1) No matter what, I'll be okay. 2) I care more about my character than my reputation. 3) I have impeccable honesty and integrity. 4) I don't need to convince anyone about anything. 5) Put your purpose first. 6) Be the first person to initiate things.
@vietanhtran6431
7 жыл бұрын
thanks i love all messages of the videos on this channel but he talks too much
@NoajmIsMyName
7 жыл бұрын
I do all but number 4 I'm struggling with
@NoajmIsMyName
7 жыл бұрын
If you love his all messages so, you say he talk much but all wisely.
@vibrationalcurrency
7 жыл бұрын
Viet Anh Tran Hes just soo clear minded.
@nameless.greyceo
7 жыл бұрын
Amin Ferdous these bullet pionts should be on every video. Ain't nobody got time to listen to this guy go on about common sense.
@LeonLush
8 жыл бұрын
Also, your lack of jump edits really speaks to your ability to be comfortable in front of the camera and get your ideas across in a pleasing manner without a lot of distraction. I'm sure there was plenty of prep that went into it, but it is commendable and I thought I'd point it out.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+Leon Lush Haha, I appreciate that. I'll have to put up another video of all the takes where I just brain fart, trip on my words, and walk off camera ;-)
@gilbertolopez7387
6 жыл бұрын
I'd never expect to see Leon Lush here
@dallaswilliams8816
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command .... You're Awesome And Good Work Dude.. I guess guys in the industry giving advice... Dude.... Kill the plain backdrop !!! Go with Still Pics if you dont have A roll or b roll.. Thats all you missing !!! I will subscribe and you keep going!!! Good Luck Dude !! You are helping people and you helped me... Thanks Dude... ✌
@iloveme8950
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command I see some comments here of people who dont see the importance of what youre doing and why you do it. I think u should make a video about people who find it hard to understand these kind of things, what makes them not understand, what they need to do to understand it, what they need to be aware of, what they need to do, etc you get what i mean.
@kangaroofoot
6 жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly. Very impressive doing in on one shot.
@jeremymaxwell4469
7 жыл бұрын
"You build a reputation with yourself" when you lie. That's powerful stuff.
@markotter2707
5 жыл бұрын
I try to keep this simple rule in mind..."When in doubt, just do the right thing." This helps when you have a difficult decision to make.
@camilletriboulet-hall4901
5 жыл бұрын
Mark Otter Yep!👊 & another thing that's helped me a TON, (beforehand,) if it's morally questionable, I at least ask myself, just #2 Questions: #1.) What is the most hurtful, realistic result/ending, & #2.) What are my motives behind doing or saying whatever it may be...🐱
@freeri87
4 жыл бұрын
@@markotter2707 What if you don't know what the right thing to do, is?
@markotter2707
4 жыл бұрын
@@freeri87 Sometimes you might not, but maybe look at the situation as though it's someone else, not you.
@thecowboy9698
3 жыл бұрын
You also build a reputation with yourself when you're honest.
@MrWilko2000
8 жыл бұрын
1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction
@accountglebmsuphys4606
8 жыл бұрын
Gotta go to the top
@TrangNguyen-cs6wv
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks :))
@GurdeepSinghDyal
8 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in God, but God bless you mate!!
@michealbobby9305
8 жыл бұрын
I believe in God cos he blessed me
@TheFacelessMonkeyOTE
8 жыл бұрын
okay? XD
@NO-yx6yl
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks this will help with starting my cult
@Jc-ul9ff
8 жыл бұрын
Lol wut??
@spoony01428
8 жыл бұрын
+Nik OBrien gl bro
@sandersk2605
8 жыл бұрын
+Nik OBrien AHAHa, omfg that made me crack, laughing so badly, HALP
@jcastrellon11able
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 Spot on!!!
@Jagspear
8 жыл бұрын
+Nik OBrien how u gonna name it?
@mzjj4285
3 жыл бұрын
A very good friend of mine is an introvert, but she told me the story of a time when she went to this dance. She knew no one there, so she wasn't worried about how she acted because she probably wouldn't see any of them again. She had always wanted to be a bubbly, outgoing girl, so that's what she did. That night she chose to be that fun, bubbly girl that stood out, and she had the *time of her life.* Edit: the difference between an extrovert and an introvert is an introvert's "battery" is charged by having their alone time, while an extrovert will be charged by interacting with people. Both introverts and extroverts can have a great time socially, or a not-so-great time. Introverts just need to be charged beforehand, and extroverts don't. Extroverts sometimes need breaks from people too. And sometimes introverts need interacting
@mzjj4285
3 жыл бұрын
@Phineas Gage just because she wishes she was outgoing doesn't mean she's not an introvert. I've lived with her my whole life and i know her social battery doesn't last long.
@mzjj4285
3 жыл бұрын
@Phineas Gage read my edit. Also you don't have to want what makes you uncomfortable. I think it definitely helped her situation since she LOVES dancing
@yes7855
2 жыл бұрын
@@mzjj4285 how did she learn to dance? :) or is she just very into it maybe that it comes naturally? Really would love to hear what you think! I’m tryna learn to dance xD I do love dancing too but I feel I’m too repetitive and my moves too weird to dance in a party if it’s not crowded and a chance of attention on me lol
@ivelinivanov3414
7 жыл бұрын
You know I watched this video today and I applied this thing immediately. I went to a salsa party but when you come early everyone stays at the entrance and no one goes to the actual dance room. So it was empty up there. They just sit downstairs and chat and postpone the start of the party forever. And everyone feels awkward to go upstairs by themselves. They all have to decide as a group it's time to go. But no one does it. So i remembered your tip from your video. "Be the first to take the awkward action that no one wants to do first" And that's what I did. I went upstairs to the empty dance room by myself. I don't care if you wanna come or not. It's time to start already. And 1 girl followed me, then a few minutes later the others came as well. If I had decided to stay downstairs with them instead of immediately going upstairs by myself we would've just sat there forever. But this way I triggered the start of the salsa party and it was very cool :) I loved it. I love your videos as well. Learning a lot. Thanks for them.
