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@jullietwanjiku2683
3 жыл бұрын
Kindly post link ya the interview ya Benjamin Zulu ya this Wednesday...I wouldn't mind listening to it over a 100 times
@scolla81
3 жыл бұрын
Bravo to all responsible first born may your pocket never dry up.
@linuhsdgt4453
3 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen
@evawangari2417
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@joycewan5106
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@patriciaraymond3923
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen Ameen to that I have received IJN 🙏🤝
@pruddyt8645
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@zubodospectacular8598
3 жыл бұрын
When you are the first born cough cough
@deefarmtotheworld9856
3 жыл бұрын
My fellow firstborns mko wapi,🤗🤗
@odilambinya1509
3 жыл бұрын
Sisi hawa
@elizabethmuhuga9512
3 жыл бұрын
Hapa
@ndagirecynthia7952
3 жыл бұрын
😂💯
@misslinnah3772
3 жыл бұрын
Hapa its really hard
@morineakinyi1116
3 жыл бұрын
Tuko hapa
@Eva-bb5ef
3 жыл бұрын
Imagn it's TRUE,being a first born I learnt how to focus very early and plan ,I compleated my uni by 22 and by 23 I found my way to go abroad,got a job and started a new life ,I am the one who carries all my whole family everyone looks upto me,I care for them aki firstborn mungu awabariki the sacrifices we make .
@blessedlady2741
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@dianaoliver9655
8 ай бұрын
Hello Eva
@Miss_Greatness
3 жыл бұрын
Being a first born is not easy, you have to take care of everyone including parents. It can be overwhelming sometimes
@linuhsdgt4453
3 жыл бұрын
True
@princessshamim6539
3 жыл бұрын
True
@jeledarennie5862
3 жыл бұрын
True... sometimes I have to remind myself that I'm not the mother.... lol
@charlesmungo6782
3 жыл бұрын
True, other siblings can be either lazy selfish or both.
@charlesmungo6782
3 жыл бұрын
Lol..".and the guy things he is doing the right thing..".very true statement
@nyashajay5064
3 жыл бұрын
First borns are deputy parents
@ambroseouma5899
3 жыл бұрын
true that
@carolkinyua6883
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MistyEE21
3 жыл бұрын
I agree🤣🤣🤣
@autophilerenaissance9706
3 жыл бұрын
Totally
@poleensilaha3546
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@pruddyt8645
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin should consider writing a book,I'll be the first buyer.
@autophilerenaissance9706
3 жыл бұрын
I'll second you
@nakamijunic5844
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this great idea
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@miminiss5145
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ndagirelilian6176
3 жыл бұрын
This guy's analysis is 90% correct
@getrudewambui7797
3 жыл бұрын
Am a first born married to a first born,and we don't have stupid quarrels in our marriage,ican say we are very focused and we protect our kids alot.
@mercymwangi907
3 жыл бұрын
Well done😘
@flovyflo2687
3 жыл бұрын
Am also a first born married to a firstborn
@ivanafloyde2948
3 жыл бұрын
I am glad your marriage worked out may I ask how many siblings your spouse and you have?? I would like to meet someone but I end up with mommas boy first borns and I am doing my best to avoid them.
@ambemild2451
5 ай бұрын
Wow am so happy to hear that, how does marriage with a first born be , is it difficult to have a good marriage wen u are a first born marry another first born?
@ambemild2451
5 ай бұрын
Wow I am happy to hear that. Is it easy to have a good marriage with 2 first borns marry and hw can you have a good relationship and marriage as 2 first borns?
@eunicewavinya244
3 жыл бұрын
The sacrifice they offer...bravo my fellow 1st borns....hapo kwa mamas boy pewa soda kubwa on my bill...
