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@McMahonHater
Жыл бұрын
It's an intricate part of your life. I walked away from love and romance when I was 23. Romance is/was a waist of time and money, and I'm not about to become a jerk just because women don't appreciate nice guys. Nothing sounds like simping more to me then changing your entire personality to impress a chick.
@questionabletheory59
Жыл бұрын
I hope this inspires you: It is true that most of the women today have huge and unrealistic standards for men. I was the same as most of you: lost, unsure, feeling useless, was about to give up on life. Some people might say "you don't need a woman, focus on yourself". That's not 100% true, at a point you will need. Even if you fail multiple times don't give up. Eren Yeager once said "no matter what happens, I will move forward". This quote must be applied everywhere. Me for example had a LOT of fails and I was about to give up completely, but one day I found a girl that I could easly figure out that she is perfect for me and I used all my energy to get her heart and succeeded. Don't give up brothers you can all do it, just keep moving forward!
@McMahonHater
Жыл бұрын
@@questionabletheory59 If I wanted to read a novel I have pleanty at home. If you can't say it in a few lines then you're not trying to convince others you're trting to convince yourself.
@RedPilled792
Жыл бұрын
how Long does this deal last
@McMahonHater
Жыл бұрын
@@RedPilled792 Forever, I'm never going back.
@The_Skull_Viking
Жыл бұрын
Always aim high, work hard, and care deeply about what you believe in. And, when you stumble, keep faith. And, when you’re knocked down, get right back up and never listen to anyone who says you can’t or shouldn’t go on. 💪
@josephcasarrubias9444
Жыл бұрын
@@Sam-um2wc be respectful
@Juve-vo3ie
Жыл бұрын
It’s sad what western society has come to. Women these days have standards that are way too high. We can thank social media and feminism for that.
@ryanmacfarlane7560
Жыл бұрын
Not all women have the same standards
@GeneralKatarn
Жыл бұрын
Although you're right to a degree, remember, the obstacle becomes the way.
@Angelbonilla1982
Жыл бұрын
Most women think there are professional models just cause for a couple of likes!! In social media, and start to believe there celebrities and there nobody with nooooo!!, credentials of modeling with big powerhouses like hugo Boss, victoria Secrets, Chanel, Armani, etc etc!!
@jamesy11111
Жыл бұрын
@@GeneralKatarnBingo 🎯
@exxie1
Жыл бұрын
Stop whining. Hit the gym and make bank.
@tajbinjohn6522
Жыл бұрын
Female friends are fantastic for growing and learning with, they help provide social proof and aren't as caustic as a lot of men can be. Mine have helped me out so much and they don't even know how often they've helped me get laid. Female platonic friends are great
@kku6857
Жыл бұрын
Nope they kill masculine energy
@darkpixel4984
7 ай бұрын
I have some female friends in school, but we basically just help each other out in classes and one of them tutors me. I feel like that’s okay. I don’t go out with them ever to places and never ask really
@AngelGuzman0925
Жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this video. I00% agree on this solid advice. As you’re leveling up in your life, don’t leave the dating part out. Continue to work on that as well. Stay beastly bro!
@martinmucha8074
Жыл бұрын
What if im completly lost interest in woman? And want to have peace and just drive bike and cars
@AngelGuzman0925
Жыл бұрын
@@martinmucha8074 if you’ve lost interest in women, you prolly need to think about what made you go into that mentality mindset. We as men are biologically hardwired to be interested in woman. Why not enjoy riding your bike and also work on your dating life? It’s just like any other challenge. The more you do, the better you become, the easier it gets
@Swwatter
Жыл бұрын
@@martinmucha8074if you've completely lost interest in women, you're probably gay.
@Thermopylae2007
Жыл бұрын
It's refreshing to see advice for men that's rooted in building confidence and maintaining frame without going down some of the rabbit holes associated with the "Red Pill" that can encourage negativity or excessive focus dating app statistics, etc.
@Conquerer.D.K
10 ай бұрын
You dont believe in stastistics and probalities?
@sebastianhansendiaz6106
Жыл бұрын
The way Ive accpeted a true female friend is her ability make me meet more women, get me into parties, talk amazing about me to her friends, opening a door to a bigger and easier market. But sometimes I question myself because I’m tbh very red pill minded in my opinion about male friends. Thoughts?
@ParisTitan
Жыл бұрын
Greaat video! Very inspiring! Especially the part with the best option and the platonic relationships.
@Itachi-fanz
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the videos! I did not have the confidence to pursue women before finding your channel. Now i have the courage to ask women out and i have stopped talking passively with women. Either lust or nothing from now on.
@timohaikarainen3957
Жыл бұрын
suggestion for next video: why should i pursue girls in the first place 😂
@ernest1576
8 ай бұрын
You are right sir the dude that wants a girl for just a friend is trying to hide his true feeling s women know that every women has 10guys after her
@jefferyhawkins4969
Жыл бұрын
6:16 Amen OUCH!!!
