My biggest lesson I learned is ONLY date men that sees YOU as their wife. Point black period. Save all the hassle and heartbreak.
@TRINIGIRLHANNAH
4 жыл бұрын
GodLoveFreedom give him the time of day ! DONT give any man the time of the day if he doesn’t see you as his wife. You will know when a man truly want you.
@jaquaidakinney9034
4 жыл бұрын
Yes I did. We were long distance. How the way he treated you. My ex was conservated
@jaquaidakinney9034
4 жыл бұрын
He drove 4 hours one way to meet me. He thought I was good to be true. He did that twice
@TRINIGIRLHANNAH
4 жыл бұрын
GodLoveFreedom check out Rebecca Lynn pope on KZitem
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
Facts only
@AE-106
4 жыл бұрын
"...That's closure, he closed the door!" ~T.G.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeeeessssssss!
@brittanywebb6034
4 жыл бұрын
That tickleddddd me, but so true! 😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽
@uzougwu1511
4 жыл бұрын
Tony is a comedian and he ain't know it🤣🤣🤣🤣
@AE-106
4 жыл бұрын
@@uzougwu1511 EXACTLY!
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
No lies detected 😂
@wowso4
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t be knocking the door 🚪 when he shut it in your face 😂😂😂
@lizzylewis5793
4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, you have to heal from the spirit of rejection...Dont be the pick me woman and never chase a man. Ask God to renew your mind, restore your soul, and become whole. Work on yourself and become the prize.
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
4 жыл бұрын
Rejection is a very hard pill to swallow! I think rejection is actually worse than being cheated on.
@monicathompson9751
Жыл бұрын
This is good !!!!
@KrystleLaughter
4 жыл бұрын
If a man becomes distant never pursue him.
@elainaleon8514
3 жыл бұрын
your so right its really hard !
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
3 жыл бұрын
Never pursue a man PERIOD.
@disnalee
2 жыл бұрын
Oop i made all the moves big mistakes!!! Omg Tony is correct!!! My hubby is playing me big time!!!
@mariadaskalakis9317
4 жыл бұрын
A queen holds her position . Most definitely.
@toniwilliams9817
4 жыл бұрын
Indeed 👍🏽
@NAJErEa91
3 жыл бұрын
SHO NUFF!
@TARLEASE02
4 жыл бұрын
He is too stinking cute...that little voice. Awww. You totally glow when your wife and kids appear. Sweet.
@natashafreeman2220
4 жыл бұрын
If he ghosts you or doesn’t call you back for days it’s probably because he has a wife or girlfriend. So take it as a sign to run. Nobody has time for entanglements in 2020 and beyond.
@DynamicallyDC
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed, that's a huge possibility...while also juggling you along with several other women.
@tonitaquetaparks3304
4 жыл бұрын
Men are really the ones that are desperate if they want every woman that they can get.
@natashafreeman2220
4 жыл бұрын
Tonita Queta Parks many of them do. I’ve seen it.
@tonitaquetaparks3304
4 жыл бұрын
@@natashafreeman2220 they are always trying to make women look bad all the time it makes no sense to me. Why dont men just grow up they are not Peter Pan?
@natashafreeman2220
4 жыл бұрын
Tonita Queta Parks men who do that need to find a purpose. For real. High value men aren’t trying to get with every single thing they see because they don’t have the time. They are too focused on achieving actual goals. Like growing a business.
@jenniferosea
4 жыл бұрын
"It's impossible to remain the same when you get new knowledge." - TG Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all the knowledge you pour out!! God bless you and yours! Tayden is so cute!
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
This is facts
@erynd.9911
4 жыл бұрын
“Stomping in his Air Force one’s” 🤣😂🤣
@tinal6594
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@saforniajohnson1676
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@erica8657
4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@grandmak9013
4 жыл бұрын
I guess he really needed one pair too.
