To us single ladies: let's listen up now to save ourselves headache once God places us in our future husbands' lives.
@nadavasa1129
2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@robchocek
7 жыл бұрын
Praise God there are still quality godly women out there such as yourself. I live in So California and you are an amazing rarity. I am totally blown away. God bless you and your marriage.🕆
@gracebaladjay4560
2 жыл бұрын
Hi....i thank the Lord that i found your channel...Bec. me and my husband are like throwing log on the fire constantly. And i found your channel by accident. Everything you said are making since...i tried not to nag him and instead i prayed and lay everything to God.... And thanks be to God, He opens the eyes of my husband and asked for forgiveness to me. I can't beleive it..He never do that, specially when accepting his mistakes. Thank you for your reminder.... " A women came out from a man's rib, not from his feet to be walk on, And not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be his equal, under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved." -by REAL TALK DARBS channel
@janeensalsbery7430
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for recommending this book, I just got it and am following along with your study. God bless you! God has really blessed you to help others.
@TheSonshineLife
2 жыл бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS! NOTHING IS TOO HARD FOR THE LORD (Genesis 18:14).
@sumamat5093
Жыл бұрын
Wow mA so many of ur values go hand in hand with the muslim religion i needed to hear this
@Youthmover
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking truth in love. Praise God! :) The best thing in a man's life is a godly woman.
@mistymockingbird3511
2 жыл бұрын
Please don't delete this series yet, I am new here and just got the book. This is really helpful stuff.
@Lutomoria
2 жыл бұрын
I just bought the book yesterday for an amazing price at a resale store :)
@jacquelinemelious8309
7 жыл бұрын
Alana sister I want to thank you so much. I am in a season where I have not found fellowship with other sister's in Christ. I was not attending a church when I was reborn. I didn't understand that I had been reborn right away or that there was such a thing I just knew I felt the presence of the Lord and I knew I was being taught and had an understanding I never had before. It was very scary at first because I had so much fear and trembling. I for the first time knew that Heaven and Hell was real. I remember the day that I first believed and it was last May. I left my career to stay home after my daughter was born because I had always told God as a non believer that even though I did not want children if I ever had a child I would do it to the very best of my ability and for him. I know that sounds weird but I thought I believed in God before but I didn't truly believe until Jesus came and the Holy Spirit entered me. It has been a challenging season for me at times because once you become a child of God and he sets you free the fight gets fierce. The level of deceit gets different and it has been hard to not have a sister in Christ to check myself with sometimes we need that. I found your videos a few days ago and I cannot tell you the significant difference they have made to encourage my spirit and to help me find my role and embrace it. The Lord used you to reach me and grab me and secure me in my role as a mommy and a wife in my wall with Jesus Christ and I am so blessed because of it. I have been watching your videos when I have moments and can because I feel like you are my friend and sister in Christ and like we know each other. I just want you to know that I am very excited to continue to be encouraged by your walk with Christ and you are making a difference in the Kingdom of God. Glory to God! I am also very excited to try that non dairy non sugar creamer made with dates and coconut milk! Love you Sister blessings to you and your family and thank you so much for the service to our Lord and Savoir Jesus Christ!
@ASusan89
7 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was so helpful! Thank you God bless x
@TroubleActual
2 жыл бұрын
I like your perspective on marriage. The serpent attacked adam and eve from the beginning, and it continues. Thank you for your inspiration.
@sanaatouzani3085
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the beautiful messages you share with us . I have to say that I’m so lucky to find your videos . Keep up with the good work and please make more related videos of how women should be treating their husbands and to carry themselves as wives and women . On a side note ... I am more of a traditional and a little of a modern lady .
@spiceduppp5213
3 жыл бұрын
You are such a hidden gem, Thank you for your guidance
@JulietTheGirl
7 жыл бұрын
There can never be too many videos on this topic :) Thank you!
@doryadams7446
5 жыл бұрын
thanks for your marriage encouragement,i love it. BLESS YOU to continue it. d.k. usa
@kitushka1989
5 жыл бұрын
Please continue to do these typed of videos they are such s blessing. I've been learning a lot and sharing your videos to help others be more like God wants us to be as wives. Thank you so much
@HopeFilledJourney
7 жыл бұрын
amen!!! I have a similar story I'm thinking of when I did what you did about the story Of the stain. and god came through and changed my husbands heart also.
@christiansoldier77
Жыл бұрын
Alana, I really like your videos because they give women guidance on being godly wives. I believe my wife could greatly benefit from watching all your videos but my wife can only speak and understand Spanish. Is it possible to make a Spanish language video about being a godly wife so that my wife can gain some of your godly wisdom and knowledge? I would greatly appreciate it .
