There's nothing more destructive to a family than favoritism. This can lead to serious issues with the family; things like jealousy and resentment not only to the favored sibling, but hatred toward the parents responsible. This behavior can cause the one or ones that are hurt by this to look for affection from another person. And if that doesn't work, the hurt person will take an even more dangerous path that can lead to drug abuse sexual abuse, or even suicide. When it comes to family survival; favoritism must be avoided at all costs. Always let love lead the way before something terrible can happen.
@RaymondCarver-vy9uk
4 ай бұрын
I'll add that saying that one of your kids is your meal ticket to success isn't right either.
@folasademandiela9482
Жыл бұрын
I feel Tina’s pain. Daddy issues are real. That is when I have a child, I would make sure my child has a father that cares and truly be there for them.
@jalyceabraham1902
Жыл бұрын
I had Daddy issues my entire life growing up and all the way to my adult hood.
@vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
Жыл бұрын
I have mom and Dad issues as well
@vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
Жыл бұрын
I just wanted them to stop
@vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
Жыл бұрын
They cared about my 6 year old autistic brother more than me and my 2 year younger brother Daniel
@BettyBrinkley-q2b
2 ай бұрын
I feel Tina's pain. Daddy have issues are real every time😂
@natiablack7144
Жыл бұрын
No child should be favored towards the other. Children should be loved equally. ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
That's right!
@benouzgane1929
Жыл бұрын
@@heatherpierce9123 Doesn't matter the reason, gender, colour, age etc. Children deserve equal love.
@daniel-xt3tp
5 ай бұрын
Unless your dads a covert narc
@BettyBrinkley-q2b
2 ай бұрын
The dad need treat the daughter and son nice and sweet🎉❤
@jordanyoung1836
Жыл бұрын
Tyler perry once said: “you can’t have favorites with your children because the very one you put all your faith and hope in will be the one to hurt you and let you down the most”…😕😕
@sydneymcmillian
Жыл бұрын
Ahh I didn’t know that 😁 and honestly that’s actually very true haha
@kimsmith819
Жыл бұрын
I believe that 100%
@GabbyGabGab
Жыл бұрын
That hits so hard-
@jordanyoung1836
Жыл бұрын
@@sydneymcmillian mmhm…🙂
@jordanyoung1836
Жыл бұрын
@@GabbyGabGab same here
@stephonsolomon2672
Жыл бұрын
The moral of the story is: make sure you bond with your children and love them. They need you.
@dagameplayer
Жыл бұрын
@@julienne1212 sure. The moral of the story is: make sure you bond with your children and love them. They need you.
@benouzgane1929
Жыл бұрын
@@dagameplayer Having favourites is never right. My dad doesn't favour me over my brother, he said I'm more of his son cause my brother's not his son or my brother in practice and he truly isn't. I Haven't even heard from my brother in 4 years, doesn't mean me and my dad love him less, just means my oldest cousin's more my family cause he's had more real contact with me. Pointing out facts doesn't mean you have a favourite, that's just acknowledging.
@BettyBrinkley-q2b
2 ай бұрын
That's Right ❤ They need both parents need to support both kids🎉
@jordanyoung1836
Жыл бұрын
It’s sad because some kids go through something like this, to be honest, when I see something like this, it makes me feel glad that my father don’t show any favoritism…he loves me, my brothers and my sisters equally
@TyTheThomasFan
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to know that your father cares about you and your siblings equally 🙂, it is indeed super sad that some parents would play favorites with their kids 😢
@jordanyoung1836
Жыл бұрын
@@TyTheThomasFan yeah, to the kids who have this kind of problem, you have my sympathies
@BettyBrinkley-q2b
2 ай бұрын
That's Right both parents need to treat the daughter and son equal
@sylvia5743
Жыл бұрын
This is a real life situation! It happens in real life! Negative things are bound to happen! Be present in ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN LIVES!
