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@tahseti1113
2 күн бұрын
Once a coworker tried to embarrass me in front of a group of people by making a stupid joke. I laughed along with everyone else and, with a smile, I said, "You know , that would have hurt...if I had any repect for you". The smile on his face disappeared and he never tried it again.
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@unsinnkim3690
2 күн бұрын
Good one.
@markgendala5689
18 сағат бұрын
Yup, just put it on my menu...
@SergePoitras-hj4ip
9 сағат бұрын
Will try it lol.
@gearyb9870
8 күн бұрын
I am 76 y.o. I have male pattern baldness and started to gradually lose my hair in my late 20s. Some years ago I accompanied a woman friend to a large dinner group gathering at a restaurant. After introductions to a couple at a large table, the man said something to me like "Wow, you're really bald!" and laughed. I looked him in the eyes and replied " Did your mother not teach you that it is not nice to comment on someone's physical attributes? " There was a deafening silence at the table for a few minutes. I have often wondered whether I handled the man's rudeness in the most effective manner.
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us 💛🙏🏻
@jimjam5570
8 күн бұрын
"Wow, youre really bald!" "So was your mom, last I checked."
@gearyb9870
8 күн бұрын
Actually, it was my maternal grandfather who was bald. The mother carries the recessive trait which she passes on to her son.
@Wolf_Tracker
8 күн бұрын
I wear my baldness proudly. Thank you for noticing. 😊
@eltonron1558
8 күн бұрын
@gearyb9870 Me too. I'm 74, and in the music business, the hair thing is is the apex of shallow farce. I did wigs, not good. My baldness is pattern, and there are tiny thin fragile unseeable to the eye hairs. I color what is there ,and use a product that is a life saver for me not to look looked I frighten children. It's called Caboki. It's miniature short fibers of your hair color that attach to whatever may be there. There are other products, some too glossy, like Toppix, but Caboki is good. Online
@FMFVeteran
2 күн бұрын
I was in the service as an officer was walking towards me as I was walking towards him. He said 'I'm twice as smart as you' and without hesitating I said 'If you're so smart you'd never have said that!'
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
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@carlosnievas1220
Күн бұрын
And then you were demoted and taken to the sand pit! Joke. Anyway that is one of the many reasons I left the military. Obsession with humilation, not teaching the standard, do as I say not as I do, trashy people with power, etc.
@annieportier3584
2 күн бұрын
I was volunteering in a hospital & one of the staff would "reprimand" me out loud in front of people. It kept getting worse so I eventually left! I was so happy to be there in the beginning but she took the joy away. I was 78 at the time! Took me three weeks to feel myself again! I blocked her!
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@keithgiblin2636
Күн бұрын
I hope you made it clear to her superior why you left - otherwise they are going to lose more volunteers.
@kc6810
7 сағат бұрын
Say even louder, why are you reprimanding me in front of everyone?! You had nothing to lose really as it wasn’t a job. What a jerk.
@conradtorrez9193
Сағат бұрын
On@@keithgiblin2636
@lespearson3801
38 минут бұрын
I was a contract nurse in a big CVICU in a major city. I made an unpopular decision that saved a patient's life but embarrassed the head of pulmonary medicine there. That wasn't my goal at any point, and he could have easily saved face, but chose to indict his own stupidity, so he kind of embarrassed himself. He tried to retaliate by attempting to humiliate me in return on several occasions. After about a week of this I invited him to the parking lot to settle things the old fashioned way in front of a large audience, knowing he would decline the offer (I'm a big guy). It was also the next to last day of my contract. To my surprise the administration asked me to extend my contract as no one else seemed to be able to handle this doctor's ego.
@barbarabutterfield2679
6 күн бұрын
While working as a cashier, this woman seemed intent on getting me to react to her rude behavior in a similar manner. I didn't (although i had to fight hard). I just smiled and helped her (and her son who seemed embarrassed) bag her groceries. She paid her bill. I said thank you and continue to enjoy your day. The look of utter confusion on her face😅, her son smiled at me and nodded his head.
@bgueberdenteich5206
6 күн бұрын
Well done, Barbara!
@len4319
6 күн бұрын
Good work and the best things you did. Remember in the bible what Jesus said: love your enemy. Give him food if he's hunger." Try to be good to them or just like you what had done to her. And see, the reward of the wicked. God be with you.
@barbarabutterfield2679
6 күн бұрын
@@len4319 1Peter 3:9
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
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@kc6810
7 сағат бұрын
That’s great. “Continue” to have a good day lol.