@Dr.Elaine1
4 жыл бұрын
“Lord, I told you to reveal and to remove, and Lord, he gone. Thank you.” TG
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
I've seen it happen to me time and time again, I ask and God moves swiftly, sometimes too swift for me 😂
@Tootie929
4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful mixture of you and your wife! Your son is adorable!
@kayjay3948
4 жыл бұрын
It was like Tony was looking in a mirror when he was looking at his adorable son. His son is his twin!🤗
@thesimoneshow2608
4 жыл бұрын
And sometimes they’ll pull back to see how she’ll respond to see if they can control her
@Aileonz_Redeemed_
4 жыл бұрын
💔😢☹
@thesimoneshow2608
4 жыл бұрын
En Joy that’s not what I’m talking about. Aside from what Tony’s talking about, sometimes, for no reason, before you guys have really even starting dating, guys will pull back just to see how’ll she’ll respond. And from how she responds, he knows if he can control her.
@thesimoneshow2608
4 жыл бұрын
En Joy and men rotate women anyway, without them being crazy
@rachelaimer6284
4 жыл бұрын
Inez Yuon Yea! They definitely do that weird mess and not just to control but to see in general how you will respond if you care too because they don’t want to get too into they feelings with being too forward so instead they’ll do something stupid like that instead of just being a real man and expressing themselves.
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
Yup, to see how much they can get away with, definitely facts.
@Jazz.Ministry
4 жыл бұрын
🔑 Take aways: 1. Stop seeking approval, acceptance and closure from a man (closure be opening you up) 2. At no point should you pursue a man (never call a man more than twice) 3. If he gets distant or ghost you be willing to let go and let him move on with his life *Get your life coach certification before the price goes up ❗️
@dreamiedips8624
4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully put together📝... Thank you sis. God bless you. 🙌🏻❤️✝️
@Jazz.Ministry
4 жыл бұрын
Dreamie dips you’re welcome sis 😇 Be blessed 🙌🏾
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
❗❗❗
@hadafoxer9563
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks sis 😇...
@Jazz.Ministry
4 жыл бұрын
Hada Foxer you’re welcome sis ♥️
@ohmytashh
4 жыл бұрын
That nurturing spirit can be a blessing and a curse. Whew . Thank you for this!
@laguilera1118
4 жыл бұрын
Your son is so handsome. What a smile!
@isalovewe5929
4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry bout him acting wishy washy just let him play by hisself; he'll regret it if u live ur life (with purpose/on purpose).
@anitrajohnson7789
4 жыл бұрын
H8
@tonitaquetaparks3304
4 жыл бұрын
Why do people got to make stuff difficult? Every advice we are given is have to be approved by a man anyway if we want one. Might as well stay single if these boys dont know how to act.
@qarreeayantumekonnen1205
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
This is facts, you'll be too busy to notice
@tonitaquetaparks3304
4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 well if you are too busy then you shouldn't be dating in my opinion. There is no excuse for a man to not see a woman as vulnerable. It sounds like to me if a man likes a bit of a challenge he needs to work on himself and being single himself. If he cant commit to anybody. Men and women are both the same. Men just get away with more.
@kimrisnear3866
4 жыл бұрын
He immediately dropped everything for his son..knows what his priorities are. What a cute young man your son is! And lucky to have such a good father.
@janetdriskell9726
4 жыл бұрын
The 2020 Oscar goes to Tony Gaskins for the truthful and honest characterizations of Grown Boys. Thank you for the blessing.
@cheekscheeks5840
4 жыл бұрын
When you show me you don’t want to be bother I will do you a favor n put my track shoes on quick ..... Then he call and say GM call me after a month smdh mind games I’m good continue on with your life
@kristinaherrejon7181
4 жыл бұрын
Oh goodness. Tony has me in stitches. Where would we be without this man of God??
@MsMaxMonroe
4 жыл бұрын
Same, his acting is brilliant 😂
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah 👏🏾😌
@monicapetty5941
3 жыл бұрын
Amen so true. When God remove people from your life. Don’t keep going back.