@pstleilaciku7171
3 жыл бұрын
This is very true am a first born n most of my friends are not my age mates, most of them are even married women n I love how we get along rather than my age mates
@janesassy4497
3 жыл бұрын
I agree...I have much older friends
@petronillahpyt1511
3 жыл бұрын
Me as a second born for sure such a free spirit. This guy is telling the truth.😂😂😂 sipendi kukaliwa.
@Nzuki9
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 👏
@waitherakiiru1748
3 жыл бұрын
Now I know why I act how I act... It's because I'm a second born 😊
@misslinnah3772
3 жыл бұрын
Am the 1st born and I tell you its no joke, you always carry the family wherever you go its hectic but I wanna thank God for always seeing me through
@janedee5147
3 жыл бұрын
U r my twin dear
@meredithgray2385
3 жыл бұрын
This opened my eyes so much!! Thankyou! Hi there first borns👋
@nkhen_c357
3 жыл бұрын
And first born if it is girl most times have difficult relationship with their mother
@princesskinuthia8788
3 жыл бұрын
True
@en3939
3 жыл бұрын
Not me
@doreenmalesi6039
3 жыл бұрын
Not me
@ellahmajera8128
3 жыл бұрын
True
@shirufridah
3 жыл бұрын
My mum's is my bff
@richauntie316
3 жыл бұрын
UGANDANs 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 representative AS a first born of 6 am learning alot from this show💛💛💛
@Rastavibration7981
3 жыл бұрын
All the way🇺🇬🇺🇬
@ndagirecynthia7952
3 жыл бұрын
✊🇺🇬🇺🇬💯
@MistyEE21
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I am pleasantly shocked at his submission, he is a 💯 % right. I am a first born and a lawyer and discipline was hammered into me😜
@wanjikugichimu
3 жыл бұрын
Id love to do law unfortunately I missed some points to join law school 🥺.
@MistyEE21
3 жыл бұрын
@@wanjikugichimu don't bury your passion🙏
@wanjikugichimu
3 жыл бұрын
@@MistyEE21 I'm now doing IR and waiting on the direction of God in my life,I believe somewhere in between I will end up practicing my passion in life
@michelleakinyi987
3 жыл бұрын
@@wanjikugichimu wow! Go for it!
@michelleakinyi987
3 жыл бұрын
Firstborn!!! God has carried me this far... everything is TRUE
@Sophie253689
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 When Zulu talked about consultations,I felt attacked and I used to get upset about it ,stuff used to get to me like rumours although my dad tries to consult me .
@djrakams8825
3 жыл бұрын
Am a second born and is so true...I love my freedom,was out from our home when am 19,followed my dream of being a dj against my parents will😂😂😂😂....
@wanjikugichimu
3 жыл бұрын
Being a first born girl is similar to being a first born 😣I literally take care of my two elder brothers plus my younger siblings. When mom's not around,I'm the mother!ps I'm maturer than my two older brothers.
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
Me too omg ! A first girl after 4 boys. I was the first person to get a job n am still supporting the family
@jollymukiri3240
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙄
@wanjikugichimu
3 жыл бұрын
@@jollymukiri3240 funny how mum used to leave everything under my control including money and house keys and all the rules😂
@caro_lyna8037
3 жыл бұрын
I resonate 🤗
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate as a boy
@lydiaoloo4701
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you have spoken the truth. Am a mother of three and your explanation is on point
@catherinegathaiya18
3 жыл бұрын
So that's why.being firstborn is great and ain't easy but God gives us the strength
@susanwangui4181
3 жыл бұрын
Bejamen you have described my family 🤣🤣🤣we are three and it's TRUE how you have explained 🤣🤣🤣🤣 as a 1st born I know that
@justgrace3455
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@klmno9065
3 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@janedee5147
3 жыл бұрын
Thats my family aky.... me being the 1st born
@SylviaLewa
3 жыл бұрын
Again about first born daughters, truuuue!!