@mauricesmithjr4050
Жыл бұрын
Never choose favorites over kids
@yolandamarka1719
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@99mrpogi
Жыл бұрын
If a kid is not receiving the same treatment as his or her brother/sister from his dad, his/her usual instinct is to look for better treatment from friends...
@teamsteed1
Жыл бұрын
Never play favorites with your children. It never ends well.
@cedejaferrarithompson9843
Жыл бұрын
I can't believe he chooses son over daughter and doesn't love her that's very hurtful 💔 😢 😞 😔 😪 😕
@rhondamayfield7975
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, that is hurtful 😢 💔 😞
@FantaTarawallie-hm4xx
2 ай бұрын
My mom she always does that
@cedejaferrarithompson9843
2 ай бұрын
@@FantaTarawallie-hm4xx then your mom should have not done that or they will call police just to take you to foster home or adoption center
@FantaTarawallie-hm4xx
2 ай бұрын
@@cedejaferrarithompson9843 I am sorry
@FantaTarawallie-hm4xx
2 ай бұрын
@@cedejaferrarithompson9843 I am sorry never mind
@denisebatts3414
Жыл бұрын
Please men love your daughters I've seen so many young girls have daddy issues that led them down the wrong path,I'm so glad I had my father and he loved and paid attention to us all equally
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that you had a kind-hearted father, that's so important!💟
@Retirement02042012
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely cannot play favorites ! Every child that is born has gifts that will be manifested to make their mark in this world that is good and pleasing to God. Parenting I imagine is hard but mom AND dad must fulfill their role honorably.
@starryskies113
Ай бұрын
My cheating ma favors her son over me!
@jalyceabraham1902
Жыл бұрын
My dad favored my second oldest sister, my evil cousins and his oldest grandkids. He treated me like a bad seed everytime one of them did something and punished me for nothing instead of punishing the person who deserve it. And most of the time yelled at me for nothing and blamed me for things I had no control over. And to top it off he never cared about my day, only waited for me to come home so he could yell at me. My second oldest sister didn't care and therefore didn't defend me at all due to her jealousy of me. My mom and my oldest sister stood up for me and didn't let him continue with his tirade.
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm glad your sister & Mom stood up for you.
@jalyceabraham1902
Жыл бұрын
@@heatherpierce9123 Thanks for your sympathy.
@nikyawarren8331
Жыл бұрын
I know how that feels. My dad does the same to me which makes me wanna commit suicide. But thanks to my mom and siblings comforting me and protecting me makes me feel less worthy
@RodJack-hf7rc
5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry about that jealousy is a ugly trait
@RodJack-hf7rc
5 ай бұрын
Your father seems like a douche he doesn't know what he's missing out on
@99mrpogi
Жыл бұрын
I understand that this scenario is not part of this plot but here are some of the attitudes of dads that do not treat their children equally Dad: prohibits his son/daughter from having friends or even talking to other people without his approval Also the dad: does not give the equal treatment to the child
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
Spend Quality Time With Your Children & Never Show Favoritism; It Can Cause Anger & Behavior Problems ... Treat Each Child The Same / With Lots Of Love & Care 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@BettyBrinkley-q2b
2 ай бұрын
That's Right Never treat your son nice and Never treat your daughter are wrong😂😂
@petermartinez3875
Жыл бұрын
The moral of the story is treat your children with the upmost respect & love forever, not to be belittled them & make them feel worthless 💯! The father should know damn well to give his daughter some love & be a caring father! This is beyond one of Ms Brooklyn Johnson’s best performance ever I love her she’s so beautiful & well done my friend ❤! Shoutout to Ms Brooklyn, Mr Delano, Mr Chad, & Ms Arnita incredible episode 🌹remember to always let love lead the way 🫶🏼💞
@Neoboyy666
Жыл бұрын
💯❤️I agree. Always treat your children with respect, love and care. ❤️💯
@shankwally6371
Жыл бұрын
Never choose between your kids, you should love them equally
@stacysaint-ilma781
Жыл бұрын
That was really low for mr Michael when he neglected Tina.
