If only she knew that I would NEVER had abandoned her. I've done feeling sad and sorry for myself. I just feel sad and sorry for her now. I wish she'd contact me.
@bobbooey45
3 ай бұрын
Don’t give in. She has to come to you. I’m going through the same thing. I finally couldn’t take the breakup/makeup cycle with her even after telling her over and over and over she is worthy and enough. At some point you have to look after yourself
@JasonC-rp3ly
3 ай бұрын
She can't and won't come back... very unlikely at minimum. They want love, but the way they get it is a mystery even to themselves. When they see neediness in others it can sometimes repel them, and they won't even know why. They will just lose respect for the person showing the need, or offering the support. The last thing they want is support. DAs are totally ruthless with themselves. They are radically, radically, self sufficient. This is why they can do so well in business. So they simply cannot relate to someone wanting to be close to them and being needy... to them it's like trying to listen to an alien and it just makes their skin crawl, because they are looking at behavior that to them is just completely off limits even to themselves. This is because they have been forced to only ever love and care for themselves so they simply cannot relate to you... There is no way around it. The only way a DA can love is if they have respect for your independence and calmness, and you don't pressure them at all. But, if they are not into you, even slightly, they'll just ice you out without skipping a beat.
@inspiredx3866
3 ай бұрын
Took me a long time to realize this about my ex. I can only pray for her at this point.
@r-kelsey5704
2 ай бұрын
As a DA, please know it is subconscience.im not a narcissist. I dont intentionally mean to hurt someone. Its my defense. These videos are helping me learn about myself. Its pretty painful at times but im learning to process my emotions. Thank you!
@cspace1234nz
Ай бұрын
Good on you. Do the work.
@asdfxcvbn746
3 ай бұрын
this describes this girl I knew to a T. she was one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen, but she was a horrible person. in front of our online group, you would think she was this confident beauty queen. but in private, after having conversations with her she was an emotionally broken trainwreck with an extremely low self esteem. one of the last convos we had before she discarded me was me trying to be a good friend to her by trying to convince her to not get a face altering plastic surgery. she got the surgery. it doesn't look good. she went from a solid 8 in looks to about a 6. still better than average because of her youth, but thats gonna look worse as she ages. situation reminds me of the celebrity SZA. another beautiful black woman that ruined her face with unnecessary lip fillers, chin implants & rhinoplasty. had she just been a good person, she could've gotten any rich man she wanted. she was introverted, weird & nerdy but she wasn't attracted to the nerdy guys who were attracted to her. she wanted rich, buff, asian guys. but she was an awful person & she felt looks was all she needed to attract a man. so she was confused when guy after guy with clout & money repeatedly used & ghosted her. her avoidant fears were warranted. she truly was an unlovable person.
@Nono38-jj1tk
3 ай бұрын
Women don't need men to rate them. Beauty is subjective. Only God can rate someone. If you men want to play the numbers game, most of the men that rate women are a 2.5 on their best day. Stay humble.
@asdfxcvbn746
3 ай бұрын
@@Nono38-jj1tk found the woman, didn't take long either. all i had to do was look out for misandrist comments & phrases like "you men" smh. instead of actually reading & comprehending what i said, you got overly emotional (as women tend to do) & you hyper focused on me giving her a rating on her looks, instead of understanding the point. the entire point of me rating her looks was to illustrate how much she did not need to get plastic surgery. but that point & all the other points i made flew right over your head smh
@Nono38-jj1tk
3 ай бұрын
@@asdfxcvbn746I'm a very conservative woman, but your mgtow misogyny is enough to turn any woman into a feminist, if only for a moment. Have you ever studied narcissism? You should.
@HarryWolf
3 ай бұрын
@@Nono38-jj1tk Calm down, dear. Those who accuse others of being a narcissist are usually narcissists themselves, projecting their fault onto others.
@barbarakonowska3452
3 ай бұрын
I know his parents and they are sweet :(
@HANZELVANDERLAAY
3 ай бұрын
So check out hypergamy..pretty much 💯 of woman.... dismiss men who commit...its natures way for woman...man commits..woman gets bored... and dismisses her man
@estherlongmore9443
3 ай бұрын
Uhhh, no, not 💯% of all women. Come on now. Maybe the women you’ve had relationships with, unfortunately, but there are plenty of amazing women out there too.
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