@biblicallyblonde
5 жыл бұрын
Okay! A year late but I have to get this book! Love this video! Your input is awesome
@HeatherB81
7 жыл бұрын
I am a new subscriber... I did not buy the book because my husband and I just started a new budget and are counting every penny... so I figured I could follow along with your videos and get the gist of the teaching :) Anyways, I wanted to say that man! This book and what you are saying seems to be taken right from my head, and my husbands mouth!! Amazing how the Lord really truly knows what each of us needs, isnt it?! Cant wait to learn more!
@HeatherB81
7 жыл бұрын
"WE CANNOT CHANGE OUR HUSBANDS. LOVE THEM. PRAY FOR THEM. LET GOD DO THE REST" 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@mistylbell3548
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making the time :)
@S.Patierno
7 жыл бұрын
It may be "Above Rubies" the magazine they have a fb site and online site as well
@louisetooze6076
Жыл бұрын
Just brough the book 😊 will re watch your study
@alicerice8506
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Alana. Just want to wish you and your family a happy and blessed Easter. He is Risen ❤️ Some good news. My husband told me he loved me ! We haven’t said that in a while. I know your busy and you don’t have to feel obligated to reply to my comments. The videos are so helpful and I just want you to know how excited I am to be learning how to be the wife God wants me to be.
@AlanaL3
2 жыл бұрын
Praising God with you!!!!! His heart is ALREADY softening toward you! The lord is at work sister!!!! Keep living for Him!
@aichanorway
7 жыл бұрын
i really love ure channel,and i listen to ure videoes about marriage and wife ALOT. ive been married for over 8 years,and we have 3 kids together. our marriage is going downhill FAST now. we snap at eachother ALL the time. my hubby started now to even snap at me and scream infront of the kids. i rrally really HATE this way we are now,amd i often think about leaving. BUT i dont really want that. at the same time i feel that no matter what i do,he is not satisfied. he complain about everything from the food i cook,to the way i put my socks on. he is a man that HATE communication,he do not ever sit down yo talk about our problems. he say that ALL out problems in life between us,is my fault only,and he is perfect. i work full time,same hours as him,but i still do ALL home without any help. he dont help with the kids or anything. when we finish work,he sits in the sofa,while i do it ALL.i tried to make him help me,but then he makes HELL between us. a big part of me want to just kick his selfish ass,and just leave. but i also have a small hope that things will be fixed. he is jelous at the kids too. i tried to make him come with me to a marriage therapist. but he dont want to talk to anyone. do u have any advice for me on how to actually fix this? i know i will have to be the one actually doing everything. but i dont know how. i stopped expecting any help from him.i just do it all myself. if i have him taking the kids some,he just sits in the sofa,screaming at them. it is not very nice to look at.and i must admit that u fight with him ALOT because of things like that
@AlanaL3
7 жыл бұрын
aichanorway are you following along with the study, or just stumble across it? Are you guys attending church together? There's sooo much to say. Can we talk through messenger? Here's my Facebook, message me and we can chat that way. Sorry so hard. :(
@aichanorway
7 жыл бұрын
i am still waiting for the book.i live in norway, so had to order from amazon uk. takes alot longer than expecting.. :/ ill add u,and im looking forward to get some advice from u. just jumped in to bed though. it is 11.36 pm here in norway,and im getting up at 5.30 am for work. thanks alot though ❤
@JoGiles77
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Alana, love you sis. Going through the book again with you. Something really jumped out at me recently, I know As women, as wives we are help mates. However coming under so much pressure from myself to do what I can through Christ... who is my help mate? Who helps the helper? Who cares for the carer? Jesus is my strength but he won't do dishes, wash bedding etc. I'm so very tired.
@AlanaL3
7 жыл бұрын
JoGiles77 have you asked hubby for help with house work? He can help and as kids get older, they can help:) do you meet with any young ladies from church ? They can help you too:) Jesus is our strength and helper, our comfort or our provider. But we need physical help too...so stunned he will give you extra energy to get things done, sometimes you'll work tired and rely on his strength, sometimes you can leave things undone?
