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@thapisu
4 жыл бұрын
This is still a very valid discussion now as it was earlier in the year. Thank you Joyce
@sthembileprecious7045
3 жыл бұрын
I think I need help,my man says I have mood swing how to deal with them.
@barbz-maz9628
3 жыл бұрын
Please can we have subtitles when you speak in your language. I enjoy your shows bt get lost when you switch to your language. Im Zimbabwean.
@finashilongo2922
3 жыл бұрын
please speak english throughout or at least put subtitles
@thefashionmechanic
3 жыл бұрын
Please can you speak English please? Or please you can add a subtitle please. This is your Nigerian fan Benjamin Zulu
@TimothyMusumba
4 жыл бұрын
My answer is date with a purpose. Your relationship with God will define which partner you have.
@estherphiri764
4 жыл бұрын
100%true so true
@sallykimaru953
4 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@carowanjiku3126
4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@vanessaubuntu248
4 жыл бұрын
So true
@jerushaigombo
4 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@lailaempressoftheeast9171
4 жыл бұрын
He's right ladies .... Do not tell a man what you want in a man.
@mariamajiboye1011
3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@anne-mariekosh5010
4 жыл бұрын
This man is so hilarious yet so wise. I could listen to him all day.
@nyaxx38
3 жыл бұрын
Insecurities when a man tracks you and where you are going. And when they judge how you are looking. Woooza
@pamojaness2007
3 жыл бұрын
"True love is jealous but not possessive" good one indeed 👍👌
@soledadwangui2921
4 жыл бұрын
Ati we have learned fools😂😂 this man has wisdom
@Alehsam
3 жыл бұрын
Good girls are not flattered by your achievements.😊 we look for character and integrity.
@amosleonard1652
3 жыл бұрын
2021 ..you said it.. 😍😍😍😍
@joycekiarie417
3 жыл бұрын
Well no that's wrong achievement is what makes men attractive because high status means He will be able to provide for the family
@fatmaabdalla1
3 жыл бұрын
True
@a.muchemi4360
3 жыл бұрын
Yes money we make it ourselves, for more than two decade I HV done it
@Tia-hc6db
3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately character and integrity alone don’t pay the bills
@Busi_Mbasa
3 жыл бұрын
I disovered this channel recently and have been binge watching. I am loving Benjamin's teachings.
@dumisilen4890
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@nabwiregloria
3 жыл бұрын
Me too😭😹
@happinessnyanchokaonunda7576
Жыл бұрын
Me as well
@TheLilly
3 жыл бұрын
After having watched a couple of videos of him here, I can confidently say that this guy is LEGIT!! His advice is very relevant and applicable to both men and women equally. I also like how he goes straight to the point with whatever he has to say🎯. I'm gonna keep listening.
@bernardmuthemba7034
3 жыл бұрын
Just started let me hear what he got to say
@ronnyc3886
3 жыл бұрын
As a man, I am motivated to be the best version of myself for myself and for my queens.
@sallykimaru953
4 жыл бұрын
Don't give exclusivity to a man who hasn't earned it.Well taken in. Really inspired to start my own KZitem Channel:)
@ekrahmatu2799
4 жыл бұрын
Christian hypergamy
@orapronobisbet6909
3 жыл бұрын
Good advise i like it
@SoAnesu
3 жыл бұрын
Hope you do!
@crochetwithcharity
4 жыл бұрын
A driven man looks for a driven woman.. Full of energy in this discussion
@bethiekitui1920
3 жыл бұрын
Wooow "true love is jealous but not possessive" I love it
@trishtrish2349
4 жыл бұрын
AND THAT IS WHY WOMEN ARE ADVISED NOT TO SLEEP WITH MEN UNTIL THEY GET MARRIED.
@missliz_
4 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@sallykimaru953
4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@Austin_ka
4 жыл бұрын
This is a terrible idea
@trishtrish2349
4 жыл бұрын
@@Austin_ka why do you say it is a terrible idea?
