When I was 7 or 8, my aunt and uncle got me a white stocking cap for Christmas and I was so disappointed, because, you know, I was a little kid. My mom took me aside and looked me in the eyes and said, "Auntie and Uncle are very young (late teens) and they just got married and have a baby on the way. They gave you all they could afford and you WILL show gratitude." I've never forgotten that lesson and I'm over 50 now. I show gratitude for every gift and kindness shown to me. It makes me a lot happier and better as a human being. Thank you to anyone who reads this. ETA: I forgot to thank Charlotte. Thank you Charlotte, for years of laughter and entertainment in good times and bad.
@SourPickles8
Жыл бұрын
Thanks to your Mom for being a real one and teaching you what is right 👍
@blockhartinabox
Жыл бұрын
Attitude of gratitude! Best thing you can do for yourself and others ❤️
@dinasilva9263
Жыл бұрын
♥️i Love this comment. My mom did the same with me, and because of that since i was only a little child i learned to appreciate every gift i have no matter what it is.
@jenniferwintz2514
Жыл бұрын
@@blockhartinaboxyes! And all of my kids actually know how to write thank you notes and cards. Some traditions are valuable.
@jenniferwintz2514
Жыл бұрын
@@SourPickles8yes! Gratitude and many more good lessons that I have passed to my children.
@neilfelsbourg170
Жыл бұрын
They sent winter coats to people that live in Miami and complained about the lack of thought that went into socks and gloves sent to you in NYC? That can't be real.
@jackanapes1492
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I was baffled with that one
@nicolehegarty4749
Жыл бұрын
Omfg I didn't even think about that until I read your comment! I am dying laughing now because that IS dumb, but I am obviously super dumb too lol 😅 I cannot believe that I did not think about that before now lol I'm so dumb 😅
@jirup
Жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly. Not a coat each for when they come to visit you in NYC, but two winter coats for one person. They probably have a closet full of your uselessly expensive gifts.
@sl33pybunny
Жыл бұрын
To be fair -at night warm places can be freezing and you can die of hyperthermia
@pamhuffman4529
Жыл бұрын
@@sl33pybunnynot in Miami. High humidity holds the heat in so there is often only a small temperature change between night and day (ten degrees is common). I grew up in an area that had 50 degree temp changes between night and day before moving to a place with high humidity; it was a shock how hot the nights are. There's no relief in a heat wave.
@melindahmkhwanazi
Жыл бұрын
As a person living in a third world country, I can not IMAGINE asking for a stranger to take care of my child in THEIR house for next to nothing. That would be a good tactic for law enforcement to find pedophiles not for a normal person to find a darn babysitter.
@ellorasg4525
Жыл бұрын
Same here. Sometimes the entitlement of people really leave me dumb founded.
@YONCE8701
Жыл бұрын
😅 People's audacidy will never cease to amaze. Tbh sis, such behavior & entitlement is staggering/mindblowing/insane no matter where in the world.
@Trammiliin_nr2
Жыл бұрын
Well, I live in EU, but it I think only human trafficers and pedophiles would accept this offer… 😢
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
Жыл бұрын
I thought they were sisters… ?
@amandapate2325
Жыл бұрын
🖐️ I can relate to the sibling entitlement
@hypercube8792
Жыл бұрын
What the girl who needed the BBL THAT badly needs is therapy. I knew a girl who was obsessed with getting a BBL and when she finally got it she became self conscious that people knew and were making fun of her behind her back. If you’re self-esteem hinges on your looks you’re always going to be miserable.
@susanandrews2294
Жыл бұрын
Very well put!
@nicolehegarty4749
Жыл бұрын
That is so sad 😥
@MrBiggles53
Жыл бұрын
No, they made fun of her behind her BIG back! Sheeple these days.
@j.jtilling1722
Жыл бұрын
I'll always remember what helped me snap out of my self obsessive body hatred. Someone said the most basic thing, "You'll never be as young or pretty as you are now, so why waste that time hating yourself. You'll look back and wish for that youth again and cry about how you wasted that precious time not enjoying the body you had." I have not hated one part of myself since. It even went a long way to helping me heal emotionally and mentally as well. ❤
@inwe1205
Жыл бұрын
And if she had gone to therapy and still wanted it, she could go get it. With her own money.
@woodpigeon7776
Жыл бұрын
Back in the 90’s, someone saying you had a big butt was an insult. Trends change , can we just accept ourselves pls
@suzi_mai
Жыл бұрын
I'm Chinese, none of us have a bum.
@rachelhellman5467
Жыл бұрын
I still have body issues over this attitude. With years of insults, it is very hard to overcome this inadequate feeling. I am really trying to to create a body-acceptance attitude with my children, so they never have to feel this way.
@lotstodo
Жыл бұрын
In the 1970's, a hint of a butt was almost too much.
@pamelajohnson7813
Жыл бұрын
@@lotstodoAnd I had a friend that had a big butt back then & a tiny waist. She hated it, but the guys liked it. You never know what the style will be. Just be happy with what you were given. She was beautiful, too, so I think she won the lottery in the looks department! ❤
@astrea79
Жыл бұрын
It's cheaper to just love yourself the way you are 🤷♀️
@cutethulhu
Жыл бұрын
my grandma is like, 90, and she always gives my family the weirdest literal garbage for christmas. (broken umbrella, a pack of travel tissues, ONE non-slip hospital sock, etc). it's the HIGHLIGHT of my Christmas bc i look forward to see what random thing she found in her retirement home to give us. Literally brings me so much joy. And i will continue to get her anything she needs or asks for, or mcdonalds gift cards for her weekly coffee date with her still-living friends. It's just the fact that someone thought of you that should really matter.
@sarahvp2003
Жыл бұрын
I wish I could love this more. I have one living set of grandparents on my dad's side of the family, and I wish they would think of doing ANYTHING like this, just to show that they care.
@k.s.k.7721
Жыл бұрын
Your story reminds me of my SIL who is a very devout Christian. I'm an atheist. Every year she sends a holiday card with a poem she made up about the Baby Jesus. She's NOT a poet, but I look forward to her literary efforts and pure heart every holiday season. She's just the nicest, most loving person.
@vanessasetford-smith8074
8 ай бұрын
My Gran gave me a loaf of bread iced to look like a Christmas cake (Santa and his sleigh with little Christmas trees) and some plastic knives and forks she got with her meal on a flight to Germany. It totally made my Christmas. Hilarious.
@Katfall2012
4 ай бұрын
That is kind of funny lol, I think I'd look forward to it too
@lizzykayOT7
21 күн бұрын
That's the right idea queen!
@Shinysunlix
Жыл бұрын
0:17 the fact that the ”influencer” said ”please keep this between us” means she knew it was not a good deal for anyone else but her.
@suzi_mai
Жыл бұрын
My cat has more followers than her!
@reut0094
Жыл бұрын
Or that the venue could put her on blast on social media
@Shinysunlix
Жыл бұрын
@@reut0094 that too. Coz like.. what do you expect😂
@nicolasjoly6948
Жыл бұрын
First sentence: "I just moved here". Meaning that if she had local follower... they are not anymore and have no value for a small local business! And 3k follower... even if we take out the possibility of bots follower, it's still quite very low number. I mean, some get 1k fold this for just eating in front of the camera!
