Me, personally when a man sincerely likes the woman and is inspiring to build a friendship it's a compliment, to that woman. Solely because that man values you, vs. Your body or finances. Also, its mutual that he wants to potentially date you long term. I adore this video, shining light on this topic!
@acharich
3 жыл бұрын
🚀🚀🚀
@CarmenGonzalez-ok7ek
3 жыл бұрын
This help me. Thanks
@ananya3718
3 жыл бұрын
needed to hear this
@ASAPJermz
Жыл бұрын
I do & I'm a marry her in 2025 💍💯🙏🏼
@OgonoArtFamily
5 жыл бұрын
Yup! Genuine friendship, and be open to other potential mates. If a friendship is established and people "expect" a "relationship in the future". it's not genuine & kills the natural flow. Embrace the dark and light side of our personas and work on ourselves. Be real/authentic , call out bullshit like you'd do to other friends. Express opinions, stories and emotions. No one should be placed on a pedestal. Relationships extend the happiness that exist within ourselves. Hug your guy friends, like your girl friends. Paradoxically, when people stop caring about it, become content and love yourself . That's when the magic happens. So walk the path of self-improvement. Some folks have never been in a genuine and deeply connected friendship and this can confuse people to be a negative thing. Awesome video, Josh and Sanah!
@acharich
3 жыл бұрын
Hmm.. 💭💭💭
@kadenpaulk774
7 жыл бұрын
She reminds me a little of brandy
@brodymuscle2407
4 жыл бұрын
Me and a women I met jumped right into dating and kind of fell way to hard way to fast and it completely backfired on not only her but ME. we didn’t get to learn about our flaws, our insecurities, and most importantly we didn’t get to understand each other on a PERSONAL LEVEL. We ended and it was the worst pain I felt because I genuinely cared about her so much and she means everything to me. So, we had a talk about 7 days after, and decided to be friends, and get to know each other on a personal level & really learn about one another. And all I can say is I’m so happy to have her in my life again. It’s something different and I feel like I don’t have to be pressured with her or worry about her 24/7 now but I get to laugh & be happy together while building something. 🙌🏼❤️
@slimli8067
4 жыл бұрын
This just made my smile after a long day of crying. I’m in the same situation
@ryandawson2877
4 жыл бұрын
That is great as long as the understanding is there that y’all might go for it again if that’s what your desire is. You don’t want there to be any confusion there. Know what I mean?
@acharich
3 жыл бұрын
😅🙏🏾
@canttouchthis421
2 жыл бұрын
This is truly heartfelt
@conniechoward
2 жыл бұрын
I love this. All the best.
@JoJo-xo6fh
Жыл бұрын
1 There is NO Pressure 2 friendship builds Respect 3 Find things in Common
@EricaCole1
4 жыл бұрын
I shared this video with my adult son because everything you said is absolutely true - and we are proof. Thanks for showing the younger generation the secret to long healthy relationships. -Message from a 28 year relationship of ups and downs but always remained each other's best friend ... where we were friends first. Friends (with no benefits) for 2 years, dated for 10, married the rest.
@lwhite474
4 жыл бұрын
Nice!!!!
@ryandawson2877
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I can see it both ways. I personally do not mind being friends first as long as I know that there is a possibility of the other. Some people want to keep you in the friend zone though and that’s where I don’t acquiesce if I am attracted to that person.
@bruceklein9917
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The friend zone is a rejection. If you have other women you know are displaying genuine interest in you then walking away from a "Let's just be friends" situation will be nothing for you to do. You are then a higher value man for not being a beta male orbiter giving her free attention.
@FabricatedUniverse
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing is permanent and with that attitude you’re not going to grow lol
@HerrenGamingNews
2 жыл бұрын
@@FabricatedUniverse I have alot of experience in the friendzone it never pans out, I've had so many girls say to me "I wish I could find a man just like you!" So I make my advance and they say "oh, no you're like a little brother to me." I'm with Ryan mostly, even if they say it'll turn into something more I just tell them to come find me when they're ready otherwise you're just there to stroke her ego.
@johnbehneman1546
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. When you have basic friendship nobody has to "perform". We just show up and be ourselves. I love to learn and grow, and I seek the same. I want to help my friend achieve her goals and dreams as well. Whatever they may be.
@HASSANAH
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you were able to benefit from this video! I like your take it on 👍🏽
@joelswe86
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys so much for doing this!!!! I am 32 and I have never had it been told this way. I have a bad romantic track record but I know that I am willing to change for the better. I will be listening to this quite often!!! God bless you both!!!!
@HASSANAH
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@biblelovingirl
6 жыл бұрын
I love this, especially the part about abstinence💕. I'm saving sex till marriage☺
@DavidBadger-nq2hm
8 күн бұрын
I am too I was taught that way to save sex from marriage
@pinoy122793
6 жыл бұрын
I agree with this 100%. Establish a friendship first, and then see if it can become a relationship. Be confident and a good person and it will come.
