanks for sharing that! And guess what?? You two aren't hurting anyone. Glad you two found happiness and the connection you both desired. What you've achieved is something so many pursue, and few actually accomplish. Finding such a connection is rare and doesn't come to everyone, and if you found it in each other and are happy...so what if there's an age gap? - Mario
@elizabeth1invermont
3 жыл бұрын
He keeps saying that older women just want casual sex, not a long term relationship. He's wrong. Stop telling young men they can get easy sex with no effort, no nice dinners, and no commitments by dating older men! I am really insulted!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
FUN FACT, you can't find where I say "older women just want casual sex, not a long term relationship." Hmmm...interesting that's what you heard. THINK ON THAT, Elizabeth. That's where YOUR growth lies. - Mario
@Whoamidontknow17707
Жыл бұрын
Younger men are definitely more appealing! They actually have energy, and can keep up with the hundreds of concerts and EDM parties that I’ll be going to! I also like being a teacher for them so to speak.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you appreciate the youth and "vigor" of young men, as well as how they align with YOUR lifestyle. I get it. And you know what? It doesn't affect me, and you're just adults being adults. Go for it if dating younger works for you! Thanks for sharing, too! - Mario
@uapandufosinsocal9804
2 жыл бұрын
Stop calling older women "cougars" when the younger men are the preditors.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
That's interesting. Not your misspelling (it's "predators"), but your position that younger men are "predators" for...being interested in an older woman? That sounds pretty um...WRONG. It's correct as your opinion, but pretty concerning you believe men are predators. And predators over older women. Seems a very patronizing perspective towards grown ass women who have endured, experienced, and accomplished much in their lives. - Mario
@marlonrichardson9172
3 жыл бұрын
Im 31 years old and I like a older women who is 51. I think she is very beautiful. She has 3 kids and 2 grandchildren and I get along with all of them. I was really nervous meeting her older daughter on Valentine's Day because i was scared she was one of those stuck up type but it all changed when she saw what i had for her on valentine's day I introduced myself and she shook my hand and gotten along with them since. I really like her and i feel she likes me to. She's been through alot with past relationships she's always been hurt and played with. I wanna show her I can be that man who will treat her how she wanted to be treated and love her (be her man) and never try to hurt her. I know she's scared and im not gonna lie i am abit scared to. Any suggestions
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. HONESTY. It's ok to feel the challenge of age, and share your (normal) insecurities. You BOTH (if you make it together) will have to bond through the challenge of age. Understand it's ok to be honest and...say you're nervous to meet her kids because you want them to like you, and maybe you're nervous about the oldest because you're close in age. Sometimes we keep in what's OBVIOUS and you could get support/encouragement if you just opened up. And if you model honesty you'll get more from her. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, good intentions, and are appropriately scared. In the end, follow what feels best for you. You're all legal, and it may be less conventional, but no one else is gonna live and be happy FOR you, you know? Most relationships end up failing. Why not swing for what you want? All your past relationship efforts failed too, remember? Man it's tough to find ONE person you want to spend your time with...if you found it, explore it, and I'd say see what happens. I'll certainly be rooting for you. - Mario
@marlonrichardson9172
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thank You
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@marlonrichardson9172 very welcome. Your ability to receive input and gratitude...it's appreciated over here. - Mario
@sunnydayz6749
2 жыл бұрын
Where are you from lol?
@TheErikaGuy
2 жыл бұрын
Give her something she can feel
@blessingsfromspirit6881
2 жыл бұрын
As a 43 year old, I am not looking for someone to provide for me which makes it easier and takes pressure off of men. It allows us to just connect and have fun knowing that I’m not dying to get married and have kids.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! Definitely can see how that allows you to better focus on genuine connection. For MOST men, it's not about NOT ever getting married or having kids, but the PRESSURE that they often experience to pursue that path. It's not something only "older" women can offer, but some lessons in life take time, experience, and maturity...and you can't necessarily rush any of those! Again, thanks for sharing your experience! - Mario
@theplaguedoctor_topic1067
5 ай бұрын
My girlfriend is 41 and I'm 28 here are my reasons 1 loyalty 2 better sex life 3 mature conversation 4 it's 5050 we work things out 5 older woman crave younger men 6 just a bonus they truly want to start a family with a younger guy
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Love happens between 28 and 41 all the time. Live your lives. Rooting for you both. - Mario
@annkaminski9902
2 жыл бұрын
I am 55 with a 27 year old. We just click together and it is so easy with him. We are both Leo's.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. I say, what works for YOU (two) works for YOU (two)! You're adults, and if you're lucky enough to find a great connection, GO FOR IT. I'm glad you're not holding back from pursuing the connection. I like to say 99% of relationship EFFORTS will end in failure, so we might as well fail pursuing what WE want, not what we think we are supposed to want. Thank you for sharing, Ann, rooting for you!! - Mario
@Robbob273
Жыл бұрын
Can I have your advise on asking a person out who is younger vs letting them take the lead. I appreciate traditional gender roles and don’t want to take the lead just because I am older.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
As the older, more experienced one here...I'd challenge you to make the first move INITIALLY. Create an opportunity to interact, and drop a compliment that is OBVIOUS in that you find (something) about him cute/attractive (without being overboard). Create the opportunity, make it CLEAR he has a green light to take the next step...and then you let him (be manly) and push things forward (if he's interested). You're VERY likely to get AT WORST...a polite interaction. Don't be so scared, the odds are in your favor here! Go for it! It costs you nothing. - Mario
@sarahmcdonald7989
4 жыл бұрын
Explained really well...very soothing voice !!!😊
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Kind words, thank you! I don't really get that impression from my voice, but I'm glad you do. - Mario
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@swiss lissp pretty sure my brother doesn't go by "dah Mann" so...unfortunately, no.
@margotstack6303
2 жыл бұрын
It makes me feel young and desired and brings excitement in my life
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
And is anyone being hurt? NOPE. Do you. I say let adults be adults. We all have our preferences, and they change over time constantly. Nothing wrong with finding out about experiences with dating younger. If you dated someone older people would still have something to say! - Mario
@thestreamoflife1124
3 жыл бұрын
And I'm not interested in getting married again... just enjoy cooking at home watching a great movie and a happy ending for dessert 😊
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Oh I see what you did there!!!
@christydemoulin1371
3 жыл бұрын
😁
@zerohiotchi2795
3 жыл бұрын
H-hai um....if it is alright may I ask you a question?