@0Onyx13
Жыл бұрын
I have over 4k followers on Twitter for some reason (I'm not famous or do anything that would attract people, just post random stuff like what I dreamt, my cat, something I saw etc), yet when there's something important to me and I ask pls rt, I rarely get even one retweet, just showing how the number means NOTHING lmao
@chucktowne
Жыл бұрын
I remember the babysitter one, they were not siblings. They didn't even know each other before this! She found the husband and told him about it and she got paid what was she was owed. The husband was appalled that his wife did that.
@skybug1706
Жыл бұрын
phew! I'd love to know how the wife explained herself to him
@inwe1205
Жыл бұрын
Oh ok, now I need to edit my reaction. I already thought it was strange that you would ask for money to babysit your own nephews/nieces.. .
@jeanams07
Жыл бұрын
@@inwe1205 If the money was agreed upon before, it should be paid regardless of relation. What if she was a much younger siblings going to school, and either could make the money babysitting or doing another job? Family doesn't owe anyone free babysitting.
@WigglesMother
Жыл бұрын
@@jeanams07Agreed. If I made arrangements with one of my sisters to watch my kids for me for a set price, I'd pay that price and not harp on family relationships to get out of paying. And in the case of them not actually being siblings in the exchange in the video, I'd still not try to get out of paying by saying my kids are easy and that "free ice cream and a day of fun" should cover it. It's still time out of the adult's day, and managing even "easy" kids can still be tiring mentally because you have to be in "responsible adult" mode pretty much the whole time.
@anonymousdonor
Жыл бұрын
@@inwe1205I thought the same!
@chriswhite4999
Жыл бұрын
As for the "girlfriend rules", if she has a good relationship with her dad, that dad would never let her date a guy like this, lol.
@1Godlovezme
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@DnDnADHDwithEllieMills
Жыл бұрын
I was super surprised Charlotte brushed over that one and called it ‘kinda fair’ - often the reasons for a woman not having a good relationship with her dad are totally out of her control and valid. He might be a substance abuser, or an alcoholic, he could have left the family when she was young, hell, he could have died!! None of these things mean a woman can’t be a great partner, why are we in 2023 still judging and punishing women for the actions of a grown adult man. Jesus, that’s some incel culture shit to brand women as tarnished and damaged due to circumstances they likely had no control over.
@MandyMayhem137
11 ай бұрын
Did anyone else realize his "10 rules list" was more like 13? The dude can't even count but he's got demands 😂🤦♀️
@damnmamaa
10 ай бұрын
@@MandyMayhem137 Hey, he ran out of fingers, what was he supposed to do? 😂
@SaravanjaSteele
Жыл бұрын
I don't have siblings, but I do have a cousin that unfriended me because he was pontificating about feminism and I argued with him, and he tried to explain it to me, and I jokingly said, "Well, now I understand what mansplaining is." He unfriended me and we've never spoken again. It's been over five years. The entire family took his side. Except for my mom. Quite frankly, we're enjoying the peace of not constantly being judged by these losers.
@lizardog
Жыл бұрын
Benjamin Frianklin nailed it (and many other things) when he said, "Fish and visitors smell after three days."
@stephenbanks5952
Жыл бұрын
Also I think that if they stay longer than that and refuse to leave then you actually need to go to the effort of evicting them. I think they get some kind of rights after three days.
@amandajingleheimerschmidt3050
Жыл бұрын
It wasn’t Ben Franklin: It’s an ancient Chinese proverb.
@16poetisa
Жыл бұрын
@@stephenbanks5952Tenant's rights usually take a few weeks at least to kick in. But IIRC, the same part of the Koran where Muhammad mentioned the infamous "women should be veiled" line, he also said that uninvited guests shouldn't overstay their welcome. It's a long-standing human problem lol.
@stephenbanks5952
Жыл бұрын
@@16poetisa I think this depends on where you are. I am sure that I have seen instances where AirBnB tenants refused to leave and people were powerless to get them out. I am sure they were there less than a few weeks.
@avg5922
Жыл бұрын
I babysat for a single mom once who claimed she was on hard times. So I watched her child for $50 a day! I was doing financially well at the time and I liked her…and then slowly and surely she started to take advantage. Disappearing for hours, claiming to be broke and then getting $300-$500 tattoos. That last straw was when I agreed to watch her kid so she could have a ‘girl’s night out.’ We agreed she’d be home by 1am since I had to be at work in the morning. I repeatedly called her when it went past that, making sure she was fine and remind her that I needed to head home but obviously I couldn’t leave an underage kid by themselves. Finally 3am roles around and she decided to call and claimed her phone died and her cord to her charger magically broke, but somehow was also magically able to call me from her car? After that I broke ties, telling her that it wasn’t going to work out and that I hope her $300 tattoos healed well. She got so mad at me she tried to spread rumors among our mutual friends that I actually neglected her kid! I confronted her and told her what I thought, about how she was clearly taking advantage of me and claimed she couldn’t pay me but paid another girl twice as much, a fact she let slip after a few weeks. That I wasn’t a chump, and her entitled a$$ needed to get a grip on reality (apparently her husband had passed a few years ago and left her a pretty substantial sum and used to buy her whatever she wanted + she works). And if she was so broke, how did she continue to live in a large, beautiful home?? Needless to say, she lost the argument.
@imsoboredhahaha
Жыл бұрын
Did you hear about the Cakegate scandal in the U.K. this month? An irrelevant soap actress asked for a bakery to provide 102 free cakes (100 cupcakes with 2 sponge cakes) for exposure… The bakery exposed her for that offer 😅
@lotstodo
Жыл бұрын
She wanted them for free? Wow.
@BrianAndresScott
Жыл бұрын
😂❤
@morriganmidnight5500
Жыл бұрын
It was her PR firm as she fired for them for it when she found out they had been asking aload of places for free stuff for alot of their clients
@TC-ku4vv
Жыл бұрын
@@morriganmidnight5500right..
@JennaGetsCreative
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say "good relationship with her dad" is "kind of fair." It's not my fault that my father is an abusive criminal.
@addictedtoprocrastination9986
Жыл бұрын
For real. Can't help it he's a cheating bastard who abandoned my mother. It's simply out of my control.
@haileybeebee97
Жыл бұрын
I think Charlotte was saying the “no smoking or vaping” was “kind of fair,” considering she said it right after reading that.
@lizzie0canada9roxya
Жыл бұрын
@@addictedtoprocrastination9986 my dad was an agoraphobic obese man who was over 600 lb and never left the basement and psychologically abused my mother and neglected us. epic dad gang!!
@spoonfulofsalt
Жыл бұрын
My dad is seriously mentally ill and refuses to get help; as a result he's cognitively a teenager and has been emotionally abusive for as long as he and my mom have been together (30 years). Sorry list bro, I'm done with countless attempts at an intervention and forgiving him no matter how he treats me 😂
@dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646
Жыл бұрын
I believe that this mentality comes from a super right-wing ideal idolizing the father-daughter relationship. Like the "her father should be her first love" kind of insanity. Charlotte probably wasn't aware of this or she was commenting on the criteria right after that part.