@CarmenGonzalez-ok7ek
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Kstretch271
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know why people think that you can be somebody best friend in a relationship. It doesn't exist. Because once you in a relationship. There are things you can't speak on once you are with somebody. A friendship doesn't have sex with they friends. So therefore a friend can never ever have jealous emotions. Or get bad at they friend. If they friend talks about other people outside of themselves. In a relationship no man wants to hear a lady talking about other guys all day. Or hearing his girlfriend or wife talking about this guy this. And this guy that. Only a female can tell a friend anything. But she can't tell her significant other everything. Unless it's about them learning each other. You feel me. People be trying to hard to fit in to societal ways of looking into things. Just because the most of the world 🌎 says y'all suppose to be Best friends first. Doesn't make that statement true. You heard.
@youtubecommenter1000
2 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t exist for you! You’re definition of friendship is flawed.
@TyraHigh
6 жыл бұрын
Absti.... 😫😩😣😔 new for me and i value but changing the habit is challenging
@nricotv2118
6 жыл бұрын
i just hope taking it slow doesnt drive the girl away 😂
@ezblends516
4 жыл бұрын
S A S S O O N taking it slow won’t ruin ones that have the potential to be great it ruins those that are nothing but pain and misery
@Tay-bo2rv
3 жыл бұрын
The best thing you can do for yourself is never be afraid to walk away or to get into something that may not work out . No reward without risk and if a relationship doesn’t stick it’s probably not what your looking for
@episodechan
3 жыл бұрын
well, I can say from personal experience that it can drive her away in terms of wanting a romantic relationship for a very long time, sometimes even perminantly, but it can make your friendship bond stronger, if she changes her mind at a later point, and decides to be friends that can possibly happen, but she might choose to be with other people first, you may end up seeing her with other people, or even married to someone else, in which case you may not end up with her at all, but it all depends, im just saying in my experience, ive never ended up with a woman ever, in any situation including the taking it slow and starting as friends
@ASAPJermz
Жыл бұрын
@@ezblends516 Best comment stated here.. 💯❤️
@brynleyjones2674
9 ай бұрын
I really appreciate your guys' perspective on this. So many people don't have the patience or even basic understanding of the benefits of building a friendship. I think the main fear, which is valid, is the risk of really only seeing the other person as a platonic friend after having built a friendship, and not taking things further. It is complicated, but if mutual respect is built, there doesn't have to be resentment and bitterness if things don't work out.
@Official-bo8vs
6 жыл бұрын
Y’all need to respond to y’all fans 😭 no 🧢
@auburnjade8153
5 жыл бұрын
He looks like Luke James. 😳😳
@acharich
4 жыл бұрын
A lil.. haha
@lynniedavis7803
7 жыл бұрын
LMFAAOO Why Am IDyin Watchin This 😂😂😂😂
@hannahosborne6264
6 жыл бұрын
A guy suggested that we are better off starting off as friends first because I wasn't relaxed? I agree that friends would be nice first but don't we just say friends if we only see them as a friend? X
@laurabarnes541
4 жыл бұрын
I'm having this problem too. Trying to take it easy and see what happens but I'm scared he'll friendzone me... I guess it's good that he's texting me everyday? It's hard not to overthink it xx
@stirry22
4 жыл бұрын
Laura Barnes what’s the latest ? Did you guys become more than friends?
@Tay-bo2rv
3 жыл бұрын
You can still flirt and show interest but keep a understanding the more y’all communicate the better
@dimitrescucrncevic9746
3 жыл бұрын
@@laurabarnes541 you allow the World to dictate your thinking, that’s sad. The friendzone is not real, and is a made up concept in society. Express your feelings to him, sooner than later. Narcissistic people only would believe in some b.s like that.
@episodechan
3 жыл бұрын
@@dimitrescucrncevic9746 the friend zone is real, its where one person wants to be more than friends and the other doesn't, because some people who have friend zoned someone have change their minds later, it means that the person who is in the friend zone wouldn't know if they would be able to be more than friends at some point in their life, but at the same time they wouldn't be able to count on it, because in many ways when someone says they see you as only a friend, it is a rejection of romance, however, it shouldn't be a term used to blame people for not reciprocating those romantic feelings, and not everyone who gets friend zoned blames anyone for the situation, because like I was saying, the friend zone is a term given to friends, but only one of them wants to be more than friends and has romantic feelings
@Leeohlin89
4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video! Thank you for sharing the importance of this subject. You both radiate beautifully off of each other by the way! 🙏🏼🌸
@LenaNelsonMusic
7 жыл бұрын
Best video I found about this! U guys rock
@HASSANAH
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@DavidBadger-nq2hm
8 күн бұрын
I'm glad that I saw this video because it helps me out a lot that I'm but it's specially because I'm stepping into the dating life and I'm in a relationship right now I just got in one and learning how to be a friends
@brumbybailey6599
4 жыл бұрын
entirely beside the point, but you two make such a beautiful picture. Pure art!