@rachelandayi2172
3 жыл бұрын
Wow am a first born I really work hard for my younger ones back ND they are proud of me 😢
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Me too boy child 👊🏾
@cikuciku2355
3 жыл бұрын
Hehe am the middle child and 1st born gal, while first born is a male so one male and 2 gals.. Am introverted and Soo mature ,did modeling as benjamin said, peace keeper amongst us, hardworking and learned to depend on myself and no nonsense.
@carolineakosa9835
3 жыл бұрын
This is like my 2nd born sister
@salomeasiko9688
3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@sheilaachieng809
3 жыл бұрын
Just like me
@lilianthuo3013
3 жыл бұрын
2nd boorrrnnns..... Me too kukaliwa sijai kubali.... It's soooooooo hard for me to just take orders without questioning
@sarahnamazzi8855
3 жыл бұрын
U r really right. I am the first born , who gave myself responsibility for my siblings when my mother divorced. So I am a nurse now , cos I feel it's very important job to the world.
@catherinewaweru2787
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Great insight Am a first born and I can relate
@sarahkibunja3939
3 жыл бұрын
That topic is just so spot on I want to paint it on a billboard
@MrZim263
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are talking about my life. I am a first born son, you just made me realize that I "groom" people I date. It also just dawned on me that from a young age I was used to being the leader, peace maker, motivator, and care giver to my siblings. I even quit m job to start my own business because I don't like authority above me.
@maureenmwangi6466
3 жыл бұрын
being a first born is a full time job, we cannot afford a rest.
@manalamazomba869
3 жыл бұрын
First born girl and last born boy is a disaster!!!!😂😂😂 as the girl you will constantly feel like you are “raising” him
@pendomunishi8379
3 жыл бұрын
Kabisaaaaaaa
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Hapo ni maombi jo!
@maureennyambura7121
2 жыл бұрын
I guess that's why my relationship with my ex never worked...haha am the firstborn
@dansonkinuthia594
3 жыл бұрын
Woooow..Benjamin made me love studying psycology❤❤❤❤❤💙
@pilly1
3 жыл бұрын
Psychology*
@evangari9650
3 жыл бұрын
I love this segment. God bless you for enlighten me.
@achiebilz
3 жыл бұрын
Both my hubby and i are Alphas, its a nightmare
@jessicakwaro4073
3 жыл бұрын
This touched me as a first born kudos to zulu always inspiring
@reginamulwa3416
3 жыл бұрын
Being a first born is a good thing - you get the best
@rashidagh3530
3 жыл бұрын
Best of what exactly please?
@assumptanini4252
3 жыл бұрын
Not more than last born
@ivanafloyde2948
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the best of being tortured then dragging some needy as hell fool unconsciously into your life.
@reginamulwa3416
3 жыл бұрын
@@ivanafloyde2948by who even animals care and love their young ones
@marvah99
3 жыл бұрын
Can we do one for the only child who's dating a first born!
@alphoncemarcellus7056
3 жыл бұрын
First born always held responsible even duties delegated to others.
@lynnanyango8119
3 жыл бұрын
Its not easy esp when it comes to delegated duties
@mamakeangel3885
3 жыл бұрын
Lastborn tupataneni nyuma ya tent 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 but i thank my parents alot na masiz na mabro the love i got from them till today they still call me TOTO and am already a mom
@winnienalwimba6202
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you benjamin for this insight ...keep the fire burning
@sylviaachieng7299
3 жыл бұрын
No one is safe girl or boy only GOD IS THE PROTECTOR 🤲🏾🙏🏾🙏🙌😇
@lizzynjeri8538
3 жыл бұрын
Am a first born and I feel sooo old than my age all my agements are immature,,,,sujui ata nifanye nini
@assumptanini4252
3 жыл бұрын
Me too girl
@mercymwangi907
3 жыл бұрын
I like your shows Benjamin n Joyce. Was wondering when you will air this one about 1st borns. Thank you coz now I understand myself better as a first born n the traits my subsequent borns have.