@georgeedmund4741
3 жыл бұрын
Hello, you are looking so beautiful
@TBone16x
12 күн бұрын
I am 30 and my ole lady (she doesn't like to be called that btw lol) is 45. We are together because she takes care of me like cleaning and laundry and such and I take care of her sexually. We both have good jobs so she can match me financially. I don't have to pay her light bill and she doesn't have to make my car payment. I was married to a girl my age for 4 years and she was so lazy I cooked, cleaned, did laundry and paid all the bills. Y'all young bucks go out and get you a cougar! It'll be the best decision you have ever made
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
11 күн бұрын
I'm glad you and your partner are finding happiness. - Mario
@ninajaggers9997
3 жыл бұрын
How about just love. I am 36yrs older than my boyfriend and it is just love. No agenda
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
You're right! "Love." Wow, 36 years older? How did you two connect? - Mario
@gillianjoseph5316
4 жыл бұрын
What a great video!!! Love the points u brought up. ❤
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Much gratitude for the kind words!! I'm glad you appreciated the content and the points I shared. It's all about developing our perspectives, you know? - Mario
@julieinsley7654
3 жыл бұрын
Older women are wiser and know what they want out of life also mature in mind not like younger women who play childish games 🤔 we are also independent as well.... Im an 50 plus woman who looks much younger in age and get told I'm attractive I try to keep fit.... I do get attention from younger men and not from men my own age.....
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Julie, thanks for sharing. Yes, with age comes OPPORTUNITIES to develop wisdom...but not all men and women take advantage equally, right?? That's FANTASTIC that you're 50+ but look (and I expect feel) younger. Something to understand, younger men are going to be more of the single population than older men. One reason Online Dating would be a good option if you're struggling to meet and connect with men who are a little older. Can I ask, what do you want out of Life...regarding your love life? - Mario
@julieinsley7654
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I'm happy in my life and have all I need I'm just missing that special someone to live my life out with 🤗.....
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@julieinsley7654 that's an interesting comment. (Because I like to promote a message that, "A happy life NEEDS a happy love life." How would you say your perspective on dating and relationships is? Are you to the point where you can see the angles and make better strategic decisions? - Mario
@ninalewis8243
3 жыл бұрын
I am an older woman that is currently dating a younger man that straight out asked me marry (after 3 months of dating me) he ritualisticly asked some questions and I surpassed his questions somehow he told afterward why he asked me. I smiled was flattered but I am engaged to him. Then I said "if you had told me, I would have said yes". ( He Knew what he was doing)and YES I am happy with him. Just wondering why me? 😵😁
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
I'm missing understanding your story entirely. My apologies. But as to "Why me? " as your question, I would go back to something simple. We are all essentially, a "total package." EVERYTHING that you get when you sign up for us, you know? The good, the bad, the positives, the negatives, even the baggage. Age is only PART of your "total package." The rest can make up for things like age not being ideal, because the rest of you...is just too good to pass up! I think age, just for the sake of consideration...it's not really as important as we think. It wouldn't crack my top five for compatibility considerations for relationships. Hope that quick thought helps! Thanks for checking out the video and the channel! - Mario
@ninalewis8243
3 жыл бұрын
@Marin Cuculic yes
@ninalewis8243
3 жыл бұрын
@Marin Cuculic Sorry, he took me off the market...
@elsitabebe
2 жыл бұрын
Asked to marry you after 3 months? Those are serious RED FLAGS . Have you've heard about love bombing and narcissistic relationships if not you many want to look into this when things start becoming very different after the honeymoon stage. I was in a similar situation until I found out he was also doing the same with another woman
@jacquesdutron9954
Жыл бұрын
Thx for your wonderful insight. I'm not an authority when it comes to dating older women. However, I did it and married her. We've been married now for other 30 years and I'm still grateful to have gotten the right one. I don't base my life on anything from TV or Hollywood, for, I might miss the forest for the trees. She's 20 years my senior. It's not her beautiful lips that turned out to trump her most wonderful asset, which is, her Character. Got my cake & ate too. I'm a very happy man. Our families & friends at first thought it wouldn't last. The joke is certainly not on us. We have 3 daughters from my ex and one is doing her PhD. They say you can't have it all. I'm not saying I have it all. But, what I think of myself and my family is far more important than any on else's thought! Once again thx a lot for your input.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for sharing that wonderful experience. I LOVE hearing these stories of success, or even just TRYING! Life is truly too short, and though it's not always easy to not care so much what others think, it's really beneficial. You're happy. Your wife is happy. Your family is doing well. So what if there's an age gap?? If you two are happy together, AWESOME. That's most of everything you need, and what so few people really have in their partners. I SO appreciate you sharing, because it does inspire others to broaden their horizons. - Mario
@jacquesdutron9954
Жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thx a lot for understanding my experience. Peace!
@yami12684
3 жыл бұрын
My twin flame is 14 yrs younger than me, I’m 36 😆😩
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Love hearing about those who are happy living THEIR lives! - Mario
@jennysilver2577
3 жыл бұрын
Awww I love it! My tf is 18 years younger. In the end, he was too caught up in the number instead of our incredible friendship, love and connection.
@yami12684
3 жыл бұрын
@@jennysilver2577 Mine is only into older women lol, that’s good because we have more experience & very loving 🥰
@jennysilver2577
3 жыл бұрын
@@yami12684 we are sooooo loving 🙏🏻❤️
@yami12684
3 жыл бұрын
@@jennysilver2577 Yes 🙂❤️
@Lisa_LaCroix
Жыл бұрын
100% less drama with older women! We’re sovereign. If we want you it’s by choice not need.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
'Drama-free' is DEFINITELY a quality that most men and women should prioritize more, and earlier in their lives.! - Mario
@skylersadventures
Жыл бұрын
That’s all I do. I date women in their late 30’s and 40’s I’m 32 and I love it. Sex is amazing. They know what they want and I’m very happy with a 39 year old right now.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
That's cool. Whatever works for you, life is too short. As long as you're not hurting anyone/me...I don't care what age you date if it works for you two! Glad to hear you're happy. I date older, my age, younger...whatever suits me! - Mario
@j348011
2 жыл бұрын
I want to add that not all older women have been married or have children. Who are looking for a long term healthy relationship, but still may not want children. I would also say their are more single women now than their ever have been. Just look at the statistics. But we are not all looking to just have casual sex! I think most younger men now "THINK" ALL OLDER WOMEN are looking for Casual Sex that isn't true at all. I am a 50 year old women now and don't look my age at all and run into this problem a lot. Most of the guys I talk to are in their 30's now. They all think I am their age. I'm not into casual sex.I love sex, but it's not a casual thing to me or for a lot of women. Don't going around assuming that or telling other men that either. That is total BS.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
1. Did I say "all older women have been married or have children"? (Answer, "No." But if I did, please tell me EXACTLY WHEN, thanks!!) 2. Agreed, not all single women who are older are looking for casual sex. Again, where did I say that? Because I didn't. There seems to be a pattern. Maybe instead of making it sound like I said something stupid, just state YOUR position! Thanks! 3. I recognize the soft flex "I'm 50 talking to 30 year old men." Well, good for you. Great. But you said "talking," not "dating." So I wonder how serious those relationship efforts you set up go. Separately, and not directed at you, older women should watch out for cliche compliments like..."You're 50?? Wow! You look great!" Maybe you do. Maybe guys know it's an easy, cliche compliment..and you need to remember that. Also remember, men will date and have sex with women who they don't see themselves in a serious relationship with. Older, uglier, more baggage...but not so much a concern for them if they just want sex or a casual dating relationship. So...it's not always such a flex to "talk" to younger men, or say you do. I get more impressed when those actually become relationships! Older, younger...same age, I really don't care. I just think people should do what makes them happy, and we should be able to have open, honest dialogue about dating older/younger. - Mario
@j348011