@rgj8044
3 күн бұрын
I have a manager who repeatedly excludes me from meetings or activities even though they are directly related to my job. I let this person do this in group meetings until one day my whole team were in a meeting with the Executive Director and one of my colleagues asked my boss why I was not asked to comment on a matter even though I was there. I said nice and clearly - “ I have been regularly excluded from this activity, but always happy to help where I can.” This was a huge embarrassment to my boss and I was happily vindicated in patiently waiting for the best time to publicly embarrass my boss’s behaviour in front of his boss.
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@s1234pro
2 күн бұрын
One thing I've learned to say to someone who says something hurtful or mean is, "That make you feel good to say that to me?" They always answer no and back down.
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@delanelauderdale9099
2 күн бұрын
Also, this can work, Awe, feel better now? Your clean pamper will be ready in a jiffy...
@senapedro7154
8 күн бұрын
I was embarrassed by my ex husband when he disrespected me publicly, in his family circle. I approached him to tell him something, but he snubbed & humiliated me. I felt ridiculed, embarrassed & walked away not only from him, but from the marriage.
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
😪❤️ I understand you
@gerismith1218
8 күн бұрын
Good for you❤
@mosinmeister25
8 күн бұрын
@@gerismith1218 Double good!
@odinikita4821
8 күн бұрын
You divorced for that, surely you could have sorted this out????personally I think your ex husband is better off without someone like you who runs when there's an issue. Marriage has its ups and downs.
@StephenGangi
7 күн бұрын
@@odinikita4821 Deliberately disrespecting and humiliating some is NOT "ups and downs". I would bet it was not the first time, either.
@a.williams9
8 күн бұрын
Yes, experienced many times such disrespectful behaviours. Toxic/narcissistic individuals thrive humiliating others in public and these tips are effective to disarm them. The "Sorry, could you repeat that?" forces to expose their real intention, something they will try to hide although not giving them a reaction, refusing to engage and/or walking away work best since clinging on negativity is pointless. Setting strong healthy boundaries is necessary from the beginning to keep abusive people at bay. The way people treat others reveals a lot about themselves. Thank you 💯
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your feedback and opinion ❤️
@mariablume1967
4 күн бұрын
Once as someone was extreamly angry of me at a meeting, I did not respond to him, but began to speak to the whole group about, how important is is, no matter what we think or feel, that we express everything with dignity and first of all willingness to listen to each other. The man flew out of the room fully frustrated and everybody (about 10 persons) were so reliefed by my peacefull words and way of expressing them.
@MentalDoseEn
4 күн бұрын
Thank you for your reflection 🙏🏻
@emmsue1053
8 күн бұрын
Anyone disrespecting you is not actually talking of you but of their own fears.
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
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@BQN_BQN
6 күн бұрын
I WOULDN’T GIVE THEM THAT MUCH CREDIT. They’re tacky and low class. Period.
@kevinmonahan5425
2 күн бұрын
Met a fellow pilot with my medical transport company 2 days ago. Blowhard type, seemed chummy, asked questions about where I had flown, military service etc. Every response I gave was met with “I’m sorry…” One of those types, always trying to show he’s better. I Didn’t react, but found a reason to walk away and walked away again when he joined a group and was Mr. Blowhard pointing out other people’s screwups.
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us 💛
@GeraldineTerry-x3e
9 күн бұрын
Yes I've experienced it in the working place, i just remained silent and walked away,but after I've watched this video I will know what to do thank you very much
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️❤️❤️
@GeraldineTerry-x3e
8 күн бұрын
God bless you
@HarryGuit
7 күн бұрын
First of all: why should I want to win the respect of unrespecting people? It‘s their game, I don‘t have to join.
@Adrian-ju7cm
6 күн бұрын
Someone at work made a nasty comment and I replied "please be kind" it was met with silence and I could tell they were taken back
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
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@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
@Adrian-ju7cm the city did that to me city worker's
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
Got every one against me
@lumden1999
4 күн бұрын
My daughter in law attacked me verbally after I made a casual remark. I was a guess in her parents house so kept quiet, not wanting to make a scene in front of strangers. When a similar incident happened again …. Informed my son, although I loved him to bits, wasn’t prepared to put up with his wife’s behaviour - my granddaughter was a baby at the time, but my attitude is - what you don’t know you don’t miss. Don’t see them at all my son and I speak or a in contact every day but he has a new family now hope they happy. But I’m not prepared to put up with narcissistic people anymore.
@MentalDoseEn
4 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us 💛
@fleurdelis7914
8 күн бұрын
Actually I just experienced something similar last week in a board meeting for a small volunteer organization. Twice I was cut off publicly in what was humiliating. At first I didn’t know how to react but a couple of days later I wrote an email to one of the board members informing them that I would be no longer working with such organization.