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Wow! Nothing makes us happier than hearing people are applying these tools, let alone so quickly ;-)
@Kinobambino
5 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@des6181
5 жыл бұрын
Българин ли си?
@senza4591
5 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Now I don't have an excuse, now that there is a success story.
@rebeccahill7197
5 жыл бұрын
Ivelin Ivanov way to go!!
@thesauceman9132
8 жыл бұрын
Master yourself, master all.
@Brieen
8 жыл бұрын
Harambe Sweet price
@thesauceman9132
8 жыл бұрын
My child, I am selling nothing
@mejamesme1
7 жыл бұрын
not about mastering. its about learning to operate your self and whats around you. in the way you want.
@thesauceman9132
7 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does this guy look like a serial killer
@mejamesme1
7 жыл бұрын
Owen Massey well most are casted to be confident. or at lest some. so i guess if thats what you see. but who cares
@tabokamoalosi1494
6 жыл бұрын
'When you lie sometimes you hurt your ability to speak with conviction ' i felt that.
@stevenpalty2027
8 жыл бұрын
I like the fact that this channel includes the concepts of character and integrity rather than just winning.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input, thanks!
@gopetogle
8 жыл бұрын
OMG definitely!
@nothisispatrick1797
5 жыл бұрын
He's so good at speaking, I can't pause or remove the video because I feel like I'm disrespecting him ;-;
@azeriaknights
5 жыл бұрын
Lol glad I'm not the only one XD
@memorandum740
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed Patrick
@none377
5 жыл бұрын
"If someone is not treating you the way you'd like to be treated" don't try to convince them or change them, either accept them as they are or remove them from your life. This hits home.
@HardcoreMontages
8 жыл бұрын
This guy is the fucking human embodiment of charisma, wtf
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much - I really appreciate that!
@kashiyog
8 жыл бұрын
agree
@suk4honesty
7 жыл бұрын
He seems really sweet but the nature of his job makes him seem scary and neurotic, but again, it's just the job, constantly delving into the microscopic nuances of interacting with people.
@wreccen
7 жыл бұрын
This information is very important and you are giving it away for free. Good on ya mate.
@tobihq2481
7 жыл бұрын
This is true.. We are forever grateful for these quality videos and the valuable information you share with the world ✨✨✨✨😍
@stevebrizzle
5 жыл бұрын
Allan Lomas - two words for you: advertising revenue.
@bluhcrih3127
4 жыл бұрын
He is Still Getting Paid.
@Mar-mx3zi
7 жыл бұрын
I remember talking to my friend about menstruation, then she's like "It's impressive you are talking about that without being shy, most girls will not talk about it because they think it's weird to talk about or they are shy." Me: "Why would they be shy? It's normal, nothing to hide". I have this thing to be confident about these kind of subjects. My friend also told me: "It's nice to be around you because you don't talk about the usual subjects, like "how was your day", you talk about interesting ones." I am very flattered :3
@smileyourock
8 жыл бұрын
1. You will be ok. 2. Character > reputation 3. Don't lie and believe what you're saying. 4. Don't convince people - just ask. 5. Proactively communicate your purpose. 6. Do it first.
@user-pp4ks9zp9l
8 жыл бұрын
Can I use you in my class to take notes for me please?
@smileyourock
8 жыл бұрын
+Abdullah Did you just proactively express your purpose? well done.
@InfectedSoup
8 жыл бұрын
+smileyourock u da real mvp
@nicjfrancis
8 жыл бұрын
You should do a Tedtalk
@thedarkmaster4747
8 жыл бұрын
+Nicholas Joseph-Francis yup!
@danieltucker9118
8 жыл бұрын
+The Dark master yup!
@reby1583
8 жыл бұрын
He would be amazing
@kevfit4135
8 жыл бұрын
+Daniel Tucker yup!
@Baamthe25th
8 жыл бұрын
He's too good for Ted Talks
@chlidera75
7 жыл бұрын
What a great video. I wrote the mindsets down on my personal development notebook and I know I will read them over and over again and more importantly practice them in real life. Thanks for this awesome channel and the great work you're doing for us. Olivier from Paris, France
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Happy you found it helpful
@Darth_Bateman
7 жыл бұрын
You're right. . .But wait, it's the 21st century! XD GET REK'D BEEYOCH!!
@matec.1773
7 жыл бұрын
+Paris75 This comment is so sweet.
@realworldhistory266
7 жыл бұрын
😂
@MyITRcom
7 жыл бұрын
Never met a bigot that wasn't a deep closet case.
@RYSEproductions
8 жыл бұрын
The best word to describe this channel is "healthy". This has to be the healthiest channel on youtube.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
°Will definitely keep going :-)
@sherrishah
7 жыл бұрын
You are that intelligent therapist I have been looking for all my life! :)
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much :-)
@hxvideo
7 жыл бұрын
question: what about not lying but not telling either?
@LanaLeon
7 жыл бұрын
intelligent and very handsome
@paulwebb2078
5 жыл бұрын
@@hxvideo Technically that's called "lying by omission". But if you don't consider them lies, then they don't matter. The point is, you have to trust yourself to tell the truth so that you can be more honest in your interactions without having to think about it.
@CS-bh4ur
5 жыл бұрын
sherrishah ohhh sweety he’s a sociopath. Half of women reject him and the other half aren’t conscience enough to even know they’re breathing 😂😂😂
@thecowboy9698
5 жыл бұрын
Top 3 things he said I think are: #1: Speak the truth. #2: Stay focused on doing the right thing. #3: No matter what you will be okay.
