Here's one: When your wife feels that her money is her money alone, but her husband's money is their money.
@donmclemore1396
5 ай бұрын
Been dealing with that for 20yrs.
@teresakozell6203
5 ай бұрын
My husband was the one thinking my money was ours and his was his, even though he makes twice what I made.
@randybobandy9828
5 ай бұрын
@@teresakozell6203 so you have the one in a million relationship where it's the reverse.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
@@teresakozell6203 o.O was it a 50/50 investment on both sides or was yours used as 'all the bills plus food' and his was 'toys toy toys'? Only asking because if it was 50/50 then it could be considered justified.. but if it was 'toys toys toys' then it better have been 'toys for both of us' and not just 'more toys for me'
@tharsthat
5 ай бұрын
The "I think we have to cut down on your hobbies." I did then I took up drinking for a while. Got good at it too. She left. Hobbies are back on.
@andysheepleton
5 ай бұрын
A woman can continually talk about things a guy did 2 years ago and just flog him with those things over and over again, but if a man brings up something a woman did 2 months ago he is supposed to have gotten over it.
@boatman909
5 ай бұрын
When its something you said or did 20+ years prior, or even more, its gets quite soul destroying, especially if there have been periods when her behaviour was much less than stellar, but which you can’t really talk about. Having said that i still really love my wife, and now that she has recently passed (after almost 50 tears together) I find i am still trying to process those things she said or did about my behaviour, and if there was anything i could have said or done to make things OK with her 😢.
@MartinMMeiss-mj6li
5 ай бұрын
@@boatman909 Wow! I feel for you, guy, both for your loss and for having that extra burden. I hope you find a way through it pretty soon.
@GenXfrom75
5 ай бұрын
Yes… I like to reference, loosely, a quote by Marlene Dietrich… you can’t forgive a man and then reheat his sins for breakfast. Forgive or not. But you can’t use past mistakes as ammo.
@michaelanderson9914
5 ай бұрын
Yup, i warned the wife early on that if she brings up the past then i will assume she wants to fight about it. She doesnt do that anymore.
@andyjohnson5484
5 ай бұрын
Story of my life. Every argument went back through the expanding list of everything I've ever done wrong. Most of it she couldn't even remember any details to solve the problem but she knew it made her feel bad so it was still my fault. All too common.
@kingrubbatiti1285
5 ай бұрын
I'm a Chef. In one of my old jobs my Manager (Female) used to say things like "Is your's that big?" when I was cutting cucumbers. Or "Does your's come out like that?" when piping whipped cream. Reported Her to upper management and She just got a telling off. Now...imagine if the roles were reversed............
@Martyisruling
5 ай бұрын
That ain't cool. (what YOU did). Snitching like that, you should have just told her YOURSELF. That's what men do. It's not your fault, there's a whole generation of you lads who were never taught how to be men.
@Breezie1213
5 ай бұрын
Bro, I am so sorry. That's not okay.
@kwitwerikok8o863
5 ай бұрын
Sorry, but unless I was gay that would make me unconfortable. But, not being gay I probably feel that it's really nice that' someone is interested in me. It's always nice to know that someone thinks you're attractive. There is a double standard and it's not all wrong. Women are generally more cautious because if they get pregnant it's not the guy that has to go through that. I believe that certain behaviors like this are imprinted through evolutionary history. I'll put it in a more universal way. People are strange animals. Be kind to your fellow animal.
@naturalpro2003
5 ай бұрын
@kwitwerikok8o863 Did you miss the part that stated that was HIS BOSS? In the workplace, a male supervisor would get fired and possibly arrested for harassment for that type of behavior in the workplace.
@kwitwerikok8o863
5 ай бұрын
@naturalpro2003 yes I did miss that. The work place is no place to concentrate on most anything thing but the task at hand. Good luck in your work place. If anyone is told to knock it off, well its on them and not acceptable.
@thethesaxman23
5 ай бұрын
The double standard that bothers me the most is that men are automatically assumed to be predators until they prove otherwise, while women are automatically assumed to be sweet and innocent until they prove otherwise.
@cmarkn
5 ай бұрын
And either way, no proof is good enough to change the original assumption in many minds. Look at all the folks still calling Johnny Depp a “wife beater” and his ex-wife a “victim” despite the proof that she beat him.
@sneezyfido
5 ай бұрын
Even when the woman openly behaves predatorial, people will bend over backward to not acknowledge it.
@Draugo
5 ай бұрын
"The double standard that bothers me the most is that men are automatically assumed to be predators, while women are automatically assumed to be sweet and innocent." Fixed that for you. There's no proving in today's society. Men can't "escape" being assumed predators.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
That seems to be changing a little for the better now that they have started to expose female predator teachers... and thanks to Johnny Depp's unfortunate experience.
@Zeus-dw1cx
5 ай бұрын
And it's exactly the opposite.
@VideoArchiveGuy
5 ай бұрын
How about the fact that women SAY they want a sensitive, emotionally open man, but if a man EVER expresses self-doubt, she loses sexual interest in him immediately and the relationship is done.
@Worthless-one
5 ай бұрын
And forget about showing anger or frustration, because then she'll be "scared you'll lose it at her one day, when the other shoe drops"
@coinsaver
5 ай бұрын
"Tootsie"
@PatrickF.Fitzsimmons
5 ай бұрын
That's always been a lie, they want to look like they do to the world, but 99% don't, and that 1% that does is most likely already married.
@anthonysutherland4108
5 ай бұрын
Any vulnerability shown is stored and used in a future argument. Sensitive information is 'money in the bank' to women.🇦🇺
@samgreaves8038
5 ай бұрын
@@anthonysutherland4108 never a truer word was spoken! THE only reason they say they want you to be emotional is for this. Sadly the best relationships ive had were the ones I showed no emotion at all!
@bcarr424
5 ай бұрын
Number 4 I think in particular is why so many relationships don't survive. Men are expected to compromise constantly, but a woman is actually lauded for refusing to do so.
@robertjohnson-benYochanan
5 ай бұрын
Agreed. The better terms to seek are conforming and flexibility; compromise is mostly where a standard has been removed, bulldozed, what have you. Make no mistake, they can be healthy but usually a compromise is not good.
@thebri2000
5 ай бұрын
AMEN
@leftbrain965
12 күн бұрын
There is actually an old joke that goes - My wife and I disagree about a lot of things, but marriage is about compromise, so when there is disagreement we just do what she wants.
