One night, I went to grap drinks with two guys. one from Japan and the other from Italy. Both of them are my friends. It was autumm but at night it was sort of cold. We were walking to home at that time and I said "It's sooo cold" and my Japanese friends said"yeah, it's really cold today. Guess what my Italian friend said! He said "I'm so sorry I forgot to bring a jacket" Iol
@Asmodeius
8 жыл бұрын
unfortunately in America, most often people dont care how you feel when they ask "how are you", it's more of a communication started, devoid of all sense.
@alishamcg
8 жыл бұрын
Its more of "Greeting", in some cultures asking if someone had lunch is a conversation starter or a greeting. Its just different.
@spencerkieft6021
8 жыл бұрын
Kirill Limarov When someone asks me that I just reply with "hello," "hi," "good morning," "good afternoon," etc . . .
@southeparkfreak
7 жыл бұрын
It's pretty much the same in the Netherlands though. It's just about being polite and showing some interest even though we don't care much either.
@williamgill_esq.6487
7 жыл бұрын
Kirill Limarov Dude, I realize you Russian folk don't know this but everyone in the U.S. understands that "how are you" is just another way of saying "hi" and it is considered acceptable to either go into a detailed answer of how you are really doing or not do that and just say "ok" if you don't feel like going into detailed answer. And it is your ASSUMPTION that the person does not really care how the person is really doing. As we say in the U.S., never make assumptions. 😊👍
@mimmiblu6138
7 жыл бұрын
That's really interesting.... do Dutch people always mean to know how a person is?! When I lived in London I used to babysit a boy whose father was Dutch and always asked me how I was when he met me. Not being friends I constantly opted for a smile (after all he was being polite! thank you, very much appreciated) and a "phantastic, thank you" even though I had had an awful day or was feeling depressed. After some days he commented that having to do with me was so nice because I was always genuinely happy and never moaning.... he was not a friend.... so I just assumed he didn't care a bit how I was really feeling so... why afflicting him with my problems?! and he just assumed that being carefree was the Italian way,,,, hahaha if he had only known how lonely I was feeling!
@Anita-rb7ge
8 жыл бұрын
yep, here I am, Italian girl dating a Dutchman! And I agree with everything you just said! (and as for Dutch women.. they're usually so naturally gorgeous, they don't need any makeup! ...how do I get rid of my Italian jealousy? ;) Nice video!!
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
hahaha Thanks, Anita!
@manel2816
8 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people ask me how I am, because I have to answer them that I'm fine and sometimes it's not the case so if I say l'm fine it means that I lie to myself and the person I'm talking to and at the same time I don't like saying I'm not fine because I don't like complaining about my life.
@czarzenana5125
7 жыл бұрын
+Manel Be smart and answer with: Horrible since you asked me. Then you are telling the truth and punishing the other for asking.
@czarzenana5125
7 жыл бұрын
+Sapphire Rose Are you just nosey or do you really want to help people when they are not fine? The question is not whether you are interested or not, the question is why you want to know.
@czarzenana5125
7 жыл бұрын
+Sapphire Rose You make no sense at all. How somebody feels is rather personal (and none of your business). What are you going to be sensitive about if you do not know what's wrong with the other person?
@saddambaloch5821
5 жыл бұрын
Manel dear what i just read its wiered 😳
@komkwam
5 жыл бұрын
@Jaap Jacobsen I don't like it when a complete stranger (Dutch of no Dutch) ask me how i am. First of all, they don't really want to know and secondly it is none of their concern, i consider it an invasion of my privacy. Only family and friends can ask me, because the are seriously interested in how i am feeling.
@rachelbosch9137
3 жыл бұрын
I’m Canadian but all 4 of my grandparents immigrated from the Netherlands. When it comes to dating I’ve realized I naturally date like the Dutch. Direct, independent, casual, treat me like an equal, tho Ive never actually been to the Netherlands. Its nice to be understood! 👍👌
@babyxhost9267
3 жыл бұрын
he was also very straight to the point about what he wanted in the relationship with you a lot it is very nice no sugarcoat or bullshit he was very honest about wanting children and wanting to get married right away and have been a family and I really think this very sexy and very attractive and very committed and very sophisticated and different and I’m really glad I met him and I opened up my mind to dating out of my own culture and I’m very excited to learn the Dutch culture and to even learn Dutch I’m even learning it now before I get there but he’s amazing compared to any man I ever dated in the states
@davidwilbur364
5 жыл бұрын
Fascinating stuff. I'm not a dater but I think the insight into culture is terrific. As to paying the bill, in Holland or Canada, it's on me.