@HippoHeart55113
Жыл бұрын
thanks so much
@TrvisXXIII
Жыл бұрын
I know Teige Hanley ain’t got your skin looking like that man, I saw your videos from a couple years back and the glow up is insane. Gotta be Botox or fillers, connect me with your dermatologist and dentist, I need a new grill too
@DDuffy143
Жыл бұрын
I've never been extremely hot or ripped, but I've always took the genuine good friend or "nice guy" approach towards women I liked, because that's just the kind of guy I am. I wish I could have a more "badass/alpha" way of going about things, but I just naturally can't. I was raised by my mother alongside 4 sisters. But being raised amongst them has made me understand women better. And I must say, it doesn't hurt if you just want to be friends. Other girls tend to notice that as well. They notice that you don't care if you get her or not and that you are ok with just being friends. Something about that mentality has been pretty good for me and has gotten me girls all the way up until my age now, 37. As I've gotten older though, it's not so easy. lol... Times have also been changing very fast. But if you have a stable income, you'll be just fine! ;) (My point is... just be yourself.. and its ok to be friends, if nothing else comes of it. It's best not to burn bridges.. and on top of that, it's healthy to have female friends that you can hang out with platonically. You get free practice if you need extra work on your game. Shit, sometimes the girls help you with talking to girls. Sometimes those girls will have friends that hear about you, cuz girls love to talk. I've gotten more girls from just being authentic and nice. Now I want to find a high value wife. So my body and money aspects of my life have become so much more important. When you get older, you can't just get the girl or a high value woman by being nice.)
@tyjusto9351
Жыл бұрын
While that may be your experience, platonic friendships in a general sense, never benefits men especially if they're attracted to em. It's best he gets advice from men who are successful with women, because they give real pointers. Most women in there advice is terrible, and it's usually in the POV of what they want, never what women in general want. They never go in depth with push/pull, tonality, cold approach etc. Only men knows this for the most part
@DDuffy143
Жыл бұрын
@@tyjusto9351 all I’m saying is that it could do more harm then good to burn bridges just because they don’t want to date you.
@baldeagle4710
Жыл бұрын
@@tyjusto9351women have no idea what women want. Only men do.
@Rickest_Wojt
Жыл бұрын
Oh man, where were you 4 years ago when I was in high school? 😅🙁
@davidcole8200
Жыл бұрын
Ohhhh, So this is a commercial.
@boicigano
Жыл бұрын
Do a video the harsh truth about men women must hear
@zhhrah
Жыл бұрын
Men can have a platonic lady friends under one, crucial condition: He finds her ugly
@kiambotebbonikay
Жыл бұрын
Point number 4 is the absolute truth that simp hide from
@ryw5862
5 ай бұрын
The background music is annoying
@captaingabi
Жыл бұрын
Do not worry guys, after countless relationships and sex, when you hit around 40 you all will realize that non of the women are worth dating at all.
@cap1804
Жыл бұрын
How old were you when your figure out what is wrong and fixed?
@petarstamenkovic4276
Жыл бұрын
Is no one gonna mention how fire Julia looks on thumbnail? 🔥
@Sindrella.
Жыл бұрын
More plastic in her than the ocean
@ohuytien7859
Жыл бұрын
If i didn't know you, there's a high chance i'm a misogynist now😂. Thanks for everything.
@Dilqule
Жыл бұрын
Number 2 hit deep. I guarantee at 27 I wouldn't be battling with major depression and suicidal thoughts since I was a teenager if I experienced a relationship,wasn't in a 3+ year dryspell, had a regular sex life, being told I love you, getting noticed by girls I actually want, dating, traveling with a girl just once in my life. Just once to feel like I'm wanted by a woman I actually want.
@elad-hadad55
Жыл бұрын
Take a coach
@535wer
Жыл бұрын
My advice for you is create a lot of options for yourself with women. Don’t focus too much on just 1 woman and don’t be too desperate. It’s hard to do and don’t open too much about your personal problems in life, leave some mystery about yourself. The way women are now days you aren’t missing anything at all. No drama, high blood pressure, her trying to control you, play games, make you go broke, pick fights with you, sound familiar. Whatever you do never ever ever ever get married. I don’t care how great she seems. Date her, live with her, sex etc sure but if you ever breakup you saved yourself a lot of money, and a lot of psychological damage and then you move onto the next woman.
@535wer
Жыл бұрын
You guys need to understand it’s a numbers game plus every state is different, very different with women. Seriously women in Texas are not the same as women in Oregon lol. But they all have one thing in common they all bought into the mindset of toxic feminism. It’s not hard to figure out what works for you. If you talk a lot and can’t get a woman, quit talking too much. If you let a woman blab away and you land her well their you go.
