Mom says it's my turn to do the timestamps: 0:00 brutal - Olivia Rodrigo 2:26 Are You Satisfied? - Marina and the Diamonds 5:42 Oh No! - Marina and the Diamonds 8:45 Cry Baby - Melanie Martinez 12:45 Class of 2013 (Audiotree Live Version) - Mitski 14:58 burned out - dodie 18:28 i need to be alone - girl in red 21:25 Sorry Haha I Fell Asleep - Egg 24:04 I Promise I'm Trying - cavetown 28:20 Young - VACATIONS 31:25 Look Who's Inside Again - Bo Burnham 32:47 Better Than Me - The Brobecks
@rcinbowrain6398
2 жыл бұрын
Yes it's its Ur turn 🕺
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
timestamps ppl always doing god's work
@ellieee1215
2 жыл бұрын
thaaaank youuuu sm✨🦋
@flighz9082
2 жыл бұрын
@@zazu2006 PFFFFTTT
@meddlesome-
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think Better Than Me is on my gifted kid playlist yet... and I call myself a Brobecks fan smh
@potchi4396
2 жыл бұрын
they labeled me as a gifted kid and now I have to carry these expectations that I have to reach.
@potchi4396
2 жыл бұрын
it's just honestly tiring.
@rynnslife07
2 жыл бұрын
Same, I hope you are feeling better today! I had taken a "gifted kid" quiz in school around second grade and I have been in gifted classes since, it's horrible.
@HamsterWitch
2 жыл бұрын
@@rynnslife07 same thing, second grade quiz I didn’t really didn’t ask for, hating the gt system *crying noises* this is so relatable
@aleeyatrisha2327
2 жыл бұрын
um why did i cry over this comment
@Evangeline_elf
2 жыл бұрын
Are you ok?
@singlebich8846
2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who regrets discovering things that make me happy? Cause before, I was a top student and now I'm rock bottom
@sincerelymaya
2 жыл бұрын
this is so relatable it hurts
@saveyuhuix
2 жыл бұрын
why is this relatable??
@itsajx7875
2 жыл бұрын
As soon as I got good friends who I love hanging out with, my grades and the rest of my life has just gone downhill
@evelove879
2 жыл бұрын
Gods yeah. At the beginning of last year I was so strict with myself and really unhappy but found good friends and great hobbies and obsessions and started achieving less toward the end of the year after being the first person to achieve all these great academic things in just 8th grade. It kinda sucked but at least I know myself a bit better now.
@paupau069
2 жыл бұрын
Why is this so relatable? i realized it way too late that the pressures i had when i'm the top student was just from myself and my own standards back then and thinking that people expects way too much from me when i'm the one who expected so much in what i should achieve. Right now, i'm happy with just going with the flow and taking things on my on pace. I hope you could do that too!
@justkay233
2 жыл бұрын
gifted burnt-out kid starter pack ;))) 15+ missing assignments staying up till 3 am sleeping in till 1 pm this playlist prob has a calorie counter how are those anger issues panning out for ya? flipping between apathy and crying till you can't breathe 💅 mommy/daddy issues ex best friend for a little spice would have straight As if late deduction didn't exist kinda has vine energy?? addiction to lofi cause it makes us feel "productive" new hyper fixation every day do i wanna die or have i just sat in front of my laptop for 10 hours only reads fanfic and fast paced books wants to make a difference but can't even get outa bed have some more depression memes luv "idc if i fail school is a construct lol" "if i don't get an A someone will literally shoot me" "WHY CAN'T I JUST WRITE THE ESSAY” edit: wow i’m speechless so many of you have the same issues as i did. recovery is difficult but if i could pull thru then so can you. i’m so sorry the school system and possibly your parents have failed you. you’re bright and talented and still just as smart as you once were praised for being. the difference is your curiosity and love of life has since expired. you have to reclaim it. you have to take it back and pull yourself out of this hellish cycle. you can do it. it’s in your capability. i’m so proud of you all
@gisellec2056
2 жыл бұрын
welp this hit too fucking close to home
@lydiajane9102
2 жыл бұрын
I've never related so hard
@seinielisa
2 жыл бұрын
there's no way you just got all of that right HAHAAHA
@justanotherpersononyt5532
2 жыл бұрын
How’d you just describe me?? This is so accurate Edit: nah because when I’m writing an essay I go: “WHY CAN I WRITE A 1K WORD FANFIC AND NOT WRITE A 750 WORD ESSAY??”
@newgirl8494
2 жыл бұрын
STOP STOP! I AM ALL OF THESE UGHHHHHHHHH. I FEEL CALLED OUUUUUUUUTTTTTTT.
@hearts444katie
2 жыл бұрын
burnt out gifted kid checklist -Anger issues -full-time procrastinator -people are calling you a nerd so you try to pretend not to care about school and now you're failing -Going to bed at 12AM + -Waking up at 1PM + -staying up all night -Quieter -Failed test -Giving up on math -living on the internet -trying to start drama bc i'm basic and a nobody -"KILL ME, but wait until I finish this video" -can't focus anymore -lost motivation to be enough -not enough for trying -new hyper fixation/obsession every day -VERY socially awkward -strict parents who expect A+ -random breakdowns because I'm so dumb -random bursts of happiness that last for a couple hours -mood swings -fake scenarios -obsessing on trying to be perfect -comparing myself to plastic people -beating myself up because i don't have the intelligence of a Harvard student -just wanting to give up -only a few people who keep you going -LOST ALL THEIR FRIENDS:
@zari_110
2 жыл бұрын
*checks everything*
@elaravienna9334
2 жыл бұрын
I guess, we're all the same
@xoxroses3136
2 жыл бұрын
Ye
@esterfederico0906
2 жыл бұрын
I wasn't expecting to be called out like this while listening to music.
@jenn0613
2 жыл бұрын
accurate :(
@krizcruz3
2 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is I know that I wasn't even really gifted. The label was just plastered on me because I happen to have some good grades during my early school years, but the truth is there were many kids who were far smarter than me at the time. I just happened to be the "smart kid" in my hometown. The moment I stepped out of my comfort zone and went to a school in a different city was the moment I realized just how mediocre I was. Just a li'l vent: My mental health rapidly declined back in 8th grade. At the time, I was still the top student in my new school, but I started to feel symptoms of burnout. It became worse in 9th grade due to other personal drama happening outside of school. I still maintained straight A grades while studying advanced subjects but I fell off the top rankings because I constantly felt tired. My family turned their backs on me, made me break up with my boyfriend, cut me off from my friends, and even threatened to move me to a different school. They never stopped to ask how I felt and why I turned out that way (to be fair, I never learned how to express myself to them either and I didn't know what "burnout" is). A few years later, they stopped putting as much pressure on me to get into the top 10. Whether it is out of genuine concern or loss of hope in me, I have no idea. What I do know is *I* never stopped putting myself under pressure. I trapped myself into thinking that my worth is attached to quantitative means alone, whether it is academic grades, fake internet points, or something as trivial as video game scores. I constantly compare and criticize myself along with those around me. Although, yes, I'm hoping to change that mindset, it's hard to do that consistently when I'm still ridden with self-doubt, envy, and anxiety on a daily basis. Music, art, and my really small circle of friends are the only things keeping me sane 'til this day.
@happieeepenguin5319
2 жыл бұрын
even i have the same problem, back in middle skool, i had good grades, but as i entered high skool, my grades began to fall badly. i constatly question what do i do with this life. like there's no such thing in the world which i can say that i'm good at it. there's no such thing that i can say, that i love it and can spend hours doinng it. studies have been pressurising a bit, but still, i find my way to procastination. but i'm still trying to get better, maybe that's the way, we can come out of this thought process... hope you stay sane and keep going
@krizcruz3
2 жыл бұрын
@@happieeepenguin5319 I hope you'll find your true calling as well It's hard to find it when you've been too focused with aimlessly studying for years, but once you let go of your expectations for yourself, you'll realize just how good you can be at things outside of academics. Good luck ❤️
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
the fear of being average is such a prominent thing in the gifted kid community
@flovarra
2 жыл бұрын
Same! I aslo don't know whether I am a gifted kid or not. I had some good grades during my early school until mid uni years, and then my grades and my eager to study are gradually declining I am writing my graduation thesis right now while reading your comment and already late by 1 semester to graduate normally (I am in 9th semester currently). I don't know I am a gifted kid or not but obviously I burned out right now :((
@chuu_chan
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people always are jealous of people being called the "gifted kid" but actually for us gifted kids, it's very pressurous, trying to keep up to the expectations of people. Honestly it wasn't too bad in primary school, but when it's middle school it just became like a crown you have to keep on your head so you won't make them lose faith and hope in you. We all are burnout by aimlessly studying without having a real goal in life. I'm pretty sure some of us have identity crisis somewhere in our lives. Hope every gifted kid stay positive and live out of all those high expectation for yourself. Don't let people's high standards for you make you fall, because remember, you're living for youself, not for them.
@aftergow4992
2 жыл бұрын
Literally I fit the exact description of burned out gifted kid- -I always stress over unfinished work -always procrastinate even though the work is in front of me -stay up very late working on work but I barely get anything down -gets mostly A and A+’s -extreme social anxiety -anger issues -cries over dumb things -listening to this playlist It’s nice to have people to relate to :)
@applepie2193
2 жыл бұрын
Well my friend I found you as my alike
@SHSL_BOMB_INVENTOR
2 жыл бұрын
s a m e,,,
@Chandra-sv2qe
2 жыл бұрын
I resisted crying over small things bc I hated crying and being sensitive and now I can't cry even I want to and the extreme social anxiety is soo relatable wow
@jaithunbi2359
2 жыл бұрын
Found a spirit animal 😩
@raffaelefrau9789
2 жыл бұрын
Sir that's not you that's me
@vaishalisingh6353
2 жыл бұрын
not to sound sadistic but i love the comment section. i feel understood and validated because now i know it's not just me who went through this.i feel like a failure while once i was the perfect star kid but whatever . i hope we all make it through.
@elderwool6510
2 жыл бұрын
this
@lemmyseyohelo2543
2 жыл бұрын
me too, it was hard for me to relate to other people but seeing the comment section is so comforting.
@artificialgoodness
2 жыл бұрын
It's not sadistic to realize you're not alone. Hope you make it through whatever it is that's not ok in your life
@everleychr7278
2 жыл бұрын
same. I used to be so perfect. perfect grades one of the best schools in the country always so smart. and now I barely went to school the last year. I have anxiety and depression and I'm trying to find myself. I feel like a failure.
@siaanand2189
2 жыл бұрын
yuh CHEERS TO US!
@Limerant_Evangeline
Жыл бұрын
Definition. Gifted Kid: Someone who lives a life of being told they’re smart as a child, and has the hardest time once they get older.
@jackkain
2 жыл бұрын
I met a guy who struggled a lot with his mental state, he was basically the blueprint of the perfect student: Straight A's, perfect skin, flawless hair, nice personality, big friend group, teachers loved him, all that jazz. One day I remember going to my classroom early in the day to drop off a project and I saw him crying in a corner, I walked up to him and asked him what happened and he just shoved a test on my chest and continued crying, he got a big fat C+ and the teacher left a "What happened? You did so well before" note under it. To me it wasn't too bad, I got C's before and didn't mind them a lot, but what he said next almost made me break down. He looked at me and said "I was doing so well..", I couldn't say anything, I just kinda hugged him while he cried it all out. He then asked if he could show me something and I said yeah, he pulled out a piece of paper from his bag and showed it to me, it was drenched in pen ink with words like "I could've done better" "I did so well" "Why am I such an idiot", he then said "I didn't know what else to do", I don't remember much but I think I took him to the principal and made an excuse that he had thrown up and needed to go back home or something along those lines. We're pretty close now, he's in therapy and talks to me everyday, I'm happy he's doing better but god I feel bad for the poor dude...
@simbathedog2249
2 жыл бұрын
Now i’m crying, hope he’s doing much better now, wishing for the best
@acrylliang
2 жыл бұрын
you’re a genuinely amazing person for being there for him. i really hope he’s okay
@minad.5411
2 жыл бұрын
"what happened?" is the most painful thing to hear. The thing is you know everything kept crumbling down and have been asking that same question but you all you can do is watch it fall. "What happened?" a simple question that holds more questions. It's a question you have been asking before anyone ask yet holds no answer. ok sorry for the dump. I just have been on the same situation
@kzy7923
Жыл бұрын
i wish i had someone like you
@suhanidubey8034
Жыл бұрын
Ok now i am in same situation as that boy 😭😭😭
@valle5613
2 жыл бұрын
I never was a gifted child, I just had a passion for learning and found most things easy. Then my mental health went to shit, and I found that enjoying the things you were once passionate about whilst being depressed is a bit harder than I originally thought. I've always been told the same "you could do better, you have a lot of potential" shit, but I don't think I'll ever reach that potential I supossedly have. Idk lol Edit: I'm now so much worse than when I posted this lmao Edit 2: I'm actually better now, still have some stuff that I need to work on, but things can get better.