@JaysFanToronto
7 жыл бұрын
Casually dressed, not ostentatious, no makeup, independent, and naturally beautiful. Wow, did you say the Netherlands or Neverland? Sign me up either way. :)
@aleksandralysenko1110
8 жыл бұрын
I really like the appearance of dutch mans! They are attractive;))
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
100% percent agreed!
4 жыл бұрын
Is Hollywood propaganda embedded with racism
@MrDigitalman78
8 жыл бұрын
Now I get it now. Men in the Netherlands don't pay the bill at the restaurant for the ladies which they find old fashioned. Must go to Netherlands one day to see, plus they speak English very well over there alongside the Dutch language.
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
It's a cool country. Go for sure!
@MrDigitalman78
8 жыл бұрын
Dating Beyond Borders Indeed, I will!
@Videokeizah
8 жыл бұрын
I think I can honestly say that Dutch women (especially in Amsterdam) count among the most beautiful in the world. That's almost an objective fact, even if the classic Dutch blonde is not my personal preference.
@MrDigitalman78
8 жыл бұрын
That part I can agree with you on.
@itsmesid6191
8 жыл бұрын
Watcccch North & South online in hd quality here => twitter.com/9881330df6cc47c26/status/795841220547203072 Dating in North AAAAmeerica VS the Neeetherlands I VLOOOG Feat Loeeeepsie
@spanjard82
7 жыл бұрын
Im married to a dutch woman, i lived 19 years in germany and i totally agree with alot of things in this video but fashion is very diverse in the Netherlands. In the northern parts of the Netherlands (countryside) id say fashion is not as important and you have to deal with alot of rain and harsh wind as a woman. In the so called 'Randstad' Amsterdam, Rotterdam etc.(south/west). there is def. more fashion going on than in the northern parts. I also agree that dutch women are stronger feminists compared to other country's and men here have a harder time complying to dutch wimmens checklist and needs so they adapted indeed ;) I often say if you don't know how to please the dutch woman your better off getting her from germany as they are more traditional minded and do expect more traditional and different things than dutch women but also they dress more fashionable in the south of germany than they gernerally do in the north. Also due weather conditions. Sorry if i offended anyone but thats my personal opinion and therefore does not mean im right.
@markdailyofficial4513
6 жыл бұрын
At which age you get married
@yvonnecampbell7036
5 жыл бұрын
@Robin R. Gable Hahahaha! AGAIN?? This is sooo funny!
@carmenbarr4830
7 жыл бұрын
I'm Dominican so I have very Latin/Carribean culture and my boyfriend is from The Netherlands. It's really weird for me how different it is to date someone from there compared to from a Latino culture or community. Latin men can be very in your face and abrasive where I have never had that experience with a Dutch man. He was the first to say "I love you" and this, but I was the one to first "make a move". I love being with him because he is so genuinely sweet and thoughtful, but he's not always acting with machismo as if I cannot do anything for myself. This video was so accurate, I loved it! Xoxo
@rheijm9201
Жыл бұрын
What s Dominican? In Nederland hoor je soms aanduidingen uit het stenen tijdperk zoals creolen en javanen. Santenkraam. Wie dat aanstuurt is me een volslagen raadsel. Anyway back to the program..
@venessa32
8 жыл бұрын
I think the Scandinavian countries like Norway,Finland,Denmark,Iceland and Sweden guys are the most attractive European guys I ever saw. you should do one from one of these countries.
@yvonnecampbell7036
5 жыл бұрын
Then why do you call yourself jungkook's wife if you find Scandinavian men so attractive? Maybe you should change your "name", haha.
@NoorNoor-ul5zh
4 жыл бұрын
Iam dutch mixed with Asean but in DNA 30% Scandinavian hahaha we dutchies are Scandinavian too
@herdigan5596
3 жыл бұрын
well even ibn fadlan, an arab travelers from 900's AD agreed with that when he meet viking man for the first time.
@rollingthunderinho
Жыл бұрын
no way. they look like metrosexual aliens
@RealTalk-uk3yw
8 жыл бұрын
When a woman wears casual in the Netherlands they already look extremely hot. What do you want more. Jheesh!
@beautifullEternal
5 жыл бұрын
Joe Blow ???