@Rob-fp3xq
Жыл бұрын
Dude you are making your whole life about women. Did your really say if you had a woman you wouldn’t be depressed? Find a purpose outside of women dude. A woman is there 2 assist you along the journey not be the focus of your journey. Making her the focus will cause you to lose her quick!
@HippoHeart55113
Жыл бұрын
fax
@romeosalinas7489
Жыл бұрын
My female friend who is a psychologist said something that changed my life. As a man, you’re never Mr. Right, you’re only Mr. Right now…. Game changer
@ivanr4300
Жыл бұрын
Huh??
@ubaida4254
Жыл бұрын
thats 21 savage not ur psychologist bud.
@csx6910
Жыл бұрын
Which is why you have to maintain your own path. You don't compromise to go on hers. And if you have the same path, she has to put the same effort in as you.
@pfpchad2747
Жыл бұрын
@@ubaida4254 😂 FACTS!
@Silver_Fang1
Жыл бұрын
She need psycologist .. Mr. Right 😂
@speeddemontrackandfeild6292
Жыл бұрын
6 HARSH Truths about WOMEN, Men Learn TOO Late 1. Lust or Pity 2. Bridges & Skyscrapers 3. The Best option 4. Never platonic 5. Female pursuit 6. The female attitude
@ChrizJenson
Жыл бұрын
Having female friends can have its advantages. They add to my social proofing when we're hanging out at bars/events. I'll have 1-2 of them with me and all the sudden more women gravitate out of curiosity.
@tyjusto9351
Жыл бұрын
While I agree this can happen, if the man hasn't successfully achieved women on a romantic level, having those friendships won't help him majority of the time. He'd spend most of the friendship hoping it changes, instead of utilizing them in this way
@baldeagle4710
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Women want what they can’t get. Wear a wedding ring next time you go out.
@mingmcflanagan4360
Жыл бұрын
As a dude in his early 20's who is already extremely disciplined in fitness and lifestyle, constantly achieving new goals, and chasing my ambitions (both financial and holistically), I've grown tired of the generic "work on yourself and the right one will come" copy-and-pasted videos about dating. These points were a breath of fresh air and straight-to-the-point. Specifically, your bit about the "average" or even below average guys with nothing special (not in great shape, ambitious or well-off financially, or even good-looking) having better success than the average "silent grinder working on himself" is so accurate. I can speak to this myself as someone who has been grinding extremely hard in the gym and my personal endeavors for the past five years. Admittedly, I suck pretty badly at having confidence off-the-bat when trying to build this tension with girls. From someone that had a pretty massive glow-up from fat to jacked (over many years of hard work), I find myself relying a bit too much on physical game and girls complimenting me about my physique. In reality, the attention you get due to having a good physique or being extremely intelligent and possessing connections and resources is just a plus and you still need to put in the work and immediately establish tension like you mention. I would even wager you might become viewed as intimidating and no longer as approachable or "relatable", so it makes things even more difficult at times. Pretty much every other video about dating from a dude's perspective nowadays either defends the complete hands-off approach to attraction and prioritizes either entirely "building yourself up and attracting through sheer ambition" or relying too heavily on the importance of cold approaching and "speed-running" confidence. In my opinion, I think a substantial amount of single guys like myself (not necessarily "many", but certainly far more than often construed) ARE already putting in the work and grinding in the gym, financially, and in terms of creating a more holistic and meaningful life in general. As someone that's extremely hard on myself, I feel that being in this "middle ground" is actually even more brutal and unforgiving than being an absolute beginner at starting to level up or after already having reached success because our only options are to essentially "waste time dating" or "focus entirely on ourselves". In reality, as you point out, I feel being brutally honesty with ourselves about filling that void of companionship rather than disguising it as "self-improvement" and actively working on it without considering it a "waste of time" is key.
@bazzytonoak7130
Жыл бұрын
💯
@java8569
Жыл бұрын
Had to screenshot and save this, basically described exactly what I feel as a 21yo engineering student who’s been grinding the gym for over 5yrs. It does feel bad to see guys who don’t “deserve” it (as in they don’t work hard, educate themselves or do any physical training) get 10x the amount of women I am getting. I have been relying too much on working on myself and basically waiting for girls to come to me when that’s not how the real world functions, and we need to make the effort to put ourselves out there and stop waiting for miracles to come to us dating wise.
