I must agree with u Owamie, alot of women pay their own lobola & keep it a secret....
@sontomtolo473
2 жыл бұрын
Nothing new here, I know someone who helped their fiance. Not condoning it though.
@tiisetsofakude3962
2 жыл бұрын
That man won't respect you!
@amandachiya1928
2 жыл бұрын
Is this normal you guys??
@mbalenhlezulu8075
2 жыл бұрын
I never paid lobola but I used to give my ex money to take me out and buy me gifts and I used to act as if I'm surprised lol. Mjolo is a scam yaz mara 😅😅😅😅😅
@mgabimpiloh
2 жыл бұрын
@@mbalenhlezulu8075 lol why would you do that? He couldn’t afford noma?
@justtebogo
2 жыл бұрын
Paying your own Lobola is the ultimate red flag. DANGER ⚠️ INGOZI ⚠️ GEVAAR⚠️
@JNM834
2 жыл бұрын
😷😷😷😷
@relebohilebore1255
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@thulisilekhethile2319
2 жыл бұрын
🤞🏿
@pddymrks9237
2 жыл бұрын
Perioy
@mpumelelontombela589
2 жыл бұрын
You would be surprised by how many women have actually done it.
@nokwethembadladla1969
2 жыл бұрын
There's something about Owami's growth and healing and success that just warms my heart 🥺🥺🥺🥺
@pinkysegolabeng3576
2 жыл бұрын
that exactly what i was thinking while she was talking,Our Queen is healing and we are so happy
@bernardettesharara7891
2 жыл бұрын
You can say that again
@MrLesegoN
2 жыл бұрын
I watched this and I see now why you give such solid, frank and honest advise to my ninja sisters. Also, girl have you ever thought of approaching a black publishing company on your experience with the divorce? But with funny and entertaining insight into it! I think the title should be "Divorce Done Right".
@this_is_nyeleti
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you always leave positive comments here❤️
@MrLesegoN
2 жыл бұрын
@@this_is_nyeleti 💝
@nzm5596
2 жыл бұрын
@Lesego Ntoahae you deserve 15% fee for such a brilliant idea yaz🤞🏾
@LethoHali
2 жыл бұрын
Noice! 👌🏾
@LethoHali
2 жыл бұрын
I am writing a book. Going through the same. But I am certainly stealing your humour idea. That’s how I have done some of my videos. That book is so very heavy I think humour is definitely the way to go!
@kagisomabutho1997
2 жыл бұрын
Ma’am!!! The video quality? 10/10. The makeup ? 10/10
@lifewithmissblaque9271
2 жыл бұрын
Yeyi ke was looking at that n like wooooowza❣️💯🤞🙌
@mbalintobela4060
2 жыл бұрын
Right?? 👌💞
@ntaolenglebitsa5829
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah like what camera is she using
@nomfundohlongwane2376
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so shook like 🔥
@nhmathenjwa
2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing as powerful like owning your truth with no shame rather lesson. Ninja you're Boss for doing that
@TheeMsutu
2 жыл бұрын
I'm also proud of how you are able to admit the good side of Mr B 👌🏾❤️
@motivatED-37
2 жыл бұрын
When you open a financial door for a man, he will be everything you want him to be for as long as he needs to. You have a good heart sis udlale indoda nje
@nontomathonsi5005
2 жыл бұрын
The minute you stop 🛑 financing his needs, the “love” leaves the room
@refiloepeu961
2 жыл бұрын
Dude! The best advise I ever received from my dad. Is never give a man money for things he should be doing as a man!!!! Those people are hunters! If he is not hunting elsewhere to provide for you, YOU are the Hussle!
@motivatED-37
2 жыл бұрын
@@refiloepeu961 Such wise words ☕
@prettybird8839
2 жыл бұрын
@@refiloepeu961 I’m learning this from the internet🙌🏾. Never gave a man money, but I didn’t see it as a problem, and I’m now fully convinced it’s a bad, bad idea. A man knows what he should be doing. Don’t help him to be a man, it’s not your job.
@nelzg5819
2 жыл бұрын
@@refiloepeu961 wow. Your dad is spot on
@thandekangubane3494
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of women have paid their own lobola and the marriage doesn't work. A man needs to work and sweat for his wife, if he can't afford then he is not ready to be a husband.