@finalspace297
2 жыл бұрын
What’s stopping you from taking control go jump in the cold shower fully dressed what’s stopping you take control it’s your world start thinking like that
@aaaduccs6667
2 жыл бұрын
omfg yes. Because I love to try new things and pick up on things easily, it's like an expectation for me to excel in everything I try. I'm not considered gifted, but i always hear the "you have alot of potential, if only you tried", I'm so fucking tired of that as well, I just want to run away from everything, I even made plans to fake my death and run away to Japan and be a farmer in some small town lmao.
@edwardbrown3721
2 жыл бұрын
That's precisely what most burnt out gifted kids are, the good thing about the Internet is that you're never alone
@mofthemoth5755
2 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@Mr.misterr
2 жыл бұрын
THE SAME WITH ME!!! My mental health's shit but idk what is it, it's hard to solve a problem when you dont know what the problem is..
@gigi-jv3lv
2 жыл бұрын
I have a girl in my class who fits the gifted kid description, but i'm pretty sure she's burned out because of all her responsibilities; she's vice president of the student council, she's the class president (we have that in our school) she's the leader of most of the group projects she's done, and she plays many different instruments and tries way too many things. I wish i could send this to her but i don't want to get close to her that much because she's kinda extroverted and could easily call me out which would make me popular at some sort (she's the person that's like, when you hear her name it somehow sounds like a personality trait, like if you say "oh you're like ____ you would know exactly what they mean ???) I hope she's doing well 5 months later: ok look i dont want to sound like those "MOM IM FAMOUS" people but ty and i hope everyones okayyy and to the girl im talking abt if you're reading this hi i hope youre okay sorry if i offended u in this comment idk please rest if you need to and enjoy ur summer
@eyluldeniz_y
2 жыл бұрын
that one is so relatable. i mean, everybody talks about my talents, success and intelligence. but that just makes me more and more stressful. they dont know how hard i try to make them proud, how hard i try to make them NOT dissappointed. to make them satisfied. they dont know somedays i cant even eat or even drink water because i dont have enough time. they dont know i even study when i stay in hospital. i love people and life, but im so burned out. sometimes i just want to die or punish myself for not being able to do better. i just wanna feel worthy, not because of my exam grades but for being myself. sorry if my comment bothers you, i just related to it so much and wanted to write it down.
@juliaagunos6959
2 жыл бұрын
I relate so much. I am having the same trouble like hers. It's hard but I love my job and responsibilities in the school but it's exhausting sometimes.
@xavierclaretime5441
2 жыл бұрын
it is horrible because when you fail people go "oh." like your going to start crying.
@SapieEna
2 жыл бұрын
no offense, but that is none of your business. she could be happy doing so many things or she could be burnt out and if she doesnt want to open up about it then dont force her to. ask her if shes ok
@clementine9830
2 жыл бұрын
Same, one of my closest friends is like this. She tries so hard in everything and puts 100% of effort in whatever she is working on and she succeeds tremendously, her sister (who is only a year younger than her) is similar but is going down a more rebellious path compared to my friend. She’s a really cool person and was very popular till she moved, (I lived in an area where people would come and go a lot) at first I found her extremely intimidating and at times I still do but most of the time i want to tell her to just sit down and take a break, and not try so hard all the time because eventually you will get burnt out. (Which has happened from time to time) she has a breathing condition and has to use an inhaler, I used to walk with her to the bus every morning for school and every morning i would always remind her to bring her inhaler, sometimes she acts like she doesn’t need it and it makes her feel weak. I wouldn’t know how that would feel since i dont use one but i wish she would take care of herself better, she wants to be an engineer for NASA and i 100% believe that she could do it.
@nobodyisnobody200
Жыл бұрын
When people call you a gifted kid but no one acknowledges how much work you put in
@eyepie
Жыл бұрын
PLEASE- ;-;
@alishakazi8317
Жыл бұрын
Istg that's the worst
@hoangkhanh4829
11 ай бұрын
i hate when ppl stick me with "smart" for granted
@nsuauab
11 ай бұрын
"U r a good kid...it must be easy for u"....no dude i worked hard to make it seem easy🙂
@bhoomikavkashyap3992
10 ай бұрын
I swear to God, that is the worst thing possible. They do not care to know about the amount of effort I had to put to get those grades or the amount of sleep I lost trying to keep them up
@hyrishwasacharacter
2 жыл бұрын
People's satisfaction is really scary, once you achieve something you worked hard for they expect more and more until your just doing everything so that you won't hear the "I'm not angry with you, I'm just disappointed" my family is just like this
@studentmd5903
2 жыл бұрын
true their expectations rises so high that I dont even get time check on myself they never appreciate and only hate
@danirosa3804
2 жыл бұрын
I get that.
@velapatinobenitomarisolgua6895
2 жыл бұрын
I relate
@littlemouse2686
2 жыл бұрын
If you dont try, they will be impressed in little things like not failing. :)
@flitefulwantssubs402
2 жыл бұрын
@@studentmd5903 fr, i never appreciate my work or talents. only hate myself for my apparent failures or the mistakes i make
@luna_balloona09
2 жыл бұрын
i read at one year old. i got 100% on every single spelling test in elementary. i won the spelling bee most (if not every) year. i've won the school essay contest 3 times; i actually went onto state once. i'd read at least 3 books in the span of 2 days. i've never really had to try. but then middle school rolled around and everything went downhill. i hate myself because i'm so lazy and i'm such a procrastinator. i try to convince myself i'm trying but i'm really not. and my attention span became that of a goldfish. i'm not used to trying. edit: bro i had no idea there were SO many people who felt the same way
@GrilledCheeseLover11
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has won a lot of stuff ( like you with reading but with art ) It’s a lot to deal with and I’m sorry you have to go through that, it’s super hard to keep up with school and even harder with a big change. But just know that it will get easier, just don’t go to hard on yourself and push yourself
@Violokolik
2 жыл бұрын
*nervous laughter* stop calling these people out hahaha *laughs as in way to relatable*
@alshuki3478
2 жыл бұрын
It's hard actually trying to get back into the things you used to love so much. I'd love writing and drawing when I was younger, like when I was8 to 10. But with all my parents expectations I kind of dropped them as I was forced to be the really good smart girl, and provided I'm in the highest classes of my school my life is kind of falling apart. I've tried bringing up what I think is wrong to me with my parents and they just shove it away, heck I didn't even have friends until recently because I had no time for friends when I was younger. So really, I understand where you're coming from. Because really I'm not used to trying anymore.
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
that last part hits so hard
@Person_number_10
2 жыл бұрын
@@em111ya same
@victorial3588
2 жыл бұрын
I used to be "the best" my teachers would flood my mom with good remarks for me "she's going places" "she has a bright future ahead of her" "you should be proud of your child"...and here i am now, last year of high-school, not having any plans to go to college, struggling to pass my classes since I never study because of my deteriorating mental health...I feel tired of it all and in the same time disappointed of myself for being "wasted potential" (sometimes I wonder if there even was any potential...)To all the people who may be going through something similar, i hope we all get through this together ❤
@lilablau4560
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, f*ck potential. That doesn't matter anyways. What does potential get you besides those stupid expectations?! I've been struggling with the whole "can't waste my potential" BS. I started studying maths at uni because that's what I thought was good for me. I'm good at maths and logic and like solving puzzles. It's a demanding path most would fail. But "I'm gifted" so I won't fail..I liked the idea of being that person. But then I struggled. Not because I was failing my classes actually. But because I tried to be someone i am not. To this day I'm still struggling to tell apart the things I like, the things I'm "supposed to like/be" and the things I would like to like and be good at. So yeah. I'm not really qualified to give advice cuz I'm still in that phase of figuring stuff out. But what I regret not having done is first of all, of course not looking enough at what I actually spend my free time with. What kinds of videos I watch. What I talk about a lot. Etc. Not trying enough stuff before starting uni. Though all that probably won't help you. On the other hand, I'll give you tips you probably don't want and maybe don't even need but I'll give them to you anyways because they would have been useful to me. I don't know what country you're from but if your situation offers for you to do internships, please do them. Try as many things as you can to figure out what you want. I didn't do it because I was too anxious to ask companies & organize it. But it's worth so much. Some other things that are possible in some countries that you could look into are a year off with work and travel, au-pair, a social year (though that's very specific). They give you a ton of experience and time to deal with yourself and what you want. If you plan on going to uni, you could try looking into special courses that allow you to first take general courses so you don't need to decide on a specific major right from the start. Also, if you decide on the wrong thing, don't worry. Maybe you can switch to the right thing immediately. But if not, there's always another way later on. You'll work for probably 40+ years. That's a ton if time to figure out where you wanna go with your career and how to get there. Even changing your career multiple times isn't a problem. I've heard of so many relatives that started doing one thing and now they're somewhere completely different. Just don't be afraid of making mistakes or of trying something new. Try stuff. Make mistakes. Experiment. Don't commit crimes. And get to know yourself. I wish you the best of luck and don't stress yourself too much over it
@lilablau4560
2 жыл бұрын
Also. Please be kind to yourself. You are precious. And please don't be too hard on yourself. You are enough just the way you are. What I said are just suggestions. They aren't meant to stress you out further. If you don't wanna do them or if you would like to do a thing but don't feel ready to. That's okay. Some day. Or not. One step at a time. You will find your passion some day. One way or another
@victorial3588
2 жыл бұрын
@@lilablau4560 omg thank you so much for taking time out of your day to tell me this( i found your advice very motivating and helpful), it really does mean A LOT to me.. I'm going through a rough time and you honestly made my day! I hope you have a wonderful day/night ❤
@gabbygab3449
2 жыл бұрын
what a mood. i hope you feel better soon. you deserve the best.
@flitefulwantssubs402
2 жыл бұрын
i also had adults and teachers always say "you're going places" yada yada, i feel like wasted potential, and then i wonder if i had any at all. i still have mostly a's but the fact that they're not all a's feels like a failure in itself, stupid, i know, but i think other "gifted" kids can relate. i hate calling myself gifted too, but that's what they labeled us
@gracy7508
2 жыл бұрын
im not even gifted. ive always worked soo damn hard to get everything ive or everything i get. everyone's like " damn she's so lucky. " like no bro i worked freakin hard for that shit. i stayed up for months to get that. it's not ✨luck✨ it's HARDWORK
@yogstheyogurt
2 жыл бұрын
hate when they say "luck" instead of hard exhausting depressing work. if it was luck, why was it SO HARD to achieve?
@momsspaghetti1645
2 жыл бұрын
@@yogstheyogurt no but fr :|
@sophs.things7390
2 жыл бұрын
I got top grade on my science exams and everyone is like wow your so lucky your so clever but when we teacher asked who did the most revision I did I put in the hours of hard work to get these grades
@danirosa3804
2 жыл бұрын
So I have nobody else to ask about this, all the people around me are like me, lazy and unmotivated when it comes to studying, so I have nobody else to ask, but, How can you guys study so hard? How do you get what you want? How do you guys bring yourself’s to be disciplined? I admire you guys for working hard, I wish I could be like that, But if I’m being honest and pretty shameless(sorry), where do you guys begin? How does it work? How does it feel?
@momsspaghetti1645
2 жыл бұрын
@@danirosa3804 I sometimes find it hard to just begin YK, but here are some things I think and do. 1. If you can sit alone in class, just do it or sit next to someone who doesn't distract you. Maybe people are going to think you're asocial, but actually, that doesn't matter because people will judge you no matter what you do. :) 2. NO ELECTRONICS in your workspace. They will only distract you. They are only allowed when needed, so once you're done, put them away! 3. Always remember that studying is something you MUST AND NEED to do and you can't choose whether you do it or not. 4. I try to study for like 5 minutes or something after I arrived home. I think it is better, or otherwise, you may be distracted for a long time and start studying too late. 5. Set a goal and work towards your goal. I think the path towards your goal is really important, so plan it all out! It's very important to set a goal and work towards it. :) 6. ACT LIKE YOU'RE THE MAIN CHARACTER IN A MOVIE OR SERIES for example ACT LIKE YOU'RE RORY GILMORE OR IDK HERMIONE :) THIS HAS HELPED ME A LOT! 7. VISUALISE YOURSELF GETTING THE GRADES YOU WANT. REALLY TRY TO FEEL WHAT YOU'LL FEEL WHEN YOU HAVE THE GRADES YOU'VE WANTED FOR SO LONG AND WORKED REALLY HARD FOR. 8. Remember you can achieve EVERYTHING you want, but ofc you need to put the effort in and work very hard. Things that distract you, only give you satisfaction for a short period and the goals you achieve will give you satisfaction for a long period. 9. Exercise bc when you exercise, your heart rate increases. When this happens, there will be pumped more oxygen to the brain. It aids the release of hormones which provide an excellent environment for the growth of brain cells. It also promotes brain plasticity by stimulating the growth of new connections between cells in many important cortical areas of the brain. THESE TIPS MAY NOT WORK FOR EVERYONE, BUT YEAH THEY HELP ME THO. JUST TRY IT OUT
@Sofics126
2 жыл бұрын
more than gifted i was the good daughter bc i was 11 but so "mature", intelligent and so good with her parents. I used to think that too until I just realize I was anxious that if i did something they didn't like they would start screaming at me like they did everytime they argued
@gh0stk0i31
2 жыл бұрын
umm- relatable to a dark and truthful point....