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel As for #1 You didn't say it, but you made it seem that way "Hence" why I wrote it so men who do watch this understand that fact. As for # 2. you didn't say it and I didn't say you did. I'm saying it for the men who again watch this and think that is the case, because you didn't say it. Like I said, I run into it all the time and other older single women I know as well and it is a problem! As for #3 I never said I was dating them. They never get to the 1st date due to me figuring out that they are thinking I'm looking for casual sex and they don't meet my standards. (Hence ) the problem....I will also tell them that I'm not looking for casual sex if I am getting that vibe from them. That doesn't seem to matter they still follow me around. One of them even said I'm never going to leave you alone. Your statement: Also remember, men will date and have sex with women who they don't see themselves in a serious relationship with. Fully aware I'm 50. I know the games men run. Your statement: So...it's not always such a flex to "talk" to younger men, or say you do. I get more impressed when those actually become relationships! I wasn't not trying to "flex" or impress you or anyone. I don't care what anyone really thinks about who I am talking to or dating. I was making point about younger men thinking older women are only looking for casual sex and it being a problem I have experienced. I was saying this to let others know that Not all older women are looking for casual sex, or short term relationships, because I run into this a lot with younger men and find that is what they think. Btw I don't tell men that I am 50 right way they don't need to know that when I am just talking to them. I tell them when they start pushing for a date and I already know I am not interested, or they start pushing for sex before we have even been on one date. You don't seem to be making the connection of what I am saying. It would be nice to have a relationship, but again a lot of the men I come across and other women I know say the same, that a lot of younger men think older women are only looking for casual sex and we are not! So you might want to add this next time, because you didn't say it at all!
@tam_to_evolve
3 жыл бұрын
Ladies don't be fooled! Dating a younger man may appeal to the ego at first but you'll quickly learn that you're just an easy lay to him. The video even says it "low investment" okay? Just cuz I've been on plenty expensive nice dates doesnt mean I still dont want or deserve them. So apparently with my older age the idea is that you can take me to McDonald's and I'd be happy just to have your amazing company because your young? Many "basic" "concerns" are removed? Basic concerns? You mean like monogamy, real investment and expectations of a healthy progressive relationship? smfh. I will never date a much younger guy again. Even with good sex it's not worth it. I have many older men willing to invest in me, come correct and treat me like a queen - just havent found the right one yet, but I know he is out there. Ladies, you are queens at any age. Don't sell yourself short with younger men who see you as an play thing/sex toy they can put on a shelf for later and have no intentions of putting in any real effort into. Even if he does look good with his shirt off, know your worth! And if you think he wants you for anything more than just sex you're fooling yourself, that's a needle in a haystack.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
You raise some GREAT points. There is a lot or realistic concerns older women dating younger men SHOULD consider. But at the same time, they also need to understand...at best, we speak to GENERALITIES. There will always be (and from the comments on this post they're evidenced) older women who have fantastic, healthy, fulfilling, and lasting relationships with younger men. Fear doesn't need to call the shots. In fact, that's maybe a bigger point. The Game of Love doesn't offer any guarantees. It's risky. Marriage doesn't work out more than half the time anyway, so how successful can ONLY dating someone your age be?? (IT'S NOT. Love is a risk. Always will be) But for some women, maybe not you, they can handle the risk. We all get our feelings hurt no matter what playing the Game of Love. Keep your eyes and your heart open. Do in the end what's best FOR YOU. Because if everyone listened to your advice, while valid for many, there would be a lot of great relationships that wouldn't take place. In the end, WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR CHOICES. Let's make educated ones, and not let Fear just tell us what the fuck to do. Fuck that. Your men your same age struggle with monogamy, chivalry, and commitment just the same. What REALLY MATTERS is the individual. What THEY have qualified for and earned. While some need to play by the rules and best practices, others don't. And others can break the rules...AND WIN. Every game has rules and better practices, but rules are meant (FOR SOME WHO QUALIFY AND EARN) to be bent and broken. Love your input. Just continuing the thread. You brought up so many VALID concerns. But in the end, we have choices to make. Hopefully educated ones. I do have a question for you. Do you REGRET your experience of a relationship with a younger man? Or for that time and phase in your life...was it what you were looking for? (Remember, not woman wants a committed relationship. Many have been single for a while, and are quite secure and comfortable, only desiring a man as an extra benefit, not a requirement for happiness.) - Mario
@tam_to_evolve
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I don't want a relationship, nor "require" it for my happiness and on that same note wouldn't you say women who are seeking men just for sex are doing just that, seeking it for happiness, probably to try to fill some void. Where is the bond, where is the emotional connection? Women who have meaningless sex for the sake of "fun" are fooling themselves. What you failed to consider is that men and women are different, men can separate sex from love and connection, and while some women may claim they can do the same they are fooling themselves. For women sex and a good emotional connection go hand in hand. I want a relationship to supplement my already awesome and fulfilling life, to share in life experiences together, to have fun with, travel with and do "life" with. If sex is all you consider "fun" or all you you have to offer me then I'm good, I dont want it. Women get dick thrown at them left and right - it's nothing special. I wont date much younger men not out of "fear" but because I know what I want and I don't believe a younger man could give me that or live up to my expectations of what a good reciprocal long term healthy relationship looks like. You make a point that we have to look at the individual person and yea, there may be a few much younger ones that could offer a healthy long term relationship, but let's get real that's a rarity. I'm in my late 30s so the men I refer to are in their early to mid 20s even late 20s, they're not ready for me. They still just want to hoe around and "test the waters." It's not fear, it's called being realistic, knowing what I want and not settling for less. You even made the points in your video, more than half your video highlights that younger men only "love" older women because they are easy (and not just sexually) but easy to please all around "you dont have to work as hard." Shit I'll be damn if a man comes to me with that attitude and mindset. If you want me you're going to put in the work and that goes for even just sex too. And ideally this is what a strong good alpha man craves. He wants a women who is going to be a challenge, he has to put work in for. If a man wants you for an easy lay or "low investment" (regardless of his age). What does that say about him? That he's lazy, unmotivated by the relationship and most likely wont value you and take you for granted because you were too easy for him - its just human nature, like it or not. We value more the things we have to work hard for, not the things that come easy to us. As far as the "testaments" on here, these ladies that come on here saying my man is 9,10,11,12 years younger than me blah blah blah are just on an ego trip giving other women false hope. Wait until they hit a true older age like their late 60s, 70s I'm sure they'll be singing a different tune. Do I regret dating a younger man, absolutely. I never felt so under valued by a man with his lack of effort. It was a complete waste of my time. A guy offering "good sex" is a dime a dozen, it's nothing special. but a man offering depth, warmth, vulnerability, wanting steady progression, in their masculine being a provider in all sense of the word is a true rarity. All I'm saying is women need to know their worth, be realistic about what younger men really want and raise their standards. Our society and dating in this day and age really has ruined it for a lot of women including myself with other women who claim to be so "independent and emotionally detached" they buy into the hook up culture, but that's not how are brains are wired to work or how love or relationships work, women from a biological standpoint were not built to have multiple sexual partners and sleep around like men, yet we buy into the concept and give in for whatever pressures and reasons - loneliness, getting older, fear that will never find love again, closed off completely now - fear of getting hurt again etc etc, but the opposite to this which is fooling yourself into thinking you can be emotionally detached from someone you are literally doing the most intimate act with possible is foolishness. Ladies keep your standards high, know your worth and dont settle for less, regardless of these low societal standards and high peer pressures.