@mapulemosidi7345
2 жыл бұрын
Agree a 100%
@prettybird8839
2 жыл бұрын
It’s even Biblical. I fully agree with it!
@palesasefurutshe6832
2 жыл бұрын
100% true
@emmdee4995
2 жыл бұрын
And a man doesn't find easier for him to leave you,because he won't loose anything anyways
@mrs.masilo765
2 жыл бұрын
True
@_baphiwe_
2 жыл бұрын
PSA 📢: Men need inspiration and support, not help. Young ladies, you do NOT have to pay people back for being kind to you. Yes, appreciate, but don't feel pressured to reciprocate kind gestures. Say thank you and mean it and keep it moving. Your value isn't in what you offer, it's in who you are. Stay in your feminine role. Thanks Wamie for sharing your L. Jah bless you for being open. 💛💛🐝🐝
@zee7594
2 жыл бұрын
If you have more money as a woman, keep it or give it to your family. Money cannot buy love . Those kind of relationships don't last.
@normanzwane1985
2 жыл бұрын
Selfish. You want to be bankrolled as if you are a commodity.
@Kay_Segoto
2 жыл бұрын
I personally think that you fell in love with this man cause he gave you the love you needed from your father, you mention that he took your sisters in and looked after them like a father should, that’s made you fell in love with him. You had daddy issues and you wanted to fill that void hence you didn’t see past his BS. I’m sure the red flags were there but you looked past them cause Of that void. A lot of us come from homes where we yearn that fatherly love and seek it for it in our romantic relationships, that’s what messes us up. Our fathers are our first heartbreaks 💔
@toolietools1316
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@heiressmorzia519
2 жыл бұрын
Very true. The void is real 🤧🤧
@TJ-my9nh
2 жыл бұрын
@Koketso I agree
@nelisiwedubazana8913
2 жыл бұрын
@koketso segoto chomi osale kamo no ways you are a number one supporter 😂😂❤️
@Kay_Segoto
2 жыл бұрын
@@nelisiwedubazana8913 😂😂 I’m a girls girl, ka morata Owamie
@londekile_n
2 жыл бұрын
As a young girl I really appreciate this content because where else would I get such real life advice. Thank you for sharing!
@this_is_nyeleti
2 жыл бұрын
Your makeup skills just sky rocketed yaz!
@toolietools1316
2 жыл бұрын
She is looking gorgeous.
@anelissabrown2424
2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeyi muhle😍😍 I so wish she could do a make up tutorial with the make up products she uses😪🤤
@pinkycele11
2 жыл бұрын
Owamie you have become a voice to a lot of women who are scared or embarrassed sharing these kind of stories. 🥰🥰
@nomfunekonosilela3895
2 жыл бұрын
I like that you tell your own stories so none can blackmail you afterwards, you were young and had lost your mother at a critical stage in your life which clouded your judgement in certain issues. Your sharing this story is a sign of healing , growth and maturity. One thing I will say never regret any decision you made out of love, learn from it and let it go so you free yourself from the pain. 💕💕
@thabangmahasha9147
2 жыл бұрын
You are not stupid Owami you are Human ❤️
@mollysito534
2 жыл бұрын
We learn from our mistakes and correct them
@namsb.5221
2 жыл бұрын
Tanki Thabang
@rojamillerover
2 жыл бұрын
No she is stupid let's not sugar coat it
@panatiamokoena4120
2 жыл бұрын
She’s an empath we love giving and helping sometimes to our detriment
@ndondomhlophe6340
2 жыл бұрын
I am a girl in her 20s and one thing I learnt and I am so greatful I learnt as a teenager is RUNNN away from broke men. I have never dated one and I promised myself I never would. I would rather be single.