@shinumi85
Жыл бұрын
🖐 My sister and my brother are entitled spoiled brats and my parents allow it, they're both over 40 and act as if they're 15, the worst part is that my mom always defends my brother stating that "He's an only boy who grew up surrounded by bright capable women feeling useless, try to be nice" So... apparently being male is a dissability in my mom's eyes and that's why I need to be kind to the 45yo brat.... (I'm the youngest of 4 and I end up acting like the older sister, I'm tired of this bs)
@lisamelroy2855
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like it's time to minimize contact, if you haven't already. ❤
@melissacooper8724
Жыл бұрын
In other words, your mom never let him grow up!
@shinumi85
Жыл бұрын
I@@lisamelroy2855 I have, I don't do family reunions anymore and the only interaction I have with my brother is his daughter coming over to play with my husband, my pets and me because she's not allowed to own pets and she loves to play videogames with my husband
@alygatorstereo
Жыл бұрын
Omg I am wheezing at “apparently being male is a disability in my moms eyes” 😂 it really does seem like that’s the case here
@kathleenlindquist4799
Жыл бұрын
I guess I have been blessed. I have six sibs and not one of us tries to gain financially from another. If we visit each other, we bring food and drinks or pick up checks. We try to give gas money to my sister and her husband for taking us boating. They refuse so we will try hiding cash in her purse. Money lent is paid back. Pretty great bunch overall!
@tarajones3689
Жыл бұрын
About the last ones with a sister who didn’t pay for childcare the follow up to that was that the sister took her to small claims court and she had to end up paying her around $500 when she could’ve just paid her the 128 or even $100 and been done with it. She had to pay five times that! Now that’s karma
@bakaichigo
Жыл бұрын
The first story with the "basic gifts" from the retirees in Malibu: 1. The socks were not cheap socks, those were alpaca fur socks, meaning they were fancy soft socks that are usually a wee bit more spendy than your target basics. 2. Dreidels in the background x2! They were gifted Dreidels. Is it possible that they may be Jewish and not really celebrating the Christian gift-giving seasons? I'm only aware of the Hanukkah practices as I've seen friends and their families doing them, but my understanding as they gave it to me was that the two holidays were NOT the same in terms of gift giving, despite people likening Christmas to Hanukkah, that the 8 days of gifts are usually more practical and less expensive than the Christmas counterparts, and that it was expected that you'd be given things like gloves, socks, seasonal needs, things you can use, etc. Kids, I was told, might be given toys as well, depending on their ages. 3. Any gift is better than no gift, unless you have requested no gifts. At least they cared enough to get something!
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
I looked up those alpaca socks, looks like Pacas sell for $20 each pair, sometimes more! That's a very nice gift!
@mommysaver71
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanchexcept the parents live in Miami, FL where they will never need the jackets or socks
@sl33pw17h4ng3l5
Жыл бұрын
@@mommysaver71The socks were what the NYC couple received. Where they absolutely would be put to good use! The Sherpa jackets for Miami on the other hand, don't make any sense...
@joceery
Жыл бұрын
@@sl33pw17h4ng3l5 maybe for travelling
@xboomie590
Жыл бұрын
that last post made me remember how my own sister behaved before we stopped talking: i was babysitting my older sister's kids while she went on some overnight date with a new guy she met. At the time she had 5 kids under the age of 8, so it was difficult, especially considering the youngest wasn't even a year old. my so-called payment was "eating dinner and spend some quality time with my nephews", even though she promised to pay me actual money. I never babysat them again.
@teresahuntoon3535
Жыл бұрын
I have mixed feelings about the first story. I was certainly raised to be thankful for any gift I was given, however when you feel like someone else is just buying you generic gifts time after time, it makes me feel like they don't want to buy the gift at all. In that case I would prefer they don't buy me anything. I ran into that with my husband's family. I would try really hard to think of good gifts for them all. One year I received 4 pairs of gloves (one was a 3-pack of yarn gloves that are usually on an end-cap), 3 scarves, and 2 sets of kitchen tongs. I live in Texas so the gloves and scarves were interesting. It wasn't the cost of the items that bothered me, it was the total lack of even basic consideration for what I would like. We decided to stop exchanging gifts after than and everyone seems happier.
@sallymb6356
Жыл бұрын
@teresahuntoon3535 Same. I enjoy buying presents for people but my very good friend doesn't and the gifts she got me, like the ones you were receiving, were becoming insulting in their thoughlessness. So we agreed to stop buying each other gifts, no doubt with a private woohoo from her. All is fine.
@meisjeViv
Жыл бұрын
Agreed - of course say 'thank you' when someone gives you a gift, but if there's little thought gone into them and/or you get a bunch of stuff you'll just throw away or give on anyway, I don't really see the point... We all generally own too much stuff anyway. In my family we strictly keep to wish lists and in my friend group we give activities or wish list items to make sure we don't flood each other's lives with stuff. Sometimes I find someone a perfect gift and then I'll give it to them just because :) less pressure this way and fewer resources wasted. In company that for whatever reason isn't very good at gift giving, just go for coffee or dinner together instead!
@pleasestopscreaming
Жыл бұрын
Same. My stepmom always gets me gifts for the person she wishes I was instead of the person I actually am. I express gratitude but return almost all of them later. It definitely stings after a while, especially when other family notices!
@silververnallbells191
Жыл бұрын
I used to live in North East Texas & the gloves/scarves would be welcome.
@pattycake8272
Жыл бұрын
You have a good point there.
@rebeccacummings-nj9su
Жыл бұрын
No woman who has a good relationship with their dad would look twice at that dude 😂
@ReesieandLee
Жыл бұрын
I love practical gifts. My husband gave me a nice vacuum for Christmas I LOVE IT especially with 5 dogs 🎉 for our 35th wedding anniversary this year he bought me a power washer and a paint sprayer. And I’ve spent the summer making my yard gorgeous!! Big or little, a gift is still someone thinking about you.
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
And he got me a power washer and new garden tools last year for Mother’s Day. I told him that’s what I wanted. That’s all I wanted. I’m soooo with you.
@sandrashevel2137
Жыл бұрын
Truth.
@alexhunter5783
Жыл бұрын
I agree. There were times I asked what I wanted for Valentines Day and birthday. A vacuum cleaning and carpet shampooer is what I asked for. I got them! I also made it clear that I never want something like a pair of diamond earrings. However, I'm envious of your power washer.
@GenXfrom75
Жыл бұрын
My husband bought me a Ninja XL Air Fryer.... because he knew I'd never spend the cash on it! I love it!! 🎉
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
@@alexhunter5783 idk. I really like diamonds… but I’m much more into things I can use. I have jewelry from my moon and myself and him. I am draped in it actually, from my nose to my toes. But I appreciate a good practical gift way more.
@paulas2218
Жыл бұрын
Imagine if those parents saw the gifts they lovingly picked out on social media? That would be so sad. I think we all know how hard it is to shop for other people. HER parents should have taught her to be gracious.