@SiriusMined
5 ай бұрын
Married over 20 years. I've gotten VERY tired of the "man must change, woman doesn't have to" double standard.
@matthewpaul6904
5 ай бұрын
Then she has the nerve to say, "You've changed!"
@davidsisson2026
5 ай бұрын
My first wife always demanding I change. I told her maybe it's not me.
@r.maelstrom4810
5 ай бұрын
Yup, they were and still are "the fairer sex".
@manipicao
5 ай бұрын
@@r.maelstrom4810 They don't realize that that's not always the case. There are some real Yak women out there.
@froniccruxis1049
5 ай бұрын
I will say that men and women BOTH should try to change but always for the better even if that better means something different than the expectations of their wife/husband
@saarcful
5 ай бұрын
Young boys are ignored. Young girls are glorified.
@01worldguy01
4 ай бұрын
..well it is THE perspective from guys to "glorify" young female as for the young beautiful skin and beauty .... on the other hand older ladies HAS TO keep their relationship going because IF they know better they may end up alone later on ...and that is only quick response to your post
@michajastrzebski4383
3 ай бұрын
@@01worldguy01 its the perspective that mothers groom men into having, to their sons deteriment.
@slicerneons3300
5 ай бұрын
This one just happened to me: When a girl says she is lonely and single, she gets a bunch of sympathy and men are told to grow a spine and ask her out. When a man says he is lonely and single, He gets told to stop being lazy and try harder. To put himself 'out there' and join online dating apps. It sucks.
@ErikratKhandnalie
5 ай бұрын
This is my pet peeve. Women never get told they need to work on themselves and struggle to be worthy of love.
@Grigeral
5 ай бұрын
I mean, that 'is' true though. If you're not going out and meeting people in some way, you're not going to find anyone, that's for both genders. The woman getting that advice? She's not going to improve anything if she follows it, it's just shallow and useless 'advice' that helps no-one lol.
@serdorv4628
5 ай бұрын
@@Grigeralno, that doesn't work for both genders.
@Grigeral
5 ай бұрын
@@serdorv4628 really? So a woman who just sits at home and expects a man to appear is going to meet someone without any effort? Yes, it does work for both genders. Women need to put less effort in, sure... But they still need to put effort in.
@serdorv4628
5 ай бұрын
@@Grigeralis it very difficult to go to pub, club, public parks? Register on tinder? Unfortunately for man, women live in another totally different world, much easy world and safe.
@In0centz
5 ай бұрын
It's ok for women to not be intimate and withhold sex, if a man does it he's cheating
@macdieter23558
5 ай бұрын
My wife made me a mincel (married involuntary celibate) for 15 years now!
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
That is not cheating. That is just witholding sex.
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
@@macdieter23558so why do you keep her?
@asolaris6470
5 ай бұрын
What we call her acts is domestic terr0rism.
@lawrencewalston2272
5 ай бұрын
Have you tried couples counseling? Perhaps even seeing a sex therapist?
@darktenor4967
5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for recognizing point 5. I experienced sexual abuse as a teenager at school, in public by a group of girls over several years, doing things which would've got criminal charges pressed and the school shut down if genders were reversed. when staying with my wife's family, my lady's sister was really slap happy. She took to whacking my behind quite hard when I wasn't looking. I asked her not to do this politely, she simply saw it as playful. One day, I literally snarled at her telling her to stop and probably looked quite scary (I'm not a small chap and I do lift weights). She! then complained to my lady that I'd been mean to her and had "over-reacted." Fortunately, my lady knows my history, and without going into details, gave her sister quite the telling off! Indeed, as an addendum to point five, in my experience, women will only respect men's boundaries when told to do so by other women! My lady also once told off an angry feminist who said quite openly that whatever happened to men didn't matter! Btw, did I happen to mention how lucky I am to be married to such a wonderful lady!
@79800955
5 ай бұрын
After reading the second last paragraph, your wife is a real one
@lawrencewalston2272
5 ай бұрын
Based on what you shared, she sounds like the genuine article of your best friend/soul mate.
@davegreenlaw5654
5 ай бұрын
Your high school experience reminded me of something that floored me when I started attending my local fan-run science-fiction convention. There is a group in SF fandom called KAG, short for Klingon Assault Group (think the 501st, but for fans of the Star Trek aliens) that had a well-known presence at these events. One of these members was a heavyset woman in a scooter, who dressed as a Ferengi - not all members HAD to be Klingons - who would go up to fellow friends, reach into their pants, give them a wedgie, and shout "Underwear check!" First time I heard of that from her, I was flabbergasted, thinking that if I had tried that with a female friend at this event, calling out "Pantie check!", I would have been arrested. Then again, this was an event where, for years, there would be women chastising us guys for even daring to look at the cute cosplayers...and then go to the dealer's room looking for the latest local volunteer firefighter beefcake calendar for charity.
@darktenor4967
5 ай бұрын
@@davegreenlaw5654 I can well believe it. There's actually a lot of this sort of thing around because women get a carte blanche when it comes to men whether it's physical violence or sexual misconduct, and men are just supposed to take it, I was literally shamed into standing still and taking what went on, and any attempt to push someone off or defend myself was met with accusations that I was a pervert (I ended up with severe genophobia for most of my life from this). Men either don't talk about it, or are encouraged to fetishize it and consider themselves lucky. Heck, I assumed what happened to me was entirely normal and something most boys went through. That's why I mention my experience here, not to plead for sympathy; although the sympathy is appreciated, but to say, yes this does happen! and No, it is not okay! Far from accusing men of sexual assault just because they look at a woman wrong, we need real! equality, which means recognizing that some women, can be just as scummy as some men, and are far more likely to get away with it due to the social or even biological protection from consequences women receive.
@darktenor4967
5 ай бұрын
@@lawrencewalston2272 Absolutely she is! It would honestly sound like a really bad romance if it didn't happen. Moderately buff, English tenor with severe baggage meets tiny, divorced American Soprano in trans-atlantic romance! there was even an honest to goodness love triangle! At this point, given the current climate, and the fact I don't exactly do well with misandry, I don't know what I'd do without her.