@pruviamotsepa4368
2 жыл бұрын
Educational for me as a young woman... A lot of women are being distorted money... In the name of i will pay you back... I actually went through a rough relationship at the age of 24... Actually did a lot for my baby daddy from paying his rent buying him food and bought him clothes for him... Lesson learned is to never ever give money to a man... No matter how much you love him
@JackBohloko
2 жыл бұрын
This is amazing content, I actually heared your name on MacG's podcast, just thought of checking you out
@khetimthembu8465
2 жыл бұрын
Yay it's good to see another Chiller
@Journey_Of_A_Broken_Soul
2 жыл бұрын
New subbie for u
@anitaseitshiro
2 жыл бұрын
Hi. Which episode?
@Whatever777-t7c
2 жыл бұрын
Which apisode? wanna check it out
@TheGoldRose-pz5nc
2 жыл бұрын
@@Whatever777-t7c Yesteday's episode. The one with Slik talk
@hlengiweyourstruly
2 жыл бұрын
You really gave that man your best, I doubt he'll ever be loved like that
@zona_davani
2 жыл бұрын
A real man wouldn’t be proud of taking money from his woman. You’ll find what you deserve, in fact he will find you.
@nakhomahola5559
2 жыл бұрын
True Zona. She will find what’s meant for her 🙏🏾🤞🏾
@mollysito534
2 жыл бұрын
Some men don't care
@zona_davani
2 жыл бұрын
@@mollysito534 those are the ones to be avoided at all cost.
@keikei1943
2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately we don't have those type in this country
@pm1647
2 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, you loved fully and gave yourself wholeheartedly. And you still loved yourself enough to walk away and it 100% justified. Many women will not walk in your shoes they are still in those failing relationships.
@mpumelelontombela589
2 жыл бұрын
Women get shamed for leaving or not having a man, she's a strong woman.
@mpumelelontombela589
2 жыл бұрын
@@Baddification so you would rather stay for him to support the kids? Yooooh kunzima. I think you misunderstood me. I didn't say it's a shame I said women are shamed when leaving a bad situation because to some it's an achievement to have a man.
@thecommenter2666
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly this explains a whole lot. His behaviour and all. You were too good for him.
@Cleo.N
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. And now I feel like red flags were just ignored.
@caronenkhonjera760
2 жыл бұрын
@@Cleo.N I saw their vids here & there and knew that a lot of red flags were ignored. So she over compensated. I enjoy this Owami which is authentic & true.
@basanibaloyi2093
2 жыл бұрын
She is a strong beautiful gooood woman. She was just a woman in love... all the red flags were there but she couldn't see
@zanelexaba6814
2 жыл бұрын
Can we actually talk about her makeup, the weave, the glow, and the quality of the camera? so satisfying to watch especially if you started watching this channel years back. You are an inspiration sis. May God bless you :)
@bathabiletshabalala2897
2 жыл бұрын
Most women pay their lobola indirectly we take over certain responsibilities that r not meant for us
@snazom8643
2 жыл бұрын
That man is vomiting blood wherever he is right now🤣🤣🤣🤣
@maneo_tso9201
2 жыл бұрын
Yoh I would be too if I were him 🤭
@sphiwemasela3575
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@senamilesimelane1783
2 жыл бұрын
Lol uyalayeka
@jabubuthelezi4822
2 жыл бұрын
Truly,,,
@mphonsango1522
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@nkhen_c357
2 жыл бұрын
No one can use your mistakes when you own it.....you can't shame the shameless.....no one have power over you now...
@Cleo.N
2 жыл бұрын
And it's so freeing... you walk with confidence.
@Ms_Mshengu
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you always own your stories and not allow gossip columns to bash your name...
@sage2487
2 жыл бұрын
I think you guys had good intentions for each other honestly... I feel like the problem was just lack of guidance and the people around you who were not supportive specifically his family😢.
@leratomamabolo
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@Zimkhitha
2 жыл бұрын
At some point he really did love her and cared for her above everything else.
@heiressmorzia519
2 жыл бұрын
True hey...
@Sam-on7dl
2 жыл бұрын
I feel so too, these two loved each other just Mr B's family probably felt they were loosing their son over Owami
@phililemosia6956
2 жыл бұрын
His family are narcissist
@thabangmokoena5411
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry if I sound insensitive but it was doomed from the get go. You can't pay your own lobola
@Cleo.N
2 жыл бұрын
I have to agree with you. And paying off his s debts... yhuuuu. Now I'm not surprised by his behaviour.
