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@conniebuck6987
2 жыл бұрын
I love your honesty and your F-bombs..... you speak my language!
@annallen3862
10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love you! Everything you say resonates with me. I’ve watched a lot of counselors and read books and just found you on KZitem and I love it! You are so right❣️❣️❣️
@debbiesianturi2505
2 жыл бұрын
1. He wants to spend time with you 2. He doesn't act hot and cold 3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with his woman 4. He can honestly say his woman make him to be a better man 5. He protectives his woman 6. He gives that look "WOW"
@tknwindsorful
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Took him forever to get there. 🙄
@monikabennettprestwood
Жыл бұрын
That's the best part of Jonathon. His squirrel moments.
@2ndChanceAtLife
Жыл бұрын
Thanks. I don't have 90 minutes to hear him repeat things he's said in other videos.
@sherriflemming3218
Жыл бұрын
💯 Debbie
@anitadeel4430
2 жыл бұрын
When a man loves a woman, she’s the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up. She’ll be the first person he texts that morning.
@kimking3909
Жыл бұрын
Same feeling as for women
@eileendry5627
11 ай бұрын
Sharing the love story of your parents' love throughout the years. ❤. The "wow" factor is precious.
@LidiaHernandez-f4g
11 ай бұрын
Yes!
@elenadymond5115
11 ай бұрын
@@eileendry5627opi8
@arniedurise3910
Жыл бұрын
"If it comes from the heart, you can NEVER say the wrong things to the right person"
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@billjryantheunanonymousact3556
4 ай бұрын
This is my husband's tablet ,but I use it all the time for crosswords and news and shows like yours. I would like so,much to talk with you. I agree with so much that you say. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 38 years. Think this is my last year. Can't take the craziness anymore. Thanks for listening. Elissa .
@carriezimmerman7700
3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon don't change anything about yourself, you are PERFECT just the way you are. I love when you cuss to make a point...it makes me chuckle and that's a good thing!!
@sharonscheer7881
3 жыл бұрын
F bombs are a shock......
@ivettea5368
2 жыл бұрын
Your not egotistical, your a Leo . I’ve been watching your videos & I have adopted your teachings & broke off dating an avoidant. I took my power back & feel soo much better! Im hoping to meet a man with your qualities, Thank you 🙏
@mommtufive
2 жыл бұрын
Found you yesterday and I have been binge watching you since. I love how real and brutally honest you are. It's like a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
@JonathonAslay
2 жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you 😊
@ginam.4990
27 күн бұрын
Here on a Sunday morning cleaning the bathroom and listening to this GEM. I am LOL continually with the yelling, the apologizing, the OMs, the Jonathan lady voice, the fbombs, the sweaty pits. Thank you JA.
@Katrn30
Жыл бұрын
I literally wiped the vomit from my ex as he went through a stem cell transplant, I was there daily for as long as the hospital allowed, for 63 days, when only one of his grown children showed up once. As a retired nurse I did his daily care and was expected to do so by the staff, but I was happy to do this for him because I loved him. Come to find out he was exchanging love messages between 2 other women, as sick as he was, he still had the energy to cheat. Ironically, he was a former pastor. I have your books, and I love myself finally too much to even risk my heart again. I’d rather have a dog…they are loyal. And you are right…I gave away my power…I didn’t listen to my intuition over the 7 years we were together. I’m ok with being single…finally, and I’m happy.
@ZoeyIndigoSky
3 жыл бұрын
I love how Jonathan is so strong and powerful in who he is as a person and coach. You don't show up as what people want from you. You show up as who you are. And if f bombs, cursing, swearing, making jokes and being real with your audience is who you are, he should be that. Not try to not swear and "sugar coat" things.
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@barbgrant8213
3 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay I’m a 68 yr old widow and been dating a man who is 10 years younger which is no big deal. Im actually you feel in my energy then he is and we have had ups and downs like normal relationships have and thanks to you and your real talk . I love listening to you. Love your f bombs , you just crack me up and talk real at the same time. I enjoy every podcast and video. Keep it up from Toronto!
