Thanks Jennifer and Isla, it's great to see trans widows being platformed. I never cease to be impressed with the courage of the women that are coming forward with their experiences. I hope Jennifer's courage will help other transwidows come-forward.
@moon-1768
Жыл бұрын
I’m ashamed to say that I though dressing as a woman at home was ok But after listening to this woman I realised I was brain washed. God bless you for what you have put up with. X
@joane24
Жыл бұрын
To me it was always suspicious, kind of like Norman from _Psycho_ . Long before that was even public discurse, I always felt icky about it. So it's interesting to hear someone like you saying, that you didn't have consider it weird or off-putting? Is it because it was normalized for you eg through school or something?
@EsonIndustries
5 ай бұрын
Of course it was ok to dress at home as a woman, where else are you expected to do it?
@paintsilj
4 күн бұрын
@EsonIndustries it's never OK unless you're in a pantomime
@pistillateflower476
Жыл бұрын
So many women’s stories not being heard. Thank you for covering the harms and porn driven male sexual fetish behind gender ideology!
@paulaharrisbaca4851
10 ай бұрын
Makes me wonder that as their wives age, they allow this to blossom as a way of dealing with it. When you hit a certain age you look at your spouse and you almost see yourself. (like people look like their dogs)
@marieparker3822
Жыл бұрын
As Exulansic says: 'It's normalising the pathological and pathologising the normal'.
@arachnipope
Жыл бұрын
You're right and it's terrifying. This madness will spread to other subjects.
@BrittanySpares
6 ай бұрын
Only 6 min in but so far I’m shocked anyone else experienced this! I thought it was just me. Thank you for speaking up, I need to take a break before finishing this video but I’m so grateful to you.
@tracymayer5519
3 ай бұрын
You are not alone, it happened to me too. I'm so sorry it happened to you 😔
@stumccabe
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for having this chat - I learned a lot from it; I had never considered the effect these men have on wives and children. I hate that I have to learn about a subject I find so distasteful and upsetting, but I'm a grandfather and I'm fearful of the world my grandchildren are growing up in.
@missylee3022
8 ай бұрын
This is also the world you grew up in. Autogynophilia is not new.
@tish3092
Жыл бұрын
The force teaming by a publicly proclaimed AGP has caused a lot of harm
@SashOg
Жыл бұрын
This is crazy. How I thought some of these things were only specific to my own experience. I was so young and confused. Now I know this was a abuse. I was young, broken home and here comes Prince Charming with a caveat. He thought he was more woman than I was. Wow😢
@Isla_Mac
Жыл бұрын
Im so sorry this happened to you.
@MissMiseryGloom
Жыл бұрын
Thank you both. This was an excellent interview that all people critical of the movement need to watch. So many important points were hit on.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
I am also a trans widow. Mothers Day is a total bust for us. While we are not a monolith, we've experienced a revelation or there was a discovery. They typically want us to be the "escort' to do sex role play. The "sexologist" therapists tell us that we need to start doing this role. It is very, very damaging. Jenny's husband is classic narcissist "trans" For more of our stories, YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen. Jenny once said that her own daughter called her the N word. Not the racial term, but the one from 1930s Germany.
@ellasoes8325
Жыл бұрын
It's distressing to hear children turn on the parent who is the one doing right. Doesn't make sense.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
It is happening all over. The crossdressing fathers, together with peer pressure to "be kind" to them is a strong influence of alienation. @@ellasoes8325
@amandagrimes4138
Жыл бұрын
One positive (if you can call it that) of the elevation of the transgender ideology movement is that more AGP's are emboldened to come out early, before they have entrapped some poor unsuspecting woman into marriage and into having children with them. Hopefully it will mean less women suffering what Jennifer went through.
@bellesblues
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being uncompromising. I'm for the safeguarding of women and children. I want to hear women's voices in this areana, not men in their fetish gear.
