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@laurengalan2760
Жыл бұрын
I pray that the children who come from divorced families are able to break the cycle in their own lives.
@daniellubowa595
Жыл бұрын
It is a generational curse.
@talmaharding256
Жыл бұрын
I'll break it, it can cause lots of pain and want all my children to know what to look for, and find a good partner in life. If your not happy in the home you create with them, is it worth it?
@donh1572
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@shyamalidasgupta671
11 ай бұрын
Therapy with good therapists help
@aqualust5016
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately as of this week I won't be contributing to the club...
@2twentysix
Жыл бұрын
If a woman has worked on healing her traumatic childhood past she can have a healthy connection as an adult. It’s never too late because even those who were mistreated as children deserve love in their lives as adults.
@tusmoaadil1825
Жыл бұрын
👍💯
@unknowncomment85
Жыл бұрын
nah.. it is best to avoid her.. you have one life.. why risk it marrying someone with a broken family.. match for her would be a man with a broken family.. that way each can feed the other’s chaos..
@user-ll5bm3dz7p
Жыл бұрын
This is what everyone from a broken home wants you to believe.
@sambaaxel3434
Жыл бұрын
@2twenty the truth is that it’s difficult to change it, even if that woman or man works on it being adult. Of course those peoples who were mistreated in their childhood also need love but the problem they live in their subconscience with a personality who was not created by love and it’s not easy to change that personality. And You know why it’s difficult to change it?, because our childhood creates our future adult personality which will be in our subconscience like I’ve said, reason why they say to parents to give love to their children.
@madeehaniazi2689
Жыл бұрын
@@unknowncomment85😊😊
@pratikshares
Жыл бұрын
That made me cry. Why does it feel so reassuring to have your feelings so clearly explained by a stranger?
@keralytekid
Жыл бұрын
Empathy towards you for what you are feeling. You may feel that way because you have not been seen and/or heard by your caregivers. She helped you to feel better by making you feel both seen and heard.
@Jeniffer61867
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes strangers are our soul tribe and some family members are wound mates
@peterwilliams6361
Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@peterwilliams6361
Жыл бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@peterwilliams6361
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@brianbailey4577
Жыл бұрын
That’s bullshit….my wife had a shit childhood and she appreciates everything I give her. She appreciates the stability I offer, treats me like a king and creates a very peaceful household. 37 years this week and going strong.
@viciousLUA
Жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful to hear 😢❤ Gives me hope…
@joanofarcxxi
Жыл бұрын
You can have 2 extreme opposite behaviors. Your wife is clingy. She will bend over backwards in order not to lose you even if you treat her like crap. Right?
@livafridrihsone6683
Жыл бұрын
I agree. She saunds super prejudiced in her analysis.
@kaylahyang1712
10 ай бұрын
Many kids grow up with hardsh conditions, such as a broken home turn out to be a huge success and great contributors to others/society. Many kids grow up with everything they have turn out to be a total disaster. It's always am individual case.
@CutFromADifferentCloth7
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations, so happy for you! That's my problem with her - she's super opinionated and believes she's 100% correct all of the time, when she's not.
@mad_in_2020
Жыл бұрын
Broken homes can be better than homes where people are living with toxicity quietly and presenting a picture perfect to the outer world. Or the married where one spouse is cheating and the other just tolerates for years due to money, lack of support, etc.
@normarndelathassologenesis2967
Жыл бұрын
I really hate that people stigmatize divorced parents as a broken home. No family is perfect. There are so many couples faking a false image of happiness and success that messes up their kids just as much because they're dysfunctional in private. You can grow up to be a well adjusted, loving person, rich in morals and common sense with divorced parents. Judge on individual behavior and character, not the actions of people you'll never date.
@viciousLUA
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@livafridrihsone6683
Жыл бұрын
Precisely. Everyone is twisted on this earth one way or another. There is no such thing as a "perfect family" because there is no such thing as a perfect individual
@pauldraper1736
Жыл бұрын
But divorce is a broken home. Divorce is not the *only* possible trauma...there's physical abuse, emotional abandonment, etc. Sometimes those are worse than divorce. But regardless of the cause...divorce damages people....the adults, the children, everyone. Amputating a limb doesn't end your life. But it's damaging and people should go to great lengths to avoid it, and if it does happen, their quality of life will be greated affected.