@joon_choco
3 жыл бұрын
14:20 awww that was so cute 😂
@lolamarie244
7 жыл бұрын
thank u for sharing your real life example about the piece of furniture i would have blown it up but now i know better its so hard. oh and not blown up the furniture i mean the argument the moment lol!!!! #bethewisewoman
@kristinccha
7 жыл бұрын
Alana, there is a great book called, " Fit to burst,; abundance, mayhem, and the joys of motherhood", by Rachel Jankovic. Many woman from my church have read and enjoyed it. Im reading it. It is convictibg, hopeful and saturated with gospel truth. Please take a look. I hope this comment finds you. I enjoy your wisdom. I watch a lot of dumb videos about makep, etc so my hubby gets so excited when i am watching
@noellep9404
7 жыл бұрын
Kristin Cha I enjoyed that book as well! also her first one, loving the little years
@brittanykeane6086
7 жыл бұрын
i love your godly additude in your marraige.i want to learn to be more submissive in my own as well. the magazine is called above rubies
@alicerice8506
2 жыл бұрын
My husband finds fault with almost everything I do and tells me I’m stupid. I don’t want to come home out of fear of a fight because I stand up for myself too much. I do feel like a failure. I’m guilty of bad attitude and snarky remarks. I’m not perfect by no means and I’m learning from you. Thank you
@AlanaL3
2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry:( I’m sure you’re on the defense now. I know it’s got to be very hard. When I want to stand up for myself I always remember not to repay evil for evil. Of course there is a line that must be drawn. I do not think it’s ok for him to call you stupid. You can respectfully ask him to stop, and let him know it hurts you. You can ask for his respect without disrespecting him. I’m sorry:(
@alicerice8506
2 жыл бұрын
@@AlanaL3 thank you And thank you for the advice
@Emily-er2xh
7 жыл бұрын
I wanna watch this video so bad already but my book doesn't arrive until tomorrow! I'll be back ! :)
@meriri1631
3 жыл бұрын
initiates intimate friendship .adores him . Safeguard marraige.
@marcfischer114
Жыл бұрын
I have a question: does he also have to become the man of YOUR dreams?
@meriri1631
3 жыл бұрын
start nagging to lord dont pray for selfish.pray love maturity.have faith Allah does best. Pray out of love for your husbands. Always work on yourself and life.Its hard to stay mad at him.Nothing is hard for Allah to fix. love
@THEStorkStop
7 жыл бұрын
Above Rubies :)
@meriri1631
3 жыл бұрын
build up your house and husband dont be the nagging wife who tears it down with her toungue and actions. Stay quite. dont argue
@meriri1631
3 жыл бұрын
pray for him. sexual needs.respect adore safeguard marraige
@jacquelinemelious8309
7 жыл бұрын
Alana sister I want to thank you so much. I am in a season where I have not found fellowship with other sister's in Christ. I was not attending a church when I was reborn. I didn't understand that I had been reborn right away or that there was such a thing I just knew I felt the presence of the Lord and I knew I was being taught and had an understanding I never had before. It was very scary at first because I had so much fear and trembling. I for the first time knew that Heaven and Hell was real. I remember the day that I first believed and it was last May. I left my career to stay home after my daughter was born because I had always told God as a non believer that even though I did not want children if I ever had a child I would do it to the very best of my ability and for him. I know that sounds weird but I thought I believed in God before but I didn't truly believe until Jesus came and the Holy Spirit entered me. It has been a challenging season for me at times because once you become a child of God and he sets you free the fight gets fierce. The level of deceit gets different and it has been hard to not have a sister in Christ to check myself with sometimes we need that. I found your videos a few days ago and I cannot tell you the significant difference they have made to encourage my spirit and to help me find my role and embrace it. The Lord used you to reach me and grab me and secure me in my role as a mommy and a wife in my wall with Jesus Christ and I am so blessed because of it. I have been watching your videos when I have moments and can because I feel like you are my friend and sister in Christ and like we know each other. I just want you to know that I am very excited to continue to be encouraged by your walk with Christ and you are making a difference in the Kingdom of God. Glory to God! I am also very excited to try that non dairy non sugar creamer made with dates and coconut milk! Love you Sister blessings to you and your family and thank you so much for the service to our Lord an d Savoir Jesus Christ!
@jacquelinemelious8309
7 жыл бұрын
Happy Homelife thank you for reaching out I am excited I subscribed to your channell also! Yay God has blessed me so very much this week. God bless you Sister.
@crazyazmommy
7 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Melious , I am so happy for you that you found Christ! Yes the battle is real when you make Satan mad for getting saved. I'm so thankful for these lovely biblical ladies on KZitem , I have a little anxiety due probably to my extra awareness of the spiritual battle at play so I'm a bit anti social and I never in any way want to come off as stuck up I just feel so awkward and strange but it is so important to be there for each other as sisters in Christ. I pray you are doing well & the awesome thing is , we are a family & children of God & We will all meet in His presence someday! How amazing, until then, stay strong & be blessed
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