@TheBaumcm
9 ай бұрын
My husband and I lived on a boat for the last decade and I had to tell his brother that if he sent us anymore large gifts that needed space or storage, we’d be buying him a giant purple sectional for their next gift. I would’ve loved everything that they were sent though. Alpaca socks are so warm and stay warm even when damp, which seems pretty thoughtful for NYC folks who can buy their own stuff, more so than Sherpa jackets for Miami folks.
@gm-xc5hl
Жыл бұрын
People in my house fight over socks, especially those fuzzy ones in the winter. I am not ashamed to say I once chased down my teen daughter in order to take back MY socks which she stole! She’s a 9 and I’m a size 7, and she stretches them out!
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
I looked up the brand of socks they got, they are Pacas, a premium brand made from alpaca fiber that retails for $20 or more, EACH! I'd be so happy just to get one pair of those wonderfully warm, soft socks!
@gm-xc5hl
Жыл бұрын
Amen!@@LazyIRanch
@Frecks-n-Specks
Жыл бұрын
Yes! My son loves the fuzzy thick socks to sleep in during the winter but is embarrassed to buy them. Every fricken year it's a fight. I thought when he got his own place it'd stop but nope. You bet every pair I buy is super girly girl 😂
@jaypee5633
Жыл бұрын
My daughter took care of my niece's kids once and they never paid her. To keep the peace, I gave my daughter the money but she never ever ever babysat ever never again. When asked, she'd just say "you still owe me from last time".
@pattycake8272
Жыл бұрын
I had a mother-in-law who love to shop at the Goodwill store she bought a lot of stuff and we would get it for Christmas, she would tell us the price she got it for and how much it was originally worth. She was so happy with herself. It would be stuff related to things we liked so that was a plus.
@colorcutie97
Жыл бұрын
As someone who also loves to brag when I get a good deal I love this 😂 the main thing is that she went looking for stuff for each person that they do need/want. I think in most of these cases it’s not really what you spent but the fact that you put thought into getting someone something instead of just picking a random item.
@boombita
Жыл бұрын
I’m French and my boyfriend is Finnish the first Christmas I traveled to see him I offered him a super cheap bottle opener in wine bottle shape. He’s the kind of person that only have useful things and I’ll never forget how happy he was I get him something useful and small. Average temperature in winter where he is is -25C and he got me good gloves I was so happy too ❤ intentions is way stronger than size or price of a gift
@norabunyard5798
Жыл бұрын
🤚🤚 I raised 2 hands due to 2 siblings. I was an aunt at 9yrs old. I started watching my nephew at about 13. At 15 came twin nephews from same sib & a niece from another. It was expected that I would watch these kids for no pay because "family." The nieces parents divorced & bro remarried. She had a kid & they had one together. Again, more "family." Then, at 28, I had a child. No one could be bothered to watch him. Bro's wife said she would for X amount of money. Screw her. I found someone I actually liked to care for my child.
@davidmccurdy8911
Жыл бұрын
The one about the Sister wanting to visit reminds me of the Franklin quote " guests, like fish, begin to smell after three days"
@taylorjorgenson7230
Жыл бұрын
My stepdads aunt died some years ago. When she was alive she would give us a $2 bill every Christmas. We were so excited when we got it. She was a very sweet lady. Also my wife's brother and sister-in-law would take away our nephew's presents away if they complained. Be grateful for what you get from someone, no matter how small because one day they won't be there. It's the thought that counts has been dragged through the mire and trampled on. We take life for granted on a daily basis.
@nathmartins3154
Жыл бұрын
9:32 Here in Brazil, it is a thing, I wore a lot of my cousin's old clothes, that would then be passed onto my younger cousin (sister of the one that gave me the clothes in the first place, so a lot of things would just end up returning to their house)😂 It's a way to avoid spending so much money on clothes because kids grow up super fast. But I've NEVER seen someone upset about not getting clothes, everyone kinda recognizes it's an act of kindness and not something people are required to do
@jameshopkins503
Жыл бұрын
I can't stand people who give favors or love or gifts with stipulations that you somehow all them something now. That totally negates the thought behind the gift or the love or the favor.
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
True generosity comes from a quiet calmness deep in the heart. If you’re truly a generous person, then you will be kind and generous without making a fuss and without feeling something is owed. Do things for the sake of being a nice and good person. Without bragging. It does the heart and soul sooo good.
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
I'm SMH at the couple from NYC who are complaining about the "lousy" gifts they get from inlaws in Florida, even though they sent the inlaws something they won't use unless they travel somewhere cold. I don't think sherpa coats are much of a need in Florida!🙄
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanch 😆 😂
@weirdoscorner1917
Жыл бұрын
Any gift I’ve gotten whether it’s socks, a blanket or even a tumble my grandma made I’m always grateful. I’m not picky about my gifts. When my family asks what I want I just say socks cause I love socks. Last year for Christmas my aunt got me this amazing sock calendar that was Nightmare before Christmas themed. She knew I was so happy about that Edit: I will say thank you Charlotte for making me laugh 🩷
@bettyveronica9880
Жыл бұрын
Charlotte, I too am bootyless. Once, at a coffeehouse, I ordered “My signature white woman latte” and the barista looked a little puzzled. I said “A flat white” 😆 we both had a good laugh 😂😂😂. ☕️ Disclaimer: I’m white
@CharlotteDobre
Жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHA
@misfit1395
Жыл бұрын
Same 😢😂
@creativia6639
Жыл бұрын
Betty, I am on the other end of the spectrum, I have a small but round butt, but at the ripe age of 32 I still often have to buy kids bras, because they don't often make A-cup bras in the adult section. 🤷🏻♀ I could "get it fixed", and when I was 18 I even started saving up for a boob job, but luckily I never followed trough. A decade later I live my life without back pain, it's great 😁👌
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
I can relate! In high school, one of my mean girl bullies called me the "buttless wonder". I agreed that I have no-ass-at-all, while some people are ALL "ass".
@paulas2218
Жыл бұрын
@@creativia6639girl, isn’t it hard to find A cup bras?? I have a wide rib cage so that makes it worse. I found a Co called Pepper, but the wire still hits me wrong. 🤷🏼♀️
@condar419
Жыл бұрын
Last story about sister who wouldn't pay her sis for babysitting. I think people need to be more proactive about suing in Small Claims Court. It's not that big a deal to do so, usually a minimal fee and it's likely to force a settlement really fast before the person being sued has to go to court... and hire a babysitter to do so LOL. Plus, just the embarrassment when younger sib puts the texts up on social media and talks about suing. People, SMC exists for exactly this kind of thing! Do it!
@evilminionnumber2
Жыл бұрын
That BBL post always highlights how comfortable people are about surgery anymore. It throws me off because sooo much can go wrong with a surgery. They can give you the wrong operation, you can be allergic to the anesthetic, you can get side effects, you can get infections and diseases from previous patents when you visit a hospital... all of that because you're a little insecure about your booty.