@enchantedbutterfly6589
10 ай бұрын
Truth... The break down of a family has long term, devastating damage and long term consequences. I see it all too often, women leaving their husband or visa versa. Don't marry an take VOWS until you understand what a marriage entails and can Honor those vows forever. Children deserve stability. Love, integrity and honor is a choice.
@normarndelathassologenesis2967
10 ай бұрын
@@enchantedbutterfly6589 Marriages aren't always stable, and people change with their circumstances. It'd be nice if everyone dating were always honest and carried that into their marriages along with devotion, patience, and respect. But we don't live in an ideal world where people are always mature, honest, and stay the same. Kids don't need the instability of watching their parents fight, cheat, or far worse. Divorce is not the worse thing that can happen to a kid, often it's their parents staying together.
@metemad
Жыл бұрын
Those with childhood issues when work on themselves, they become great partners and help others to heal as well.
@livafridrihsone6683
Жыл бұрын
People who were the most broken, are the ones that can later on love the most and feel the most. Their hearts are like diamonds.
@woodenleaves
Жыл бұрын
I was raised in a good and loving enviroment, and when I was looking for a partner, they would just go like "ah she is just too nice, too good" ( not exciting). Now when I am self accomplished good looking woman, these same guys suddenly are way too friendly, someone who didn't even pay attention for my existance years ago, now suddendly wants to hang out. I am off the market, I do my job, I don't care and don't want anyone - like that. I just have to live with the temporary fact that I am in the wrong enviroment.
@nicolasmoreno9442
Жыл бұрын
I found your comment surprisingly relatable, maybe too much. I don't come from a good loving home though, my family and my upbringing are as dysfunctional as you can get, but I am grateful I had the will to get by and a few although really good people to help me along the way. I smiled when you said guys found you dull, boring and too nice... Most if not all girls I come across act this way with me, as if you don't have a very active Instagram account showing off how social you are and how much time you spend traveling around you are not worth their time and attention. A female coworker of mine was surprised when I had a conversation with a customer:" I never knew you could speak french!." "You never asked." As if they ever bothered to try to know me. I'm not a showy person, I like giving my many sides of me to someone who wants to know me and I also cherish the gift of a woman showing me their flaws and quirks, it is really special, and I try my best to make her feel she can be vulnerable and safe with me, which has nothing to do with not being exciting. Instead, often I receive the treatment of being too good and not the bad boy I looked like and they wanted me to be. Especially since I cultivated and sculpted my body in the gym. It is a shame, having so much love to give inside of me, wanting to share my happiness with someone who wants to enjoy the ride with me, but alas, they want an emotional rollercoaster. Fortunately for me I have my purpose in life and I have good friends and people around, so I feel content anyways, I don't need much else to be honest. It was nice, @woodenleaves to find someone who happens to have similar experiences as me, it brings me hope. I hope you find what you are looking for, meanwhile, have fun. Cheers!
@woodenleaves
Жыл бұрын
@@nicolasmoreno9442 thank you, same wishes to you as well.
@sereneflatun
Жыл бұрын
Horrible. I come from a broken home and I have watched this. Thank you for expressing and enhancing a strong negative stereotype for children who come from broken homes and giving them another hardship to cope. I pray that one day you feel the same way I feel now to taste your own cruelty.
@janetf3377
Жыл бұрын
In a way, I disagree. My parents were very mentally ill and unstable. My brother and I are normal and have very stable marriages. I understand what she is saying in terms of you need to make sure that your future spouse has a good family because the children usually imitate parent’s behavior but I guess my brother and I were an exception to that rule.
@sunkistbabe
Жыл бұрын
In your case mental illness isn't a learned behavior, either you have it or you don't.
@user-ll5bm3dz7p
Жыл бұрын
You and your brother are probably controlling to a certain extent and your partner goes with the program. Just an assumption I wish you both the best marriage
@joanofarcxxi
Жыл бұрын
Yes, you both are probably an exception. Most children from broken homes are broken and go on to have broken relationships. It's an epidemic in the world right now. I wish you both the best.