@barbgrant8213
3 жыл бұрын
I love him too Brenda Lee
@arniedurise3910
Жыл бұрын
"If you're not smiling about your guy you're with, then, he ISN'T your guy! " 😂😂😂
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Ex
@palmamingozzi5736
2 жыл бұрын
You are a hero and remind me of the person who takes off his coat when a woman is cold. I’m so glad I’m listening to you and thank you.🦸♂️
@TaurusBebez
Жыл бұрын
My fiance cheated on me with two different women in 2019, I dumped him and have been single ever since. I currently study and work remotely and am a recluse. I have no idea how to reconnect to society. I am in my early 30's, smart, pretty(so I am told) and successful. But I have trust issues up the wazoo!
@kimgordon3695
Жыл бұрын
Date yourself. Prepare for nurture & entertain yourself. Your suitor will appear when you're in your element
@mimirosen1601
Жыл бұрын
You are so brave. You’re reconnecting by being vulnerable and sharing your story on this platform. My fiancé also cheated on me early in our relationship and while I’ve chosen to forgive, I still feel the impact of his actions. You are powerful and brave!
@colleenhann9248
4 ай бұрын
You are incredible ! WE need more men like you in the world.
@bettyluis1520
2 жыл бұрын
He shows up at your door with flowers, he wants to see your smile as he gifts you... he wants to feel the joy of gifting....he wants to make you happy.... he's obsessed with making you smile with gifts, that's how you know he's crazy about you
@kristinahaugen5534
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonathan! You’ve helped me a lot; to detect extreme infatuation for what it is! A hundred hours of getting to know a person is a basic standard for me now, or even a longer period! Yes! And my power is mine and should never be given away! And I’ll not idealise sex as a proof of love! The deeper trust is a must! Hot and cold behaviour is a warning sign! Greatfulness! Vulnerability! Keeping my bounderies! The inner work! That look of WOW!!!!My inner beuty!!!WOW! I feel 💪 You took me back to my own boundarises! Thank you so much! It works! I feel like a better woman! You’re WOW Jonathan!
@john-jt7fy
3 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are you can’t be better than Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home, He save me I’m hsv free thanks Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home.
@camuyana
3 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to see you guys at that moment being vulnerable, emotional and holding hands in a moment of Sorrow. I love men who can do that and not be ashamed. That is very attractive to a woman.
@Mistysfedora
2 жыл бұрын
It's sacred and precious when it is guenuine
@yasminakhurana28
11 ай бұрын
Love takes time , but tell me when you just starting to know then , don’t go to far , just tell us how you know if the guy is into you when we just meet!
@ms.ashley7643
Жыл бұрын
I love the fact of 100 hours face-to-face time to know if he is falling in love with you and vice versa.
@aliceswarts3684
2 жыл бұрын
I learned a year ago, just because my heart is open, which in turn, my legs were open. I finally realized, just because I was feeling this, doesn't mean he was. But he "cared deeply" for me. I've run into that a couple of times. I end up being "the runner up" Love your advice Jonathon. I wish we could just hang out! Lol
@louraineclare7778
Жыл бұрын
I like what you share Jonathon! It's helping me a lot! I'm 46 and recently divorced, I want a healthy, happy relationship that will last the rest of my life. Your wisdom is appreciated 🙏 Thank you 😊
@celiaescalante
Жыл бұрын
The first 22 minutes of this video made me cry with relief from the resonance!!! My boyfriend hasn't been vulnerable with me since we started out as friends. He sometimes expects me to know him well and he sometimes thinks he knows me, then becomes stunned when he sees he was pegging me wrong. We've had at least five hours for 25 days spread out for 12 months. We haven't had sex, at all. Thank God because we haven't really talked about a relationship, other than we want marriage "with someone." Maybe I shouldn't even call him my boyfriend. He's been busy, but also with other women he's dating, so he says.
@rociopalacios1621
Жыл бұрын
Men are so sweet when they realise you are Really vulnerable.. Not needy. There is a difference. They enjoy a warrior in life to relate to.. Not a clingy, lazy, needy mentally dependant bulk.. much less an agressive, impolite girl who's insincere and unrealistic.