@Austin_ka
4 жыл бұрын
@@trishtrish2349 How can you tell if you are sexually compatible to your partner? Sometimes its either you are compatible or not.
@bulelwamthembu8839
3 жыл бұрын
much love Benjamin from South Africa🇿🇦
@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
3 жыл бұрын
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@ShiaGirl18
3 жыл бұрын
I went on a date with a young man. He knew I have a vehicle the first time we met. We met at the restaurant, but for the rest of the date I parked my car and rode with him in his car to the next location.
@MsKanyi
3 жыл бұрын
Here representing the "self contained" women 🙋🏻♀️ with no apologies. Men should be confident enough to accommodate accomplished women who are go getters but also be ambitious in their own selves. Not trying to downgrade the woman a.k.a #enemiesofprogress 😒
@dikeledijane8186
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe this man will be an answer to African countries, cause the mindset of most African men are so limited and they are so self-centered, power eager, stereotypes, selfish autocratic etc.
@petma5551
3 жыл бұрын
Wah, Kali Ms Kanyi, am raising my daughter to be a bit self contained. This life you never know.
@TheTabbym
3 жыл бұрын
been this unapologetic self contained women. i got married to a man who tried to change who i am n downgrade me, i had to drop his sorry ass
@elishafry476
Жыл бұрын
I guess according to you women are perfect and changing needs to happen to men only and you call us selfish nkt!! Education needs to happen to both
@loicembogo9793
4 жыл бұрын
I have been listening to advise about relationship from foreigners I am glad finally we have sharp mind in Kenya. I thank God for you sir, keep going.
@albertbwana6332
4 жыл бұрын
Hi loice
@divinegirl5670
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@catherinewambui5266
3 жыл бұрын
Same,
@a.muchemi4360
3 жыл бұрын
We have all, only we need to be confident with our talents and he is ...
@isadorascarlett1028
3 жыл бұрын
Hope it's not Kevin Samuel
@mariangorety3280
4 жыл бұрын
Your sense of humour kills me Benjamin. Anyway may God bless you for your teachings. Joyce,, I just love how calm you are always. Baraka
@harrietacquah2545
4 жыл бұрын
When a guy asks me what I'm looking for in a man my answer is "he should be who he is"
@soleilantillean30
3 жыл бұрын
Great answer👍🏽
@Rhenadhis
3 жыл бұрын
Short and sweet
@MegaLadylove2012
3 жыл бұрын
Mines I will know when I see it
@maureenishabor8036
3 жыл бұрын
Next time tell him you will know him when you find him.period
@sallyrahabnyawira1856
3 жыл бұрын
luv u
@AtabongMillie
3 жыл бұрын
I like this guy. Kenyan men describe a wife as a house help.
@dikeledijane8186
3 жыл бұрын
They are running mad,is there any parents that can raise a daughter to become a nanny,those men they need psychologists
@nakamijunic5844
3 жыл бұрын
All African men not only Kenyans
@nabulyasumayya5502
3 жыл бұрын
@@nakamijunic5844 not only Africans most men in saudi they have just allowed them to drive a car
@dikeledijane8186
3 жыл бұрын
Ag xem!!! That's more African men's small mind set.that's women abuse.
@mbrilliB
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@isaacwangai254
4 жыл бұрын
Shine as the Noonday Sun Sir!! You are brilliant! May thy rising be evident to all and sundry!!
@baryl3969
2 жыл бұрын
So true. “Be blank but polite so that you can study him.” I do this all the time, give men space to be himself and I just observe and the answers are always there.
@jkedmondjuniormd3708
3 жыл бұрын
Ugandan here too Benjamin is just too obsessive Cant stop watching, he is someone really inspiring and awareness awakening.
@KenyanAtHeart
3 жыл бұрын
Obsessive or Addictive?