@janetf3377
Жыл бұрын
@@joanofarcxxi Yes, you are correct. For the majority, the cycle continues from generation to generation but always exceptions to the rule. Thank you for the good wishes!
@pauldraper1736
Жыл бұрын
Just because parents are fat, or lazy, or hardworking, or rich, or stable, or abusive, or whatever does not mean their children will be that way. But that's the way the wind blows. It will take significant effort to overcome that. Some do. More don't.
@estasenora9747
Жыл бұрын
Oh so I am from broken family with sadistic selfish parents and that makes me ineligible for a healthy loving married life. "i am dodgy. Don't come near me."
@themuslimmum
Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah sister Sadia, you're a great role model for Muslim women and girls
@RC-br1ps
Жыл бұрын
🤣 No she is a good Western woman, and she is not the ideal Muslim woman per the Quran and Sunnah. Sadia is the kind of Muslim woman that Islam does not encourage, like, and want. She is independent, intelligent, open, holds her own opinions against those of men, makes her own choices, does not consider herself to be intellectually less than any man (let alone men on the whole per the Quran), etc. She is not a tool to be used and abused by men (and her family). Islam requires that women obey males (family and husband) and the Ummah demonstrates in the way they (women included) raise women, and treat them. Sadia is not a muslim woman per the Quran.
@adhilakhan4333
Жыл бұрын
@RC-br1ps I would like to disagree with you ... but I do not know your lived-reality. Maybe in your experience everything you say is true. Even *In my world* everything you say is equally true but it is true for many cultures. i.e. across many cultures (Muslim and not) women must make themselves small and useful. However to determine what happens "in Islam" we go back to the lives of the Sahaba.
@RC-br1ps
Жыл бұрын
@@adhilakhan4333 so Islam is a culture? Is that an idea that you are trying to sell? A disingenuous argument at best. I say that the Quran and the Sunnah, the ideological basis of Islam the socio-political *religion* are the fountainhead of misogyny, supremacist hate towards non muslims, a push toward violence, and a whole plethora of nasty ideas. I understand that dishonesty, denial, and deception is a survival requirement to deal with the garbage that comes with the nasty ideology and perhaps your situation. Do you think, however, that non-muslims are all so ill-informed that they take your word for it and are going to all play along with your obvious fantasy? Other cultures and even religions may be patriarchial however the extent that Islam goes to is incomparable in its misogyny, in the 21st century, and the Prophet of Islam behavior, his use and abuse of women, including his sex slaves, cheating on wives, striking them, using his wives to satisfy his lust for women he could not have, child marriage, etc. All permitted by Allah does not help (ref: Sunnah and Quran) neither does the Quran putting down female intelligence, subjugation of status to men, permitting abuse of physical and psychological nature, etc.etc.
@gregmchale7974
Жыл бұрын
Sadia I am impressed, your calmness and assured responses are very good and pointed. It is good to see someone who can give advice and be honest about it. People lack emotional wellbeing because of their life experiences and I agree the young years of life is very important, more so than most can understand.
@discogene
Жыл бұрын
I blame the movies for that brainless romanticism
@urbanvoice5323
Жыл бұрын
@sadiapsychology I agree with this to a degree my only objection is no family is perfect. I think the diff is if a person acknowledges their broken background and is seeking therapy and has the desire to be better.
@BranchofWellnessCounselingPLLC
10 ай бұрын
And this, is how you change the world. Breaking intergenerational trauma creates change not just within the self and into family but even further outwardly across society.
@Kpleaides
11 ай бұрын
I find those ppl that have never suffered and are asleep are the most dangerous arrogant evil ppl amongst us....
@thu-tuyetnguyen5156
Жыл бұрын
Avoidant and anxious attachments attract each other
@spectershore4482
11 ай бұрын
This expert woman is too good ! It's 5.00 am in Paris right now 🇨🇵 I watch her performing on relationship (couple and parents with children), I'm too much impressed to leave without a comment and a subscription !! 👍🏽⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@laurengalan2760
Жыл бұрын
I always felt suspicious of this over emphasis on chemistry and didn’t understand where it was coming from. When I expressed this to a lot of other women would immediately say well don’t you want chemistry because it’s the fun bit etc some of these women were kind of bullying about this I didn’t realise that it was the sane stable part of me that was saying it’s nice but not the full picture.