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us ❤️
@chuckinhouston9952
8 күн бұрын
“I apologize for talking while you were rudely interrupting me, son.”
@KpxUrz5745
6 күн бұрын
I refused to even acknowledge the existence of those who disrespected me, let's say back in college. Most of them are dead now, and I am a multi-millionaire and still creating original work in my chosen profession.
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
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@joline2730
8 күн бұрын
I thought straight away - just walk . . . Don't ever be around negative people.
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
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@gildaturner3197
5 күн бұрын
You can't always just walk away. Could be in a meeting, sworn in at a court hearing or trial, a large event like a dinner party or wedding.
@HansRichter-lh9gt
4 күн бұрын
Yes,wrestling a pig. You will always get dirty
@ZenTeachingsDaily
8 күн бұрын
To everyone watching, may your life be rich in purpose, full of love, and guided by light. Wishing you peace and joy always.
@gidget9101
7 күн бұрын
Thank you
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@anneking2631
7 күн бұрын
Thank you
@patoconnor8684
6 күн бұрын
When someone disrespects you infront of a crowd. They admire you and are jealous of you. Bottom Line. 👍
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
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@simonwadsworth9402
2 күн бұрын
I agree
@Hummingbirds2023
4 сағат бұрын
I totally agree!
@wackingjack
7 күн бұрын
I've just walked away, and being known as a bit of a lone wolf type, it seems to make people unsure of my intentions!
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
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@Maxry-v2y
5 күн бұрын
Same here you’re not alone 💯
@aubreyj.tennant1123
7 күн бұрын
Very strangely, I’ve experienced all of these in the past week. I am very pleased to know I handled most of them very well and a few could have been better. My favourite is the asking of an obscure question interrupting the pattern of the interlocutor. Great tips! Thanks. 😊
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️🙏🏻
@barbarastepien-foad4519
8 күн бұрын
Best thing i ever did to a narcissit "neighbour" was to say NO...
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
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@DeborahEvans-r2v
6 күн бұрын
I use my deafness as well as body language to defuse situations. One such time was when I was treating myself to a birthday dinner and drink at the local bar. While I sat and had a somewhat expensive drink, a man sat down beside me, and within ten minutes and three beers decided to try and make a play. When he started getting a little crude, I took out my hearing aids, played with each a little bit, and laid them down on a napkin on the bar. I then turned to face him, and said in a loud voice that I was sorry, but the batteries seemed to be dying, but didn't he say he liked being tied up? He looked at me, the aids, and blushing, hastily excused himself for the bathroom. I put my aids back on, and the bartender came over laughing and told me that drink and the next were on the house.I was told that he was a regular, rather obnoxious person who always tried to hit on women who were there every time he came, and was a problem getting to leave. Two regulars at the end of the bar also got a good laugh, and offered to cover as well. I've used this little trick a few times, and the results have always been satisfying. A disability can be made into an advantage, like playing with the hearing aids, "accidently" whacking somebody's ankle with a cane, blocking/ slowing down a person with your wheelchair,.... the possibility list gets as long as you like it to be. 🤣😈😈🤡
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us ❤️
@richwebster117
3 күн бұрын
People who feel the need to humiliate others to get one over you are attempting to hide their own character defects and insecurities by deflection. By showing that you are aware of this, you can turn it completely around by asking that person if you could help them in any way. Whether they choose to admit it or not, they cannot hide from their truth or their fears. Likewise, if you own the comment levelled at you, you're demonstrating that you are not at all bothered by it, which in turn they will feel. Pauses, and not reacting, all demonstrate a deep sense of self control from you and serve as a warning that if they continue, they themselves are treading into unfamiliar and dangerous territory with you and are more likely to cease their condescending behaviour. The bottom line is that these people are bullies - and deserve to be called out.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching and for your reflection ❤️
@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji
2 күн бұрын
Very wise words & on occasion as a Senior I have had others attempt to ignore my concerns, mock my concerns and try to make me disappear or invisible if you will! Your techniques work every time so thank you! Excellent tools for Seniors! ❤
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji
2 күн бұрын
@@MentalDoseEnThank You & Keep up the excellent work!🩵
@markaugustus4064
4 күн бұрын
Excellent strategies for dealing with disrespect. Thanks a million.
@MentalDoseEn
4 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️✨
@RyanCarroll-rx3od
Күн бұрын
In the past when someone has tried to humiliate me in front of others my response was “ I see you haven’t matured any since junior high, come on you can do better than that”
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
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@harvelle1
8 күн бұрын
Very informative. Good teaching!