@jkedmondjuniormd3708
3 жыл бұрын
@@KenyanAtHeart I think its obsessive Addiction not exactly Tsup Peris
@MaiWarie05
3 жыл бұрын
I am from Zimbabwe, I looooove this show. But I feel I loose a lot of important information when you switch from English 😭😭😭
@zhakatamelody9323
3 жыл бұрын
Taura hako
@namubirushirat6472
Жыл бұрын
Me too we need translation really
@nancyndichu8088
3 жыл бұрын
I have become regular here. Learning each day. Now i know mistakes i have made before. Narcissistic people suffocate you within the 1st week of dating..
@monicamwaush5119
3 жыл бұрын
@Sabina Moraa sorry my dia
@ifeanyimaduegbuna4455
4 жыл бұрын
Could you please carry on the conversation in English. Non Swahili speakers are missing out on vital information. Much love.
@normanmoriasi49
4 жыл бұрын
Non English too might be missing😀😁
@winnyakoth6194
4 жыл бұрын
happy
@winnyakoth6194
4 жыл бұрын
happy
@winnyakoth6194
4 жыл бұрын
happy
@harrietacquah2545
4 жыл бұрын
You just voiced my thoughts
@DandyKenny
4 жыл бұрын
Zulu mentored me when was in form four and since then have liked the guy..Zulu we emea vau
@lucynjuguna9653
3 жыл бұрын
U r very lucky
@stellamaries744
3 жыл бұрын
Ur lucky
@carolinenzau994
3 жыл бұрын
Vau vau
@estherannemacharia8282
4 жыл бұрын
Am so getting inspired, am glad I came across this, Benjamin you're so right, thank you for this!
@josephinekimaro761
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂uuuh! This man though! My ribs are not safe right now
@princessmk6552
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom in this interview is priceless.
@irenemaina7197
4 жыл бұрын
Joyce, how are you not rolling on the floor laughing....😂😂
@vivianmurania9459
4 жыл бұрын
I wonder ,the way this man is funny and wise😄😄😄😄😄
@Aritul
3 жыл бұрын
12:24-12:25 When you want to know what a man wants, don't describe what you want yourself. Sound advice! Steve Harvey said something similar on his talk show. You have to observe the man to see what his true character is.
@anyangophelister9702
Жыл бұрын
This is true ,it has always been my weakness
@fatmanasir6691
3 жыл бұрын
Here for the first time and I love Benjamin's advice, tips.. and Joyce's discussions. You are talking to the 40s too. Learning never ends
@rebsjoy6892
3 жыл бұрын
Im so happy listening to this topic, cause my husband left me when i started making money and we went for counselling but his response was he want a divorce cause everything is done by my wife , the councillor from Zambia asked him did your wife ever say bad things about you he replied he just feel that way. Remember most women have higher positions then men now in Africa ! Please men of Africa accept us.
@phidiamaingi399
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 this Zulu is so hilarious and too real!I love it!
@gideonalechebichy4732
3 жыл бұрын
When did relationship discussions become this interesting and fun. Lol Benjamin Zulu.
@caramel9244
3 жыл бұрын
I just love this show. Thank u Benjamin...so much truth here!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾
@hellengitahi8979
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “even on earth 🌍 you can’t tell who is for real , who is fake” Benjamin Zulu is here to keep it real. This been a fun show👍👍👍
@patsyaspinall-urrows3836
3 жыл бұрын
I love listening to Benjamin Zulu. A valuable message to all, humorous too!
@richild3967
4 жыл бұрын
I need this guy as my mentor 😩❤️😂
@joyceoyedele3705
3 жыл бұрын
Love the hair Joyce! Yasssss!!! On the topic though, be very aware of narcissists and sociopaths! Insecurity hubs. Loving the conversation... more English please for your audience in England 🙏🏾
@annalisekathomi2336
3 жыл бұрын
This man says it as it is! I love it
@lucieserero7475
3 жыл бұрын
Gatta love this talk.. Wow.. Wish I knew this 20 years ago🤔It is well. Thank you Benjamin 🙏
@annnjambi6811
3 жыл бұрын
New sub ..I can’t get enough of Benjamin
@joskyshams4758
4 жыл бұрын
My goodness thanks for this show.