@nonpareilstoryteller5920
Жыл бұрын
I would like to thank Jen for doing this. It’s bad enough trying to survive what is a Coercive Controlling partner with an extra coercive layer of Autogynaphilia and I wonder if she considers that this has a deep layer of Narcissism or actual Psycopathy to begin with, with this sexual fetish on top? The final insult to the female in the relationship. I ask this having had experience with generations of Narcissists and finally, a Malignant Narcissist and it is alarming to hear that the tactics used by Autogynaphiles in marriage or relationships is exactly the same. In past generations, there was no internet and men who wore women’s clothes hid their fetishes away or others progressed to ever more serious levels of deviancy, stealing women’s clothes to wear and from there down a path to crimes of rape and murder. There is such an enormous cohort now of Autogynaphilics presenting as “trans” that it seems to me there has to have been a foundation in peoples personalities in order for it to take off in such numbers? Phil Illi, interviewed by Benjamin A Boyce on KZitem who is also on the spectrum and has spent years researching Autogynaphilia as the basis for many men believing that they are “trans” when they are actually just presenting with a sexual fetish no longer in secret, and by their activism insisting that they are, women, are doing huge harm to women and children. In my experience a man with a “fetish” would not operate at these levels of manipulation, Devine t coercive control and abuse without those personality disorders, or am I wrong? Or is porn rewriting the personalities of young men in the way that alcohol makes people highly narcissistic because it an addiction?
@overcatter7647
Жыл бұрын
These stories have been very educational. We as women should teach our daughters to be ware of becoming involved with men displaying cross-dressing AGP qualities, because they only get worse and because they are self-absorbed narcissists.
@carolmcln5028
Жыл бұрын
True, true!!
@The-Finisher
Жыл бұрын
Add men who are porn sick in general.
@tablescissors
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for teaching me the term “pair bonding”. I’ve listened to multiple videos on this subject and I still learned something new. It’s also an important point that your guest’s bisexuality did not match autogynephilia. I agree that the condition is clearly on the Narcissistic spectrum, I mean…it’s almost perfect narcissism at its root. It was interesting to know when she drew the line, not for herself, for her children. Thank you for highlighting that they often use sympathy (from women in particular) as a way to get their sexual fetish accepted and do not discuss the masturbation or arousal aspects when they “confess” to doing this in adolescence. It’s normal for kids to experiment with gender and roles in general. It’s unfair for them to be used only to enforce gender stereotypes. It’s a nightmare that a woman like this cannot even have the sympathy of her own daughter - that not even HER daughter can see through the anti-woman nature of some of this propaganda. I feel like it has to reach a head. That enough people have to get completely out of control or that something heinous will have to occur before this is looked at by the media at large from other angles. Although, without knowing the true source of the agenda, where all the money is coming from - it’s unlikely that a media that more and more resembles propaganda is ever going to explore more angles of this, no matter how many children get hurt. That thought alone is frightening and sad. It’s a distinct possibility that autogynephila is just profitable and that this is all that matters. For our ideological haters, it’s a tool to weaken and divide us. Biological women’s voices are being silenced in the extreme right now, with handmaidens carrying the message of “Trans women are women” (which is ironic since ‘trans’ is in the slogan itself). They’re enabling predators and abusers, they’re enabling serious mental health issues (such as touched upon regarding her ex-husband). It’s my understanding that one of the reasons the men wait until there are children is that they are 1. Jealous of pregnancy, then 2. Jealous of motherhood, then 3. Jealous of their chidren’s puberty (particularly daughters); always there is an urge to control it or inject themselves into it. To usurp. To somehow make themselves more important. Which, ofc, is very typical of narcissism.
@TrippyKitty08
Жыл бұрын
My maternal grandfather was obsessed with "she-male" p0rn. From the 1970's. He was a predator. He took birth control pills to achieve 'breasts' he liked to act out in public and was generally attention seeking. Back in the early 2000's we could write him off as 'crazy' or a 'weirdo'. I have been out of contact with him for well over a decade. I hope he is elderly and unable to move. Last I heard they couldn't put him in a home because he's harasses nurses too much. No one will go near him. I'm worried with the current social climate if he's lying and saying he's trans to lure people. I hope not :/ I hope he's old enough where the news and Internet is incomprehensible to him.
@sisiphas
Жыл бұрын
Trans widows appear to be sidelined in all this. Teaching responsibility is out of fashion but so necessary. The whole trans thing IS manipulative but its really hard to say.