@Andrew-xo3uv
8 жыл бұрын
If only Naruto knew about filtering Sasuke out of his life.
@FunWithJazak
8 жыл бұрын
Then sasuke blow up leaf village
@94nolo
7 жыл бұрын
Naruto KZitem is so weird.
@alissaminina1537
6 жыл бұрын
at the end of the show Sasuke had a battle with Naruto then they became "best friends" and Sasuke helped the leaf village
@Leo-ef2tc
6 жыл бұрын
Nerd
@Kinobambino
5 жыл бұрын
What
@2211gk
8 жыл бұрын
This is the second video of yours I am watching in past 25 minutes (first was the GOT video) and right now I am really glad that I found this channel
@danielgrigg3426
8 жыл бұрын
+Giorgi Kelbakiani exactly the same here lol
@Ikiratuki
8 жыл бұрын
+Giorgi Kelbakiani Ditto.
@GunninRebel55
8 жыл бұрын
Right! This is my 4th and it started with the why Tyrion Lannister can't be killed. Lol
@ilv1
8 жыл бұрын
+Giorgi Kelbakiani Haha... KZitem recommendations controlling everyone! (Same here.... Tyrion can't be killed and this next) The GOT videos were a very smart idea for some extra exposure but they are great nonetheless.
@2211gk
8 жыл бұрын
:) Thanks guys for pointing out about Tyrion video, had not noticed it before... Watching it right now
@riyagupta3027
Жыл бұрын
I am revisiting this video after 4 years. This video had a really good and calming impact after my turbulent experience in high school, and helped me be a better person ready for college. Now that I'm done with college, I wanted to come back and thank you from the bottom of my heart, as this video was the corner stone for helping me to be the better version of myself. Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge here.
@charliexoxox
8 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of a great book called "7 habits of highly effective people" I highly recommend
@arifinaslam
8 жыл бұрын
i know that book :)
@v.c.18
7 жыл бұрын
Btw, the channel 'fightmediocrity' made an animated and voiced over summary video if you don't have time to read that book. :D
@paola9922
7 жыл бұрын
awesome read
@KalpanaKumari140203
7 жыл бұрын
Isn't it by Stephen R. Covey? I love that book. I have read it and by implementing it I found myself happier. Seriously recommend it.
@charliexoxox
7 жыл бұрын
yeah, I agree.
@KelleyBroussardMackaig
7 жыл бұрын
Finding this channel was seriously like finding a gold mine.... Thanks for doing what you do, Charisma On Command!
@sososapien4227
5 жыл бұрын
I've made a ton of progress overcoming social anxiety over the past couple years, and whenever I re-watch Charisma on Command videos I'm reminded of how much they inspire me. Whenever I commit to internalizing the advice Charlie and Ben share, I see enormous benefits in my confidence approaching new people, being vulnerable with my friends and family, and expressing what I'm passionate about. Thank you guys so much for your insight and hard work
@hansenvspredator7812
8 жыл бұрын
I went by your "No matter what, I will be okay" mindset and now I 'm being hit with multiple sexual harassment lawsuits
@EfoulaMp
7 жыл бұрын
its so attractive when someone is so smart and has self awareness
@worldsbeauty5876
5 жыл бұрын
I can be a confident person with strangers but not in front of the people I have known... because they have seen me as an unconfident person...I don't know what kind of psychology is this , which I am going through I just want to come out of it...so please make a video about this...
@skerion7956
5 жыл бұрын
This is true but the answer is be confident anyway so you can break free and everyone will notice the changes about you
@astridolin2306
5 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact way!
@weebwithadream8260
5 жыл бұрын
omg same! I was like that in the past. Let me tell you something that helped me get out of this. Change never comes without pain. Evolution never comes without pain. It will hurt when you suddenly act differently in front of your friends and family who know you. It will hurt when you suddenly take initiatives. It will hurt when you signal your purpose to them. It will hurt, and your body will start shaking when you attempt to go for it. That person, that voice inside you, which makes you feel doubtful. That's not you. That is the sign that you are finally changing. That pain is the seed for change.
@Corvid
5 жыл бұрын
Gradually start changing your personality to match how you want to be 24/7, it's hard work for sure... Might even be worth a change of scene if your life permits. Expect to tread very carefully if you've got a partner though... some people rely on being in a relationship with someone who they think is less confident, and that type of person could feel very threatened by the prospect of not being the "confident one". Others may do the same, and to be honest, you don't need those people.
@Annksunamoon666
5 жыл бұрын
It's because of our need for consistency - your friends already saw you when you think you looked less confident that's why you have this subconscious idea of being always like this, be consistent with your behaviour otherwise they might think it's weird or not recognise it as real, or think you're weird (at least that's your fear) . The need of consistency is deeply ingrained in our psyche, it's a social need as people that are inconsistent are not seen as trustworthy.
@erfman1422
8 жыл бұрын
Really like how you don't edit your videos like some of these never ending youtube ramblers. Thumbs up bud
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@MisterGuitarItalia
8 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in such a young person... amazing
@KTPOTTER123
5 жыл бұрын
1.) No Matter What, I'll Be Okay One time in a class I confided- at the absolute insistence of my teacher- that I had been evicted that same week. The class and teacher then berated me as a group and mentioned a nearby job fair as a solution. I was okay afterward, but I'm not going to volunteer vulnerable information first anymore. I know many say this, but I really have been through too much to do so any more. People have thrown past traumas in my face. Did they get filtered from my life? Of course. Am I 'okay'? Of course. But I still have those emotional scars, from opening up and being locked as a result. Please note that this advice (while incredibly well crafted) is not a catch-all if you have previous trauma and experiences which have caused PTSD and Depression. It's important to note that charisma is a situational trait.