@eugenelau3927
Жыл бұрын
Dad played favorites again, neglecting Tina while over-showering her brother with love. He should treat both children equally, he will regret it but will be too late by then!! No amount of apologies will repair the damage done to the family!!! Yikes!!!
@sherbonddiary2286
Жыл бұрын
My sons and daughters are meaningful to me.They are my lifelong journey. Happy Christmas and New Year.
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
Happy Holidays!🎀
@missebone
Жыл бұрын
Don't bond with just one of your kids Bond with all of them regardless of them being yours or adopted.
@stevebelanger2448
Жыл бұрын
also the dad should realise that when they get older, their kids will eventually have to take care of them. if you treat one of your kids very badly over another, do not come around crying when you are old and grey and alone and the child in question wants nothing to do with you. you were not there for them when they needed your support, why should they be there for you ?
@dianalayne4803
Жыл бұрын
You can't just love one child and don't acknowledge the other ,because it only makes that one feels like they are not loved ,so plz love your children as much as you can ..
@ryangriggs754
Жыл бұрын
We are all 1 big family, no matter our gender, race, etc. Loyalty, trust, and love are what make a family a whole.
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
Amen! That's right.
@benouzgane1929
Жыл бұрын
@@heatherpierce9123 Indeed. While my dad says my brother isn't his son in practice, that isn't out of loving certain members of his family less, that's out of my brother having blocked us for near 4 years.
@neshamojanay9423
Жыл бұрын
I can't stand the fact that dad is treating his son better than his daughter.
@denisewood1528
Жыл бұрын
Daughter leaves,5 seconds she's at a friend's place, 5 seconds later she's at a hotel. She confesses she meets random guys there,but 1 guy takes advantage of her 5 seconds later? Dad's a jerk,wife has to tell him to be a Father. He doesn't take the initiative to go and look for his daughter? Son steps out of the room to the police,3 seconds later,their on their way? Does he have 911 in speed dial?
@rontraviousdgarvin2940
Жыл бұрын
Some fathers love their sons more than their daughters and some mothers love their daughters more than their son more when I have kids I will love both of them
@kimsmith819
Жыл бұрын
I lived through the opposite. My Dad was the one that had to take care of me. He was my Dad and Mom at the same time
@petermartinez3875
Жыл бұрын
Ms Brooklyn Johnson you have absolutely touch my heart with your performance in this😢❤you are beyond one of my favorite actress in Vid chronicles! I love her so much she’s incredible 💞I have such a crush on her! God bless you Brooklyn 🙏🏼& Happy Holidays 🎄
@castingvidchronicles5754
Жыл бұрын
happy Holiday's 🙂
@petermartinez3875
Жыл бұрын
@@castingvidchronicles5754 thank you Romario & vid chronicles cast🙏🏼love you Brooklyn💞
@sir.confident
Жыл бұрын
Man! This was hard hitting. Sadly, I'm a survivor of favoritism. So much so that I wished I were an only child.
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you've been through this. I have too. My older sister was the favored child. I've learned not to do this with my children fortunately.
@sir.confident
Жыл бұрын
@@heatherpierce9123 I have also! I love all my kids the same.
@starryskies113
Ай бұрын
@@sir.confidentI have no full siblings !😢
@rachaeldraeger7814
Жыл бұрын
Parents should not play favorites.
@ameliawilson1053
Жыл бұрын
Hey, Mr. Romario Facey, thank you for all of your amazing videos! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@kimmie965
Жыл бұрын
my real dad left when i was born cause he found out i had a disablity did not any part of it but the dad i have now he raised me as his own i have to have brothers same mother different father god i love him sometimes i sit and cry and wonder why thank you for posting this video it reminded me of my real dad
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that! His loss! I have a child who has special needs & I can't imagine my life without her. All children are gifts from God.