@LadyT06
2 жыл бұрын
Literally,paying lobola for a man is a huge BIG NO both culturally and spiritually.
@nomfundomasuku2443
2 жыл бұрын
That's what I was saying
@nomfundomasuku2443
2 жыл бұрын
@@LadyT06 Absolutely
@DuchessofSA
2 жыл бұрын
She was young ,stupid and inlove that's why his family treated her like that 🙆
@Imnotbroke_
2 жыл бұрын
Shuuuu and then now you have to pay for the divorce too😭 I love how you're still acknowledge the good he did for you. But I definitely agree with the message of this video, I also agree with vat'n sit or giving a man money to lobola you is not a bright idea . Of course I know sometimes there's exceptions to these rules and for some people it works out but in general it's a big NO.
@Journey_Of_A_Broken_Soul
2 жыл бұрын
Why is she the one paying for divorce?
@Imnotbroke_
2 жыл бұрын
@@Journey_Of_A_Broken_Soul all the details are in the other vids but I guess because she asked for it and guy isn't interested meeting her halfway financially 😖 Owamie doesn't deserve this, she's such a sweet heart 🥺
@victorioussisters3307
2 жыл бұрын
Child! 🤗 My 6th sense kicked in at the right time, I almost did that but hey, sense knocked me down I told Mr Man to sell his car with that money go pay my lobola. I’m glad he did.
@melmel7011
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂mine insinuated that since there is a lot currently in our plate I should help him out. I told him I'd rather buy myself a nice car than helping him.Then he changed and said he was kidding, yena he is a man he will afford.
@victorioussisters3307
2 жыл бұрын
@@melmel7011 tsine Maswati we don’t play games ne! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@zona_davani
2 жыл бұрын
I think the problem starts when a woman feels like a man is doing something out of the ordinary feeding his woman. I think it’s good natured and being appreciative, but it’s his job. You don’t have to feel bad and want to make things easier for him or pay back. It’s his role as the head of the household to provide. I’m proud of you though ninja in all this, you’ve become wiser and know what you deserve ❤️
@melmel7011
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you but some of us don't have a heart like yours. We have to intentionally ignore our hearts because all it wants to do is to give and help out. It hurts us to see our beloved ones having it tough. Being cold hearted doesn't come naturally to some people.
@zona_davani
2 жыл бұрын
@@melmel7011 it’s not really about being cold, just understanding our respective roles in the relationship. In Owamie’s case she was young but it’s a different case for now when there’s so much information on such.
@melmel7011
2 жыл бұрын
@@zona_davani I know what you mean. My head knows the responsibility of a man but my heart doesn't care at times Hence you have to be cold hearted to stick to what yoh know to be right. If you not cold hearted you will give in.
@nelzg5819
2 жыл бұрын
@@melmel7011 truuuue
@nelzg5819
2 жыл бұрын
A heart and knowledge like yours hun. Thats what we need😐😐
@mphohappiness1736
2 жыл бұрын
Aaah man. Now I can confidently say you made a great decision.
@yourgirrlll9975
2 жыл бұрын
I love these story times because I feel like they are a lesson to us and some people can relate with you ,sisi. Hearing your story times it made me love you because you are an independent woman. I love that you did not let le divorce to destroy u. UMNTU MHLE QHA!!
@keneilwemarwane
2 жыл бұрын
The level of maturity was poor there on his part, no matter how upset you can be to your spouse some things you keep them in the wrap. Some things stay between husband and wife. It's true when they say men take time to mature, below 30 very few men know themselves. You are free Owamie, no one can come here and blackmail you. Hai o di bone shame. ❤️❤️❤️
@nkhen_c357
2 жыл бұрын
No one can use your mistakes when you own it.....you can't shame the shameless.....no one have power over you now...