@nurseroseonthego2464
4 жыл бұрын
"That's closure, he closed the door." 🤣🤣🤣
@girlwakeuppodcast4622
4 жыл бұрын
When Lil T.G said he couldn't work out because the Soccer Fields were wet due to Rain and he was going to workout up stairs. My Spirit felt Convicted I immediately put down my Popeyes and went on a Bike ride.
@PeaceBeStill-
4 жыл бұрын
Girl that Popeye's is the devil 😅
@tinal6594
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@kayjay3948
4 жыл бұрын
I had Popeyes yesterday. 🤣🍗
@girlwakeuppodcast4622
4 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- it sure is and that Red Beans & Rice is Lucifer in Rare Form
@wowso4
3 жыл бұрын
Put the food down and hit the gym 😂😂
@missangel412
4 жыл бұрын
Such a great dad and hubby! Face just lights up when his family is near ! 💛💛💛💛
@mymakersdaughter6041
4 жыл бұрын
Be willing to let him go. Boy, Bye!!! Tony, I love that you put your family first as they are your first ministry. Thank you for serving in your calling!
@ibcandy
4 жыл бұрын
“Dat is closure...he closed da’ dooh’” ☠️☠️☠️ I’m dead!!!
@aishawf
4 жыл бұрын
I love how Tony's priority toward his son set in when baby boy walked in the room... video done lol...Thank you Tony! 👍🏿🤗👍🏿
@cheekscheeks5840
4 жыл бұрын
He’s too handsome looks just like y’all ... hello handsome
@WCove99
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you! I will let a GROWN MAN chase me. Tayden is adorable!
@sharonjohns1686
4 жыл бұрын
The light on TGs face when his boy walks in is everything cant stop rewinding this part. This is a man that loves his family 😭😭😭 Blessings to you and family sir
@Jay-nn4cy
4 жыл бұрын
I wish you can heal pain and the need for revenge... I wish you had a magical wand that will make me completely forget about this person because my blood is boiling!!! Can you make a video about overcoming pain and removing that hunger of revenge! All the prayer in the world ain’t helping right now!
@Aileonz_Redeemed_
4 жыл бұрын
☹😢💔
@shanepruitt2715
4 жыл бұрын
The pain is real! Just keep him blocked and work on you. It will take some time and it will be hard. BUT, we are QUEENS...adjust your crown sis and move forward! Been there! It’s rough!
@lasheikatucker4598
4 жыл бұрын
We all been there ladies, wanting revenge. As you heal and start to not focus or think about him anymore you won't worry about revenge. He will get his Karma. You can't treat people bad and do them wrong and think that everything is going to go well. He will get his in due time. Some area of his life will get affected. Sleep easy at night Queen
@stephaniejohnson605
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony. Your advice is spot on as usual.
@briana14333
4 жыл бұрын
Write out what you want to do. Read it out loud to yourself as many times as you need or want. Then when you're ready, burn that piece of paper and those thoughts of revenge along with it. I don't know what's on your mind, but I've wanted to seek revenge before. What I was thinking would have had me locked up, and this man was definitely not worth my freedom, peace nor my reputation. Good luck❤︎
@StephaniesWorld7
4 жыл бұрын
Your son is so cute 🥰🥰 He looks just like you Tony. May God Bless you for the word.
@1godsgift237
4 жыл бұрын
Awww ... Your son is adorable May God continue to bless you and your family. Please continue to let God use you to bless us with these Jewels 💎 of wisdom and knowledge. Thank you 🙏🏾
@TINAVTATUM
4 жыл бұрын
Tony, we thank GOD for your messages. Thank you for being a devoted husband and man of GOD. Thank you for ending the video when your son came in. He will always remember that you made him a priority. That's why he came in when you were filming because he knows his father loves him. He will easily submit to and seek the LORD because he knows your love. Thank you for allowing us to see your wife and experiencing her wisdom as well. You are changing and impacting so many people's lives. This is not flattery, it's simply real gratitude from a women who has learned so much from listening to your messages. Thank you.