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching ❤️✨
@geoffreyrothwell2707
7 күн бұрын
I am on a Zoom call with high school friends. We are all in our 70s. Many of us have doctorates. The one male without a doctorate graduated from the University of Chicago while the rest of us went to state schools for our undergraduate degrees. Since that time, the asshole has insulted us because he has thought that he was better than the rest of us. He always looks for an opportunity to insult me (hey I taught at Stanford for 25 years). Next time, I will ask him what he means by the insult or I will ask him to repeat it so i can “write it down.” Thanks!
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
👏🏻❤️ Thank you for sharing that with us
@HomelessMathTeacher
7 күн бұрын
I took some classes from the university of Chicago while I was overseas with the military. Please don't think that the school is at fault for their alumni's behavior.
@chalice3571
2 күн бұрын
yes it happened to me so I kept asking wuestions about the situation until my opponent was completely confused deep inside I was cracking up... very good video thank you for sharing
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us and for watching ❤️🙏🏻🫂
@themudsnarkchannel8237
6 күн бұрын
I always employ something my father used to say. "I've been treated worse by better people than you." Most will take a second or two before they realize they've been insulted. Everyone else gets a good laugh.
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@petertalvi8511
4 күн бұрын
You could also say it the other way around. It might confound the offender even more.
@Santor-
Күн бұрын
My dad used to say "If you don't adjust that behavior, it will get moon lit in here!". That always dumbfounded them, and as a kid, I always wondered what this "moon-lit" scenario meant. Maybe like the stars around Donald ducks head after he got beat up? Lol
@bridgetmenham6686
4 күн бұрын
Trouble is they do this when youre off guard.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
😯
@Undermineded-333
13 сағат бұрын
Stay humble no humiliation when ur appreciative
@MentalDoseEn
13 сағат бұрын
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@lindamuller2801
2 күн бұрын
My only son had OCD, SOCUAL ANXIETY with complex sleep apnit and was borderline autistic. My siblings told I was the cause if all his problems and a bad morhery. I laughed and said ,: " Well my cat is ok! "😂
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@robertYTB78g
3 күн бұрын
This often happens when you are being genuine and are off guard. At that time it can be difficult to think of a thing to say and you may be mad as hell later when you think of what you should have said.... Next time pause and say "sorry what was that?" and slowly... work back though with them what they have said to make sure you are getting the right end of the stick. Don't go off the deep end and humiliate them back, if it was bad say "that wasn't very nice" with real meaning in your voice. By now your defences will be back on line and you will be able to think of rational statements to back up why you are hurt by what they said. Do not tolerate toxic people and get away from them if you can. Think of the people who like you, and of happy times, and if you are still angry about the past then remember the phrase that staying angry is like drinking poison and then expecting your enemy to die...The poisonous people are the unhappy ones, just move on knowing you will handle things just that bit better next time.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
Thank you 💛
@eaglet2000
7 күн бұрын
But if you remain seated when greeting someone, you are belittling the other person as it would mean that you consider him as no-one.
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for your opinion 🙏🏻
@bgueberdenteich5206
6 күн бұрын
I agree, it is a lack of respect!
@mim23106
7 күн бұрын
Yes, I have experienced this in work and private life. Do you think the other person will look at you if you stare him? All this info would have been very valued about 20 years ago. But it's valuable now too
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
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@splod44
Күн бұрын
Just say in a dead pan voice " I love you I really I want you to know that " works like a charm
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
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@maxoggle11
8 күн бұрын
Some people will never respect you as they resent who you are but it's generally a sign your in the wrong job the wrong place or a disguised form of racism. Some people are just ignorant or this is how they've been brought up, banter some call it and I guess to them it's normal. I tend to think 1 Stay in controll of your emotions.2 If you can deal with it as it's from a subordinate do that. 3 Take some video footage on your mobile phone as evidence. As a last resort to protect yourself carry a metal flashlight, Iprotec make decent ones and their not to expensive.
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your reflection 🙏🏻❤️
@philliprobinson7724
6 күн бұрын
Hi. Thanks, very informative, with a good appreciation of body language. Another useful technique is to cultivate a withering sneer. With interlocutors and smart-Alecs just tilt your head back slightly, look down your nose, wrinkle it as if there's a bad smell, then raise your upper lip. Then roll your eyes to the ceiling while simultaneously throwing your hands, palms outward, to the side and say, "Cheeesh." Finish by saying, "thank you Basil Fawlty". Cheers, P.R.
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching ❤️
@tomryan914
6 күн бұрын
Like Niles and C.C.'s verbal sparring on 'The Nanny'. Touche'🤺 (I've got to get even!!!)
@philliprobinson7724
6 күн бұрын
@@MentalDoseEn Hi. Good manners are more important than we realize and using good manners when dealing with bad manners is a skill few people bother acquiring. Good show, Cheers, P.R.