@maryanny.1611
4 жыл бұрын
Kit Pot dude you sound so smart when you speak
@wemadethatoneup...1952
4 жыл бұрын
I can see that and I personally do not suffer from PTSD, but from what I have found dealing with other mental health conditions (ADD and rapid mood cycling bipolar), which have themselves led to some situations with regrettable outcomes, CBT can be therapeutic. If you don't know, simply put, CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) is facing your fears. It was suggested to me by my psychiatrist, who is very experienced and professional, to treat my anxiety stemming from traumatic experiences caused by my biological difficulties - the reason why I think it could aid you. I'm no expert and I don't know the specifics of your situation, but maybe you can tackle your PTSD by finding a friend to become close with, enough to have trust in them, and open up to them. In essence, find a safer and more tolerant space to allow yourself to be vulnerable in and let the positive response replace the negative traumatic memories. I recognise that you say you've been through too much and of course it's not imperative to follow this, it just may be worth giving 'Cognitive Behavioural Therapy' a good research and see if you'd want to give it a shot. If you're currently doing well then that's good, but it might help you to open up to another person/other people as it can be healthy. In essence 'No Matter What, I'll Be Okay' I think is meant to be advice as to how you approach a situation, not necessarily that it will always be true regardless. It's still important to assess the severity of what may go wrong as he says in the video, though he does use an extreme example. The mind is subjective so everyone reacts to things at a different degree. Additionally, I believe that it is useful as not only giving yourself confidence to do something, but to also put the response/repercussions of that action in perspective. I hope that something I've said is helpful if you see this message. :)
@mellofan2012
7 жыл бұрын
This channel and my therapy complement each other really well
@HashPackLP
6 жыл бұрын
Rob_gamer34 red dead❤️
@Kinobambino
5 жыл бұрын
❤
@bahaanaldo
8 жыл бұрын
My favorite thing about this video, isn't just the information, but it's the fact you chose to present it one on one. With eye contact basically. Most youtube people have a bunch of pics and clips with a voiceover. This was a brave move, but it works. Very nice.
@fionakylee6261
4 жыл бұрын
Here I am thinking I have enough knowledge in Psychology. I’m taking notes and slowly applying them in my life. You’re so honest and on point!
@dragonfruitkokiri8071
8 жыл бұрын
Where have these vids been all my life??
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Love that, thanks!
@claudiuskube4049
8 жыл бұрын
You make great stuff ...this is what i need/needed in my life but you know i think its to late to change.yeah i say to other people it is never too late but i cant do it i have this huge huge problem with confidence ;( :) Keep up the work its good stuff for the kids
@blue1spiral
8 жыл бұрын
About a year ago I suddenly realized all this same stuff. I agree 100,000% with this video. I had a deeply traumatic marriage and divorce, and finding my way as a single mother, with such stigma around it and so much judgment toward women in my situation, and my self esteem obliterated by my ex husband, I almost didn't make it and I struggled for years, but suddenly I had the thought, what if my positive thoughts have the same ability to create my world that my negative thoughts do? I started paying close attention to how happy, admirable, confident people lived their lives and I started mimicking it and just literally shoving my crippling negative thoughts out of my head and replacing them with positive, productive thoughts. Having overcome something that surely should have killed me and almost did, gave me the fearlessness needed to conquer every challenge I have met so far and also the ability to read people better than ever before. I love that this video so strongly confirmed everything I learned for myself this past year+.
@hayhacker55
8 жыл бұрын
+Kaela Bronan i hope u you to became more and more happy , i know that was too diffcult to you to learn through life ,not through a video . good luck.
@Rois300
8 жыл бұрын
😇😎💪🙆
@darealrulezbreaker9493
8 жыл бұрын
Also youve learned a valuable thing: fuck marriage :D
@rekikrania228
7 жыл бұрын
Kaela Bronan wow this is awsome
@creationsmaxo
7 жыл бұрын
I have one question regarding "3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity." How would you suggest anyone would manage a situation where the truth no matter how it's told and/or explain wouldn't be understood by the other party and where the situation can't be set into a gray area so it can only be truth or lies. For example, you know someone(s) who's close to you and only wish for your happiness such as relatives. You decided to do something that is risky from their perspective for your own happiness and which they don't have the required knowledge to understand or you know their opinion is purely biased and still set into stone. Whenever they ask you about something either directly or indirectly related to it, you either have to lies until you reach results (against the risk) that could overthrown their knowledge/biased opinion or speak the truth and then lower their own happiness by adding the stress of failure into their mind? I'm trying to be generic here, but if I had to put some examples: (I'll be using the masculine, but it could be a man or a woman.) 1) If someone is some kind of spec ops operative who goes on risky missions. What's better for that person if a relative ask why he will be away for a couple of months and gets picky on the details? Should he tell the truth or should he lies a bit on parts that would make the relative overly stress on? 2) If someone own a business and while things are steady, there's no actual advancement and things seems to stall for the last 2 years. He has 2 choices... keeping things as it is which might fails later or searching for new ways of having actual advancement to his business (making it more successful) which involve high financial risks. He decide to take the risks. If his relative ask him how things are while they don't understand anything about the business' activities (or of ways of making it more successful), should this business owner explain things as they are or should he put a smoke screen over most of it so that his relatives doesn't stress over it? I could bring a tons of similar situations. All implies someone doing something risky and get asked about it (directly or indirectly) by people who might not be able to manage the stress implying from knowing it. (Even more if those people who might stress over it could be affected by minor or major mental diseases such as regressing depressions or autism.) Should positive lies (nicknamed "white lies") be avoided in those situation or not? I would like some input on this matter. This video cover its barely because it's putting things in baskets, but it is something that makes 3) a lot harder to manage than what meets the eyes.
@MistaTrox7
7 жыл бұрын
until now, I've never found a pointless video from this channel. that's why I've subscribed.
@nouffahad9365
5 жыл бұрын
Canadian Girl she probably meant up until now.