@ivynnivana
3 жыл бұрын
As a first born.... I agree with EVERYTHING
@PriscahAndisi-hw5gs
Күн бұрын
To all fastborns cheers to us we fight the hard way to be strong no matter what big up to us❤❤❤
@tandiesthandy7528
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin where this wisdom coming from?..apart from school it tells you were very bright in terms of phycologically ⭐💪💪👌
@kansiimebeata9311
3 жыл бұрын
That be a good example word rings louder when you're tempted to do you..... Ohh my God! You have really taken time to study that field. Deputy parents, we have seen days. We mature very fast. Of the 5 , am the only that is very independent.
@loudintrovert9704
3 жыл бұрын
I love this, so insightful.
@EvolvingENFP
4 ай бұрын
When he said first borns are lawyers 😂 I understand what drove me to my career path 🌚
@catherinenicevrynicenjogu4798
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin u have talked about ma children. Now I understand why they behave the way they do
@patienceikombele9161
3 жыл бұрын
All this makes sense. I can relate on this topic.
@gk5083
3 жыл бұрын
I am the middle child and first born girl.. But feels like I am the first born Everyone looks up to me 🤦🏾.
@ruthblessings7
Жыл бұрын
Where is a lie? Perfect truth!
@ambroseouma5899
3 жыл бұрын
brilliant as always
@alicewaweru
3 жыл бұрын
Haki Benjamin i'm a firstborn and once upon a time a facilitator .. Thank God nilijinasua kutoka kwenye mtego .. I think of that time and i laugh out loud. Nice to know of the birth order characters
@kezymaina8990
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin this is very true!
@wangarijonah7153
3 жыл бұрын
I like how Benjamin delivers his talk so interesting also we the 2nd are into our space😂😂😂😂
@djrakams8825
3 жыл бұрын
Yeeess...
@moreendestiny7237
3 жыл бұрын
Very true
@lastbornkwambosh358
3 жыл бұрын
Lastborns watoto hit here 😂
@beatricemorgan2373
3 жыл бұрын
I am a firstborn and I agree with the title
@giftmosomi1155
3 жыл бұрын
I love the sessions... Kitinda hope you're following 😅😅😅motangi is here
@richauntie316
3 жыл бұрын
Joyce that colour looks good on , Benjamin looking great too
@ericawanja1749
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree, being a first born at the age of 8, I was left with my younger sister to look at her, ensuring we ate and went to school while mama was taking her studies. I don't blame my mum, that lady is of iron. I got the best training ever that season.
@janedee5147
3 жыл бұрын
Aky usinikumbushe 🤔🤔tumeyapitia surely. But God is always faithful
@sheilaachieng809
3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't sit right with me when parents let their kids parent
@ericawanja1749
3 жыл бұрын
@@sheilaachieng809 not really parenting but helping out. Remember they parented you too. For my case if my parent would just watch over my siblings we would sleep angry. So atleast relieving her to get something to out on the table.
@sheilaachieng809
3 жыл бұрын
@@ericawanja1749 have kids when you are ready to. At least be able to afford a nanny or a babysitter and let your children fully enjoy being kids. They could obviously help out here and there but don't just delegate the entire responsibility to them.
@ericawanja1749
3 жыл бұрын
@@sheilaachieng809 I absolutely agree with you. But things happen in life dear. Not all the times things workout as we planned and we have to find an alternative, despite how bad looking it might be, but assures things will get better someday.
@judykamau5612
3 жыл бұрын
😃😃acha tu nicheke because as a firstborn I know how true this is, I remember my friends in primary school were at least 3-5years older than me.
@steppedupjunction5631
3 жыл бұрын
I'm the last born yet I did everything you're saying here 🤔..upto date
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Iryne hehehhe wacha kichomea Ma fasto😉
@dorcasnyakeo7812
3 жыл бұрын
@@petma5551 🤣🤣🤣
@steppedupjunction5631
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Kuna wale hmmmm acha nisonge 😂😂
@joanmiksabel3598
3 жыл бұрын
Its true. Mimi even my partner sounds childish at times.