@tylermacdermott5467
5 ай бұрын
My ex wife wanted me to give up video games entirely. I said, "that's a pretty big ask, but I'll do it if you give up smoking". She said I was trying to be controlling and refused. I already knew we were heading for divorce at this point. The double standard though.
@7s29
5 ай бұрын
This happened to a friend. His wife deceased now, wife wanted him to give up his bike. He agreed as long as she gave up smoking. She stopped asking to give up his bike from that point.
@robertheinrich2994
5 ай бұрын
and people wonder why life expectancy of men is lower than of women. what you describe is a lot of stress.
@mizofan
5 ай бұрын
Lots of reasons over lower male life expectancy, including female privilege and advantages- dangerous jobs/ occupational fatalities, wars, worse health care, less on prevention of male cancers etc, incarceration, homelessness, destitution, suicide due to oppression of men, e.g through divorce...
@TheBlackToedOne
5 ай бұрын
There is an old joke that goes, why do husbands usually die before their wives? Because they want to.
@robertheinrich2994
5 ай бұрын
@@TheBlackToedOne that's dark. I like it.
@DNA350ppm
5 ай бұрын
Then it is better that women leave men in pece - decenter them and mind their own business, as statistics show, marriage is better for men than women. And to be single makes women happier than being married. Just let a man take care of his own life expectancy and stress. And a woman take care of hers.
@Mannwhich
5 ай бұрын
@@robertheinrich2994 Haha! Single men live longer, but married men are more willing to die. It's so true!
@lewisduffy675
5 ай бұрын
I've got another for ya Emily! When I was married, after our two kids were born, you wouldn't believe the number of women who had the audacity to tell me to my face it was somehow _my duty_ to get a vasectomy! Can you imagine a guy telling a woman what to do with her body like that!!! Insane.
@mikejanssen6344
5 ай бұрын
That’s why many of us say things like, women have Rights, men have Responsibilities.
@achillies40
5 ай бұрын
I got told by an ex that I was perfect just the way I was, but there were things I needed to change. Riiiiight.
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
That's normal flirting though. People don't mean those things literally.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
@@cbernier3 How the actual hell would that be flirting? That was literally a double standard in one contradictory sentence.
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
@@uoabigaillevey exaggerated compliments is flirting. I don't want you to change. I love you the way you are. I'm the luckiest person in the world. You're the most beautiful woman in the world. You're the only person for me. People say these things all the time. They don't actually mean them. That is not a double standard. You don't know what a double standard is. A double standard would be you have to change, but they don't. If you both tell each other that you are perfect the way you are, and you both suggest reasonable changes that mutually benefit you, and you both change, that is not a double standard. As long as you are both changing, it's not a double standard. It's normal to request changes from your partners. It's also normal to call them perfect. That's healthy. You aren't supposed to take it so literally. Lying and exaggeration are part of flirting. Your wife's as does look fat in those jeans, but you tell her it doesn't. Your wife is a 5, but you tell her she is a 10. Your ex may have done something bad, but you didn't communicate that. This is not an example of something bad by itself. That isn't a example of a double standard regardless. A double standard needs two people, with different rules for those two people. You only mentioned yourself. That's one person. If you take that statement literally then it's a contradiction. But a contradiction isn't the same thing as a double standard. To be a double standard she would have to refuse to change. Did she refuse to change? Because you didn't mention that part. That's important information to include.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
@@cbernier3 It is still a contradictory statement. "This is perfect" but "this needs to be changed" means "this is not perfect" Perfect means that nothing needs to change.. anything that changes would make it not perfect anymore. Still not a flirt in my opinion. It would have been a flirt, potentially, if the second part of the statement were not included. The second part of the statement negates the first part and exposes it as a lie... and I would take it as condescending at best. Inclusion of the word 'almost' as a predecessor to 'perfect' would make the statement valid otherwise.
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
@@uoabigaillevey it's only contradictory if you take it too literally. You're still doing it. You're being too literal and too pedantic. You're being like that average redditor jerk. Your autism is really showing. And she probably did not say those things at the same time. You put them in the same sentence, she didn't. Being technically correct often comes across as less romantic, less sexy. Off putting. If you wanted a partner that prefers everything to be logical and technically correct, then you should have looked for that in the first place. It sounds like you are autistic and your ex isn't. That rarely works. Date another autistic woman. Or whatever your preferred gender is. I want a nonbinary person most, but let's see what happens. Saying someone is perfect is normal flirting. If you don't like that, fine, tell your partners not to do that. But that's what they meant. You don't get to tell them what they mean anymore then they get to tell you what you mean. That's the real double standard. To most people, telling someone they are perfect is just one of those things you do when you love someone. It doesn't have to make sense. You're picking a really weird to complain about. I'm sure your ex did worse. Focus on that. You can't win this. You're the only one who has a problem with this. The rest of us are concerned with serious issues. Lack of love, reciprocation, support. Abuse. Fairness. Communication. Having a healthy relationship that is worth it. The rest of us don't care about pedantics that much. I will argue pedantics sometimes but that's a bad habit that I need to stop. Most people don't like it. So it's only good when both people are in the mood for such a thing.
@geography_guy335
5 ай бұрын
With point five my wife has absolutely tried to shame me the 3 times I haven't "been in the mood" yet she has no problems turning down ever. Then when I get frustrated she says "I'm not a piece of meat"
@cbernier3
5 ай бұрын
You need to stand your ground. Turn her down more often. Use that phrase against her. I'd prefer to just be able to talk things out but some people need to taste their own medicine before that can happen. Women need men for sex much more than men need women.
@murraylindsay6880
5 ай бұрын
Turn around and tell her you’re not a piece of meat.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
Just tell her she has to earn it. See how that goes heheh
@jjlouie6418
3 ай бұрын
@@uoabigaillevey😂 ya id do that I be like fine be that way if you only want to do it when you want to so do I if you try to get something from someone else bye don't let the door hit you on the way out don't come crawling back bye Felicia 👋
@virtual-viking
5 ай бұрын
Double standards did not inherently become a problem until Feminism refused to acknowledge that men and women are different.
@tyr4455
5 ай бұрын
Can't say you're about equality except keep the double standards that favour you.
@ThanatoselNyx
5 ай бұрын
"Feminism" never did that.
