why not find someone good in a homeless shelter? The world is not fair. and good people can end up on street
@KasThinks
3 ай бұрын
That’s right! Just to clarify, in this context it was not literal, though. Lisa is saying dating apps to lonely people are what meeting their basic needs is to homeless people, you see. It’s nuanced and I can see how interpretations can vary here. It’s very kind of you to point the right thing out, regardless 🙂
@stokelycarmichael4626
3 ай бұрын
KZitem is the only social media I have space for. People able to give full intellectual dissertation. Such a breath of fresh air to hear this opinion. I’ve refused dating apps since they appeared, they’ve always felt so gross, but hearing someone else finally reciprocate this inclination, let alone of the opposite sex, is so revitalizing to my path. Thank you!
@PerspectiveLove
3 ай бұрын
Neil Strauss compares dating apps to people who job hop. The same broken people circulate the job market, thinking that a job is going to solve their problems. Just like the same broken people circulate the dating market, thinking it will bring them happiness and validation.
@VladislavBabbitt
3 ай бұрын
I knew Neil in 2002 when he and Mystery were doing the Mystery Method workshop. Neil became as good as Mystery despite being a foot shorter and not being handsome. Have you read "The Game"?
@knetteringeenspetteringe3851
3 ай бұрын
At 8:24 you say that good woman are more lonely than good men but don't you think you're saying this because you are a woman and from your perspective you think that way? Im a good man and I have been lonely too. But I think it doesn't matter if you're a man or woman. Good video tho, insightful and I agree with dating apps being useless and have NEVER even installed one for that good reason.
@BisnisOnlineAlaSirTiman
3 ай бұрын
Let's lonely together and enjoy new experiences
@zohlore
2 ай бұрын
ew
@darkaction123
3 ай бұрын
i respect this girl for many reasons , being realistic is a massive reason, keep up the good work.
@michaellegend6625
3 ай бұрын
I will let my future daughter watch her because she's a good model for young girlies!!!
@nortonshaw2100
3 ай бұрын
You are not just criticizing “dating culture “ you are criticizing The Culture of Desperation and inventing a language which is progressively replacing thought systems which manufacture DELUSIONS of aloneness . A very dangerous thought-what if you HAD to go through your “psychotic episode “ to rebuild your reality from the ground up-and everyone did NOT grow up in a family environment giving them the love, trust in the universe, and self belief necessary to endure the breakup of one cultural bubble while a new more universally resilient world interpretation emerges. The most unique individual is most like everyone-ALL AT ONCE. Your sight is a medium for the conversations of creation
@lindokuhleshandu4024
3 ай бұрын
Well, in my case, I have some experience in dating and zero experience in dating apps. Dated for the first time and went on my first date at 26 (last year). Prior to that, I have definitely been lonely and h**ny and craved for a relationship and when it finally happened and it didn't work out, I have been h**ny only (sometimes) but I don't miss dating wholeheartedly. So, my point is when you've never dated, you're likely to look forward to it and when it finally happens and you experience the ups and downs that come with being in a relationship and eventually a break up, the last thing you'd want to do is to be in another relationship. That's where I am right now. I'm single and I'm good with relationships, at least for now and probably for the next couple of years, unless I meet my type sooner than I expect. As for my perspective on online dating, I'm with you on that one. It's so dumb and shallow. I'll always be in favour of a more natural and organic way of meeting people.
@keegster7167
3 ай бұрын
I’m a guy but I feel the same. I’ve only dated a girl for any substantial amount of time once really (also in my twenties) but it seems not that great. Especially since I haven’t built my life around expecting to date. Definitely would not use an app tho’. Not for me :p
@lindokuhleshandu4024
3 ай бұрын
@@keegster7167 I'm a guy too and I can relate. The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. It's best to focus on making our lives better instead of women, dude.
@derinstt
3 ай бұрын
Here comes my favorite notification of the day ❤
@lizabashkova
3 ай бұрын
That’s so sweet😭
@derinstt
3 ай бұрын
@@lizabashkova 💕💕
@Gxbriel8
3 ай бұрын
this video made me realize that these apps are as bad as an addiction cuz at the end of the day those things supply instant gratification
@KALIN-34
3 ай бұрын
Dating in whatever form deprives the right souls of the art of courtship.. Cheapening it ... A vital aspect in the pursuit of happiness & finding the compatible personality. Courtship is the intricate understanding of how to identify the correct person whilst getting to know them in a more holistic manner , while having fun doing so.. & through this discovering untold happiness , like discovering a brand new star in a galaxy rich with possibilities.... As I guy , I hope I'm right... Thanks for your channel... Much enjoyed 😁...