@redcherryblossomgrowing9901
13 сағат бұрын
Excuse me, I did not pay attention. Can you repeat it? - - - - this one is very powerful. Thank you for teaching.
@lindsayheyes925
6 күн бұрын
If they speak very loudly, they a grand-standing. Try: "I'm sorry, I missed what you said. Say that again, but do speak up so that I can hear." If they insult you very accusingly, try: "My name is [...]. I think you must mistaking me for someone else. What's the name of the person you were looking for?".
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@AlexSowah-dk1qg
7 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice. ❤
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@boydownunder007
2 күн бұрын
Usually also never invite or interact with that person again - walk away and block them they will get the message
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
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@1234piano
5 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention. Could you repeat that please? . . Love it !!!
@pkitatta
3 күн бұрын
Matt 11:29 "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart, and you will find rest for you souls." Jesus. We don't have to labour in counter engagements. Our value is not extrinsic or man given, our value is intrinsic because it follows from God. Spiritual maturity comes when we allow things like insults or disrespect to flow over our head like a wind. Only in this state will you have peace.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
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@Blessedpb
8 сағат бұрын
My husband of 50yr always catches me off guard with an awfully rude comment or action. Usually around people that we don't know well or strangers. In a department store or repairmen. I think the next time he does it (somehow it always surprises me) I'm going to say, "Are you OK? ..."I'm sorry my husband hasn't been himself lately". Also he will walk 30 ft ahead of me. Even after all these years I just cannot seem to figure it out. I rarely go anywhere with him now except to dinner with friends as he doesn't do it with people who know him. Has always made me so sad.
@kellywade8275
3 күн бұрын
Anyone who is disrespectful to others, does not respect themselves. 🙆🏾♀Occurs at work on a daily basis. Not so much my students but the, 'grown- ups.' 🙏🏾
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
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@quartytypo
6 күн бұрын
Say, "Thank you. I needed that."
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
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@Victoria-c4n
8 күн бұрын
Interrupting - “You’ve got the manners of a jay bird.” “You’ve got the brains that god blessed a broom stick.” Courtesy of FIL…
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
😯
@Victoria-c4n
7 күн бұрын
@@MentalDoseEn - 🤷🏻♀️
@juliechurch1799
6 күн бұрын
Thankyou.good tips.imstill learning after narc abuse .
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@suzannehonan48
8 күн бұрын
Respect must be earned both ways....those who choose to look straight through you...I look them in the eye 1:36 has shown will look up psalm?❤ 1:36 1:36 has shown again!
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us ❤️
@kimbal1958
8 күн бұрын
@suzannehonan48 You stated - "Respect must be earned both ways....those who choose to look straight through you...I look them in the eye;" This is a bit hard to earn respect from someone hiding behind a keyboard on Social Media. Most who show disrespect are Narcissistic Cowards face-to-face.
@plinble
7 күн бұрын
Good tips for those situations. Maybe expand on ways to consider for dealing with assault, e.g. gripping, patting etc.
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for your feedback ❤️
@rosamariaramirez7831
6 күн бұрын
You guys narrating love to hear your voice, and talk, and talk, and talk
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
😯
@SMidberg
5 күн бұрын
To conterattack only shows you are hurt. I usually agree with an overexaggerate showing" I dont care ". Or even" blame me more". This often confuses them.
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us 💛
@RaymondMerritt-z3p
5 сағат бұрын
After we escaped (6 years ago) we haven’t returned. There are plenty of authentically nice people in the world to be around.
@johnhewitt3330
19 сағат бұрын
I recently had a person tell me to be quiet as I was taking with friends. I told the person to get fucked and mind his own business. I then stated that I did not know who he thought he was talking to but I was not his mother. I am a 72 year old man and I wont tolerate that type of disrespect.
@MentalDoseEn
18 сағат бұрын
❤️👏🏻
@rustygrunert5316
8 сағат бұрын
Having no reaction usually works but if all else fails walk away
@nicobsm111saintmichel7
5 күн бұрын
At times at a bar/club, I'll have some random bloke out-of-the-blue tell me, that they don't like me. I: pause, stare them in the eyes, and calmly (rhetorically) ask them if I shall cry now or later? After their baffled look; I respond, later; I am not one for public scenes/scandals. :)
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us ❤️
@lindafolks
8 күн бұрын
Perfectly explained!! God saw and heard it ALL. Complete HEARTLESS individuals! Jokers thought they were justified for their actions! There is no justification for this UNGODLY behavior!! Glory be to God and ever! Amen 🙏❤️🕊🌟🎶🌹🎚️⚖️ Hatred on the level of Satan!! They have no fear of the Lord! Praying for these enemies that God’s wrath is not too extreme if they repent!