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
I agree. My 79 year old sister had major surgery on her spine that she needed to keep her from becoming paralyzed. Our mom had the same surgery 25 years ago, and it was a long hard recovery so I've been worried sick about my oldest sister. Mom spent over a month in a rehab hospital, but my sister didn't go to rehab because she has no one to care for her diabetic cat. Last week a neighbor went to check on her when she didn't answer her phone. My sister was unconscious on the floor, unable to speak. Now she's in the ICU with pneumonia and isn't doing well. Her daughter made an emergency trip from Germany to come be with her mother and take care of Sammy, her beloved big orange cat. I can't stop crying, knowing that the last time I talked to my sister, 2 weeks ago, may truly be the last time I ever get to talk to my sister.😭 I can't imagine having dangerous surgery just to get a big fake butt!
@evilminionnumber2
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanch I'm so sorry to hear, that's terrible to have to go through. :(
@jill7759
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanchAny surgery comes with risk especially if it’s going to involve General anaesthesia. Many factors are going to play into your specific risk. Even if every single thing goes well and with the best surgeons there will be those risks. BBLs are not done by most Plastic Surgeons in North America of any integrity. They are the single most dangerous procedure in that specialty area both for fatality and for permanent and disfiguring complications. No one should be putting themselves in that kind of peril for a bigger backside.
@doratavano3983
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanch I am so sorry to hear that news about your sister!! I hope she gets better!!
@vggeek13
Жыл бұрын
It's like the stories about people thinking the worst part of childbirth is getting their pre pregnancy body back when the worst case scenario is death, mom and baby die.
@Just1Nora
Жыл бұрын
As someone on a low fixed income I can say that Christmas is difficult, and the NYC daughter in law probably never even bothers to talk to them. Let me say something that people seem to forget...a GIFT is something given out of the goodness of one's heart and one should never EXPECT to get a gift in return. That's not a gift but a barter. I've seen so many people who send lavish gifts with the expectation that the recipient will shower them with gratitude and praise for being so charitable. That way their friends et al will also talk about how great they are for being so kind. They're not being kind if they have an attitude like that woman. What they want out of the exchange as much as physical gifts is the emotional boost from being, "such good people!" This behavior gives me so much ick.
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
2.00 an hour isn’t enough to pay someone. Ever. Especially in this economy. If you’re too poor to work then it’s time to start looking at different avenues and getting social workers to help. There’s lots of assistance for people out there. And even if you make just barely too much, a good worker will do anything they can for their clients. Just saying. My moms a social worker and it’s her job to do all this. Very rarely is she not able to connect services due to pay. Especially right now.
@SRH71325
Жыл бұрын
If you do the math, it’s actually 65 cents per hour smh. Some people are just insane
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
@@SRH71325 I just did quick math of 50 divided by 100. As I just did a basic 10 hour day. So I appreciate you helping me with it. I do have severe dyscalculia (dyslexia for numbers), and brain damage. Tysm and that’s even worse and insane than my 2.00. Shame on some people for even having the audacity to ask others of that.
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
@@SRH71325 and I’m the one with brain damage….
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
Жыл бұрын
Please give your mom an extra hug? The world needs more social workers like her. She wouldn’t happen to be in or near the nw of the states, would she?
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
@@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose We are in Iowa. She runs a homeless shelter for women and children. If she didn’t like being hugged I would. But I often go to her house and work on her yard and house and make her good food. Because that’s her love language. I always try to be a good daughter. And give her extra love where I can.
@sarahwharton2732
Жыл бұрын
So this isn’t about the video necessarily but I didn’t realize you had 5 million followers!! That is so cool and something to be very proud of. It feels good to seeing good people do well in life 🤗
@emmeau
Жыл бұрын
5 million on KZitem ? I was looking at her KZitem followers but don’t see 5 million 😅
@lizava666
Жыл бұрын
Yeah me neither i have no clue where she gets the 5 million number from, on her insta she has 282k so im a little confused🤣
@ellorasg4525
Жыл бұрын
As Albus Dumbledore once said: No one can have enough socks.
@LazyIRanch
Жыл бұрын
Also, those are some premium socks! I looked up that brand, Pacas, which are made from alpaca wool which is very soft and warm. They retail for about $20 each, so just those socks alone are worth about $120. I'd be ecstatic to get such a nice gift!
@ellorasg4525
Жыл бұрын
@@LazyIRanch OMG you are right. I checked too, after you pointed it out. OP is entitled isn't she?
@zodarian6705
Жыл бұрын
You gave Dobby a sock!
@katiecochran3224
Жыл бұрын
That is a quality that i absolutely love about my 9 year old daughter. She seems genuinely excited and is very grateful for every gift she is given. I love watching her and the nieces and nephews at Christmas. Grateful kids are fun!
@lissamcd
Жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD! that last story happened to me!!! I watched my sisters house and untrained 3 dogs and 2 cats for a week while her rich boyfriend took her to Ireland for her birthday. Me (having a part time job and attending full time college) I could only go once in the morning and once at night. she told me she would pay me a "couple hundo" but only ended up giving me 60$ to put gas in her car that I was using. (to get back and forth from her house to mine) when she got home all I got was a complaint that the house smelled like pee (since her dogs were not house trained) I did a lot of spot cleaning. I haven't talked to her since.
@lisa-shitsakwibjnie
Жыл бұрын
I especially love fuzzy socks. One of my favorite gifts ever.
@JoseSortaRican
Жыл бұрын
Here I am a Disabled Single Father struggling for legitimate help to unforeseen medical/life issues, and people trying to raise for a butt lift and expect it. Then to have trolls and such hammer me more-so than people like this. Oh The Humanity. Thanks for always high lighting the AUDACITY!
@azrael5839
Жыл бұрын
I hope things get easier for you, I'm sure your kid(s) will/do appreciate you deeply for your efforts
@kirashields7383
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I'm tryna teach my idiot brother. He's now 20yo, but tried starting a go fund me a year or two ago bc he wanted a new expensive bike and didn't want to save for it 😒 then got mad bc I told him to take it down, that he could save for it, and he has everything he could want, despite us barely getting by, but people don't have the money to be giving to his spoiled ass bc he don't wanna save, and people are not going to give him their earned and needed money just bc he wants something. yes he's the one everyone says "he's just a boy" and let him get away with a shit ton of crap, put us through a shit ton, disrespects me and my mum a ton, etc. I'd be here for days explaining. He always wants drinks, my mum gets him bottles of juice and pop and such, he drinks them all, then starts asking me for mine and gets mad when I say no and to pay for his own. He expects everyone to give him what he wants and that's not how life works. I also don't help my mum out both financially and other, for him to waste electricity, water, etc bc he can't be arsed to put the plug in the sink and fill it or open his curtains instead of turning his light on (the bulb changes colour so he always putting it on). Tryna explain to him that there is people struggling, including us, and we can not, and will not, give him our money or food or stuff bc he's greedy. I'm so sorry you're in that situation, I see you're from the US? Makes the situation so much harder, I'm from England, hard enough atm, but having medical issues and such, and being in the US, sounds incredibly difficult. I really hope it gets better for you soon. 😢❤
@user-blob
Жыл бұрын
So you insisted on breeding when you live in a country with no social health care? Not smart!
@dustinriley8059
Жыл бұрын
You're just not asking for the right thing. If you tell people you're a single dad that needs money for medical bills and to help your kid, they won't care. You need to let them know you plan on spending the money on drugs and high dollar hookers.