@adhilakhan4333
Жыл бұрын
did he say... ..so in return... ? "...SO in return..." I suspect he is concealing his own misbehaviour in his 1st marriage. I'm glad he grew up.
@millie9814
Жыл бұрын
Same! Are you an INFJ?
@Guaicoboi
Жыл бұрын
Sadia, I absolutely love you, for the Wisdom Insight and knowledge you impart. THANK You 😊
@somer0703
Жыл бұрын
Sparks are dangerous! You wouldnt sit in a room with sparks flying all over the place, you want good wiring. This is coming from a child who had 2 alcoholic parents😂
@CoachSteveJandS
11 ай бұрын
I've heard it said "people can hide who they truly are for the first 90 days"...
@ishmaelmoo
Жыл бұрын
Going through divorce this really hit home,Sadia got the answers ,that guy is me,,oh lord she is like a prophet
@williamoseiprempeh2036
Жыл бұрын
I can't skip Sadia 😅 videos whenever I come across it.
@Ashnesss
Жыл бұрын
That’s nonsense. With this analogy, anyone and rebound is too traumatised to date or marry. If you’re looking for someone who will never meet a hardship, you’re simply unrealistic. Divorce doesn’t mean that people are equally traumatised or equally problematic. Nor does it mean that 2 people are traumatised or problematic. There could be financial reasons, lack of chemistry or compatibility, different worldview and approach to parenting, distance, etc. The world is filled with people who are traumatised who have amazing relationships. Then there are those who’s childhoods were AMAZING but their adult relationships are tumultuous. If everyone stops giving love, the world will have MORE traumatised people. Not less. Trauma stems from hatred, negativity, arguments, bad treatment, etc. the worlds surely NEEDS LOVE! Just because someone has been through a difficult time, it does not mean that they are traumatised to the point that they can’t spot or respond to love. Everyone is not equally traumatised or equally inept at handling their emotions. There are degrees and variations. You could meet someone who has had the BEST life but falls apart due to serious illness or a car accident. Also, giving love to someone who doesn’t want you doesn’t mean that the person had a bad childhood or that you did. It means that you cannot assess interest. Everything is not about trauma. Chemistry, compatibility and interest plays a big part. Lack of interest does not equal past trauma.
@dawn6232
Жыл бұрын
Your competition is their childhood. WOW!!!!! That hits hard!!!! That needs to be taught in college! A whole curriculum can be created from that!!
@tevatev7454
11 ай бұрын
I would love to hear you dive more into about women who come from broken homes. Such as myself I come from not only a broken home, but my parents divorced her young it was very toxic and disgusting, and the love and peace was hard to be found, and it led me down a really dark path Until I matured enough, and I have completely separated myself from my family because I want to be nothing like them. It is hard to engage with them, I don’t want a relationship with them at least their character. Believe me deep down, I wish things were different, but I can’t change them and I am doing so much work on myself to be the complete opposite. There are normally things that happen but for the most part I have peace in my life. And I’m very clear about what I want from a relationship and my partner. To the point that I have an amazing man in my life for the first time but our mental long-term goals do not lineup. It also is hard because he is Jewish and I am not. He has a daughter and I have no kids. And honest with myself, I’m not ready to Riesman else’s child, I cannot convert to religion and tradition. I know nothing about, nor is it in my heart to do so, even though what we share is really beautiful and rare, I know this is not the right relationship for me. I have broken things off and I want to not just date but be intentional and he is not. He doesn’t even know what he wants and that doesn’t work for me. I am not perfect. By any means, I don’t have it all figured out yet, but I am trying to do the work, and it is my intention to change the lineage in the legacy of my family and stopping generational curses and discussing toxic behaviors. I want someone who wants the same things I want. I want someone who wants to be a husband, I want someone who wants to be a father who wants to not just make me a wife, but truly a deep love for each other, and the willingness to do the work together With similar intentions of cultivating a beautiful in Healthy Home involving God. I have completely cut off anything and anyone that is chaotic, messy, bad behaviors, disrespect, people with low quality character, so I’d really love to hear you talk more about women who are actually doing the work, but comes from a broken home like my self. I am very selective of the people, lovers and friends that I allow around me. I’d do you have a bit of a vetting process that not many people make it through. And I’m not asking for anything I don’t have to go, but I’m also not excepting anything less. It’s not that I am just so deserving, but I know that I’m worthy and I know that I’m fully capable of creating having and maintaining everything I desire, but it goes both ways not just because I’m entitled that’s not my thought process at all. I’m not entitled I am earning, what I have been working so hard for. I am not close with my family. It is virtually impossible and I do not have a close relationship with my family. I am looking to create my own family with much different morals and values. With a safe and loving home. Where there is true love and true support and true unity an honest open and kind communication, but I can’t do that by myself. I have to have a partner who is on the same page and not just because they said so, but because their actions, their behavior shows it continuously and consistently just like mine.