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@jjohnson1434
Күн бұрын
I've been disrespected at my job for 37 years, due to a smear campaign from a man I did not know. I'm 71. Have gotten no respect after filing a complaint, and paying 7500.00 for an employment attorney. I got fired recently. I'm 71. Should have never worked there.
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
❤️
@Vaughan-t5i
6 күн бұрын
This is subjective-one cannot expect one to react the way suggested-this depends on the context and circumstances involved
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
👌🏻👌🏻
@andrewpolasek5524
4 күн бұрын
I finally figured out that it's not worth winning the respect of a douche bag.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
😯
@normapadro420
5 күн бұрын
I just don't speak to people that insult me. I just stay quiet. I have never been the one to correct anyone. You only have one chance to impress someone. Don't mess it up.
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
👏🏻❤️
@EdwardHoops-mi8fy
5 күн бұрын
I worked in car sales for many years for a megadealer. An automotive group. If you didn't learn these techniques quickly you'd be gone.
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@airiofoloambros517
7 күн бұрын
I really gained a lot here tnk u
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@kristinmeyer489
4 күн бұрын
1:02 You get more than enough shade, abuse, graft thrown your way and you can't do anything about it, that is the surest way to earn and curate hatred there is, the operative word being EARNED.
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
Thank you
@HomelessMathTeacher
7 күн бұрын
Good advice. Most of these were new to me.
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@mireilletaar4129
7 күн бұрын
Inspiring video. So much wisdom, wisdom of a lifetime packed in six minutes thirty nine seconds 🌟🥀🙏🥀🌟
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 😍✨❤️
@barrymcguinness2087
8 күн бұрын
Yes in the workplace you will always have the Wannabees those who simply want to climb the ladder of success be it as a manager or supervisor usually at the expense of someone else and in my experience those who will do this will gladly kiss the backside of those who are above them in the workplace yes those who look down on them but the wannabes just want to be like them to be in a position of power and to look down on others in my humble point of view these wannabes are pathetic insecure individuals that crave and need the position of superiority to give them a sense of worth .
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
Thank you for your reflection ❤️
@snowwhitehair485
8 күн бұрын
I used to work with an obnoxious, irritating teenager who spent all day winding everyone up to hide his insecurity. At eighteen he got married and with a sudden sense of self-worth his personality totally changed for the better..
@JonasQuigly
2 күн бұрын
Life's too short. Just turn to them and say F... off! There...adopt that strategy and you'll be fine.
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
😪❤️
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
I did that , they turned the sheriff after me after they made up Bull shit
@HardyBunster
13 сағат бұрын
Very good.
@MentalDoseEn
13 сағат бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@adriang6259
Күн бұрын
I usually react poorly. Great video
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@AJBesh
4 күн бұрын
Make them fear you then they will respect you
@MentalDoseEn
3 күн бұрын
😯😪
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
Sometimes know matter what u do they will disrespect you
@margarettownsley9500
8 күн бұрын
Some people are just born ignorant
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
😪
@MikeTheJedi-sx8ci
Күн бұрын
good advice
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@Find-Your-Bliss-
4 сағат бұрын
I think I would laugh, and ask, “Do you feel better now?”
@dougfreeman7641
7 күн бұрын
I respect myself don't care if others do. If they piss me off i kick their ass
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
😯😁
@joanneweston4778
6 күн бұрын
Hi .how did you KICK THEIR AXX
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
Got the sheriff after me
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
I'm still nice to them
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
I always try to help
@CaraGare
2 күн бұрын
People are weird u help then they think , somethings wrong if u speak your mind
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
😪❤️
@Helm-w1q
8 күн бұрын
In my youth, disrespect would get you a slap across the face. Its still works. Ya I know its assault. I've never been in Trouble with the law.
@MentalDoseEn
8 күн бұрын
💛
@garypointing5825
8 күн бұрын
What I have said in the past is "my dad would have smacked you in the mouth if you had said that to him" then let the other person realise that violence could still be an option...after a brief gap I say "your lucky I'm more restrained". My mates growing up were vicious to each other verbally, I don't think anyone could actually say anything that humiliated or upsets me. I've heard much worse. This means I can laugh it off...and if course the over long false laugh really shows what you think
@Helm-w1q
8 күн бұрын
@@garypointing5825 Believe me when I say, You can get a lot more respect with a kind word and a swat in the mouth , than you can with just a kind word. Most people respect me, and I then because we act in a respectful way. Those who act disrespectful need to learn fear. .