@HeyAveon
7 жыл бұрын
as soon as she said the women actually offer to pay, i was like "Yup, im moving to the Netherlands"
@paprikagames
2 жыл бұрын
lmfao
@arashghanbari5907
6 жыл бұрын
Loved the vid ladies. I agree with the things you mentioned. I'm having a problem being direct in Canada. Its not very common at all.
@AL.BUNDY.
11 ай бұрын
I don't think "How are u" is fake. It is just a phrase people use to say to greet other people. It can be used conjunction with hello or by itself. Although it is often answered, It is not meant to be literally interpreted & answered. So often the response to it is "good" as opposed to how the individual actually is feeling. That is where it can come off as "fake" for one who doesn't understand how the phrase is meant to be used. It is like "What's up?" which is another phrase people use to greet people with. It is also literally meant to be answered. U girls or those people in Netherlands or whoever just aren't used to using the phrase.
@rmv2185
8 ай бұрын
The world is different in many places.
@elitalks258
6 ай бұрын
"So often the response to it is "good" as opposed to how the individual actually is feeling." That's exactly what people mean when they say it's fake. You just debunked your own position.
@AL.BUNDY.
6 ай бұрын
@@elitalks258 No, I didn't. The question and answer are just a type of greeting. It is not meant to be literal. Like I said before, it is like "What's up?" No one is asking u to look up and tell them what is above our heads. "good" has nothing to do with being fake. It is like say "hi" back to the person asking the question without ignoring the person's question. It is used as a way to greet the other person as opposed to explaining how u are feeling. It is not fake. It is just how people greet one another. If u think that is fake, then u keep believing ur beliefs rather than trying to understand another person's culture.
@elitalks258
6 ай бұрын
@@AL.BUNDY. Yeah, again, that's what we mean by it being fake. You don't genuinely want to know how I'm doing, you do it out of social convention. It's one of those things with no actual logical justification, we just do it.
@AL.BUNDY.
6 ай бұрын
@@elitalks258 So u never used the phrase "sup?" to greet someone? U never had someone answer ur "hows it going" with a doom and gloom answer and thought to urself this person is socially inept cuz the full despair answer was unnecessary? I saw ur from Canada. U should know better unless ur an argumentative person trying to intentionally pick fights with people on youtube or u are unaware of social norms in North America. Regardless, it is clear u and I have different definitions of fake and different opinions on how to greet someone. So be it. At this point, I don't really care.
@zyxwut321
7 жыл бұрын
Uh oh. Looks like Marina has competition in the cuteness department (not sexiness or attractiveness per se, cuteness). Lucy seems relaxed, down to Earth and has the most charming smile and her voice and accent is so easy to listen to.
@beingWantable
7 жыл бұрын
Ok dutch men may be fashionable in the west of the Netherlands, but in small towns it's just simply jeans, sneakers and a shirt. If they go fancier or a bit bigger of a city then they upgrade to shirt (blouse thingy) jeans or chino and brown fancy shoes (sometimes black). Older men in small cities tend to wear jeans or red, yellow or brown pants. More international cities such as The Hague, Amsterdam, Roterdam, Leiden, there you will find men who are more fashion conscious.
@beingWantable
3 жыл бұрын
@Rabarbersoep crazy how this is still true 3years later haha
@beingWantable
3 жыл бұрын
@Rabarbersoep ik ben Nederlands dus kan het echt bevestigen haha
@markacamacho
8 жыл бұрын
In America saying Hello how are you doing? It translates into what you want it to be, meaning it leaves the greeting open. So If I say hello how are you doing and you start telling me how you feel then I am down with that, or you can say I’m doing fine and leave it as that. Don’t complicate things and another thing it’s not a fake smile, most do want to smile and be nice to you so what’s the problem. I think Americans are so misunderstood by other foreign countries and I am sure it goes both ways.
@cherushi100
7 жыл бұрын
Mark Camacho yes, I agree completely.
@Fife178
11 ай бұрын
100%
@garedmorort
8 жыл бұрын
"The US and Canada, northamerica" I guess Mexico is not wanted in the club :(
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
It could have been just Canada but the culture is similar to US so to make it easier I said North America. Obviously the culture is very different in Mexico which is why it made little sense to include it
@alishamcg
8 жыл бұрын
Mexico's culture is fairly different than its Northern neighbor. Although I relate more to Mexican culture on some things because I live in Southern California (where there is a great population of Mexicans and Hispanics/Latin Americans :D ).
@nuriageijsel4063
7 жыл бұрын
Edgar Morales Ortega cultural differences.