@psk1qaz
Жыл бұрын
thanks for publishing great, well balanced, insightful conversation
@autoclearanceuk7191
11 ай бұрын
The issue should be the effects on children of relationship breakdowns and divorce.
@Deanie_o
9 ай бұрын
I think it’s important to point out yes YOU cannot change them but THEY can CHOSE to change themselves. If they worked on their acceptance and healing then healthy, secure relationships are possible. It take a lot of honesty though.
@sudeshnam1672
Жыл бұрын
He told the bone of the conversation in the end, his father going back can be the reason for his super strong and avoidance
@TylerVGaming602
Жыл бұрын
I’m unfortunately going through this chaos in my marriage and unfortunately I think it’s inevitably heading in the wrong direction and what worries me the most is how this will effect my kids. I wish I would’ve known in the beginning.
@adamalt5203
10 ай бұрын
Really interesting discussions and I'm looking forward to watching many more Sadia. You really seem to hit the nail on the head with a lot of people and circumstances, but one point that I'd like to be addressed is - what do people with traumatic childhoods do to navigate their way out of their situation? Wouldn't they be extremely dissatisfied in a relationship with a reassuring partner who loved them unconditionally? What is the way out for 90% of people who are broken? As you said, very few people escaped childhood unscathed. If they follow their gut, they'll keep making the same mistake over and over again. And if they meet someone who has high self-esteem and self worth, who cares for them 'properly', their new partner will see all of their red flags and leave them immediately. Would be great if you could address this paradox. Cheers!
@sherriflemming3218
Жыл бұрын
How Your Childhood Trauma Effects Your Love Choices - Jonathon Aslay The Pitfalls Modern Dating- Jonathon Aslay Shocking Red Flag Women Miss When Dating - Jonathon Aslay Romance chemistry and attraction does not create relationship success. When you meet someone and feel, calm, at ease and safe, thats a good sign.
@ukurinyako8507
Жыл бұрын
I would pay a million to sit and talk with Sadia, I like your work
@PreparedHome
Жыл бұрын
No families are perfect. No one I. This world has the absolute 100% perfect childhood.
@shyamalidasgupta671
11 ай бұрын
My husband is avoidant dependent (according to my therapist) - his parents had a very dysfunctional relationship- father had personality disorder & psychological problems - narcissistic borderline, and mother suffered as a result. I am suffering as a result- my husband himself has personality disorder, schizoid & narcissistic traits , is controlling & has dismissive avoidant bhvr. , and I married him on very short notice to escape an abusive mother& brother - a very hasty arranged marriage, and my marriage is a painful mess. Headed for divorce with a 15 year old son
@miriamuSama
Жыл бұрын
What she says, can also be applied to a man. And also; it doesen’t alwYs apply to people with ‘chaotic backgrounds.’ “Always sabotaging a healthy relationships because you had an unstable youth….” 🤦🏽♀️ Canceled ❤️🔥…
@alallya8
Жыл бұрын
The 'always' really took bias to the next level. As if human being as simple as theories, and there are no variations and exceptions.. Pretty dissapointed with her POV.