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kimgordon3695
Жыл бұрын
Best compliment my Man ever gave "You're not need" He always returns
@kimberlyp_shiprocker
5 ай бұрын
I am getting so much out of your videos. I believe I'm in a very genuine space with my guy, though it's only been six weeks. I am great at giving him space, because I have the same need. I am learning to speak up if I feel my value isn't being honored or appreciated (which is very rare), and I can easily take text breaks. I just want to learn to do whatever else I need to do to foster positive and healthy habits to see if we end up continuing to grow together. I definitely have some defects that can be frustrating for him, after all they annoy me too). So far, it seems we could be on a great path. I'm going to continue to learn from you. Every time he does something for me, no matter how big or little, I let him know that I am grateful. Your affirmation that this is important is something I am grateful for. Thank you!
@kimberlyp_shiprocker
5 ай бұрын
I may be wrong! I'm not sure my radar is working properly. Trouble in paradise.
@chicagoresident973
2 жыл бұрын
"Repetition is the mother of skill" 👍🏼👏🏼
@sjb5932
3 жыл бұрын
I like your show. You tend to over explain yourself. Us women are pretty intelligent.
@aysekayrak8058
3 жыл бұрын
'There is always a blind vendee, for each blind vendor'. I did my best to translate it. It's a Turkish proverb and also my grandmother used to tell it a lot. We have many other proverbs like that, which means if you exist on earth there is always someone who is going to like you. Point is firstly allow yourself to see your intrinsic beauty, allow yourself to fall in love with your real self, as you said Jonathon. By the way great video, thanks a lot❤
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you... btw, my parents are from Istanbul
@aysekayrak8058
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry they moved to US. You could be in Istanbul
@jeanetteeynck603
3 жыл бұрын
Even though I’m Greek , that’s a pretty good Turkish proverb.
@missmary8878
2 жыл бұрын
My friend looks at me with a Wow! I can feel the love between us but it is a platonic friendship and always will be.
@rosaperez7428
3 жыл бұрын
I am stunned people have the odasity to complain. I guess the truth really hurts some people. The truth will set you free!
@arijones9564
2 жыл бұрын
Audacity
@Mercermm
11 ай бұрын
I believe in all that you are saying. I am 62 and divorced 21 years, remarried and widowed 10 years. It is so hard to even get a date now. I go online and can’t get any dates from men my age. They were looking for women in their 50s or younger. I get discouraged, but I have finally learned to love myself. So, if I can’t find someone that I even slightly am attracted to. I love where I live and don’t want to look too far away. Any ideas on attracting more men here in my happy place?
@beccamelton3529
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I believe when you can just think of someone and say wow then you know you are in love.
@kathyblum3218
3 жыл бұрын
Robin, I am short and it’s not really a bad thing we’re called “fun size” 🤣🎉
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
🤗
@anitamendez116
11 ай бұрын
You are awesome Jonathan. I love your ‘F’ bombs and excitement for the truth. You provide great content. LOVE IT! 😊
@lsand9154
3 жыл бұрын
Love how real you are! Being straight forward and sincere saves time and any doubts! Thank you!
@clairegasamagera3777
2 жыл бұрын
Jonathon your words of wisdom saved me from feeling used. Now, i know i am being loved .I won't be cod and alone in a Michigan Winter: Count down to the P in the V has started...and as time passes i feel so good, prepared...appreciating his patience and respect. is he reading your book...? he is still in the first chapter...the point he wants to go through the process ...Who am i to win the heart that middle seasoned attractive man with big blue eyes?.I am not that special...simply Jonathon channel showed up in our lives and our stars are aligning again. Thank you Jonathon...you are way better than some pastors out here...you provide value...and TRULY you are a spiritual being having a human experience.
@denaight87
11 ай бұрын
Jonathan is just the best!!get busy living or get busy dying - love that quote ❤
@shamrockgirl6595
10 ай бұрын
#1] ⌛️ He leans into you -- he spends time with you #2] He's consistent with his actions 🎬 & his word 🗣 #3] He feels safe w/you
@ForeverTogether219
2 ай бұрын
Yeah .. then what?
@alibrough8780
Жыл бұрын
haha you have the most liberating personality, Jonathon! If adopting strangers for brothers was a thing I would choose you
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you 😊
@huongnguyen2504
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Jonathon. Your videos always awesome!
@joynkindness
3 жыл бұрын
You are right. People often pull away when they don't care. Mm
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lisabrazell8246
Жыл бұрын
Johnathan….Golden nuggets of wisdom, thx u. I laughed out loud when listening to your answers to some of the final questions….priceless! It really is so hard to bump into your forever, right person. You have your beautiful person now, but we all feel the struggle. So happy for you! And thanks for the truth and the laughs!!