@alexander_martinez6084
8 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else watch this hoping they'll be like magneto?
@ultrafly100
8 жыл бұрын
Yes, I thought I'd gain metal bending superpowers.
@alexander_martinez6084
8 жыл бұрын
+ultrafly100 me to
@therealjoeyjazz
8 жыл бұрын
I, too, came for mutant powers
@sexybeast7728
8 жыл бұрын
on 'Charisma on Command' channel? That was quite ambitious.
@jonyphoenix
7 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear, dick stuck in toaster.
@shyliearzouan2722
7 жыл бұрын
Your videos are filled with wisdom
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@mrcookiemonster4051
8 жыл бұрын
I wish I saw this at an early age, so much great stuff!
@luv2touchpink
8 жыл бұрын
+MrCookieMonster Well how can you see this @ an early age??... It was published only on March 28, 2016!
@mrcookiemonster4051
8 жыл бұрын
...
@RithwikSudharsan
8 жыл бұрын
Let's hope he's a troll
@MattePBG
8 жыл бұрын
he said ''i wish i saw this at an early age'' he said ''wish'' so it doesnt matter when the video came out couse he would still ''wish'' he had seen it at an early age :) ppl should stop be so close minded
@hilalc.792
8 жыл бұрын
It's NEVER too late :)
@skygroup6166
8 жыл бұрын
This young man is poised and set to take his world by storm. I see a great future for you sir. You belong to same level with great speakers like Tony Robbins, Les Brown, to mention but a few.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the "huge" comment my man! Glad you liked the vid :-)
@Juaansi
8 жыл бұрын
Knowing that you genuinely care about the one watching the video makes me appreciate your video even more. World needs more people like you.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the kind words
@BasicBachelor
8 жыл бұрын
Here's how i think. YOU are in full control and power to create an emotional state in you and thoses around you whenever you want and no one can stop it. This is all in your energy that you give off. Nervous about going on a date? Just create that positve energy/vibe anyways without any reliance on recipropcation. People will either match your vibe or not and if they don't, then maybe question whether that person is someone you should be hanging out with. Positive energy wins always which you have the power to create at anytime without a care what other people think.
@baronlipschutz-perry5089
3 жыл бұрын
I'm considered old, or at least when my grandmother was this age I considered her old. The information you just imparted in this video is probably the best 12 minutes of presentation that I've had in my life. I can't praise you enough for discovering these points and going them to us in a concise and clear presentation. Thank you.
@happycreepersdk
7 жыл бұрын
1:27 "Probably better that you know, rather than using 6 months trying to figure out what signal she is sending" well..... Should have seen this video 3 months ago... D:
@taydavies9971
6 жыл бұрын
Frederik Bøgelund Me too dude..4 months of wasted time:'/
@riajali4609
6 жыл бұрын
I wasted a year xD
@emce3ime_linuxtechaddict936
5 жыл бұрын
Try a year
@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011
4 жыл бұрын
Damn guys I just talk and when they do a few things that indicate interest then I get there number. Easy then I try to progress things and if she puts 3 road blocks up I move on.
@rhoharane
8 жыл бұрын
I was half expecting manipulative BS. But I'm glad this was all actually not just compatible but is pretty much the same as socially being a good, decent and happy human being. would definitely recommend to anyone.
@Username-cs1bi
7 жыл бұрын
I've been binge-watching your video in the recent days, and I'm really thankful to you for creating these contents especially this video. I've been quite a negative person for years, with a dose of self-loathing. Watching your videos helped me a lot, especially the first 3 points because you emphasize on character building, instead of 'how to trick others to like me', I've been trying a lot in being more positive towards life and my own character, and I'm very grateful for your work man. I hope you continue to inspire a lot more people.
@myrtila
4 жыл бұрын
“I care more about my character than my reputation” is literally the most difficult thing to apply to my social life. I care SO MUCH what other people think about me that I try to hide my weird but funny personality so people will not think of me as “weird”. I’m trying to fix it.
@wemadethatoneup...1952
4 жыл бұрын
If this helps what works for me is rather than trying to fix it, I ignore the feelings. Trying to not care about something is ironically keeping those thoughts significant. Just focus on what you want to do and base your actions off that.
@wemadethatoneup...1952
4 жыл бұрын
You want to get rid of those thoughts and to stop it affecting your life but when you try it's keeping the thoughts in your head and still affecting your life. If you *ignore* anything about petty social implications then you are genuinely removing it from your mind which is what you want to do.
@wemadethatoneup...1952
4 жыл бұрын
Basically rather than trying to stop thinking about what people's opinions are, allow yourself to think about it when it occurs to you, but change your reaction to it. It's like somebody provoking you to fight them. Trying to stop the person from insulting you will either lead to eventually fighting or will inconvenience you in some other way. However, if you ignore the person then you can continue what you're doing unaffected.
@wemadethatoneup...1952
4 жыл бұрын
Bit long but hope it helps, it's been useful for me :)
@myrtila
4 жыл бұрын
We made that one up... thank you so much 🙏
@arturocuya7578
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice Mr Old Joker's smile
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+Arturo Cuya °Thanks! Haha!
@SchMasHed
8 жыл бұрын
+Arturo Cuya Seriously, I said it on another video, he should play the joker on the next batman reboot.
@arturocuya7578
8 жыл бұрын
ez money
@nadiajr1500
8 жыл бұрын
He looks nothing like Joker; he's way too handsome to act as Joker. Charlie, great job on your channel. I have a feeling one day it will be big like Brandon Burchard's. I've learned a lot. May God bless you.
@x1legoman1x
7 жыл бұрын
Nadiah Johari Ramzan well, joker is handsome too...
@tubbycustard8866
Жыл бұрын
theres a good friend of mine that is super popular, charismatic, and good with girls, and it is crazy that pretty much all of your tips are what he does. all of your advice is 100% gold
@joshuaprick2596
8 жыл бұрын
This is propably the best channel on youtube.
