I'm sure that this advice is meant with the absolute best of intentions, however the analogy of "recycling things" as compared to trying to "figure out how to make this thing work with them" is not just misinformation, it can be downright dangerous. Such advice is every narcissist's alibi. It's not your responsibility to endure abuse or carry toxic people. It's not someone's intrinsic right to infiltrate your life and abuse you because you're related or otherwise. The only way to handle toxic people is to establish an absolute no-contact regime and abide by it. Once you know you go- you get out and you stay out. Anything less is emotional thinking, illogical, and a breach of the rules of no contact.
@caiusKeys
4 күн бұрын
Wise observations--thanks!
@julieaskingforafriend
5 күн бұрын
Well, you can tell he's never had an ex-husband backhand him and threaten to kill him. Yeah, I want to go back and see if I can "recycle" that relationship... 😭😭😭
@laurasteif86
4 күн бұрын
One man's trash is another man's treasure.
@priscillaszporka4983
5 күн бұрын
😊 👍
@DH-cz5di
4 күн бұрын
Extremely bad advice for vulnerable people who are in a toxic dangerous relationships! Please do your research before offering advice to someone in a volatile environment!!
@JaneDoe-ng3zm
4 күн бұрын
He may the person that chicks run from and hes tired of the revolving door its to much work to clean up court another woman/victim
@jillballantyne1870
5 күн бұрын
Okay--are you divorced and have family or kids? Lets hear how great you are doing with your relationships
@Princess-Um
5 күн бұрын
If he is, he's speaking from the lessons that he's learned. And if he isn't, you're not going to listen anyway as evidenced by the fact that the first thing out of your mouth was an attempt to discredit him. Maybe take the chip off of your shoulder and try being wrong every once in a while. It's how we learn.
@jillballantyne1870
5 күн бұрын
@@Princess-Um what are you 12? You're the one with the chip I just asked a direct question. It was a direct question without any attacks. You can move on from this conversation I do not need to speak with you further I think you are too immature and or cannot understand what people write. Good day
@julieaskingforafriend
5 күн бұрын
@@Princess-Umyou'll understand when you grow up. Or the first time your boyfriend beats you up, whichever comes first.
@Princess-Um
5 күн бұрын
@@julieaskingforafriend Pick better boyfriends. Regardless, that's not what he's saying. If you actually want to understand, I'll explain, but I doubt it. By the way, your constant use of personal attacks might be part of the problem. It's better to listen to ideas than attack people, especially people that you don't know.
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