@cheetah3036
2 жыл бұрын
Well shi- Didn't think I could relate to a single comment so much- o.O
@carrol3385
2 жыл бұрын
Relatable😶
@mcuobsession
2 жыл бұрын
same and im still like this :/
@xeriiza
2 жыл бұрын
why am i in ur comment TT
@traveltheodyssey
2 жыл бұрын
As a burned out gifted kid, I say this playlist is accurate- Good playlist dude, love it
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
this comment section is like a breeding ground for burnt-out and not-yet-burnt-out gifted kids
@Person_number_10
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@nemor9596
2 жыл бұрын
@@em111ya right
@nemor9596
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you dude
@legsea
2 жыл бұрын
same here
@tiellalauren5823
2 жыл бұрын
You ever get to that point in burnout when you finally realize your struggling but you’ve ignored it for so long that there’s no way to fix it? When you’ve let yourself get to the point of being secretly depressed? Not realizing your depressed? And then it hits you; you are gone. Cause like, same Bestie
@alexandervanriet8737
2 жыл бұрын
Bestie?
@tiellalauren5823
2 жыл бұрын
@@alexandervanriet8737 bestie?
@HH-vv1qi
2 жыл бұрын
So far gone that there's nothing I can do about it. I'm drowning in my own guilt of not being able to hold good grades and keep them, drowning in the fact that I've been sucked into the world of academia at 14 and now I can't get myself out.
@tiellalauren5823
2 жыл бұрын
@@HH-vv1qi YES
@kaonashi07
2 жыл бұрын
Be patient with yourself, it really takes time to regain some energy after you worked so much but with rest, taking a step back and living slowly it will get better I hope
@lavanyaaaaa0802
2 жыл бұрын
I am a gifted kid but not yet burned out. Everything comes easy to me. So much so that memorizing a whole chapter in 20 minutes is like a game. But since middle school, I have become lazy and procrastinate a lot. I guess I just stopped caring at some point and wanted my parents to know that even I can fail at times. It is like once you set the bar too high, reaching it becomes THAT difficult. I usually spend my time doing art and journalling because I love those things. I am a gifted kid and I love being at the top. I love when I come first in my class. I don't want to be the burned out kid because I love the competition. I just hope it holds up. EDIT:- Hey! It's me. Five months later. I just came back to check on this comment and it's so nice to see that people are so supportive. Thanks all of you for telling me to take breaks and to not worry that much. Your comments always help me. It's also nice to see that I'm not the only one who feels like this. It's comforting to know that you aren't the only one struggling and that there are people out there who are fighting the same battles and trying to figure things out. To all of the people who read this comment and feel the same, here's a thing that I do whenever it all gets too much- I draw, listen to music, watch tv shows, read books, eat something etc. Just anything that calms me down and makes me feel more refreshed. Basically, i do the things that i LOVE. Things that don't feel like a chore or a necessity. It's good to have some things like that. It doesn't matter what they are, as long as you feel better. Don't try to study 24/7. Chat with your friends, binge watch tv shows and waste a lot of time on KZitem. These things are just as important as studying. I hope this helped you even a little bit! I will surely edit this comment 5 months later and come back with some more advice lol 🤣💞
@ann.joelle
2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing that you can manage to do all this ❤️ keep up with what you like and I hope your family and friends support you
@lavanyaaaaa0802
2 жыл бұрын
@@ann.joelle thanks a ton! It really helps me when people like you are so kind. I love my friends as they are very supportive and encourage me when I get good grades. I really love my family too as my older sister always tells me that sometimes it's ok to not be first. I am very grateful for your support as well as my family and friends. 💞✨
@philippezevenberg1332
2 жыл бұрын
I mean if you don't wanna go into a science-oriented field you will be able to keep good grades whilst spending lots of time journaling and drawing and find some competition. If that's not the case at least learn how to take notes properly and learn some studying habits now. Like zettlekasten or something. Also even if you think you are good at math pay special attention to logic, it will come up a lot. Here's a kirby: (>'-')>
@lavanyaaaaa0802
2 жыл бұрын
@@philippezevenberg1332 thanks!! Actually as much as I hate to admit it i really like biology. I hate to admit it because everyone in my family is always like "become a doctor" and blah blah. It kind of takes the fun out of it. Right now I'm pretty young so I have tons of time to choose my field. Also ur completely right about the math part. My sister is in her 1st year of college and taking math in 11th and 12th grade helped her a lot. Once again thanks for your advice as I will keep it in my mind ✨💞
@magalieghanem6440
2 жыл бұрын
I'm exactly like this but I spend my time writing I procrastinate alot but I'm still at the top of my class good to know there are ppl like me out there keep it up and just know it's okay to take a break
@theacecard119
Жыл бұрын
I was a "gifted kid" back then, my life was great at school. I had good grades, I had friends, the staff knew me, some of the teachers knew me. People knew me well. I always submitted my assignments on time or early. I had mostly perfect scores. I was on top, I was a perfect daughter, I was religious, I was "pretty" , I was "cute", I was smart, I was determined, I was a good kid. Until highschool started. I transferred to a new school, puberty happened, I didn't know anyone, I was failing, I was desperately trying to get back up, I was trying and tired not to be burnt out, I'm a mess, I can't keep up, I can't help like people hate me, I can't stop being a disappointment, I'm trying to help myself, I'm really trying to be better, I'm greatful to have friends that I have now, but sometimes I can't help think that they hate me. I'm nobody's favorite, that must sound narcissistic, but I feel like I'm always behind. Behind my friends, behind my brothers, behind everyone. Some teachers are probably annoyed at me for being childish, for not understanding simple instructions, for not being confident. I'm always behind everyone that I feel like I'm the only who'll fail in life. The staff probably don't like me either, I have no reason why they might think that, they probably just do. "Why can't I just be like my younger self. Why can't I be someone who is deemed normal?" I keep asking myself that. I keep competing with my younger self. Sometimes I see myself in my younger sibling. They're possibly the favorite. Sometimes I feel like I don't deserve any of this. Sometimes it's just so annoying how knowing that your younger self is the better than you'll ever be now. I hate it. I'm trying, really I am. I'm so close to giving up
@ya_yannaaa
Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺 it will be okay! don't blame yourself💗 sorry, my English is bad, but your story really made me wonder. I feel the same. you will definitely survive this and be happy!
@smileyhuber2976
Жыл бұрын
Don't give up. No matter what you think, I am cheering for u. (:
@zenr_u
Жыл бұрын
you were never gifted, you just based your life on grades and validation, grow up or you will fail, the world doesn’t revolve around you
@dxrkerrxses
Жыл бұрын
@zenr_u when did they say the world revolved around them? Just curious EDIT: Because all I read was about someone struggling while competing with their younger self and beating themselves down over it.
@zenr_u
Жыл бұрын
@@dxrkerrxses bc her younger self was validated by people of authority, making her seek the validation of others and causing to believe (although not consciously) that her worth is determined by what others think of her, and when reality hits (in this case highschool), her ego is shattered and thinks the world is against her. i would like to clarify that i’m not attacking her, i’m attacking the system that not only put her into this situation, but also created the notion that some kids are better than others bc of their grades, and trying to help her; in the world’s of albert einstein, “if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its life thinking it’s stupid.” i truly believe everyone is good at something, all you have to do is find it, but unfortunately some people give up. also if somehow you’re reading this random girl who i’m talking abt, just remember that there is something you’re good at, and you will find it, just never give up, and if you do, your life will be even worse, and i’m sorry for coming off as rude.
@tiredteacup
2 жыл бұрын
I was that "perfect" child every asian mom would compare their child to. Got good grades no matter what, report cards were always full of A's. Everyone would always point at me if anyone mentioned singing because I could sing beautifully. Did the ABRSM music exams and passed each grade with distinctions. And now here I am, in highschool, getting grades my parents would never have expected me to take, failing maths and physics and barely holding onto the other subs. Idk what happened, but I feel ashamed about myself in every way possible. Gonna use this playlist to keep me up and keep going. Good luck to everyone of you, we can do it. From a random hooman being -3-
@ronin8095
2 жыл бұрын
honestly, good luck with high school. the huge jump in difficulty is something everyone takes time adapting to. it's totally normal, specially if you're talking about maths and physics (which are, like, the most complex subjects). remember to take breaks! and you aren't alone on feeling like that (just look at the rest of the comments)!! you can do this!
@alika6211
Жыл бұрын
I relate so much. I am very glad that you and me aren't the only one in this.... We have lost our shine but the day will come that we'll shine the brightest
@eshadeshpande2055
Жыл бұрын
jeez as another asian i can relate -
@Stargalaxy3223
Жыл бұрын
why is it the same for me (T▽T)
@MeowMeow-hn5qe
Жыл бұрын
If you're still not doing good... Try evidence based study methods and do a lot of practice problems. I'm in the same place now getting low grades when I did really good before but inpm trying evidence based study techniques and a lot of past papers and its really helping me.
@karaathena8993
2 жыл бұрын
I used to be an achiever in like everything, i love to draw af like literally and seeing my old paintings and sketches laying around my room breaks my heart because the universe keeps telling me “You used to be that girl what happened?” And now my grades are like shit fr, the scary part is im not even scared anymore like idgaf if i have low grades, and im not sad if I’m not into arts right now. Its scary af to see myself lose me. I miss me.
@karaathena8993
2 жыл бұрын
Ah shit forgot to swap accounts :D
@karaathena8993
2 жыл бұрын
@@-pratiksha hello kind stranger, your words actually made me realize that I rlly need to change rn because this behavior of mine will lead me to a huge mess. And I’m sorry if you can relate, and yes we should start caring for ourselves again. Thanks for your kind words ma’am. The world should have more ppl like u. You have no idea how much you’ve changed my life rn. And yes, Theres no time for waiting for the right moment, because the moment is now. So let’s clean our rooms, do skincare, work out, take long showers, and things that make a good impact in our lives. WE BADDIES
@DeviChitra-zg4us
5 ай бұрын
@@karaathena8993 best of luck
@jessj9418
Жыл бұрын
After suffering through high school with anxiety and internet hyperfixations that killed my grades, I'm finally studying Psychology in college and writing a paper about Gifted kid syndrome. Feeling very accomplished with how far I've come to get here. Wishing my fellow gifted kids luck in school. You've got this, dude.
@lindaplayspiano
9 ай бұрын
proud of you!
@Beep_Beep_Letuce
8 ай бұрын
Let’s go! Bring some recognition!
@CallieRoses
8 ай бұрын
Well done!
@DeviChitra-zg4us
5 ай бұрын
❤ you
@helenhello4540
2 жыл бұрын
Crying to this playlist bc I was labeled as gifted but I'm really just average and now its catching up to me as I get dropped from the honors program at my college for being 0.02 points below the required GPA
@avadakedavra3463
2 жыл бұрын
That must've hurt. You're strong you got this! We can never stop trying though right
@siaanand2189
2 жыл бұрын
noooooooooooooo
@benjijohnson6125
2 жыл бұрын
Ha, the school system screwed me in elementary and middle school, I'm in highschool now and I am drowning in school work, trying to keep my friends even when i forget about their existence, trying to deal with my anger, developing tic's, sexuality and gender crisis, and depression. (We're not going to mention my social anxiety in that list since I've had that since I was two years old.) Anywho, my life is....what's the word?? Oh yeah, shit. Also, this playlist is amazing right now considering I am coming off a tic attack that had me breaking down in tears. Thank you very much for this.
@suzan7867
2 жыл бұрын
ily
@naecha231
2 жыл бұрын
I never related to a comment this much, cant even cry anymore
@denisdaily5117
2 жыл бұрын
social anxiety at 2 bro. messed up fr fr LOL stay safe tho
@koda450
2 жыл бұрын
I am this entire comment . Wow never thought I'd relate to a comment as much as this one.