@flyaway9086
5 жыл бұрын
No.
@damenwhelan3236
8 жыл бұрын
I came here for the magnetic powers..... I was robbed!
@damenwhelan3236
8 жыл бұрын
JohnQRandom A bit tingley....
@zoecallanan5485
4 жыл бұрын
I swear, I stay up all night basically studying these videos. Like seriously I can't be the only one sitting here with a pen and paper taking notes! You are amazing man, thanks for helping me better myself. I'm just waiting for a situation where I can apply all this. ❤️
@leachatee
4 жыл бұрын
I started to incorporate some of your confidence/ charisma tips in my social life even tho I already felt pretty confident. And I did notice big changes! More and more often I find myself in a group where they all seem invested and interested in what I’m saying and I don’t get overheard anymore (with strangers or friends, it only gets hard in a group where everyone knows everyone else better than they know me, but that’s normal ig). I think i do some of the strategies intuitively but I’m also hyper aware of my and others body language, eye contact etc. to the point of it getting annoying. But I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Someone even told me I’ve got a talent to make people feel special and that really made me happy. I always try my best to really get to know someone and make them feel good about themselves while still having a blast on my own. I think I get closer and closer to where I want to be in terms of personal development. Just looking back a few years, I was like a completely different person back then. It’s amazing to not feel this social pressure anymore and to be free in expressing yourself. Thank you, as always, for your great advice, it really does help!
@idriss2864
2 жыл бұрын
This video in particular is awesome to build character. I hope you keep on thriving in your social life, thanks for the extra motivation you gave me with your experience.
@ZoeyArielle
8 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! I love all of your videos :)
@SpiritPhoenixRose
6 жыл бұрын
I'm a new skateboarder and while pushing around, a passerby said i didn't look very confident. He did me a favor cuz somehow I stumbled onto your channel and am LOVING your work. Thank you Xx
@RiyadhK
8 жыл бұрын
Dude, I Iove your channel! Keep it up. Great content and so accessibly presented :)
@1000REMBOY
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro just wanted to go out of my way to show my support and tell you to keep up the great work, the one thing that resonated with me was "no matter what I'll be ok" Because there have been so many times where I didn't ask out that girl because of a what if scenario
@RufaelSolo
8 жыл бұрын
it's brilliant
@k-ongo86
8 жыл бұрын
+1000REMBOY, Why did you have to put "Just Wanted To Go Out Of My Way" ? Just curious. What were you doing that you had to stop doing to leave a Comment?
@gabrielrodriguez8187
8 жыл бұрын
+Steve Kongle Well to answer your question he didn't have to leave a comment, it is not mandatory to do so and because of that he did go 'out of his way' to leave that comment.
@k-ongo86
8 жыл бұрын
Gabriel Rodriguez if your already watching the video, then you leave a comment, that's not going out of your way....
@pa1nted
8 жыл бұрын
+1000REMBOY imo best place is the subway or in dark alleys. just express yourself
@madrazz8888
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Lead by example. Goes with the saying "Know thyself." From personal experience, I used to be very anxious to try new things, talk to new people or take opportunities, fearing the worst. So I watched a bunch of videos like this one and started pushing myself. What I discovered is this: "It's never as bad as you think it will be." It took some time for my brain to get used to that idea, but now, a few years later, I'm not nearly as hesitant to engage and I'm actually building up success in my life :) I go into situations without expectations and as a result, I'm always pleasantly surprised. Other people sense that, even online, and I've never built so many business relationships before in my life. I can still improve, but it's going in the right direction.
@davidnowak2548
8 жыл бұрын
I'm straight but this guy's testing me. Haha, good video brother.
@deistormmods
8 жыл бұрын
Then you're not straight.
@thetruthhurts1880
8 жыл бұрын
you're borderline homosexual
@amirs.282
8 жыл бұрын
no straight guy would even think that.
@DeusXPersona
8 жыл бұрын
+Dexter Morgan I swear I didn't listen to half of the vid because I was mesmerized...
@GDaddyQueso
8 жыл бұрын
+Deus Ex Persona yeah that sounds like you caught the gay, bro
@VDuro1
8 жыл бұрын
going through a rough patch and your shit really helps. thanks bro, kinda reminds me of old youtube!
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+VDuro1 °Knowing it helps you, makes the effort really worthwhile. Thanks!
@bethiciaprasek1008
Жыл бұрын
Thanks! This one was quite fun though an older one. 1. No matter what, I will be okay...I tell coworkers, boss, etc. that I work as if I won the lottery because I do. 2. I care more about my character than my reputation...When I was younger I told myself that I didn't care what people thought about me as long as it wasn't accurate. (Knowledge is power.) Now I don't even care if it is accurate. 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity. Don't lie because even if it is just yourself and God who know, you have made yourself smaller. Also, don't share information you said would be confidential unless it risks someone's actual life. 4. I don't need to convince anyone of any particular beliefs. C.S. Lewis said something similar to that none of us knows all the truth, though some may be closer than others. Accept or leave. I do follow "Weebles Wobble But They Don't Fall Down" for things that I feel will make a better world or industry or company or relationships, but step back for a while if those efforts don't work in order to promote at a later date. 5. I proactively share my purpose. YES! This is where I have grown the most since I was younger. I have enough experience to know my purpose(s). 6. Be the first person to do something. I was much more timid in my youth. I now just do things, especially if the environment seems to be ready for it or only needing a little nudge!
@dubbelhenke854
Жыл бұрын
No 5 is contradicted very often, not just in buddhist and Sadhguru but also in some charismatic philosophers. It is often regarded as a sign of low status, and can actually put some ppl off. One has to keep a balance but the important thing is that you are comfortable with it. I have found myself that those put off by it, aren't (usually) those that I want to interact with anyway. As my days are filled with spreading the messages about the monsterharmful rollout of 5g, it's very important to be charismatic and not boring.