@rispathequeen
3 жыл бұрын
Am first born ad its very true am the mother of everyone in the family
@MyBlessed83
3 жыл бұрын
I Am 3rd born and I have carried my family since I was 24 upto now... Literally I am the sole bread winner..
@atyang2448
3 жыл бұрын
Both of my parents are firstborns and I am also the first born. You can now imagine..
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mitausam1788
3 жыл бұрын
Same to me here😄
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Pole FJ, ng’ang’ana na hali yako. Utakuwa tu sawa, next you can marry a first born.
@atyang2448
3 жыл бұрын
@@petma5551 looking for a last born
@JesusisLord9482
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@carolineakosa9835
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right, my cousins first born husband confesed that after he met her and learnt that her mother had died earlier, he decided immediately that he was going to marry her in order to take care of her. Lot's of trouble there.
@moreendestiny7237
3 жыл бұрын
Second borns , I really feel my self hea, first born still at home am hea abroad I really love freedom and do what I wanna do
@Alehsam
3 жыл бұрын
Thats true.😂😂😂I'm a first born so I know.
@assmanhadi3907
3 жыл бұрын
Mom's boys very big problem. And the moment I sense that. I start withdrawing slowly 🙄🙄🙄🙄thanks Benja and Joyce
@neversetlleforless6246
3 жыл бұрын
Iyooo I feel this, am also a Deputy parent,, push the second born up thinking that He will push the third born, to my surprise, the third was also waiting for me, there's never time for myself, it's tough to be a first born 🙄🙄Mr Benjamin u adding salt to the wounds,
@Africangyal
3 жыл бұрын
Just like with personality tests and horoscopes take this information with a grain on salt. My first born sibling is a big joker. The most irresponsible and careless person you will ever meet.
@ikowapi1342
3 жыл бұрын
1st Born ... looking forward to connect with one from Another mother
@israeloyedele8479
3 жыл бұрын
Vibe + intelligence = Benjamin Zulu
@bonifacekyalo9120
3 жыл бұрын
1st borns also known as deputy parents or assistant parents or vice parents
@leelashammy
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is the funniest episode ever... firstborn ❤️
@sheilaachieng809
3 жыл бұрын
I am a second born and this is nothing but the truth😂😂😂
@zainababoka1144
3 жыл бұрын
Very very true 👍
@merie8265
Жыл бұрын
It's true firstborns connect with lastborns
@odhiambocamilla6503
3 жыл бұрын
I liked this episode before I even watched it🤭😅😅😅😅😂the title itself
@loisenjuguna26
3 жыл бұрын
Wooooiii,,,my first bornimity in me🙈🙈🙆♀️
@dorcusnzula3780
3 жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa second born it's true That's so me
@mehlulinokwara3841
3 жыл бұрын
I love Benjamin Zulu from Zimbabwe 👌
@maggiedoublenofficial981
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha..i only nodding ..zulu..taniua🤣🤣
@orapronobisbet6909
3 жыл бұрын
Good topic..next time tell us more about last born..
@joycheche
2 жыл бұрын
This touched me as a firstborn .kudoa zulu
@thomasmachuma9271
3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@msorose8941
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with zulu..2 girls are trouble..my sisters in their 70s still undermine each other..the 2nd one overpowers our 1st born
@margaretnjoka5169
3 жыл бұрын
Very true
@evelyngetty5002
3 жыл бұрын
This guy so wise🤗🔥
@LWANGAFRED
Жыл бұрын
Thnx
@dianahvuyanzi1600
3 жыл бұрын
Am first and last born to my parents to on my side I will give kids the Abraham house
@ivanafloyde2948
3 жыл бұрын
I have a Jacob situation and geez it’s not pretty. Spoiled older brothers and then over worked me.
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