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
im so scared of when i reach this point
@IsimpforKavehandImnotashamed
2 жыл бұрын
Something that always bothered me is how others (not everyone) that get “low” grades often judge perfectionists and over-achievers when they’re not satisfied with an almost perfect score.”Dude, it’s almost perfect, what’s your problem? You’re really complaining for an 84?? I got 64, be happy, at least it’s a good grade”. No, it’s not a good grade for me. This kid from another class got a better score, my other results were better, it will affect my grade overall, after spending my whole evening studying for something this easy, this is not enough (subjectively speaking). It happened a lot to me and it genuinely bothered me because people usually don’t know how much pressure we put on ourselves and how a score just a bit below perfect gets our motivation reaaaally low. Sure, you’re not happy with your result either, but you shouldn’t judge us if you don’t know how horrible it feels
@danirosa3804
2 жыл бұрын
I get it, but you still should give yourself more credit, you tried, that’s something. That kind of mindset that even getting one thing wrong is going to burn you out pretty rapidly, I mean, that is why you are probably here after all. I’m not saying be satisfied, I’m just saying give yourself a little bit more credit since it sounds like you are really rough on yourself, it will keep you more motivated in the long term compared to bringing yourself down and burning out quickly. Also, a little tip, don’t study the whole evening, instead study little chunks every so day and review it. It is proven that you are bound to retain more information this way than cramming, it’s also more efficient, what I’m referring to is “spaced repetition”, should cut-off your load of work by A LOT. Also, active recall works pretty well too. Work smart not hard, but still try and work hard👍
@IsimpforKavehandImnotashamed
2 жыл бұрын
@@danirosa3804 thanks for the advice. As for studying, I usually don’t have a problem tbh! I usually remember everything from class. I only study when mostly needed (tests, exams etc.) I usually read the materials and rewrite them down as I read it. If I don’t remember it, read it again and work with flashcards. Worst case scenario I ask my mother to help me as well, but in most cases I try to take breaks as well. My main problem is grades. I’m a huge perfectionist. In my country the grading system is 1-10 (1 worst-10 best) even at a 9 I will immediately start comparing myself to others and will basically make me feel like shit. I’m working on my mindset this year. I want to stop comparing myself as much and acknowledge the fact that I can’t be perfect and one bad grade won’t destroy my life. At the same time I still want to try and be serious about school, I still want to keep up the good grades and be proud of myself. Thanks again for the tips!
@danirosa3804
2 жыл бұрын
@@IsimpforKavehandImnotashamed Ah okay, sounds like you’ve got a pretty good system down then , nice! Also ,It’s awesome that you know where your problem lies and that you are trying to fix it , that is really admirable. I hope that one day you can get to where you desire your mindset to be in.
@urlocaltrashcan2034
2 жыл бұрын
Literally! Like I can't even rant about it to anyone because everyone is like "tHat iS a gOoD grAdE sHuT uP yOu aRroGaNt aSs"
@danzsyy
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never related to something so much. This is exactly how I feel.
@athepooh
Жыл бұрын
me listening to this: - stresses over unfinished work but procrastinates a lot anyway so always submits works late ✅ - lonely, no friends, and social anxiety ✅ - sleep deprived ✅ - anger issues ✅ - emotional ✅ - not realizing that playlist is full of overachiever songs ✅ -pessimistic ✅ - never realizing that I actually am an overachiever ✅
@anamika2556
Жыл бұрын
Girl I feel u
@ciliaa.
Жыл бұрын
Relatable, wanna have a friend tho? You could vent or anything if you're having a bad day
@IcecreamMcGuy
Жыл бұрын
That’s just being a normal human in the modern world 💀 💀 💀
@rosie2871
Жыл бұрын
@@IcecreamMcGuy let's not invalidate ppl, shall we?
@IcecreamMcGuy
Жыл бұрын
@@rosie2871 just saying people really overreact because they want to be special
@raidenashlycastillo8894
2 жыл бұрын
The urge to just boom this on the speakers until my family realizes I'm mentally burned out but I'm too scared to tell them and I'm tired of getting these expectations I'm not sure I can even achieve LMFAOOO
@blacktea2817
2 жыл бұрын
I love how this playlist is the first couple of songs have a angry and frustrated tone but as the playlist keeps proceeding the songs get more of a Sad expression, this is exactly how I felt once I started feeling burnt out at first I was frustrated that I couldn't do more then I just got really upset and quite and just accepted it
@snowkooo8461
2 жыл бұрын
same🥺
@danielawytte3228
10 ай бұрын
yeah, kind of reminds me of how i used to get mostly as in middle school - 10th grade, and how i aspired to get as in all of my classes… but then 11th grade happened and now i’m just fine with getting bs in my ap classes now; just goes to show how much my standards have lowered since junior year despite how distraught i was over all my grades slipping at first…
@papriisprinks6969
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who was never a "gifted child" I relate to this, instead of being gifted I was part of resource classes ever since kindergarden. I tried my best go be as smart and as good as the other kids in my class but all I ever got was C's, D's, and F's. I was bullied for my learning disabilities and treated as less than simply because I struggled more and neeeded a little more extra help than most of the other kids. I'm almost in my final year of highschool now and those events have caused major self esteem issues and problematic ideologies that I have towards myself. I'm doing better than I ever have been in school and finally recieveing the help I need, I'm also working on myself to try and get rid of the idea I have that I am stupid and less than anyone else.
@em111ya
2 жыл бұрын
im so proud and so happy for you
@dr.baidyanathsoren158
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're doing good. I'm so proud of you 🤍
@turtleby
2 жыл бұрын
Same here, my grades were always mediocre compared to my peers. Not everyone was designed to be the perfect student, and as long you are trying, you are not stupid. I believe in you!
@papriisprinks6969
2 жыл бұрын
@@turtleby same goes to you, thank you for the kind words they mean a whole lot to me :']
@papriisprinks6969
2 жыл бұрын
@@dr.baidyanathsoren158 thank you 💙
@Kai-re2yl
Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of each of you guys, just know that grades don't determine who you are, and you are a person on your own. Don't do something just to make others happy; do it yourself. You should know your worth. I am proud of you
@IamTheJesus
10 ай бұрын
Tell my anxiety and my mom
@Ember_da_toon
2 жыл бұрын
God this playlist really gave me a reality check and made me remember I used to be a gifted kid too. Keywords; 'used to' Nowadays I just push away my studying and just mindlessly doodle and then get burntout again because artblock is a lil bitch
@danirosa3804
2 жыл бұрын
Tip for Art block, find why you have Art block. I usually get Art block because when I do a painting for fun people start praising and then I start praising it too, and then I get scared of what if I don’t make a painting as good as this one? and then I become scared of painting leading me to Art block due to pressure. My solution to this problem is to destroy it and throw it in the garbage, or give it to someone else who likes it so I can forget about it, and continue freely with no expectations. In itself, what I am doing is somewhat making Art, but for myself. If I like it I’ll post it to my Instagram Art account but then throw it out because it is weighing me down.
@rewrittensunset7386
2 жыл бұрын
I was never the "gifted child" in primary school but it was just labelled onto me since I was someone who got constant A's and rarely I get Bs. The only reason was that I had a tutor that my dad had made me go to every day of the week and at weekends and when I came home I would need to study for 4 more hours with my dad screaming at me at the smallest mistakes at the dinner table. He wouldn't let me eat until I got a complete 100% on the tests that he would give me and finally put on his kind father act and tell me to stop crying. When I failed my selective test which I was surprised by, my parents completely gave up on me. Took away tutoring since it was "wasted resources". Acted like I didn't matter, didn't even believe me when I said I was studying, and constantly called me names and my grades dropped from straight A's to Ds and Es. I always hid it from my parents, but I'm honestly pretty sure they wouldn't care anyway.
@CulturalMemes845
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about your parents. You are perfect the way you are, and I am soooo proud of you. So work hard, but this time don't do it for your parents, do it for yourself. Have fun, and stay happy!! I love you 🤗 P.s: You can talk to me if you ever feel like venting.
@LocalLizardFound
2 жыл бұрын
@@CulturalMemes845 remember it doesn’t really matter and the first priority is mental and physical health
@CulturalMemes845
2 жыл бұрын
@@LocalLizardFound of course, take care ✧♡(◕‿◕✿)
@fizatasnim4367
2 жыл бұрын
Hello love, I really hope you're alright
@agrownupchild.7214
Жыл бұрын
BurnING gifted child checklist of mine: -Perfectionist -' ' Limitless ' ' -Pushes self beyond limit -A+, A+, A+, A+, A+, A+, A+, A+, A+..... B?...... - Masking -Literal masks as well -Insecurities -"You're exaggerating" -"You're fine" -Constant negative thoughts -Fake scenarios -Aggressive urges -Under 15 -Spacing out 24/7 -"Your trauma isn't that bad" -"Why are you so scared of therapists?" -STRESS LMFAO -Quiet. -For some reason years pass by really quickly but days don't..? -SOCIAL ANXIETY-...... (to the point I stutter when talking to 3 people at once) -All nighters are fun -F*cked up sleep schedule -Mood swings all the time -I'm not happy but I can't die :( -"YOUCANTFAILYOUCANTFAILYOUCANTFAILYOUCANTFAIL.." -"extra credit..?" -*breakdown about a B+* -"Why can't I be normal." -Silent- -"She's pretty!" *Looks at stomach* *Guilt* *Stops eating for 4 days* -Best isn't enough -Too shy to ask for help -"You have potential" Good vibes to everyone who read this !
@legendary.was.momentary
8 ай бұрын
why are you stalking me :) also is it just me or does it feel like you have no purpose but like you can’t die because it’s like written in the rule book you gotta stay alive?
@heresheybark
6 ай бұрын
Checklist for your checklist 2 (because youtube decided to delete the first one as I was about to finish it) -✅ -✅ -✅ -✅ (except one F) -✅ -✅ (I was literally forced to stop against my will) -✅✅✅ -✅ -✅ (I also tell this to myself) -✅ -✅ -✅ -✅ -✅ (not 24/7 but alot) -✅ (again telling myself this) -❎ -✅✅✅ -✅ (unless you bring up one of my special interests( -✅ -✅ (too accurate) -✅ (I'm pulling one right now) -✅ (when I started writing this the first time it was 12:46 right now it's 1:19 update its 1:28) -✅ (less mood swings more playing up a part of my personality because I think people will hate me if I don't) -✅ -✅✅✅ -✅ -❎ -✅ (again again telling myself this) -✅ (I don't know if this is a thing to check but I'm doing it anyway) -✅ (wanted to put something here but couldn't figure out how to word it without it being a vent essay) -✅ -✅ (if I ask for help then I'm not smart enough I know thats not true but I still won't do it) -✅ This was a little long and venty so sorry about that, anyways have a good day
@theastrus_
5 ай бұрын
Yeah my one B is killing me dude 😭
@sn0wy-proseka
28 күн бұрын
nobody told me there were cameras in my house stop stalking me
@maya_d-_-b
2 жыл бұрын
"this is me trying" by Taylor Swift would've fit in here too, but anyways, I was happy to see "burned out" by Dodie in here I'm not gifted, I happened to have good grades when I was younger, but I still feel like I have to uphold that image, at least my family still thinks I'm super smart It's tiring honestly
@ilyyelan2289
2 жыл бұрын
same, i was never at the TOP top, just one of the the good ones. I managed to get in this school that only accepts 10% of the people that apply to it and everyone else is so much better than me. All my friends have higher grades than me and it makes me feel horrible about myself. Its my 2nd year here and I just want to disappear.
@pansy4687
3 ай бұрын
omg timt!! and the archer would fit in here too
@justarandomotaku3253
2 жыл бұрын
Yesterday was the worst day of my life. So I'm like the "gifted kid" and I always am at the top of my class and yesterday my results came and I went from 1st to 7th, grade As to Bs and I've never been that disappointed in my whole life. My parents were devastated and it almost looked like they gave up on me. So currently I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to face others like friends and family I don't really understand I tried my best and this still happened, honestly as I'm typing this tears are welling up in my eyes, I keep feeling like I didn’t try at all and that I dont deserve anything. Sorry for the long vent haha
@Deathisaninevitablething
Жыл бұрын
It's okay, in the long run, you are the most important thing in your life, not grades ❤
@pixelzebra8440
9 ай бұрын
It’s okay. We got this shit.
@heresheybark
6 ай бұрын
This is a little late. BUT, you can do this. You tried your best and that's all that matters, sure the grades weren't perfect but they're still fucking great. And 7th is not bad, 7th is a god damn good place. Look at everything you did, you should be proud of what you accomplished. You CAN do this. God I'm a hypocrite, anyway sorry this is long. Hope you have an amazing day. ❤
@Pepalamarrana
5 ай бұрын
dude did you overcome that. I'm in the same situation and Idk how to ever life with that, and I'm scared.
@Evergreen_Trees_are_cool
2 жыл бұрын
Reading these comments make me realize how much I've learned these past few years. Dear fellow burnt out gifted kids, you are still gifted. You are so amazing, and because of that people expect you to always achieve greatness. That is a true impossibility. You must breathe in in order to exhale. You are not lazy, you are tired. You need to do things for yourself, take the time to take care of yourself, in order to do anything, much less achieve greatness. A fire needs both air and fuel in order to burn. And I'm so, so sorry that the system, a lot of the time our parents too, have failed us. They only see the surface level of brilliance in decline. Don't let them make you only see that too. Please take a moment to realize that a lot of you have been running on fumes for years, and that it's amazing that you've gotten so far. But it's time to learn how to heal. I know you can do it. I believe in you. Half ass as many things as you need, but don't stop. Find a way to live your life. Grades are stupid and arbitrary and they do not determine your worth. You do. And though I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, I think you're pretty great.