@mingmcflanagan4360
Жыл бұрын
@@java8569 Appreciate the comment man. I've been out of college for a bit now but the key is to remember that we're all capping a bit (both men and women). It's a strange cycle of guys trying to downgrade their effort into how much energy they're putting into dating (relative to results) and presenting our social insecurities as "strength and magnetic confidence that will radiate and attract the right ones". Conversely, women (particularly in our demographic) either have unrealistic expectations or only go for a very niche type of guy with very specific physical or financial attributes. Yes, while you will almost certainly gain more attention with the right mindset and habits (physique, intelligence, and social prowess), the groundwork has merely been laid for you to ATTEMPT to put in work. At the same time, it's also important to note that you can only get to such a level at each of these before continuing to put in work yields more results (a series of diminishing returns). For example, after a few years of going to the gym properly and dialing in fitness, you'll look "fit and athletic" (ripped, buff, jacked, whatever, etc...). The average person/girl (unless they're tremendously into fitness themselves or working in the field of sports or athletics), however, will kind of tune out after fit or ripped and thus, well, that excuse that you're "waiting to be in the best shape" doesn't cut it anymore. Obviously you can always get better, but there's a point (relatively early on after a few years) where you achieve, reach, and exceed the conventional bar of "okay, this guy is fit and athletic enough to be considered a dating contender". The hard truth we all have to accept as men is that: yes, if you happen to be extremely good-looking naturally and/or tall, that minimum bar is pre-cleared AND you will receive way more leeway to mess up, even if no prior work was done. That's not fair, but it's not everything. This is just the way it works and has always been. All that being said, I would wager that, like the video outlines, the key is to be honest with all of these factors and utilize all of these truisms about attraction and dating and use them to better our communications with one another rather than weaponizing and blaming each other (be it men versus men or blaming women). So, in conclusion: yes, "maxing yourself out" and focusing on self improvement is great and necessary to have a solid life in general. Simultaneously (and this is the part that many similar camps of thought and "self-help" manosphere videos lack), we have to remember that dating is a game, and when you deal with the right kind of women, you can minimize the bullshit and cut straight to genuine connection.
@dukeonwheels
Жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@mingmcflanagan4360
Жыл бұрын
@@bombda430 Absolutely man and totally in same boat with the making the first move thing and keeping that organic tension up haha. Funny how the physique thing is coming up a lot in these responses too. Personally, I think the most immediate benefit of being a gym rat has been a higher frequency of some eye contact and some overt comments about "muscles" or "being very fit". This whole era of advertising insecurity and inexperience as "magnetic confidence and pure investment in oneself" is something I've wrestled with myself and have been recently come to terms with the fact that I was using this as an excuse too and not "above" it. Again, at least in my experience, the good physique and demonstrated discipline simply prolongs that window of making a good impression, and slightly buffers up your fuck up threshold. Contrary to popular belief, in my opinion, it's not some MASSIVE advantage when it comes to commanding that frame and building that chemistry off the bat.
@stevemcintyre723
Жыл бұрын
I see your point on the platonic friendships. I think it’s a bit different for guys and girls who’ve been in the military. I have female friends to this day that I’ve never tried to get with and don’t feel a need to. And these are people, both male and female, that have my back 💯 (and Vice versa). Not saying I disagree, because there is validity, but I think it comes on a spectrum. Good stuff tho.
@antonkononenko1862
Жыл бұрын
I had some female friends in the past, and I didn't have sexual interest in them. I still maintain relationship with some of them, however most of my male friends didn't get that. The only thing is that if I was interested in someone sexually then "friendship" option never was an option.
@sepehradonis6959
Жыл бұрын
It's also the case with me. I'm a very social guy but I don't find majority of women attractive and some of my female friends secretly dislike me becouse I never made a move to hook up with them
@PizzaTime1983
2 ай бұрын
Same. I also have female friends to. N I never really agreed with beasts mentality here.
@baldeagle4710
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been into red pill stuff for 10 years. Finally gave up on women and I’ve never been happier or more content. Going after women made me a simp which messed with my mental health. Your psyche will be a lot better if you’re not desperate.
@blackmamba7775
Жыл бұрын
Not helpful if your trying to have children and a family.
@johnfroelich8554
Жыл бұрын
@@blackmamba7775 too late in history for that
@kku6857
Жыл бұрын
Redpill is feminism for men
@sepehradonis6959
Жыл бұрын
@@blackmamba7775Only try for having children if you are rich. Life will become brutal for the next generation. Way worse than us
@blackmamba7775
Жыл бұрын
That's stupid, ya let me just take myself out of the gene pool because I'm not rich. It's not impossible to raise children and have them be good members of society just because you're at a disadvantage. Quitters.
@emuhill
Жыл бұрын
As an older guy, my advice to you younger guys is forget about the women you are pursuing. Instead look to the women who are pursuing you. You'll have better results. Also never get involved with women at work. Ever! It is not worth the risk. By doing so, you are putting your livelihood at risk. You are jumping into the frying pan. If she is the boss, then you are playing with fire. I have seen other guys make these kinds of mistakes and I have seen some bad things happen as a result.
@fugu4163
Жыл бұрын
If a woman pity you then she shouldnt be your priority any more.