@KasThinks
3 ай бұрын
You could not be more right on this!! Courtship also sets a pace and a pattern for the rest of the relationship, I feel. And not in the ego-boosting sense but rather ‘let’s gradually trust each other to take care of each other’s hearts’. Very similar to a new friendship. Along with this tender beauty, of course, other less tender scenarios exist as well.
@fkcade
3 ай бұрын
Wise beauty and insightful
@Deshawolf
3 ай бұрын
I needed this. Iv been Celibacy for 2 years after letting toxic men do bad things to me and I wish I said no when my gut told me so.
@BruceLeon83
2 ай бұрын
Dating Apps are one of them Traps. Haha. Yeah these apps be monopolizing on people's loneliness.
@luvvgm
2 ай бұрын
off topic but is this your natural hair? are these your natural curls? i am absolutely in love and want my hair like this
@sviliuss
3 ай бұрын
I feel the way you are thinking about these apps is that there are only people looking to hookup, i know friends that found their second halfs, im afraid you are wrong or i am delusional?
@cybersamba7344
2 ай бұрын
I used to think that people on there are trash.Turns out its just the app thats trash 🤣 Somebody recycle me, fast!
@nikolaim4274
3 ай бұрын
I never used dating apps and never will. I may die a virgin but I'll do it with pride
@jcbastard6999
8 күн бұрын
Did u see the words?
@dianadiana101-u7y
3 ай бұрын
I need a video about hookup culture from your pov asap
@arthorpendragon
3 ай бұрын
your most hilarious and forthright video yet - so true!
@marcK599.
3 ай бұрын
Woman swipe left on 90% of men on these apps and swipe right on the rest (Chads and Tyrones)
@czakberry7706
3 ай бұрын
You are like a female version of gerberts void and i love it XD
@brad3605
3 ай бұрын
Here before this blows up
@williamcarter2238
3 ай бұрын
You perfectly summed up my thoughts about these apps as well, something that I've always felt while I was on them, but only recently had the courage to acknowledge and delete them for good. The main reason why I continued to stay on them despite all the terribleness surrounding them was similar to what you said, that if I'm on this app, then maybe there's one other "normal person." I just graduated college and at least in the US, it's a lot more difficult to meet people after you do, so I was hoping I would find someone there because I've been struggling to meet people otherwise. These apps were also destroying my self confidence, after swiping hundreds of times and only getting one or two matches, you start to question what's wrong with you. Since I'm on the shorter side, I think people just see you as a height number, rather than a person, and swipe no since there's always a better number just around the corner. Now that I don't have them, I'm feeling better but I'm still wondering how I'm going to meet someone otherwise in my current situation.
@Lissitchka
3 ай бұрын
I wish you the best ❤
@williamcarter2238
3 ай бұрын
@@Lissitchka thank you, I'm a big believer in everything working out so let's hope
@rxbwlch
3 ай бұрын
@@williamcarter2238 in the same situation rn, apart from the fact that i haven't deleted tinder yet... i've deleted it before but came back. i recently moved to a new country, so that's kind of analogical to your graduation situation. i guess, there's gyms, new towns, clubs, etc. "everything will work out" is an amazing phrase but can lead to things going from bad to worse in my opinion. one step that i recommend is; try to talk at least one new person a day. that's really helped me. there's always college too? if that interests you.
@Lissitchka
3 ай бұрын
@@williamcarter2238 me too. It will. 🙏❤️
@KasThinks
3 ай бұрын
I did not meet anyone in college or uni either! Was way too immature for that 🙂 but don’t fret cause many people meet their significant others at work or in friend groups, after that! Don’t limit the potentiality, it’s so vast for you 🩶
@lnfwhat01164_rules
2 ай бұрын
ŒMN
@expiredfroyo
3 ай бұрын
My friend warned me against this, it's easier tpo go out side and work on your soial skills to score a date irl
@BinodN4567
3 ай бұрын
Wow beautiful ❤
@inesc39
3 ай бұрын
i get your point, but i know a lot of people who met on those apps and ended up getting maried. Some people are lucky to find good connections
@slimgardelapeche7332
3 ай бұрын
ton visage ❤👌
@gabchetoo444
3 ай бұрын
Yes, really, I'd be more than happy if you made a video about woman loneliness and stuff like that. It could be very relatable for me to hear. ❤❤❤ Ty for your content
@lizabashkova
3 ай бұрын
I really appreciate you girl🙏
@gabchetoo444
3 ай бұрын
💗💗💗
@CorbanConversations
3 ай бұрын
As a fellow 18 year old and Jamaican, I’m gonna have to agree.