@Icycreamyfrapp
2 жыл бұрын
I keep pushing the dislike button instead of "read more"💀💀
@synakehal4074
2 жыл бұрын
I am weeping
@belams2226
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate..... means a lot to me
@SHInangli
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro. I'm not really a gifted kid but more of a high achiever, i feel the need to achieve high and explode my self because I want to lessen my parents struggles because they are struggling with money and so I thought that if I do well in school I'll have a chance to be successful one day and possibly help them but in the end there's too many responsibilities for me to handle and I'm starting to fear that if I fail that everything will fall apart and there will be no opportunity for me, I need to explode my intelligence that's what my parents fed me but they're not a bad person they just narrate it wrongly and they just want the best for me but I absorb. but with your comment it gave me light and relief, I still feel the need but Im starting to recognize that I'm just human everyone has its limits and we all make mistakes and we get tired theres time where we can't do it because we are tired and burnt out, for that I feel regretful if I didn't finish my works but its ok, its ok to stop and just breathe, life is too short
@third1783
Жыл бұрын
Thank you that helps a lot
@mirabell4040
9 ай бұрын
Hi, here's a guide to burnout kids... -used to only study because it felt good to be praised as smart - kids talking behind your back cuz they don't like your simple and study attitude. - kids only come to you when they need to ask you something. - not many friends if you have, just 1 atleast and that too who's opposite of you but like you does not have friends. - started getting bored and anxious because you started getting distracted at study - Kids only talk to you or contact when they need something - “You're lying. You must've completed all syllabus already, afterall you score well” . Is what you hear when you say you haven't done anything - start getting pissed and annoyed at the other kids for this - started sleeping, reading fanfics to procastrinate and escape your responsibilities -you feel depressed for not studying but you can't concentrate anymore -You have lost your focus and confidence and when other kids cut you off, you feel RAGE -Anger issues meter at high -Mommy/daddy issues -that one friend seperated in college -Have different preferences hence still friendless -Raging at yourself for falling behind other kids but still can't focus -Rather than praises, sarcastic praises instead. -became a depressed potato -Still friendless except for selfish kids who keep in check to see if you are studying so that they can distract and keep you annoyed
@qallqherz
2 жыл бұрын
my burnt-out pack :) staying up til 4,5,6 am waking up at 2 pm frustrated for no reason so done with school knowing that I'm barely passing my brain won't work anxiety, depression, ADHD disorders not showing up to anything constantly mentally tired my life is boring mommy issues crying because of all of this reading fanfics more than usual staring at a computer for 12+ hours a day barely any friends hating how my brain is wired screaming in my pillow eventually my natural gifts: art music singing writing fast learner this playlist is literally perfection bruh istg-
@qallqherz
2 жыл бұрын
@Mapo Hawk so relieving to hear that im not alone on all this lol
@hunainahussain5185
Жыл бұрын
We should all start a support group cause I feel the exact same way
@qallqherz
Жыл бұрын
@@hunainahussain5185 i agree, we should :)
@dumbratED
Жыл бұрын
my best gift is song writing , dance and singing well atleast now i used to be a smart gifted kid until 4th grade
@sarahsalazar9593
Жыл бұрын
I read this and related to ever single thing! If your struggling with this stuff to just know your not alone.
@xenniexploring6218
2 жыл бұрын
couldnt be a more perfect timing i was cryin bout my drawing wasnt good enough so my teacher said these are nothing if you wanna go to a good collage. I sometimes wanna dissappear and never come back. His words just fucked up my day actually i got a bad grade from my math quiz so they did a combo for me ig. And i ended up crying and my mum says its good no mum its wearing me down and im sick of it. Ill go to psycologist monday, hope shes good. If you read this dont do what i do im just an dumbass who dont know to live plz take care of urself and drink water
@suzan7867
2 жыл бұрын
ily
@xenniexploring6218
2 жыл бұрын
@@suzan7867 ily2 bby have a good one
@suzan7867
2 жыл бұрын
@@xenniexploring6218 u too 💕💕
@bumblegumbee
2 жыл бұрын
I bet your drawings are better than you think. Yes, everyone wants to get better, but that takes time! It's okay not to be satisfied with what you have created, and to get upset over it, but I promise you you can get better and you have your own beautify and unique style. Have a good day.
@xenniexploring6218
Жыл бұрын
@@bumblegumbee gosh i just saw thank you so much for your kind words
@ninawii5318
2 жыл бұрын
my heart hurts for all the kids in the comments, i was one of you (mostly still am) but god being a teenage burnt out just sucks so bad, its so shity and miserable It kinda got better for me (in therapy right now) and while there are just some horrible days, i kinda wish someone had told me it could get better, so i am telling you guys: it can get better and it will, i love you and i´m proud of you for all the work you do, you are enough and your efforts are enough, remember that
@carlalalacandie
2 жыл бұрын
(VENT) I've been listening to this playlist when I was doing my school presentation. It's honestly tiring, it's a weekend and I'm supposed to be resting. But here I am, burned out. But I can't even rest. The moment I try and focus on my mental health, my grades drop. I got a 75 score on my Math grade (C+) and my mom got mad at me for it because she thinks I can't get into my dream school with a grade like this as a scholar student :(( The rest of my grades from other subjects were A's and B's, but she didn't even acknowledged my high scores, and only focused on my ONE LOW GRADE FROM ONE SUBJECT. Out of 11 total subjects, she only paid attention to 1 failing subject and I'm disappointed in myself for it. If only I never focused on my mental health, maybe she would've been proud of me
@cheetah3036
2 жыл бұрын
Okay, I'm just gonna say, if ya want any advice/whatever ya wanna call i, here be it: Your mental health should come before school, before homework, before making people proud, your mental (As well as physical and emotional) health is more important than all of that, even if you get low grades because your trying to focus on your mental health!! You did not deserve your mom yelling at you for that that, your mom needs a reality heck of how much your dealing with!! She should be proud no matter what, and I know this may not mean anything since I'm a stranger on the internet but, I am proud of you. Don't be disappointed in yourself because of a low grade/her focusing on the low grade, yo tried, right? Yo tried and that's all that matter's at the end of the day is that *you tried*!
@omanoma5278
2 жыл бұрын
I recently found out that i never took care of my mental health because of this, i thought i was objectively happy until a few weeks ago when school started again, but i'm really not ok, my socialization skills have deteriorated vastly, my comprehension and concept of affection is so toxic and i failed to give decent emotinal advice to many people i care about because my mentality was flawed as fuck. I have high grades, i'm keeping up with work and my family isn't screaming at me right now, why shouldn't i be happy about it? why do i feel so tired and heavy? why do i think i'm still not enough?
@silscr
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate with parents having that great big eye for the failure. Once in high school, my mom went to school for the releasing of grades, and my rank went down but my grades were up. She wasn't happy about it, and my friend who was there with me told her, 'but her grades went up'. That friend was doing great with her studies but she was always compared to her younger sister who's getting more awards. We both feel that somehow 'unjustified' disappointment. :(
@emilykam5034
2 жыл бұрын
I love this. I hate being the gifted kid most of the time. I just wish i could fit in with others and be a normal kid. But then "I won't be successful." And I don't know if I should just fake being happy with the title as the gifted kid. I have it all. What more could I want? Besides the many burdens that lay on my shoulders and everyone's eyes watching me to see when I eventually fall, I have it all. Right? I'm tired.
@ronin8095
2 жыл бұрын
that's painfully relatable. the duality of being a gifted kid, unfortunately
@aimee-wk7pi
2 жыл бұрын
"I have to be better than them, I'm the one that was born with the talent right? why can't I focus?"
@AN0NYM0U_S
Жыл бұрын
When I was a kid I always thought that I had to be friends with everyone, make events for my class, have the best grades ever, get a lot of trophys, i even had to do a sports competition even thought I hated sports. All of that, from when I was 5, until I was 11-12. After that I started noticing how horrible my classmates are, that grades aren't everything, and that I could be happy even thought I was perfect. But oh god, some people in my family had to make me think I had to be perfect *again* . And here am I, being a total mess, expressing myself to f-cking strangers I will never know, and feeling like it's not bad and I'm just dramatic. Yay!
@DeviChitra-zg4us
5 ай бұрын
A stranger here... Love you 🩷 I pray for your happiness from almighty. Let peace and love be yours forever.
@jermfanaccount
2 жыл бұрын
i was considered "gifted" as a kid and i still am. they'd look at my achievements, and they'd look at the fact that i'm autistic and they treat me like i'm so talented and smart and "oh you're so special did you know that??". but really, i don't _care_ about school anymore. they focus so much on students being a ""SuCcEsS"" that it doesn't even mean anything anymore. you want success? okay, sure, i'll successfully write of a list of all the issues you've given me, because it's not primarily about learning anymore. it's about crunching to get those sweet penstrokes that judge you on how useful they think you're going to be in society: 1. anger issues. a LOT of anger issues. 2. crushing self-doubts. 3. intense fear of failure. 4. overwhelming apathy. 5. being burnt out every few months. 6. trust issues. 7. a fear of socialising. 8. the surprisingly terrifying realisation that you've probably just wasted most of your life doing schoolwork. 9. loss of sleep. 10. a loss of direction when you don't have anything you need to get done. 11. headaches. a lot of headaches. 12. feeling like school is just a giant roadblock that is actually in the way of what you _really_ want to do. 13. the oddly horrific realisation that you're probably just a number to them. just an example. just fake inspiration for someone else like you. 14. a burning hatred for school and everything it stands for... maybe a bit exaggerated but still! wow. being """gifted""" must be really lucky, isn't it?
@ronin8095
2 жыл бұрын
yeah, veeerryyyyy lucky, right? and there's also the crippling perfectionism (although it's a derivate of other topics, but still)
@zenr_u
Жыл бұрын
ig that’s what you get for making other kids feel horrible about themselves, karma is funny isn’t it?
@justinkianaalfredo6843
Жыл бұрын
Still lucky. Mine's so stupid. Before pandemic, i have 129 iq (less than average but ok), i was a happy child. Good grades, love learning maths, etc. But after the pandemic, my grades started to go downhill because of online school. My iq is just 111. Now im at the rock bottom of my brain. I fear that i may or may not, is now a miserable idiot. Tldr: being smart is still lucky.
@zenr_u
Жыл бұрын
@@justinkianaalfredo6843 your iq can never “go down”, also a 129 iq is above average
@justinkianaalfredo6843
Жыл бұрын
@@zenr_u fun fact An iq can decrease due to stress And 130 is an average for my goals
@theskittlites6799
2 жыл бұрын
Burned out gifted child starter pack me edition Gets straight As but they mean nothing Used to spend 5 hours on a hard question but only guesses now Used to love school but dreads it now Scared to get a B bc they think fam will be upset Constantly compared to a sibling my toxic family Eligible for advanced projects but rejects them
@IamTheJesus
Жыл бұрын
Dammit you had a perfect description of me
@catalinabadaboop
Жыл бұрын
thank you
@heynowyouranallstar916
Жыл бұрын
I constantly get compared to my past self and how much smarter I was back then
@brandnewcity707
2 жыл бұрын
I started speaking at 6 months old. started school at one year old. learned to write alone, at 3. my family were always so proud of me, and convinced I would be so goddamn successful. then I started being bullied at 6, evolved anxiety at 11, and depression at 13. I couldn't watch most of my classes properly, and didn't have the energy to study anymore. I lost all my potential and now im in my last year, just trying to survive and wake up every day, even though I look at myself in the mirror and feel like shit. I know I could be so much better. it just doesn't seem fair to me
@cherrybeom4181
2 жыл бұрын
you started school at 1?? i dont think thats actually possible/gen
@cherrybeom4181
2 жыл бұрын
in any school the youngest you can start is atleast 4
@acrylliang
2 жыл бұрын
hey, i've been through shitty times too. personally, i think it’s really strong of you to have held on so long. what you went through in your childhood never should have happened, and at one point or another any other person would've lost it. i'd bet you're a really cool person, and i hope you're doing better out there. if you need to vent or talk, feel free to rant to this random stranger over the internet. i hope you're okay. xx
@桜_秋ちゃん
Жыл бұрын
@@cherrybeom4181Maybe they ment kinder garten?
@sarina-sl4qr
Жыл бұрын
@@桜_秋ちゃん yea theres no 1 yr olds in kindergarten
@lilserotoninboost
10 ай бұрын
When you're so burnt out that you don't recognise yourself anymore without the "top student" identity
@whokilledj
10 ай бұрын
when the first thing people say about you is 'smart' but they don't see the real you...