@susanfarmer5847
Жыл бұрын
I am so glad you had a stepdad who treated you great and like his own. My oldest children were raised by a stepdad he was wonderful to them even when we had a son of our own your birth father will maybe regret his choice someday, remember this you dont need to be blood to be family.
@sedislavertsikira1013
Жыл бұрын
@@heatherpierce9123 njhhhyuslsulrksrusielyiri
@sedislavertsikira1013
Жыл бұрын
@@susanfarmer5847 .gw
@starryskies113
Ай бұрын
@@sedislavertsikira1013h
@erickbuckner4485
Жыл бұрын
I hope the guy who took advantage of the girl will be arrested
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
I Hope So Too
@angelayancey1686
Жыл бұрын
Never play favorites in your family!! It destroys the core value of what family is all about!! Children are blessings from God regardless of what gender and should be loved equally, not separately!!
@forgetallyall810602
Жыл бұрын
Being there physically is not good enough. You have to actually be a parent
@sandywhyte7975
Жыл бұрын
Don't choose your children treat all of them the same way the one you treat bad may become the head conner stone
@DrkngelDelossantos
Жыл бұрын
You a Father bud yea your son is important but so is your daughter it's a father's job to take care of there little girl whatever it takes that's why God put us on the earth to protect are little ones Boy or Girl I'm a proud Papa of a beautiful girl my sweet pea my heart I will take care of her till my dying breath I love my smart sweet pea
@tialoveablequeen1280
Жыл бұрын
True I feel so the same because
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
"Always Let Love Lead The Way" ♥️🥰
@yolandamarka1719
Жыл бұрын
Always
@GabbyGabGab
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@lenardmayfield5351
Жыл бұрын
3:30 When she said Yeah, whatever, Michael It's like she saying whatever to Michael Jackson
@starryskies113
Ай бұрын
😂
@underdog365
Жыл бұрын
The mama is the TRU👸🏾 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
9 ай бұрын
But my sweetest year 9 English Teacher gives me way better advice “If you have an issue, talk to the counsellor and school councillors”. I will never forget
@TheMidnadarkness
Жыл бұрын
you guys should be in Hollywood because your acting is always spot on :)
@sebastianreyes8138
Жыл бұрын
Having favorites is wrong and mean. It can do more harm then you think. Parents need to treat both their children the right way or else they can lose one or both of them for good.
@daniel-xt3tp
5 ай бұрын
No way he called that fast
@justrandomthings112
Жыл бұрын
The moral of the video is to treat all your kids equally. They all need you. Don't favour one child over the other one.
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
*Happy Friday Vid Chronicles & Fam, Have A Lovely Day & Be Safe!!!* 🤗
@tommypeter8320
Жыл бұрын
Tyler Perry don't have to tell nobody as a parent they don't have no such thing as favored in your children you treat them all equal
@diabediabira2736
7 ай бұрын
My father were like this.I don't even speak to him anymore!He needs me of course because he is old but this is too late.
@jaiel8769
Жыл бұрын
The dad said why are you trying to cause problems that had me 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@StoneColdGem
Жыл бұрын
Gotta love your kids equally
@RockDay-wv8jq
Жыл бұрын
Never play favorites with your kids. NEVER.
@h.a.s.7612
Жыл бұрын
☝️ Why you shouldn't have a "favorite child."
@MrBookworm01
Жыл бұрын
This should've ended with Tina and her mother cutting Michael out of their lives for good and Tina getting into therapy. Tina shouldn't have had to confess to being r*ped for her father to start actually being a dad to her, and before that, the way he treated Tina and especially his wife was disgusting.
@keziawillsetaharrey.3401
2 ай бұрын
Back in those days and back in 2012 in those days I used to choose both of my favorites my mom and aunty Sue and here in these days I choose my favorites la-reine Chelsea aunty Sue aunty ako destiny Samantha and Gracie.