@ryandawson2877
4 жыл бұрын
But maybe we should spread this message and peoples mindsets can be changed so that we do not have to be so one-dimensional.
@LonerBecause
5 жыл бұрын
She do remind me of Brandy! Y'all both nice looking ppl.
@devohnmitchell
5 жыл бұрын
the only catch to this is, is Very Very Rarely can a man in the friendzone get out the friendzone. Not many men can come out the friendzone. if the woman sees you as friends only that indicates low physical attraction
@Ancestorsofmusic
5 жыл бұрын
But attraction can grow over time
@bruceklein9917
4 жыл бұрын
I agree. When a woman says she wants to be friends it is a rejection, not a genuine offer of friendship. The idiot beta guy will then go "so you're saying there's a chance?" and become an orbiter giving her free attention
@bruceklein9917
4 жыл бұрын
@@Ancestorsofmusic That only happens in romantic comedys. Or when a woman gets off the carousel, is "done with all the bad boys" and is ready to settle down with the best beta guy she can find and he thinks his ship has come in.
@bruceklein9917
4 жыл бұрын
@@Ancestorsofmusic That only happens in romantic comedys. Or when a woman hits 30, is "done with all the bad boys" and wants to get off the carousel because her sexual market value is declining and the beta friend-in-waiting thinks his ship has come in.
@bruceklein9917
3 жыл бұрын
@TravelingDiva2018 No, I'm not bitter. This is the harsh reality of the dating world that more men especially need to understand. Fortunately men are waking up and unlearning that old way of thinking.
@loveneverends9605
6 жыл бұрын
💯👌🏽and love the humor too!
@SalsaHuevos
6 жыл бұрын
Straight facts @ 5:34
@nicpezzy
4 ай бұрын
Love the watch
@voltagemotowerks
2 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome 🙏🏽❣️I been dong it all wrong all this time 🤦🏻♂️now I know better!
@Amazingday22
6 жыл бұрын
Great advice thank you
@bob102ful
2 жыл бұрын
Would you be Able to give a timeframe as a guideline, to being friends prior?
@annabanzon313
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! If a person can't keep a friendship long term then how can that same person keep a relationship?
@simplysaffie4707
7 жыл бұрын
Lol aww your both so cute, beautiful advice Pbta goals! 💕✨🙏🏾
@HASSANAH
7 жыл бұрын
PBTA Thanks sis!!
@budgetrebelgoals
5 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@justynak3867
3 жыл бұрын
But how do you stay in that friends mentality when you are head over heels?
@justynak3867
3 жыл бұрын
When you say friends and get to know them, do you mean not to have deeper feelings or deeper thoughts about them being more?
@abibayussif1274
4 жыл бұрын
Tanks guys
@cuteandfluffypikachu3405
4 жыл бұрын
The guy I like always messages me all day every day even at work he even spent $40 on a game that I told him about a week ago just so we can play together we are long distant we have had intermit convosations with each other that we’re personal private stuff about each other but we both have come out of a heartbreaking break up and I’m scared we aren’t gonna feel the same due to rebound
@cregal529
4 жыл бұрын
Part 2!!!
@mariangelonsurez7152
6 жыл бұрын
Cute couple- good advice!
@itzdavidokay6613
6 жыл бұрын
Nam sayin
@darylwhite2229
7 жыл бұрын
Love what your doing😍
@HASSANAH
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@NRLJAY
4 жыл бұрын
Needed this. Feel it may save the relationship i have my sons mother.
@CarmenGonzalez-ok7ek
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@alicialandrum2048
3 жыл бұрын
Agree with this 100 percent
@aniabrandt7
2 жыл бұрын
Josh is very honest as a man. U r lucky woman Hassanah
@HASSANAH
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the love 💛
@ehiskhaleradio
6 жыл бұрын
Cool
@abdullahmadawi3429
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your advice
@nimritjohal4252
4 жыл бұрын
factss
@Camila-im9ws
3 жыл бұрын
the out of the box farewell song 😂
@HASSANAH
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@rbell643
5 жыл бұрын
That Out of the Box intro tho lol
@beautifuldreama8714
6 жыл бұрын
Great Video
@vixentv3530
5 жыл бұрын
This is great
@mcgyverb1664
6 жыл бұрын
Good video.
@karettearmstrong647
6 жыл бұрын
Can you be friends with a guy who have a baby mother two kids living with
@cuteboysss
2 жыл бұрын
Wow I feel lucky to have found this video at the right time. The lady ive been talking too said she wants to hang out as friends. After watching this video and reading the comments, it all makes sense now. I have to get to know her and let her feelings for me grow.
@HASSANAH
2 жыл бұрын
So grateful this video gave you clarity. The foundation to relationships are so important 🙏🏽
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