@kangula4035
2 жыл бұрын
Its true hey, I bet there are things that Owamie knows about him but shes not sharing with the world...In fact he should be embarrassed as a man to reveal that a woman used her money for lobola while she was genuinely taking the practicality of the situation into consideration..what kind of man is this that cant die with a secret
@keneilwemarwane
2 жыл бұрын
@@kangula4035 imagine a husband telling people what you do in the bedroom like how. Imagine a husband telling a girlfriend that you are barren and you have to hear from your Helper (the other video) this is so upsetting really. Some things a person can only talk about them when they are ready. Iyo 🙄 😢
@ntandoyenkosidube9702
2 жыл бұрын
It serves as a warning for the next woman in his life... She's also not safe
@swazi4769
2 жыл бұрын
Love your transparency. Healing is when you accept and acknowledge your mistakes and empowering others to not follow in your footsteps... That for me is wisdom!
@yozareason1803
2 жыл бұрын
I get where you coming from in terms of attachments in your relationship, fighting with family is no child's play, anyone who accomodates you when you need someone to talk to Will definitely have your whole heart!
@itumelengmachaba8664
2 жыл бұрын
Ninja well done, becuase you're free from secrecy n guilt. I applaud 👏 you for coming out and talking about it. It's a lesson. Plus your helping struggling youtubers to have content🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. So it's community work 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@malebsm
2 жыл бұрын
100% putting bread on other youtubers table. They are going to say how stupid she is, when we don't know their stories.
@wendideliciousdivinethwala3191
2 жыл бұрын
You can say that again hey,, definitely these struggling You Tubers will have so much content this week.
@minkz002
2 жыл бұрын
That particular KZitemr especially 😂 !
@MamaAyandanaRyan
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@themburoyalty2179
2 жыл бұрын
Guilt ?
@Auntie134
2 жыл бұрын
I am enjoying the story times more than the gossip. I love how candid you are. A lot of women will definately learn from what you have gone thru.
@Kamo27944
2 жыл бұрын
You're only human. The biggest thing is you've grown and learnt from this. Thank you for sharing 🤍
@anelisaqatha3323
2 жыл бұрын
I love you because you tell the truth and we get to learn from your experience ❤️
@dynamitesurvivor.228
2 жыл бұрын
My policy: never give a man money, not even R10, men can easily use your kindness for their own selfish needs. At that moment Queen Ninja you felt that it was the right thing to do. And you have learnt the lesson. And thank you for sharing.🥰
@sina4628
2 жыл бұрын
Have to learn the hard way think when you really love someone helping make sense but 😵😵😵😵😵😵
@kundajudymwanza5844
2 жыл бұрын
Young ladies there's serious lessons in these story times. Learn!
@mpumevlogs967
2 жыл бұрын
Owami! Owami! Owami!. I understand we only able to share some stories once we are healed and I'm just proud of your truth.
@thakhyanddesmond4523
2 жыл бұрын
He was preparing u for ur real husband 🤗😍
@sadeatthewhip1846
2 жыл бұрын
This is no joke, it's like they feel entitled once you give them money. I'll never make that mistake again. In January 2019 I gave my ex $700 (which was most of my tax return) so he could make up some credit card payments and fees he'd missed because we didn't have a lot of extra money while we were living together. Guess who got cheated on and dumped ....by the end of 2019 😁🤚
@XollyZwide
2 жыл бұрын
I so can relate to what Owami is saying not every thing needs to be out in the open but when ish hits the fan then I think you start questioning your motives as well as why did I even go the extra mile for this person 🤷🏾♀️
@nomvulazwane3525
2 жыл бұрын
Our cc was too forward.bthe guy interpret it as a desperate 👩.
@XollyZwide
2 жыл бұрын
@@nomvulazwane3525 I fully understand but during that intimate moment when they both agreed to this arrangement, no one was meant to know about it. I also know a few ladies that have done what Owami did and their marriages are still intact, I feel it was the wrong person wrong timing 🤷🏾♀️
@mbalenhlezulu8075
2 жыл бұрын
@@nomvulazwane3525 mara they already stayed together for years. I think I would have done the same so that my years don't go down the drain
@mbalenhlezulu8075
2 жыл бұрын
@@XollyZwide I agree with u dear.
@nomvulazwane3525
2 жыл бұрын
@@XollyZwide yes even me do know about them , it just stupidity for the ex husband to talk about it now.
@WannaCookOfficial
2 жыл бұрын
I have to admit that i have officially turned my boyfriend into a ninja 😂he is always the first to ask if Owamie has posted and always tells me when you have a video up. lol this household belongs to you Queen ninja
@sharonmwesigwa13
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I dig that.