@JoseSortaRican
Жыл бұрын
@@azrael5839 Truly Thank you for your words. Not easy in todays society as a Man, let alone Father, to humble myself, being judged, for my son's sake in even asking for help for life things to be at floating. Even had "expectant" people I know offer "help" with a price automatically. Despite all that, I am at least still trying whatever I can for my son. Not a butt lift or what I want than whats needed. SMH at people.
@toecutterjones
Жыл бұрын
The people with absolutely nothing to offer another person are always the ones with a list of dating requirements.
@Sansy.
Жыл бұрын
NOT THE 🍑 LIFT LMAOOOOOO Like "Please donate I got no cake at all"
@hiding007
Жыл бұрын
What's a peach lift?? 🤔🤔
@animetsystudio9841
Жыл бұрын
How sad she don't have Butt 🤣
@missamanda2703
Жыл бұрын
I look like fucking Peggy Hill from behind.
@AngelJuliet
Жыл бұрын
@@hiding007their using the 🍑 peach symbol in use for the butt because it kind of looks like a butt
@hiding007
Жыл бұрын
@@AngelJuliet oh, that makes sense then haha
@aprilporter6092
Жыл бұрын
I am So Happy my sister and I are great friends. She lived with me for almost a year after moving from across the country... in a 1 bedroom, no less. Now she has a place on Vancouver Island and I go over for a few Weeks at a time. She's the Best!
@Mercadian
Жыл бұрын
I think the worst victimisations my younger (by 2 years) sister's ever done to me are: 1. As a kid, chased me around the house with a kitchen knife because I didn't want to cook her lunch. 2. As a teenager, ripped a bunch of my novels and comics to shreds and claimed I did it myself to my mom (who didn't believe her because I cried when I accidentally dog-eared a book) because I wouldn't help her look for the TV remote control. 3. As an adult, asked if I wanted garlic bread as an after dinner snack at my older sister's place, and when I said no, went on and on about how I never let her do anything nice, but after I finally said yes, complained to my partner and my mother that I was always making her do things she didn't want to do. They were both around when the initial conversation happened, and when they sided with me, she said that they were biased. My older sister then spent an hour laying out how, as the middle child, I was the most overlooked growing up since my single mom had to deal with my older sister's teen pregnancy and child, and my younger sister's tantrums while I usually hid in my room, and managed to get her to apologise. It's been years since number 3, and now we're finally on decent terms after she apologised and realised what a shit she'd been.
@taytehwolf
Жыл бұрын
After my nana and papa passed a majority of my moms side of the family disowned us. Best part is when her half siblings asked to have a share in the inheritance when they got everything from their dad(they were only related to my nana, momma is blood related to both my nana and papa thus she got the full inheritance) never helped us clear out the house AND my dad even came to help even though my parents were no longer together! Goes to show whose your real family.
@lilycollegemythbusters5532
Жыл бұрын
I am the 4th of 5 children. My two older sisters came for a 2-week visit this summer without even asking if I had any vacation days. LOL! They stayed at my place, which I just moved into so I had to rush to buy an air mattress, towels, silverware, all that junk for my guests. I am 49 years old. It never ends. LOL!
@daisy9910
Жыл бұрын
But you allowed them into your home. If you don't want to be taken advantage of, say no.
@Sweetpea8412
Жыл бұрын
Love that dude captioned his post "10 Rules I have for my Girlfriend" but then went on to list like 25 😂
@jewels964
Жыл бұрын
My sister was a mini mom. She was so bossy and controlling and manipulative just like Mom ...it was so fun growing up with 2 mom's lol
@jillmortlock8439
Жыл бұрын
Ditto. Haven't spoken to her in 20plus years.
@jewels964
Жыл бұрын
@@jillmortlock8439 ditched my dad for 20 years. He was an alcoholic. Recently reconnected he has quit drinking ..so far is ok but bad habit def die hard lol
@lindybrockington4539
Жыл бұрын
All those gifts the entitled couple received look fabulous!! Send them on me, my feet are always cold, even in the Arizona desert!! Pacas...those are REALLY nice socks too and not cheap!!
@Joeyp1208
Жыл бұрын
You know you've grown up the moment you are happy when you get socks as a gift. I got some socks with little red robins on them from my mom a few weeks back. Super happy with them! And even my physiotherapist complimented me on my cool socks
@16poetisa
Жыл бұрын
My favorite holiday gifts from extended family are usually in the box of regional specialty foods and homemade knit wear that my aunt sends. Everyone picks one or two things they like, and most of it is stuff all of us can use anyway, like the eco-friendly kitchen cleaning items or pure high-grade Vermont maple syrup. Last Christmas I claimed the all-purpose potato spice mix that she must have gotten at some local dry goods store up in New England. It's delicious, I think about her every time I use it, and it probably cost her ten bucks. This is probably the strategy I'll use when I'm older.
@AliceNsWonderland
Жыл бұрын
6:04 Silly Charlotte! He doesn't want a self-respecting woman, remember!?! He wants someone who does not respect themselves so he can manipulate her!
@lisamelroy2855
Жыл бұрын
Nailed it!!!
@suzi_mai
Жыл бұрын
Sounds kinda like he wants a child, not a woman. Groomer vibe there.
@AliceNsWonderland
Жыл бұрын
@@lisamelroy2855 sadly, I was that girl when I was a teenager/early 20's... I pretty much went out w anyone who asked bc I didn't know I had a choice bc I didn't think I had value. I felt lucky to be liked by anyone; so of course I didn't demand they treat me well. I've been single for about 12yrs now bc I would rather be alone than be in a bad relationship. I hope I find a good person someday but I'm not going to force ANYTHING!!!
@lisamelroy2855
Жыл бұрын
@NiQole-akaDivaQ Same, girl. It's like the scene from Some Kind of Wonderful: I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones. I hope you realize now that you *do* have value and you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy, and who you make happy. ❤️❤️❤️
@AliceNsWonderland
Жыл бұрын
@@lisamelroy2855 😘😘😘 I do and I am! I traded my ex in for a bulldog and that was THE BEST decision I've ever made! Penelope and I are VERY happy together! 🤣 I've never seen Some Kind of Wonderful... I'm adding it to my list right now! You rock, my dear! Like, the shiny diamond kind 💎 😘
@maef7026
Жыл бұрын
6:31 don't let that person into your house at all! They will be like "I've already stayed for three days so what's the difference a couple more."
@stevnated
Жыл бұрын
I was also born without a butt, and I feel compelled to comment that not everybody can just work out and magically get one. You can make it harder and firmer but it will still be flat for some people! :) Love you Charlotte, sorry for this "what about" comment!!!!!!!!!!!! You just keep reacting; don't worry about all of us and our differing opinions and anecdotes!
@TheBaumcm
9 ай бұрын
As someone with weak glute syndrome, who is slowly building size and strength, I can guarantee you that if you do it right, you can indeed grow that booty, and it is not magically. It might take you longer, it might never be as big as you’d like, but it won’t be flat. It takes work, eating enough protein to build, figuring out how to trigger the muscles, figuring out the correct form and weight to build, and isolate, and doing it consistently.