@ianchesney9639
Жыл бұрын
Good contact bro, but in seeing alot of guys deflecting in the comment section, saying women's standards are too high etc....that may be true but it's our fault it's mens fault. Most dudes I know growing up and even grown ass adults play video games and eat junk food. We are not vigorous like we used too no sweat or pain in growth just dormant. Soo know we got a bunch of women who are forced to wear the pants and lead boss babes etc .. we have lost the leading role and women are rightfully pissed. We need to get our shit together and start grabbing these girls and leading them to happiness.
@harrynorbert2005
Жыл бұрын
The guys outside western world please don't follow this advise 🙏🙏🙏. Our culture and conditions are different than them. Especially those who are from India.
@ryanminor2334
Жыл бұрын
Feels great to watch your videos again bro. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and definitely needed hear this. Thanks for the push man.
@manishverma-sb7xw
Жыл бұрын
6 harsh truths about woman man learn too late... 1...woman show desire and intrest who initiate lead and show lust and desire.... 2 ...woman like hypergamy big skyvrsper builder type... 3...woman want best option.... 4...never platonic relationship... 5...man should make first move.... 6...woman will test man insecurity
@bophelomohapi
Жыл бұрын
Hi, David are you a Christian?
@SuperUltra49
Жыл бұрын
No,you respond to these tests by being aggressive and assertively telling her to shut her piehole rudely as she deserves. Not emotional but stern and firm. F her feelings. Instead of women deliberately provoking men in relationships,how about they be good women to a man and improve their moods and preserve the peace. Make his life simple. Even better,as a man,just break up with her on the spot to save yourself a headache and some BS. God,other people,competition,enemies,and life is already testing you. You don’t need that from a woman. If she wants to see what kind of man you are,have her see how you respond to challenges in life,competition,adversity,how you act under pressure,how you handle conflict,how you handle stress,when things don’t go your way,and when life is destroying you. You don't need that nonsense in your life. Dump her ASAP. Foolishness on their parts. She has to check herself. No hate HTB. Been watching you for years but people need to stop teaching men to put up with that female behavior. That is toxic. It’s stupidity. It really is. Lord have mercy. Same thing goes for women starting drama to add stimulation to the relationship. Retarded. Why ruin a good,peaceful,and positive relationship so you can be dysfunctional like other couples? Makes no sense. I can’t imagine how guys deal with that. It’s mind boggling to me how men could live with that.
@costinelbobonete1189
Жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@-Dynamite
Жыл бұрын
Videos like this make me proud to be a supporter of this channel man. You're well spoken on another level, really happy to have someone with consistent solid advice for men. Thank you David
@adamstark1850
Жыл бұрын
Ace video! The worse thing about being pitied is that in a lot of cases this can lead to a relationship... But you're going to be settled for and are setting yourself up for a miserable low quality relationship!
@kings-sv4iv
Жыл бұрын
Here’s the deal with girls and guys being friends, it’s okay not to believe me you’re entitled to whatever you like to believe, me and my 3 female friends were all single, I have yet to sleep with any of them nor have they tried with me, however my guy friends I’m more tight with and I know they got my back as I have theirs. Like I said it’s possible, but it often does end up sexually, and those that do I usually don’t keep around.
@Limitless_Doom
10 ай бұрын
Nah. As some one in the triple digits in their 20s and then went full time playing video game hermit... its literally no different. Either one is fine
@smoothvelvetsinger
Жыл бұрын
My conclusion is the world and how it works has just become a sad and miserable affair. I'm basically just hanging in there waiting for Jesus now😞
@FlakoRayR
Жыл бұрын
Ain’t nothing wrong with female friends. they create situations, they can introduce you to other people and females. They get you to understand woman a little better. You lose fear and be more comfortable around woman. Strangers don’t know if you are partners or friends. They can make you look attractive. Take advantage of a friendship but don’t screw up trying to fake a friendship. Most relationship start by the introduction of other people.
@HybridDolphin
Жыл бұрын
All true But I think what most people mean is don't be in the friendzone when you want something more
@Adrian-yi8fl
Жыл бұрын
Only if you honestly aren't attracted to her.
@gballachey
Жыл бұрын
I have female friends. Thing is, I legitimately don't want to be with them 😂 If I did and i couldn't be, I wouldn't accept some bogus friendship with them. He's right about that. I grew up with only sisters and LOTS of female cousins. It feels natural to me. That said, male friends who you share a path with are crucial. Totally agree there. Female friends are good too but more for just chilling and having fun, with some exceptions.
@chadrose9895
Жыл бұрын
This is so true! The first step is not being afraid of failure and taking action.