@blacklight756
2 жыл бұрын
listening to this as I'm having a breakdown because I'm burnt out
@harukisubs895
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who had won so many awards, contests, and competitions, I so much relate to this. My parents are so proud of me when I was still in Elementary. Now that I'm in my High-school life, everything turned downhill. They've expected so much to me, they expect me to keep my top 1 remain. They want me to enter and win every single competition our school announces. I tried so hard to win beauty pageants, quiz bee, press conference, and even debates for a student council member like me. It was all so hard, I sometimes wanna die but I can't. It hurts seeing your mother see you as the disappointment in the family. It hurts seeing your father accept the fact that you're trying hard but you really can't do things perfectly. Still, I don't want to leave this world yet, I want my father to see me standing at the stage with so many medals hanging on my neck. Every blood and sweats he wasted, I know I need to try hard for success, now I'm walking to the most challenging path. I love my father so much, so much more than he loves and supports me. Only my father can make me feel okay^.^
@alika6211
Жыл бұрын
This exactly is what my friend is making us all still going and not giving up. I am going through exactly the same thing I hope we' ll get through this
@munaaliii
Жыл бұрын
Part that youve written about "FATHER sacrifice" and how we ought to give our fathers the whole world OMG i cant agree any further ❤❤❤ Hope to do that one day
@mommyissuesdaddyissues7148
2 жыл бұрын
YOUR PLAYLISTS ARE SO GOOD OMFG 😭😭💞💞
@moonshire1358
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoy it
@froggy_dolliez
Жыл бұрын
This matches my life eveyrday Gifted Kid ✅ Failing math ✅ Stressed ✅ Listening to this playlist✅
@tisa37bokun57
Жыл бұрын
Why are we all failing math as gifted people lmao
@froggy_dolliez
Жыл бұрын
@@tisa37bokun57 idk 😭
@Castodre
10 ай бұрын
Fr 💀 Istg how tf are our classmates passing math 😭
@IamTheJesus
10 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m failing math, I have a 79
@froggy_dolliez
10 ай бұрын
@@IamTheJesus I have a 71 helppp-
@junebug6432
2 жыл бұрын
Every playlist always has at least three of the following artists: Dodie Marina + The Diamonds Bo Burnham Sushi Soucy Cavetown Wilbur Soot (Specifically Alien Blues by) Vundabar Feel free to add on because there's so many lol
@sudenil
2 жыл бұрын
omg you are so right
@erinloveswomen
2 жыл бұрын
lmao I always see idfc by Blackbear on like every playlist 💀
@ceci-751
2 жыл бұрын
check out chloe moriondo too!
@scummy_pogger3907
2 жыл бұрын
Wilburrrr go brr
@heartsforsayori
2 жыл бұрын
Melanie Martinez? Or no-
@llawliet8164
2 жыл бұрын
I'm smart, I really am. I've got a iq of 140 and am really good at learning languages. I can speak English better than anyone in my school, exempt for the one native speaker we have there, and I'm not in the last year there. I'm one of the best scoring in every German exam we have. (It's my native language.) It just comes easy to me. Understanding language structures, also, thinking really logically and fast. It's always been that way, and it's kind of the only thing I can do very well. I'm creative, too, I write and draw a lot. But it's really not that good. Everyone tells me it is, but I just don't think so. I'm not working hard. I'm suckling at most other subjects, because I just can't bring myself to concentrate on things I don't like. German, English, history- straight A's. But the rest? Way worse. My smartness stole my childhood. Because being really smart, and also really shy is not a good combination. I overthink so much, literally everything. I remember wanting to make friends, to take a language course, to play an instrument. But I was to shy to ask, because I over thought it. I saw it too logically. I still do. I remember wanting to sing along to songs in the car, dance to the music, show someone the drawings I made. But I was too embarrassed. God, I'm even embarrassed for liking to learn, for wanting to learn some particular subject. So I didn't. So I sit in the car and just sing in my head. So I search for free material because I can't buy a language textbook without my parents noticing. So I hide my drawings or destroy them. I hate being so hard with myself, but I can't help it. I know that I'm not as bad as I think I am, that literally no one cares if I screw up the first time I do something. But I can't help over thinking. I just want to turn back time and get more confident in myself as a young child, so I can have this confidence now. So I can look back at at happy childhood. So I can have people around me without being paranoid that they'd might leave me. Because now, I don't have many. I think differently, I act differently, I make jokes they don't understand and I talk about things they've never heard of. Just let me be normal. Let me fit in. Please.
@ellezabeth1864
2 жыл бұрын
This comment literally got me in tears! I can relate to a lot of this( not the first sentence tho cuz "I'm not sure anymore if I'm /was ever smart ") I also think that being "shy" made me give up on a lotta things, like there's a bunch of stuffs that i want to do and I got a lot of plans that I'd like to apply in real life but it doesn't seem like I'd ever be able to!.... I just wish that one day we'll get through this and feel like we actually belong to / fit in this world!
@gigirauchut1882
2 жыл бұрын
You perfectly put into words the mess of incoherent thoughts I've been having about myself for the past three months oh my God thank you for this
@zeyrafelandamulsoe2848
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, i'm reading this after 6 months of the upload. But I hope you're doing better :)
@mimswhims7107
2 жыл бұрын
Adding my two cents of an experience here because this feels like a safe zone! I definitely relate to the burnout but it's unfortunate when I pieced together that being the gifted kid is what made people hate me growing up. I went to a very small private school, and belonging to the small minority of colored kids at my school, I always had to swallow the remarks of other people because my school effectively did nothing to stop it. In fact I remember crying in the principle's office begging her to do something to stop the bullying that I kept receiving only to be told "We can't do anything, but please don't exchange schools. We need you to be here to show what the model student looks like" and feeling absolutely crushed. What made me happy as a child was being praised or feeling like I was doing something right, but when the bullying started as a direct consequence, the motivation started to go away entirely.
@milkshake3853
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you.
@dt_-dp5ch
2 жыл бұрын
Ah the playlist for me I was a good student back in primary school and spoke 3 languages fluently at age 5 (one native (German) one mother(Turkish) and an completely different one (English)) Well at age 11 I got burned out. And it got even worse with me redoing grade 6 And now I'm in grade eleven and I'm on the verge of tears because of many assignments and the constant "oh why aren't you good in [subject] anymore? you used to [ ] so good" at some days I can't even find the motivation to get up out of bed let alone learn. But here I am pushing each and everyday to do at least something for school. Anyways I have to stop pushing back my Math assignment that is due tomorrow. Wish me luck peeps! @v@
@siaanand2189
2 жыл бұрын
Hey bro you'll get through! it was 11 for me too lol
@wennilin1076
2 жыл бұрын
Edit: I didn’t want anyone else to read this cringey story, but it’s getting better. I’m still juggling math classes, Chinese lessons, soccer, track, little sleep, and school and have very little free time but my mom’s loosened up a bit and she got me a phone. Still feeling a little burnout. I enjoy most of the things i’m doing, but it’s tiring so i’m working on my sleep schedule. Also, she didn’t freak out over my 83 in my S.S. class so she’s getting better, and she has been going to work more so i have time without her. I’m doing ok mentally, and actually want to go to school bc it’s still better than sitting at home. Edit 2: i’m also drinking more water and taking time to get closer to friends :)
@helenapuente1267
2 жыл бұрын
that really sucks, man. maybe she needs to relax quite a bit, overexigent parents usually get their kids burnout and tired at a very young age. i´m so sorry you have to go through all that. i´m sending you a virtual hug and remember to drink some water ^^ stay safe
@brightoranga
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you're going through that I have a bunch of extra activities and stuff too it's hard your parents expect you to be perfect just hang on a little longer I promise it gets better, I hope so at least
@wennilin1076
2 жыл бұрын
@all above, Ty!!
@brightoranga
2 жыл бұрын
@@wennilin1076 Np! I mean we have to bring each other up since were all we have, right?
@siaanand2189
2 жыл бұрын
i'm glad you got better!
@강수아-b1y
2 жыл бұрын
my feelings as a “gifted” kid : - always have some competition - doesn’t want to be too cocky or too humble - tired of holding onto expectations - insecure because i feel like i’m becoming dumber each year - have to deal with teacher’s pet stereotypes - tired of being asked to give people homework answers - love faking people out with wrong answers when they’re trying to cheat on your test - embarrassed of grades and achievements being posted on my relatives and school pages - wanting to drop out and actually contemplating it - can’t wait for college because i can work on my own time - feeling like i have to do the classes my parents want me to and not my own - having too much to do and feeling like i’m not doing enough
@Y2kSplits-cy9dc
Жыл бұрын
I'm a so called gifted person I tend to stay calm even at the worst. I don't freak untill i realise it'll effect me in anyway. I wouldn't want to care about people. A huge cry baby, terrible at academics (working on it)
@rinharu2830
2 жыл бұрын
In elementary, I'm not the best, I'm always stuck at 4th or 3rd but that already made me happy at the time. Still, people compliments me and made me so proud. I have tried joining different contest in math, journalism, chess and etc. I'm good at them but not good enough to be considered the best, I'm okay with that thought at that time, I'm still on the honor students, top 3. My grades are never dropped 90+, I'm always the leader for projects, I maintained that all my elementary days. Then it came highschool, I transferred to private school with different teens all over the other elementary schools in our area. That's when for the first time I got line of 8 final grade and not 9, not a big of a deal except my mother questioning what happened I don't remember what I said but doesn't matter when I got it back in 2nd, 3rd, and final quarter. But still not enough apparently, I got yeeted out of 1st section with 2 other classmate. Grade 8 is fun but that's when it started feeling a burden to be a person who always got relayed to for projects, expectations for high grades because you came from higher section and they expect you to come back. I did in grade 9 but I'm not that happy about it and as I expected I came back down again in grade 10. It's not as bad in gr8 if you compare it right now, I lost all my motivation, I lost my dream, I lost who I am, I became more lazy, my procrastination problem got worse. I just got really tired of it all, maintaining it, and feeding their expectations. I'm not even good enough that they expect more even though I know I can't give more. The thought of existing just to please them, to study hard, then work, earn money so I can 'pay' them back for making me study and keeping me alive. I don't care about my grades anymore but I still try because I'm afraid of the disappointment and losing the only thing I'm good at. My whole personality rotate in my good grades and achievements, I'm not interesting person, I don't have real personality except for all the persona I put out for different people, even to my friends. As I said I'm not good at anything, I don't know how to play instruments, I don't know how to draw, sing, dance, and I even lost my love for chess. How could it get more worst? I'm socially awkward, have anxiety in big crowds, my hands always tremble when I talk or present in front of people, stutter too if you will. My attention span is so short, I get distracted easily, my interest in things only last for a day or two, I got bored of things easily even a person, I got anger management issues, I'm lazy, I suck at everything. Those are some of the reasons why I lost sight of my direction in life, the dream everyone have is non-existent for me, but I'm pressured to hurry thinking about it because I'll be senior next sy and I already need to apply for my strand. That's my biggest problem at the moment, there's more but this is getting too long but I'm quite comfortable venting because a lot of people might skip this because of the length. Anyway, bye-bye. If anyone read this and you kinda relate, hugs to us, I love you
@Mr.A-f7r
10 ай бұрын
Feeling so bad.. im a perfect achiever but since the pandemic, the times i discovered "rest", "enjoying", "being happy" and "relaxed" that momements made me feel finaly FREE and that's the reason i keep chasing that feeling being "addicted" to it. But now that i need to go back, back to reality 3 years of pandemic and feeling free cost me my past achievements, not being able to do things the same anymore bringing me stress, anxiety, distress and panic as i keep trying to keep it on covers, trying to fool myself that it's okay but i know it's not.. Just letting my body move it's own Spacing out Finishing task im not aware of Forgetting things In my memories i already done it multiple times but in reality i dont My memories getting mixed up to the point i forget even the day, year, my name, age and many more.. My mind not letting me sleep in peace, not being able to know which one is reality, dream, jusy in my head or the past And many more.. Thank you for reading this.
@mikaellaxchan_5929
2 жыл бұрын
i was good at everything at a young age, everyone said i was gifted. i had everything. i was the class president, a's in every single class, i was good at arts, music anything but now its gone everything gone. i drowned myself in work to get back everything i was, it never worked. i can barely focus in class, i get c's and f's now, i cant play any instrument, i lost everything even my relationship because i drowned myself in work and only focused on being my gifted younger version of me. everyone started pressuring me to go back, im trying to, im trying my best, but i cant go back to my younger self again. but in the end everything is gone. im just the gifted burnout who cant do anything than stand in the side lines watching my siblings jump in the same hole. i got thrown into
@alwaysandforever-i7e
2 жыл бұрын
Growing up,And success, they are just scary things to me. Once you start growing up more people expect more success from you. You really can't enjoy things you used to as kid. I like finger painting, for example. I feel like I can let myself loose and just let go and be free. But every adult around me really just hates it and says "it's for 3 year olds" Or something like that. Really, the thing I Want for Christmas is for my parents to leave me alone for once. For them to stop laying problems on me. Expecting me to know how to fix them. And when I can't they resort to abuse. This playlist is a big escape. Thank you very much.