@virtual-viking
5 ай бұрын
@@ThanatoselNyx Feminist axioms: 1) A woman can do anything a man can do. 2) Feminism is not sexist towards men. 3) Women making less money than men on average proves discrimination. It follows from axioms 1) and 2) that: Men and women can do all the same things equally. And it follows from axiom 3) that any earnings discrepancy cannot be due to voluntary choices. So if men and women can do everything equally, and absent discrimination make the same choices, men and women must indeed be functionally the same (according to Feminism).
@clydemarshall8095
5 ай бұрын
@@virtual-vikingeloquently put.
@robertstone9988
5 ай бұрын
Bingo we used to be ok with following our gender roles. But wemon fucked all that up now. men still have to act like men and craw up on the cross for wemon and children. As a man you expected to sacrifice for wemon and children and we were fine with that. We stood thare on the titanic and watched half full row boats row off and were happy to die for wemon and children but wemon don't Wana hold up there end of the deal now they want there cake and eat it to. They hate men who try to have there cake and eat it to.
@leenorway9684
5 ай бұрын
The absolute most disturbing double standard is done by government and the judiciary/law including police.
@savory_jello
5 ай бұрын
One double standard that drives me insane is when a woman is SAd in a movie, it's a horror or thriller or drama. When a man is, it's always a comedy.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
Thank sitcoms for this. Most men (not all tho) are portrayed as either fools or incompetent. Most of the time the women are portrayed as the intelligent/logical one. I will say that this is not always the case.. but look at any sitcom that has been running for a long time.. and look at the ones that only lasted a season or two. The 'funnier' ones tend to have men be the victims of their own actions.. with the woman coming in to save the day. Now.. translate that to real life and do a comparison to reality... it is almost always (tho not always) the exact opposite.
@OpheliathePotato
5 ай бұрын
I agree, that's such a disgusting double standard. SA is SA period. It's never funny, regardless of gender.
@bradschwamberger1217
5 ай бұрын
Money she earns is hers, but his money is theirs.
@jcc9925
5 ай бұрын
150%!!!!!!
@daryengreye6573
5 ай бұрын
Actually it's more a case of her money is her money and his money is her money..
@jjlouie6418
3 ай бұрын
@@daryengreye6573ikr? like um nope🤣
@TheBlackToedOne
5 ай бұрын
#3. I have a female friend I've had since college. My ex got jealous of her and told me I couldn't talk to her anymore. I told her I had my friend long before my ex came along and if she kept it up I would still have my friend long after my ex was gone. My friend and I are still solid 30 yrs later. 😊
@glenbateman5960
5 ай бұрын
Some years ago, I had a female boss. I had been doing a great job, even going above and beyond my job description in many ways. One day, as my shift was about to start, I asked her for a raise. She looked me up and down, smirked at me and said, "I'll give you a raise, but not on your paycheck." I turned around, took my timecard out of the slot, dropped it on her desk in front of her, told her to figure it out and mail me the check, and went home. The next day, I got a job across the street.
@nightmarishhappenings
5 ай бұрын
Let's be honest, women make all the choices. Who they date, what to do on the date, sometimes what guys wear. Women have all the power and they know it, that's why a lot of guys stopped trying to date.
@mizofan
5 ай бұрын
and because they are deluded, entitled, narcissistic, arrogant, greedy, exploitative...
@davidkuhn3695
5 ай бұрын
Total rubbish
@Proposal12
5 ай бұрын
That sounds more like being a push over, have some back bone, tell her what you want and if she´s not good with it then next her.
@Mannwhich
5 ай бұрын
@@davidkuhn3695 Yes, cuz women are inherently raised to be selfish!
@Isekai_Fan
5 ай бұрын
A man chooses who he will marry, though. It's up to us men to make the right choice on our partner. If they change for the worse during the marriage, that's what divorce is for.
@Themarriedbachelor
5 ай бұрын
Just this morning my x said to me. And I’m going to quote. “I’m sorry for ever having a shredded doubt about your depression years ago but until you actually go through it, nobody really gets it that it’s a real thing so from the bottom of my heart I apologize. “ I left her 5 years ago because she didn’t love me or respect me because I have major depression. But now she is older and the men aren’t interested in her other than a fling. She is lonely and depressed because she is alone. I’m actually doing better myself. I’m alone as well but I’m ok with being alone. It’s peaceful.
@nobodyinterestingyou
5 ай бұрын
It really Is. Life got a lot harder these last years ,and having at least, a place where you know It's pretty much drama free helps a lot. Sad that we had to get to this point, though.
@seanchareau6195
5 ай бұрын
One of my ex's decided to try going through my closet, picking out what she did not like. I stopped her by telling her she was welcome to do that, but we were going to her house next, and it was my turn. Anything I did not like was going to get tossed, no argument.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
Perfect response.
@Ensue85A
5 ай бұрын
My butt has been slapped, pinched, cupped......lots of stuff during my 56 years. I have NEVER touched a woman inappropriately EVER. Zero reports.
@tetedur377
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for coming out to your friends here on Emily's page. That was very brave of you. - - - - - - - You know I'm just jacking with you, right? Although outside of sports, I've never had anyone get familiar with my butt. Outside a couple of towel snaps. Oh, maybe you're an exotic male dancer! Yeah, I discovered in the '70s, in my late teens and twenties, that women are every bit as bad as men, and sometimes worse when it comes to being inappropriate. All they need is their posse and some drinks at a male revue, and no man is safe.
@whatdoiputhere1694
5 ай бұрын
When backpacking through Europe and Asia, in the early 00's it was not uncommon for them to walk up give a quick hello and grab me between the legs. Most looking for paid services of course, - but not always.
@lewisduffy675
5 ай бұрын
Same here. Work colleagues, friends of my wife even, but I never said anything because alcohol was usually involved and I didn't want to embarrass or humiliate anyone. Super annoying though. And yeah I have also NEVER touched or spoken to a woman sexually inappropriately. I'm divorced now and I pretty much steer clear of women in general. The cost/benefit analysis just doesn't add up for me.
@tommack9395
5 ай бұрын
I'm sixty-one, I know exactly what you mean...
@danielsneed3235
5 ай бұрын
At this point I'm completely done with relationships. Better off being alone
@SuperLaney81
5 ай бұрын
Ive been burned for last time. Girl treated me like crap and dropped me like a stone - like I was nothing.
@daryengreye6573
5 ай бұрын
Yep. She used my credit rating to get stuff and then dumped me. Now collections agencies are after me.