@ntokotoPM
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting. I'm coming to your channel!! Let's coooook baby!!!!
@unicahmanyapelo4356
2 жыл бұрын
Whatever you have done u did it out of love !you are an absolute human . And it does not matter what u have done being honest “for me when u r in love anything is possible you will only realise what u shouldn’t or should have done when things don’t work out . This experience will only teach us and thank u hun . I know we can only listen to ur story and go back to do what we do best being controlled by love.
@andilengubane5178
2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@selassies9783
2 жыл бұрын
Eish one of the biggest mistakes a woman can ever make. This really has detrimental consequences. It’s just so wrong on so many levels, biblically, spiritually and culturally💯. It’s so brave of you to share your story with us ninja. We live and we learn so don’t be hard on yourself.
@Munzhe
2 жыл бұрын
When we fall in love we lose all senses. We are out here paying for own lobolas because for some reason as women we want to fast track the idea of settling down and we will do whatever it takes to make it happen. We are many....many. Did I say many? Yes. A bunch of us.
@DelisileNgema
2 жыл бұрын
not shocked , all your videos while you were together said it all , u gave more ,u love more and you protected more i can safely say love blinded you but just thank God that you now delivered from your past
@nondumisomhlongo
2 жыл бұрын
You were not stupid, you were in love ❤️
@sibongilejembula5652
2 жыл бұрын
Would like to take this to the scriptures. In Genesis 3:16-20. The punishment was that women will experience pain during childbirth and men will have to work hard and sweat to make the soil produce anything. These days, women still experience pain during child birth (apart from a few who can afford epidural) and still have to work hard and sweat to make the soil produce anything. Who is still under the curse and have taken over the curse of the other? Men must just work. Omunye nomunye Amele isono sakhe. No giving money ladies.
@yenziledlamini7708
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this...
@mvelomt6015
2 жыл бұрын
Being in hypogemous relationships is truely a trap for us ladies 💔😭 it never works out no matter how much you love the gent... Thank you for this open and honest cautionary tale Owami ❤️
@stelliesatchaar7888
2 жыл бұрын
i had to google this word. thank you for teaching us. also very true, its straining and you become the only one who suffers as a partner
@leratoblos6728
2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to Google it.
@moma452
2 жыл бұрын
eh segowa.. kganthi there's a term for this?
@panatiamokoena4120
2 жыл бұрын
It never works even if you don’t flaunt your money
@pukupie5027
2 жыл бұрын
😅😂🤣You were doomkop in love Owamie. I love you so much babe.
@rudoharahwa1585
2 жыл бұрын
Sage advice here. Hands up for owning your truth. I recently broke off a 3 year relationship. Dude had no money he was hoping I would give him capital to trade online then when he makes a profit he would pay lobola. I am still in shock at the audacity!
@SuzetteKhiba
2 жыл бұрын
Lol I can relate 🚮😂 we need to do better as women.
@thenjirahube8680
2 жыл бұрын
My focus was on your beautiful face through out the whole video. Your make up game is on point Owami👌🏾
@nokuphiwamabaso4534
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you’ve covered this before, but May you please make a video of any red flags you noticed early in the relationship, even when things were seemingly great.
@sina4628
2 жыл бұрын
Can relate a boyfriend of 4 years was like that with me so supportive when he didn't have money and i got so attached to him he took my child as his but financially the guy isn't stable yet but i have put my foot down on that one lobola was gonna come from him but unfortunately we broke up and I'm glad i didn't agree to give him loboa money cos would have lost my mind right now _but we appreciate the the lessons from this channel 🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
@nomcebobuthelezi944
2 жыл бұрын
Just the title! 😭 I haven’t started watching and I’m already super angry on Owamie’s behalf
@mzansicommentary5621
2 жыл бұрын
I have a lot to say but let me cut this short, Owamie you are an inspiration darling your story and history gives me hope especially because they give us younger girls a chance to learn from your mistakes 🥺❤ Love you lots sis🥺❤
@millicentsifisomthunzi3799
2 жыл бұрын
I know someone who paid for their own lobola and throughout the relationship she was paying for everything :(
@prettybird8839
2 жыл бұрын
That’s what happens vele! Never help a man financially.