@F_ckinFin
2 жыл бұрын
This hits different when it's 2 AM and your cramming to do everything you didn't during the week before school
@kirby-stomp
2 жыл бұрын
been a gifted kid my whole life... now, i'm in my second year of uni and have been getting 50's, 40's, 30's on exam papers all year. it lowkey feels like a villain arch, but *i'm up against my own frame of mind.* anyway, nice playlist ig lmao🧍🏻♀️🧍🏻♀️
@kirby-stomp
2 жыл бұрын
came back because someone liked my comment; i got an email a couple days ago *(which i haven't replied to 💀💀)* from my professor to talk to her since she's worried about my "performance" in class LMFAOOO-
@azurey5067
2 жыл бұрын
Hello hello as a "gifted kid", growing up for me was scary because at the age of 3 all the way to 7 I was forced to be perfect and though im naturally gifted, it was still stressful since Iw as a damn child. My parents soon stopped but after years of being perfect, it affected my own mindset. Even though my parents aren't strict with me anymore I still have the mindset to be perfect and if I don't reach my own expectations which are very high btw such as "Be top in class, be the best, beat __, look good, don't frown, don't cry and bottle it up, you're the eldest so be the perfect and best for your family". I'm 13 for hells sake and this is my mindset ever since I was 4. I'm tired but I still push myself over the edge and once I fall I just climb up to be pushed off again by my own emotions. Im sorry I just wanted to vent out my emotions
@mayootherandomanimator17
2 жыл бұрын
my first years - i remember i way that one always best in everything kid. everyone complemented me. i started learning how to play on guitar at 7, even tho it was horrible, everyone i knew seemed to love it. my grades were the best ones in class. i remember that one time in 1st grade i cried, because i got a B instead of A on some work in class shit. that should've been a dead giveaway tbh. now i'm in grade 4-8 and i always get jealous when someone gets picked, almost got a panic attack when the smart girl got an A at my favourite subject which is history btw for the semester and i only got a B (haha lmao bad english go brr), literally cried in class when other smart girl got 3 A's out of activity, while I got only 2. now im insecure about everything i do. about how, when, how much, what i eat, how, how often, what i play (games, on the guitar), i'm worried i'm not good enough, i can't help, but cry whenever my sister and mum are having an argument because of me and i can't even stay focused on simple actions such as having a conversation or even writing a comment. i can't sleep at night and i'm overall tired. the pressure of being an animator, a youtuber, a tiktoker and a book writer isn't helping. it just destroys me even more from the inside. you really didn't had to read all this shit, but thank you. have a good day, afternoon or night. merry christmas, easter, halloween or any other holiday. depends on what time you're reading this comment. bye 🤍
@Shannieeeee
Жыл бұрын
YES 1:06, 1:45 "god, its brutal out here." 3:08 "are you satisfied?" 3:24 "high achiever dont you see?" 5:42 6:36 "one tract mind. One tract heart"?? 7:36 "im gonna live, im gonna fly, im gonna fail, im gonna DIE" Di pa ako tapos dito
@Spiderrmenace
2 жыл бұрын
i remember in elementry i tried so hard and got good grades and now I'm in middle school just almost failing. I tried to make them proud and I did but it didn't last for long
@ae7486
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, reading the comments here makes me feel seen to the point that I’m crying while reading all of them so I also want to share my story. I’m not really a gifted kid, I would like to think that I just put effort into my studies which is why I always got As and I was always at the top of my class. I would always be the leader and groupworks and I will make sure that the output my group passes would be A+, it has to be perfect. As for my works, I would always make sure that it either met the expectations of my teachers or even go beyond that. Last year, I experienced extreme burnout, it was so bad one day that I didn’t eat the whole day until it was late afternoon. It was so bad to the point that I would ghost my friends. It was so bad to the point that it showed through my skin ( I had a fungal infection and neglected it for months and the status my health ( I have multiple health issues now, I just want to take care of myself at this point) as I have neglected myself, not only at that point in my life but all throughout highschool. Last year was my breaking point, last year was when the last piece of Hay broke the Camel’s back. Fortunately, I managed to finish all my works last year and still managed to be recognized as the top student. Last Summer was when I found out how bad my health problems really were, to the point that one of my doctors recommended that I was to needed to find a sport I can do in order to help me in becoming healthier. I enrolled to a Taekwondo class/club that one of my friends was attending and I’m enjoying my time there. I love the people and I love how it takes my mind off of things. I also started a new hobby last summer which re-ignited my love for something - as school always manages to make me despise the things that I once loved - which was making small clay sculptures, nothing fancy just cute stuff I can give to my friends. I was finally recovering last summer, until school started again last month. First day of school (its my last year of high school) and I was just chilling, as we didn’t have lessons yet and it was just a day to get to know each other. I was doing just that when one of my friends reminded me about College applications and I started to panic as I didn’t know it started already. A feeling of dread came over me as I didn’t know who I am, what I wanted to be, nor what university I wanted to apply to. Ever since I started school , all I knew was I had to ace everything yet despite acing everything up until that point, it felt like all the hardwork ai put into studying was all for nothing as I didn’t know what I wanted to become. That’s when everything went downhill. Lessons started and so do group works and quizzes, I’m the leader when it comes to groupworks but I don’t think I can do that anymore with my declining mental and physical health, I don’t think I can lead a group anymore. I always postpone group meetings and overall I felt like a navigator who suddenly forgot how to read a map and is now lost. I just can’t bear the responsibility of a leader anymore, physically and mentally. As for quizzes, I found out that I’m having a hard time reviewing my notes and the topics due to the fact that there has been a lot of things on my mind and I think I simply lost the ability to concentrate. It was so frustrating as a task that I could’ve done in 30 minutes before took me 2 hours to finish that day. It was so frustrating. I brought up my concern to my parents and I realized that the pressure I was putting on my self was just from me. My parents just wanted me to do well in school, they were happy that I was achieving a lot but they also wanted me to take breaks and know my boundaries. After my breakdown, my mom, my sister, and I watched TV in order to take a break from my school responsibilities for a little while. While that didn’t solve all of my problems, I was happy as I didn’t expect them to understand what I was going through. I also reached out to my school’s guidance counsellor, and he told me that it was okay to disappoint people sometimes and that its not selfish to put yourself over school sometimes. Again, it didn’t solve everything but going to a professional and a trusted adult made me feel better. Fast forward to today, I think I’ll try to get in touch with my school adviser later on and ask if they could stop making me the leader in every group works ever as I physically and mentally cannot do it anymore. I hope they understand and I hope that they will listen, as I need the time to not only take care of myself but also figure out who I am. I do hope that everyone in this comment section see better days. I also apologize for any grammatical errors as I don’t think I can proof read my comments whilst I’m blinded by tears. Anyway, to the stranger who is reading this, thank you for reading my silly little story and I hope you also figure stuff out.
@Apra0624
10 ай бұрын
I've been feeling down for the longest time. I constantly crave validation not just academically. I have anger issues and a constant fear of failing. I overthink a lot and I have social anxiety. It's honestly because my grades hit the rock bottom the past couple of months, I failed in math, barely passed in physics and got only okay-ish grades even in the subjects that I'm very good at. I'm doing much better now as I gave myself some time and focused on myself but there's still this voice inside my head that at times tells me that I'll never be good enough no matter what I do. But I read this quote that said "You fall just so you could rise again" and I feel that I'm back on the right path stronger and more motivated than ever and I now have a goal that I'm working towards. It feels good that I'm finally out of the anxiety stricken phase of my life.
@kaicollett6170
2 жыл бұрын
I'm A perfect burnt out gifted kid. I always been good at school. I was the girl who you expected to succeed at everything. I get A's and B's. I barely get in trouble. I love to read. I play in band. I do theatre and I have friends. People ask me for help on everything. Teachers either love me or hate me because of my smartness. I get the highest grades in social studies and english. I had a reading award for the best reader in kindergarten(when I first read a chapter book). I am also writing a book. But lately I have been feeling so tired. I've been the perfect girl for 7 years. I can't do it anymore. But I feel like I am forced to continue. My classmates and teachers expect me to continue and succeed. I have to prove those who say I can't get anywhere wrong and prove my friends right. That I don't need to play sports to succeed. But I also just want to drop my responsibilities and just relax. But when I try to I hate it I just have to keep busy. Thanks for attending to my Ted Talk
@sabaaras
2 жыл бұрын
I feel exactly the same :/ and I hate that I feel this way just when my most importance exams for uni and whatnot are coming up in 1-3 years. I feel like if I don’t keep it up, all my previous effort will go to waste.
@applepie2193
2 жыл бұрын
Why does it feel so same 😔
@ronin8095
2 жыл бұрын
"But I feel like I am forced to continue." why does that hit so hard??? this is very relatable. we all just need a break from all of this. good luck!
@moonchii7941
2 жыл бұрын
Scoring good marks, Have a good image being the eldest child in the family, act refined and kind to people I don't like It fucking sucks edit: plus.. giving away EVERYTHING for your younger siblings
@Kirakiwi21
2 жыл бұрын
Felt… learning should never be this stressful.
@elderwool6510
2 жыл бұрын
THIS
@jerrickmarques8777
2 жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel any better, there's probably a niece/nephew who secretly looks up to you and is inspired even if it doesn't appear to be so. Source: Was the annoying child at a table filled with successful academics
@omanoma5278
2 жыл бұрын
So stressful, half of the things i tell to my family are half truths so i can keep up to the bar. I feel you
@edwardbrown3721
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@saikijustwantscoffeejelly3919
2 жыл бұрын
You get burnt out trying to produce “perfect” results because anything else other then that is seen as “below your level” and then you feel stupid for ever trying so then you start procrastinating and suddenly your a “what could’ve been” TwT It’s stupid really...
@sunnalyn
2 жыл бұрын
Can I just rant for a sec? I’m currently labeled as a “gifted kid” which means I’m in all honors and straight a’s. Sounds great until you realize that since I have given myself these high expectations, I can start to cry once I realize I have a B in math. I just so happened to like reading, so I got in honors ELA in 4th. Then I was in all honors class in 6th, breezed through those bc of my decent ability at cheating and to memorize them. This year, I have all honors and straight a’s again, but it’s not at all as easy as it was last year. I don’t know what happened. Right now, it’s just a few Fs on small assignments, and C’s on larger ones. But I know what it’ll evolve to. And I’m terrified because I can’t get myself to study bc I never needed to before, so why should I now? I was supposed to be the smart girl with awards and certificates, but now everything is slowly crumbling and I’m scared. Thanks :)
@nikolai3763
Жыл бұрын
"gifted kid" is such a weird and annoying label, try not to let it dictate what grades you should be getting and what you should be doing. i'm going through similar things too, we'll get through this.
@_Meretricious
Жыл бұрын
2 months a little late but... You could do what this literal prodigy in my school did: Write an 8 page essay how a certain teacher's teaching/the school system is miserable and how to fix it. Her physics teacher changed his entire curriculum because of it. But if you don't want to bother with that, find friends with similar situations and find common points. You'd find you'll feel a lot more confident when you find people going through the same thing. Find what you enjoy, incorporate it into your learning and studying. Then you can figure fun ways to discuss your academics with your friend and an enjoyable activity.
@munaaliii
Жыл бұрын
Similar situation as urs.. we got this! I guess lets keep going and last sentence I couldnt agree more
@weirdlostentity394
2 жыл бұрын
I have an iq of 149. Everybody thinks i'm perfect. I was stressed as a kid, now I'm a teen with social anxiety.
@hopeless9975
2 жыл бұрын
How did you get tested for the IQ?
@alondramarquez9226
2 жыл бұрын
Success by slotface is basically a burned out gifted kid anthem, always makes me want to scream
@bekka__
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think that anything could've made me cry but that "I'm proud of you" in the description..is just..No one as ever said that to me I think in awhile..and it's just..I just want to hug you..Hug all of you..being burned out sucks..but I'm starting my recovery..I actually started to..have a study plan!..And my grades are kinda going up!..I'm getting more B's than C's and F's which is good!..(even if my parents are really proud of that)I realized that I should be proud of MYSELF and then my parents to be proud of me!..And I have myself as a priority first now!(aka my mental and physical health) so yeah!..
@Alex-ss5zx
2 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you and all that you’ve domes and all that you will accomplish ❤
@Pink0125
10 ай бұрын
Used to be that one kid who was good at every single subject and now I have no energy to do anything. It all happened in summer holidays in highschool in yr 8 but I still have no idea what the heck changed to make me this way!!
@3dflowergirl162
2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t call myself gifted but I would call myself burned out lol.