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@tanyamolina3787
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jonathan. I’ve got to tell you this funny thing just happened when you said “hey google” and you asked the 101 question …my bedroom radio heard you and began answering the question. 😂 that’s freaky.
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Lol 😆
@trust493
Жыл бұрын
This is awesome
@dianapennell383
2 жыл бұрын
I like the "vulnerable with you" sign.
@clairegasamagera3777
2 жыл бұрын
There is a saying" tell me i will lilsten, teach me I will learn...show me i will practice. " in the showing/sharing of your real lived experiences...we are convinced to practice. This is a church Jonathon...you need a deacon...bringing water and handkerchief wiping your face...( am joking but you get what i mean) . I appreciate you.
@alinagabrielamilosan8878
Жыл бұрын
You are awesome, Jonathon! Keep encourage us to do it the right way
@ZoeyIndigoSky
3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh I wish exactly the same for men my age (I am 25), men who are curious, who like to talk, who want to try new things, who are excited about life and want to do life with me!!! I swear in all my relationships, I'm always the one feeling so excited to do things and have an opinion or want to comment about something and want to grow with someone. But they think it's "I'm too much" or they are soo freaking boring. And they are okay with being so average and so normal lol. It's like, don't you get excited when it's super sunny outside, or excited to make a huge breakfast or excited about reading an amazing book??? Why are you so monotoned LOL.
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
Hey Jonathan, you are awesome❤❤
@donnab8345
2 жыл бұрын
"That is not a question!" LOL. I love it when he gets irritated. And he's right! Posting a simple statement is not asking a question.
@Satillite1111
3 жыл бұрын
Watched many of your videos J This so far for me is the best, cause everything you've shared is how I feel and look at life. THANK YOU 🌹
@Lori-g9u
Ай бұрын
Jonathan,you need a hug🤗🤗🤗
@JonathonAslay
Ай бұрын
Yes
@Lori-g9u
Ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay sending you a hug🤗
@SA733
3 жыл бұрын
No 6 is awesome Jonathan. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️💯🇬🇧
@erinhappy-go-lucky5040
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly Jonathan! Consistency in your message is key. Repetition has always helped me to remember in learning. I’m glad that you addressed that in your video. I also wanted to let you know that your usage of profanity is always welcomed. It is how you show passion for what you do, and is authentically you. Something that I have learned from Marissa Peer is,”people can only reject you, if you allow it in.” I appreciate that you are a person that is self-aware and are open to constructive criticism. The comments that you get from women that you mentioned in your live videos, appear to be giving destructive criticism and aren’t worth your attention or feeding into their negativity and bringing attention to it. Those people will continue to say things that attack your character are seeking negative attention, because they aren’t happy with themselves or don’t love themselves enough to be able to write words with respect or with compassion. Fuck that shit! The people that are worth your time accept you as you are, so you don’t need to explain yourself(At least from my perspective.). One of my favorite quotes that I have been professing to people, to help ease their mind, and are worried about what others think of them is… “Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” -Dr. Suess
@john-jt7fy
3 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are you can’t be better than Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home, He save me I’m hsv free thanks Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home.
@reginawoess4928
3 жыл бұрын
Mine was sometimes vulnerable with me. He told me once after sex I was too good for him. Looking back I think he might of said that because he was cheating and he knew I was faithful and how much I loved him and how I was there for him through sickness and everything
@sirennem.6890
3 жыл бұрын
Too good?maybe a lie, its his reason to go, he wants many women. Maybe yes, its true, he knows himself but he doesnt want you or love, or relationship, dont waste any minute any more on this guys and what he did. Forget. Be more realistic. Thats not love. Love yourself, and then you will find a good and right guy and a healthy relationship. We attached often to wrong guys.
@reginawoess4928
3 жыл бұрын
No he didn't leave me or want me to go but didn't offer to quit cheating that's why I left him
@sirennem.6890
3 жыл бұрын
@@reginawoess4928 this guy is so bad
@kimgordon3695
3 жыл бұрын
💝
@mcicalese58
Жыл бұрын
You are something else...and I mean that in a good way! You could easily be a psychologist if you wanted, but as a life coach you are phenomenal! I usually don't like F Bombs, but the way you drop them makes me laugh every time!