@beemonique8466
3 жыл бұрын
@@tam_to_evolve As a woman in my early 50s, I absolutely and totally agree with every word you've said in this comment section. I couldn't have said it better. Keep your standards and may the best man win!
@_lslc
3 жыл бұрын
@@tam_to_evolve Bullseye 🎯. Amazing..thank you!
@Celestinewarbeck
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah you’re definitely an old man posing as a woman
@joanies6778
2 жыл бұрын
People need to just communicate honestly what they want in a relationship, regardless. What works for one couple may not work for the next as far as age, commitment, and expectations in general. I used to want a long term relationship that could ultimately progress to marriage after my divorce decades ago. It didn't happen, and I doubt I would want to marry now after living alone for this long. I turned down a number of guys half my age over the years because I was uncomfortable with the age difference, worrying about what other people would think. In the meantime, I have come to see things differently and realize some men really do enjoy and appreciate older women, and not always just for sex... not any more than a guy my own age, either. Today, I could give a rat's pituey what people think and would date a younger guy in a heartbeat, and have... but going forward ONLY if we are both on the same page. Communication and honesty are crucial for every relationship regardless of what the dynamics may be. Wanting the SAME things in ANY relationship is just as important, whether it be casual, committed, or just sexual. People only "use" you if you let them.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Love this comment, Joanie!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Props. - Mario
@melissalopezjuly7
4 жыл бұрын
Hi im new subscriber in your chanel... I am older to my boyfriend he was only 30 and i am 41 but his more matured to everything than me.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Melissa! Welcome to the channel and thanks for subscribing! We have so much great content in store this month! (Big things on the way ;) ) That's AWESOME if you and your boyfriend can connect and not be stopped by an age difference. Interesting that you find him more mature than you. But he's 30, and not 21...and the age I feel men (generally) begin to take a SIGNIFICANT step/progression in maturity. Rooting for you! - Mario
@glossybossy7470
3 жыл бұрын
Not sure how old I'll be when I don't want to have nice dates or exclusivity but I'm not there yet!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Maya. I didn't say you couldn't have what you want. But I hit you with some reality, some ideas of competition, and how your total package needs to be worthy of what you want. Rooting for ya! . - Mario
@glossybossy7470
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Thanks! I dated a younger guy and unfortunately expectations were not communicated clearly or honestly. I was happy to enjoy something a little more light and exciting with the hope that we'd eventually meet in the middle. We did not! Look forward to more insights 😊
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
That's how it is sometimes (regardless of age). Remember, 99% of our relationship efforts fail, eventually. You're good to be playing, taking healthy and responsible risks...it just didn't work out (like every other guy). But keep investing in yourself and getting better in all ways, success will find you!
@glossybossy7470
3 жыл бұрын
@Marin Cuculic that's very kind, thank you 😊
@glossybossy7470
3 жыл бұрын
@Marin Cuculic I am indeed 😊
@kristinwolf1165
3 жыл бұрын
I loveeeee younger men. The problem I ran into is that going into something serious with them, some want kids and marriage. Marriage is doable but obviously having a child late in life can be very difficult or even impossible. Its like they want the best of both worlds. Preference for older women but still the desire for the "family life" its a bit confusing.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
What's interesting is...marriage, children, settling down...these are issues for MOST men. The challenge in The Game of Love isn't to find someone your own age. The challenge is to find someone aligned with you...regardless of age (well, within reason haha). But you get what I'm saying...what you're saying does have validity...but you could very easily have the same issues with the next guy you like, regardless of age. Glad to see you have an open mind, because there are great men, opportunities, and connections out there just beyond our comfort zones! Thanks for checking out the channel and video, we're glad to have you! - Mario
@ryantucker2166
3 жыл бұрын
That's because decent, younger women are feminists, extremely fickle and career oriented. They get 1000 messages a day from thirsty dudes, so marriageable men are turning to older women for love, sex and starting a family. They are confused, why shouldn't they be?
@annienawita1938
Жыл бұрын
Oooo really
@carriebbratton967
3 жыл бұрын
I liked this very much.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
That's great to hear. Thanks for checking out the video and the channel. Tons in the library, and so much more in store! - Mario
@Mjwara
3 жыл бұрын
My fear of dating older women: The younger ladies will throw themselves at me.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Tough life!!!
@terriwilliams4803
3 жыл бұрын
I an 53, have 2 adult daughters. A lot of men assume I am in my 30's or their age. I am at a point in my life, I am not interested in dating anymore, no matter the age of the man, it all ends in disappointment.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Ok. Cool sob story. If you'd like to live in solitude and unhappiness...it's fine by me. I'm just trying to reach those who haven't given up! Look, we know you dont' have everything figured out. Let's not kid ourselves. The other thing...you don't want to give up and be so pessimistic...you just don't know HOW to be successful. If you want to complain on KZitem...awesome. If you want to do something to get better, reach out via my website...it's what I do for people like you and those WAY WORSE OFF. The choice is yours. And yes, it's your CHOICE. - Mario
@zsahdomme9163
3 жыл бұрын
This guy, is attractive 😍
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Flattery...it works on me. Thanks ;) - Mario
@MichelleCampbell-rl4rl
8 ай бұрын
My guy has kids so definitely works
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
8 ай бұрын
There are a lot more important things than age, right?? ;) - Mario
@richardadams9159
2 жыл бұрын
Am 42 and I like older women either my age or something around 55 max..I have 2 kids with my previous ex and I want a woman who already have kids too..am not looking to have move kids..I look super great physically for 42…
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Richard, how are you going about attempting to meet women? And how's it been going? - Mario
@sds8691
10 ай бұрын
I m 51 n he is 41 , we are in long distance relationship for 4 n half yrs met once this yr
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
10 ай бұрын
That's awesome that you're not letting age dictate your life choices with dating. But I have to ask...four and a half years and you met ONCE?? - Mario
@jgall8405
2 жыл бұрын
Exellent
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you appreciated the content! - Mario
@huytondon09
3 жыл бұрын
Soooo truth, by the way I am a older woman is dating a younger man, he keeps wanting to get married but I take a plunge ......why bothers??..