@lordcorporal4247
Жыл бұрын
Fake it till you make it boys. Just keep telling yourself how unique you are and keep repeating your strengths that women will like. Go into dates thinking “she’s going to want me in pretty decent looking, smart and I got good jokes… why wouldn’t she like me?” Keep repeating stuff like that. Keep thinking about how many boring good looking tall dudes there are and how she is probably sick of them and she’ll want someone unique like you. You got it bros go kill it! And if your nervous, who cares everyone gets nervous. Don’t let being nervous bother you. Happens to everyone! Make a joke about it even, if your funny, to show how unbothered you are by it. Be confident about your weaknesses… everyone’s got em.
@strapz805
Жыл бұрын
Nothing serious bros! Girls will make it obvious and if they lose interest you saved yourself a headache!
@exxie1
Жыл бұрын
I'm friends with a girl which I think is platonic, because I am in no way attracted to her one bit. We hang out often when we were still in college one on one, smoke weed, talk about music, watch Netflix and that stuff. She's in Canada rn and I'm from Asia. She's got a husband now and we talk like, once a year about mostly music. Never once I thought of something sexual with her, rather I feel like she's my younger sister. I think she's the only platonic female friend I ever had lol, any other females who I mingled with, mostly there's something sexual underneath it all tbh at least for me. I'm honest enough to admit that
@willhealy3653
Жыл бұрын
This dude looks like he has a son named Bryce or Chad that this girl doesn’t know about.
@nobodysperfect06
Жыл бұрын
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot. Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
@tmcclone
Жыл бұрын
Im 29 and never had anyone. Never had sex either.
@nobodysperfect06
Жыл бұрын
@@tmcclone do you think if you ever did manage to get a girlfriend do you think you would still forever be sad and depressed because you didn't have one in your younger years?
@tmcclone
Жыл бұрын
@@nobodysperfect06 i really believe I will always be a little bitter about it no matter what.
@nobodysperfect06
Жыл бұрын
@tmcclone reminds me of an article about a guy from the UK that I wish I never read or never discovered at times, I was sadly moved by it mentally and emotionally
@dylanroyboy
Жыл бұрын
My parents just gave me the "someone will come along" speech, and then I found this video. It's not so much about being in a relationship at first, I just want to build the confidence so high that I can walk up to any girl and tell her exactly what I want. And for that man, you get a sub. Thank you.
@Curious_enigma
Жыл бұрын
Hey Bro, I understand your point of view on the besties thing, but there are some cases it’s just two people enjoying the company of each other within a friend group. If you where to force a relationship, it would just be weird. But I’ll take your words into consideration when approaching more girls. If I end up bagging this one chick, I’m buying myself edge clothing as a gift to myself
@nicholhart4931
Жыл бұрын
The sit down advice advice videos recently have been awesome. Keep up the great content!
@Armyreaper
Жыл бұрын
I normally fall in the Lust zone and talked my way in the petty zone . One cure for that I should have practice walking away. It would have been a much better choice even if she didn’t contact me again.
@marcelchalobah7946
Жыл бұрын
If you walk away you might lose her but you have your honour and dignity. Especially you not a simp
@virtuousheart3820
Жыл бұрын
@@marcelchalobah7946I hate how modernity has turned the meaning of simp upside down
@guywoznicki7847
Жыл бұрын
I feel you. A running joke with my friends is that I meet a girl who’s interested and am a master at talking her out of it. I wish that wasn’t true!
@robertmiller6444
Жыл бұрын
You asked, okay. Yes I've had female friends that I only wanted as friends and I liked having them as friends. They were good friends that we did a lot of things together as friends like waterskiing and mountain biking, various outings, and such all the time. They were good friends first, who just happened to be female. Thing is, almost all of my female friends shot their shot with me and I turned them down because that's not what I wanted with them. So no, in my opinion, being a female does not preclude being someone I would want as a friend.
@sirninjaraiden
Жыл бұрын
So it was the other way around then. If they were interested in you and shot their shot, that's literally no different than being in the friendzone for a guy
@iagoferrer4090
Жыл бұрын
Here early 😄
@mfreed66
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate your vulnerability, great point with the best option part, that resonated. Question, did you notice an increase in success with women after you were established-more successful? Or do you think this doesn't matter as long as the drive and potential is there. Ex: renting apt and average car while working towards buying home/nicer car vs. Owning home with nice car. Thoughts? Open to the viewers perspectives as well.
@Mr.S369
Жыл бұрын
I've been single since I was 40, and I turn 60 this year. No dates, no games, no fucks given.
@brendanmurphy3696
Жыл бұрын
I’m just here with my Chicken, Broccoli, and rice.
@yuvrajchauhan5098
Жыл бұрын
Gainzzz
@brettstringfellow9352
Жыл бұрын
Quite a few comments saying nothing about the quality or character of their supposed female friends, and all about how they use that person for social proof or access to that person's network. If that's how you treat your friends, then no man would want to be friends with you. People can smell your intent. An acquaintance you hang out with every now and then when you're hoping for a shot at her hot roommate is not a friend, and you aren't being a friend, either.