@garedmorort
7 жыл бұрын
aallhh A Actually the north of Mexico and the south of the US are culturally more alike than the north and south of Mexico or the south of the US and Canada
@garedmorort
7 жыл бұрын
Nuria Geijsel not accurate
@HayleyAlexis
8 жыл бұрын
SLOWLY OFFERING LOL!!!! YES hehehe
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
haha makes two us ;)
@josephtvshow7467
6 жыл бұрын
Hayley Alexis where are from?
@GiGiWellness28
8 жыл бұрын
Then "how are you" greeting was very confusing to me too, when we first came to Australia 20 years ago... Australians says "how are you" as greeting rather than deep talk... it was so embarrassed when I didn't know that & told the people how I really was, when they were already planning to walk away from me... no one told me about that... I just figured it out by myself 😒
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
haha yep - same as USA and Canada :)
@ItsameAlex
7 жыл бұрын
How are you gigi? i really want to know!
@toomuchinformation
8 ай бұрын
@@DatingBeyondBordersWell it's the Anglosphere!
@ikaustralia
8 жыл бұрын
On my visit to Amsterdam I had impression that the Dutch are the most genuine people in the Western world. Their girls are flirty too.
@charliefoxtrotsky4104
6 жыл бұрын
ok...so I've learned a lot about various different cultures from this channel. Allow me to teach you something in return and to show my gratitude. In France, its expected to say "Bonjour".....far more and in any more situations than a person would greet someone in any fashion in the US. Its a cultural thing...not a thing wrong with that. Bonjour is NOT in this context meant strictly as saying "Hello"....its a cultural norm. its simply what is done as part of social interaction. In North America when people say "How are you"...they aren't asking how you are doing....instead this style of phrase in this context holds the same function as "Bonjour" does in France. You can't simply translate the words directly and fully understand its position in the language and culture. Its an acknowledgement that you are now interacting with a person and precipitation to a conversation. Ok...I think i've explained it as best I can. If you are simply translating the words/question into your own language and you are interpreting it the same way that those words or question would be used in your own native tongue then you're getting it wrong. Its simply a part of our culture and its unfair to critique it as it would mean in your language and in your culture. If you are going to critique it as such.....then there is a long laundry list of words, phrases in literally every other language that can be critiqued in exactly the same manner.....due to direct translation and then assuming it would hold exactly the same function as it does in the new language.
@RockSolid1023
5 жыл бұрын
I am an American woman (non-white) and Dutch men are gorgeous!! Super tall, built well, and those faces! OH MY GOD! Sooooo cute!! And the way they dress, cherry on top!! American men don't know how to dress and overall look or act sloppy. Definitely prefer foreign men over American any day.
@Hephaestus83
8 жыл бұрын
Loepsie isn't correct on all points. My response. 1. Men here always DO pay on the first date. When you're dating/starting a relationship you start to split the bill. 2. True. Women in The Netherlands are very casual and don't dress up much. Look at Loepsie for example, that's what women wear when they go out. 3. True. I'm heterosexual, but as a guy I have to say Dutch men are good looking. It always occurs to me when I've been on vacation and come back in The Netherlands. Dutch men are tall and most are good looking and very groomed. 4. True. We don't have a macho-culture here so most men won't walk up to you and try to seduce you like in meditteranean countries. 5. True. People are blunt/honest here. 6. Not true . We don't talk about politics or exes on a date. That's considered bad manners.
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Interesting comment once more. Thanks for sharing!
@littlemissmello
7 жыл бұрын
I've talked about politics on a first date and I would about my exes too if it were relevant and would make sense to the context. Was a great date and we saw each other for second date. I've only ever had a guy pay for me on a date once and it was incredibly awkward. I tried to refuse three times and he kept insisting and I just felt pushed aside and in the end I didn't see him again in a date setting.
@AnnekeOosterink
7 жыл бұрын
Not exes for sure, but otherwise, I want to know if it even is possible to continue dating this person long term. I don't want to find out that our ideologies comepletly clash after I've fallen for a guy. I want to know upfront what kind of a person they are. So for me, hobbies and interests are a starting point, but politics will come up. If not on the first, definately on the second date. I would not be able to have a relationship with a person who is on the opposite of the political spectrum to me. Our values would clash too much.