@WhiteJackXpress
8 күн бұрын
Go tell Will Smith… times have changed my dear 😮
@Helm-w1q
8 күн бұрын
@@WhiteJackXpress Ya , go asked Chris Rock .
@josephined8576
Күн бұрын
I don't care about respect from other people. I uphold my respect for myself. IF YOU CROSS MY LINE..YOU ARE DEAD .PERIOD My elder sister tried...She almost died in my hands.😂
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
😯
@PotterSpurn1
6 күн бұрын
This won't necessarily work. Most bullies who try to humiliate a target will only do so in front of others likely to support them. They are cowards at heart - either bullying with supportive network of flying monkeys who are likely to round on you for asking her to repeat it or they say something rude to support what she said anyway - or they stab you in the back. If that were not the case, these techniques would not be necessary becuase the entire group would round on them and reprimand them for their rudeness. Their aim is to win, not lose. The only thing that works is to try to avoid being targeted in the first place. That is why your initial comments about greetings, eye contact was on point. But even that may not work becuase that kind of inner confidence and respect often elicits a bully's painful reality that they lack confidence, which makes you a target immediately. The best thing you can do is to avoid these people entirely, if you can. There really is no other option if you are to avoid similar treatment in future. The other thing to bear in mind is this: if you were to put those other techniques into practice, assuming they are relevant to the scenario of where you are singled out and no one is supporting the bully or they say nothing (which I have said is unlikely), those kind of counter-bullying tactics is likely to fuel their antipathy still further - e.g., if you ask them to repeat a rude humiliating joke - and they will become vindictive further down the line by smear campaigning you or just using whatever power they have or can muster to destroy you. This happened to me. A work colleague used the silent treatment on me, to try to humiliate me and treat me as though I wasn't there on the team. This went on for six months. One day, in front of others - but without making it obivous - I aksed her something in front of witnesses, and in a polite tone of voice - not to goad her or show her up. That was essential. On another social occasion, during a team member leaving party, I complimented her on what she was wearing in a pleasant friendly tone. She just grunted in response and didn't respond or look at me. But she was inwardly furious and behind my back put in a Grievance against me for age discrimination and bullying her, which I have not yet finishing answering to. So counter-humiliation can be extremely dangerous. They are deeply shamed by thier own behaviour but they won't apologise they will just try to unseat or force out their target who 'makes them feel bad' by taking no responsibility for their own unjust treatment and will only see or make up your unjust treatment of them instead.
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us 🙏🏻
@gildaturner3197
5 күн бұрын
I agree with you with the situations you are in. Sometimes, there are no choices. I will soon be put on the stand to defend my Dad against a narcissistic brother's attorney. I am prepping by watching attorney videos on prep for depositions, hearings, and trials. I will be smeared,' but I am looking for a way to introduce my brother's crimes, one being a felony. He has failed Rehab x 2. I do not want to sound nasty, just 'inclusive' if he is going to attempt to insinuate I have done some major transgressions. I have evidence to back me up on the brother's lies. Documents and photos. One of the attorneys I am watching is Jefferson Fisher on You Tube.
@samnous2002
12 сағат бұрын
Muhammad Ali once said to the Beatles, "You guys are not as dumb as you look!" John Lennon retorted by saying, "No, but you are!" 🤣
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
One of the city women here , made a big parade in front of every one , then when i said something she called the sheriff
@norwegianblue2017
2 минут бұрын
Tell them that the Jerk Store called and they were running out of you!
@erkanduzgun7995
6 күн бұрын
Background music is irritating.
@MentalDoseEn
6 күн бұрын
Thank you for your feedback ❤️
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
All what he says don't work
@bruceangel4459
2 күн бұрын
The first step is, you have to feel humiliated.