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Another example of a couple with an older woman and younger man. Awesome. Whatever works for you two! Regarding marriage, you bring up an interesting question. Why SHOULD you bother? Do you want to commit legally (beyond voluntarily)? Are children a desire? What you might ask yourself is, "Do you prefer anything to change about the relationship? Is it even the right time? Are there benefits? Are there disadvantages you have been thinking about? (What are they?) Marriage is something that I think in 2021, we should have more discussion about. What is tradition is (and has been) changing. It's still good for some, and it doesn't work for others. It also works for a while for many, but not forever. Those do, however, exist. And SOME of them are even fulfilling and happy marriages! Seems like you follow your own path in Life and Love, and I respect that. Make sure the steps you take align with what you want, and that you keep your options for the future in mind when you make big decisions. Rooting for you! - Mario
@huytondon09
2 жыл бұрын
@Marin Cuculic hi
@latinaalma1947
2 жыл бұрын
Well I am a single woman and many years ago decided to mever marry again. I am looking for a male friend with benefits, not a spouse.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
I love it. Honesty. Realness. Somehow we don't bat an eye when a man speaks like you, but with women somehow we think they don't think and act like that. Appreciate you sharing that honest reason, and I respect it. - Mario
@richardadams9159
2 жыл бұрын
Am 42,how old are you?
@azzx5738
2 жыл бұрын
As a woman I just don't find much older men attractive. I would never date someone older than 45 unless it's somebody very special and I most definitely haven't met them yet. The guy im dating now is younger than me 😜 and he's so attractive airsign men are so interesting. Gee I wonder what could possibly make old bitter men angry at me? 🤔 I don't judge old men for dating younger women but old men will always judge me for not wanting to date older men? I genuinely don't find men more than five years older than me attractive but some narcissistic older men simply can not except this. There is plenty of women out there who do so go date them. 👍
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Can you share how old you are? Can I share some advice? Skip the time and energy to say, "I'd never" because you already concede to the possibility...in the same sentence!! It's all good, I just like to remind everyone that being open to possibilities is free, easy...and HIGH REWARD. We never know what, or who, may better than any expectation. And ha! If you think MEN are interesting, we think the same about women...with the addition of "complicated"! ;) - Mario
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
And how old is the guy you're dating?
@madelinebrennan9636
4 жыл бұрын
so, less responsibility/work basically--nothing surprising here. i'm afraid you're not saying much for men, but you're honest.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Wait, do women prefer to sign up for more responsibility and work?? Because I've got a list of divorced dads if women are somehow better than men ;) - Mario
@madelinebrennan9636
4 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel it speaks to the self-centeredness of men in their approach to romantic relationships. I'd say that there is more of that in the male world than in the female world in general--just look at politics, child-rearing, etc. Men accomplish more in the world, in general, because they are less concerned with how what they do affects others than are women. And yes, I think it's safe to draw that generalization.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
@@madelinebrennan9636 it also speaks to the focus of your thoughts on the subject...
@madelinebrennan9636
4 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel probably ;) but it doesn't necessarily follow that my thoughts, though subjective, do not hold some objective truth.
@madelinebrennan9636
4 жыл бұрын
i guess my point is that it would have been nice to hear that at least part of the attraction to older women was that they were interesting people to get to know. but i never really believed that was why younger men were attracted to us, so it makes sense that i in fact didn't hear that.
@laremi3577
3 жыл бұрын
You are somehow teaching men how to take advantage of older women, a sort of sex her cheap and run ... So why an older women shouldn't be pampered and spoiled and respected, just because she isn't 22 , lol. If he likes her , if he will want to conquer her , if he respects himself first of all , then he will treat any woman as a honourable man as he is no matter her age. I am 58 dating a young gentleman of 35 and we both have great time by simply being a Man and a Woman with no numbers, we stopped mentioning or reffering about our ages, we just live.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
I know where you're coming from...but it's a stretch to say, "You're teaching men to take advantage of older women." Look, I don't speak to things that SOUND GOOD. I speak to reality. And I do it responsibly. If you want to make an assessment, by all means, please rewatch the video and point out moments and examples, and support your case. If you can do that, I'd love to look at what you're explaining. Interesting that you claim that your relationship is beyond numbers...yet it doesn't sound like the numbers are forgotten. Sounds like you two are quite aware of them! If you have something working for you, AWESOME! I'm rooting for you. Let me know if you actually find anything, or just had thoughts that popped up as a result of watching the video. - Mario
@YoPato2912
3 жыл бұрын
I like someone who is 14 years younger than me, I´m 38 an he is 24...but I always attract younger people, and yes I see my beahavior and is totally different than when I was 25, I don´t get upset for stupid things, I take care of him a lot, I respect his space, his time, and I want someone who respect mine please, no emotional dependency please!! the thing is... older we get and the age difference can be more and more big... So I see myself at 60 looking for 25 guy haha... but I always ask myself, they don´t care if they look older? why? is just a stupid question and my friend he loves older women and says....I don´t care if they look older, I love it!! .... :D
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
1. There's something/someone for EVERYONE. 2. If you are someone of high value, with a great TOTAL PACKAGE...looks is only PART of your appeal. And you can overcome age with a lot of other things. (I get it. Hey, I'm not 25 anymore, but it doesn't stop anything. I'm BETTER now, you know?) 3. I love that your BELIEF is that it's possible for someone to appreciate you, even if you're older. So many people can't even believe it A LITTLE BIT. That's the beginning of your success. Well done. Don't lose that. - Mario
@ageeibc6029
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, now I understand . Calvary City Church JB Senior Church Pastor Rajan, got her older daughter, Kristyln Deborah Nagaraja 35, married to youngJeffrey, then age 20 who use to ride his motorbike 2 Spore 4 work after his SPM age 18-20. The marriage was was kept within their Pastoral Ministry staff. I m so happy 4 them. Jeffrey, good move. Now u amre a trained pastor, both of u got a big house in Permas Jaya & good money. Sad that Joanne has moved permanently to KL. She was very very close to Senior Pastor Rajan. She has alot of information 2.Don't worry, Pastor Rajan is still the CEO in this institution. So salary during MCO is guaranteed. House fully paid 4. This is God's Provision. We confirmed this news from Calvary Bahasa Ministry Pastor Bobby church members Congratulations. Kate & Megan had their babies age 38. Betty, after so long we al got news. As a church we pray 4them.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
No clue why you spent the time end energy posting this.