@Myllkka
Жыл бұрын
@@alallya8 yep
@bigchichi
Жыл бұрын
So we don't deserve love and we're going to pay for our upbringing? Is it my fault
@anointedone1995
Жыл бұрын
It is not your fault but it is your responsibility to heal. Sounds unfair but it is what it is 😅
@laleandoporahi4436
Жыл бұрын
No it is not your fault. You need to look for the tools that help you to heal all your traumas because unfortunately is not your responsability for what they have done to you but to let go so you don't repeat bad patterns inside your relationship. And if someone leaves you because of what you went through then that it's not your perfect partner. The partner you deserve is the one who stays and helps you.
@cd4playa1245
Жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate to falling in love with someone who may not be good for me, because I’ve become smitten my Sadia. 😉😍
@TheQueenIsWithin
Жыл бұрын
Most two parent homes I've seen are the most dysfunctional homes I've come across.
@SuperAnton96
Жыл бұрын
to be honest, as a kid from a "broken home" this sounds very painful to hear. As a kid you don't choose your home. We are fighting, we want stability, it's just not all that easy. Idk, somehow this perspective of two people from "healthy" homes talking about people from "broken" homes hurt. Not saying they are wrong, it just feels very exclusive and excluding..
@SuperAnton96
Жыл бұрын
Also wondering, this guy chose his first wife, had two kids and then talks about the one daughter being stable like him and the other one being like his ex wife, implicating that she isn't all that stable. Idk, I don't wanna be in the shoes of his younger daughter, feeling this kind of judgment from the father, even though he chose his first wife and chose to have children with her...
@millie9814
Жыл бұрын
@@SuperAnton96 he is so rude!! haha, he’s like “they’re nutcases” - even if someone is a “nutcase”, a polite, classy man wouldn’t say that publicly. But venting to a beautiful woman like Sadia, maybe he forgot about the cameras. A true polite person isn’t polite only to people who deserve it, or to people who are like them, who come from healthy families. In this video, both of them really disregarded people’s feelings. Most people who watch these videos come from difficult families. Besides, it’s not all black and white. I had a really good childhood, but it was also really difficult at the same time. And I have good and bad qualities like anybody else. But one thing I have more than anyone who comes from a happy healthy family is empathy.
@MirraDaily
Жыл бұрын
It’s so sad to do a general statement on all women that come from a broken home. When in reality, coming from a broken home motivates me to not follow this type of cycle and chose wisely my partner and the future father of my children. I used to really like her but after this statement I’m very disappointed. Psychology teaches you not to put everyone in the same box.
@nailujd22
Жыл бұрын
Your understanding is amazing, but I'm sure these are textbook cases.
@williamoseiprempeh2036
Жыл бұрын
Her facts are really clear
@estasenora9747
Жыл бұрын
She began by assuming his wife had come from chaotic background. Turns out this man had a broken family. His girls have come from same background yet one sees at relationship in a healthy way. He has debunked her some 4 times un this. She has a prejudiced mindset.
@normarndelathassologenesis2967
Жыл бұрын
She's admitted before she's had issues with other women. It comes out every now and then with very obvious PickMeisha behaviors or opinions. She's a well educated and thoughtful professional, but sometimes very problematic, and not always applicable to normal Westerners. She's clearly ran with and is used to the beautiful fast crowd of Westerners and not the average people. If that's all you've seen then you think all Westerners are inviting, partying, heuxes.
@fffrfrw
11 ай бұрын
Best to leave broken women as they are. Bringing them into your house only break your house as well Steve Harvey is the classic example
@davidjohnpaul7558
Жыл бұрын
Choose your in-laws carefully 😅
@anapantovic6859
Жыл бұрын
😂
@cablenetworksystems
Жыл бұрын
U replicate your self so we all can have you 😊
@khanyoxaluva3432
Жыл бұрын
Looking forward to experiencing the Studio
@Catsforlife123
11 ай бұрын
Wow she hits it on the nail
@shaynelahmed6323
Жыл бұрын
It's oversimplified...I chose to walk away from a toxic family- and I refuse to be stigmatized for my healthy choice. Family can be a 'f' word- I have seen long term 'marriages' and 'families'- appear stable - but rampant sexual abuse and pedophilia...brother on sister...brother on brother...father with sons...uncle with nephews and nieces....etc....
@viciousLUA
Жыл бұрын
Ewww!