@Jennifer.villezcas
8 жыл бұрын
I love Loespie's videos I didn't expect to see you together
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
This is why doing collaborations is so fun cause people don't expect you know each other :)
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@pennydreadful27
8 жыл бұрын
I'm a Canadian living in England and it confused me for so long when people would say "All right?", and then I realized it's used as a greeting and they're not actually asking how I'm doing. :P
@anandadaquino3604
8 жыл бұрын
Shawna S sorry. eh!
@mikehydropneumatic2583
6 жыл бұрын
The weird thing is when you're asked HOW ARE YOU and you reply NOT SO GOOD they don't know what to say.
@MsSheeep
8 жыл бұрын
What I gather from the "dressing up" topic here is that in the Netherlands men and women put in an equal amount of effort to look OK nice (casual can still be very fashionable and well-dressed mind you) whereas in North America guys don't really care and girls just give their look everything they got? (Exaggeration used to get across my point 😉)
@marcwesterink7742
7 жыл бұрын
The best way to debunk this American politeness is to actually keep them busy paraphrasing until it becomes annoying, for them of course. I kept a waiter busy by asking how he felt about that particular experience... There's also a big difference between US/CAN and UK/IE between responding to 'How are you?' While overseas you say 'I'm fine' the Brits/Irish say 'I'm not too bad'. This makes it exceptionally funny answering like that to people who are not familiar with the difference. Neverthless, it's fun to be bold about it...
@coppersulphate002
5 жыл бұрын
Having lived in Canada, I call tell you that women offer to pay even insist to pay.
@japace61
8 жыл бұрын
Hence the phase, " going Dutch"
@jamesedwards1284
7 жыл бұрын
- Svoboda rekening delen tussen twee personen
@MsMesem
5 жыл бұрын
@Bob Loblaw How is it perjorative if it is entirely true?
@leocardosodias
8 жыл бұрын
Marina is rocks!! Best wishes from Brazil. I love your channel, keep going
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Yay!! Thanks, Leonardo!!
@Ares666
8 жыл бұрын
Great video again Marina, now that you've been travelling around Europe. Could you make a video about the main differences you've seen on the way guys talk to girls in different countries? It''s so funny to hear from this Dutch girl talking about Dutch guys being shy, I live in Spain and it's completely the oposite here. Keep the good work!
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm already back unfortunately so can't shoot any more videos. I will try to go back and do more on Europe and Spain is definitely a place I want to film soon!
@LittlestAswell
7 жыл бұрын
Apparently I was meant to be Dutch..bc my casual game is pretty much on point..all the time. And I RARELY wear make up. Like today was the first time I put on makeup since December...2016. lol
@incognito3599
Жыл бұрын
Dont be fooled, dutch girls do wear makeup, but its very verrry minimal, like the no makeup, Makeup look.
@josephtvshow7467
6 жыл бұрын
It's true I was in love with Dutch woman wow!!!! Dutch women are so kind though we separated duo to her family issue but she was so good to me I hope I find another one near future.
@andrewdennis0
8 жыл бұрын
Is there ever going to be a video on dating a Dutch woman?
@Widdekuu91
6 жыл бұрын
+andrew Whatever you do, avoid the one from the Amsterdam Shallow Man. He suggests that they'll offer you sex once you tell them you like 'Holland' (the Netherlands) and that offering her a cigarette is a one way ticket to her silk purse.
@jappiejojo777
6 жыл бұрын
+andrew > be tall > be funny > have a job > say you like to travel > don't have out of the ordinary opinions on sensitive issues like religion or politics
@elizabethnavarre7972
7 жыл бұрын
Love it. I'm of Dutch heritage but was born and raised in the U.S. Now it makes sense! I don't like getting all dressed up unless it's a special occasion and when I ask someone "how are you" I actually want to know. It's my Dutch/European showing! When I'm overseas, I've been told I confuse people because I'm American, but I'm genuine and open and not angry all the time. Now, before everyone jumps on the "foreigners hate Americans" thing, please remember what others see in the media. If all anyone sees are reality stars with a ton of make up and politicians literally yelling at each other on news broadcasts, of course that's going to be their opinion. I'm hugely proud that when I travel, I can show others Americans can be wonderful, loving, open-hearted people too, we just get bad press sometimes. Americans should also keep that in mind too, please stop with the wooden shoe and tulip jokes! Lol! Moral of the story: get out there and make friends across the world, with technology, you don't even have to travel. We have more in common with each other in this world than we think! :)
@DatingBeyondBorders
7 жыл бұрын
Very interesting, Elizabeth. Thanks for sharing!