@lizabashkova
3 ай бұрын
Hahahah I’ve been walking on the streets of Paris in this shirt getting questions about my ethnicity lmaoo
@CorbanConversations
3 ай бұрын
@@lizabashkova That’s hilarious😂 one of us is an imposter for sure lol
@REZZA2020
3 ай бұрын
Your other half is out there for you. He will be a classy guy, who is exceptional like yourself. Gentle and intelligent. You will find him in time. 20s. He will show up along your path. Pay attention to those small moments. You will know when someone is worth pursuing
@LukasMajicius-re4cq
3 ай бұрын
No facebook no instagram no I forgot the name of the app. If you post your whole life on dating or social apps than ,what other than that would anyone want to know about you? Why to show your life as ideal when it is not? Eventhough sometimes can be, apparently living on this earth, surely is not. Even in real life when someone asks me something I reply with - why do you ask. And rarely get answer on that. Ppl can be strange to me, their intentions.. I often want to know the reason they put a question to me. For example..if someone asks me-why dont you get married? I might answer - when the price of gasoline drop for 1,3 euro, I will.😄
@kathrin5721
3 ай бұрын
Psychotic phase 😅 You sound like my former friend, he consumed so much cannabis, that he felt like this too...he also felt like dissecting words...interesting. I am glad that you are in a better place now, you're an amazing brain :) Keep doing it and inhaling the spirituality without drugs ❤
@Outsourcingidea
3 ай бұрын
Actually your content is very important and I like what you say so I watch your content regularly and I try to apply it in my family life and my professional life. You are very nice. Stay well. Give us beautiful words, I want your popularity to increase
@IanV777
3 ай бұрын
Damn, I was “homeless” Life changes when you leave the shelter
@Tobifelix
3 ай бұрын
If social media is already bad dating apps are just in the lowest of the levels of it cause it adds all of the hook up culture, people’s desperation and everything related to that. Both things have completely messed up with the dating world, imo mainly cause they set super high and shallow standards of beauty, lifestyle, etc which not just makes dating so difficult because of that standards but makes us a lot more anxious by comparing ourselves to others and so on. It’s honestly sad cause on top of that as you say these apps profit on that and we as a society don’t even realize.
@REZZA2020
3 ай бұрын
I blame the emergence of these apps in part to why i remain single. I was never able to get myself to take photos and put myself on them. In my era women would write "Hi, I am Anita - and I like long walks along the beach" next to this a photo. The others were men my age flashing their six pack. abs. I could not get past how superficial it all was.
@tonyfisher9569
3 ай бұрын
Liza I like your way of thinking :) You are very wise :) Can I ask you, are you born in Poland or US ?
@1028dash
3 ай бұрын
Wise and refreshing to here since I’m 26 and lately feel like people don’t share the same thoughts as I do on dating apps and just communication in general
@Avareee.
3 ай бұрын
I have never even installed any of these trashy apps. And you're right, hugs out for you 🤗
@themoon69420
3 ай бұрын
It wasn't that many years ago that online dating was considered bottom of the barrel, for only the most desperate of the desperate. I never stopped seeing it that way, personally.
@VladislavBabbitt
3 ай бұрын
I have never used dating apps. They used to be known at personal ads in newspapers and magazines.
@joshdevilbunny5587
3 ай бұрын
Lmao yeah i had the exact same logic for trying dating apps 😅
@asare._.
3 ай бұрын
sorry for the random question, but do you live in english-speaking country?
@lizabashkova
3 ай бұрын
Nope I live in Poland
@REZZA2020
3 ай бұрын
100% also how these companies prey on us. You are exactly right!
@klaudiarey
3 ай бұрын
Girl, the best timing thank you ✨💗... I am so excited to see how far you will go
@stevensmith4226
3 ай бұрын
and tinder free ket you wait till you pay....
@imwortyoflove369
3 ай бұрын
The title of this video looks very impactful!! :D
@kidcognitif7774
3 ай бұрын
You're so swweeeeeettttttttt forrrr Meeeeee....8*
@c.8192
3 ай бұрын
it makes you wait instead of begin
@Sophiavanderwolf
3 ай бұрын
Just deleted Hinge haha. Dating apps are definitely just an instant validation trap, especially for women. I've been struggling with the feeling of loneliness, but this video has given me the courage to let go and be okay with it as it will pass over time.
@lizabashkova
3 ай бұрын
As you should!! Use your beauty wisely
@MrKillerHobbes
3 ай бұрын
👁👁
@Chaimaeeeeee
3 ай бұрын
❤
@muhammetyoutube
3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Lyanklevyn
3 ай бұрын
good
@catrx0
3 ай бұрын
Lol nice
@ChonseeTV
3 ай бұрын
Lose the curse words if possible but good analysis.
@joelau9751
3 ай бұрын
@vairiekay
3 ай бұрын
Lmao, just recently dive into dating apps again and then your video pops up😭🫶🏻
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