@keeidoeee
4 жыл бұрын
I love how brutally honest you are. It’s so painful to hear the truth but I’d rather rip this band aid off now and endure the sting than to be still going through the same cycle 10 years from now. Thank you so much Tony! Your videos and books are so helpful. May God continue to bless you and your family
@cherishn6008
4 жыл бұрын
This was me in my previous relationship and trust me when I say I ain't never gonna do that again! I didn't know I was seeking his approval and that almost broke me. I knew I had to leave.
@noirfit9721
4 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhhh wow I didn’t know this was a game men play. I’ve had this one guy I’ve been crazy about and he’s done that to me SEVERAL times. I know the game now. Thanks Tony! *activate beast mode*
@Rachel-rt6yd
4 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in these videos! Thank you for being honest and keeping it real.
@bridgetteryans4874
4 жыл бұрын
Let him go Ghost....
@sharlitawilson6503
4 жыл бұрын
Tony, you have really blessed me with these messages. I am thankful that you love God and walked in your purpose. Beautiful family!!!! God bless you ☺️
@dn-cp6sh
4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful little boy.
@cheekscheeks5840
4 жыл бұрын
Whatever time you give us is acceptable in so many ways . The new knowledge your giving us is beyond satisfaction in my book
@MusicLover2Eternity
4 жыл бұрын
Everything Tony said was pure gold✨✨✨ noted📝
@joi5787
4 жыл бұрын
“This the deacon.... now you got him stomping in his Air Force Ones 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@tiarose5310
3 жыл бұрын
"Over the course of a YEAR, he dun had 8 brothers die." "Cuz Everytime he gets distant, you killin off another one of his brothers." L.M.A.O😂😂😭😭😂😂😂😂😂!!!
@seraphinasb988
4 жыл бұрын
I used to do this. I normalized the behavior because my Dad was and is still like this. Once I started healing from that I didn't need to seek the attention else where I find it in myself and in other types of healthy and balanced relationships.
@brittneyberry4934
4 жыл бұрын
Now that's just insane. He's identical to his daddy. Twins
@FeelingFitFabFun
4 жыл бұрын
He looks exactly like a mini Tony!
@margyiphillips4931
4 жыл бұрын
@@habbaticchio2468 yeah he does
@NAJErEa91
4 жыл бұрын
"CLOSURE BE OPENING YA BACK UP" DONT IT! THOUGH?!?! UGGGGH LAWD I THANK U! THANK U FOR REMOVING HIM OUT OF MY LIFE!
@NAJErEa91
4 жыл бұрын
2-2 1/2 TIMES BEFORE I LEAVE HIM ALONE
@NAJErEa91
4 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOSH THAT IS UR SON ALLLL DAY LOOONG!!!! SAME SMILE AND FACE AND OH MY GOSH SO SWEET! AND I LOVE HOW U HUNG UP ON US TO TEND TO. WHAT REALLY MATTERS; UR FAMILY! THANKS MR GASKINS! GOD BLESS U GOOD SIR!
@daniellem578
4 жыл бұрын
Your son is too cute Tony! He looks just like you.
@Rosa-qg3xp
4 жыл бұрын
If a man gets distant...let him! 💅🏽 Continue resting in your femininity by allowing a “new” man to pursue you. 💕
@eyesaidit5195
4 жыл бұрын
He said the whole soccer field is raining!!🤣😂😂
@shaylanewlife
3 жыл бұрын
Wait on God’s timing ⏱ no rushing I am waiting patiently 💙🙏🏾😊
@nisa3695
4 жыл бұрын
This hurts so bad 💔
@RubyRoxxie
4 жыл бұрын
Ok your son is PRECIOUS!!!!!! I think he looks like you AND your Queen! His little voice melted my heart.. 😭 God bless your family so so much!!!! ♥️
@celiagoodwin3145
4 жыл бұрын
He is adorable looks just like his mom!