@buckjones4901
5 ай бұрын
If you have to work with women, you still may have to deal with it, just at least you can go home from it.
@mikecrabtree8200
5 ай бұрын
And all of this is why men have signed out.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
That and the legal/financial risks they pose to men.
@applejuice5272
5 ай бұрын
TW: SA / R Number 5 - yep. My ex-GF raped me (my virginity too) & sexually assaulted me and she didn't think anything of it. I had said "no" to her previous sexual advances due to nerves, anxiety and it being my first time & I wasn't ready at that time. Her response was to scream, shout and swear at me, because she didn't get what she wanted. I've just started to open up about it recently and I'm a mess.
@spamhere1123
5 ай бұрын
Sorry, man. Whatever anyone else says, or how anyone else reacts, know this: she is a criminal. She may never be punished for it in this life, but she is a rapist. At least you and I know that.
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
If she did not respect your boundaries and actually screamed at you for trying to enforce those boundaries you should have gotten her out of your life. Not victim shaming.. just pointing out what you probably already know.. but this id more for telling others what they should do if they encounter a similar situation. She would have been controlling and abusive if you had stayed with her. Glad you got out.
@davidlosse9416
5 ай бұрын
I had an ex cheat on me because I wouldn't have sex with her.
@dderbo
5 ай бұрын
When I was first married I came home my wife was angry about something I had allegedly done. Typical husband I asked “what’s wrong” and her response was “you know “. I don’t like playing games never have.. I told her I wasn’t going to play 20 question either tell me what I did to upset her or get over it! She understood right then that communication was important in our relationship and it worked. Needless to say she is not shy about pointing out my failings but is quick to thank or praise me. I’ve generally felt I was appreciated in the almost 50 years we’ve been married. I got a special lady in my life and love her endlessly.
@WorldbreakerHulk1390
5 ай бұрын
When it comes to sexual assault by women, I protect my male friends by saying "Could you please stop touching my boyfriend?"
@V4LOROUS_Official
5 ай бұрын
Another sad truth about double standards is that we’re expected to live like they don’t exist. A blissful life lol
@sneezyfido
5 ай бұрын
Gotta love feminist equality right
@BelaMasz123
5 ай бұрын
You seem to be the only woman online who actually understands men. Thank you.
@Animatthias
5 ай бұрын
Random drunk girl that I don't know gives me a hug at a party. I take a step back. She immediately starts crying. Three guys who know her come along. They try to sooth her: "Maybe he's gay, maybe it's because he's German, maybe he's a prude". True story. I have rejected many advances like that. Every single woman said the exact same thing: "This never happened to me before". So basically, all men they are into are just assumed to be into them, too, and they do not see the projection. That is something women and sex offenders have in common, it's truly disgusting.
@timbuktu07
4 ай бұрын
Thank you Emily, you're doing a great service. Regarding #5 (men being assaulted by women): heard from a very reliable *female* friend. A guy gets beaten (according to her literally) black-and-blue by his wife, goes to the local police station to register a complaint. The cops laugh at him for getting beaten by his wife & refuse to record his complaint.
@michaelhannah5376
5 ай бұрын
I agree 100% with everything, especially No 9. I would also add to your list that a woman can forget an important date like his birthday but heaven help the man who forgets her birthday or anniversary !!
@randybobandy9828
5 ай бұрын
Wow I dealt with that with my ex... She didn't do anything for my birthday but when it came to her birthday i didn't go to her family dinner at her mother's on the night before her birthday but I did go on the family dinner at her grandparents ON her birthday and she threw that in my face as a reason she was ending things. I was like are you kidding me?
@pcpolice7937
22 күн бұрын
I haven’t received a birthday present from my wife in 5 years. Her sisters tell me I’m a big baby and “Get Over It”
@mrjohnthedestroyer
5 ай бұрын
Men hear No for everything. Constantly hear NO for sex, where to eat, where to go but if a woman hears NO she'll get angry, sad or make it all about her
@pughoneycutt1986
5 ай бұрын
In my 7+decades of life I have known a lot more faithful men than women. I started walking at night at 12 years old, and and my my was that an eye opener about the affairs going on. Some of the women were seeing 3 or 4 different men a week. By the time I was 14 years old I had 30 something years-old women crying on my shoulder and confessing things that would make a salor blush, because they knew I wasn't going to tell anyone else. For a 14 year old boy that was a lot of baggage to carry around, but that's life.
@oldman975
5 ай бұрын
I have long hair that I keep in a pony tail in warm weather. While standing in line at the pharmacy and conversing with the 2 pharmacists,both female,the woman behind me yanked on my ponytail. I promptly turned around and she said,”I couldn’t help it!”. I then grabbed her in an inappropriate place and claimed I couldn’t resist and turn back around. One pharmacist was barely able to keep from laughing while the other couldn’t help herself,ducked under the counter,and was laughing hysterically. The woman who grabbed me failed to see the humour, but I doubt she ever did it again. He
@maloydonedidit2903
5 ай бұрын
The ironic thing about the man needing to change for the relationship to work, but the woman doesnt. 99.999% of the time its the woman who ends up changing after marriage and the man prefers her to NOT change.
@pantarkan7
5 ай бұрын
The old saw that reflects #4 is: "Women get with men, thinking the man will change, and he doesn't. Men get with women, thinking the woman won't change, and she does."
@jpstygar
5 ай бұрын
I have another one: I almost never like to dance. Recently at a party in my company, a female colleague wanted me to dance with her. She grabbed my arm and pulled on me with her whole weight, ignoring that I obviously didn't want to dance. All the other colleagues around saw her actions, but acted more irritated by me, being so refusing. Neither them nor the lady ever had a glimpse of idea, that she was far too compelling against me. Women tend to not accept refusing behavior of men, especially not, when it happens in public!
@realistic.optimist
3 ай бұрын
As a 58 year old man dating a 38 year old woman I have no desire for games. When we started dating the rules were few but defined. I was ready to walk if she did not agree and she did. She actually said she liked it because I was not only setting boundaries but taking the lead. I would not pay her bills I would not pay her debts NO cheating in body, mind, or spirit. All disputes were to be resolved by the end of the day. Discussion not arguments. Discussions are to determine what is right arguments are to determine who is right. Traditional roles but work as a team. Men and women are complimentary NOT interchangeable. We keep separate residences. Once an argument is settled it is settled. Never to be brought up again.