@MentalDoseEn
2 күн бұрын
😭
@bruceangel4459
2 күн бұрын
@@MentalDoseEn , Thank-you for liking this and give you the power of daily brisk walking. It’s very powerful and it works. Do it wisely and use it carefully: This is quite possibly the best information that you’re going to receive in this lifetime, I call it the power of daily brisk walking. And if it does what I say it will do, you will share it with your family, friends and loved ones until the end of time or the end of your family line, whichever comes first. We humans were meant to walk everyday and to feel our optimal best we have to walk briskly everyday. Practicing the art of daily brisk walking for the mathematical benefits will change your physicality, your countenance, your mind and then quite possibly your life. When this works for you, share it with your parents/family, friends and loved ones if you want to catch a glimmer of what they were like when they were young because the power of daily brisk walking will age them in reverse. Prove it to yourself. Here’s how: Take a selfie before you begin this process, then walk briskly everyday for the mathematical benefits that’ll payoff like compounding interest. After some time has passed, take another selfie. The difference should be easily discernible and readily apparent in your changing physicality and happier countenance. If you stick with it you’re going to look sharper, feel sharper and actually be sharper than you’ve been in some time. You’re going to look, feel and be happier and more energized than you’ve felt in a long time. (No dieting or weightlifting is required) When you walk: Open your eyes slightly wider and walk at a brisk pace, making sure to swing both of your arms while using your eyes for things both near and far & having as much fun as possible. (It’s an eye exercise and brain training stimulator) At some point you’re going to feel as if your eyesight is improving and you’re aging in reverse. Google “brisk walking and telomeres”, lengthening your telomeres will have you feeling like you’re aging in reverse. You’re going to feel healthier, happier and sharper than you have in quite some time if you just stick with it. That’s it, it really is that simple. We humans were meant to feel alive, healthy, happy, vibrant and vital all of our lives as we age. If you practice the art of daily brisk walking you will experience all of these things. And unlike other activities this one, barring illness or injury is sustainable for the rest of your life. Why does this work more effectively and efficiently than almost anything else at helping you achieve your goals? Because we were designed/evolved and adapted over millions of years to do this one thing very well. Animals in the wild walk from shortly after birth until death in a never ending search for food and water or to escape predators. We humans eschew walking and ride in air conditioned comfort to air conditioned food stores and air conditioned gyms to walk slowly or stand around. It’s only been since the last hundred plus years and the invention of the automobile that we’ve forgotten that we’re supposed to walk and walk briskly. The invention of the cellphone has only exacerbated this issue. If we want to feel and be our optimal best we have to thoroughly mix the chemicals in our brains and bodies everyday, we have to walk and we have to walk briskly. (If you’re unaccustomed to walking briskly, fear not, just take it slow, your large muscles will adapt quickly!) The leading cause of injury in adults is unintentional falls. *Practicing the art of daily brisk walking will improve your balance, mobility, agility and coordination making falls less likely.* Plus, this is sustainable for the rest of your life and a guaranteed mood booster. Extras: Make an AC/DC greatest hits playlist, push play and just try to keep up. (This is a great brisk pace) *Get psyched* *Get hyped* *Get fired up* Dress lightly or you’ll overheat, feel sick and quit. I wear baselayer, synthetic in warm weather and wool in cooler weather. No jacket is required until approximately 10 degrees. When you walk seven days a week for years you’re going to experience every kind of weather. Something I’ve learned is that we humans have an amazing capacity to heat ourselves up quickly when we’re on the move and the rain, snow and cold will have little effect. Think about our caveman ancestors in skins, no underwear & no jackets and boy are we lucky and you’ll be warm and toasty. If you’re cold, just walk faster! (You’ll be amazed at how quickly you’ll adapt if you just stick with it) You’re going to sweat a lot, so stay well hydrated and drink water before you get thirsty. Get an Apple Watch and close your rings daily, it’s cheaper than any trainer or gym and it will keep you disciplined and on track. Good luck to you and remember, *Open your eyes slightly wider and use them for looking at things both near and far while swinging both of your arms. Remember to think happy thoughts when you walk and have as much fun as possible to achieve the maximum benefits.* PS- This is everything that I’ve learned in eight years in a nutshell from practicing the art of daily brisk walking. I’ve distilled it down to its essence to make it as easy as possible with the best possible outcome. This works, prove it to yourself by aging in reverse, remember to walk everyday for the mathematical benefits. PSS- As always, check with a medical professional before beginning any program of exercise.
@David-ki2dl
7 күн бұрын
2:20 to get to the first tip, Isn't that kinda disrespectful to us viewer's ?
@MentalDoseEn
7 күн бұрын
The beginning of the video explains things that are equally useful for understanding the tips. 💛
@chalice3571
2 күн бұрын
I meant Questions above sorry for typo
@MentalDoseEn
Күн бұрын
🫂
@dianashaw3971
4 күн бұрын
When you disrespect others you don't respect yourself.
@MentalDoseEn
4 күн бұрын
❤️
@HairyPotter
Күн бұрын
A great big ad in the middle of the screen shows YOU don't really value the content for us and just in this for click bait.
@MentalDoseEn
18 сағат бұрын
😯
@HairyPotter
12 сағат бұрын
@@MentalDoseEn I'm mostly deaf and HAVE to read the captions. Ads and previews kind of ruin it.
@kittybluett8887
5 күн бұрын
Karmala did the first thing with Trump
@MentalDoseEn
5 күн бұрын
😪
@CaraGare
10 сағат бұрын
When they have the law to back them up , theres nothing u can do
@PaulKoelman
2 күн бұрын
Watch until the end? Please some selfrespect would be nice😂
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