@Leira6267
2 жыл бұрын
So you married yourself and now you are divorcing yourself with your own money. Smh The good thing is, at least you are strong enough to laugh at yourself & learn something from your own mistakes. Bless your heart.
@caronenkhonjera760
2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who is pleading with her man to pay Lobola. She told her parents to reduce it to $50. What does the BF do he says he has no money but goes and buys a full gym & $3500 bed suite 😂😂😂😂. I jokingly told her to just go for free because there’s no way he wants to get married now to her. She moved herself into his place and he moved out. From the outside looking in she paints a rosy picture and praises him so much like how Owami used to do. It’s sad.
@portiampatiramoshayi8899
2 жыл бұрын
She was in love,she saw the need for her to save her husband from waisting money on unnecessary things and use it for valuable things. She always preaches save money. Meaning she sees money in a different way than most of us. I would say she was wise and she still is. I respect the relationship that she has with money. She is way too much matured for her age. Her disadvantage was that she did not have the husband who has the the thinking capacity as hers . Let's face the truth , there are men who are mentally weak and the wife has to think for both of them. For me I would say Mr b has lost a SAPPHIRE, A PEARL A DIAMOND ,TEC💕💕
@Chiyevo
2 жыл бұрын
😳😳😳👍
@Leira6267
2 жыл бұрын
@@caronenkhonjera760 You need to tell your friend to watch this video. I pray my confidence will never be so low to the point of accepting anything just to marry someone. I would rather be single and content within myself. I think other women marry just to prove that they are good enough to be someone's wife and be stuck in a dead marriage.
@mythoughts9245
2 жыл бұрын
Owami yazi this story time deserves wine, talking and laugh it out sana. It is what it is. Life is a beach mntase 🤣🤣🤣
@MmaNoko
2 жыл бұрын
What you’re saying is “what every wife would do, wives are selfless in nature. Money won’t go out as compared to men. When they get extra cash, they take it out to’ alcohol n girls. However, I agree. U should have not interfered with the Lobola. Also, Mr. B was there for a reason, he played a role during the passing of ur mom.❤️❤️❤️
@nakhomahola5559
2 жыл бұрын
It’s your story to tell Owami and I’m glad you owning your story and sharing with everyone. You made your mistakes and you learning from them
@mrsx2596
2 жыл бұрын
I haven’t even started listening, just the title got me 😩😩🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
@eunicefunani3888
2 жыл бұрын
That's true, we shouldn't judge but learn from your mistakes. All the best Owamie.
@kwetsephetla3597
2 жыл бұрын
Yhu I can’t believe I used to love that man and thought he was an amazing husband 🤧. I pray that you meet a man who loves you wholeheartedly and treats you the way that you deserve to be treated ❤️🕯
@unathijam8763
2 жыл бұрын
That man did not like you 💔throughout this divorce series, it's just surprise after another. He resents you because he fumbled the bag.This man never paid for anything 😭 you paid for his travelling to your mom's funeral years ago, the car etc. Paying for your lobola was a licence for him to disrespect you. Ja, record the videos, to make your money back.
@thandekangubane3494
2 жыл бұрын
Yup! She must continue airing him out on KZitem and doing interviews, even writing a book about her marriage experiences to get all the money she spent on him back
@SamuBody
2 жыл бұрын
@@thandekangubane3494 great idea!
@Nthabee00
2 жыл бұрын
"Okay that is fine"-Owamie's proverb
@elizabethmmapaseka7364
2 жыл бұрын
When has Big guy ever LOVED you mara Owamie??. Haii man. You've been dating yourself all this time... I'm not even surprised as how his been treating you. Now it all makes sense.
@itsnunupie
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this publicly. I've been in a situation where I would have done the same thing if I had the cash. I have also seen it with family members.
@mmaphefophetla2020
2 жыл бұрын
Ai sham Sesi Owamie you loved this man ka pelo,Moya and your everything otherwise thanks for the content because we learn😊 .