@terranbishop5549
Жыл бұрын
I love to get socks as a gift! Practical and fun! At work, we have sock exchanges where you pick a name and either buy, or give that person a favorite pair of socks. I loved it.😊
@genevievefitzgerald4262
Жыл бұрын
My cousin did that babysitting crap to me and she literally still owes me $120 like fofteen years later! We have since gotten past the fight but yeah it was a legit thing for a long time! Then she wanted me to babysit for her again like years later! I was like ma'am.... Cash up front only bc you still owe me hella cash frok before! I was preggers when i started babysitting for her to begin with and trying to earn extra cash for my upcoming bby after i got put on bedrest....
@JMcMillen
Жыл бұрын
These days if you have a text message conversation about it, you could probably take them to small claims court and sue for the owed money plus court costs. Either that or you just post the texts where everyone else in the family can see them and see what kind of person they really are.
@genevievefitzgerald4262
Жыл бұрын
@@JMcMillen everybody did know about it it just got brushed under the rug as usual.... That's typically how my family works
@dustinriley8059
Жыл бұрын
I don't break ties with family members or friends that owe me money, but they will never receive a birthday or holiday gift from me again until we are financially square.
@genevievefitzgerald4262
Жыл бұрын
@@dustinriley8059 oh I don't cut ties either! I have a deep loyalty to my family! It's disturbing how loyal I am to them when they never return said loyalty but hey it's all good! Good karma builds up the same as bad karma does!
@JMcMillen
Жыл бұрын
@genevievefitzgerald4262 Not in my family. We don't easily forget, and you will have to earn your forgiveness.
@carissalynnftw
Жыл бұрын
The gifts from the Floridian parents are awesome! Those alpaca socks are fantastic. What were they expecting? Some Tiffany jewelry? Sheesh.
@justhearmeout3959
Жыл бұрын
"please keep this between us" Posts to the internet 😂😂😂😂😂
@desert_holly
Жыл бұрын
Holy chit, the guy at 5:45 is UNGINGED!!! I hope no one read that and thought, "Oh finally, MY SOULMATE!!". Actually 😂 i hope someone attempted and just utterly destroyed HIS hopes and dreams for a woman 🤣🤣🤣 We all love you Charlotte!! ❤
@SoManyRandomRamblings
Жыл бұрын
The 2nd story: how does that OP not see?!?!?!? 🤣🤣 so, OP sent some of the warmest jackets known, to people who live full time in MIAMI FLORIDA. And i bet this isn't the first time OP has been this thoughtless. My money is on the in-laws sent her those things to specifically make a point about OP's gifting tendencies.
@SoManyRandomRamblings
Жыл бұрын
And anyone who knows a woman knows that she isn't changing her skin care routine, if the in-laws didn't ask for it to be brought back, then OP was thoughtless.
@DogMechanic
Жыл бұрын
Yeaaaah, kinda comes off like OP sent those expensive gifts because they're something they'd like to get, rather than something they thought the in-laws would like. Also, if you're only sending gifts because you think you'll get something good back, then that's bad behavior, and Krampus will come for you.
@SoManyRandomRamblings
Жыл бұрын
@@DogMechanic exactly. So....are you a dog who is also a mechanic or do you do mechanical work on dogs(vet)? Lol.
@DogMechanic
Жыл бұрын
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Haha. Closer to the latter. Could call me a dog therapist. Used to run a rescue for sick, emaciated, and unsocialized dogs, getting them through rehabilitation for adoption.
@elizabethwang7408
Жыл бұрын
Socks are a TRADITION in our family. No matter how old we get, we all get each other these things: socks, blankets, some sort of moisturizer. Yes, even the boys. Traditional stocking stuffers include: a tangerine, a box of tea, chocolate coins or (now that each of us make our own money) Lindt lindor truffles. ALWAYS look forward to socks and a new blanket with a cup of tea for the next month.
@what_equals_42
Жыл бұрын
It's always nice to be reminded of what I would never want to be, and all the reasons I've blocked the crazies in my life. Keep it up, Charlotte! 😊
@TheDisneylover23
Жыл бұрын
Wow! My sisters and I regularly help each other if we are short. It’s what siblings do!!
@tammylane9453
Жыл бұрын
Love you so much , you have saved me and have kept me going my mother passed away last Sept .and when I feel like giving up there you are so thank you
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
Awe. I’m so sad for your loss my bestie. I couldn’t imagine how you are doing with that. My granny passed and she raised me for the most part, so we were really really close, but I couldn’t imagine losing my momma. Lmk if you need a shoulder. I’m rooting for ya and so is the rest of us. I just know it. Stay strong bestie, and keep finding the joy and sunshine in life. I am sure mom would want you to be happy.
@NotSorry97
Жыл бұрын
The post about getting a BBL is wild. They basically admitted to being obsessed with their friend’s new bottom. 😂😂😂
@AnastasiaAisling
Жыл бұрын
Interesting to see such a difference in mindset. Where I am from, people really do pass the clothes down (especially if someone is having a baby soon). And it's not just the clothes - same goes for bassinets, strollers, toys in good condition and other baby stuff. And we also don't ask 16$/h to babysit relatives' children. It's one thing to ask for financial help with textbooks in return and completely the other "hey I'll look after my nephews only of you pay me".
@dominikakratochvil860
Жыл бұрын
I swear, entitled mothers are like “Nobody pays me to take care for MY child, so be happy you get anything to babysit for me.” 😂 Also 🤚
@AngelinaKoepke
2 ай бұрын
I swear I would rather listen to you read these stories then spend hours on tiktok watching them myself 😁 the way you are articulate when you're reading is so hilarious to me!!!
@nyneeveanya8861
Жыл бұрын
A retired dentist and retired pharmacist. Both made decent money but not tons. Did they help with Dr. Schooling on those incomes. Being retired now means a limited budget that is way less than what they had while working. Husband is right for saying Thankyou no matter what the gift. Wife is the type who gives expensive gifts to show off not from love and expects expensive gifts in return. Kudos to the son and raspberries to the DIL.
@katw22
Жыл бұрын
Seriously that lady wanted someone to babysit for a week for only $100?!?! I just paid my dog sitter $100 to watch my puppy and cat for 5 hours
@bruskydu
10 ай бұрын
12 hours a day too😂
@whitelily1122
Жыл бұрын
I love the fact that people really think that “exposer” or some other Bad deal is good enough to get them free stuff when in the end they are too entitled to just get it themselves and not get it for free like that’s how the world works-
@jennyfromtheblackbloc9832
Жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for weeks for that influencer post to make it here. Thank you team!
@DivaViews
Жыл бұрын
Editor-san was in her bag with this video! Especially the text conversations, haha!