@jimmyjohn272
Жыл бұрын
I’m so serious I have female friends that I do not have any romantic or sexual interest in. I’m friends with her because she’s funny and a good person 🙀
@muzukuru2492
Жыл бұрын
Female friends are only good if they are older or younger. Not the same vintage...you can learn from older gals and lead the other ones. But it's like looking at the sun, you don't want to be doing it long if you aren't getting any benefits/access
@SunilSingh-xw2hg
Жыл бұрын
Women are so hard to get how is that even possible
@nomad4x
Жыл бұрын
No point in being "Friends" as soon as she alphas up, she gone and he won't tolerate her having "male friends." I've walked from a situation getting serious due to male friends. A shoulder to cry on is a c**k to ride on.
@jadenn8155
Жыл бұрын
I think its benificial to befriend all kinds of people it keeps your beliefs constantly challenged and always learning knew things about people and the human experience . Most people like Ben Shapiro build up resentment and hate/dislike when they run there mouths about people they have not one clue about.
@carlospita6442
Жыл бұрын
Pursue women for what?? What do they offer? If you're in the top 20% of society you still have to pursue them stop simping
@dushandvr5765
Жыл бұрын
Sex and children and it's enough for women to have all power when they can provide this
@carlospita6442
Жыл бұрын
@@dushandvr5765imppp don’t you think they like sex
@comander875
Жыл бұрын
7 heavenly virtues, by them you will know that you are speaking with man (not a kid) but be carful there are lot of evil ,you are going to find a lot wolfs in sheep skins. Be cheerful The Holy Spirit leads to truth ,way and life. Rember truth not lies.
@dimitrescu5422
Жыл бұрын
bro ur thumbnails are just a crime.
@michaeldjoseph
6 ай бұрын
Could you please clarify your interpretation as to whether promiscuity is permitted for single Catholics or Christians by extension since you are Catholic and may influence many by your videos. Appreciate you, and no judgment intended. Just seeking clarification. Thanks.
@adamstark1850
Жыл бұрын
Serious question to your last point... When have men wanted women with high body counts?
@michaelscottii6927
Жыл бұрын
David this video hit differently in what’s going on in my dating life (women pointing out weaknesses)….on time video, appreciate you bruh!
@aoteren
Жыл бұрын
Well that's a video that will kill your desire to ever invest into dating... About the "female friends" thing. I have a lot of female friends. And yes, a lot of them I would totally sleep with if had an opportunity, I just settle for what I have because I don't feel like I'm capable of pursuing any of them sexually or romantically. That much is true. Except for two of them. We are friends with one for over 14 years, she's married with 3 kids. Another one I've been friends with for over 5 years, she's in serious relationship right now, but not married yet. Both are pretty, moderately sexy, and have amazing personalities. And I've just never looked at them that way. Never could. Like, seriously, I tried. But just thinking about them sexually felt extremely weird and wrong, like thinking about sleeping with your sister or something. I like every other thing about both of them, keep in contact with both, but man, I'd likely never sleep with none of them if one would straightforward offer. It's just too damn weird. So... there is such a thing as a platonic.
@Theorphan81
Жыл бұрын
I'm married, but I have to say I really enjoyed this video. Much of this was true for my relationship and how I got with my wife. You're doing good work.
@cliffchampion5501
Жыл бұрын
You look like the boy from the first Jurassic Park movie
@starmaster191
Жыл бұрын
all grown up but yeah, I can see it.
@Braden_S
Жыл бұрын
“Now I gotta deal with your whining ass” 😂
@terrytorres5026
Жыл бұрын
You are incorrect. Develop yourself and the right women will automatically be drawn to you. As your character, wealth, and stature increases, so will the quality of women. Let your self-worth make your choice, not your lust. The latter brings gold diggers and 18+ years of child support. Women are not attracted to a nice-looking janitor.
@BoomerSlovakia
11 ай бұрын
@howtobeast Hey man. Love your content. But I have to say, I really don't agree with the notion that men and women cannot be friends. And no, I'm not in the friendzone, no, I'm not simping for a girl (used to, a lot, but not anymore). I know a lot of girls that I have no romantic interest for (nor, in most cases, do they have any for me) but still love to be around them. I don't like the idea that I'm supposed to want to screw every woman I meet. I love feminine energy, even the non-romantic part of it. I have a number of female close friends (that I would never consider dating) and I love spending time with them. All I'm saying, it's not that simple. Yes, in a lot of cases, it is exactly what you say. But when you're healthily masculine, I think you can have any type of relationship you want with a woman, because it's solely based on understanding what that relationship is bringing into your life and not the fact that you need to ejaculate. Women can be amazing friends.