@DayaTom
4 жыл бұрын
Once you know, you GO!
@deladelalii
4 жыл бұрын
“ I majored in mental health” 😂😂😂
@zebk8555
3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
4 жыл бұрын
Go on ‘ bout your business 👍🏾. Beautiful children ♥️
@SixFootofFitness
4 жыл бұрын
Omg ...how your face lit up when you son came in to the room !! Priceless❤️ Thank u for work Tony!! A lot of people need to hear it.
@chowbay-la4248
4 жыл бұрын
Looking just like his daddy. Love the beautiful family!
@TrustJesusfolks
4 жыл бұрын
Your son is so adorable💜 thanks for all you do TONY!!
@macc1178
4 жыл бұрын
Tony I can't with you!!! my fall back game 💯 Besides, there's other men that "are" pursuing, that could be entertain!💯
@Godbody321
3 жыл бұрын
😭😭 the way he looked at his son . Real love. I’m not a mother yet. I can’t wait to look at my baby that way. I gotta be married first. Thank you tony we appreciate you. Our community is in need of cleansing. Only love can do that.
@sha2408
4 жыл бұрын
I laugh so hard with these videos! 😂😂😂I’ll admit I’ve been guilty of some of these examples and I’m embarrassed! Thank the Lord for Tony Gaskins telling us the ugly truth so we can learn from our mistakes!
@karlathornton7348
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 He kills me with these voice impressions 🤣🤣🤣
@danielle9342
4 жыл бұрын
Not stumping in ya Airforce-Ones 😭😭 Your videos are everything 😂🙌🏾 God Bless!
@Fasting_Decluttering_Elevating
4 жыл бұрын
He's serious about getting in that work out, how cute! This is why what we do as parents matter- our kids are watching. A lot of women too busy raising their grown boys to properly raise their children.
@myfingoodies
4 жыл бұрын
Lord thank you for this wisdom. God bless you man of God
@vanessawilliamstnt
4 жыл бұрын
Awe......your son is so cute, I love the relationship you have created with your children and wife, such a godly example,. May God continue to use you to speak wisdom and love to his body!!!!
@missme4862
4 жыл бұрын
I am glad I am learning from my past mistakes and I am heading to becoming the classy woman I was destined to be 💤💤💤
@judithstevens4323
4 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for this message Tony....I STARTED making some of these mistakes for the 1st time.....now I GET it.....when YOU fall hard for someone it ISN'T easy to just let go.....but soon my pride kicked in or ME.....lol ! And I am letting GO!! Wish you would have did these videos last MONTH. But it IS NEVER to LATE to wake up & right a wrong!!!
@katherinev.8415
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, May God continue to bless you and your family🙌🏾
@amarie1852
4 жыл бұрын
Listen I came here for Tayden. He’s the quality content I need 🥺 that little sweet voice my god my ovaries conspiring on me rn 😫😍💕
@shereewhite4828
4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss.... Lord reveal & remove if he's not the one for me!!! Awwwh Tony the smile on your face when you kissed your son! He's too adorable. God bless you & your beautiful family.😊
@lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207
3 жыл бұрын
No chasing, thank you! Be blessed!!
@kemiLuv
4 жыл бұрын
Tony please do part 4,5,6,7 8,9 i can't do without hearing ur such a blessing 😊 am in the kitchen cooking and u just fulling me up with wisdom 👍🏾👍🏾 thank you.
@bariannmartin8728
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony, I use to be one of those girls that chase a man when i was younger and didn't kbow no better. Keep teaching the words of wisdom.
@angelamendiola9641
4 жыл бұрын
Queens do not settle for breadcrumbs. Thanks for sharing this video Tony.