@williamgill_esq.6487
7 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Tuttle If you were born and raised in the U.S. It is NOT your Dutch ancestry "showing" in terms of your poor lazy dressing habits-- it is your 21st century dumbed down AMERICAN women reality. And no it is not normal, and not good. If you want to know what is normal in terms of proper attire go look at photos and movies of people from 30 years ago and going back in time decade by decade. People used to have manners, couth, class, dignity and self respect - and respect for others in the way they dressed and groomed.
@HoldenNY22
7 жыл бұрын
How Can be living in the Year 2017 in the U.S.A., in the 3rd Phase of Feminism and Women (Many of Them Claiming to be Feminists) still expect the guy to pay for the Date!!??
@ritahaddad9410
8 жыл бұрын
Do one about Lebanon! xx
@Crunchieeeeeee
8 жыл бұрын
yessss
@nicolehutch2959
7 жыл бұрын
Mexico is also North America
@Hendrik-jan-de-tuinman
7 жыл бұрын
Sounds like this video is primarly talking about Amsterdam, pity really.
@LO-bs2ix
8 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos and the hilarious way you set them on,i think you guys have really come out with a such original idea!!Btw wich videos are you workin on?I am curious lol
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Leonardo! We try really hard to make quality videos on no budget so I'm glad it shows. Right now we're editing European videos so two videos about Denmark are coming up next, then Italian and German men :)
@LO-bs2ix
8 жыл бұрын
Ooo cool!!I hope you will do as many as possible cause they are very nice!Good luck!
@hg77777
6 жыл бұрын
Although i am not European I completely agree in so many things with you girls 💕
@pradeep2662
6 жыл бұрын
the crime rate would go down when low income guys are not called as simps, betas, basement guys and other disgusting stuff. We are content with our video games and occasional flings. Live and let live. Some men and women drag it too far when they should have nothing to do with other's income.
@__-iv6kc
8 жыл бұрын
you're amazing! :] can't wait for the next one.
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You like the vlog style videos or you want any video in general?
@__-iv6kc
8 жыл бұрын
Dating Beyond Borders - I like both because you present to us the points of view from others in different countries. now, when I travel in the future, I don't feel like such an outsider lol
@stephlu9684
2 жыл бұрын
Fake smile is better than transmitting negative energy or a fake mean person
@babyxhost9267
3 жыл бұрын
I’m from North America and I’m currently engaged to a Dutch man in Amsterdam and I’m finding it quite pleasant compared to dating men here in my own country and we’re currently trying to get me to see him and live with him in the Netherlands and they are way more direct and more committed and way more honest in I definitely feel like I got a lot more out of this man than I would ever get a hell of a guy from North America just from the first day honestly virtual date I guess you can sayWe’re hoping to get me there by Christmas
@cfpzona
3 жыл бұрын
It's exactly why I as an American guy really like and prefer Dutch women over North American women...they are more down to earth and don't expect the guy to pay for everything.
@nativewizard
8 жыл бұрын
I'm native american and I LOVE dutch women!
@Dilyora19
7 жыл бұрын
Really liked this video! Two beautiful girls being honest and joking around :) gonna check out Loepsie's channel
@DatingBeyondBorders
7 жыл бұрын
Well thank you ;) Always nice to get compliments!
@babyxhost9267
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all the advice ladies it was enlightening and I definitely will take all of this advice with me when I get to the Netherlands thank you 😇🙏
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@babyxhost9267
2 жыл бұрын
@@eberemartins851 hi 🙃
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
BabyXhost👻 how are you doing
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
U look cute can we chat on whatapp if that’s okay with you
@valvalval12
8 жыл бұрын
Omg Loepsie, I love her💖
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
She's super cool. Really down to earth and interesting!
@iamduudaterra
8 жыл бұрын
do a "you know you're dating a portuguese man..." !!!!
@wakeuptoreality5359
5 жыл бұрын
In North America I wish women offered to pay at least for a coffee on the 3rd date after the man has spent 150 dollars for dinner but only few actually do it sincerely. In west Europe women tend to be more fair with men and , in the long run, they earn lots of respect.
@juliezimmerman1435
7 жыл бұрын
Whenever I go to the Netherlands, Dutch boys approach me, and they pay for me.... I wonder if it’s because they know I’m American, and they know in America the man pays?
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋, hi
@280zjammer
4 жыл бұрын
You don’t understand the Americans smiling because you’re not a warrior. Trust me. You want us to smile. The fact that foreigners think it’s fake just shows who’s not fighting for anything.