@fictionalme
Жыл бұрын
Hi there, firstly, and most importantly, thanks for another great conversation. Secondly, and forgive me for saying so, but I believe you meant the Sussexes. William and Kate (the Prince and Princess of Wales) as far as my quick search revealed no such connection . Harry and Megan however, are steeped in 'progressive' ideology/ies. "The Duke and Duchess of Sussex's organisation Archewell has partnered with the US-based initiative which also accuses parents of 'gendering' unborn children. But its aims have proven controversial, with one Conservative MP warning that the group was trying to 're-educate small children for reasons of political activism'. And a family campaign group has slammed the initiative, telling MailOnline: 'Schools should not be lying to children about gender 'not being tied to sex organs'.'" Just for your information. 😘
@Isla_Mac
Жыл бұрын
You are entirely correct thanks. My mistake.
@ravencole8727
Жыл бұрын
Great interview, thank you both
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
Жыл бұрын
You have a troll down in the comments under the name oliviamaynard. This person has threatened me personally as well as other women and trans widows. I suggest hiding him from the channel.
@jobeer1267
Жыл бұрын
I really take J's point that individual women need help. I'm guilty of talking on Twitter more in the abstract about female-only spaces. I will be more thoughtful in the future. What a great conversation?
@marieparker3822
Жыл бұрын
Jenny's experience of the complete lack of help available to her reminds me of listening to a recorded interview from the 1970s (?) on BBC radio, with Dr William Sergeant, a British practitioner and advocate of psychosurgery. He actually said to the interviewer that a woman who could not tolerate domestic violence from her husband ought to have bits of her brain disconnected from other bits of her brain in order to make it easier for her to tolerate this.
@TrippyKitty08
Жыл бұрын
Damn people really just don't wanna tell men to 'knock it off!" Awful. Yes mutilate a woman instead of holding a man accountable for his actions.
@Stacy_Sunshine
9 ай бұрын
As a transwidow, I'm watching the effects on the kids, and I feel so much of this story. And so much different. I have listened and know so many Trans stories, interwoven, into and around mine.
@S2023.
10 ай бұрын
6:45-8:30 takeaway: violence against women within the home as a form of coercive control and very little profesional support.
@pixie3458
Жыл бұрын
part of growing up is accepting that being an adult is unpleasant and challenging at times, maturity is self acceptance, honesty with others and acknowledging that you cant have everything you want or envy
@HerWanderlust
Жыл бұрын
How horrible to hear that therapists you went to for help participated in gaslighting you. And they likely think they were doing the right thing.
@paulaharrisbaca4851
10 ай бұрын
BTW, in California, oddly, it's no longer a felony to have sex with an unconscious person who is unable to give consent. It's just a ticketable offense, less than shoplifting (which isn't a crime anymore if it's less than $999)
@insidiousmischka
11 ай бұрын
I’m sick of people that platform Debbie Hayton.
@fionawhiteford2128
Жыл бұрын
thank you ..i had no idea ..im glad you were able to talk about it ..i hope you are ok
@maureenparnaby1912
5 ай бұрын
What an emotional but an enlightening discussion. Thank you.
@daisyviluck7932
Жыл бұрын
Nonstandard sexualities come with a certain set of baggage. Some sexual activities come with a certain set of baggage.
@insidiousmischka
11 ай бұрын
I say shame them. Shame is important.
@vanillamarshmallow
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad y’all touched on this at 36:50. I can’t stand all the fangirling over Hayton for this reason. Yeah he acknowledges that he’s male, but he still a*uses his family and teaches students in fet*sh clothing. I have the same criticism of blaire white. There’s no such thing as a good or based tr*nny.
@Nous520
Жыл бұрын
I can’t agree with your assessment of Blair - I don’t feel that she’s abusing anyone and she doesn’t insist that she’s a women, she is very vocal about her concerns with the issues of transitioning kids. We shouldn’t lump the sane with the mentally and emotionally corrupted misogynist types- we should hold the truth in high regard otherwise we are playing the same game as those who are motivated by spite and lead with lies.
@HerWanderlust
Жыл бұрын
Agreed, happy to take them on a case by case basis but will never ever call a man “she”
@jademat31
Жыл бұрын
I do think there is some difference with someone like Blaire who is a gay man most likely with some internalised homophobia and trauma. And a straight man who gets sexual pleasure from imagining himself as a woman and using their wives/girlfriends in their fetishism. Blaire is one of the most reasonable on this subject and gets all kind of hate from the TRAS for calling out the AGP.