@ryokohonda4619
3 жыл бұрын
I have nothing against older women dating younger men since my mom is 3 years older than my dad. However if you say men like older women to have less drama, less investment or less additional basic concerns is basically saying they don't wanna be Alpha or Dominant like they don't want to take over. Basically men who are not strong, so they want a stronger person they can rely to.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Bruh...stop putting words into my mouth. I said nothing of that. If a younger man enjoys older women, it doesn't make him less alpha. It makes him...a man who enjoys older women, for a variety of reasons of preference. Put it this way. Imagine one guy is enjoying dating and having tons of sex with his older girlfriend. You are watching videos on KZitem about younger men dating older women. Who would everyone say is "more alpha"? What's clear is you're watching this video because YOU are attracted to older women. That's why men click this video. I think that makes you "curious," but not less alpha or dominant for that. I hope you can believe that someday, too. And this "alpha" shit is ridiculous. In Nature, there aren't very many true alphas. They aren't necessary. Not everyone is destined to be, or has the capacity to be, alpha. Accept it. And you'll hopefully live a more fulfilling life. - Mario
@dlitefulone
3 жыл бұрын
What is Alpha to you? I feel like (my opinion) your concern is more related to dominance and patriarchy....maybe a hint of misogyny. Like I said...just my opinion based on your question. FYI.
@unknownuseresh
4 жыл бұрын
My husband is 8 years younger than me but now he says he in future he maybe attracted to younger women in future.... 💔 Edited: he's 23. He didn't or doesn't have problem with me now but now after talking with his parents he feels he may cheat on me in next few years. I'm really heartbroken.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about your current situation. Where in the world are you? I'd like to offer a couple thoughts: 1. Men are ALWAYS going to be attracted to young, younger, old, and older women. NEVER STOPS. This is an issue ALL OF US have to deal with. 2. If a man is going to cheat, it's not some realization that he gets from his parents. 3. Sometimes we have to have some tough conversations FIRST WITH OURSELVES, and then our partners. Being on the outside and not knowing your situation as well as you and your husband, or husband to be, I'd encourage you to communicate where you're at with him. ROOTING FOR YOU! - Mario
@unknownuseresh
4 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I want to talk to him face to face regarding his problem but unfortunately because of pandemic I'm stuck in my home country Nepal since 6 months. I hope the normal flights will resume soon and I'll be able to talk to him face to face. We have been married for almost 2 years now and we stayed together for more than a year..... I don't wanna lose him because was so caring an loving before.... But now 💔 thanks for replying to me. Thanks for the encouraging words. I will definitely keep your advices in my mind ❤️
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
@@unknownuseresh sounds like a tough situation. I'm rooting for you. - Mario
@bulkyspark2413
3 жыл бұрын
let him never tie u to him 100%..as he cheats his betters will come for u
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@bulkyspark2413 what sort of input is THAT?? First you oppose commitment because...his other women will "come for you." In what world is this happening? I think this is a great learning opportunity of, "Who do you listen to?" There are actually THREE rules. So before anyone worries about "betters" coming for them, take a pause.
@songof3598
3 жыл бұрын
I'm the older woman and he said I make him happy.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
And YOU are happy, yes? - Mario
@songof3598
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel yes very
@jenniferwarhawk7301
2 жыл бұрын
I've got my eye on a man 10 years younger. Hoping he sees the value in my age and experience. I'll be asking him out soon. (I don't think he has any idea that I'm into him.)
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that. Men AND women see value in what isn't easily obtained or replaced. (It's more important than your age or experience.) Good luck asking him out. Props for going for it. Rooting for ya. - Mario (And give us an update, too!)
@jenniferwarhawk7301
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel Update: I asked, he said he's seeing someone. Now, he's British and incredibly kind, so he could have said that to avoid telling me he's not interested and hurting my feelings, but I guess I'll never know.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferwarhawk7301 Disagree. You took a chance and found out "What happens if..." Jennifer, you're AWESOME. Guys have to go through this ALL THE TIME, we survive when a woman is in a relationship. Or says she's in one! I'm really proud of you for making that move. Your action and strategy were sound. You just can't always win ;) - Mario (and thank you for the update, just seeing this now)
@ryyanmanasseh8146
10 ай бұрын
❤amazing 🎉
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
9 ай бұрын
Thanks! Not sure why some think speaking on this is so controversial, but I'm glad you found the value in this video and message. - Mario
@angelajia3800
3 жыл бұрын
Less drama: very true. But in my case, I have a young child full time from my previous marriage. I think that’s my “drama” to younger men who don’t have kids...
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Yep. But our "total package," includes ALL of our good and bad "baggage." We're not defined by just one thing (luckily!). Look, nobody's perfect. What we CAN do is invest in ourselves to offset and develop advantages that make up for our imperfections. All part of the Game of Love. - Mario
@cheldonholyoak1164
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 41 and I like a older woman must I make friends with her
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Pretty basic dating advice...it's pretty basic to become friends with someone you want to be romantically involved with. - Mario
@user-nj2ko1rq2d
13 күн бұрын
I am in love and have been in a relationship for a year with a sexy young man who is a half my age. I am sixty four he is thirty two. We connect spiritually and physically. He is love of my life.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
11 күн бұрын
That's awesome you found love. - Mario
@marydietterich5968
Жыл бұрын
Well done
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, we all have preferences but in this video I hope I improved some awareness for this dynamic. - Mario
@littlemisslondon3017
3 жыл бұрын
My sweetheart is 4 years younger than me ..
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
What's four years anyway?? - Mario
@Rinndery
3 жыл бұрын
I wish some guys just were that honest and knew what they want also .. { at least I’m noticing that in most of the guys I have gotten out with around my age } no I’m not dating an older or younger person I randomly got that on my recommendations 🤷♀️
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Interesting comment! I think ALL men and women would appreciate more openness and honesty from those they meet, RIGHT?? But...it's STILL rare. I think it's rare because people are (generally)...AND ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF SOMEONE THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE...uncomfortable in being open, honest, saying or doing the wrong thing is a concern...and generally struggle to be authentic. But this is what we all find MOST ATTRACTIVE!!! Makes everyone seem that much more desirable, right?? Funny thing is, we miss out on great relationships so often because we never authentically present our intentions. Sometimes the reason for missing out is as simple as not honestly sharing you're looking for something serious and committed...or simple and uncomplicated (sex). Hope you and everyone remembers to be more yourself and it models and inspires others to match you! IT WORKS!! Thanks for stopping by the channel and commenting! - Mario
@kagekayi3640
3 жыл бұрын
My interest on older women are different n very special too.....i find find them attractive just coz they r older ,..way older its my honest answer
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you sharing your truth! We can speak to generalizations of what men and women (typically) desire, but there is ALWAYS a diverse spectrum where we are all in different places regarding what we desire. Hey...the women you desire are legal, and it doesn't impact me at all...so DO YOU. Glad you're living your life for YOU, and striving to live an authentic life that makes you happy. - Mario
@kagekayi3640
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel more the age gap more i feel amazing
@susancruz2022
4 жыл бұрын
thanks
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! - Mario 👊
@璽寧
3 жыл бұрын
No matter what age i m, i still want the same expensive dates~ dont want to change to cheap dates. Forever 21 look and dating style, also i disagree older women have more sex experience, they might just married to one husband for yrs, one sex partner only, i feel u mean those single never married slut, why dont you think the traditional divored housewives? Whats your suggestions for those innocent older woman
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
My suggestion for you...is to stop believing single (never married) women are sluts. You have issues understanding women, and I suppose people, in gerneral. - Mario
@robynhyattoracle
Жыл бұрын
Sounds good.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Age isn't such a big deal, and you know what? People have lots to offer BECAUSE of experience! Thanks for checking out the video and finding value. - Mario
@robynhyattoracle
Жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel You are so welcome, as an older woman that is mostly interested in younger than me. I'm not judging men my age or older. They are set in their ways and younger men have more spirit and I resonate with that.