@azarghasemi5875
5 жыл бұрын
Ugh maybe I should move to Netherlands. I’m too blunt for canada 😶 they always get shocked when i state the obvious 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ I was considered SHY in my own country 😅😅😅
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@anabernadete6443
7 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad every time that I heared someone talk about people who don´t care. I always think : where is the humanity of our society? Oh god!
@ferhatchebouti175
3 жыл бұрын
Hello, I will try to share the videos with my friends so I can get more of the scene
@Fife178
11 ай бұрын
I don't think I know many people dating in the US that expect the man to always pay the first date. Might be different in certain regions of the country though and also age group. At least, almost everyone I know on the west coast divides the bill these days.
@AizakkuZ
6 ай бұрын
Nah I’ve been told by woman here in the US that if you don’t pay they look down upon that. But if you insist they see you as controlling. It’s disgusting here in the US unless you are traditional/right-winged Left-winged woman are manipulative and toxic typically, and they like gender roles when it helps them. Right-winged woman here expect a lot, but they make it obvious. Left-winged woman in the Netherlands are blunt, and make it obvious.
@colouredlioness2199
5 жыл бұрын
I think the whole How are you ... is very different in Europe n in North America. I dated an Ukarnian Georgian guy in Toronto and when he asked How I am. I replied with I am good. How are you? He actually went into detail abt how he was... and then said... ok, now you.. How are you? And wanted to know how I truly was. This was a simply but very heart filling thing.
@Joey-ct8bm
Жыл бұрын
If you are in a relationship people here would get a shared bankaccount to pay for stuff. High heels on a bike or the cobbled streets doesn't work.
@spencerkieft6021
8 жыл бұрын
I'm American but I act exactly like the Dutch. So much more my style . . .
@roysalo
7 жыл бұрын
The next time when you're in the Netherlands, you should hit me up I've been fortunate to travel a lot during my studies and I've dated woman from different places in the world. So I have a lot of funny situations and stories to tell about my Dutch culture when dating/relationships and their respective culture. Would be valuable for your channel i think.
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@josefk7437
2 жыл бұрын
I think if I lived in the Netherlands, I would have had better luck with dating than I do here in the US.
@remkojerphanion4686
4 жыл бұрын
Dutch women say that they want to share the bill on the first date, but will be extremely disappointed if the guy says: sure.
@shonor7914
8 жыл бұрын
The video was so amazing! Could you make video about Argentinian men or Polish men?
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You mean a vlog style video or the You know you are dating series?
@shonor7914
8 жыл бұрын
Dating Beyond Borders A you know your dating but either one would be amazing!
@mkme2358
5 жыл бұрын
The girl didn't offer lol. But we are in Canada now. Yes maybe she doesn't wear makeup.
@jeskekouwenhoven
8 жыл бұрын
I'm Dutch and I love it :)
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello I love Dutch
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
I love the culture
@DannyBoy443
5 жыл бұрын
Hayley from Modern Family is Dutch? She's good at hiding the accent.
@mariequin5141
6 жыл бұрын
I never wear make up I find myself more beautiful without than with I only wear lipstick often.
@tarabailey8007
7 жыл бұрын
In my experience, dutch guys are not touchy, affectionate or like physical touch. Is that just me or is it a dutch thing?? Here in America, if a guy is interested in you, he wants to touch you and doesn't care who is around...
@Perfectly_Cromulent351
6 жыл бұрын
Can you do some dating an American man/woman videos, please? You’d probably have to split it by region seeing as how the south, Midwest, North East , west coast and everywhere in between all have different mentalities and cultures. Thanks! On another note, I noticed that nearly all the women in the Netherlands are naturally beautiful and so they don’t need much makeup to look good. Seriously, does acne even exist there? I could probably count all the blemishes I saw there on one hand.
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@rmv2185
8 ай бұрын
But the most important thing is that: You won’t have a date with a dutch girl unless you are a dutch boy.
@rmv2185
7 ай бұрын
@@delargealex yes, I mean it. North Europeans. For the rest, we have only the fat, or the big or the uglies.
@TheStefy00
8 жыл бұрын
It was a great video I want a video about '' you know youre dating a TURKISH boy when.." PLEASEEE
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Will keep it in mind (and on the LOOONG list of requests) ;)
@kacenka1984
4 жыл бұрын
Love your video !❤
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@CitrianSnailBY
3 жыл бұрын
As an Israeli, I *definitely* prefer the Dutch way!!