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
WOW, thank you 😊
@IrishEyes4real
6 ай бұрын
You crack me up! Great content!
@JonathonAslay
6 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed
@Ani-ep1fx
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent! I'd heard many advices of some famous relationship coaches, but Jon said it the best. Jon is straightforward & explained it thoroughly. He is very to the point! Good job, Jon!
@john-jt7fy
3 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are you can’t be better than Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home, He save me I’m hsv free thanks Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home..
@kimgordon3695
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Jbrownshuga
Жыл бұрын
📞 Jonathon! I met a great guy and you’re awesome! Thank you for sharing your experience and keep doing it with a passion!
@michellemolina4653
Жыл бұрын
You are so funny 😂. I love watching your video’s. I’m a new subscriber. If I’m having a bad day or need advice I go to your video’s first.
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for subbing!
@DivineFeminine99
11 ай бұрын
Gosh, your content can be potentially life-saving (I mean, literalllllly...like another 1 poor relationship away from just ending it all !!!) ....you're gifted in verbal communication. You're not overdoing it. Thanks for helping women. You just don't know how many vulnerable emotionally messed up already women ur saving from just suicide-ing bc they repeat another bad relationship cuz they're plain ignorant about how men view the relationship
@JonathonAslay
11 ай бұрын
You can do it!
@HudsonPomeranian
Жыл бұрын
I Love this Guy! He's so honest like me. He tells it like it is! I wish all high schools would teach a class like this for men and women. Unfortunately In my 20s to 40s I gave my power away. I'm older now and know what I want and don't want from a man, Ya I know too late. If I ever feel I'm ready to date again I will lay my cards on the table.
@abek3684
Жыл бұрын
I’m debating to get involved with 66yrs old as I’m 51, he is retired and I still work, also he lives 1 hour away. Ugh says up front he does not want marriage…u r teaching me to opening my eyes…i do have high standards and very picky
@kimgordon3695
Жыл бұрын
"when someone tells you who they are... Believe them" Maya Angelou Apply for that care giver position $70 / hour Agency value
@deemee7329
Жыл бұрын
He doesn't want to go public because he's dating other women and his parents may be in on it. . We need to write a book, So many experiences to draw from. As for putting a relationship on hold... sounds like a pre break up but to chicken to do it. Communication is Huge !!! Just found you Jonathan. Where have you been hiding.
@debmccafferty1007
Жыл бұрын
Ex's communication very shady Phony photos blew us up
@arniedurise3910
Жыл бұрын
Ahaha you're so candid, I like how you spill the beans, reality bites really
@iUnderstand
Ай бұрын
38:26 omg your exuberant expression of frustration here has me laughing hysterically 😂
@charlottemacdonald4167
2 жыл бұрын
Talking about how if a man loves you, he will be there when you need assistance or are having a rough time. That is all well and good, but what if you need the assistance of a man when you are simply getting acquainted, or a man you know socially. I have found that most men will decline that request with a few exceptions. My Grandfather, who was Scottish, lived with five Irish women (my Grandmother and her sisters) and they adored him because he was always there to help and he treated them with respect and a genuinely me like. He would always help a woman, family or no. He was the same with every woman, young to old. I noticed this growing up and decided that was the deciding factor for me in whether a man was really a man or a selfish beast. People wonder why women often live in fear; because she perceives that she will be alone in the world eventually and not be able to rely on men,; in general, to assist her, should she need it. My significant other(who passed in 2011) had that quality. He just treated people well, in general. I wish it was not so rare. Many men do not realize how their masculinity would just flourish if they practiced this. Lots of appreciation and smiles coming from the ladies too.
@donnab8345
2 жыл бұрын
He didn't say "ask" for assistance. He said a man who loves you will be there for you. It's inappropriate to ask a man you're seeing casually for assistance, IMO. You don't even know him that well. Jonathan's speaking of people who are past the initial casual stage. He's talking over 100 hrs of time spent in person with each other, and who are emotionally attached. Not casual. Two very different things. I think men don't like weak women who can't do for themselves. I think they like women who are capable of handling their lives....except for certain things. Things that require strength, things that need emotional support from a partner. Those things cannot be handled by one person alone, esp the brute strength things. If you don't have a bf, you have to hire a handyman for the physical strength things.