@lesCartoonface
8 жыл бұрын
I really relate to the lying part. When talking about experiences that happened to me, I would slightly milk the story to make me seem like an interesting person. It actually bothers me I do this, but i never thought this was one of the reasons it was lowering my self-esteem
@Summileinchen
8 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your videos! So glad I found your channel. I don't understand why this channel is not the biggest one on KZitem haha. Really looking forward to all of your new videos and thanks for making me happy while watching them. Greetings from Germany
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+VeganEasy °Wow! All the way from Deutschland, so happy to have you!
@kennarps4516
7 жыл бұрын
I am sure someone has told you this before, but you should write a BOOK and then release it also as an audiobook. You have mad talent and your point of view embodies epic simplicity and clarity.
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
~ Thanks for the kind words! We actually have books available on Amazon - Charisma on Command and Captivate :-)
@TanukiGaming
8 жыл бұрын
Your channel is full of gold. I'm pretty interested in your course. Pretty sure I'm going to get it in the next few months. I feel your icon doesn't do much for your brand though. Your thumbnails are great, but I don't think anyone is going to really recognize your awesome brand in that icon because those 3 words are difficult to read with that font when its displayed really small most screens.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+FargoKraft Great point! Haven't thought about the icon in years, but it could definitely use an upgrade
@mightnotbecrazy7288
8 жыл бұрын
+Charisma on Command FAN SUBMISSIONS
@goldkhw
8 жыл бұрын
+FargoKraft u get glasses (it must be your fault judging by the reply I received)
@TanukiGaming
8 жыл бұрын
+goldkhw haha XD
@avedic
8 жыл бұрын
Yeah...you def need a better icon. I just discovered your channel yesterday, and have blazed through your videos. Really interesting power of persuasion material here. And you present it all wonderfully. But...that icon just flat out sucks. ;) Make an impactful iconographic image/symbol that people would recognize instantly and associate with your channel.
@pureffm
7 жыл бұрын
1. No matter what I say I will be ok: will you date me? 2. I care more about my character than my reputation: I am not really an easy person to get along with but I can offer depth, wits, dedication and loyalty - will you date me? 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity - I prefer to be ignored for what I am then loved for what I am not. I believe that people deserve truthful reactions so they can moveon. Will you date me? 4. I don't need to convince anyone - I don't believe that people should love to be loved back. This is not love. Either you adore someone and every gift you make enriches you or you don't and nothing they give will ever satisfy you. 5. I always try to communicate my life purpose. I am an unconventional humanist and idealist who promotes optimal ideas and states of mind in every compartment of life to make individuals the best that they can me. As a product developer I care about what people truly are, not how they market themselves. 6. I am not scared of being the first one to be take initiative - I see a lot of you in me but also some enriching differences. You are someone that I can admire and who can challenge me to better myself - will you date me? Essentially, love requires all of these attributes. The simple act of offering one's heart with conviction and the certainty that you and the loved one look together in the same direction, that belief, when it is voiced out, it makes you the most charismatic person in the world. To love people truly and genuinely, it cannot be learnt, but in a way it is the most essential ingredient to charisma. If you do not like the people you interact with, it will transpire. When you have a naturally kind and respectful aura about you, then people will appreciate you. I live by that 7th principle. I see in your eyes the same love that would take the breath off me. A day may come when the courage of man fails. When we forsake our friends and break old bonds of fellowship. But it is not this day. Today we love!
@tylerburk3313
6 жыл бұрын
I feel like u r that one guy who when he has to present a project, or sales pitch etc, he just nails it, and is flowing with confidence!
@southerntw
5 жыл бұрын
A tip on learning from this video. dont just listen, relate the situations to yourself. Think and remember about the situations. This is obvious but if you really want to learn, wake the f up.
@valg333
8 жыл бұрын
this.... this right here is exactly what I meant on my last comment. this shows how to naturally build this way of thinking that will let people interact naturally without over thinking. amazing video
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the "huge" comment my man! Glad you liked the vid :-)
@valg333
8 жыл бұрын
+Charisma on Command no problem man. I really love the subject you choose to take on. it's a tough one and you tackl3 it on a very simple easy to understand way. really good job.
@RaviBird
3 жыл бұрын
1) No matter what, I'll be okay. This one is difficult for someone who has had flashbacks and panic attacks that made me pass out in public before... and why I can't trust myself going anywhere alone without a person who I can trust.
@mickc4672
8 жыл бұрын
Favourite content on KZitem of my year. Valuable tips. He's gorgeous too!
@horizon5677
8 жыл бұрын
hey dude you're awesome
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciate that!
@josetteamboise4018
8 жыл бұрын
Yes, he is! I enjoy watching him speaking and moving! Keep on, you've got a good energy and good advices for us!
@jboyler1
7 жыл бұрын
Man, this channel has all the answers to questions I had as a teenager. If I had this channel back then I would have saved myself a LOT of pain and wasted time.
@revanjagergaming8714
5 жыл бұрын
It hurts your charisma, unless you are a sociopath. If you have no emotional investment in other people, it becomes much easier to lie with total conviction. The trick, is to trick yourself into believing your nonsense. It's not healthy but that's how good salesmen sell things they have no confidence in, if you can fool yourself into believing it, most other people will as well. I convinced a relatively intelligent person that they sky was purple once. All it takes is a nearly sociopathic level of emotional disconnect and belief. Over the last few years I have had to devote a huge amount of my personal development towards becoming more honest. Because I spent so many years lying that I realized I would lie to people even when the truth would have been better. When I realized that I started putting forth a lot of effort to change that aspect of myself.
@butsirrr
8 жыл бұрын
I've been requesting this for months now. Please do a Jack Nicholson analysis (facial expression/ tonality /etc)! Appreciate it.