@Nous520
Жыл бұрын
@@jademat31 it makes sense that the autogynophiles are so miserable - they’ve chased the dragon to the very peak of the mountain and there’s no more high left to chase. They’re left with the shameover of having exposed a sexual fetish and have permanently diluted the high.
@jmlorenzo3639
Жыл бұрын
Idk i suggest Getting therapy. NOT ALL trans people are bad. There are transsexuals with disphoria like Blair or Buck Angel who are unproblematic. Who believe in biological sex and use their voices to call out other trans folks for their b*llshit. We need trans folks who stand up for biological women and children. Trans people do exist. Gender disphoria is a real mental disorder. Autogynophila is a whole other beast. It's fetishism not true disphoria. Js don't make them right.
@bobsmith5441
10 ай бұрын
Great conversation, thank you for sharing.
@StellaLove
9 ай бұрын
I am not a trans widow or been the cause of one , but always had a huge amount of sympathy for woman whos partners then went on to transition , I have met a few at social events and the ones I have met I have been huge admirers of , and I do think this is hardly discussed.... it can be complicated , but yeah , huge admiration....sadly , I DO believe many men who then tell their wives they are trans and then are overtly sexual are just NOT....tbh in my case [ as I can only talk about me] is that as far as sex goes since transitioning my drive is much lower and tbh I enjoy that part it doesn't dictate my life at all , I find it a relief.... this women's experience is terrible , I hope it isn't typical
@HeathenGranny
9 ай бұрын
I'm trans and I dont feel bad for em at all especially when they are trying to take away our rights and healthcare.
@EsonIndustries
5 ай бұрын
I dont listen to this and be horrified for what the lady went through, I listen and am horrified what this guy went through with this unloving judgement and rejection from his love. And which is it, an EX or is he DEAD?
@Chloedawnknauer
5 ай бұрын
I cried listing to your story, I can understand your struggle. My wife and i chose to do this jouney together, and i can tell you its not easy. I can only imagine tne struggles you and your form partner when through
@tracymayer5519
3 ай бұрын
I am a trans widow 😢
@harrywan2604
9 ай бұрын
But why are these children so vulnerable and sensitive? Can their parents not speak to them about the realities of the world and its dangers? I am a mother myself my child is young but I will take no part in playing the roll of sympathetic to the hardships of "trans" teens.
@Simpy553
9 ай бұрын
Trans kids fucking matter and they are loved no matter what happens they are loved.
@matttorrence2900
Жыл бұрын
Man, these guys are evil
@AddMoreQuarters
3 ай бұрын
Just when you think the trams nonsense couldn't get any dumber.
@tish3092
Жыл бұрын
Taryn De Vere. Can’t remeber if I did a post or a thread about her..I don’t believe about what she says her kids told her.. very adult language
@colinjackson9664
Жыл бұрын
Kids are being taught all the adult language at school and then in the Universities.
@colinjackson9664
Жыл бұрын
Also I don't know how long Jennifer home educated her children for but the internet is just as bad if not worse than the schools.
@gabbyb7347
4 ай бұрын
Leave HSTS out of this narrative.
@paulaharrisbaca4851
10 ай бұрын
do another interview it was fascinating
@momariemartin8204
3 ай бұрын
He wanted me to love the one who killed him, slowly in front of me. Our whole relationship of 35 years was a sham unbeknownst to me. I was left shattered while he "blossomed". The unforgivable part was that he let me think there was something wrong with me all those years. I wasn't pretty enough, I wasn't thin enough . . . I wasn't a ten. I was supposed to be his audience while he slathered on moisturizer and preened, instead I sipped whiskey on the back porch contemplating my deliverance and liberation.
@exlesoes
Жыл бұрын
Hi I see this is a few months now. How long does "this" effect someone? I mean the trans widows lol I guess it's lifetime "effects" you know. I mean I don't doubt that
@Chloedawnknauer
5 ай бұрын
I am sorry your relationship didn't work out.
@davefitzgerald5334
9 ай бұрын
The body and blood of Jesus will save us. And Mass and plenty of fasting, and lots of charitable donations. LOVE conquers all. Fight the good fight. The End might be nigh. Jesus loves the transgender community just like everyone else, because we're real people and we can be GOOD people and responsible citizens. Not all trans people are perverts.
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