@KenyanAtHeart
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣very educational and funny!! I can hear Mr Zulu for hours and hours....👍👍
@wendydiana9347
3 жыл бұрын
I am so in love with Benjamin Zulu,I am glad I found you just when am preparing for this journey may God bless you and continue giving you wisdom.
@ruthmimi2364
4 жыл бұрын
I should HV learnt to listen to you like immediately I was a teen.nevertheless its never too late!
@daphnekemunto8420
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin and Joyce thank you so much
@PhiloLutta
3 жыл бұрын
My goodness listening to Benjamin is like therapy for me..thanks sooo much for this program and your expertise in relationships.
@FM-bk4mg
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so informative ,you are the best .
@harrietacquah2545
4 жыл бұрын
I can listen to this man all day
@b.m709
3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy what I learn from these conversations! I even love it when you switch to Swahili, it reminds me of the power of being African, our languages are so beautiful. I personally don’t understand Swahili but I feel like I understand 🤣 when you talk, I make up my understanding as I go along!
@Terryn_Wangui
3 жыл бұрын
Swahili is so beautiful
@DevotionsWithSiwe
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤣🤣🤣 I'm even willing to learn Swahili through KZitem tutorials
@pollynkirote9097
3 жыл бұрын
Wow... Good point,my goodness am glad to be here❤ God bless you guys
@sandrakasina5214
3 жыл бұрын
M nw obsessed about watching yo interviews....Mr Benjamin....great advicer....love frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼
@mercynjunge8428
4 жыл бұрын
Wow!wow! Incredible wisdom there
@suenjuki468
4 жыл бұрын
Am so enlightened... thank you guys
@tinnahflower3720
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is everything I swear🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks Joyce en Zulu for ths educative topic
@jovybaky6848
Жыл бұрын
I can say that all people who have come a cross your teachings are so so blessed.....am blessed too 👍👍👍👍
@elizabethmuoki4455
4 жыл бұрын
Great wisdom..I really love it
@marywambua8795
3 жыл бұрын
I used to dislike Benjamin but my opinion changed after a heartbreak and I realized what he was saying was right. I was just blinded ...
@paulinekamau7618
4 жыл бұрын
Eti 70% is the Best you can get in this WORLD. Very TRUE 🤣😂
@weruntogether8363
3 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@worldhealers254
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaa...I can't stop laughing...
@mwametallic7668
4 жыл бұрын
I like this man already...
@auneabed6982
3 жыл бұрын
I like this kid of talk, this is gorgeous, thanks for being not selfish🤗be blessed guys🇳🇦 from Namibia.
@sikhengamlana1610
3 жыл бұрын
I love this programme. Thank you Benjamin
@ahuriladaniel9849
2 жыл бұрын
Everything he speaks i feel boom i have done every mistake 😂😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 not too bad i am just 21years
@wildangel4452
2 жыл бұрын
Ain’t you lucky!
@blessedmercy3036
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin.. I love your wisdom!!! Taking notes for the future. I love this show!
@kihiuwanjira6921
3 жыл бұрын
This is so DEEEEP!!! Wow! Wisdom at its best, more blessings Zulu.
@marionchebet3770
3 жыл бұрын
This is dooope meeeen!How was i so blind that i couldn't see this channel long ago.Anyways, it isn't late at all,infact the right time to learn.Thank you for this lessons.
@speciozaayieko59
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I come to KZitem I must watch benjamin speak...pure wisdom.
@hgffhhbty3053
3 жыл бұрын
Wao wao..am lucky am not married but already 30 ..but i look young my body is small...i can now make the right decesions..bless joyce & zulu.