@irmagtz0787
6 жыл бұрын
México is North America as well!! ;)
@memebiologist975
8 жыл бұрын
for all Dutch ladies out there, if you don't like Armin Van Büren than you can't date me....*lol*😂😂
@JM-is8tg
6 жыл бұрын
You spell his name differently, like this: Armin van Buuren
@yvonnecampbell7036
5 жыл бұрын
@@JM-is8tg Ouch, true. Is he really a fan?
@Miragemp5
2 жыл бұрын
Loepsie You look Like My Girlfriend who Btw Got Netherland Roots.. "VAN" ,You are So beautiful..
@tavopotencialasJulija
8 жыл бұрын
Great video, do Portugese guy, please :)
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@drouinjohnny9036
8 жыл бұрын
For the Canadien ....yes...right
@eberemartins851
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@patrickeh696
8 жыл бұрын
In the US we call it "going Dutch" if each person pays 1/2 the bill... ;)
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Yep - there is a reason for it ;)
@Loepsie
8 жыл бұрын
Patrick EH Oh but we don't split the bill in half, everybody pays exactly for what they ordered! If you order a more expensive dish, prepare to pay more, haha! ☺
@patrickeh696
8 жыл бұрын
***** That's what I meant. Each gets his own bill. It has been called that in the US for at least 75 years
@MadMaxJuggernaut
5 жыл бұрын
I stopped trying to date because there are a bunch of women that are just easily offended by everything here in Montreal at least. I only look for european, scandinavian or slavic.
@patrickrussell1888
2 жыл бұрын
I like women who are natural in appearance, less makeup the better.
@RemyIssa
5 жыл бұрын
For example Canadian's they dress very bad. They don't take care of their appearance comparing to Dutch guys, but Canadian's are super nice and polite.
@parsizaban1
5 жыл бұрын
I love dutch everything !
@Gmetal97
7 жыл бұрын
I love the Dutch dating traditions, but do Dutch girls would be open to date a foreigner?
@ibrahimkendirci3268
7 жыл бұрын
Andy Irons most dutch girls(especially hot ones) only date. dutch men
@aribahossain8212
8 жыл бұрын
Pls do on a new zealand guy next
@matthewstoddart7187
8 жыл бұрын
ARIBA Hossain 1 rule with New Zealanders is to never call them Australian.
@yvonnecampbell7036
5 жыл бұрын
I do like kiwi's......and apples, bananas, pineapple, melons....well maybe not melons.
@henryr1367
8 жыл бұрын
Interesting.. Dutch women have male characteristics while their men have female characteristics....
@gamayun6102
8 жыл бұрын
Exactly like that. I'm from the Netherlands and actually a girl had never had a problem with me paying for example. Deep down they still want to be treated as women.
@gamayun6102
8 жыл бұрын
Nigling, they definitely do. But there are at least a few men like I who are resisting.
@kraf9132
7 жыл бұрын
thank god im not from europe man
@whiteonyx4
7 жыл бұрын
Yep throughout history the Dutch women tend to be strong willed, and can handle themselves kinda women who speak their minds. If ya wanna call that feminists so be it. And Dutch men adapted I guess (cause otherwise they aren't getting any LOL). But that doesn't make the guys 'female'. It makes them modern and strong enough to handle a strong woman. They are no non-sense kinda men. Here's to Dutch men!! :-)
@stefanarneson4877
7 жыл бұрын
where'd nordic come from? the dutch are a germanic country
@hotpopcorncake
8 жыл бұрын
Netherlands guys are good looking and i'm a guy. But they like drinking at the bar I like to move around.
@avinashduba9207
8 жыл бұрын
Nice video. I like this channel alot.. please keep doing these kind of videos and help me to know more about western girls:)
@DatingBeyondBorders
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Avinash! More vlog style videos you mean?
@avinashduba9207
8 жыл бұрын
yeah
@JosephGallagher
6 жыл бұрын
I thought her name was Lucy, not Loepsie haha... damn, she's so attractive...
@willemijn4118
7 жыл бұрын
That one about the style is not true, there are a lot of people who dress up and wear a lot of makeup and heald and stuff
@edwardrichter3269
6 жыл бұрын
Check out our chatting room
@joncong9497
7 жыл бұрын
I'm canadian and i was offended I do flirt using google:(
@VargasJulio39
7 жыл бұрын
American men wear fashionable coats and scarves... We just call them Hipsters.
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