@ontheoutsidelookingin275
9 ай бұрын
Correction: Revelation of weaknesses are not why every guy goes MGTOW. I did because I realized that no matter how much effort I put in, in the end, women are really no prize. There is no relationship with a woman that brings the man anything that makes it worth the effort it takes, either to secure it, nor to maintain it. All relationships are funnels for women to siphon a man's time, wealth, and energy. Nothing flows towards the man, and as soon as a woman sees a man with more, she's gone. Sex is fun, but if you waste much time, energy, or effort for it, you should re-evaluate what you are really getting: a short period of physical pleasure and nothing more. There are far cheaper ways to obtain the same.
@fredtacang3624
Жыл бұрын
Be a high value man, and only go for a high value woman. Dont settle, esp for 304' (except if you only fool around with them. Always wear rubber lol)
@whtshark691
Жыл бұрын
It may be an integral part but, it's a small part. For a short time in your twenties, you date /court your future wife. It not a buffet, or a tv game show....find a good father who knows his role and has a daughter your age that him and his wife raised right...and you would have found a future wife and mother for your future children...period. Again, it's not a buffet or game show...stop acting like it is...and stop give attention to these girls...give attention to their father and mother....their actions and values...talk to them FIRST....and you will know all you need to make a decision.
@starmaster191
Жыл бұрын
As a tall person, #3 is right on the money. Just cause you're tall doesn't mean you're gonna have success with the opposite gender. It take guts to walk up to the opposite sex and initiate the social engagement, Lol i don't know why people think being over 6ft is the end-all be-all.
@Viggho
9 ай бұрын
Female friends totally enhance creativity for men ; testosterone also ; joy and harmonize vibes too. I’m a man and have girl friends without any personal intent as I am also in couple . It’s true that sometimes it can be strange in a way but it’s totaly a question of perceptions, focus and respect or purety. It’s rare but they also can be an inspiring source like sisters. Okay that’s all to me.
@terrytorres5026
Жыл бұрын
Never pursue a woman. Men have been and always will be the prize. We provide and protect. Good women will find you. If not, trust me, you are Seek out an Asian wife, they will honor and respect you and be grateful for you.
@glentonrichards
3 ай бұрын
8:27 is so key. I wish I knew that years ago. Would’ve known that years ago. Doing this might’ve saved me *years* of headaches when it comes to women. 😅
@andrewn4177
6 ай бұрын
David. This video changed my life. I just went through a divorce. Thank you good sir ! Thank you !
@rasmusdrongesen2721
Жыл бұрын
The 7 harsh truth about woman today. Woman worth dating is a dying species. You will be lucky to find just 1 girl in your life time thats worth doing an effort for.
@rehannongbri6358
Жыл бұрын
The fact that you make women and dating important is what makes you a simp.. work on yourself, make yourself proud etc first and this will help.. keeping women in your mind at all times will not get you anywhere.. don't give a damn about these useless illusions.
@stannisthemannis5535
Жыл бұрын
I don't doubt that the man making this video has dealt with his insecurities in the past but it's a lot easier to be confident when you're 9 out of 10
@Prasen1729
Жыл бұрын
High value man, pops up a photo of Tate with a cigar. You dudes are in the pity zone actually, for many women and men. :-D
@StationOutlook
Жыл бұрын
All I've ever known is girls in my life.. much more than most men, and since a much younger age. I am now 42 and want nothing to do with another woman ever.. it's finally time for Me to be in love with Me.
@A-Day-in-the-Life-of-Pepper
Жыл бұрын
Dude has good words for young men but he be letting his girl dress like that in public. Don’t get me wrong. I love the guy and what he’s doing, but he probably needs some of my advice
@dwcushman1
Жыл бұрын
Interesting that the divorce rate was lower because of what “men” did differently. Where is the responsibility of the woman? Regardless of what her husband does or doesn’t do, she has her own free will.
@Masia315
Жыл бұрын
I got a couple friends that are females and I’m not attracted to them whatsoever so I do believe you can be friends with females
@rcaminos
Жыл бұрын
I’ve had lots of platonic female friends because why wouldn’t i have female friends. I don’t wanna fuck every attractive woman i meet and sometimes I want to be friends with them rather than date. That’s not to say I’ve been in situations where I do want to have a romantic relationship and have settled for a friendship and you’re right that’s not healthy for the man or the friendship.
@alijahcordova8359
11 ай бұрын
Never sacrifice purpose for women never put women on a pedestal complement what they do rather than how they look purpose before pleasure and yes you need to work on your skills with women absolutely but never make women the only thing in your life they want to compete earn work for and be apart of your life never your entire life less is more focus on financial freedom style physical appearance and pay attention to what women do and how they move not what they say understand and accept women nature for what it is and know that as men we must improve and earn respect and value women are given it understand and know that when dealing with women if they don’t cooperate they can leave and know if you don’t set rules and boundaries and are direct with them they are going to see you as a best friend rather than a confident strong masculine man and is going to step all over you witch is something no man wants 💯
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