“...Love always gives that option: to understand me, or not; to agree with me, or not; to engage with me in the way that would be nice for me, or not...
...at first it might seem a little awkward, but you just have this intention - the next person you just engage with in any way, you just remind yourself right before your engaging: ‘...I am going to give them the freedom to have their experience exactly as they do...’ ...You’ve entered into a moment of relationship from a completely different understanding... You will feel like you are free from ...the situation... Your well being, your happiness, your sense of security at that instant will not be linked to their experience.
And what it helps you to get in touch with is what I call your spiritual autonomy. That sense of your own being does not find itself through the reflection of others. It’s not looking for itself through the eyes of others. Sometimes it takes courage to find that, and courage to stay there...”
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