@shaynelahmed6323
Жыл бұрын
@@viciousLUA exactly...so called 'stability' by reading too much into whether a home is 'broken' is not ...don't necessarily equate..
@s.n.3571
8 ай бұрын
I made the same experience what you said. And i was saying this to friends. you are really saying the right Thing. My ex always told me all i want is a familiy and i thought ok i can give it. But i cant. She keeps a brokes Person. Now we habe one kid and a broken familiy....
@meagandekkar6377
Жыл бұрын
I’ve read the comments and I feel that Mrs. Khan’s statement might have been taken wrongly. I had a crap childhood and have been divorced twice- picked partners like my parents. Since becoming a Christian and working through the traumatic childhood junk - I’m free to meet a man who reciprocates my values.
@SvetlinaTrifonova-sl4pn
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes we work on stuff that really isn't our work to begin with ❤😅
@mysterio1570
Жыл бұрын
3 of my friends that did not live together before marriage and they are at Couple A are at 32 yrs together married for 27 this fall. Couple two 25 yrs and married for 23 yrs. Couple C 27 yrs/ Married 25 this fall. My other three friends that lived together before marriage. Couple D met in 1993/married in 96 and divorced in 2022. Couple E met in 2003. Lived together in 2004/ Married 2004/Split in 2008 and Divorced in 2009 with 2 bio kids and it was the woman’s second marriage they were both early 30’s.. No Remarriage for both so far as of 2023. Couple F met in 1988 last year of high school. Had 2 kids along the way got married in 1997 and have split up since 2018. All the kids are over 20 and the oldest turns 30 this year. One of my friends Son met his wife and lived with her. Then they got married and then they had kids and they are separated with 2 kids and the Divorce still needs to be final. My cousin lived with his wife before marriage. They had. A couple of kids and they are Divorced. One of my co workers lived with her fiancée before marriage and they did not make it to marriage. You know what I see is a problem. The Cohabbing before marriage does something to the couple. The non cohabbing seems to extend the marriages.
@shaynelahmed6323
Жыл бұрын
Research agrees with you. Cohabiters are more likely to divorce
@godwinnwaokike
Жыл бұрын
Sadia is so good!
@christophercolli7883
Жыл бұрын
Spot on!! So how does the avoidant become secure and vulnerable?
@thoughtswithamen8549
Жыл бұрын
I need an answer to this as well
@sylviahernandez6121
10 ай бұрын
Wow I feel this is accurate
@Kpleaides
11 ай бұрын
People that have suffered and healed are the greatest people amongst us........jesus christ was crucified alive, and his suffering became the worlds healer.....
@drtonimatrisa
Жыл бұрын
Really? So people who are coming from broken homes and traumatic upbringing have no chance on true love? These are really very mean stereotyping and non-evidence based banters
@user-vm9jv4lq2t
Жыл бұрын
Broken home means no love from parents because parents separated still both can give good love to thier children
@thinkinginpolitics5285
9 ай бұрын
Hello Sadia, no one chooses their childhood, what can one do if they came from a chaotic childhood in a chaotic home, to be better life patners to others, because the past cannot be changed, please advice us
@aqualust5016
7 ай бұрын
I disagree that a woman with a poor childhood seeks it as an adult. My soon-to-be ex-wife did not seek chaos, she wanted things a certain way just like I wanted things a certain way. The only chaos between us was there was a growing amount of instances where we weren't doing the same things or have the same interests. She thinks I outgrew her where all along I've patiently played the waiting game for her to grow into who she needs to be for herself and as a result what's best for the both of us. I was going to go to the very end with her if she would've with me.
@JasonWorley321
Жыл бұрын
And how about a man from a broken home. And then, how can both fulfill their brokenness to strengthen themself and end the cycle for the family?
@brendanalfo411
Жыл бұрын
This was a good podcast
@newoaknl
10 ай бұрын
Where can i get the real complete interview ?
@shamsularfin5302
Жыл бұрын
One women I have seen in my life who can speak with brain 🧠 ❤❤❤
@under_ground_
Жыл бұрын
can you be both clingy and avoidant? switch between the two?