@charlottemacdonald4167
2 жыл бұрын
@@donnab8345 Hi, Donna, What I am talking about is a man's general attitude towards women, not a particular citsinstance. It might have not been clear, and I was not saying that Jonathan was wrong in his observations snd knowledge. I was sinply saying that my Grandfather treated all women with respect and an attitude of service, should they need it. He was happy with that feeling, not what he would gain by it. To me that is the highest expression of masculinity.
@charlottemacdonald4167
2 жыл бұрын
It is better to trust your significant other to monitor his own behavior when away from you, than to try to control him. That is treating him like a child. This is not what most women do, however. Because of their own insecurity, it has to be ok with them what he does, or they will try to control him. This makes for an unhappy relationship. Neither of them is maturing.
@juliachaffee6742
3 жыл бұрын
Yes it resonates with me it made me cry when you got to the sixth one about how he thinks wow
@john-jt7fy
3 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are you can’t be better than Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home, He save me I’m hsv free thanks Dr Oseghale Sunday Herbal Home.
@lizquinn3568
Жыл бұрын
Hi jonathon you are a diamond in the rough keep up the good work and the cursing from Belfast chick 😊 ❤
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will
@PennyRauser
5 ай бұрын
Lo e your, advice..keep up the great work!!!
@JonathonAslay
5 ай бұрын
Appreciate it!
@christrinder1255
Жыл бұрын
Quite right…if you can’t be there for them for better or worse and vice versa ……it’s not love….love takes real time to build…..doesn’t happen overnight…but sexual attraction and lust yep that definitely does…..
@pearlluber5849
Жыл бұрын
It certainly resonates with me. Thank you
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@nancystevens5136
2 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Aslay, Question? Like him or her getting upset as you two, being friends for over a year and 4 months and you mention that you're going on a date with someone else and they get upset knowing someone else can steal you away from your friendship and he or she thinks that they lose you even as friends, knowing their taken it slow because they want even more with you, but don't want to come out saying it just yet? Because they connect on all levels in the friendship!
@Rainnyparadise
2 жыл бұрын
That is precious and real, I understand the scenario completely
@paulettesmith4071
11 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathan, I don’t cheat on a man. I only dated one man at a time. You mention Porn in your show tonight; and how it can mess a person up. I feel that if every person took a vail, to practice (Celibacy for one year; only single people). The world be a better place. A.) Men and Women would have more respect for each other. B.) Dating would become more meaningful. A man or woman would take the time to appreciate the dating experience, getting to know one another. C.) Couples would be more committed to each other. Which could lead to more marriages and lessen the potential for divorce. D.) Jonathan, this is the big one. It would lessen the potential for sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancies. I have been Celibate for 37 years. I made a promise to God, that the only man that I will ever have sex with; will be my future husband. I went through a lot of childhood trauma and sex abuse.The men that I dated in my early twenties and thirties treated me with disrespect. (I am not crazy, I have morals and respect for my body). Amen
@amiraharper3155
6 ай бұрын
I love it you call it as it is. 😂
@ginam.4990
27 күн бұрын
And the BOMs...love it
@amahlvanhalsema8188
Ай бұрын
70 years of age and starting to date. Lost mate in 2016 to long slow demetia. Covid and death of family members and my own grief delayed my getting back out in the dating world! Any special tips? I'd like to get married again and do not want to take care of a sick man again for years on end unless he is financially stable and the main financial support in the relationship.
@SmileKT68
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!! I could watch this (listen to this content) over and over again!!! Man, you're good!!
@camuyana
3 жыл бұрын
In my pre-qualification there is no room for sex before marriage.
@joannaseverson9989
8 ай бұрын
Your "why I'm single" rant was a great illustration of why you're single lol
@JonathonAslay
8 ай бұрын
I'm a work in progress 😌 ✨️ 🙌
@leishaedwards6284
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, your advice is the bomb, it works! I love you.