@itzkiana48
Жыл бұрын
I got burned out gifted kid I think -stressing over everything -crying over bad grades -crying myself to sleep over grades and other stuff -can't focus anymore -lose motivation on everything -gets in a bad mood easily -Not being to stay still (Probably nothing to do with this but is a problem I deal with) -anger issues -Losing friends -dying inside -Staying alive cause of the internet -feeling like a failure -Listening to this playlist -Always upset/arguing with someone
@clarawisdomtarot
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I was searching for gen z playlist and these songs are unknown to me. But so relaxing and the comments just got me. I'm a gifted millenial and honestly i am dumbstruck. All the comments bring me back to my childhood when i pretty much felt the same and back then i had no idea of burnout. I've been burnt-out since uhm... 2nd grade i guess. What i know now is that expectations are a frightening thing because they stick with you throughout your life. Thank you for creating this list and for the comments.
@MsMage-cg1rn
11 ай бұрын
I just had the worst thing happen to me. Because I'm a tad bit weird, I was making small whines of excitement and anticipation because my parents and I just went out for desserts and I was so happy because I had been craving it for weeks. My parents mistook my small jolly noises for me bitching about something they said earlier about missing a friend's birthday party for extra credit. I wasn't upset about that because neither were that close and we'd still have another 2 weeks to figure something out. But regardless, they thought I was complaining about that even though I wasn't. I tried to explain myself but I kept getting shut down. They thought I was talking back and being disrespectful and having attitude _when I was just trying to say something._ So now here I am, getting done 6 assignments that are due in the next few days. This playlist and other people's stories and caring comments have been pushing me and giving me an almost magical boost of hope, that I can get the work done and be finished and get back my video games from my parents. Thank you, playlist maker and commenters for your optimism and reminding me that I can do this. We can do this, if not by ourselves, then together.
@kuroxei1985
2 жыл бұрын
kinda sucks I used to be considered a gifted kid when I was younger. I thought I was special and had high expectations from myself and others. But as I grew older I realized that wasn’t the case. I started struggling to keep up with the kids who were actually smart and I felt like some fraud. Now I have ok grades in high school and basically struggling due to my stupid mental illnesses. Back then I was very motivated but now I’m just so burnt out and just wish I could just sleep forever.
@SaltedRain
2 жыл бұрын
i wasn’t really gifted, i just never tried in school and still got good grades. I never learned the skills like studying i needed for middle school or highschool. I procrastinate on any and every project. I never study and it shows. I took a mental health break a couple weeks ago and now i’m failing 2 classes. The fact I have adhd doesn’t help. I hate everything.
@theparotonyourroof5365
9 ай бұрын
I can rarely concentrate because I have ADHD but I somehow found myself writing an essay since forever while listening to this playlist. It really helped alot! I have 3 exams tomorrow and I want to tell anyone that read this to know that your efforts will always be appreciated and stay calm during examinations. You can always let your anger or sadness in this comment, i might not reply but I’ll always read and appreciate them.
@nyxcoser6948
2 жыл бұрын
my mom used to tell me that she won't pressure me to be a achiever but i wanted to make her proud so i did and she got used to it so every medal just feel like a object and she have never said she was proud of me and when i do make mistakes that's the first she notices and now she has a fiance and he expects me to be perfect and i already was putting pressure on my self and now I'm burned out :) to everyone who is reading this comment,Good job and I'm proud of you for reaching this far,you're more than enough and your effort is appreciated:)
@Sai_Bruh
Жыл бұрын
Holy crap bro I relate to this so much
@chau3521
2 жыл бұрын
i relate to the comment section a lot. the fact that i used to be a high-achiever, straight-A student and stuff. idk correctly when i started to feel tired and couldn't satisfy myself, i started procrastinating alot and lose motivation. my life doesn't get together. i feel empty, hopeless. the expectations from my teachers and family are too high that i want to give in everything. i need help desperately. i want to feel that passion of studying in me. but everyday, all i do is scroll through the internet. genshin and all my previous hobbies bored me. i don't understand the meaning of life, why am i here, i'm a failure..
@surbhihi
2 жыл бұрын
there is no such thing as "gifted" when you get into university :)
@AchillesLives
Жыл бұрын
The worst part is when these certain phrases echo in your head "What happened?" "U used to be better than this" "I thought you were smart" Im desperately trying... Trying to be perfect but wherever i go im just not good enough... Constantly looking for my own mistakes Overthinking what others think about me/ how they view me Im tired of always trying...
@ahana5324
Жыл бұрын
*What happened?* Hurts the most.....The fact that They are Actually telling the truth hurts More....Like seriously What happened?🙂
@uwu.2_6
2 жыл бұрын
I know how to speak 3 lenguages, I do ballet and jazz, I was the best student on my last year of primary school, 1st place in a math competition at state level twice, 8th place in sailing on a national competition, 1st place with my team in volleyball and I play the guitar. All of this dealing with my diabetes, celiac disease, hyperthyroidism and my mental issues (OCD and bulimia). Btw, I'm 15 y/o
@helen2565
2 жыл бұрын
I´m the burned out kid, i study medicine, i used to be president of my high school student council, i am leader of a lot of groups, study french (even though i barely have time) and try to learn to play guitar Sometimes i just wanna shout
@thishipsdontlie
2 жыл бұрын
I'm understanding. Can I pour out my feelings here? Can't handle them anymore. I'm a freshman in medical university, a leader of my group, volunteer and activist. It's only been a month of my studies here, it's feels like... idk, weird. So, besides studing at classes I miraculously manage to learn English, go in for sports and take part in almost all extracurricular activities of the university. I just wanna shout right now. And every moment. Always - want to yell. There were a LOT tragic tragic events this year in my country. One funny (not funny at all) granny started a war, you know. I'm lucky to live in the center of the country, I did not notice any special changes (except for economic ones) until last week. What happened last week? Mobilization. Not funny, hah? It touched every family. Each person. I have not met a n y o n e, who would support her either on the Internet or in real life. It is another factor of big great high stress in my life. How am I still not in clinic? Do. Not. Know. P.S. Fun fact: we call "mobilization" - "mogilization", because "mogila" is "grave" on our language ))))))))))))
@yelisey5652
Жыл бұрын
It's honestly gotten so bad that everytime I take a break I get mad at myself because I could be studying 🔪🔪
@binniluv.
2 жыл бұрын
I've been feeling burnt out for a while now. I tried to open up to my best friend. She's really busy with all her studies and school now so I didn't really want to bother her. So I searched up some songs and happen to come across this playlist. My results for an exam I took ab a month ago came out today and I got 167/170. I felt happy but also pressured bc I have to "try harder" next time. I want my first impression at my new school (it'll start in two days) be somewhat decent but my mentality isn't helping at all. All my friends from my old schools assume I study hard and consider me as a "gifted kid" which makes me think I should actually study bc I don't. Anyways, this is such a good playlist. Thank you
@munaaliii
Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you. Keep grinding you got this mate xo
@binniluv.
Жыл бұрын
@@munaaliii Thanks alot! I really needed it ❤️
@NarumiNazura
Жыл бұрын
Vent : I learned to speak my mother language at 5 months, learned my second language (english) at age 1. I was a kid that can hang onto new materials easily. The eldest born of millitary trained parents. Growing up, i was always the center of attention. I was called a “gifted kid”. I learned how to draw as a 1 and a half years old. I was birn with what they call a “porcelain” baby face, which means its very precious and fragile. I was raised in a happy environment, my parents love me, until i entered middle school. I know im their first baby, their first toddler, their first tween, their first teenager. They basically still let their trainings get into them, i let it slide alot tho. I am a social kid, i always smile no matter the situation, trained in harsh environments, even though mentally trained, those words always get the insides of me somehow. In middle school 7th grade, i started having online friendgroups (aka when the pandemic started). They all seemed nice to me. I trusted them as a close friend, until they started showing me their true nature. I was never let go into social activities as a kid often, so thats a new experience for me. I was a tween, i didnt know about my actions yet, from good A+ grades, i went downhill. Going to A, B+, B-, C and F. I even almost get expelled. My parents asked, “what caused you to be this dumb so suddenly?!” It somehow, got into me that day. For 2 years (2020-2022), i was going worse and worse. They said this everyday. “Where did my gifted, kind and caring baby girl go?” 2022 January, offline school started again, i met my friends in school for the first time. They were the people that.. has “crippling depression”, “multiple self diagnosed dissabilities”, “ broken family” and stuff, i yell at them because they were getting into my nerves, they had a whole entire breakdown in class, i was seen as the villain. They think of me as “a gifted talented artist that cannot be in a bad mood” or “the perfect girl”, “the girl that cannot be angry” because i kept my emtions under control, even when i was already in the edge of breaking. Whenever theyre angry or pissed of at me or someone else, they wouldnt talk to anyone including me. I always think of their silence and heads down on the table as “leave me alone, i need personal space”. And i was right, they thanked me for personal space after their whole shenanigans are done. But WHEN they piss me off, they would shook me around, mess with my hair, hug and snuggle to me in my private parts, vent to me while im messed in my own mind because of them, annoy the hell out of me until i speak. When i yell at them out of anger, because i basically lost control of my emotions, they would stood in shock, then had a mental breakdown saying its trauma and my screaming brings back all flooding bad memories, they said it like i havent experienced things like that too. (I experienced alot more, but i dont feel like typing because im tired.) We would not talk for awhile, after theyre back in their good mood, they would always come to me asking this over snd over again. “Have you reflect on what makes you a f-cking fake friend?” I feel like im a dissapointment to my family and friends, my siblings winning many competitions, them being the golden students of their schools, my cousins being athletes, my parents being also academically smart.. And im here, a failed “gifted” kid. I somehow cant explain it properly.. i somehow.. cant..?
@caglasainz
Жыл бұрын
how tf were you able to speak English ehen you were 1
@NarumiNazura
Жыл бұрын
@@caglasainz I was taught earlier than other kids. And also because they told me that I am a fast learner. Even though I learned since that age, my English wasn't perfect on either way.
@whokilledj
10 ай бұрын
hi there. this is a year late, im so sorry. okay, so i relate to you very much. ask my friends, the first word they describe me with is 'smart'. And it puts so much pressure to me that I can't explain... my friends are and still are super nice to me but they get on my nerves. when I'm in a messed up state they laugh, they chat ,they sing annoying songs and go 'im jenna and im depressed' and mock me in some way then say 'sorry sorry' with that STUPID innocent face. I don't know how to stop them because i dont think they know they hurt me or annoy me, no matter how much I tell them. everyone thinks of me as the most mentally stable in my class, maybe I am, but they dont know how the 'perfect tHaT gIrL' cries herself to sleep when she gets a 91%. so, one burnt out person to another, I want to tell you that someone out here understands, and I do not pity you one bit. people like us are warriors who put on a mask every single day, and when the mask breaks, people run. they'll never understand us because they have never done the same thing. sometimes i just wish someone would hug me and tell me something that isn't 'im so sorry.' Cause i dont want them to be sorry. my mask hasn't broken yet and I wonder when it will . but for you, I'm just going to say: YOU CAN DO THIS! you're going to live a great life and don't let others get in your way. I hope you're feeling better!
@NarumiNazura
10 ай бұрын
@zxnyxie Hello there! No worries if this is a year late, but oh man.. i feel the burden you carry on your chest. I appreciate you so much for taking the time to reply to my comment and sharing your experience. Sometimes, friends could be nice to you and super caring, but at times, they could be just somebody that is just the complete opposite.. I thank you so so much for the compliment you just shared with me and to both of us. I appreciate it very, very much! Im so happy, and im so proud that you are able to open up to this reply section. I am proud that you are still able to keep yourself together, though everything is so hard and challenging. My mental stability is on the edge, im on the edge of losing it all, but i still have hope for me and everybody that relates! Even if it's just a little. I just recently lost all my friends, but i have made peace with the fact that they're just.. not worth my time and tears. Stay strong, friend. If you ever feel down, remember that there's still many people that care and love you for who you are, and not for your intelligence nor your grades. But for purely, yourself. ❤️
@whokilledj
10 ай бұрын
@@NarumiNazura well, damn, i took part in an international competition a month ago and found the paper easy. The results came yesterday and i didnt get anything, not top 10 per cent, 20 per cent, 30 per cent, or 50 per cent. My mom checked with the comitee and they checked the system... Then even rechecked manually because my mom asked them to. Nothing. Im so disappointed i swear all my friends got top 20 per cent and i cqnt imagine when my school announces the results... And everyone will look at me and wonder 'jenna? Arent you the smartest in your class? Whats wrong with you?' while my friends receive their medals...
@Angel-nx6wy
2 жыл бұрын
As a ‘gifted’ kid, this playlist is a BOP. Love it.
@Its_ok_to_not_be_ok
Жыл бұрын
Right now, I am crying as I am writing some essays for the end of my school year, balancing a job, taking care of my younger siblings, social event, and school has been so stressful for me recently, I have always been the "picture" child, used as the example for others, called up to the front to be talked about, or always getting called on for questions. But recently I have had no motivation, no drive, and everything has felt different. I just can't help it; I've broken down so many times. I just don't understand, I can't write, it just isn't coming out of my head like it normally does. I feel like I am failing everyone. If anyone knows what to do please let me know. ~ A burnt-out gifted kid
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