@jeremykimbrough00
3 жыл бұрын
Love the cougars, drama free!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Not guaranteed drama free, but sounds like you've enjoyed less drama from older women. It's all about what works for YOU. Let adults be adults! - Mario
@taneekawilder2141
Жыл бұрын
The word "cougar" should be outlawed. Humans love humans. The word itself is offensive.
@lademonhunter
Жыл бұрын
Lol you think older women don’t have higher standards. Only young women want a provider. Older women who aren’t pickme chicks will never date a none provider. No matter how much money she has or dates she’s had. This video was so wrong on so many things. But you’re not an older woman. To each their own opinion.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Funny how you seem to be revealing your own triggering issues. By the comments of older women...I'd say older women are echoing their support of my video. But hey, I'm sure your single ass that's unsuccessful and needing to watch KZitem videos about dating...YOU know it all, right?? - Mario
@Ace7of7Cups
4 ай бұрын
Wow, you make it seem that older women are only good for a good time and for a casual relationship.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Ай бұрын
I'm sorry you got that impression. You definitely missed the point. People CHOOSE happiness, and that comes in forms in which partners can have differences of age. And sometimes, women date younger out of preference, compatibility, or just giving a good possible connection a chance. - Mario
@andini9061
2 жыл бұрын
I hope I can meet true love here 🙏😊
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
No. Because you're in the KZitem comments section. This is literally one of the worst strategies you could come up with to find true love.
@debbieburrows9880
7 ай бұрын
why are you talking about women in their 40s? I've always dated younger men. I'm 70 and look 50. I always have men in my life at least 20 years younger
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
7 ай бұрын
Because how many 70 year old women look at KZitem videos like you ;) (That's why!) - Mario (Props for being yourself and dating for YOU, too!)
@xfaroutzx3637
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of the examples you gave make it appear that the benefit that younger men see in dating older women is sex with little investment.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
That's a big claim. How about helping me see your "a lot of examples" appearing to point to "sex with little investment"? Much appreciated! - Mario
@ednapearson1866
2 жыл бұрын
Is there a man available.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
(Shakes Magic 8-ball)..."Definitely"
@justice5897
2 жыл бұрын
Mama boys😌
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
For some, that can be a motivating factor, yes. - Mario
@zerohiotchi2795
3 жыл бұрын
So....um...just asking have you or can you do a video about um...doing a sugar mommy? I turned 18 here recently and honestly I want to experience dating and older woman to see if it's right for me and idk I'd it will be the same as like doing a sugar mommy and stuff like that sorry if this bothers you
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Doesn't bother me that you ask. I can tell you right now, however, you're in over your head. Sugar daddy/momma situations exist...but they're not very common. And they're SELECTIVE. You're also just 18...not an age that a sugar momma is really looking for. You're not just young, you're YOUNG. My advice for you...get your experiences with regular dating. Some shit out here in the world isn't meant for everyone, amateurs, or those who would be in over their head. Understand also, sugar momma situations are WAY MORE rare than sugar daddy situations. So yeah...kind of focus on being the type of guy girls want to date and spend time with...because focusing on sugar mommas at your age (and limited experience) isn't something I'd say is a wise use of your time or energy. - Mario
@christinaescajeda1901
4 жыл бұрын
This is just a question
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Huh? Not following. - Mario
@Whatsupbuddiebud
2 жыл бұрын
His "cougar" comment in his title is a real turnoff. What do they call all those men dating girls their daughters age? He also not once said they could fall in love and want a future together. I doubt he would do that if the ages were reversed.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
1. So I said "cougar." Big deal. Perhaps I should beat around the bush, and then people will then comment, "Why didn't he just say 'cougar'? Let's stop being so sensitive (because I'm not going to placate). 2. What do they call "all those men" dating girls their daughters' ages?? FUCKING RARE. Let's be real, how many of those people do YOU know in real life. If you say more than five you're lying. BOTTOM LINE: Let's not pretend this is a big issue to you. It's maybe a "triggering" issue for you, and other women, but that doesn't change anything about men AND women who QUALIFY for AND DESERVE amazing results and experiences in life, from experiencing them. If a guy can land a pretty young girl who offers a lot...good for him. Same for women. Same for any man or woman landing ANY person of value. Well done. 3. Hmmm. Maybe I didn't say they could fall in love and want a future together. But did you not realize that what you're saying doesn't match with the overall tone and message of this video? Like...did you even consider that this video has an "open-minded" position?? And you're going to be critical because I didn't say one thing...that SHOULD have been inferred by viewers? Interesting. May I ask? What country are you from? And your relationship status? Thanks for stopping by the channel. - Mario
@Whatsupbuddiebud
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChanneltriggered much??? I have been married to a guy 9 years younger than me for 15 years. thanks for proving you are a jerk.
@jennlaflin2292
3 жыл бұрын
You are very handsome
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
You have a good eye!! haha, thanks - Mario
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
👉 *READY TO LEVEL UP YOUR 😐"MEH" LOVE LIFE?* (🙋♂️May I help?) In the description, I organized a collection of 💯🆓 RESOURCES and SHARE the "3️⃣ Actions in 3️⃣ Minutes" you need to take, RIGHT NOW. 👊🏼 - 🦸 *Mario*
@suebarnes9280
3 жыл бұрын
How
@rachelmcfarland4069
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and I expect to be taken out to better places than McDonald’s! So don’t get your wisdom on that one!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Who made an argument for McDonald's? Let's not straw man argument 😉
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
You're 42. Awesome. Now what are the top 3 reasons men should perceive you as desirable? Let's hear.
@rachelmcfarland4069
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel that’s hard to say because I know what I want and do not want after ending my 20 year marriage and I do not settle for anything less than my expectations. Young men love it and men my age hate it and older men will take you no matter what. But I’m interested in men my age and so this does not work in my favor I have a fun personality with the one I feel I can trust enough to open up to until then I’m closed off I care about my appearance and take care of all aspects of it but I’m definitely not vain or high maintenance however men my age are looking for super model types I am financially independent and can take care of myself and not needy what so ever That’s 4!