@katythebeauty330
6 ай бұрын
Tony I’m typing this now while I’m talking to a guy that is distant. He messages me everyday but I feel like he doesn’t text me a lot. I also feel like he isn’t making a lot of effort to get to know me more. I wanted to text and ask him what’s wrong but thank you for this!! I will not make a fool out of myself 👏🏾
@christineporter9914
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your time and much needed wisdom today to never go look for closure from a man that got ghost. Let him go. and Thank God he left. Bro Tony you're truly blessed and highly favored. Truly I appreciate your teaching.
@erynd.9911
4 жыл бұрын
Tony thank you for you honesty! I have never heard the real , raw , honest truth like this and I appreciate it! Thank you !
@MommaChaela
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing beloved 💪🏾
@latariabrown
3 жыл бұрын
“That is closure he close the door” 😭😭😭
@ginapowell2461
3 жыл бұрын
Whew I just acted a fool just like this...I never do that, but this one was real good...
@THRASHKK
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, your videos and books are a must for us out here that didn't get the game growing up. I would love to hear a more in depth video on loving like we've never been hurt if your schedule allows. Thank you and God bless you.
@kimmie5626
4 жыл бұрын
My sheep hear my voice! Pure truth!
@marymesk577
4 жыл бұрын
I WIISH AND PRAY YOUR LITTLE ONES ARE EVERYTHING YOU HAVE HOPED FOR THEM TO BE I ALSO WANT TO THANK YOU AND MRS GASKIN FOR LETTING US HAVE YOUR SOME OF YOUR TIME TO BETTER INFORM US AND PROTECT US FROM SORROW AND HEARTACHE GOD BLESS WISHING YOU PEACE AND HAPPINESS IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE AMEN.
@Boos_Boswell
3 жыл бұрын
Praise God🙌🏾 Thank you Tony for laughter. I needed it tonight and you came through like a champ. Blessings to you and the family. Amen 🙏🏾
@doriscrumpton7887
4 жыл бұрын
We all can learn something from real animals behaviors. I once watched this one female cat in the neighborhood get chased by several male cats coming from all directions of the neighborhood to pursue this one female cat. The biggest, brightness and smartest of the pack won the prize. So ladies we are to be pursued and chased by the males because we are the prize of their real life affections for us. Don't chase be chased in that order 🙋♀️
@mschat8776
4 жыл бұрын
Father & son✊🏽😇the biggest smile 😃 I seen for a long time ... what a blessing. Beautiful family Mr Tony
@lasheikatucker4598
4 жыл бұрын
Lord I think we all have been a duck. Thank God I'm not desperate anymore.
@Raquel-de8ni
4 жыл бұрын
That is so precious. What a nice way to end the video with your son!!
@robinlateef7015
2 жыл бұрын
Tony just wanted to say thank you! Your ministry on KZitem is God's work indeed!. I am 52 ...and Fabulous..lol and a lot of your message serves as a reminder for me. I am newly single after 8 yrs with a covert narcissist. I am an LMFT and still need to hear these sessions. Keep up the Lord's work! Blessings
@mssimone7147
4 жыл бұрын
Tayden is so adorable...
@BigB-qo5vr
4 жыл бұрын
Even tho i wasnt thirsty for relationship i just appreciated to have good man and good friend so if im living good life i gave to him as well but thats wrong, people dont understand the same way u understand maybe he thinks i shared my blessings with him because he thinks im desperate lol life and love in general is ceazy
@JermaineThomas4050
4 жыл бұрын
4 great videos today, so far 🙌🏽. Enjoy that September plan 🙏🏽. Much needed in the space of dating, courtship, and relationships. A how to and a making sense of it all theme. Shout out to the Gaskins family on that health and fitness 🥗💪🏾.
@nolalmills7762
3 жыл бұрын
Tony just seeing your family lets me know your so blessed & that's how your able to bless us ❤️ thank you!
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