@debbierobertson9221
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your repetition . It's like a reminder I am now listening daily! Especially your what I call your Ice burg chart! Also so much more? Thanks! 💜
@arniedurise3910
Жыл бұрын
Your content is very interesting that it compensates for your cursing and all the BS some other viewers hate, as you say humans are "f**ked up" and they still don't see the goodness in your content, they only notice what's superficial and they probably don't listen well to what you say.
@ginnywalker184
2 жыл бұрын
You have some great tips for just being a good person and that then transfers to those you attract. Thank you.
@lisapayne2352
3 жыл бұрын
You’re hilarious! 🥰
@MarialenaSussman
Жыл бұрын
I love your channel..why?your telling it straight
@barbaraadams8219
2 жыл бұрын
I like to compliment the traits of my spouse rather than "good job", or other fluff
@FamilyMatterswithAmber
Жыл бұрын
I love that you told people to leave 😂who don't like your cursing.👍
@badabing-g4g
Жыл бұрын
I will never understand people who focus on minutiae instead of trying to understand the point of what someone is saying! Gaslighters love doing that
@sljwilson3861
Жыл бұрын
🎉first time hearing your content. I appreciate your clarity... been unable to articulate my boundaries and standards, which makes me appear tongue tied -- so I just live/show them. This behavior has protected my heart but I really want to date intentionally. You've given me a script that matches how l live and I feel empowered to use it on any future dates. Thank you😊
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@mazz66
2 ай бұрын
Keep the f bomb love them keep repetitive you're the best so dam real 💯
@JonathonAslay
2 ай бұрын
Awe... thank you 😊
@alisongilroy5304
3 ай бұрын
At times in life I thought it should be "stepping in it"
@tinafricker1122
Ай бұрын
SOO EFFIN GOOD! 😂 Thank you Jonathan ....this video is 🔥🔥🔥...LOVE YOUR PASSION, HONESTY, REPETITION OF IMPORTANT GOODIES. Continue to speak your mind and DO YOUUU.👍👍❤☮️
@JonathonAslay
Ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
@stella6516
Жыл бұрын
You are great. Thank you.
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@lisahowell984
Жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship for a short time 2'months and we have some things in common and both family oriented We both looking for life partner and have online relationship plan to meet soon! Already have some love for each other and he says hopeless in love with me.....😊 I'm shocked but muy contenta🌹
@leemayhan4199
Жыл бұрын
What most or us are looking for is my relationship I am in now worth pursuing and hanging in. There are definitive ways one can generally tell. Often we need advice form others. The best advice is from a neutral party that can tell you to your relationship has the power to go forward or SOS Bail Now. Your ships is sinking. Plus, is to look at the situation with logic and learn. Those who are not happy with the advice are not ready to move on at all. Definition of doing the same thing over and over again and getting the same results.
@SmileKT68
3 жыл бұрын
Are you sure you didn't misunderstand Angela Kautz's question (at 50:12)? She said she started dating again ("daring") after 3 years of self-healing following 24-yr marriage and husband's infidelity. I don't think she was talking about dating her (ex-)husband...!?
@janereinhardt4715
3 жыл бұрын
He has done that a few times. Once was a response to an Asian woman. He totally misread her question & didn't respond to what she was asking, but something completely different!
@reginawoess4928
3 жыл бұрын
I lived with mine for 8 months and I broke up with him for cheating. He was loving and wanted to be with me all the time except he must have seen her when I was at work
@sirennem.6890
3 жыл бұрын
sorry for that. He will always cheat. Many people with lower ego can also cheat, because of their validuation. But sex is first reason. You will not change him. Some became mature after 40 but this is rarely. Move on. Love yourself first. Set the boundaries. Listen your intuition. Never wait too long. Try to read Susan Hendrix about imago. Maybe you meet this type of guys because of your childhood. Read books. Be confident. Good luck
@sherriflemming3218
3 жыл бұрын
Aligned and resonating!
@MRS584
Жыл бұрын
This one is confronting.. 😮 ❤
@conniecandella2734
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you tell it like it is. Love ya
@dezydream6472
Жыл бұрын
Why is it that we have to question why the men are distancing themselves? Years ago, it wasn't like that. Now, if I reach out, he is happy to hear from me. I question the distancing and he is in denial. So this Christmas, I chose to not call. So far, no call, so I will see how soon they would reach out. I will then tell him, I get the hint. And by New Years, say bye.
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