@nandini5875
Жыл бұрын
Why are you pushing this agenda? There are so many women right now in their 20s that are working on changing their energy and subconscious. Why would this analysis be beneficial to these same women who are looking for a safe space down the road? I don't understand why there's no room for leniency for those who change their lives. A man who disrupts his home, causes pain to the daughter and you blame the daughter?
@joebloggs8422
Жыл бұрын
Strange one this, my ex was as mad as a box of frogs, her parents were exactly the same, manipulating, attention seeking, childish and lazy, she has two older sisters who are the complete opposite, both work and have beautiful homes. I always joke that I married the wrong sister
@manueloka5401
Жыл бұрын
What is the effect about dating with widow women
@derekbentley334
Жыл бұрын
Affects of women in the services on men overall.
@renevegagarcia244
Жыл бұрын
That nasty tendency some interviewers have to be so self-referential is truly unbearable. It seemed like a personal therapy session.
@nickyb8089
Жыл бұрын
This was interesting. ❤
@dhanrajmohan701
Жыл бұрын
Public comment. In any relationship between two persons needs trust and respect and care and commitment by understanding the principles of life. Questions why devorce ??
@doncoder13
Жыл бұрын
This woman contradict her self big time, she supposedly teaches woman on how to choose the right parthner plus other advices, but she doesn't know who to find a man for herself, because she has huge number of red flags for every man she meet and if one flag raises, then that's it, the guy doesn't meet her "standards", it is just pure ego and narcisim. She will turn 50 being single, lowering those standards, you will see it happening
@sadiapsychology
Жыл бұрын
Just because I rejected it doesn’t mean I’m single
@doncoder13
Жыл бұрын
@@sadiapsychology well, in one recent video, they asked if you were, you said yes, beacause you are "too complicated" or are you casual dating now? Maybe change your type, lol
@Tippy257
Жыл бұрын
She’s never said she is the perfect partner. Nobody is perfect but her observations are so refreshing, I would even say ground breaking, this new perspective will help a lot of people I’m sure.
@doncoder13
Жыл бұрын
@@Tippy257 " she is the perfect partner" She doesn't even have one
@claudiacorral4559
11 ай бұрын
So childs from broken homes are cursed to never find healthy love? besides having the curse of unhealthy parents? I dont think so! We can heal ourselves :)
@autoclearanceuk7191
11 ай бұрын
I am 57. My parents relationship turned nasty and divorced when I was age 9. I have never had a girlfriend or married. Every sexual relationship with a woman I have had was a paid one.
@japorto100
11 ай бұрын
just one question why do these videos always stop like in the middle of the interview??????????
@shehryarsethi
Жыл бұрын
Hmmm tru.
@tynubernard
Жыл бұрын
This women is teaching us things ,that she is rong dooing. She is in Dubai,way,easy money and this say everything
@Neanderthal_yardy
Жыл бұрын
It’s all word salad for me. Sadia! Childish mentality in an Adult body. Confusing love for lust. Love booming the beautiful girls and bypassing the ugly. Dating without intention or strategy. One way thinking. Divorcing with a plan to maintain a household that was carried by two income. There is too much to unpack and a majority of issues are unique to the individuals. You know what, maybe I’m over thinking it.
@gabriellacindyxoxo
Жыл бұрын
only when she dont heal . pls learn spirituality
@melindacarrillo3400
Жыл бұрын
He’s logged in my ig account 😂😩 he saw the complaint
@amonrapictures
Жыл бұрын
women down whatz up luis
@cgranny3383
Жыл бұрын
Brilliant, but I hope it doesn’t go to your head.
@nancygharib938
Жыл бұрын
You are over generalizing and judging, both are unhealthy and unfortunately you’re promoting those as facts and it could greatly harm others.
@JJ33438
Жыл бұрын
Wow this unnatractive guy, his first wife left him, and he got a new foreign honey! and he is complaining about his first wife! Look in the mirror buddy! the foreign honey is here for the us citizenship - not because you are so desirable!
@B_knows_A_R_D-xh5lo
Ай бұрын
Sadia 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@sp-leaks7935
11 ай бұрын
They're definitely not semi-trauma responses for everyone as a whole, wrong.
@reloverai6631
Жыл бұрын
I love your videos but why your videos are never complete ? 🫤
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