@alexiafranklin455
9 ай бұрын
I would never forgive, that's why I haven't talked to my mom in over 6 years. She led me to overd*se when I was 16 she left me to go to a party while I was vomiting on the floor all night choking on my vomit trying to breath. Then took me to a doctor's appointment a day or two later for her to tell them she thought it was pregnant. And they told her I had a bunch of pills in my system and I was not pregnant. They told her I could have di*d. I've never seen faker tears in my life
@keedyjhane9575
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been through this and had to learn the hard way because of an absent father now I have 3 kids and have been abused for years and still searching for love in all the wrong places I wish my dad loved me 😢
@chrispleasantable
Жыл бұрын
James chapter 2 speaks against favoritism
@phoenixjnyc
Жыл бұрын
You have more than 1 child. You have to treat all your kids equal
@azariasmariachristinejaime100
Жыл бұрын
This is messed up man he should of been there for his daughter
@jamesspears8226
Жыл бұрын
I felt so bad for Tina, he thinks he son is more better than his own daughter, that doesn't make sense at all.
@coolpizzadude77
Жыл бұрын
Jacob did NOT care 😭😭🔥🔥🔥
@Sasha-wv3oy
Жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I feel that girl. Eventhough my parents care about me there have been times where I had the feeling that they love my brothers more than me. Since I also had lots of fights because of the way my parents treated me and we haven‘t talked for weeks I know how it feels like to be missing a parent. They just never understand me. Whenever I try telling them something about the way I‘m feeling they‘re complaining and whenever I have a fight with my brother they mostly take his side and say I‘m talking to much. It hurts but I still love them.
@vitoremjerashaj3756
Жыл бұрын
Yeah like my family they love my brother more than me they treat me like a maid😢😕😕😔😔😔
@ConjureAubrey
Ай бұрын
I couldn’t believe Tina wasn’t happy about her dad
@charitydant7218
Жыл бұрын
The parents should love every kid. But in the same token we are responsible for our actions. We have to stop blaming other people for our actions.
@My-cute-baby-sister
Жыл бұрын
A guy took advantage of his sister and he said he's sorry😐 I'm 5 years younger than my little sister and i would have nocked the🤬out of who ever was messing with my little sister.
@vikktorianwankaegooboro8454
10 ай бұрын
I feel the same thing, I had an argument with my Dad. We have a big fight about me being a shame person for failing this stupid Naplan thing and never doing that IXL English. I shouted at Dad and file a complainant about it and Dad threatened me. After that, I ran to school crying and sent bad messages to Dad and wanted him to get out and I didn’t want to have brothers and Dad. He was the one who was shameless for hurting his own daughter.
@JeromeOCromwell-y2l
4 ай бұрын
I said it before and I will say it again, don't pick favorites,treat your own children the same way possible(child or adult)
@shakakaperry6034
Жыл бұрын
Poor Tina 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
@Ohthatsjaye
Жыл бұрын
Worst feeling ever, I go through this with my grandma. She acts like my cousin is the only grandchild she has. She shows so much favoritism
@victorialucas1787
Жыл бұрын
I have 3 beautiful adult children I love them all the same I will never hurt them
@ameliawilson1053
Жыл бұрын
REMEMBER, TO ALWAYS LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY! ❤
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
Always ♥️
@MrBean600
Жыл бұрын
Always
@tintswalolettie1292
Жыл бұрын
Always
@bfoster7252
Жыл бұрын
He didn’t lead you there your choices did a lot of us had bum as fathers an mothers it’s up 2 you who you become being successful without there help hit different
@angeleyes2941
Жыл бұрын
The mom looks just like Tisha Campbell is surreal.
@underdog365
Жыл бұрын
mama is the TRU👸🏾 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💙
@mehdidaboss673
Жыл бұрын
Why doesn't anyone ever make a dad/mom chooses DAUGHTER over SON
@jennelynduke4230
Жыл бұрын
Watching this made me cry
@heatherpierce9123
Жыл бұрын
Same here. Heartbreaking really.