@tashalovemakeeasygreen7557
2 жыл бұрын
I did ask you Ninja, im happy you are talking about it. We love you sesi❤
@noziphokhumalo2963
2 жыл бұрын
I think this video really gives alot of context as to why you fell in love with Mr B. He was really there for you at your lowest, great content as usual. Hang in there hun, this journey is almost over 🙌
@tryphosaledwaba3025
2 жыл бұрын
You were in love Queen and you are a human this is just lesson do not be ashamed girl
@nobuhlemasombuka3167
2 жыл бұрын
Real stories of real women in South Africa
@tholoanamotsei8682
2 жыл бұрын
🤣😅I'm selling wines and snacks for those who are here for the comments 😅. Camp chairs for hire😁🤣🤦♀️come this side.
@divinitymcknees1156
2 жыл бұрын
I love ❤️ the way you tell us your truth. What does it for me is you acknowledging how Mr B was a lovely husband and was in your corner for you and your family at the time of need. “He was selfless.....” Big ups to you Owamie.
@aluwanisetati7480
2 жыл бұрын
You really are spilling the tea child. Im here for it all... Im loving the new independent Owamie❤❤❤
@prudenceskosana892
Жыл бұрын
You are not domkop sesi. U are so clever and confident. Thanks for sharing 🥰🥰✔️✔️
@triciakekana
2 жыл бұрын
Worst idea shame, that way no man can ever respect you after you pay for your own lobola....
@caronenkhonjera760
2 жыл бұрын
Owami scatter everything, bring it to the light, tell your story you have the platform & continue making all the videos (get your coin) you are also teaching people of valuable lessons. May the next be the best for you!
@nondumisomhlongo
2 жыл бұрын
Yoh Owamie 🙆♀️. But I'm sure people are learning from your stories, keep strong ❤️
@obakengmeso6051
2 жыл бұрын
Your makeup 😍😍😍😍. I know 2 of my aunts who paid their own lobola and their marriages are not working out they are just bekezeling which is sad... The families keep telling them to bekezela "men cheat you just have to understand". Miss me on that mess. I am 24 and I've learnt so much from what I see happen around me and from watching your videos. I appreciate you ninja
@lesterdampie6134
2 жыл бұрын
Love the maturity when you speak honestly about the times he was good to you.🌹❤
@tooleighcele4375
2 жыл бұрын
There's no doubt you made the right decision
@s.t8364
2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I saw this, I’ve been thinking about helping out in the future but yep definitely nottttttt. Thank you for sharing
@kholofeloshongwe2872
2 жыл бұрын
I don't blame you. Your situation is understandable.
@jabubuthelezi4822
2 жыл бұрын
Yes , they were already living together moss, they were already sharing expenses , that's what a good wife does ,she covers the nakedness of her husband
@MTKLZ
2 жыл бұрын
Bitso 👋🏿
@JNM834
2 жыл бұрын
@@jabubuthelezi4822 🤔🤔🤔🤔, iyooooo
@nonkululekozuke3494
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you’ve become so open Owami, thank you so much ninja 🥰🥰🥰 this is your heeling journey 😘
@lebohangmoletsane5785
2 жыл бұрын
I love how u genuinely loved this guy❤️.
@nomsantsoane3984
2 жыл бұрын
Queen ninja u ain't alone. A lot of women do it. They do it thinking they are helping their mans.kante nop
@keneiloemyoli
2 жыл бұрын
I know someone who helped her man with her lobola and the guy cheats like nobody’s business
@EverHopeful555
2 жыл бұрын
I love how balanced this is, you’re laying it bare O!
@toolietools1316
2 жыл бұрын
You are one strong lady I really admire. For your heart made of gold, God is blessing you.
@jabubuthelezi4822
2 жыл бұрын
As for peperezing ,I Ve been there girl ,,,my ex husband would tell them the family everything ,,, intimate things that happen in the bedroom ,his family bought me imbiza because apparently there is something wrong with me if I say I m not in the mood
@goldim6050
2 жыл бұрын
What is imbiza?
@jabubuthelezi4822
2 жыл бұрын
@@goldim6050 traditional medicine to make me want to do the deed everyday like a rabbit , phela I'm paid for so I must be Eveready
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