@oluwaseunodunsi8142
3 жыл бұрын
I used to feel bad when I turned down short guys. I'm relatively tall as a lady so I've always wanted someone taller than me so thank you Zulu for not making me feel bad about this.
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
My dear dont ever feel bad cos men dont feel bad about whatever they prefer in women, whether it is a particular complexion, breast size, bum size etc 😂😂 1,65 meter which is not short and also not so tall but I want to be able to wear heels and still not look down on a man.
@oluwaseunodunsi8142
3 жыл бұрын
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 yes o thank you ma. This so so true and I can totally relate.
@shodapad07
2 жыл бұрын
Me I like tall girl ladies o. Where are you based in fine tall lady?
@sharonbenson8120
Жыл бұрын
@@shodapad07 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shawnrandallbutler33
3 жыл бұрын
He's is so refreshing!
@dianeat_the_beach3741
3 жыл бұрын
I love what you are saying, brimming with wisdom and sound advice, THANK YOU!!!
@amosleonard1652
3 жыл бұрын
😍
@Africangyal
4 жыл бұрын
Wow. I am immensely impressed by Benjamin. He is life smart and manages to deliver serious psychological truths with a sense of humour. I need to binge watch his other interviews.
@rahabnyambura2459
3 жыл бұрын
I love this guy for free, he is so real.
@dorothynamukwaya682
3 жыл бұрын
Perfect show I really love both of u guys, u inspire us so much
@gracemohaulegwale1351
3 жыл бұрын
Im first listening here, I'm learning a lot thank you, please translate down with English when you speak your language so we can understand everything please thanx, Benjamin Zulu and everyone thank You
@starpressprinters6393
3 жыл бұрын
Them: what do you love doing while free, Me: i Listen and repeat all Benjamin zulu's Convos period. This man is wise
@beforeido6265
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for blessing us with such wisdom
@marywambui9132
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Mr Benjamin for good teaching I cant get enough for your teaching may God continue giving more wisdom
@tosinoyegunsen
3 жыл бұрын
I love how they switch from English and Swahili even though I dont understand a word from the later.
@FM-bk4mg
3 жыл бұрын
I konw , we are in the same boat .
@perpetualkanzie6156
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@nurugizani3075
3 жыл бұрын
I can teach you
@christinamwongeli
Жыл бұрын
Eeeish very knowledgeable, I really feel wow. Wise words to us
@marykibunja1912
3 жыл бұрын
I fell you benja like you talking the whole truth am even lacking words so hot en straight points
@kevinwanyama5820
3 жыл бұрын
wow i have learned alot just from benjamin's conversation
@sanyuable
3 жыл бұрын
say it again , there r a lot of narcissist looking for women they can control . its very frightening.
@noreenduke8410
3 жыл бұрын
I love this topic very good advice God bless you my brother
@sylviahmbithi4683
4 жыл бұрын
so educative.kip it up,honestly have learned something
@masebabatsoinnocentia176
3 жыл бұрын
"date a person who fulfills your appetite" Wow
@fayahmummahafrika9188
4 жыл бұрын
True talk...
@Meaw687
3 жыл бұрын
Ladys don't switch off your dignity!
@truemindstv142
3 жыл бұрын
Jst lestening to this dude once, i cant stop lestening to u. Find aman not a bull 🤣🤣🤣 Philosophical very realistic articulative and so intelligent etc❤❤
@fridahkuria5478
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sir. You've confirmed a lot to me through this video.
@namboozeruth5125
3 жыл бұрын
Your a gift for us dear. God bless you.
@everlynemose9477
4 жыл бұрын
Wooow your words are full of facts and wisdom
@lifenuggetswithfafa957
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, this is so wonderful.
@christinegono9442
3 жыл бұрын
Such profound wisdom Mr Zulu!! Love from Zimbabwe
@emillykyokusiima9531
Жыл бұрын
I wish I watched this like two years back. Thanks Benjamin .
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