@coreyleed8572
5 ай бұрын
The stuff she is describing is why I’m glad I’m single. Last one I couldn’t even go to my friends garage and work on her car without her thinking something is up. I hate relationships and I hate the way women try to control you over the last little detail
@shanenolan5625
5 ай бұрын
Thanks Emily. I used to work in bars , had lots of woman touching without consent. ( especially with a few drinks or a group of women)
@zakariyajama8004
5 ай бұрын
And let me guess if you so much as grabbed their arm they would've yelled sexual harrassment yes?
@shanenolan5625
5 ай бұрын
@@zakariyajama8004 yep . One time I was carrying a try and my hands were not free , she started messing with my zipper , messing with the package. And of course they rest were giggling like school girls. .
@zakariyajama8004
5 ай бұрын
@@shanenolan5625 those perverted fucks then what happened? Did they call you a creep or something?
@exothermal.sprocket
5 ай бұрын
@@shanenolan5625 It's when you pull out a stun gun, hold it up in front of you and let it spark a second and tell them to back away.
@marcusmoon1000
5 ай бұрын
The core double standard we are done with is the assertion that it is okay for a double standard to benefit women, but not okay if the double standard benefits men. This double standard is based on three premises. Premise 1 - Women start off at a disadvantage, so the lax rules for women "even the playing field". Since the double standards benefit women, this premise cancels itself out. That makes the premise irrelevant. Premise 2 - Men are able to suck it up, and adjust to the double standard. This one is actually true. By virtue of being less grounded in our emotions than women, and more oriented toward action, men in general actually are better equipped to go on in the face of these double standards and disadvantages. Premise 3 - Men are somehow less important than women, so it does not matter that we are disadvantaged or hurt by double standards. The truth of this is that many women, some men, and the legal system assume this to some degree. HOWEVER, as men are dropping out of higher education, leaving the workforce, abandoning the trades that hold the infrastructure together, and giving up on marriage and relationships with women. A correction in that attitude is on the horizon. Market forces will restore equilibrium. Or Western society will collapse.
@cinch1619
4 ай бұрын
I hate the double standard of "clinginess". Women are allowed to want to spend as many hours of the day around their partner as they can and it's considered normal and wholesome. If a man wants to spend that same time with his partner, he's either "controlling" or "too clingy". I have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, and have had female partners complain because I asked to take a day and just be present with each other "too much".
@stephencooper5040
5 ай бұрын
5:12 “Accept me for who I am” “Are you perfect already? Oh you’re not? Become better. I will too.”
@bobzeren4789
5 ай бұрын
Emily, You are a national treasure. 62, married for the last 31, still going strong. Your posts are teaching people far and wide. Keep up the great posts! Guys, protect this woman. She's a national treasure.
@nickbieker7683
5 ай бұрын
A comment on the first one!! Is a man could do a lot less and still her labeling him a stalker and taken to court
@mikeguilmette776
5 ай бұрын
No. 2 points to the fact of male expendability - men are expected to provide, fight and die if necessary, without any expectations on their part.
@user-vh8oz8vh4n
5 ай бұрын
With #4, I'm going to be 58 next week. Do you really think I'm going to change very much? The only thing that is changing much is my tolerance for bullshit. It's getting lower.
@DesertFabMikey
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for being a voice of reason! The crap good men deal with is absurd
@davegreenlaw5654
5 ай бұрын
Oh gawds! Number one. When I attended a boarding school in the US, I got there very late in the year, about 5-6 weeks before Prom, that everyone had to attend. Not knowing how badly this would have affected my social standing, I listened to a weekend staff member who said to me "Oh, that poor girl [not mentioning her name] doesn't have anyone to take her to the Prom, maybe you should be a gentleman and ask her." Like I said, BIG mistake! She started stalking ME. Every evening or weekend activity, I'd get into the van, and there she was, in the back row, smiling at me. It got to the point that I would not only wait until the last minute to sign up, but try as best I could to sneak a peek at the signup list to see what activity she was on so that I could NOT be on that one. Got a lot of staff yelling at me for both those things. And when I told staff about this, that I didn't like her always being on the same activity as me, following me around, it was pretty much laughed off. (Yeah, when I tell this story, I often end with "Yeah, that weekend staff member treated us like the students she taught through the week. Oh, did I happen to mention that she taught kindergarten!")
@annsheridan12
5 ай бұрын
Pilot saying” if it flies, floats or fucks lease it , don’t buy it.”
@GenXfrom75
5 ай бұрын
There’s so many double standards out there…. It’s wild.
@thedorikorner
5 ай бұрын
At 15 I was stalked by an adult woman. She showed up at my school all the time. Hung around the cafeteria just starting at me. Showed up outside buildings I was in staring through windows. Started telling everyone I was dating her and my actual gf. Everyone believed her and being in a Catholic School I almost got expelled for being a "practicing polygamist." Constantly kept asking me to get her pregnant. She showed up at my house with a knife. Screamed "TILL DEATH DO US PART!" on my front stoop for hours. I had to call the cops on her and they wouldn't take it serious until my gf who was with me got on the phone. They arrived in like 10 minutes flat when they heard a woman was in trouble. It was getting seriously dangerous. But whenever I tried to tell people what was going on and the fear me and my gf were expereincing, I was told I should feel lucky with them saying "I wish I had a stalker." Meanwhile a fellow classmate was saying she was being stalked because another classmate sat behind her in class. The class was seated Alphabetical and he was gay. But what does that matter? She got so much sympathy the teachers and student resource officer (cop) sprung into action and had her "stalker" moved to another class giving him verbal warnings/threats to stay away from her. She later got pregnant by a friend of mine and claimed her baby was the product of Aphrodite and Satan. Her child was taken away and she ended up institutionalised. The poor classmate who was threatened eventually dropped out by the pressure he had for being a "creepy stalker."