@iri02802
Жыл бұрын
The sarcasm of oh no not the chance to spend time with you was amazing 😂
@Unicorn021
Жыл бұрын
✋🏼 I cannot tell you of how many times ive been victimized by my sisters, it's terrible
@what_equals_42
Жыл бұрын
I've got one of those. Every time I asserted my boundaries, she disregarded them. We don't talk very often now. If your sisters don't treat you well, it might be time to set up boundaries, so they can't use you anymore. The sad truth is that some people get great sisters, and some get entitled buttheads, and unfortunately we don't get to choose which we get. 😓
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
Second youngest of 15. Tell me bout it. Lmao
@Unicorn021
Жыл бұрын
@@what_equals_42 don't worry, I have setted boundaries and not all of my sister's are like that anymore, except for one
@MinastaurielLithoniel2713
8 ай бұрын
My sister, sister in law, and I all do that thing with the baby clothes. SIL has 4 girls and a son, I have two boys, Sis has 1 each. When our kids outgrow clothes, they get passed on to the next mother with kids going into that size. We basically recycle them. But none of us expects the others to give them. We offer them freely cause it makes it easier on the other parents and I don't have to store the clothes "just in case I have more kids". It's a win win for all of us, but AGAIN not expected or required at all.
@dinasilva9263
Жыл бұрын
The way Charlotte read the first story made my day. Charlotte is the best. The end. 😂♥️👑
@erikarussell1142
Жыл бұрын
Point. Blank. PERIOD!!!! ❤❤❤
@juloxia
Жыл бұрын
It was a big thing in my family to do hand-me-downs for baby clothes and baby/little kid toys that were still in good condition. I LOVED playing with this Thomas the Train wooden toy set that was this huge table and tracks and trains, and we just finally gave it away to my nephew who's turning 1 soon (for context, I'm 21, i had 2 younger siblings who also played with it and then it got hidden while basment renovations were being done). With that said, it's completely fine if you're not comfy or okay with doing the whole hand-me-down thing for whatever reason that may be, as I'm sure others like the OP in that post re-using the clothes have other reasons or uses for it
@dinasilva9263
Жыл бұрын
Omg Charlotte looks so cute. 😌♥️ I swear, i love her style and dedication to this Channel. Charlotte is our treasure.
@Carla-ns8rx
Жыл бұрын
In my country Uruguay it´s quite common to pass down baby clothe´s cribs and all baby stuff to your siblings or cousins or even best friends. You use it with your baby and when you dont need it any more you return it. And if they are expecting again you offer to lend them the stuff you own. When my first one was born, we recived a lot of stuff from my sister and my sister in law . Then a bunch of presents for the newborn from friends and family ( it´s a tradition) so we only ended up needing bottles and pacifiers and diapers. Its a quite cost efficient practice since most of the baby stuff it´s only usefull for a few months... ( and quite expensive)
@hollyofhori
Жыл бұрын
Who else is loving Charlotte's wide headband era? She honestly looks stunning is casual looks.
@dinasilva9263
Жыл бұрын
♥️i Love it, looks amazing on her.
@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
Жыл бұрын
Charlotte is gorgeous *and* made of magic, thus anything put upon her body absolutely slays ❤
@anneanderson145
Жыл бұрын
She’s got style. I love her wardrobe.
@L4O2V0E
Жыл бұрын
For a mother that has done repurposing clothes. It's something sweet to have. If everyone is okay with it. But not every, thing ... It's something cute to have them save so you can show them after the years (6) of you guys shared this 1 onsie. Newborn. But it was absolutely adorable and I loved every moment
@23Animegod
Жыл бұрын
Her 3k followers dropped to zero after she posted that entitled shit to Instagram lol
@TheSnowdogsShorts
Жыл бұрын
I know one brother who asked another brother to instal a bathroom and heating system in his new house. The brother agreed to do this for cost, which came to 10k. The 3 weeks of labour he provided at no change. When it came to paying the bill, the brother said that it was too expensive, and refused to pay anything. There is an old saying, “when working for family and friends, quote double your normal price.“
@PeanutsMommy
Жыл бұрын
I would LOVE to see a picture of the guy who has "10 rules for his girlfriends." What on Earth is HE bringing to the table that would attract ANY woman enough to actually agree to "follow" those rules. I would be willing to bet that the answer is NOTHING!
@suzi_mai
Жыл бұрын
I bet he's bald and overweight, unemployed alcoholic.
@lotstodo
Жыл бұрын
He sounds like the kind of guy women should avoid.
@jjones7500
Жыл бұрын
My first in-laws got me a bag of socks from Wal-Mart, trying to send me a message. Ha! I love New socks, I was so happy. They were not,lol. My hubby, with his head hanging low, that no I wasn't kidding. One of my fave memories 🌞
@FelixvonMontfort
Жыл бұрын
I hope we are the same anti-depressant for you as you are for us 🥰
@CharlotteDobre
Жыл бұрын
yes you are my dear.
@MikayeYakovlev
Жыл бұрын
The thing about staying over, I literally don't mind my fave cousin staying for however long she likes at mine. And, she always invites me for like 2-3 weeks to stay at hers (we live in different countries). Plus, we have no issue traveling together for prolonged periods of time. Same with my best friends. But, like not some random relative I barely know.
@mariehough6600
Жыл бұрын
People’s entitlement these days blow my mind - asking strangers to donate money so you can get a butt lift…Geez. You need $, get a job, if you already have a job get another one. And for not paying your babysitter ( sister or not ) may I suggest staying at home and watching your own kids. Even if you took them to daycare, you’d still have to pay.
@jessicaholscher4097
Жыл бұрын
2:18 now that i'm an adult, i love getting "crappy" gifts like socks and random household things so i don't have to buy them. it's like a double present. "here is something, and now you don't have to buy this." it's better than some random decore or clothing that is just going to add more stuff to my overly stuffed house.
@fluffypenguin347
Жыл бұрын
You find the best-entitled people that make my day a little better 😊❤
@phtevenj
Жыл бұрын
actually me and my siblings get along SUPER well... i feel so blessed with great family
@Chelsea_Mom
Жыл бұрын
I will ONLY be confident if I beg the internet for money to make me FEEL PRETTY. Why won’t anyone oblige?! The entitlement of these made me eat my bacon way too quickly. Stress eating.
@LieutenantSheep
Жыл бұрын
Lol it’s kind of fishing for compliments too. Everyone in the comments is expected to be like “you don’t need it! You’re perfect!”
@myrabeth77
Жыл бұрын
I watched this vid while eating a BLT, so your bacon comment threw me. There was a brief flash in my brain of "did I write this?" before my senses caught up. :P
@magpi1300
Жыл бұрын
Im not entitled to a gift. Im excited to receive something, but what i love more is seeing others getting gift. I get so excited about someone else opening gifts. Even of i get something i don't particularly like i say thank you. I don't complain.
@MsMeffie
Жыл бұрын
Four days with family members? I think I could last much longer with my dad, but the rest of them, one day is the maximum. XD Also, the 'they are easy kids' argument sends me because I'm like, 'you better hope they never decide to pay teachers and babysitters based on how easy kids are, because you're going to pay them WAY MORE'.
@ardenchaplin5389
Жыл бұрын
My friends mum would often advertise looking for the cheapest babysitter possible. It was only ever someone that had something to gain that would take that job and I’m sure you get what I mean. It sucks when you can’t afford a sitter but it’s so so dangerous to pay someone to have access to your kids especially outside your home. You can’t control the environment, food or activities so you’re way more as risk. I definitely remember the “we don’t have any toys here so why don’t we play a game together” conversations. Don’t do that to your kids
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