@timwhistler4301
6 жыл бұрын
I really like this trend of KZitem videos that are not actually telling you what you want to hear, or telling you how to get something no matter what, but just telling how to be a nice, moral person. Which is the only way to be successful in any area, in the long term.
@Iciclus
8 жыл бұрын
I feel sad that I did not discover your channel much earlier! Your video's are amazing, they're helping out a lot :)
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@GirlWantsANap
8 жыл бұрын
This is SUCH a good video. Love it.
@michaelbaucum6787
4 жыл бұрын
I like this guy's speaking ability. A lot of people are commenting on that. He's got strong eye contact with the camera, and he knows what he's about; that's why the words simply pour out of him in this video. Love it!
@zing-rsa
7 жыл бұрын
Dam, this guy knows his stuff.. Keep it up man, subbed
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel!
@RECTALBURRITO
Жыл бұрын
I love that idea. "No matter what I'll be ok" but I think you should also live with the idea, "how do I live if I only have a month left" (not in the reckless sense)
@iris0994
Жыл бұрын
What
@RECTALBURRITO
Жыл бұрын
@@iris0994 yep
@okashi10
Жыл бұрын
I think another really great mindset is a "growth mindset." Basically, being open to new experiences and trying new things, because you have a curiosity for learning and growth. To not be afraid of rejection or failure because you know that all of it is helping to lead you to your goals. Having a growth mindset not only sets you up for continual self-improvement, it minimizes the fear of failure and makes you an overall more interesting person because you always have new interests, hobbies, and activities going on.
@ary9514
8 жыл бұрын
i should watch this video once a day. you're so wise!
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@ZuckThat
7 жыл бұрын
Amazing video, Charlie! I really appreciate your mindset and am so happy that you've decided to make these videos. All the best, Andrew
@zoraslivkova2816
4 жыл бұрын
No matter what, I will live. I might cry for a while, but I will stop, and start smiling in the end. And... if I will not live - I don't even have to care :)
@mind-of-neo
6 жыл бұрын
When Charlie says "Cut that shit out" and you just weren't ready for it 😂
@ViralKiller
5 жыл бұрын
3:00 Here's how you can be more lethal. You don't care what people think about you, good rule. But also, learn the art of people manipulation to play the other side too when needed.
@sirdroplet9763
2 жыл бұрын
this is by far one of the most important charisma on command videos, especially the forst and last mindsets
@anabuetikofer1641
6 жыл бұрын
How to fight that “fatigue” introvert feel when attempting to iníciate small talk
@psychwolf7590
3 жыл бұрын
@Rosa Frederiksen Not too much though lol, although it does help. I had a date earlier this year and I prepared some subjects so I felt comfortable that I wouldn't run out of things to talk about hehe :)
@psychwolf7590
3 жыл бұрын
@Rosa Frederiksen Great actually, but what happened after is a sad story haha, unfortunately we were not meant to be in the end
@psychwolf7590
3 жыл бұрын
@Rosa Frederiksen I am :) Rough time behind me though but I am glad I'm over it!
@ellamary3956
7 жыл бұрын
Who else here has social anxiety ? 💕
@danielholland1188
7 жыл бұрын
Ella Mary me it sucks make life hard sometimes
@memingas18
7 жыл бұрын
just remember, you will be ok !
@sevgigerdan991
7 жыл бұрын
+Daniel Holland j 😰
@thinklikeagenius8165
7 жыл бұрын
What if social anxiety is really just from having a poor upbringing/lacking proper social skills? In that case, wouldn't exposing yourself to social situations alleviate your feelings of anxiety over time?
@mariazuykova5297
7 жыл бұрын
yea but i leant how to ignore it
@abigaelrarts2257
6 жыл бұрын
This is def one of your more important videos about being charismatic from within. I love it.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Thanks Abigael! Glad you're loving it. :-)
@keltic07
8 жыл бұрын
Loved the video man! Keep up the good work, I'll be sure to write this down somewhere and say it to myself every morning. And to be honest, I think these are great philosophical tips, in plain simple terms most people can understand, which is like, another level of awesome.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+keltic07 Wow! Thank you for nailing what I really intend to do with my channel. Glad you get it.
@Thevortexway
6 жыл бұрын
637 people are insane for disliking this wonderfucalifragiliticalamazing video.
@vickysnyder6259
6 жыл бұрын
I have applied this mentality to buffets at private gatherings my whole life! No one ever wants to be the first to eat at a buffet table because they don't want to look rude or something. But everytime, after I decide to be the first to start eating, everyone does and then we all have a great time!
@eyepumapants1440
5 жыл бұрын
720 now
@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941
4 жыл бұрын
Its quite something
@xMaiushka
7 жыл бұрын
I watch his videos in the mornings on purpose. Gives me so much boost to start the day in a proactive way.
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
~ That's so cool to hear - appreciate it Mai!
@rickl9437
8 жыл бұрын
Bro you're a fucking boss. This is some of the most valuable advice anyone can have. Keep up the good work! :)
@czzted99
7 жыл бұрын
i'm bipolar in conversation, sonetimes i'm too scared to speak and sometimes i act like an assholes who cares only about himself
@monanucleosis2723
7 жыл бұрын
are you really bipolar or are you just saying that
@jchris1934
7 жыл бұрын
yeah, i am mostly really shy. But when i open up, most of the times i end up sounding as a asshole. Maybe it is because i dont have enough training to open up
@kennywonglabow3547
7 жыл бұрын
J'Chris yeah sorry man that can happen so easily. You start instantaneously doubting/ worrying about what you're saying and it limits practice attempts. Keep your chin up and believe in your awesomeness
@chocolatier5651
7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Sometimes it really depends about who I'm talking to, what the topic is, and how passionate I am about it.
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