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
@@rachelmcfarland4069 I'm sure you DID learn many lessons from your 20 year relationship. (There are still plenty more to learn!) Ok, "fun personality." While that's great...your answer is pretty generic, common, and average. From a male perspective, "fun personality" is about as special as someone saying, "I like to laugh." (Meaning, men appreciate it, but if you're leading with that, it's not grabbing a man's attention because it's EXPECTED). You mention not opening up until you trust...that's understandable. But it's also overly safe. You have to risk vulnerability and pain in the games of Life and Love. Some of the best advice I share with men and women is to LEAD with openness and honesty...because when YOU model it first, you allow others to feel comfortable and reciprocate. Which...fast forwards the connection process (for good or bad). So those who can take this risk save time and energy towards positive connections, and away from the ones that aren't a match. Trust me, you'll live past any consequences of being open and honest! You take care of yourself, and that's great. But also subjective. I do question when a woman says such a comment but refrains from referring to her weight. Because...you then go into, "guys want the supermodel types." Are you saying this because you have a body that you COULD improve?? My advice, "STOP saying men go for supermodel types." This is a way for people to avoid improving themselves, by blaming something external. Makd sure you're not falling into this trap, ok? You then mention financially indepencent. That's AWESOME. Means you have more options because you don't NEED financial support. But understand this. MEN DO NOT REALLY CARE HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE. Men will date a CEO and a McDonalds worker because how much you make doesn't matter. Independence is appreciated. Not being needy is appreciated. Making lots of money...not as important to men as physical and mental connection. So now with this input...do you see how the things you mention as being so desirable about yourself might need a little bit more appreciation for the male perspective? I want you to win, and get the love live you deserve, but part of that means we have to improve ourselves. (Which we should always be doing until we die). Stay positive, it sounds like you have an open mind and ears...I hope some of what I shared resonates and impacts you. Any thoughts on what I've shared? Does some of it make sense? Anything not make sense, or that you disagree with? - Mario
@kathyglass2922
Жыл бұрын
Only reason: older men can't keep up. Younger men have more.... um... energy.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
Жыл бұрын
Here we have an example that women can be just as simple minded as they complain men to be.
@skatingcanuck9837
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that you try to look at things from more than one lens, but why do you label older women as cougars in your title? Also the granny emoji? You talk the balanced and non-judgmental talk, but your emojis reveal your true demeaning viewpoint (or walk) of older women. Wish I had seen these details before watching this video.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
That's interesting. Out of my words and actions, the ones you choose to focus on are emojis. Question. Did my emoji use detract from the content of my message? Now why would we mention older women as "cougars"?? Because, despite what makes YOU feel comfortable, this vernacular is commonly used by both men AND women, and by itself does not represent any negative connotation. It appears...YOU think "cougar" is a bad word. Interesting. Oh, and I used a granny emoji?? I must be the world's worst mysoginist, ageist, terrible asshole jerk woman-repressing toxic male. Look...if you want to get on your high horse, you're welcome to do so. I'd challenge you to invite your friends and family to watch my video and read your comment, and let you know if they give a fuck. - Mario
@suebarnes9280
3 жыл бұрын
Men don't like to date any woman that has debt. A lot of women have debt and Men think that the older woman want you to get them out of debt. Not all woman want their money. I have had a few men I dated that were years younger than me. But I have bills and they don't a older woman that has bills. Cause my xhusband.I have debt.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Sue, debt definitely ISN'T a positive, but...it's YOUR story your debt is the problem. Other people have a story that it's looks, or not enough money...whatever. Bottom line...if you don't like something about your life...YOU have to do something about it. Become better in other ways, work on the debt...because I can tell you...I could eliminate your debt and you would still have issues in The Game of Love. As a human you're unique...but your challenges in Life and Love are not. Glad you're here on the channel, taking action to become better...to qualify for AND EARN the love life of your dreams.Tons of resources available to you, too. - Mario
@suebarnes9280
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I have been working on debt really hard. I have 3 grown girls that are not good with money. So it is my fault to try and help my kids.
@SK-qu4wo
3 жыл бұрын
@@suebarnes9280 Hi :)
@suebarnes9280
3 жыл бұрын
@@SK-qu4wo Hi.
@SK-qu4wo
3 жыл бұрын
@@suebarnes9280 You sound interesting. I wouldn't mind being online friends with you.
@ezemadame1681
4 жыл бұрын
Younger men interested in older women it sounds like they’re not interested in long term or commitment with this older woman because all that’s removed? Is this fact then? They lost young men dating older women are doing so because they don’t want something long term from it?
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Younger men can date older women for ANY reason they want. It doesn't necessarily mean they don't want long term. We all have preferences, or just people we connect with. Some guys really appreciate and find older women attractive (all the time, some time, or will discover). When people are aligned in the same direction...age matters...but doesn't. You know? - Mario
@adampaula1863
4 жыл бұрын
My gf is a lot older then me... and we r happy.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
4 жыл бұрын
@@adampaula1863 if that works for you, awesome. It's your life. And you're happy. More than most can say! - Mario
@luchi4939
3 жыл бұрын
Mario It’s so hot‼️🥵😍☺️
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Why thank you! I'll assume the typo, and the compliment ;) - Mario
@EmilyGloeggler7984
3 жыл бұрын
That’s false for me. Even if you present me with two attractive, mature, talented, encouraging, kind, honest, caring, and humble men who have the same job and income - I prefer older men. They are more romantic and appealing than younger guys, because I consider them like my brothers and cousins. Not marriage or love material, no matter what they do. Even if I was a widow now, I still am happier being permanently single and in love with my older wiser husband than an equally loving but unappealing boy.
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. When we speak to these topics, we have to generalize to an extent, with room for exceptions. And...we also have to concede that the qualities you admire in men...aren't reliant upon age ;) And one more...that we ALL tend to say one thing about what we go for...but reality and our actions shows the truth. That's awesome that you're happily single. Way to take control of your happiness! Rooting for you. - Mario
@EmilyGloeggler7984
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheGameOfLoveChannel I actually am married to an older man (he’s turning 41 next month). I thought that was obvious when I mentioned even if became a widow? So yes, my actions do match up with what I said and in addition, I actually did also before my marriage dump a younger guy. No regrets, either. ;) Either way, thank you for respecting that some educated women do prefer older men. I’m sure my babies which will be born will thank you also for having that courtesy.
@ednapearson1866
2 жыл бұрын
I want the man
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
The man? Or "The Man"??
@patriciamartin6756
2 жыл бұрын
Men bore me I have two college degrees and have traveled widely. Sex is bothersome and messy. I don't like being touched
@TheGameOfLoveChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting comment. You're very proud of your degrees I see. I've got 4. Is it a competition? And very interesting perspective towards sex. Not at all connected to the topic, but I assume you just needed to vent (out of frustration). - Mario
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