@ShadowDaHam
5 ай бұрын
I have met all of two women like you in my real life. They have also taught me extensively about how women think. And about how to adjust better with my own decisions with 'stupid?' mistakes that were made. I really appreciate you putting out the videos that you do, it has taught me extensively about things that the females of my life have never done before. 🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌
@jamesshank7918
4 ай бұрын
How about top ten in the work place? I worked in a law enforcement HQ in the last few years of my career, my military injuries put me out of patrol and into a civilian desk. The men had to wear dress shoes, dress slacks, no shorts in the 100 degree summer heat. We also had to wear follared dress shirts. Women wore sandals, short skirts, sleeveless tops. A lot cooler in the humid high heat of summer. Their cubicles were crowded with family pictures, stuffed animals, knick knacks, flowers, and more. Males, the few of us there were, were cautioned to keep our cubicles neat and professional. The females gossiped over the cubicle walls constantly, and texted back and forth on their phones, blatant violations of policy. The males were told to insure we focused on our work. Quite the double standard in place.
@disgruntledvet28
5 ай бұрын
Man, I swear it is so hard to believe that you got divorced. You speak so much truth that a lot of women ignore. I just cannot picture anybody wanting to divorce somebody like you. You are a gem!💎
@drakenon75
5 ай бұрын
A father of 2 daughters here. I never thought I'd hear that I should man up, from them when I opened up about some of the more painful aspects of my life. Though to be fair she caught herself within a short time of saying that, but by that point I'd put the mask back on. It's sad that many of us have female friends or family that would rather see us die on our horse, than watch us struggle through our pain. I'm lucky in that I don't get that from my wife, but she is singularly alone as a woman in my life that I've not felt this from.
@acmikell6765
5 ай бұрын
Don't forget about the double standard of what happens when someone shows interest, hits on, or an ex reappears to someone in a relationship.... It seems to not be a problem for a woman to talk, converse, and entertain them and eventually mention that they are in a relationship, and she's just being nice... however a man is supposed to immediately give a firm decline and the longer he continues the conversation, the more wrong he is and is disrespecting his relationship.
@aleksandarpavkov
5 ай бұрын
South Park covered this perfectly - Kyle goes to the police to report his brothers teacher had sex with his brother and the entire police station (all men) stood in shock until someone started with: Niceee! Lucky bastard! 😂
@saarcful
5 ай бұрын
World women's day is glorified. Men's day is ignored.
@bulletmagnet1664
5 ай бұрын
There's a Men's Day?!
@Soxfandan
5 ай бұрын
Never heard of a men’s day.
@20thCenturyfan1701
5 ай бұрын
Women's day? Are we not gonna talk about they get a whole freaking month too? And for the record men don't get a single day ever. (What's even more messed up is that pride month over shadow's men's mental health month, which I don' t think is even acknowledged at all.)
@saarcful
5 ай бұрын
@@bulletmagnet1664 Yes it's there somewhere in November, even i didn't know that men's day exist.
@dougkabler3032
20 күн бұрын
There is no world men's day.
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
This reminds me of an AITA where the man asked if he was a jerk for asking his girlfriend why she needed a sleep.deprived him to pick her up at 1:30am when she was supposed to have a ride. My comment was that "plans fell through" would take as long and as much battery as saying "the concert is over" (her message), but would provide a call to action for her boyfriend to come get her. In response, I am still periodically getting women saying "that doesn't matter, he should be considerate and out her safety first" as if he was nothing but a servant she did not have to reciprocate the co.sideratio towards.
@Michael_Mears
5 ай бұрын
I watched the first 10 and now you're doing my head in. I did not realise how many there were and how prevalent they are. Cheers, from Australia.
@thrusta100
5 ай бұрын
Sydney women?..🤮🤦#snobbyentitledasf
@wolftitan
5 ай бұрын
At this point in my life, 36, I'm near giving up. No woman has ever really given me a chance.
@alanruhland2489
5 ай бұрын
I especially agree with the bit about men being expected to change when they enter into a relationship, but the woman does not. I'm not going to twist myself into a pretzel for a girlfriend. I also quite agree with the one about "butt slapping".. I don't want anybody touching me unless they've asked for and received my permission first, even if it's just a tap on the arm.
@jiwik731
5 ай бұрын
The problem is how you rase up your children. When i was younger it happened me multiple times the girls was thinking i have to be interested in them just because they are girls. They was thinking boys have no type and to be a girl is enough. Once i refused them their friends was asking me what is wrong with me to dare to refuse a girl and how nice she is etc. And it was mostly truth but i just was not interested in them and sometimes they began to doubt my orientation because i did not take first that come to my life like if i was expected to do so. It was so strange and stupid. No wonder they grow up in such a crooked people. But once i was refused by a girl i liked (one of those criticising me for refusing the others) it was over. No discussion, do doubts about her orientation, no friends talking on my behalf with her. Nothing. It was just another day in her life.
@oxigenarian9763
5 ай бұрын
Yes - keep these coming - they're the best! We USED to believe this in our culture: "What's good for the goose is good for the gander!"
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
I still go by that.. tho I am in my mid 50's so grew up with that.
@kevinlanger7367
5 ай бұрын
Being selfish- I was in christen counseling and the angry church lady instructed my ex to be MORE selfish and for me to be more of the servants attitude…. Be more grateful to serve your narcissistic wife. Help her be as narcissistic as she possibly can is the reality of that effort. All a great lesson for me, making it so blatantly obvious who I was dealing with. Now, Ten years free from that position
@CLA2HOME
5 ай бұрын
I agree with those 10. Such a double standard 🤔
@awdtsg-is-toxic-trash
3 ай бұрын
The most glaring example of double standards these days is AWDTSG. In these Are We Dating the Same Guy Groups women completely destroy men, post their names and photos, spill all of their secrets, bash them, gossip about them, and they do it all with impunity where men can't defend themselves. It's HORRIFYING!
@zakariyajama8004
5 ай бұрын
Keep the truth comming Emily
@johnhightshoe996
5 ай бұрын
Straight up can confirm the sexual assault point, went through a nasty divorce and towards the end she assaulted me and I reported it, the charges were dropped from her by the end of the day, I had recordings of it, me clearly telling her no but her telling me it’s what I like and to just take it. She then made up bs crap about me and it took almost a year and thousands in legal fees to get my charges dropped, no evidence or anything just her word that I did it. The double standard in domestic violence cases is absolutely disgusting.
@lrt14174
5 ай бұрын
so true, thanks for being a voice for truth and reason
@PeterShaw-ne1yq
5 ай бұрын
She is describing the fruits of 60 years of femininitism, in full fruit too
@Donguri29
5 ай бұрын
One thing i'm tired of as a double standard is when single women think they can do what they want with other guys online or offline and gets away with it. Then if a single guy does it with other women online or offline he gets shamed for it.