@KANIYABARCLAY
7 ай бұрын
This had me in tears💧 at the end
@marqcollins1792
Жыл бұрын
Yh some dad just don't care about their kids..
@cedejaferrarithompson9843
Жыл бұрын
And remember to always let love lead the way
@gracierobar7036
Жыл бұрын
My parents said love me but they don't want me in there life at all
@sakeenawhite1472
Жыл бұрын
not gonna lie, this brought tears to my eyes, have experienced something like this in my life...
@Ammie-y1y
3 күн бұрын
This Made Me Cry
@missbellakayeofficial
Жыл бұрын
7:09 what a coward man
@missbellakayeofficial
Жыл бұрын
I would just leave if something like this happened to me
@alayá̀-q2j
Жыл бұрын
HI GUYS AND REMEMBER JESUS LOVES YOU STAY BLESSED HE IS COMING BACK FOR HIS CHILDREN GOD BLESS YOU HE IS COMING BACK SOONER THAN YOU THINK REPENT
@the-nina-beans88
10 ай бұрын
Did Amy one notice when the dad said his son was a meal ticket? I mean he basically using his son for benefits
@ellathreasa
Жыл бұрын
favourtism is not fair and its cruel and evil , playing favours is very toxic and can lead to problems and can cause jealously and fights second of all this video is a perfect example what effects favouritism can cause
@Kyo_lucifer
Жыл бұрын
I have mommy issues, when i was younger my GODDAMN MOTHER KIDNAPPED ME AND MY BROTHER LEFT US IN A FREEZING CAR TO DO DRUGS AND SEX SHE PUT OUR LIVES IN DANGER i don't even have a female in my life MY OWN MOTHER. And i know what that's like.
@mr.krabzzz9103
Жыл бұрын
So like he called the police told them the address what happened and finished in 2 seconds??? 🤣🤣💀💀💀
@stanfordpierre6178
Жыл бұрын
Always let love lead the way
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
Yes, Always
@ameliawilson1053
Жыл бұрын
Amazing content, thank you for sharing your awesome videos with us all. 💙💙💙💙💙💯💯
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
Yes, Love 'Em For It!!!! They're The BEST 💯💯🥰
@LilyLee25
22 күн бұрын
I have daddy issues too 😭😭it led me to feel neglected and unloved still I feel like I never do good
@yolandamarka1719
Жыл бұрын
I i Will Never choose my Child over the other the Dad wos so wrong
@mzvetta9601
Жыл бұрын
So True ... He Was Wrong To Favor One Over The Other... Children Have Feelings Like Everyone Else
@quizmaster85
Жыл бұрын
"Dad *Choose* Son Over Daughter" *Chooses
@h.a.s.7612
Жыл бұрын
Or *CHOSE*
@GabbyGabGab
Жыл бұрын
𝗢𝗻𝗴-
@slidejones6033
Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: Have one child
@ConjureAubrey
Ай бұрын
I can”t believe the sad treats his son nicely than his daughter
@annadanyelaliff2306
Жыл бұрын
Yep I haven't had parents that loved me only abused and used and hurt me but they still doing it and it has affected me bad and sad thing is I seem to find abusing men who don't help.God has been by me getting through each day And I am trying to start a new life but obstacles keep getting in the way
@leahrivers3531
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💎🕊️✌️🖖🫂 🪔🕯️🏮🌄 KEEP ON Trusting In THE SOVEREIGN LORD GOD 💗💞🙏💓 ALMIGHTY ... For You Are NEVER, EVER, "Alone"; 👐 LET GOD, ABOVE, KEEP LEADING YOUR WAY BACK TO OUR HEAVENLY HOME!!!!!!! 🧭 😇 🌟
@tekishaleblanc8602
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My father like that he loves my sister and brother more than me he brought them Christmas presents and I didn't get any that hurts til this day 💙
@Arinot4you
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OMG Tina is such a good actor she is the best actor on vid chronicles keep making these videos I love them❤
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