@angstrom1058
5 ай бұрын
I've been groped many times by women in public. I'm done with double standards. "Standards are important, so long as they are not double"
@HKST51R
5 ай бұрын
If it weren't for double standards, modern women wouldn't have standards at all
@uoabigaillevey
5 ай бұрын
I'm okay with number 9 personally. As a guy I do not want to burden her with my problems.. especially if I can work through them myself. The less she knows the less ammunition for later use against me.
@robmoshermusic
5 ай бұрын
I believe it's a double standard that dating apps require height, but not weight. In general, women notice more about a men's height than men do about a woman's height. However, generally men notice more about a woman's weight than her height. Yet if a dating app required people to not only to enter their height, but their weight, it would be an outrage. And understandably so - maybe neither height nor weight should be listed. I celebrate people's physical attributes. We are as we are, and for a the most part we are built how we're built. It's important to acknowledge that in dating, everyone has preferences - if you're not a match based on that, that's okay. But if you're judging someone generally because of their physical attributes, that's not okay. Thanks for putting this list together Emily, and thank you for what you do for equality! (reposting this from my comment in the Part 1 series in hopes of getting more visibility)
@Bookstorewalla
5 ай бұрын
Not weight but BMI (Body Mass Index). a 6' tall woman weighing 140 pounds would be a model. A 5' woman weighing 140 pounds well.
@t-bonejones3576
5 ай бұрын
Not a genuine comparison. Height will not affect one's health. On the other hand, weight can definitely affect health in a dangerous way!
@macdieter23558
5 ай бұрын
I am not fat, I am 2´too small for my weight!
@lyrsenanokar
5 ай бұрын
At work, I work in a predominantly female field, when I was injured I was told repeatedly by a supervisor or boss to lift the "heavy" things despite having a Doctor's note stating I'm not allowed to lift more than 10 LBS and I had communicated that. I was told I was being difficult and needed to "toughen up." When ever one of my female co-workers was injured they had no issues of anyone asking them to do things they weren't supposed to do.
@thomascostello5780
5 ай бұрын
Yes, a series will be quite welcome, thank you
@marc-antoinegagne2951
Ай бұрын
25+ years ago, I literally ran into trouble in highschool for saying most of what she just said.
@tyrelkoyle8315
5 ай бұрын
Amazing how right on you are.
@poleythepolarbear9706
4 ай бұрын
I really hate it when women assign men to do busy work while the they plan a spa day for themselves. Then when a woman is confronted with actual work. She deflects, and verbally attacks the man. Telling him to do the work himself. Yes, this BS happens to men allot. It happens to me, and my Dad too.
@davidbrock2450
5 ай бұрын
I'm going to be 59 in Aug. I stopped dating like 4 yrs ago just because non of the women in the age rage I was looking acted like they had no concept of what the word compromise means. Would I like to be in a relationship? Sure, but it's just not worth the effort at this point in my life.
@user-xd2nb8bl3h
5 ай бұрын
I agree with you entirely. I have been the subject of many of the double standards you describe. Woe to the man who suggests to his wife or girlfriend to exercise and lose weight or to dress differently.
@user-wn6ff5qd4t
5 ай бұрын
Well in this day and age, Women think that they can do whatever they want to do. How about fixing the brakes or changing the Oil on the car?
@JimAllen-Persona
5 ай бұрын
If they can, that’s great.
@Proposal12
5 ай бұрын
haha yea, i once pulled over since this person was stuck on the side of the road outside of town, flat tire, i asked if she needed any help and she said "of course i need help obviously", then i said ... you´re right, got in my car and drove off.
@MSMW23
5 ай бұрын
I have one: When a man in a relationship makes a mistake or does something wrong, it is entirely his fault. When a woman does the same, the blame must be shared at the very least, or it's his fault for creating the situation for the mistake to happen.
@dmkaeding
5 ай бұрын
Snooping. If a woman searches her man's closet, dresser, wallet, or phone it's reasonable. If a man does it, he has trust issues. Clothes. A woman won't divulge her shoe or clothing size...ever. Swim suits. A woman will spend weeks searching for the perfect suit for her body type, modesty level, flattery, color......A man will wear whatever and more likely what his woman bought him. Lord help the man who buys clothes for his woman, and RIP to the poor bastard that bought swim wear for her.
@JimAllen-Persona
5 ай бұрын
Seconded.
@doogle2822
5 ай бұрын
@@JimAllen-Persona If you want to spend time fighting for your life in A&E then say "yes" when she says "does my bum look big in this".
@pumpkinhead8593
5 ай бұрын
@@doogle2822 My bf tells me all the time that my behind is big. We both laugh about it. I think the problem with a lot of women is that they search for reasons to be offended, because that's their way of getting attention. I've been with him for almost two years now, and we have yet to have our first argument. If you find someone who doesn't crave drama, don't let them go.
@michajastrzebski4383
3 ай бұрын
@@pumpkinhead8593 " If you find someone who doesn't crave drama, don't let them go." aka, "be gay" :V
@chancekey3597
5 ай бұрын
I'm a short guy and I always get mad as hell even when a woman is just as short as me or shorter and they say stupid things like they want a taller man.
@saarcful
5 ай бұрын
Girls born as treasure. Boys grown up and become a gentlemen, protect, provide and create the treasure. Which takes decades.
@NexonixGamingNetwork
5 ай бұрын
Ok so I don't know if this is a double standard or if it's just my shitty school but like 6 years ago girls told me to KMS everyday in school but if I dare say anything to them I get detention. And they didn't even talk to them about it. They really don't care about men but they care about women.
@Donaldperson7
26 күн бұрын
Yep! Changing people is out of the question Don’t Get Married!
@LoveMyMagMoreThanYou
5 ай бұрын
Please make this a series!
@DanteInformal
5 ай бұрын
I grew up in New England where we get a lot of snow in the winter. I cannot count the amount of times my sister was allowed to stay inside and watch TV while my brother (who is 5 years younger than my sister, BTW) and I were required to go outside and shovel snow. The deconstruction of gender roles goes both ways. Women can and should be able to get any job that's traditionally thought of as "men's work" and that also applies to household chores and jobs. Don't sentence your sons to hard physical labor while your daughters get to sit inside and read a book.
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